The right to sex, Me Too, incels and pornography with Amia Srinivasan

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  • Опубликовано: 20 окт 2024

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  • @OwenJonesTalks
    @OwenJonesTalks  3 года назад +24

    Please like, subscribe - and help us take on the right-wing media here: patreon.com/owenjones84

    • @derpydepp5976
      @derpydepp5976 3 года назад +1

      no.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +1

      Knife crime in london out of control

    • @bestdjaf7499
      @bestdjaf7499 3 года назад +1

      Look at you.
      And then you go and peak up a feminist to talk about Incels.
      But Jordan Peterson who literally cries every time he talks about encouraging people... he is Racist & Sexist.
      Honestly how many Feminists have you seen crying?
      Watch Jordan Peterson.
      And that literally one of the best Psychology Professors is Racist & Sexist & Homophobic.

    • @steveburn8125
      @steveburn8125 3 года назад

      Got to say, I love Owens work, first got to see this, on an interview with Mary Lou McDonald, impressed with his attitude and interest in what he’s doing. A big fan!

    • @zachbeall6810
      @zachbeall6810 3 года назад

      No need to demonize the opposition. Polarization is dangerous.

  • @mailtv910
    @mailtv910 3 года назад +49

    6:34 This doesn't only apply to incels.
    It's also true for "motivational speakers", who will at times offer a correct analysis of the current conditions under capitalism, but instead of working on ways to change these conditions, they're advocating for ways to benefit from the things, that they often correctly identify as problems.

  • @fishernz
    @fishernz 3 года назад +37

    Great interview. I particularly liked the way you didn't take it over, as so many interviewers do, but asked Amia intelligent questions that stimulated such infomrative responses.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +1

      Knife crime in london out of control

    • @bestdjaf7499
      @bestdjaf7499 3 года назад +1

      A gay man asking a woman about Incels?
      Brilliant!!

    • @S3rY0
      @S3rY0 3 года назад +1

      That's Owen's style. Love his interviews for that. Amia was incredibly eloquent and knowledgeable though, blow away.

    • @astralax
      @astralax 3 года назад +1

      @@bestdjaf7499 A professional journalist asking Oxford's Chichele Professor of Social and Political Theory about a social phenomenon relevant to her published work. Ftfy.

  • @echo282
    @echo282 3 года назад +14

    This interview gives me life. It is so great to hear these complex issues articulated clearly! Thank you both.

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 2 года назад +1

      She misusing her power to tell lies.
      Numerous studies show that men are disadvantged in dating resp. that a lot of individuals are not experiecing the dose of romanc intimiacacy the are craving.

  • @gee_emm
    @gee_emm 3 года назад +54

    21:27 The last part of Emmett Till’s story was the worst; on her death bed the woman admitted she made the whole thing up. Anyways, wonderful conversation and I'm pleased to see that the shooter's or gun men's names are being used less when we discuss incels.

    • @tabbymoonshine5986
      @tabbymoonshine5986 3 года назад +12

      That vile woman! What they did to that poor child was horrendous. And she wimped out by admitting to her lie as she was dying, so she would face no consequences. If there was a hell….I’d hope she was in it.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @lm3521
      @lm3521 3 года назад +2

      The identities of these peoples' families should be made public, they should pay reparations. They stood alongside murders, and protected these people.

    • @REXX399
      @REXX399 Год назад +1

      I don't approve of any kind of violence but as long as you have this inequity in life where a group of men monopolize all the joy and all the rest of the men live these empty lives the natural responsible to be chaos...... You cannot have the majority of male population living empty lonely thankless lives.........

  • @rossleeson8626
    @rossleeson8626 3 года назад +41

    MeToo was limited to taking down millionaires with brand sponsorships. So glad she pointed that out.

    • @TwistyThreeFifty
      @TwistyThreeFifty 3 года назад +5

      That's not true. At my admin workplace we a few controversial moments happened, and more of a tightening on what kind of behaviours are allowed.
      I have friends who are builders who experienced something similar.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +2

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @RickieLeach
      @RickieLeach 3 года назад +3

      Maybe affecting more salaried employees but certainly more widely affecting than a few millionaires

    • @iris7301
      @iris7301 3 года назад +4

      @@nemo9248 That’s not got anything to do with incels?

    • @t.o.o.smooth5870
      @t.o.o.smooth5870 3 года назад +2

      Me too = Revenge of the Groupie

  • @nickwyatt9498
    @nickwyatt9498 3 года назад +15

    Many thanks for this Owen, wonderful guest. Ordered Amia's book on the strength of the interview, devoured it in a day, have been recommending it to friends all week.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +1

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
      @ceooflonelinessinc.267 2 года назад

      She misusing her power to tell lies.
      Numerous studies show that men are disadvantged in dating resp. that a lot of individuals are not experiecing the dose of romanc intimiacacy the are craving.

  • @markwilliams3174
    @markwilliams3174 3 года назад +9

    I recommend you provide bookmarks within this interview because you cover a wide range of issues and content

  • @dinosaurtony
    @dinosaurtony 3 года назад +10

    Very insightful! I could have easily listened to a separate hour on each of those topics from Amia.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      @Tich Ennis Hi Tich , just saying knife crime in London is out of control . Lawless London

    • @lynroutledge1762
      @lynroutledge1762 3 года назад

      Totally agree.

  • @janguvpes7518
    @janguvpes7518 3 года назад +24

    Fantastic interview; thanks for giving Amia time to speak, because she speaks so well and packs so much nuance into each response. I enjoyed the not-so-subtle allusions you two made to that recent Guardian write-up also!

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +1

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @bestdjaf7499
      @bestdjaf7499 3 года назад +1

      @@nemo9248
      Its nothing to do with religion!!

    • @DanielleA2023
      @DanielleA2023 3 года назад

      💯👍🏻👍🏻

    • @Ida-Adriana
      @Ida-Adriana 3 года назад +1

      I can barely listen, her vocal fry is painful, I have mysophonia so certain sounds feel painful

  • @noahreddie6580
    @noahreddie6580 3 года назад +43

    I loved this owen. I wanna hear from a former incel too to understand that perspective but great interview

    • @derpydepp5976
      @derpydepp5976 3 года назад +1

      Feel free to check out "INC3LMATICS BlackPill Documentary" on youtube and BlackPillScience on reddit

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +2

      Knife crime in london out of control

    • @noahreddie6580
      @noahreddie6580 3 года назад +7

      @@nemo9248 so what are you trying to infer??

    • @peterheke
      @peterheke 3 года назад +2

      @@noahreddie6580 He just keeps posting the same comment. Hes just a broken record.

    • @DanielleA2023
      @DanielleA2023 3 года назад

      No way! No air time for pieces of sh@t when you can have people of Amias calibre/quality instead

  • @rikititi1848
    @rikititi1848 3 года назад +11

    The "trans panic" defence is absolutely disgusting and horrific, but is legitimately used to justify murder. What a horrific disgrace

  • @MostlyLoveOfMusic
    @MostlyLoveOfMusic 3 года назад +24

    maybe you should be interviewing men about this issue?

    • @RickieLeach
      @RickieLeach 3 года назад +8

      I would like to know about any men who talk about this issue from a reconstructed position.

  • @DanielleA2023
    @DanielleA2023 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Both!! I got to read the book via my public library! It was phenomenal!!! Also the library has 3 copies but it took about 3 months before a copy became available, so hopefully the word is getting out about this book

  • @RookhKshatriya
    @RookhKshatriya 2 года назад +4

    A disproportionately high number of incels are ethnic minority males, usually of Indian or Chinese descent. Check out Colin Wilson's theory of 'sexual disenfranchisement' by race and class, he was discussing this 30 years ago.

    • @ColtraneTaylor
      @ColtraneTaylor Год назад

      Seems Colin Wilson is not cool enough for the left.

  • @jayjames7055
    @jayjames7055 3 года назад +8

    Excellent content as usual. (Also could we have a talk about the brilliant way that the genius of drug prohibition has not only given rise to powerful and blood thirsty cartels across the planet, but has also now recreated the Taliban?)

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

  • @YourQueerGreatAuntie
    @YourQueerGreatAuntie 3 года назад +16

    Fantastic discussion. Re the experience of POC being either excluded or fetischised on dating apps, very similar to the experiences of disabled people in the same contexts. Thanks to Amia for mentioning the role of ableism in determining who get to have desire and who gets to be desirable.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @SA-5247
      @SA-5247 3 года назад

      Or maybe people don’t like you

  • @dempsey2023
    @dempsey2023 3 года назад +6

    Conflating the term incel with a political ideology is problematic in that you're creating a gateway or political classification of potential militants based purely on what a woman finds attractive enough to date or have sex with. This will ultimately create a cultural feedback loop of inceldom.

    • @taraswertelecki3786
      @taraswertelecki3786 2 года назад +1

      This is a feedback loop to destruction, much like the one that destroyed a nuclear reactor at Chernobyl.

    • @dempsey2023
      @dempsey2023 2 года назад

      @@taraswertelecki3786 Chernobyl's true disaster was the abandonment of nuclear power, resulting in exasperation of the climate crisis. Both dilemmas are disasters.

  • @frankshailes3205
    @frankshailes3205 3 года назад +23

    "Like Staceys... white, blonde, like stereotypically attractive skinny women, those are the women they want." Really? So not just someone who can't attract any girlfriend? Also, does this apply to non-white incels too?

    • @HansPeter-pj4uf
      @HansPeter-pj4uf 3 года назад +17

      She really has no idea tbh.

    • @IshtarNike
      @IshtarNike 3 года назад +4

      This is fairly accurate. Non-white incels do often also have a particular complex around women of their own race and their alleged cravings for white d*ck. But it's not like they don't subscribe to wider social standards and pursue white women.

    • @RG-sv4qb
      @RG-sv4qb 3 года назад +13

      It's pretty obvious she is politely saying "most incels desire women out of their league".

    • @johnmilius3031
      @johnmilius3031 3 года назад +4

      The feminist narrative can't accept men being victims as well.

    • @frankshailes3205
      @frankshailes3205 3 года назад +3

      @@RG-sv4qb So she's made a league in her head where "blondes" outrank her? That's some kind of self-hate there.

  • @Rae81UK
    @Rae81UK 3 года назад +5

    You always have amazing guests but she is just something else! Loved it.

  • @theLukedishwasher
    @theLukedishwasher 3 года назад +23

    Mmm.....read an incel forum, it’s a little more involved, nuanced and variable than what’s being said here. I’m not sure if you can still do this, they may have been taken down. I must stress, having two teenage daughters, I wanted to clue myself up on what, in some cases, can be at the extremities of misogyny and ignorance of the issues women have to deal with in our society.

    • @TwistyThreeFifty
      @TwistyThreeFifty 3 года назад +7

      I couldn't agree more.
      I didn't think her ideas were at all accurate.

    • @gabrielguzman6018
      @gabrielguzman6018 2 года назад

      I like how you act as if incels are the problem

  • @feeamerie5011
    @feeamerie5011 3 года назад

    Will be saving up for your book Amia. Thanks for a wonderful show Owen

  • @fcgkfkrjjg
    @fcgkfkrjjg 3 года назад +27

    Once again Owen, I have no doubt she is fantastic. But you really should have spoken to former incels.

    • @rossleeson8626
      @rossleeson8626 3 года назад +8

      Why not just incels. There are youtubers who have channels.

    • @poisondamage2182
      @poisondamage2182 3 года назад +12

      @@rossleeson8626 because they are insane?

    • @johnmilius3031
      @johnmilius3031 3 года назад +4

      @@poisondamage2182 Whatever your opinion, they too have a right to be heard.

    • @rossleeson8626
      @rossleeson8626 3 года назад

      @@poisondamage2182 they’re 4chan trolls

    • @poisondamage2182
      @poisondamage2182 3 года назад

      @@rossleeson8626 who?

  • @wolfgangbailey3730
    @wolfgangbailey3730 3 года назад +3

    Honestly a great interview with an EXCELLENT interviewee.
    However there were WAY too many ads insterted at really irritating intervals.
    I am aware you don't pick the ads or where they go, but if you have any say in the amount of as breaks RUclips insert, it would make your future interviews much more watchable if they had both fewer, and less frequent ad breaks. Maybe opening with a double, unskippable Ad is annoying, but it's nothing like as annoying as having to skip an ad every 5-10 minutes

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @wolfgangbailey3730
      @wolfgangbailey3730 3 года назад

      @@nemo9248 which has anything to do with what I said because?

    • @helenjc9050
      @helenjc9050 3 года назад +2

      @@wolfgangbailey3730 he has posted this under every comment. Best ignored.

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад +2

    I think she's supposed to be the designated replacement for Catherine MacKinnon, who perhaps is nearing the end of her shelf life.

  • @MissMorph
    @MissMorph 3 года назад +2

    Brilliant interview. Thank you.

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +1

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

  • @neilwilliams2883
    @neilwilliams2883 3 года назад +44

    No offense, Owen, but I'm pretty sure the majority of women would not appreciate men speaking on behalf of women's issues, so can you please get real incels or former incels on to explain how they view the world?

    • @onalos1271
      @onalos1271 3 года назад +5

      Not giving a platform to incels to spread their misogynist ideology. Next you'll ask Owen to start platforming flat earthers and anti vaxxers.

    • @neilwilliams2883
      @neilwilliams2883 3 года назад +2

      @@asparagus5428 Incels are young men who see themselves as victims of cerain societal structures.

    • @whydidthetilda
      @whydidthetilda 3 года назад +10

      The actual victims are the women assaulted and murdered so a female guest is appropriate

    • @neilwilliams2883
      @neilwilliams2883 3 года назад +5

      @@whydidthetilda Except that half the victims in this case were men...

    • @undertoned-418
      @undertoned-418 3 года назад +6

      @@whydidthetilda all these attack have male vicims though.

  • @mjdegrey4843
    @mjdegrey4843 3 года назад +11

    Yes men do not have a right to sex. By the same token, I have the right to treat women with the contempt that they have always treated me.

    • @royald9469
      @royald9469 3 года назад

      Hmmm how exactly do you demonstrate your "contempt"

    • @kwolf2145
      @kwolf2145 2 года назад +1

      Raging milkcel

    • @RookhKshatriya
      @RookhKshatriya 2 года назад

      @@xx-my5vh How would that change anything?

    • @jonathanv5171
      @jonathanv5171 Год назад +1

      She says it more just to benefit herself. Many women themselves can talk about their sex life being a right.

  • @steveburn8125
    @steveburn8125 3 года назад +3

    Please forgive my lack of understanding, are “INCELS” trying to get women? And failing, or are they sat in a basement sending angry messages, and therefore never getting the chance to meet women? And getting angry about it? I’m 50 years old, and I struggle with some of these modern concepts, makes me feel v old 😂

  • @lucyislight9949
    @lucyislight9949 3 года назад +1

    Me Too was started by Tarana Burke--a black woman activist. It really ticks me off when people presume it's a movement of otherwise privileged white women. And Tarana is still a leader in the movement--still is made up of mostly working and middle-class women of color.

  • @ceooflonelinessinc.267
    @ceooflonelinessinc.267 2 года назад +5

    She misusing her power to tell lies.
    Numerous studies show that men are disadvantged in dating resp. that a lot of individuals are not experiecing the dose of romanc intimiacacy the are craving.

  • @mattsaunders901
    @mattsaunders901 3 года назад

    I'm finding I have LOADS of ads for this (like every 5mins) - is anyone else getting this?

    • @mattsaunders901
      @mattsaunders901 3 года назад

      It's frustrating as I'm interested in hearing it all!

  • @Gooner184
    @Gooner184 3 года назад +3

    Great discussion

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +2

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

  • @jcreed09
    @jcreed09 3 года назад

    Dudes have the right to WANT sex, women have the right to REFUSE you!

  • @vivianam5128
    @vivianam5128 2 года назад +1

    Two genius-level intellects.

  • @anthonysoprano6087
    @anthonysoprano6087 3 года назад +2

    The discussion of incels was awful and frankly inaccurate. Natalie from ContraPoints did a much better video on the topic, it's long but you gotta watch the whole video to fully understand their POV.
    Or you could watch actual black pill channels like WheatWaffles or Incel TV.

  • @leofriel4556
    @leofriel4556 3 года назад +21

    Everyone deserves to be loved.

    • @edricaldones9639
      @edricaldones9639 3 года назад +12

      Not deserves, after a certain age, but needs, I'd say.
      Just saying.

    • @frankshailes3205
      @frankshailes3205 3 года назад +4

      @@edricaldones9639 Even sociopaths like the Tory leadership?

    • @edricaldones9639
      @edricaldones9639 3 года назад +2

      @@frankshailes3205 They weren't born like that, I suppose.

    • @Jide-bq9yf
      @Jide-bq9yf 3 года назад

      @@frankshailes3205 lolz .

    • @poisondamage2182
      @poisondamage2182 3 года назад +1

      @@edricaldones9639 i can save you boris 😘😘

  • @onenation9510
    @onenation9510 3 года назад +5

    Plantation fetish??! 😳🤭😮..Big morality questions!

  • @nomore2001
    @nomore2001 3 года назад +9

    Incredible that you managed to touch on so much while saying so little

    • @noahway13
      @noahway13 3 года назад +1

      Yes, everything is so convoluted and no straight answers given.

    • @DanielleA2023
      @DanielleA2023 3 года назад

      Incredible you can live with yourself whilst being a paid employee for your right wing masters and so low on their heirarchy

    • @nomore2001
      @nomore2001 3 года назад

      @@DanielleA2023 That's far too harsh on Owen.

  • @pepryan2183
    @pepryan2183 Год назад

    I cannot believe that she think mums on Mumsnet, who may be angry about high child care costs, are blaming the trans movement for lack of government support. That really tells you she's not a mum herself. It's all theorising for her. Such BS. I know a mum who is very angry re childcare costs and who also thinks her kid is trans. Blows this theory out of the water. Such gaslighting of mums who are worried about this ideology impacting their kids.

  • @adamfelixobrien
    @adamfelixobrien 3 года назад +9

    So excited to read her book. She's great!

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад +1

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

    • @georgeash4008
      @georgeash4008 3 года назад +1

      I bet you wax your chest hair don't you Felix?

  • @doug2279
    @doug2279 3 года назад +1

    online dating actually creates more cross cultural relationships as ssocial groups are otherwise very race specific

  • @USATennis155
    @USATennis155 3 года назад +5

    I would love to hear Owen interview an incel but what incel is going to show their face on camera. Healthy Gamer has been trying to talk to a real incel but the guys who would be willing to talk on camera, if he asked, are generally pleasant guys who are shy in social situations and can’t get sex or guys who constantly get friend zoned. I highly doubt a violent incel would come on camera.

    • @rikititi1848
      @rikititi1848 3 года назад +1

      Have you seen the Jubilee video? He doesn't seem violent necessarily but clearly has extremely sexist views of women

    • @maniac50ae14
      @maniac50ae14 2 года назад

      Because your average incel, not the ones on forums all day, but the ones who are just regular guys that just don't experience interest from women aren't dumb enough or attention seeking enough to talk about it publicly. Most incels probably also don't have friends either and so it's not just about women but feeling rejected by society. Nevermind female interest, but bthey are likely being rejected by male peers too and that's a very embarrassing, very

  • @nemo9248
    @nemo9248 3 года назад +8

    Knife crime in london out of control

  • @socialistquickfix
    @socialistquickfix 3 года назад +8

    great, nuanced convo

  • @TwistyThreeFifty
    @TwistyThreeFifty 3 года назад +13

    This conversation is just a series of bad takes tacked together for an hour straight.

    • @tcritt
      @tcritt 3 года назад +7

      you mean like your life but shorter?

    • @TwistyThreeFifty
      @TwistyThreeFifty 3 года назад +3

      @@tcritt no not at all. More like your mother without chlamydia.

    • @TwistyThreeFifty
      @TwistyThreeFifty 3 года назад +5

      @Tich Ennis I think that was the problem. She is a philosopher by trade that is selling a book, but she chimed in on sociological/anthropological issues without any evidence or research just so she could tap into a current event to sell books. So whether you like her or not is down to belief and faith in her argument, but not based on any kind of research or evidence.
      Some egregious examples was the idea that incels are primarily motivated by status seemed especially unfounded. Or the idea that transphobes are intimidated by the fear of how free trans people are.

    • @ollie6133
      @ollie6133 3 года назад

      @@TwistyThreeFifty maybe read her book before getting overly critical. This discussion is never going to get anywhere near the meat of her argument. If after analysing her book you feel the same, then fair enough.

  • @Akiak7
    @Akiak7 2 года назад +2

    the only way this was going to be interesting and constructive was if you were willing to empathise with these subjects. it doesn't seem like you want to do that. if you're only talking about the very extreme portion of these people then you need to make that very clear.

  • @kaz2910
    @kaz2910 3 года назад +7

    At least have a guest that knows the subject matter

  • @jonny9071
    @jonny9071 3 года назад +12

    Brilliant interview, both the questions and the considered answers. Fascinating the amount of comments from (male) people who betray that they didn't make it past the title.

    • @tabbymoonshine5986
      @tabbymoonshine5986 3 года назад

      “But she’s a FEMOID!! She can’t speak for US!”

    • @johnmilius3031
      @johnmilius3031 3 года назад +4

      @@tabbymoonshine5986 Let's flip that around; So you'd be okay with men talking about women's issues without any women present?

    • @jonathanv5171
      @jonathanv5171 Год назад

      Many women can say that their sex life is a right, so it is wrong to talk about these men thinking sex is a right, because women do too

  • @altGoolam
    @altGoolam 3 года назад

    Young conservative urban middle-class Western men.

  • @rostislavhoudini2794
    @rostislavhoudini2794 2 года назад +1

    05:29 that's an utterly wrong statement, but yeah you know how everyone and everything in labelled nowadays!

  • @dodododatdatdat
    @dodododatdatdat 3 года назад

    Fantastic all! I learned a lot

    • @nemo9248
      @nemo9248 3 года назад

      Meanwhile in London ; knife crime is out of control

  • @nicecutie
    @nicecutie 3 года назад +2

    rip jake

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад +1

    intolerable -- where they ever got this bimb idk but they missed

  • @REXX399
    @REXX399 Год назад

    All I can say is nobody's ever me too'ed a guy who is a fast food worker......
    $$$$

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад

    Bahrain? ????

  • @jonathanv5171
    @jonathanv5171 2 года назад +1

    Then it is about the right to sex when women have sex. If sex is not supposed to be a right, then the same rule should apply in general when it comes to sex, for example it should not be considered wrong if a man in high years has not had sex. Or women's orgasms during sex should not be distributed fairly.

  • @landofthesilverpath5823
    @landofthesilverpath5823 3 года назад +7

    She manages to speak entirely in either up-speak or vocal fry. Truly a cultured and intelligent woman.

    • @noahway13
      @noahway13 3 года назад +4

      And while not rally giving any concrete answers. Nice!

    • @ColtraneTaylor
      @ColtraneTaylor Год назад +1

      Rofl ... true, how depressing.

  • @Ooblivion533
    @Ooblivion533 2 года назад +2

    She speaks so eloquently yet the amount of bs she's spitting is just incredible

  • @caxzrockz
    @caxzrockz 3 года назад

    I'm 27 never even kissed anyone I've felt depressed for most of my 20s hate it. I want a relationship so much dont know how to go about it hate life am in noway blaming women for my failings its my fault I hate my life feel like l've wasted my life what most people experience as teens I've won't experience until my 30s

    • @acch20
      @acch20 3 года назад +2

      How much of that is expectations of modern western culture? Being single and not promiscuous is seen as being inadequate. I was single pretty much until i was 28

    • @RookhKshatriya
      @RookhKshatriya 2 года назад

      What makes you think you will experience it in your 30's? If women hated you in your prime, why will that ever change? This realisation is where massacres start.

    • @JoeyJ0J0
      @JoeyJ0J0 2 года назад +1

      When you reach your 30s you stop caring about dating. Its great

    • @gabrielguzman6018
      @gabrielguzman6018 2 года назад

      @@RookhKshatriya Yeah why is that

    • @qqww2905
      @qqww2905 2 года назад

      I find that your ideal of living 'what most people experience as teens' is not worth pursuing at all. You can ofc live your best life without romance, you just think its great because of one sided and self harming ideals, life is much more than that. I've never kissed anyone too with 23yo and its a totally morally irrelevant fact of my life, your depression will go away as soon as you dedicate your life to something meaningful

  • @johnmilius3031
    @johnmilius3031 3 года назад +9

    Already looking forward to her next book; "Lonely men are worthless to women and should be shamed for merely existing".

    • @RickieLeach
      @RickieLeach 3 года назад +1

      Not what she's saying at all. That's an incel ideology she is challenging. Everyone gets lonely. If you want compassion you have to be willing to offer it yourself.

    • @johnmilius3031
      @johnmilius3031 3 года назад +1

      @@RickieLeach Nonsense. The worst criminals get women, Incels are only rejected because of their looks.

    • @steveburn8125
      @steveburn8125 3 года назад +1

      @@RickieLeach that’s so true, if you don’t like and respect yourself, it’s less likely other people will

    • @acch20
      @acch20 3 года назад +1

      Life isn't fair. I haven't got one genuine friend outside of family but I'm not being bitter about it.

    • @RickieLeach
      @RickieLeach 3 года назад +1

      @@johnmilius3031 it's all about being realistic and understanding the landscape. Capitalist culture encourages a lookbased outlook. It's not how people can truly operate in the human intimacy of a relationship.

  • @spyralspyder
    @spyralspyder 2 года назад

    Men have the right to their own hand... and their imagination rofl. I mean.... they need to take a look and read a book apparently.

  • @kaneidareyue7715
    @kaneidareyue7715 3 года назад +2

    Very sad to see Western Academics not been very effective but instead choosing political alignment point scoring rather than a thorough investigations and correctly identifying issues and solutions. When the problem with all this divisions stems from the Academics of Humanities and Social Science.

  • @noahway13
    @noahway13 3 года назад +1

    A big nothing burger.

  • @thomasboyd6047
    @thomasboyd6047 3 года назад

    You do the same. Thomas.

  • @sa-leemha-nee3776
    @sa-leemha-nee3776 2 года назад +2

    @ 2:01 Notice when giving the definition of INCELS and whom it typically applies to , Amia was about to say young, WHITE and then caught herself and changed it to MEN. 😂🤣🤣😂😅😭

    • @Ooblivion533
      @Ooblivion533 2 года назад +1

      I peeped that too😂😂😂😂

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад +1

    very very bad vocal fry, creaky voice, half of words almost swallowed whole lol creaky creak croak croak LOL

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад +1

    vocal fry, very bad case

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад

    is that REALLY your accent????

    • @pepryan2183
      @pepryan2183 Год назад

      She has a British accent on some videos. Here she seems to be American. 🤔

  • @klimtkiller
    @klimtkiller 3 года назад +2

    women are oppressed etc etc. ok sure...not the reality of society i’m afraid.

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад

    'ats whot'

  • @Akiak7
    @Akiak7 2 года назад +2

    to say that incels dont want companionship is pretty insensitive

  • @kingbeef5076
    @kingbeef5076 3 года назад +8

    I’d just like to point out that Jordan Peterson was trying to deal with this problem years ago but the woke media decided to attempt to smear and destroy him.
    Now you’re all acting like no one saw this coming. 🤦‍♂️

    • @henrybamford5253
      @henrybamford5253 3 года назад +4

      Which problem are you talking about? If you're talking about young men not having sex then JP certainly was a part of that narrative, he was on Joe Rogan and raised the idea of forced monogamy. This is feeding into the ideology of the incels and not at all helpful! If anything it adds to the justification for these acts of terror.

    • @kingbeef5076
      @kingbeef5076 3 года назад +5

      @@henrybamford5253 The problem of young, weak, directionless, young men. What is causing it and how to deal with it.
      There are countless cases of him taking men out of the self-pitying incel ideology.
      He was totally misrepresented in regards to enforced monogamy. All he did was point out that enforced monogamy is a thing that happens in society for various reasons. He has stated many times that no one is entitled to another person and that you need to make yourself attractive if you want to attract women.

    • @RookhKshatriya
      @RookhKshatriya 2 года назад +1

      Colin Wilson coined the term Sexual Disenfranchisement 40 years ago.

  • @martinjones8861
    @martinjones8861 3 года назад +1

    Sex is overrated

  • @findbridge1790
    @findbridge1790 3 года назад +1

    she's not actually very smart. and her dis. is lame. I read as much as I could take -- and in it she defends the (lame) thesis (much attacked) of her director - which seems a conflict of interest, actually. I suspect a hidden hand behind her. lol

  • @blackniall8509
    @blackniall8509 3 года назад +3

    😂😂😂 Why on earth would you choose to interview some who hasn't a clue

  • @bothi00
    @bothi00 3 года назад

    lmao all the triggered incels down here

  • @borderradiouk.1253
    @borderradiouk.1253 3 года назад +6

    Owen Jones: 178K RUclips subscribers. GB News: 217K subscribers. Poor Owen I warned him, he wouldn't listen.

    • @DayVid2.0
      @DayVid2.0 3 года назад +1

      Nobody listens to people named 'Larry'.

    • @universallemon6631
      @universallemon6631 3 года назад +1

      Haha, you can buy subscribers mate, means nothing, are you new?

  • @zachbeall6810
    @zachbeall6810 3 года назад +1

    Mischaracterizing the Jordan Peterson world view. Not appreciated. Very lame. Jordan Peterson speech with a lot of nuance and intentionality. so it's super easy to mischaracterize him.

  • @user-kh7th6nx6o
    @user-kh7th6nx6o 3 года назад

    He was incel. That doesn't mean his murders were BECAUSE he was an incel.

    • @qqww2905
      @qqww2905 2 года назад

      Obviously him thinking the universe was against him and his life sucked because some women dont want to have romance with him was one of the causes. Total lack of morals helped too

  • @M9Diry
    @M9Diry 3 года назад +1

    She’s super attractive, exactly my type ...

    • @steveburn8125
      @steveburn8125 3 года назад

      I second that emotion 😊

    • @kwolf2145
      @kwolf2145 2 года назад +1

      Are you a basement dwelling whyte incel?

    • @M9Diry
      @M9Diry 2 года назад

      @@kwolf2145 nope. I live on the second floor of a 1980s apartment block in the most beautiful city in Europe.