WHY I MARRIED AN OLDER MAN || My Truth

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @maameserwaayeboah5265
    @maameserwaayeboah5265 3 года назад +14

    I had a problem with age gap between me and my boo but thank God, I have realized that he is the one for me.God was giving me signs too.I’m soo grateful that I have him.Thanks Vic😊

    • @demmybimbo9614
      @demmybimbo9614 2 года назад

      What are the tips to relate more with older spouse

  • @AjurisStyle
    @AjurisStyle 3 года назад +30

    My Fiance is 13 years older than me and I love every bit of it...I prefer older men and I can attest to that fact that all you've mentioned are so true and accurate! Funny enough They're exactly my reasons too! Wonderful content Victoria! ❤️

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +2

      Awww... thank you! ❤

    • @gloryokwong7358
      @gloryokwong7358 3 года назад +2

      Same here mydear....My husband is 10yrs older than i am, we'v been married for 5month now and So far its been amazing

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +3

      @@gloryokwong7358 awww... that's beautiful 😍...

    • @AjurisStyle
      @AjurisStyle 3 года назад +3

      @@gloryokwong7358 wow! That's great! Can't wait to get married to my fiance.... we've been in a long distance relationship for almost 9 months now. Even with the distance, he's been amazing! He's my soulmate 💕

    • @ebenchrist7794
      @ebenchrist7794 3 года назад +1

      Wow...like I swear so me..I always wanted someone older,thank God I got want I wanted...

  • @aanuajayi4312
    @aanuajayi4312 3 года назад +10

    This video actually looked like you was playing my life when I was young 😂, and the funniest thing is I got married to someone older than me and I don't regret it 🥰 .

  • @tanyakadi3445
    @tanyakadi3445 Год назад +1

    I think this is the 2nd time I'm watching this video. I just love it.❤

  • @Chuko_Joash
    @Chuko_Joash 3 года назад +16

    I always find myself coming back to your page, you have a way of voicing my exact thoughts.😊
    I’m in a relationship with someone over 10 years older and it’s pure bliss😍
    Age really doesn’t matter.
    Great content 💯

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +3

      Awww... super glad to hear that! 😁

  • @tinuolalive
    @tinuolalive 3 года назад +2

    I just listened to this but you are not alone, I am attracted to older men and sincerely when you were stating your reasons it was like you are speaking my mind and thank God for the parents I have, I have dated someone older than me and they didn't have issues with it. I have always found myself among older people, most of my friends are older than I am, I can count my friends that are my age mate. And from how far God has told me about myself I know I will always find myself among people older than me. Thank you for always sharing

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад

      Awww... that's beautiful 😍
      Thanks for sharing ❤

  • @quelquun2018
    @quelquun2018 2 года назад +7

    This woman is happy! Her hubby is doing something right👀🤔💯❤️‍🔥

  • @samanthal.o.6800
    @samanthal.o.6800 3 года назад +2

    Mama. 🥰❤ Thanks, for this, ma.
    I love the fact that you added humour to it. "The sugar daddy part cracked me up." 🤣

  • @Moments_with_Teak
    @Moments_with_Teak 3 года назад +5

    I have always wanted to marry an older man too from my young age, but when I tell people about it, they condemn me and the thought just left me, but after watching this I realized that it's about ME not WHAT PEOPLE THINK..... although I'm still single, so I don't know who God is bringing my way yet!

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +2

      Exactly!!! Don't let other people tell you who you should or should not be with. The most important thing is God's will

  • @judithunaegbu3776
    @judithunaegbu3776 2 года назад +1

    I will subscribe because of this video
    Gosh man we have a conjoined thinking
    Love you man

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 года назад +32

    I'm not married but I just love hanging around grown up people. People at my age behave childish and I don't like that 🤣🤣

  • @LizwiBlackChildMthini
    @LizwiBlackChildMthini 3 года назад +2

    This is soo Me Vic, i've always love older Guyz, i can't help it... You've gained yourself a a New Sub from SA 🇿🇦

  • @SindaraJohnMoteh
    @SindaraJohnMoteh 3 года назад +1

    Everyday i see more reasons why i clicked with you immediately. I have always loved older men for this exact reasons

  • @christianahenderson3543
    @christianahenderson3543 2 года назад +3

    Am just smiling nd laughing just by listening to you, Also telling myself that am normal and is also okay being with an older guy..My fiance is 10yrs older than me and also so much fun for me..Intelligence,experience, maturity, most they are even always open and straight forward than younger guys, Have always been attracted to older people since my very young age and vice versa and i was always curious if i was okay or if was too old since older guys ask me out. But have grown to love and understand who i am..I love you sis thanks for giving me more confidence in myself through many of your videos, I hardly comment but just feel i really need to appreciate you for your videos, Keep it up sis..I will also love to meet you if God willing..Say hi for me to Mr Fash.. He's really an embodiment of wisdom..I love you ma💖

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  2 года назад

      Awww... I am so glad! Thanks so much for watching ❤

  • @tayucourage8296
    @tayucourage8296 3 года назад

    Am so so already in to you, after watching about three videos is only sweeting me to watch the more. Much love ❤️❤️

  • @alinafevictoriaeliasi4961
    @alinafevictoriaeliasi4961 3 года назад +9

    Girrrrl... I can relate with you Sis... It's like I am the one talking... 😂 😅 People my age don't make sense to me as well 😂 😂 😂... Every point here is me 🙈 🤦‍♀️

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +1

      😄😄😄😄
      Thank you Sis!

  • @euniceolawoyin1041
    @euniceolawoyin1041 3 года назад +1

    Vicky love your honesty. You're so fortunate your choice is such an understanding man,who love and cares for you,the bible even highlights that wisdom belongs to aged ones,he responds to questions intelligently. Mine is older than me too and very caring, loving. I pray God God continue to cement your bond.

  • @maryifeoluwaajayimummigrac4795
    @maryifeoluwaajayimummigrac4795 3 года назад +19

    Wooww, this is interesting, well for me, I'm marrying someone I am older than. Yeah, God led me on and I'm cool with it.
    Reasons why, he is just young but everything about him, I mean everything ( spiritual, emotional, finance, academics and more) is older than his age.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +6

      Awww.... this is so sweet. Age is just a number, maturity is what matters the most, and If God led you, that's just FULL STOP!
      Wishing you the very best! 🥰

  • @VeeSweetTea
    @VeeSweetTea 2 года назад

    Vicky my namesake......I am just binge watching your videos.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shinaesther647
    @shinaesther647 3 года назад

    Victoria, I love your honesty and sincerity. Keep it on

  • @vashtirhooms2669
    @vashtirhooms2669 3 года назад +4

    Victoria I love you so much you are truly amazing ,your smile ,your laughter is contagious so vibrant and full of life .
    Anyway what does it really matter the age as long as you are happy ?
    Be bless my darling continue to enjoy your married life divine guidance and protection always. 💖🇯🇲🇯🇲

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад

      Awww... this is so sweet! 😋
      Thanks so much ❤

  • @empowerher-z5n
    @empowerher-z5n Год назад +1

    You described me as you described yourself😂😂😂😂

  • @adenijioluwadamilola5433
    @adenijioluwadamilola5433 3 года назад +1

    Yipee, first to view🎉🎉

  • @oluwarantimisirere4131
    @oluwarantimisirere4131 2 года назад +1

    Seriously I'm short of words right now 😄😄
    My case is so similar with yours,infact my husband is more than 10 years older than me. And it's nothing to be worried about because I'm fine with him, that's what matters my dear. Although I have some dislikes about him of which applies to everyone(no one is perfect)
    Let me burst your bubble 🤣🤣 my first love(I being a teenager) is 10 years older than me 🤣🤣you can imagine that.
    I've always dated guys that are way older than me, infact there was a day my husband said it's like you've been dealing with older men🤣🤣🤣
    I really love your contents, it's so educative, interesting, straight forward and funny too(when neccesary)
    Don't stop posting 👍 and I'm sure we won't stop watching 🤭
    I love ya🤭♥️

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  2 года назад +1

      Awww... thanks so much!
      We definitely do have alot in common 😁

  • @sibandaphilisani320
    @sibandaphilisani320 2 года назад +2

    It's the laugh for me 😅😅😅it's contagious 🤣

  • @namalwascovia5683
    @namalwascovia5683 3 года назад

    Very interesting! Thanks victoria for sharing

  • @justinaoppong7228
    @justinaoppong7228 3 года назад +1

    Always looking cheerful.... interesting one 🥰

  • @orogejumoke1974
    @orogejumoke1974 3 года назад +1

    I often watch ur videos and I love them. It's my first time of commenting though 😘. Ur laugh is actually contagious 😁😁. We're on the same table as I also married an older man and we're damn cool 🥳

  • @tracyofuya6239
    @tracyofuya6239 2 года назад +2

    You are not alone 😁😄

  • @veronicachukwu31
    @veronicachukwu31 2 года назад +1

    Hi Victoria!
    I hope u see this...
    Aside from been an older man, what do you think if he's a divorcee and has got kids.
    Would you advice such 17years age gap?

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  2 года назад +2

      As long as you are matured to handle what comes with it.

    • @veronicachukwu31
      @veronicachukwu31 2 года назад +1

      @@VictoriaFash Thanks🙏❤

  • @ajasaabosede4075
    @ajasaabosede4075 3 года назад +3

    Pls what's the age difference between you and him, am so curious to know 🤔😍

  • @joguns8257
    @joguns8257 3 года назад +2

    This episode is very interesting; very true.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +1

      Thank you ❤

    • @joguns8257
      @joguns8257 3 года назад

      @@VictoriaFash You are welcome, Victoria. You have no clue how enlightening and truthful this episode is. I thank God for your sharing it. Age is nothing. Age has nothing to do with maturity.
      When a girl likes you from her heart, she doesn't see age; she sees somebody on her 'level' with whom she can freely express herself. That's what a girl is after. I met someone a while ago. I was twice her age, she just didn't care what gap was between us. We became soul-mates, I have never been so free with any girl like her; she was literally a free and chatty person. I felt we were on the same level.
      However, the only thing that stood in the way was our Genotype; we didn't match. She was so distresed, just as I was too. So age doesn't determine bliss in marriage or compatibility.

  • @ebenchrist7794
    @ebenchrist7794 3 года назад

    Thanks Vic....kia...u spoke my mind and all

  • @dnice6120
    @dnice6120 Год назад

    What a lucky man, this kady is beautiful.

  • @kindblazemedia6089
    @kindblazemedia6089 2 года назад

    Is like i saw you in church today TTC...cheers

  • @GabbyItyowuhe
    @GabbyItyowuhe 3 года назад +7

    All my life, I've always been attracted to older ladies.
    Subtle Reason: I always think ladies of my age are full of drama.
    I dated a lady who was a year older than me, but it didn't work out to marriage.
    For the first time now, I'm attracted to a lady who is younger than me by 1 year and a silent voice within keeps making me to feel this is not me😂🤣😂🤣.
    But I'm okay with her.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +4

      Awww.. try and look beyond the age, there many other qualities to look out for

  • @adelokunbukade791
    @adelokunbukade791 Год назад

    Hearing all you have said is cute 😍 🎉

  • @florenceolufade-adewoye1417
    @florenceolufade-adewoye1417 3 года назад

    Good to be here again....lemme settle down to watch 💃💃

  • @chidinmamaureenobi8880
    @chidinmamaureenobi8880 3 года назад +1

    You're super amazing Sis

  • @elechiflorence3415
    @elechiflorence3415 2 года назад

    I feel the same too..I prefer older man..I can see myself dating my age mate nd m 23...I will prefer men that are significantly older me..was getting worried dat I not okk.thanks for this video

  • @oliverjoel5901
    @oliverjoel5901 2 года назад +1

    But what is really age different between you and your husband?

  • @oseofmat
    @oseofmat 3 года назад +1

    Victoria ooo 🤣🤣
    I used to love older guys/men. I had always looked older than my age and had older friends too. I had dated guys older with 10 years. Finally, I got married to one with a 6yrs gap 😀

  • @Banigostv
    @Banigostv 3 года назад

    Well every one to his own ages is just a number as you said and of you find a good man who is 2, 3, 5, 7 older do what makes you happy

  • @Lassddee
    @Lassddee 3 года назад +3

    If this ain't me then I don't know what is. Victoria u literally voiced my thoughts kia

  • @obalimnwaedozie6760
    @obalimnwaedozie6760 3 года назад

    I have watched some of your videos with your Hubby and you guys are really doing well. I like the fact that you laugh a lot. Do you get angry at all?. Keep it up

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад

      More often than you think 😄😄😄😄

  • @joyyyyyy58
    @joyyyyyy58 3 года назад +4

    🤣🤣I used to think of these reasons too while I was younger. But having dated a man I was a year older than . I can say maturity is not always about age. This guy was so mature you would think he was 6 years older than me . And to think he was just 21 when we dated. And I have also dated a man 10 years older and trust me there was no much difference. Except the older appearance of course 😄

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад

      Yeah, age does not equal maturity

  • @royalsolomon18
    @royalsolomon18 3 года назад

    First here😍

  • @sismoyosore3886
    @sismoyosore3886 3 года назад +2

    Timestamps?? I wonder if they might help.

  • @angelasipoto-pepple1352
    @angelasipoto-pepple1352 2 года назад +1

    what's the name of the mic you use?

  • @preciousokonji8156
    @preciousokonji8156 2 года назад +2

    I thought i had a problem for being attracted to older men. So i am not the only one...😄

  • @Banigostv
    @Banigostv 3 года назад

    Okay you listen to pastor Kingsley i see why i like you 😁😁😁, i was not in love too in short i feel in love in marriage but i like him alot.

  • @esenamdeborah
    @esenamdeborah 3 года назад +1

    Only your laughter 😍😘✌️💕
    But what if you’re older than your husband?

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +3

      😄😄😄
      Thanks
      There's nothing wrong with marrying someone younger, just made sure he checks the right boxes!

  • @lolamaven3971
    @lolamaven3971 3 года назад

    👏🏾😂 I feel you sis

  • @Banigostv
    @Banigostv 3 года назад

    There's no link in the description for the podcast

  • @kehindekehinde9719
    @kehindekehinde9719 3 года назад +7

    There should be a part two.
    Well,the pettiness is part of the reasons I have always loved to marry someone older.
    Again I noticed they are more mature in dealing with situations in relationships, like they understand better.
    Again the aging is part of the reason I love older men too.
    I am glad I'm not the only one on this table.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +1

      Haaa!! 😀😀
      Real nice! Thanks for watching ❤

  • @kehindekehinde9719
    @kehindekehinde9719 3 года назад +1

    I have always loved to marry someone older too.
    Thank you for this.

  • @DivergentSchoolofBravery
    @DivergentSchoolofBravery 3 года назад

    Please recommend this intelligent books you're talking about 😁

  • @iamannabeautiful
    @iamannabeautiful 2 года назад

    I don't know, I don't think 29 and 39 is that big of a deal 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @damolaibraheem9283
    @damolaibraheem9283 3 года назад

    Ladies make sure you look out for those signs because he's old doesn't mean he's wise.

  • @TutuLolaAboh
    @TutuLolaAboh 2 года назад

    Significantly older. But how old are you and your husband?

  • @oluwatobiomobola9599
    @oluwatobiomobola9599 3 года назад

    Okay? Okay?
    Yeah 😌😌

  • @hadasahbeibie5197
    @hadasahbeibie5197 Месяц назад

    Your laugh😂😂😂😂

  • @zarrzarr9989
    @zarrzarr9989 2 года назад

    good reason

  • @happinessajayitv
    @happinessajayitv 3 года назад

    I enjoyed.

  • @ericman2220
    @ericman2220 3 года назад +1

    Were you supposed to marry someone younger than you?

  • @miracle_igboke
    @miracle_igboke 2 года назад

    ♥♥♥

  • @blessingsuccess7709
    @blessingsuccess7709 3 года назад

    My friend is 15 years older than me what's your take about that ma.

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +3

      Age is the least important thing, focus on the other aspects of him. Does your value align, your vision, your spiritual journey? Is he a kind person, does he love you, does he love God, does he respect women? Is he God's will for you...
      Focus on those and make the right decisions

    • @blessingsuccess7709
      @blessingsuccess7709 3 года назад +1

      @@VictoriaFash thank you ma

  • @freshwindministry
    @freshwindministry 3 года назад

    Interesting

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji 3 года назад

    The people and their comments though😅😅😅

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 года назад

    In Kenya most young ladies marry older men for money. They should watch this 😂😂

    • @VictoriaFash
      @VictoriaFash  3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
      I forgot to add this 😄😄

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 3 года назад

      @@VictoriaFash 😂😂😂😂

  • @adebimpeayodele5813
    @adebimpeayodele5813 3 года назад

    4th here

  • @Maanopohamba
    @Maanopohamba 3 года назад

    You look 27! Is that older than you?

  • @kingsleykalu2770
    @kingsleykalu2770 2 года назад

    Stop this your lie lie Yoruba laugh while you lie.