Ms. Pat you did the damn thang with the Netflix special much love hun 🌹💕🌹💕🌹💕 keep doing your thang hunnie😘 #MSPAT R.I.P. Lindsey Pearlman🌹💖 condolences and prayers to the family and friends of her's...
Been here since day one ,,have to say ms pat thats a lovely thing you did for lyndsay to bring her to Atlanta in series 1 of the show,,much respect and my condolences to the family of ms pearlman
Hearing Ms. Pat struggle with feeling bad because she "didn't do enough" or "didn't pay enough attention" is why suicide is different from other kinds of death. It always leaves a contagious and toxic cloud of guilt and shame, and everyone feels culpable to some degree. It's the one thing that has kept me from doing it myself; knowing what it would do to those I love. It's never that simple though, I'm sure Lindsey held on as long as she could for that very reason, and who knows what the nature of her torment actually was, but the suffering of my family is the strongest suicide deterrent I can think of personally. Suicide is never just about you, it's about everyone you've ever met. If you know someone who's possibly suicidal, don't be afraid to ask them if they are, it won't make them more likely to do it - on the contrary. The only thing to remember is to be unafraid/unshocked by what they say. Don't freak out if they tell you they know what method they'd use, or if they've been self-harming, etc. The idea is to make room for the person's problems, to say "we can wrap our arms around this issue", so that it doesn't seem like an insurmountable inevitability, and to reinforce the notion of a hopeful future where mindsets/outlooks are different. Having someone talk about their suicidal ideation is a huge help, getting the words outside of their head and into the open air is beneficial on its own, but if you can talk with someone in that state - or rather, listen to them without judgement or fear - it's like breaking a hole in the ice that's keeping them underwater, so they can catch a breath. You don't really need to do much except be there and have love in your heart. Mental health is health. Please get help if you need it, just as you would if you had a broken arm. Condolences to the Pearlman clan and their friends.
Miss Pat, I told my husband that if u had tickets available in October I wanted to fly to Atlanta for your party. I am from Hawaii 52 and will be 53 in November. Your special is on fire 🔥 and I’m so happy for you and your show and everything you deserve! Even if I don’t see u I will always support and love the Patdown. Aloha.🤍🔥🤙🏾🌺
I hope to be selected to attend the party but if not I'm still flying in to Atlanta frim Oakland and I'll just be outside watching and enjoying the parade of folks come and go like we did outside the Exotics Erotic Ball in SF back in the 80's
Wow this is heartbreaking. RIP for real if she committed suicide she really felt pain being here, real pain and must've felt really alone. I hope she is at peace now. This really hit me because it could have been me...
ah damn it. lindsey just needed those shoulders. damn. rest in peace and yea, you cant take all that on your shoulders ms. pat. brodie also was a hard one that affected a lot of the comedians i watch. watch each others back as best we can. love ms. pat fam
I wanna come from BUFFALO NY ...I Remember when u announced it I just hope that I can.make it. I'm just not a "Crack baby" just love ur show and your podcast! Can't WAIT for season 2
We all have moments that we look back on and would change how we responded about a situation. Just keep on trying, it's really all we can do as humans.
Sounds like October 15th is going to be a wild time. I would love to get to come to Atlanta and spend the day with Ms. Pat and the crack babies. My condolences go out to the Pearlman family, sorry for your loss.
God call her home. Everyone has a number too be call. Your always helping along the way..Ms.pat. Our big sister name is Patricia Williams. But her number was call. Your name gives me sooo much joy.#414
she may have had some serious health problems that she was hiding if she was prescribed those strong pain pills that they found in her car with her body. God Rest her soul.
Ohhhhhhh! She worked at the school!! I'm going crazy trying to remember who is this white lady I don't remember her from the miss pat show....and it came to me! I'm sorry to hear about that type of situation because it's aways like.....they never show "the signs" well sometimes, and u just wish u could've helped them ...
This is the most real episode ever. I saw these folks inner spirit and appreciate the courage to share their feelings.
My condolences to the Pearlman family, her friends, family and colleagues during this difficult time.
Love how Ms Pat had Lindsay’s back 🧡. Crack babies appreciated your talent RIP
Ms. Pat you did the damn thang with the Netflix special much love hun 🌹💕🌹💕🌹💕 keep doing your thang hunnie😘 #MSPAT
R.I.P. Lindsey Pearlman🌹💖 condolences and prayers to the family and friends of her's...
Been here since day one ,,have to say ms pat thats a lovely thing you did for lyndsay to bring her to Atlanta in series 1 of the show,,much respect and my condolences to the family of ms pearlman
Hearing Ms. Pat struggle with feeling bad because she "didn't do enough" or "didn't pay enough attention" is why suicide is different from other kinds of death. It always leaves a contagious and toxic cloud of guilt and shame, and everyone feels culpable to some degree. It's the one thing that has kept me from doing it myself; knowing what it would do to those I love. It's never that simple though, I'm sure Lindsey held on as long as she could for that very reason, and who knows what the nature of her torment actually was, but the suffering of my family is the strongest suicide deterrent I can think of personally. Suicide is never just about you, it's about everyone you've ever met.
If you know someone who's possibly suicidal, don't be afraid to ask them if they are, it won't make them more likely to do it - on the contrary. The only thing to remember is to be unafraid/unshocked by what they say. Don't freak out if they tell you they know what method they'd use, or if they've been self-harming, etc. The idea is to make room for the person's problems, to say "we can wrap our arms around this issue", so that it doesn't seem like an insurmountable inevitability, and to reinforce the notion of a hopeful future where mindsets/outlooks are different. Having someone talk about their suicidal ideation is a huge help, getting the words outside of their head and into the open air is beneficial on its own, but if you can talk with someone in that state - or rather, listen to them without judgement or fear - it's like breaking a hole in the ice that's keeping them underwater, so they can catch a breath. You don't really need to do much except be there and have love in your heart.
Mental health is health. Please get help if you need it, just as you would if you had a broken arm.
Condolences to the Pearlman clan and their friends.
"Wait, excuse me"
"Sat the f#$k down while I do my podcast" - Ms Pat
Ish cracks me up every time.
😂😂😂
if Rufus is doing security, Im wearing ear muffs
Ms Pat…I am so sorry about Lindsay (and her family). She was so damn funny. Thank you for helping her as much as you could
condolences to ms pearlman’s family & to the ms pat family…rest in power ms p…..prayers of peace & comfort to her family & all of y’all.
Miss Pat, I told my husband that if u had tickets available in October I wanted to fly to Atlanta for your party. I am from Hawaii 52 and will be 53 in November. Your special is on fire 🔥 and I’m so happy for you and your show and everything you deserve! Even if I don’t see u I will always support and love the Patdown. Aloha.🤍🔥🤙🏾🌺
I had to come hear Ms. Pat's podcast before any other on Tuesday morning.
Go watch her special on Netflix. I am going to watch it again tonight.
I bet he was talking to him with every slap..."Didn't 👋🏽 I 👋🏽 tell 👋🏽 you 👋🏽 watch 👋🏽 what 👋🏽 you 👋🏽 say 👋🏽 to me 👋🏽"
You have a heart of GOLD..Ms.pat..real talk.
Love me some ms pat and the patdown podcast. Checc’n from Cali. God bless
My condolences go out to you all. Us crack babies are praying for all of you🙏.
I hope to be selected to attend the party but if not I'm still flying in to Atlanta frim Oakland and I'll just be outside watching and enjoying the parade of folks come and go like we did outside the Exotics Erotic Ball in SF back in the 80's
Former Atlanta resident, now reside in NJ. I want to come to the party Ms Pat😍🙏🏾
Wow this is heartbreaking. RIP for real if she committed suicide she really felt pain being here, real pain and must've felt really alone. I hope she is at peace now. This really hit me because it could have been me...
I’m glad you’re still here. Please reach out if you need help ❤️
@@Betty-Boop809 💛
RIP Lindsay. What a tragic death. Please get help in you feel suicidal or depressed.
Condolences for the loss of your friend. Glad to hear you’re filming a second season!
ah damn it. lindsey just needed those shoulders. damn. rest in peace
and yea, you cant take all that on your shoulders ms. pat. brodie also was a hard one that affected a lot of the comedians i watch. watch each others back as best we can. love ms. pat fam
🙏🏽RIP Lindsey Pearlman🙏🏽
Yes and old Black men hands ain’t none to play with, they gotta get it done quickly.
and held back enough not to kill him. closed fist and that old man would be in a coma.
@@oldgroucho2203 and yes You can even see the restraint in the slaps. Sometimes you just fed up!
Listen too what ur saying..Ms.pat god got u remember that. from where u come from too now is…Winning. God bless u .
I wanna come from BUFFALO NY ...I Remember when u announced it I just hope that I can.make it. I'm just not a "Crack baby" just love ur show and your podcast! Can't WAIT for season 2
oh no! I saw this news story, and knew she looked SO familiar. How sad :(
🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾 Praying for you Ms.Pat and all your cast and Pearlman family through this tough time
RUFUS The Cacker slapper🤣🤣🤣
RIP... Lindsay🙏
So sorry for your loss. I really enjoyed her character.😞
We all have moments that we look back on and would change how we responded about a situation. Just keep on trying, it's really all we can do as humans.
I can't even pay attention because I can't stop at Deon's hairline!!!🤬
She played a great role. Unbelievable funny. I enjoyed her role.
I felt the same way Ms. Pat, like please no more! If them slaps were punches…..My Gawd!
There are actually 18.2,000 crackbabies in the Facebook group!!
Watch him flip his hat at the end. Amazing.
Sounds like October 15th is going to be a wild time. I would love to get to come to Atlanta and spend the day with Ms. Pat and the crack babies. My condolences go out to the Pearlman family, sorry for your loss.
October 15th! I gotta celebrate my 40th at the crack baby party!!
I'm so sorry for your loss sending prayers for you and her family 💞
I’m gonna Will myself at this party in Oct!!!!
God call her home. Everyone has a number too be call. Your always helping along the way..Ms.pat. Our big sister name is Patricia Williams. But her number was call. Your name gives me sooo much joy.#414
she may have had some serious health problems that she was hiding if she was prescribed those strong pain pills that they found in her car with her body. God Rest her soul.
Ol boy was baptized and consecrated into the floor.
love and blessing from Jerusalem. We love U
🕊…L.P.
Take that racism to Chili’s 🤣🤣🤣☠️
Lindsey was great. Gonna miss her this season. RIP
I laughed when you guys even mentioned the tinder swindler show boy did he go to the bank with there girls 😂🤣
I 💘 the Ms.Pat show.
👁👄👁she said she found a venue for the party
The first video has me in pieces 😂
Ms.Pat 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹 Gents 🤝🤝✊️✊️
I need a ticket. Mrs pat 😔
all the alcohol you can eat...so jello shots?
this party is a issue because i dont have a facebook😭😭😭😭
PATDOWN CRACKDOWN, IM MFIN READYYYYY.!!!
Ms. Pat be fussing with the crack babies like we are family for real. Don't yall be spoiling Handmaids Tail for her.
Only 200 people??? Fffguuuukkkk. Ima fly my ass from Canada to Atlanta. Let's gooo
Ohhhhhhh! She worked at the school!! I'm going crazy trying to remember who is this white lady I don't remember her from the miss pat show....and it came to me! I'm sorry to hear about that type of situation because it's aways like.....they never show "the signs" well sometimes, and u just wish u could've helped them ...
She must've been suffering through alot
Saying ngr all day and expect others not to say it. Hypocrites with big egos. Truth hits hard don't it.
You thought you ate that huh?? You thought you did something by saying that??? 😂😂😂😂
🚀So did Nato🚀
We fkn love you guys lol
Yeah Ms. Pat his hair ain't cut and his room ain't clean and I and mad!!!
❤
Just make sure that there is some vegan food options at the party please