Chance also worked for 15 years as a police officer, he made sacrifices for his wife when she was dreaming and stepping out on faith. They take care of each other. Each couple have to do what works best for them. Love this couple❤
You are absolutely correct! A Police Officer for 15 years! Now he has his Team Chance program "teaching life lessons through basketball" along with his Nonprofit Organization! He actually started his Team Chance program during the time he was a Police Officer which he has expanded!
i don't think most ppl are acting like that but it's clear that financially and especially spiritually she leads. she reunited them, she moved them to cali, she is in the forefront. not knocking what they doing but I'm not sure it's for me.
@@Lil08103They reunited each other. And SHE moved to Cali before him, as a team he decided they should move together with a better plan. That’s publicly shared knowledge.
@That’s Seaux Nish i'm not sure what reuniting each other even means but ok. as for california she had a vision and she moved first. the additional details doesn't change that fact. it remains that she seems to be the visionary and he is very supportive of her. love them. not the vision i have for my relationship.
I truly believe Chance is the truest definition of what a man is. A leader. Who thinks for himself and creates a plan that works for his family. And, he makes his wife feel seen, loved, appreciated and that’s one of the greatest reasons she’s flourishing.
Nothing new in that positive sounding comment. In other words " The Man is king and the woman subservient and will feel loved and appreciated according to his wishes "!
@@vincentbrown1872 there is nothing subservient about Tab. What ever she wants, her man support her, that's Love, respect and honor. They don't let the outside world dictate there union. The man is king and the woman is Queen. Who is most valuable piece on the chess board?!
@@tmuhammad717 my comment is not about Tab! It does not address anyone personally. I am merely pointing out that what may sound like a positive idea about the role of men and women is nothing more than the traditional role that goes back hundreds of years. Men lead and decide and women follow their dictates.
The problem with 50/50 is you spend to much time judging if the other person is doing their 50. Our attitude after 48 years of marriage is to see who can out do who in the giving and caring. I pay more of the bills because I make more money. She takes care of food because she knows what we need and I’d spend 30% more not knowing what’s on sale. She has her own spending more. I don’t ask her about it because in almost 50 years her purchases have never got us into trouble. We go to church together but does women’s meetings I don’t go to and I go to men’s groups she doesn’t go to. She shared in some of my passions (flying airplanes, shooting, martial arts, camping, music, etc.) but never at a level I did. She did enough to showed she cared and I didn’t push her. She likes traveling so I tagged along on trips to the Caribbean, Alaska, Hawaii that she paid for. She’s the most giving and compassionate person I know, retired registered nurse, that’s all she ever wanted to do since she was a teenager but she stayed at home to raise the kids until they were all in school full time. The only man she has know intimately is me. She was 15 when I meet her and wasn’t giving it up until there was a wedding ring on her finger (I confess I tried). She is the second greatest gift of grace to me outside of salvation in Jesus Christ, much better than I deserve.
O My Goodness Toya 😊ou are a real woman, tell it.many women need to read all of prov.31 not just 1 passage of the chapter but all of it. Wisdom and understanding in any marriage is Key 🔑
She’s definitely the definition of a proverbs 31 woman and then some. I just love them both how they both carry themselves and the humbleness that they both have. They both are two real individuals. I pray that God continues to enlarge there territory❤❤❤
It's definitely a collaboration. 40 years in, we both take care of bills. I do recall he had mortgage, I had utilities n we both shopped for food. Salute to any couple making it happen🎉we 🤸🏾♀️👍🏾
Amen❤ we have been together 43 years married, 33 years, with 5 kids. we did it just like that he pays the mortgage and some bills, I pay utilities and food
Just goes to show that it works for YOU and you have free will. Tab said she doesn’t know about 50/50, she knows about 100/100 and that’s how THEY work.
The problem in this society is everyone placing their expectations and “traditions” on other’s. It’s NO ONE else’s business or concern how you run your household and relationship. As long as theirs mutual love, respect, trust, security and an understanding in YOUR relationship, 🖕🏾what outsiders think. Do what’s best for you.
He didn't mention how before she became famous he was the support system. That part matters... now that she is famous, he doesn't have to work the police job he had. He is able to live his dream also being a coach and other endeavors. ❤
@@See-if_I_careYou’d rather write a negative narrative than believe what you see in front of you. They’ve said it themselves, time and time again, that life wasn’t always kind to their marriage, but they are in a much better place now. They don’t deny they have disagreements, and have treated each other in harsh ways. They seem to be telling the truth of life. No reason to doubt them.
@@See-if_I_care It comes off as negative. A cautionary “don’t be naive” could’ve stopped at “it’s what they choose to show to the public.” The added “don’t be fooled,” takes it in a different direction. It implies that they have the intention of tricking you. They’ve been very transparent, but even if they hadn’t, it’s a negative outlook for something that hasn’t warranted that reaction. I’m sure you meant no harm, it’s just the way it comes off. I mean no disrespect either. It just felt that way to me.
You can't compare people. This couple been together since way back when and they both had nothing. Chance supported his wife through all their struggles and set up his family with his wife for where they are now. She was able to work hard and now through all her creativity and hard work and the foundation they created. It is simply different. The paths are totally different. The harvest is different. It doesn't even make sense to include any other couples in a conversation about Chance and Tab.
Yeah!!!! We love Tab and Chance! Beautiful interview. So glad you got a chance to meet her. She will change your life. Really enjoyed this interview!❤❤❤
True marriage and love, I love this couple and I would definitely retire my husband who worked as a police in LA, to provide for my family while being supportive of my dreams... That would've been the very first thing that I done when I made my first million. It takes a real man!
When people started to go left talking against what I got at home. I put a wedge in it and protected my marriage! And that is a real man that’s what a true marriage focused mindset looks like ladies and gentleman. It’s not 50/50. It’s 100/100!!!!
50/50 does not really mean that each person does half of something. It simply means that you both work together to make the marriage work and each person does what they can do at any given moment. Sometimes it will be 50 percent. Sometimes it will be more or less.
@@joshuafootman1593 doesn't matter how much he's worth. She's doing what works best for them. We are not millionaires but far from broke. We living well.
Great topic! But, I think you have to compare similar COUPLES. My point! Tabitha and her husband started from zero together. In this case, you have no egos involved. It's easier to trust each other, in some ways you may feel your need each other's money in the beginning. As for Dwayne and Gabrielle, they came into their relationship both individually set for life. Your money is part of your life. You not giving up your money, just because you fell in love. You worked your whole life to get to that point. I think this a good topic, but just can't compare these couples...
Great Point . My parents started with nothing married 50 years. My mom stated always have a private account. I think it has nothing to do with trust. I think sometimes some men don’t think certain things are needed whether it be for the house, kids , extras , etc. You can go ahead and handle the business rather it become a conflict.
When people say 50/50 they really don’t mean it the way it’s said. They really mean 50/50 on just the bills. Not on the house chores, cooking, errands or child raising or overall support! SAY WHAT YALL REALLY MEAN 50/50 on the money for bills😂😂😂😂
It may not be anyone’s business, but they put it out there for everyone to have an opinion about it. I’m a firm believer of not giving people something to talk about when it comes to my marriage.
I believe that people should do what works for them but I am with Tab and Chance. Everything that is my husband is mine and vice versa. I think we need to stop comparing ourselves to others.
Gabrielle and Dwayne went into their marriage with a prenup and their own money. Both were married before and were the bread winners in those former marriages. Both may have had to pay their exes to get out of the marriages. It's only logical, after those experiences, that they decided to split expenses 50/50. Who knows, maybe there was resentment in the former marriages where the bread winners were paying for everything.
Here's additional context from gabby: "...what some don't understand is that I'm 100% responsible for 3 other households and D has even more. The majority of those households are elderly ppl and minors. We both come from families that step up to help care for children or elderly relatives. So being able to be with someone who meets me halfway and lightens my load gives me peace and support. He's offered to cover me trust, but that's not my ministry nor brings me peace. All that to say, I love how we recognize that there's billions of ways to exist and you just gotta find what's right for you that brings YOU peace. I found mine". --gabrielle union
@@Lil08103 thank you for posting this. Shannon and everyone else is discussing a sound bite that was used for click bate (as he is frankly) and it has completely overshadowed Gabrielle’s point. They could have discussed the financial situation or their partnership without mentioning Gabrielle. The whole “I don’t know about 50/50 we do 100/100” That commentary was unnecessary to me.
Even if one spouse stays home to raise the kids and manage the house, you both are contributing. If you have a HEALTHY marriage (no abuse or cheating) there is nothing wrong with having joint accounts. It should be the norm because you are one.
I really hate the way this clip is titled. She does not react to Gabrielle's comments. Shannon specifically asked her about HER marriage, and she answered that! Her comments have nothing to do with what the Wade's do in their marriage.
we love discussing relationship issues that will never be ours. AND the fact that we took 30 seconds of a full statement about mental health and reduced it down for a hot take is soo sad.
When you are in a true God centered marriage, there are absolutely no doubts or trust issues pertaining to your spouse. They’re bond is strong which is grounded by their faith in God!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽 So happy for them!! 💖🥰🥰🥰
Can't count out that he definitely put in work to get them to where they are today and it takes that support to be successful! They are both beautiful and I believe both played a role in Tams success! God Bless!
IDC what ANYONE thinks! When a marriage and couple are solid they build something most cannot comprehend because their vibrations are aligned. Love this couple! They are SO CAUUTE!
Good convo Shannon...i really enjoy these types of conversations that way i can reflect on my personal relationship and see if what im doing is wrong or right or if it needs alterations. Im 34 with 3 kids and a wonderful woman that i havent married as yet and its hard finding pairs thats around that age thats like minded
Don’t ever comment on anyone else’s marriage. It’s not kind plus Tabitha runs in the same circles as Gabby. ❤ Mrs. Millionairess! The disrespect of the single interviewer. Chance is her husband. He contributed to her career which means Her success is my success, my success is her success. They are so beautiful.
Now that everyone is living their lives on the internet, somehow the universe at large has an idea that they have the right to make comments that are harmful, unwanted, etc. Marriage is hard to navigate without naysayers, if it works for them, good. In the words of Sheree: “Do you, Boo.”
Worst thing you can ever do is listen to single people about your marriage. You have no clue about marriage (MOST TIMES) until you're married yourself.
The inference when u say 50-50 is I have autonomy over 1/2 of what I make. The distinction of 100-100 is everything is jointly shared and jointly controlled no matter the source. 50-50 is a partnership, where as 100-100 is sole proprietorship with two people.
@@teday8388 per the IRS: “A sole proprietor is someone who owns an unincorporated business by himself or herself.” Sole=1 Jointly shared or controlled is literally NOT that. We can’t go changing definitions to fit a narrative much like Facebook has changed the definition of friend or how Fox News has done with “news”.
@@teday8388 well said! This person took her 100/100 statement literally and didn’t fully comprehend what she truly meant! This is because this person is not married! Single people are stuck on 50/50 splits, because they want those bills paid lol😂😅 If a couple started out with nothing from ground up, they won’t have a problem sharing their income with their spouse or supporting them financially when necessary. Chance did it for 15 years as a police officer while Tab was going to auditions and pursuing her dreams. He held the fort down and made sure they had health insurance and a steady paycheck to keep the roof over their heads. Now it’s his turn for him to pursue his dreams to give back ti the community and help at risk young men! It’s a win win situation! 😊❤️🙌🏾
I feel if I could have one full day with her..she will change my whole outlook on life good and bad..she just a joy and Chance is a example of a man who supports his wife..the way they speak of each other
I respect Chance and Tab , they depended on each other , no one else in their marriage and this is the end result . They both made it work together and that is what it is about . My marriage is not perfect I see some mistakes we made and it is by the grace of God we are still married . I grew up in the city , husband grew up in the south, we were completely different on how to raise our kids together , it was an absolute mess. My God.
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Chance also worked for 15 years as a police officer, he made sacrifices for his wife when she was dreaming and stepping out on faith. They take care of each other. Each couple have to do what works best for them. Love this couple❤
Exactly you see wives sacrifice for husbands all the time bit never the other way around
@@krimsonedit3272 Idk what world you living in but it definitely ain't situated in reality.
Stop lying you just want it you just want a guy like him to be with a girl like her stop she’s but he’s been. She’s beneath him tomorrow.
I agree. You are right. Each couple has to do what works best for them.
EXACTLY
Chance risked his life everyday as a police officer for decades. I think people act as if this man never had a job.
You are absolutely correct! A Police Officer for 15 years! Now he has his Team Chance program "teaching life lessons through basketball" along with his Nonprofit Organization! He actually started his Team Chance program during the time he was a Police Officer which he has expanded!
i don't think most ppl are acting like that but it's clear that financially and especially spiritually she leads. she reunited them, she moved them to cali, she is in the forefront. not knocking what they doing but I'm not sure it's for me.
@@Lil08103They reunited each other. And SHE moved to Cali before him, as a team he decided they should move together with a better plan.
That’s publicly shared knowledge.
@That’s Seaux Nish i'm not sure what reuniting each other even means but ok. as for california she had a vision and she moved first. the additional details doesn't change that fact. it remains that she seems to be the visionary and he is very supportive of her. love them. not the vision i have for my relationship.
@@Lil08103 I don’t see that at all. He is a leader!
I truly believe Chance is the truest definition of what a man is. A leader. Who thinks for himself and creates a plan that works for his family. And, he makes his wife feel seen, loved, appreciated and that’s one of the greatest reasons she’s flourishing.
You won’t find one ☝️ so don’t even let that bother ya 😂
Nothing new in that positive sounding comment. In other words " The Man is king and the woman subservient and will feel loved and appreciated according to his wishes "!
@@vincentbrown1872 there is nothing subservient about Tab. What ever she wants, her man support her, that's Love, respect and honor. They don't let the outside world dictate there union. The man is king and the woman is Queen. Who is most valuable piece on the chess board?!
@@tmuhammad717 my comment is not about Tab! It does not address anyone personally. I am merely pointing out that what may sound like a positive idea about the role of men and women is nothing more than the traditional role that goes back hundreds of years. Men lead and decide and women follow their dictates.
I agree. He elevates and believes in his wife and supported her dream while remaining secure within himself. So many men could learn from that.
This woman is so encouraging and she seems to be so genuine. Keep shining you’ll!
Yes, let's not listen to that other one and her nonsense.
She’s a real woman!! Got mad respect for how she conducts herself 🙌🏾
Not she turns boys to girl
Lmao she feminists Hollywood
I love how she looks at him while her husband is speaking. 🎉
She’s a clown
Lol
He Was an LAPD Officer for 20+ Years ... He Deserves & Has Earned His Life Now
15. He never got a chance to retire at the 20 year mark.
@@NotSoEntertaining. My Mistake ...
It’s different when you and your wife come up together!! It truly feels like it’s ours!!
100%
Definitely!
The problem with 50/50 is you spend to much time judging if the other person is doing their 50. Our attitude after 48 years of marriage is to see who can out do who in the giving and caring. I pay more of the bills because I make more money. She takes care of food because she knows what we need and I’d spend 30% more not knowing what’s on sale. She has her own spending more. I don’t ask her about it because in almost 50 years her purchases have never got us into trouble. We go to church together but does women’s meetings I don’t go to and I go to men’s groups she doesn’t go to. She shared in some of my passions (flying airplanes, shooting, martial arts, camping, music, etc.) but never at a level I did. She did enough to showed she cared and I didn’t push her. She likes traveling so I tagged along on trips to the Caribbean, Alaska, Hawaii that she paid for. She’s the most giving and compassionate person I know, retired registered nurse, that’s all she ever wanted to do since she was a teenager but she stayed at home to raise the kids until they were all in school full time. The only man she has know intimately is me. She was 15 when I meet her and wasn’t giving it up until there was a wedding ring on her finger (I confess I tried). She is the second greatest gift of grace to me outside of salvation in Jesus Christ, much better than I deserve.
Your wife sounds awesome. ❤
He said "I confess i tried"😂😂😂
Wife sounds wonderful.
Earthangels, both of you!❤
So blessed sir ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
That's beautiful. Thank you for sharing 💙
When a Husband has a Virtuous Woman he can TRUST in Her; He has a safe place to “Lay His Head”.
GOD AND TRUST are the key.
Amen!
Glory!
O My Goodness Toya 😊ou are a real woman, tell it.many women need to read all of prov.31 not just 1 passage of the chapter but all of it. Wisdom and understanding in any marriage is Key 🔑
What about a virtuous husband? They both have to lay their heads next to each other.
Shay Shay is an amazing interviewer. He knows how to talk about difficult things and say things in a very tactful and respectful way. Love him
Agree
She’s definitely the definition of a proverbs 31 woman and then some. I just love them both how they both carry themselves and the humbleness that they both have. They both are two real individuals. I pray that God continues to enlarge there territory❤❤❤
He took care of things too for a while before she got her big break. He is a mature, secure man! That is why it works ....wishing them the best❤
Exactly! To me Chance is the definition of a provider.
Chance was a true provider & take care of his household, while his wife made sure there home was a home while she pursued her dream.
It's definitely a collaboration. 40 years in, we both take care of bills. I do recall he had mortgage, I had utilities n we both shopped for food. Salute to any couple making it happen🎉we 🤸🏾♀️👍🏾
Amen❤ we have been together 43 years married, 33 years, with 5 kids. we did it just like that he pays the mortgage and some bills, I pay utilities and food
@@deveelea4661 praises young lady 👏🏾💕👍🏾
Utilities as in gas and lights 😂 and y'all both split the grocery bill? Your pockets are way fatter than his
@@GQ-jv9uw ✌🏾 & 🙌🏾
Yikes
Married for 19 years and we've NEVER shared an account. Plenty of peace in my household
Yessssss and it works for you and it doesn’t mean that couples that do are better than you❤AMEN!
Amen same here
Just goes to show that it works for YOU and you have free will. Tab said she doesn’t know about 50/50, she knows about 100/100 and that’s how THEY work.
right! like to each his own
Everyone’s relationship is different
I just love the realness of her!! So good to see authentic people! Life is about happiness!! Whatever works for you, do it!
The problem in this society is everyone placing their expectations and “traditions” on other’s. It’s NO ONE else’s business or concern how you run your household and relationship. As long as theirs mutual love, respect, trust, security and an understanding in YOUR relationship, 🖕🏾what outsiders think. Do what’s best for you.
Sayyyyy that!!!
Say it LOUDER!!!
👍
Exactly
This right here.!
We got Tab on unc show? This is for the culture. So glad Tab is getting her due coverage, and it’s great to see her with her man.
This couple is setting a wonderful standard for what real relationships are like and how to keep it getting better ❤
Things I learned over the years. Keep my business to mystelf. If I get married. Keep my marriage in our household.
my parents been married 35/36 years an they do 100/100. do what works for you and your spouse.
He didn't mention how before she became famous he was the support system. That part matters... now that she is famous, he doesn't have to work the police job he had. He is able to live his dream also being a coach and other endeavors. ❤
This couple is a great example of what marriage can be and I love this show.
It's what they choose to show the public. You don't know what they do in their private lives. Don't be fooled
@@See-if_I_careYou’d rather write a negative narrative than believe what you see in front of you. They’ve said it themselves, time and time again, that life wasn’t always kind to their marriage, but they are in a much better place now. They don’t deny they have disagreements, and have treated each other in harsh ways. They seem to be telling the truth of life. No reason to doubt them.
@@289rory what's wrong with what I said?
@@See-if_I_care It comes off as negative. A cautionary “don’t be naive” could’ve stopped at “it’s what they choose to show to the public.” The added “don’t be fooled,” takes it in a different direction. It implies that they have the intention of tricking you. They’ve been very transparent, but even if they hadn’t, it’s a negative outlook for something that hasn’t warranted that reaction. I’m sure you meant no harm, it’s just the way it comes off. I mean no disrespect either. It just felt that way to me.
@@289rory Well it is the truth 🤷
Let's also not forget Tabitha husband was the bread winner while she was jump starting the empire.
They BW don't care
If it was a WM they'd be praising him
I just love Tab and Chance. You can tell they genuinely like each other.
You can't compare people. This couple been together since way back when and they both had nothing. Chance supported his wife through all their struggles and set up his family with his wife for where they are now. She was able to work hard and now through all her creativity and hard work and the foundation they created. It is simply different. The paths are totally different. The harvest is different. It doesn't even make sense to include any other couples in a conversation about Chance and Tab.
I completely agree.
All of this👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I am sure that SHE supported him too.
Yeah!!!! We love Tab and Chance! Beautiful interview. So glad you got a chance to meet her. She will change your life. Really enjoyed this interview!❤❤❤
Marriage is a private affair. People don't really need or should speak on their personal marriage....
I always said the same thing......
Say it louder please!!! I don’t understand all this oversharing about personal business
LOUDER!
I agree. This is too much.
How is marriage a private affair? Ya'll sound ignorant.
True marriage and love, I love this couple and I would definitely retire my husband who worked as a police in LA, to provide for my family while being supportive of my dreams... That would've been the very first thing that I done when I made my first million. It takes a real man!
Now they really love each other ❤❤❤❤❤
When people started to go left talking against what I got at home. I put a wedge in it and protected my marriage! And that is a real man that’s what a true marriage focused mindset looks like ladies and gentleman.
It’s not 50/50. It’s 100/100!!!!
50/50 does not really mean that each person does half of something. It simply means that you both work together to make the marriage work and each person does what they can do at any given moment. Sometimes it will be 50 percent. Sometimes it will be more or less.
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I just finished reading her book. She is the best. 😊
Me and my husband 50/50 with separate accounts. Been together 19yrs. It works for us.
Exactly it sharing responsibilities. People do what's best for them.
Yea but your husband isn't worth $200 million 😂😂
@@joshuafootman1593 doesn't matter how much he's worth. She's doing what works best for them. We are not millionaires but far from broke. We living well.
She's living out her dreams and has her life long partner by her side. ❤❤❤
Great topic! But, I think you have to compare similar COUPLES. My point! Tabitha and her husband started from zero together. In this case, you have no egos involved. It's easier to trust each other, in some ways you may feel your need each other's money in the beginning. As for Dwayne and Gabrielle, they came into their relationship both individually set for life. Your money is part of your life. You not giving up your money, just because you fell in love. You worked your whole life to get to that point. I think this a good topic, but just can't compare these couples...
Great Point . My parents started with nothing married 50 years. My mom stated always have a private account. I think it has nothing to do with trust. I think sometimes some men don’t think certain things are needed whether it be for the house, kids , extras , etc. You can go ahead and handle the business rather it become a conflict.
Wow well said 🤌🤌 thank you
When people say 50/50 they really don’t mean it the way it’s said. They really mean 50/50 on just the bills. Not on the house chores, cooking, errands or child raising or overall support! SAY WHAT YALL REALLY MEAN 50/50 on the money for bills😂😂😂😂
It’s none of anyone’s business let them do what they want.
It may not be anyone’s business, but they put it out there for everyone to have an opinion about it. I’m a firm believer of not giving people something to talk about when it comes to my marriage.
That's true.
We not here to judge.
As long as they are not promoting their lifestyle to children, nobody should care.
@@malindayoungblood40 That’s what wrong with people it’s nothing to talk about.It’s there marriage and it works for them case close.
Uncle Shay is back with my favorite person ms. hello there! 🙏🏾🐐
yo
Their life
Their choice
Their business
Exactly 💯 it really is just that simple.
Period.
I see pure maturity in their relationship 👏🏾💕
Agreements are best kept, between couples. I admire their marriage. Awesome interview!😊
I can’t stand people who act like their way is the right way. That’s just not how life works
Shut up
Exactly
Their way is the right way…for them.
@@tboogie38 totally.
What did they say that made you think they were saying their way was the right way?
I believe that people should do what works for them but I am with Tab and Chance. Everything that is my husband is mine and vice versa. I think we need to stop comparing ourselves to others.
The way she looks at her husband speaks is everything
Gabrielle and Dwayne went into their marriage with a prenup and their own money. Both were married before and were the bread winners in those former marriages. Both may have had to pay their exes to get out of the marriages. It's only logical, after those experiences, that they decided to split expenses 50/50. Who knows, maybe there was resentment in the former marriages where the bread winners were paying for everything.
And fresh off their infidelity! Big difference!
Here's additional context from gabby:
"...what some don't understand is that I'm 100% responsible for 3 other households and D has even more. The majority of those households are elderly ppl and minors. We both come from families that step up to help care for children or elderly relatives. So being able to be with someone who meets me halfway and lightens my load gives me peace and support. He's offered to cover me trust, but that's not my ministry nor brings me peace. All that to say, I love how we recognize that there's billions of ways to exist and you just gotta find what's right for you that brings YOU peace. I found mine". --gabrielle union
@@Lil08103 thank you for posting this. Shannon and everyone else is discussing a sound bite that was used for click bate (as he is frankly) and it has completely overshadowed Gabrielle’s point. They could have discussed the financial situation or their partnership without mentioning Gabrielle. The whole “I don’t know about 50/50 we do 100/100” That commentary was unnecessary to me.
@Rayy4Pres you're welcome and i completely agree with you.
Nawl gab is foolish & not happy u can tell
Chance and Tab are a Rare Breed--- 100/100 is the Way it Should Be!!! ❤
I love how she look at him! So amazing she love her man and he love her.
I love this interview
Same here 25 years in One account together what’s ours is ours ☮️❤️💡
I will always have my own bank account married or not.
You better SELF PRESERVATION that’s all!❤
When he was speaking you can see the respect and admiration she has for him ❤️
Even if one spouse stays home to raise the kids and manage the house, you both are contributing. If you have a HEALTHY marriage (no abuse or cheating) there is nothing wrong with having joint accounts. It should be the norm because you are one.
I really hate the way this clip is titled. She does not react to Gabrielle's comments. Shannon specifically asked her about HER marriage, and she answered that! Her comments have nothing to do with what the Wade's do in their marriage.
we love discussing relationship issues that will never be ours. AND the fact that we took 30 seconds of a full statement about mental health and reduced it down for a hot take is soo sad.
boom!
They are both such beautiful souls!!! I’m incredibly proud of them!
😂😂 shay shay is funny AF yet very serious and professional. Great show.
I love that Chance said, I’m cool with it!! Ha!!
When you are in a true God centered marriage, there are absolutely no doubts or trust issues pertaining to your spouse. They’re bond is strong which is grounded by their faith in God!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
So happy for them!! 💖🥰🥰🥰
Can't count out that he definitely put in work to get them to where they are today and it takes that support to be successful! They are both beautiful and I believe both played a role in Tams success! God Bless!
If anybody don’t think a relationship should be 50/50 and 80/20 or 100/0 u ain’t 💩
Phrasing. Punctuation. Sounds like you only have a problem with those 3 splits 😅
Facts 😂
This hurt my brain to read. Someone please translate what bruh just said.
@@seowth And grammar.
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I simply LOVE and ADORE this Extremely Beautiful Couple. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Simple interview with real insight…❤it.
Talk about Tab and Chance 🗣🗣🗣‼️
Stick to the script...we're going to make it! No exceptions and no detours🙏🏾🙌🏾
IDC what ANYONE thinks! When a marriage and couple are solid they build something most cannot comprehend because their vibrations are aligned. Love this couple! They are SO CAUUTE!
Not y’all was down to the call center. 😹 I love them so much! So much NC realness. 💙
They are One! And that’s a marriage❤️❤️🌹🌹
Good convo Shannon...i really enjoy these types of conversations that way i can reflect on my personal relationship and see if what im doing is wrong or right or if it needs alterations. Im 34 with 3 kids and a wonderful woman that i havent married as yet and its hard finding pairs thats around that age thats like minded
I think what ppl have to remember is what may work for one couple may not work for others. You have to know your partner and communication is key.
Love me some tab and chance 🩷🩷🩷
Beautiful ❤️ Proven that working together as one can be accomplished!!!
She’s keeping her eyes on him all time ! When he’s talking ! No looking the other way !!! Blessing women
Tab & Chance make it work! I hope they continue to be successful outchea
This is a marriage that I respect! It’s an old school method but it works!❤❤❤❤❤
Biblical based marriages are total different from "traditional" marriages. Ain't no 50/50, we are one.
Biblical? Are they Christians?
I love Tab and Chance! Your marriage is yours ! No one has the secret sauce for a great marriage! Marriage is work! Both must want it to work!
I love the energy between these two...
Love this couple
Everybody's marriage is different a person has to do what's best for their marriage!!!!!!
Shay got 1mm and now he's rocking chains. Shannon you better not change on us!! LOL, keep doing your thing. I followed you since the 2-3K sub mark.
I love what he said about protect what he has going in his household. That’s Divine masculine energy right there. Guardian of the external.
Don’t ever comment on anyone else’s marriage. It’s not kind plus Tabitha runs in the same circles as Gabby. ❤ Mrs. Millionairess!
The disrespect of the single interviewer. Chance is her husband. He contributed to her career which means Her success is my success, my success is her success. They are so beautiful.
She respects and loves him I love how she looks at her husband of admiration and he’s so confident
Now that everyone is living their lives on the internet, somehow the universe at large has an idea that they have the right to make comments that are harmful, unwanted, etc. Marriage is hard to navigate without naysayers, if it works for them, good. In the words of Sheree: “Do you, Boo.”
Ugh I freaking love this and them. 🙌🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼
Worst thing you can ever do is listen to single people about your marriage. You have no clue about marriage (MOST TIMES) until you're married yourself.
The idea of 100/100 is an oxymoron. It like “unthawing” something frozen. If both parties give their all, it is still 50% of the whole.
The inference when u say 50-50 is I have autonomy over 1/2 of what I make. The distinction of 100-100 is everything is jointly shared and jointly controlled no matter the source. 50-50 is a partnership, where as 100-100 is sole proprietorship with two people.
@@teday8388 per the IRS: “A sole proprietor is someone who owns an unincorporated business by himself or herself.” Sole=1
Jointly shared or controlled is literally NOT that. We can’t go changing definitions to fit a narrative much like Facebook has changed the definition of friend or how Fox News has done with “news”.
@@teday8388 well said! This person took her 100/100 statement literally and didn’t fully comprehend what she truly meant! This is because this person is not married! Single people are stuck on 50/50 splits, because they want those bills paid lol😂😅
If a couple started out with nothing from ground up, they won’t have a problem sharing their income with their spouse or supporting them financially when necessary. Chance did it for 15 years as a police officer while Tab was going to auditions and pursuing her dreams. He held the fort down and made sure they had health insurance and a steady paycheck to keep the roof over their heads. Now it’s his turn for him to pursue his dreams to give back ti the community and help at risk young men! It’s a win win situation! 😊❤️🙌🏾
Amen to that! 100/100 over here as well. 50/50 was when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend
I feel that each couple has to do what works for them. All marriages are different depending on the situation.
Beautiful, positive, encouraging couple! ❤🙏🏾
That’s why Tab, your marriage will last forever. The most unselfish love i’ve ever seen.
Once again.... people do what they want 🤷🏿♂️
GREAT INTERVIEW 🎉
Thanks for the gems.
I feel if I could have one full day with her..she will change my whole outlook on life good and bad..she just a joy and Chance is a example of a man who supports his wife..the way they speak of each other
THIS ❤IS SO RARE TO FIND!
100/100 in our household as well. Works great for us
When I was married we went by the whoever got paid first rule. All bills was paid on my acct though .
It works for them. That's all I can say
KEY LESSON: Only associate with like-minded married couples.
I respect Chance and Tab , they depended on each other , no one else in their marriage and this is the end result . They both made it work together and that is what it is about . My marriage is not perfect I see some mistakes we made and it is by the grace of God we are still married . I grew up in the city , husband grew up in the south, we were completely different on how to raise our kids together , it was an absolute mess. My God.