Tabitha Brown Reacts To Gabrielle Union & Dwyane Wade Marriage Being 50/50: 'Ours is 100/100'

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  • @ClubShayShay
    @ClubShayShay  Год назад +6

    🎧: sprtspod.fox/Ep.81
    📺: sprtspod.fox/TabithaBrown

  • @yvonnewilliams8800
    @yvonnewilliams8800 Год назад +1166

    Chance also worked for 15 years as a police officer, he made sacrifices for his wife when she was dreaming and stepping out on faith. They take care of each other. Each couple have to do what works best for them. Love this couple❤

    • @krimsonedit3272
      @krimsonedit3272 Год назад +28

      Exactly you see wives sacrifice for husbands all the time bit never the other way around

    • @waynemarsh1530
      @waynemarsh1530 Год назад +10

      @@krimsonedit3272 Idk what world you living in but it definitely ain't situated in reality.

    • @Bluewolf23able
      @Bluewolf23able Год назад +1

      Stop lying you just want it you just want a guy like him to be with a girl like her stop she’s but he’s been. She’s beneath him tomorrow.

    • @WaterChild1
      @WaterChild1 Год назад +11

      I agree. You are right. Each couple has to do what works best for them.

    • @msthang5366
      @msthang5366 Год назад +1

      EXACTLY

  • @kevinharris3993
    @kevinharris3993 Год назад +762

    Chance risked his life everyday as a police officer for decades. I think people act as if this man never had a job.

    • @mosue3200
      @mosue3200 Год назад +68

      You are absolutely correct! A Police Officer for 15 years! Now he has his Team Chance program "teaching life lessons through basketball" along with his Nonprofit Organization! He actually started his Team Chance program during the time he was a Police Officer which he has expanded!

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 Год назад +11

      i don't think most ppl are acting like that but it's clear that financially and especially spiritually she leads. she reunited them, she moved them to cali, she is in the forefront. not knocking what they doing but I'm not sure it's for me.

    • @thatsseauxnish_
      @thatsseauxnish_ Год назад +33

      @@Lil08103They reunited each other. And SHE moved to Cali before him, as a team he decided they should move together with a better plan.
      That’s publicly shared knowledge.

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 Год назад +6

      @That’s Seaux Nish i'm not sure what reuniting each other even means but ok. as for california she had a vision and she moved first. the additional details doesn't change that fact. it remains that she seems to be the visionary and he is very supportive of her. love them. not the vision i have for my relationship.

    • @exploreroftruthandbeauty599
      @exploreroftruthandbeauty599 Год назад +20

      @@Lil08103 I don’t see that at all. He is a leader!

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 Год назад +545

    I truly believe Chance is the truest definition of what a man is. A leader. Who thinks for himself and creates a plan that works for his family. And, he makes his wife feel seen, loved, appreciated and that’s one of the greatest reasons she’s flourishing.

    • @duncanpenderhughes8865
      @duncanpenderhughes8865 Год назад

      You won’t find one ☝️ so don’t even let that bother ya 😂

    • @vincentbrown1872
      @vincentbrown1872 Год назад

      Nothing new in that positive sounding comment. In other words " The Man is king and the woman subservient and will feel loved and appreciated according to his wishes "!

    • @tmuhammad717
      @tmuhammad717 Год назад +11

      @@vincentbrown1872 there is nothing subservient about Tab. What ever she wants, her man support her, that's Love, respect and honor. They don't let the outside world dictate there union. The man is king and the woman is Queen. Who is most valuable piece on the chess board?!

    • @vincentbrown1872
      @vincentbrown1872 Год назад

      @@tmuhammad717 my comment is not about Tab! It does not address anyone personally. I am merely pointing out that what may sound like a positive idea about the role of men and women is nothing more than the traditional role that goes back hundreds of years. Men lead and decide and women follow their dictates.

    • @deontaer
      @deontaer Год назад +13

      I agree. He elevates and believes in his wife and supported her dream while remaining secure within himself. So many men could learn from that.

  • @pmh1nic
    @pmh1nic Год назад +442

    The problem with 50/50 is you spend to much time judging if the other person is doing their 50. Our attitude after 48 years of marriage is to see who can out do who in the giving and caring. I pay more of the bills because I make more money. She takes care of food because she knows what we need and I’d spend 30% more not knowing what’s on sale. She has her own spending more. I don’t ask her about it because in almost 50 years her purchases have never got us into trouble. We go to church together but does women’s meetings I don’t go to and I go to men’s groups she doesn’t go to. She shared in some of my passions (flying airplanes, shooting, martial arts, camping, music, etc.) but never at a level I did. She did enough to showed she cared and I didn’t push her. She likes traveling so I tagged along on trips to the Caribbean, Alaska, Hawaii that she paid for. She’s the most giving and compassionate person I know, retired registered nurse, that’s all she ever wanted to do since she was a teenager but she stayed at home to raise the kids until they were all in school full time. The only man she has know intimately is me. She was 15 when I meet her and wasn’t giving it up until there was a wedding ring on her finger (I confess I tried). She is the second greatest gift of grace to me outside of salvation in Jesus Christ, much better than I deserve.

    • @Fsteezysk8z
      @Fsteezysk8z Год назад +19

      Your wife sounds awesome. ❤

    • @jeromejerome940
      @jeromejerome940 Год назад +29

      He said "I confess i tried"😂😂😂
      Wife sounds wonderful.

    • @mesinah8315
      @mesinah8315 Год назад +9

      Earthangels, both of you!❤

    • @jeanine945
      @jeanine945 Год назад +7

      So blessed sir ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @elmyra.jackson
      @elmyra.jackson Год назад +13

      That's beautiful. Thank you for sharing 💙

  • @normanfreeman6191
    @normanfreeman6191 Год назад +240

    This woman is so encouraging and she seems to be so genuine. Keep shining you’ll!

    • @moniqueuu8777
      @moniqueuu8777 Год назад

      Yes, let's not listen to that other one and her nonsense.

  • @TOYAJAVONNE
    @TOYAJAVONNE Год назад +238

    When a Husband has a Virtuous Woman he can TRUST in Her; He has a safe place to “Lay His Head”.

    • @MegaDaprice
      @MegaDaprice Год назад +5

      GOD AND TRUST are the key.

    • @vickiea.7194
      @vickiea.7194 Год назад +1

      Amen!

    • @smcdade4577
      @smcdade4577 Год назад

      Glory!

    • @giaphdministrynetworktvjoa8836
      @giaphdministrynetworktvjoa8836 Год назад

      O My Goodness Toya 😊ou are a real woman, tell it.many women need to read all of prov.31 not just 1 passage of the chapter but all of it. Wisdom and understanding in any marriage is Key 🔑

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt Год назад

      What about a virtuous husband? They both have to lay their heads next to each other.

  • @georgeblack24
    @georgeblack24 Год назад +468

    She’s a real woman!! Got mad respect for how she conducts herself 🙌🏾

  • @frankbonini7085
    @frankbonini7085 Год назад +186

    He Was an LAPD Officer for 20+ Years ... He Deserves & Has Earned His Life Now

  • @backyardbullies9105
    @backyardbullies9105 Год назад +198

    It’s different when you and your wife come up together!! It truly feels like it’s ours!!

  • @Jade-Phoenix
    @Jade-Phoenix Год назад +83

    Shay Shay is an amazing interviewer. He knows how to talk about difficult things and say things in a very tactful and respectful way. Love him

  • @tashadavis4936
    @tashadavis4936 Год назад +56

    She’s definitely the definition of a proverbs 31 woman and then some. I just love them both how they both carry themselves and the humbleness that they both have. They both are two real individuals. I pray that God continues to enlarge there territory❤❤❤

  • @MansaX
    @MansaX Год назад +56

    Married for 19 years and we've NEVER shared an account. Plenty of peace in my household

    • @ABreakWithDawn
      @ABreakWithDawn Год назад +18

      Yessssss and it works for you and it doesn’t mean that couples that do are better than you❤AMEN!

    • @brettthomas6327
      @brettthomas6327 Год назад +4

      Amen same here

    • @mekawilson4938
      @mekawilson4938 Год назад +19

      Just goes to show that it works for YOU and you have free will. Tab said she doesn’t know about 50/50, she knows about 100/100 and that’s how THEY work.

    • @tawshisms
      @tawshisms Год назад +7

      right! like to each his own

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 Год назад +2

      Everyone’s relationship is different

  • @tiktokchallenges1628
    @tiktokchallenges1628 Год назад +121

    He took care of things too for a while before she got her big break. He is a mature, secure man! That is why it works ....wishing them the best❤

    • @DW-es2en
      @DW-es2en Год назад +9

      Exactly! To me Chance is the definition of a provider.

    • @Micahsophia
      @Micahsophia Год назад +3

      Chance was a true provider & take care of his household, while his wife made sure there home was a home while she pursued her dream.

  • @montraedavis2201
    @montraedavis2201 Год назад +39

    I just love the realness of her!! So good to see authentic people! Life is about happiness!! Whatever works for you, do it!

  • @t0rchbearer
    @t0rchbearer Год назад +37

    We got Tab on unc show? This is for the culture. So glad Tab is getting her due coverage, and it’s great to see her with her man.

  • @NicholeWilderBrown
    @NicholeWilderBrown Год назад +58

    This couple is setting a wonderful standard for what real relationships are like and how to keep it getting better ❤

  • @doreenisblessed1234
    @doreenisblessed1234 Год назад +135

    It's definitely a collaboration. 40 years in, we both take care of bills. I do recall he had mortgage, I had utilities n we both shopped for food. Salute to any couple making it happen🎉we 🤸🏾‍♀️👍🏾

    • @deveelea4661
      @deveelea4661 Год назад +3

      Amen❤ we have been together 43 years married, 33 years, with 5 kids. we did it just like that he pays the mortgage and some bills, I pay utilities and food

    • @doreenisblessed1234
      @doreenisblessed1234 Год назад +1

      @@deveelea4661 praises young lady 👏🏾💕👍🏾

    • @GQ-jv9uw
      @GQ-jv9uw Год назад +2

      Utilities as in gas and lights 😂 and y'all both split the grocery bill? Your pockets are way fatter than his

    • @doreenisblessed1234
      @doreenisblessed1234 Год назад +1

      @@GQ-jv9uw ✌🏾 & 🙌🏾

    • @celestialextraterrestrial305
      @celestialextraterrestrial305 Год назад +2

      Yikes

  • @nonelikememe
    @nonelikememe Год назад +23

    Things I learned over the years. Keep my business to mystelf. If I get married. Keep my marriage in our household.

  • @laurenlewis1902
    @laurenlewis1902 Год назад +45

    my parents been married 35/36 years an they do 100/100. do what works for you and your spouse.

  • @deontaer
    @deontaer Год назад +311

    The problem in this society is everyone placing their expectations and “traditions” on other’s. It’s NO ONE else’s business or concern how you run your household and relationship. As long as theirs mutual love, respect, trust, security and an understanding in YOUR relationship, 🖕🏾what outsiders think. Do what’s best for you.

  • @ljackson207
    @ljackson207 Год назад +20

    I just love Tab and Chance. You can tell they genuinely like each other.

  • @secretsociety1111
    @secretsociety1111 Год назад +43

    He didn't mention how before she became famous he was the support system. That part matters... now that she is famous, he doesn't have to work the police job he had. He is able to live his dream also being a coach and other endeavors. ❤

  • @latonya6451
    @latonya6451 Год назад +43

    Let's also not forget Tabitha husband was the bread winner while she was jump starting the empire.

    • @demetriusevans4139
      @demetriusevans4139 Год назад +2

      They BW don't care
      If it was a WM they'd be praising him

  • @fawcett2054
    @fawcett2054 Год назад +41

    True marriage and love, I love this couple and I would definitely retire my husband who worked as a police in LA, to provide for my family while being supportive of my dreams... That would've been the very first thing that I done when I made my first million. It takes a real man!

  • @EmpressFerra
    @EmpressFerra Год назад +54

    This couple is a great example of what marriage can be and I love this show.

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Год назад

      It's what they choose to show the public. You don't know what they do in their private lives. Don't be fooled

    • @289rory
      @289rory Год назад +3

      ⁠@@See-if_I_careYou’d rather write a negative narrative than believe what you see in front of you. They’ve said it themselves, time and time again, that life wasn’t always kind to their marriage, but they are in a much better place now. They don’t deny they have disagreements, and have treated each other in harsh ways. They seem to be telling the truth of life. No reason to doubt them.

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Год назад

      @@289rory what's wrong with what I said?

    • @289rory
      @289rory Год назад +2

      @@See-if_I_care It comes off as negative. A cautionary “don’t be naive” could’ve stopped at “it’s what they choose to show to the public.” The added “don’t be fooled,” takes it in a different direction. It implies that they have the intention of tricking you. They’ve been very transparent, but even if they hadn’t, it’s a negative outlook for something that hasn’t warranted that reaction. I’m sure you meant no harm, it’s just the way it comes off. I mean no disrespect either. It just felt that way to me.

    • @See-if_I_care
      @See-if_I_care Год назад

      @@289rory Well it is the truth 🤷

  • @opsgrunt
    @opsgrunt Год назад +62

    You can't compare people. This couple been together since way back when and they both had nothing. Chance supported his wife through all their struggles and set up his family with his wife for where they are now. She was able to work hard and now through all her creativity and hard work and the foundation they created. It is simply different. The paths are totally different. The harvest is different. It doesn't even make sense to include any other couples in a conversation about Chance and Tab.

    • @BoMaBriGgs
      @BoMaBriGgs Год назад +6

      I completely agree.

    • @mamapsims
      @mamapsims Год назад

      All of this👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt Год назад

      I am sure that SHE supported him too.

  • @Baby_Locs
    @Baby_Locs Год назад +22

    When people started to go left talking against what I got at home. I put a wedge in it and protected my marriage! And that is a real man that’s what a true marriage focused mindset looks like ladies and gentleman.
    It’s not 50/50. It’s 100/100!!!!

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt Год назад

      50/50 does not really mean that each person does half of something. It simply means that you both work together to make the marriage work and each person does what they can do at any given moment. Sometimes it will be 50 percent. Sometimes it will be more or less.

    • @shalandawhite-g1j
      @shalandawhite-g1j Год назад

  • @evelyntaylor4470
    @evelyntaylor4470 Год назад +83

    Marriage is a private affair. People don't really need or should speak on their personal marriage....

    • @latoya-ul6km
      @latoya-ul6km Год назад +2

      I always said the same thing......

    • @theshadysunshine
      @theshadysunshine Год назад +7

      Say it louder please!!! I don’t understand all this oversharing about personal business

    • @nataliewebb9613
      @nataliewebb9613 Год назад +1

      LOUDER!

    • @40ozTea
      @40ozTea Год назад +1

      I agree. This is too much.

    • @rayecaters2u
      @rayecaters2u Год назад +3

      How is marriage a private affair? Ya'll sound ignorant.

  • @wubbsie1
    @wubbsie1 Год назад +12

    Yeah!!!! We love Tab and Chance! Beautiful interview. So glad you got a chance to meet her. She will change your life. Really enjoyed this interview!❤❤❤

  • @ll8432
    @ll8432 Год назад +24

    I just finished reading her book. She is the best. 😊

  • @grangran6727
    @grangran6727 Год назад +29

    Their life
    Their choice
    Their business

  • @Mech537
    @Mech537 Год назад +18

    Me and my husband 50/50 with separate accounts. Been together 19yrs. It works for us.

    • @nia39
      @nia39 Год назад

      Exactly it sharing responsibilities. People do what's best for them.

    • @joshuafootman1593
      @joshuafootman1593 Год назад

      Yea but your husband isn't worth $200 million 😂😂

    • @Mech537
      @Mech537 Год назад +1

      @@joshuafootman1593 doesn't matter how much he's worth. She's doing what works best for them. We are not millionaires but far from broke. We living well.

  • @silkwrap7675
    @silkwrap7675 Год назад +16

    She's living out her dreams and has her life long partner by her side. ❤❤❤

  • @mygodisawesome6121
    @mygodisawesome6121 Год назад +27

    Now they really love each other ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jayyygjayyyg7733
    @jayyygjayyyg7733 Год назад +28

    Great topic! But, I think you have to compare similar COUPLES. My point! Tabitha and her husband started from zero together. In this case, you have no egos involved. It's easier to trust each other, in some ways you may feel your need each other's money in the beginning. As for Dwayne and Gabrielle, they came into their relationship both individually set for life. Your money is part of your life. You not giving up your money, just because you fell in love. You worked your whole life to get to that point. I think this a good topic, but just can't compare these couples...

    • @ABreakWithDawn
      @ABreakWithDawn Год назад

      Great Point . My parents started with nothing married 50 years. My mom stated always have a private account. I think it has nothing to do with trust. I think sometimes some men don’t think certain things are needed whether it be for the house, kids , extras , etc. You can go ahead and handle the business rather it become a conflict.

    • @thembilendlovu9027
      @thembilendlovu9027 Год назад

      Wow well said 🤌🤌 thank you

  • @tinyh985
    @tinyh985 Год назад +1

    The way she looks at her husband speaks is everything

  • @Ms.Zen1920
    @Ms.Zen1920 Год назад +5

    Agreements are best kept, between couples. I admire their marriage. Awesome interview!😊

  • @theshadysunshine
    @theshadysunshine Год назад +24

    I can’t stand people who act like their way is the right way. That’s just not how life works

    • @okra3000
      @okra3000 Год назад

      Shut up

    • @iamenough6958
      @iamenough6958 Год назад +2

      Exactly

    • @tboogie38
      @tboogie38 Год назад +1

      Their way is the right way…for them.

    • @theshadysunshine
      @theshadysunshine Год назад

      @@tboogie38 totally.

    • @kimcarter2293
      @kimcarter2293 Год назад

      What did they say that made you think they were saying their way was the right way?

  • @NaNa-er4sw
    @NaNa-er4sw Год назад +5

    I see pure maturity in their relationship 👏🏾💕

  • @belindahearn6404
    @belindahearn6404 Год назад +19

    I believe that people should do what works for them but I am with Tab and Chance. Everything that is my husband is mine and vice versa. I think we need to stop comparing ourselves to others.

  • @Wall0fCatz
    @Wall0fCatz Год назад +14

    When people say 50/50 they really don’t mean it the way it’s said. They really mean 50/50 on just the bills. Not on the house chores, cooking, errands or child raising or overall support! SAY WHAT YALL REALLY MEAN 50/50 on the money for bills😂😂😂😂

  • @robertmoon9756
    @robertmoon9756 Год назад +83

    It’s none of anyone’s business let them do what they want.

    • @malindayoungblood40
      @malindayoungblood40 Год назад +24

      It may not be anyone’s business, but they put it out there for everyone to have an opinion about it. I’m a firm believer of not giving people something to talk about when it comes to my marriage.

    • @terrellstamps1181
      @terrellstamps1181 Год назад +3

      That's true.

    • @terrellstamps1181
      @terrellstamps1181 Год назад

      We not here to judge.

    • @Amongero07
      @Amongero07 Год назад +1

      As long as they are not promoting their lifestyle to children, nobody should care.

    • @robertmoon9756
      @robertmoon9756 Год назад +6

      @@malindayoungblood40 That’s what wrong with people it’s nothing to talk about.It’s there marriage and it works for them case close.

  • @marvinsanders3847
    @marvinsanders3847 Год назад +2

    I love how she look at him! So amazing she love her man and he love her.

  • @Wendy17719
    @Wendy17719 Год назад +25

    Gabrielle and Dwayne went into their marriage with a prenup and their own money. Both were married before and were the bread winners in those former marriages. Both may have had to pay their exes to get out of the marriages. It's only logical, after those experiences, that they decided to split expenses 50/50. Who knows, maybe there was resentment in the former marriages where the bread winners were paying for everything.

    • @princessbc9791
      @princessbc9791 Год назад +5

      And fresh off their infidelity! Big difference!

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 Год назад +24

      Here's additional context from gabby:
      "...what some don't understand is that I'm 100% responsible for 3 other households and D has even more. The majority of those households are elderly ppl and minors. We both come from families that step up to help care for children or elderly relatives. So being able to be with someone who meets me halfway and lightens my load gives me peace and support. He's offered to cover me trust, but that's not my ministry nor brings me peace. All that to say, I love how we recognize that there's billions of ways to exist and you just gotta find what's right for you that brings YOU peace. I found mine". --gabrielle union

    • @rayy4pres194
      @rayy4pres194 Год назад +7

      @@Lil08103 thank you for posting this. Shannon and everyone else is discussing a sound bite that was used for click bate (as he is frankly) and it has completely overshadowed Gabrielle’s point. They could have discussed the financial situation or their partnership without mentioning Gabrielle. The whole “I don’t know about 50/50 we do 100/100” That commentary was unnecessary to me.

    • @Lil08103
      @Lil08103 Год назад +1

      @Rayy4Pres you're welcome and i completely agree with you.

    • @Micahsophia
      @Micahsophia Год назад +2

      Nawl gab is foolish & not happy u can tell

  • @keyshuwnmcclennon
    @keyshuwnmcclennon Год назад +22

    Uncle Shay is back with my favorite person ms. hello there! 🙏🏾🐐

  • @dtimms
    @dtimms Год назад +8

    I love this interview

  • @sonyalambcomer1369
    @sonyalambcomer1369 Год назад +6

    Chance and Tab are a Rare Breed--- 100/100 is the Way it Should Be!!! ❤

  • @godsconstruction
    @godsconstruction Год назад +3

    Same here 25 years in One account together what’s ours is ours ☮️❤️💡

  • @SLB_888
    @SLB_888 Год назад +2

    When he was speaking you can see the respect and admiration she has for him ❤️

  • @Giftis2sing
    @Giftis2sing Год назад +1

    I love that Chance said, I’m cool with it!! Ha!!

  • @twalk2008
    @twalk2008 Год назад +14

    I will always have my own bank account married or not.

    • @ABreakWithDawn
      @ABreakWithDawn Год назад +2

      You better SELF PRESERVATION that’s all!❤

  • @GabbyTeAma
    @GabbyTeAma Год назад +11

    Even if one spouse stays home to raise the kids and manage the house, you both are contributing. If you have a HEALTHY marriage (no abuse or cheating) there is nothing wrong with having joint accounts. It should be the norm because you are one.

  • @Titus2Chic
    @Titus2Chic Год назад +5

    I really hate the way this clip is titled. She does not react to Gabrielle's comments. Shannon specifically asked her about HER marriage, and she answered that! Her comments have nothing to do with what the Wade's do in their marriage.

  • @PBrew2
    @PBrew2 Год назад +14

    we love discussing relationship issues that will never be ours. AND the fact that we took 30 seconds of a full statement about mental health and reduced it down for a hot take is soo sad.

  • @NaturallyTek
    @NaturallyTek Год назад +1

    😂😂 shay shay is funny AF yet very serious and professional. Great show.

  • @apronsandasmr437
    @apronsandasmr437 Год назад +2

    They are both such beautiful souls!!! I’m incredibly proud of them!

  • @ninab9169
    @ninab9169 Год назад +7

    Love me some tab and chance 🩷🩷🩷

  • @fancygranolagoddess
    @fancygranolagoddess Год назад +1

    IDC what ANYONE thinks! When a marriage and couple are solid they build something most cannot comprehend because their vibrations are aligned. Love this couple! They are SO CAUUTE!

  • @arlenetatum9511
    @arlenetatum9511 Год назад +1

    I simply LOVE and ADORE this Extremely Beautiful Couple. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Charyl
    @Charyl Год назад +1

    Simple interview with real insight…❤it.

  • @CBizTVMedia
    @CBizTVMedia Год назад +3

    Can't count out that he definitely put in work to get them to where they are today and it takes that support to be successful! They are both beautiful and I believe both played a role in Tams success! God Bless!

  • @brettthomas6327
    @brettthomas6327 Год назад +7

    Biblical based marriages are total different from "traditional" marriages. Ain't no 50/50, we are one.

  • @TeaLeaf222
    @TeaLeaf222 Год назад +1

    Not y’all was down to the call center. 😹 I love them so much! So much NC realness. 💙

  • @theresalor
    @theresalor Год назад +2

    Worst thing you can ever do is listen to single people about your marriage. You have no clue about marriage (MOST TIMES) until you're married yourself.

  • @jada43226
    @jada43226 Год назад +2

    Don’t ever comment on anyone else’s marriage. It’s not kind plus Tabitha runs in the same circles as Gabby. ❤ Mrs. Millionairess!
    The disrespect of the single interviewer. Chance is her husband. He contributed to her career which means Her success is my success, my success is her success. They are so beautiful.

  • @JuJuann
    @JuJuann Год назад +1

    Everybody's marriage is different a person has to do what's best for their marriage!!!!!!

  • @munah9741
    @munah9741 Год назад +2

    I think what ppl have to remember is what may work for one couple may not work for others. You have to know your partner and communication is key.

  • @doubleaaa55
    @doubleaaa55 Год назад +4

    Love this couple

  • @nickkosavvy8225
    @nickkosavvy8225 Год назад +25

    If anybody don’t think a relationship should be 50/50 and 80/20 or 100/0 u ain’t 💩

    • @seowth
      @seowth Год назад +12

      Phrasing. Punctuation. Sounds like you only have a problem with those 3 splits 😅

    • @GQ-jv9uw
      @GQ-jv9uw Год назад

      Facts 😂

    • @danielsummerton2259
      @danielsummerton2259 Год назад +13

      This hurt my brain to read. Someone please translate what bruh just said.

    • @snicholson8884
      @snicholson8884 Год назад +1

      ​@@seowth And grammar.

    • @nia39
      @nia39 Год назад

      ????.

  • @Lavishheightslydia
    @Lavishheightslydia Год назад +4

    They are One! And that’s a marriage❤️❤️🌹🌹

  • @selenasimmons6653
    @selenasimmons6653 Год назад +5

    Tab & Chance make it work! I hope they continue to be successful outchea

  • @jeromejerome940
    @jeromejerome940 Год назад +7

    Good convo Shannon...i really enjoy these types of conversations that way i can reflect on my personal relationship and see if what im doing is wrong or right or if it needs alterations. Im 34 with 3 kids and a wonderful woman that i havent married as yet and its hard finding pairs thats around that age thats like minded

  • @davoiceofreason7
    @davoiceofreason7 Год назад

    I love the energy between these two...

  • @MizAlexandria
    @MizAlexandria Год назад +1

    I love what he said about protect what he has going in his household. That’s Divine masculine energy right there. Guardian of the external.

  • @chriskayenge6839
    @chriskayenge6839 Год назад

    She’s keeping her eyes on him all time ! When he’s talking ! No looking the other way !!! Blessing women

  • @karendorsey4780
    @karendorsey4780 Год назад +2

    I love Tab and Chance! Your marriage is yours ! No one has the secret sauce for a great marriage! Marriage is work! Both must want it to work!

  • @4Peaches1
    @4Peaches1 Год назад +17

    When you are in a true God centered marriage, there are absolutely no doubts or trust issues pertaining to your spouse. They’re bond is strong which is grounded by their faith in God!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
    So happy for them!! 💖🥰🥰🥰

  • @talexander9168
    @talexander9168 Год назад +9

    Beautiful ❤️ Proven that working together as one can be accomplished!!!

  • @VEE2
    @VEE2 Год назад +3

    That’s why Tab, your marriage will last forever. The most unselfish love i’ve ever seen.

  • @Skywalker29
    @Skywalker29 Год назад

    She respects and loves him I love how she looks at her husband of admiration and he’s so confident

  • @teachatami45
    @teachatami45 Год назад

    Thanks for the gems.

  • @celestinabeauty
    @celestinabeauty Год назад +1

    Ugh I freaking love this and them. 🙌🏼❤️🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @drymouf6669
    @drymouf6669 Год назад

    Shay got 1mm and now he's rocking chains. Shannon you better not change on us!! LOL, keep doing your thing. I followed you since the 2-3K sub mark.

  • @trecd8211
    @trecd8211 Год назад +2

    Talk about Tab and Chance 🗣🗣🗣‼️
    Stick to the script...we're going to make it! No exceptions and no detours🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @tamerunrob6510
    @tamerunrob6510 Год назад +4

    I respect Chance and Tab , they depended on each other , no one else in their marriage and this is the end result . They both made it work together and that is what it is about . My marriage is not perfect I see some mistakes we made and it is by the grace of God we are still married . I grew up in the city , husband grew up in the south, we were completely different on how to raise our kids together , it was an absolute mess. My God.

  • @CHICOIZPAIN
    @CHICOIZPAIN Год назад +1

    GREAT INTERVIEW 🎉

  • @cynthialeftwich9616
    @cynthialeftwich9616 Год назад +3

    I feel that each couple has to do what works for them. All marriages are different depending on the situation.

  • @brooklyn_breaux
    @brooklyn_breaux Год назад +2

    DON'T GET IT TWISTED, CHANCE IS A REAL ONE. TAB KNOWS WHAT SHE HAVE. PLUS, AS TAB SAID IN THAT FAMOUS WENDY WILLIAMS PRAYER/READ : GOD IS FIRST IN THEIR MARRIAGE. BLESSINGS TO THEM

  • @dee.tyson1
    @dee.tyson1 Год назад +3

    This is a marriage that I respect! It’s an old school method but it works!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pauldurant1067
    @pauldurant1067 Год назад +4

    It works for them. That's all I can say

  • @dpaper7962
    @dpaper7962 Год назад +1

    Amen to that! 100/100 over here as well. 50/50 was when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend

  • @syckindahead
    @syckindahead Год назад

    3:26 great question

  • @KK-so1zd
    @KK-so1zd Год назад

    Great interview! ❤

  • @ChristSaves88
    @ChristSaves88 Год назад +1

    Beautiful, positive, encouraging couple! ❤🙏🏾

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Год назад +1

    100/100 in our household as well. Works great for us

  • @akahee22
    @akahee22 Год назад +26

    Once again.... people do what they want 🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @Tiffany-de1hr
    @Tiffany-de1hr Год назад +3

    I feel if I could have one full day with her..she will change my whole outlook on life good and bad..she just a joy and Chance is a example of a man who supports his wife..the way they speak of each other

  • @PrydeWater901
    @PrydeWater901 Год назад +7

    The idea of 100/100 is an oxymoron. It like “unthawing” something frozen. If both parties give their all, it is still 50% of the whole.

    • @teday8388
      @teday8388 Год назад +6

      The inference when u say 50-50 is I have autonomy over 1/2 of what I make. The distinction of 100-100 is everything is jointly shared and jointly controlled no matter the source. 50-50 is a partnership, where as 100-100 is sole proprietorship with two people.

    • @PrydeWater901
      @PrydeWater901 Год назад

      @@teday8388 per the IRS: “A sole proprietor is someone who owns an unincorporated business by himself or herself.” Sole=1
      Jointly shared or controlled is literally NOT that. We can’t go changing definitions to fit a narrative much like Facebook has changed the definition of friend or how Fox News has done with “news”.

    • @vetgirl71
      @vetgirl71 Год назад +1

      @@teday8388 well said! This person took her 100/100 statement literally and didn’t fully comprehend what she truly meant! This is because this person is not married! Single people are stuck on 50/50 splits, because they want those bills paid lol😂😅
      If a couple started out with nothing from ground up, they won’t have a problem sharing their income with their spouse or supporting them financially when necessary. Chance did it for 15 years as a police officer while Tab was going to auditions and pursuing her dreams. He held the fort down and made sure they had health insurance and a steady paycheck to keep the roof over their heads. Now it’s his turn for him to pursue his dreams to give back ti the community and help at risk young men! It’s a win win situation! 😊❤️🙌🏾

  • @sxyrachelle
    @sxyrachelle Год назад

    THIS ❤IS SO RARE TO FIND!