I have been cutting off people left and right and was feeling lonely and reached out to some of my silblings and that was a big mistake!!! I needed to hear this message today and keep walking alone.
I 'm in a marriage that is emotionally physically financially draining me I can't leave because I don't have money . The counselers in the church don't believe in divorce I have to keep struggling I can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!! I feel drained!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to cut off these dangerous and toxic so called ''friends'' that turned out to be narcissist. They treated me so bad it was awful! I am so thankful they are out of my life.
I cut of everyone in my life (due to narc abuse) , and now struggle with the fact that people always say if you're alone that means it's something wrong with you. I used to almost beg people to tell me what it was that I do that's so wrong, and in 41 years not one person has been able to tell me what that is, other than the occasional "you're different". Is it normal to spend your life alone? I'm self isolated but find it impossible to make genuine connections with people who appreciate me, versus just wanting to use me and drag me down. The latter is all I seem to attract.
I TOTALLY understand everything that you've stated bcuz that has been my life all of these 52 years of mine!!! Of course, we desire friendship/true family, but I would rather have genuine people around me rather than fakers!!! Keep pushin' forward!!! THE MOST HIGH WILL SEND your people to you!!! And if not, that takes nothing from who you are PERIOD!!! BE BLESSED & CONTINUE TO LOVE YOURSELF !!!👑💜🙏🏽✊🏽🙌🏽
There’s NOTHING wrong with being by yourself. Although God does call us to have community on this journey, He doesn’t want us surrounded by toxicity. I have found my community on the internet because as you said, making genuine connections is tough because so many people don’t have your best interest at heart…it gets lonely but I’m reminded of how much I love my peace whenever I do attempt to bring people in…God will send us our tribe, until then, enjoy this beautiful peace away negative energy ❤
@nicolelashae Alot of what you've shared reminds me of what my life was like back home. As long as I was there, I had no close associations, a sibling started to turn family against me, including my own children. She started encouraging my children and nieces to humiliate and mock me. I couldn't keep a job when I was there. I started seeing a therapist who was blunt. She knew I was suffering and alone so very alone. She wasted no time and did not sugar coat. She told me that I was not safe there and needed to move. She encouraged me to get out of my mother and father's home and away from the family. I moved out of state and am doing so much better . Things began to fall into place for me almost immediately. I now have peace. I'm happier and sure of myself. If you're begging folks to spend time with you, you are asking them to care. Either they can and will not or they can't. Regardless, you might consider moving away. Not running away, moving forward so that you can live and thrive.
Thank you so much for posting this. This has helped me to better understand how to move forward. It breaks my heart but if you can’t walk in fellowship together then there no point in trying save a friendship that’s not ordained by God, regardless how long the friendship has lasted.
I find it hilarious that they’ll say anything in hopes they can scare me into a relationship with them. I have two feet and you can’t invite yourself into my spaces because that’s grounds for a restraining order 🥰🥰
I hope that includes us. I can be the biggest nayslayer, dream slayer of myself. I declare that when those thoughts try to get in, they are recognized and met with the blood of Jesus, every time.
Thank you Minister Mack. This video is a reminder that Im doing what God requires of me. I Corinthians 15:33-34 Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners. Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.
Happy New Year, Minister Cassandra.I am grateful for these reminders. They are "wisdom keys " of life ! May your year be filled with all the blessings that Yahweh, has in store for you and your family in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth Amen 🙏🏻 Hallelujah 🙌💖💜🤍
Came out Swinging ( in a Good Way). Replayed the first 2 minutes at least 5 times!! Powerful message!! Love ❤️ my 2024 book journal! Thanks 🙏 in my prayers for continued success!❤
Happy 2024 all another timely message ..Amen! Time to take inventory for the glory. Blessings to you all and thank you Minister Mack for a simple yet powerful message that we can all relate to.
I could think that any one of Job's 3 friends could have left him at the first sign of trouble. What if Bildad would have asked Job who it was that made the day of his birth, and what if he would have told him that it isn't right to curse the day that God made, especially if it's a birthday of a man that would have a powerful godly ministry that blessed so many people, ushered in God's righteousness, and even caused a widow's heart to shout for joy? What if he told him that it is time to remember who it is that makes our days and that he did them for good and not for evil, and that the old. old way of fearing God has long been established and it hasn't changed. Well, what if Job would have heard that from him and not repented of anything? Would it be right if he would just get on his camel and ride out of town, and tell Job he will stop by again in a year or two? Well, if he would have done that, when the Lord spoke to Eliphaz near the end of the story (see chapter 42) do you think he would have kept Bildad included in all of that? I'm thinking maybe not.
Cassandra, can you please help me differentiate between tit for tat and reciprocity? I think being mad is the difference. I also feel that reciprocity is a slower form of tit for tat? Idk but this is on my mind often.
I have been cutting off people left and right and was feeling lonely and reached out to some of my silblings and that was a big mistake!!! I needed to hear this message today and keep walking alone.
Same hunny left and right and right and left !!😂😂😂😂😂
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Keep walking❤
Haters hate themselves and they simply want to make sure nobody else has any happiness either
"Haters, Dream Slayers, Naysayers, and Perpetrators" 😂! 💯! Gathered them all up!
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I 'm in a marriage that is emotionally physically financially draining me I can't leave because I don't have money . The counselers in the church don't believe in divorce I have to keep struggling I can't take it anymore!!!!!!!!!!! I feel drained!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to cut off these dangerous and toxic so called ''friends'' that turned out to be narcissist. They treated me so bad it was awful! I am so thankful they are out of my life.
Everywhere i look I see narcissists 😂isolated but so many ppl are blind or are narcissists ❤guard your heart brothers and sisters 😂❤
I cut of everyone in my life (due to narc abuse) , and now struggle with the fact that people always say if you're alone that means it's something wrong with you. I used to almost beg people to tell me what it was that I do that's so wrong, and in 41 years not one person has been able to tell me what that is, other than the occasional "you're different". Is it normal to spend your life alone? I'm self isolated but find it impossible to make genuine connections with people who appreciate me, versus just wanting to use me and drag me down. The latter is all I seem to attract.
I TOTALLY understand everything that you've stated bcuz that has been my life all of these 52 years of mine!!! Of course, we desire friendship/true family, but I would rather have genuine people around me rather than fakers!!! Keep pushin' forward!!! THE MOST HIGH WILL SEND your people to you!!! And if not, that takes nothing from who you are PERIOD!!! BE BLESSED & CONTINUE TO LOVE YOURSELF !!!👑💜🙏🏽✊🏽🙌🏽
There’s NOTHING wrong with being by yourself. Although God does call us to have community on this journey, He doesn’t want us surrounded by toxicity. I have found my community on the internet because as you said, making genuine connections is tough because so many people don’t have your best interest at heart…it gets lonely but I’m reminded of how much I love my peace whenever I do attempt to bring people in…God will send us our tribe, until then, enjoy this beautiful peace away negative energy ❤
@@StacieTheSweetheart TRUTH!!!💯💯💯👑💜🙏🏽✊🏽🙌🏽
Same situation here. It HURTS. Sending you love 🙏
@nicolelashae Alot of what you've shared reminds me of what my life was like back home. As long as I was there, I had no close associations, a sibling started to turn family against me, including my own children. She started encouraging my children and nieces to humiliate and mock me. I couldn't keep a job when I was there. I started seeing a therapist who was blunt. She knew I was suffering and alone so very alone. She wasted no time and did not sugar coat. She told me that I was not safe there and needed to move. She encouraged me to get out of my mother and father's home and away from the family. I moved out of state and am doing so much better . Things began to fall into place for me almost immediately. I now have peace. I'm happier and sure of myself. If you're begging folks to spend time with you, you are asking them to care. Either they can and will not or they can't. Regardless, you might consider moving away. Not running away, moving forward so that you can live and thrive.
Omg im crying 😂😅 i used to put a snake🐍 icon near the snakes in my life AND in my phone.
Maam be feeding us a whole feast and we only 3 days in - its my bday today btw
HAPPY SOLAR RETURN🎉🎊🌹🎂
May it be truly amazing and 2024 awesome for you and your family! Happy New Year!
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday and Happy New Year. 🎂🎉🥳
Happy birthday
Happy,happy birthday!!
I got big plans many are not here and most won't be back in my life
Just coming to Realization Last Year that no One will be Happy for me whole heartedly. It’s 2024, Message is Right On Time🙏🏽
I Gotta Keep Moving
Thank you so much for posting this. This has helped me to better understand how to move forward. It breaks my heart but if you can’t walk in fellowship together then there no point in trying save a friendship that’s not ordained by God, regardless how long the friendship has lasted.
I didn't realise Miss Mack had such a great voice! Thanks for another great video Cassandra Ross - Franklin!! All the very best for the new year.
Thanks!
Thank you kindly for the donation. I truly appreciate it. God bless you
I find it hilarious that they’ll say anything in hopes they can scare me into a relationship with them. I have two feet and you can’t invite yourself into my spaces because that’s grounds for a restraining order 🥰🥰
BLACKSOULUTELY ❤❤❤❤
Yes...AMEN "2024 is the year of the open door."
I hope that includes us. I can be the biggest nayslayer, dream slayer of myself. I declare that when those thoughts try to get in, they are recognized and met with the blood of Jesus, every time.
Amen, Lord. The Lord is confirming my decision. Thank you Cassandra 👑💯👌🏽
Thank you Minister Mack. This video is a reminder that Im doing what God requires of me. I Corinthians 15:33-34 Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Awake to righteousness, and sin not; for some have not the knowledge of God: I speak this to your shame.
Second Corinthians 614 ❤ i’m going to read some todayv
🥰YESSSSSSSS!
🤍 2024, Big Sis Cassandra will hit differently.
From Bee Bless.
Happy New Year, Minister Cassandra.I am grateful for these reminders. They are "wisdom keys " of life ! May your year be filled with all the blessings that Yahweh, has in store for you and your family in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth Amen 🙏🏻 Hallelujah 🙌💖💜🤍
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Absolutely 💯
Deepest gratitude for another outstanding lesson❤
Came out Swinging ( in a Good Way). Replayed the first 2 minutes at least 5 times!! Powerful message!! Love ❤️ my 2024 book journal! Thanks 🙏 in my prayers for continued success!❤
Thank u Minister Mack 4 speaking truth to power, and keeping it 💯 ❤😊
Period! 💯
Such a high quality helpful channel.
I met them all
Happy new year Cassandra. I am very grateful for you!
Happy 2024 all another timely message ..Amen! Time to take inventory for the glory. Blessings to you all and thank you Minister Mack for a simple yet powerful message that we can all relate to.
💯No wiggle room 😅😅😅😅
AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!!! Praising God From Whom All Blessings Flow. Take The Lord Every Where You Go. ❤🙏
Amen, and thank Cassandra.
I love this introduction! ❤️
Thank you sooooooo much !!!
Ms. Cassandra you’re always on one!
Happy New Year!🎆
Love this ❤! Your videos have been so impactful ! Game -changing in all areas of my life! 💯💯💯
I love you❤
💯!!!
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I could think that any one of Job's 3 friends could have left him at the first sign of trouble.
What if Bildad would have asked Job who it was that made the day of his birth, and what if he would have told him that it isn't right to curse the day that God made, especially if it's a birthday of a man that would have a powerful godly ministry that blessed so many people, ushered in God's righteousness, and even caused a widow's heart to shout for joy? What if he told him that it is time to remember who it is that makes our days and that he did them for good and not for evil, and that the old. old way of fearing God has long been established and it hasn't changed.
Well, what if Job would have heard that from him and not repented of anything? Would it be right if he would just get on his camel and ride out of town, and tell Job he will stop by again in a year or two?
Well, if he would have done that, when the Lord spoke to Eliphaz near the end of the story (see chapter 42) do you think he would have kept Bildad included in all of that? I'm thinking maybe not.
Cassandra, can you please help me differentiate between tit for tat and reciprocity? I think being mad is the difference. I also feel that reciprocity is a slower form of tit for tat? Idk but this is on my mind often.
Don't be delusional
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