That's not even a poem that is lame ass shit. Try this one instead: If there comes a time to raise anchor from time, one day more, A ship will set out from this harbor toward an unknown shore. It makes way silently, as though it held no living soul; At that unrocking parting no hand waves as the lines unroll. Those watching from the wharf are all aching from this journey Their eyes sting from holding the black horizon so firmly. Wretched hearts! What last ship leaving from the homeland is this? And what deep mourning for a life spent in exile is this? The loved and the lowing will wait in vain in the world here; They do not know the belowed will never reappear. Each of the many who are going are happy they could spend A number of years here; the passengers never descend.
@@ayca8968 Hey try this one, it blows your poem away...... It was many and many a year ago, In a kingdom by the sea, That a maiden there lived whom you may know By the name of Annabel Lee; And this maiden she lived with no other thought Than to love and be loved by me. I was a child and she was a child, In this kingdom by the sea, But we loved with a love that was more than love- I and my Annabel Lee- With a love that the wingèd seraphs of Heaven Coveted her and me. And this was the reason that, long ago, In this kingdom by the sea, A wind blew out of a cloud, chilling My beautiful Annabel Lee; So that her highborn kinsmen came And bore her away from me, To shut her up in a sepulchre In this kingdom by the sea. The angels, not half so happy in Heaven, Went envying her and me- Yes!-that was the reason (as all men know, In this kingdom by the sea) That the wind came out of the cloud by night, Chilling and killing my Annabel Lee. But our love it was stronger by far than the love Of those who were older than we- Of many far wiser than we- And neither the angels in Heaven above Nor the demons down under the sea Can ever dissever my soul from the soul Of the beautiful Annabel Lee; For the moon never beams, without bringing me dreams Of the beautiful Annabel Lee; And the stars never rise, but I feel the bright eyes Of the beautiful Annabel Lee; And so, all the night-tide, I lie down by the side Of my darling-my darling-my life and my bride, In her sepulchre there by the sea- In her tomb by the sounding sea..
As a black man surviving in a white mans world, we are taught to “remain silent”. Be seen, but never truly heard. That often carries over into our private lives. However, I've now learned from my mistakes. Even though a truth can be like a tree out of season, in that it bares no fruit… Its never wrong to speak from your heart, when we are hurting… Maybe that could have saved my marriage. 🤔
@@aQueDog it’s over bro…don’t live in regret and move on so you can find happiness (marriage isn’t the be all and end all of life)…If she left you then she wasn’t really meant for you
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism not dumb, just a bit naive. We've all been there.. women don't really understand the nature of a lot of dudes and don't understand that not all dudes are like that so it's easy for them to be fooled and get it wrong.
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism I agree. But knowledge is not equivalent to experience. You can know something, but if you've never practiced it or seen it first hand it's a whole other thing ya know.
@@jerrelCbanks we have social media and everyone’s lived experience. Running through people leaves you jaded and broken and incompatible with most people. “Men ain’t shit” … and then “oh I was just blindly trusting him cuz I’m just a little woman” ….. We get to live in an egalitarian society , we didn’t have to work for the internet, we inherited it, we did no heavy lifting and this world is made for us. With everything being given to us, how can we mess up our shot???? A human only gets to live 30,000 days. Sleep steals 1/3rd, employer steals 1/3rd, school steals 1/4th. No time left to be dumb in modernity. Ignorance is not an option, it’s not an excuse when every answer is given.
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism again I agree with you. As a person who has had the knowledge and still made the same mistakes I learned that experience in itself is critical. This is biology not theory. Trauma for example alters your DNA. This could mean after you hurt yourself your biology will change to avoid such activity. Learning is not linear in the sense that once you know something you now have everything you need to practice it indefinitely. We are humans, imperfect beings, not robots. As a society we all are responsible, teaching is only but one aspect of learning, you also have practice. This is why many Scientific discipline require not only continued learning, but also active "practice". Our knowledge evolves. It's no so easy for everyone to keep up. Everyone's brain is different, their environments are different, their genetics are different, their capacities in different areas are different, their desires are different.. making it seem like it's easy just because we have the knowledge doesn't actually make it easy. I ask you how easy is it to teach someone something? Is it as simple as explaining to them the steps and how it works? If you say yes I know you have not taught anyone. An excuse is the same as a reason. Understanding is an important part of the learning process. As a moral intellectual individual you have to understand the deficiencies and their causes before you can correct them. Like growing a plant. You can see the problem, such as the plant needs "X" nutrients, as evidenced by its leaves. But if you don't understand WHY the plant needs "X" nutrients as it relates to the plants genetics, environment, purpose then you don't really know how or if you should even give the plant"X" nutrients.
It’s so important to have someone you can talk to. Not even in a relationship. It’s so good to have someone to help you get through stuff like this. I was SA’d at 14 and because I had nobody to talk to it turned into a serious trauma which sometimes still gives me ptsd. Some people think small phrases like this aren’t important but you should really treasure such a person or the things they said.
I was SA'd by my uncle when i was 13. I havent told anyone till now and im currently 17. Sometimes i remember about what happened and literally broke down. Currently i am dating someone and i really trust him more than anyone. He'a always here to support me. So im thinking about telling him what happened but at the same time im scared and i dont know why. Im just wondering if you can give me some advice since i really connected with your comment. Sorry if my english is bad, its not my first language.
@@aikonazozuki2440 Hey girl, I’ve been SA’d a couple times and it hurts to keep it all inside. If u dont have someone u trust and love like him tell him. Especially if u think it’s getting serious with him. He’ll eventually need to know, anyway. And I personally think it’s better to tell someone who won’t necessarily know u forever like family bcuz if there is a bad reaction u arent stuck with them forever. I told my family the first time and it was the worst decision I ever made. I felt almost worse than how I felt after the assault. And now nothings the same. You’re going to get thru this. I love you and appreciate u no matter what you’ve been thru.
@@AH-ej3rx thank you for the advice, but im not really keen on telling my family. My relationship with them is kinda strained.. And i dont really trust them.
@@essenceocean595 thank you for your advice. Im sorry that that happened when you told your family. Thats also the reason i dont want to tell them aside from i dont trust them..
● give it another month. ● expect her to update us on how all men are horrible, and all they care about is getting women in the sack. ● and, like all women, don't expect her to accept any responsibility.
@@YokeshaTokesha Oh yes yourdailyaesthetics really does get it! Some men know this sort of stuff already, that’s how they roll & that’s how come they’re so successful with most women, even their date’s mother - they respond to a woman’s emotion at the time.
She was sexually assaulted and no one here has commented about that. I'm glad this woman has finally found someone genuine who makes her heart dance with his words.
@@steeltree-fabricatingandcu3796 The abbreviation "SA" stands for "sexual assault." So, "Girl SA'd" means that a girl was sexually assaulted. Sexual assault is any sexual contact or behavior that is forced upon someone without their consent. It can include a wide range of acts, from touching to rape.
This is how my fiancé was when he found out. He told me that he was sorry he wasn’t there to protect me. I was beaten and SA’d and ended up getting pregnant because of it. I’ve been getting help since and my daughter is 3 months old. The “man” who hurt me keeps trying to reach out, I put a restraining order on him, and he doesn’t know about my baby. My fiancé is my best friend of almost 10 years. I’ve loved him for 8. I’m so grateful he accepted me and my daughter. He truly is a blessing.
It’s called acting and pretending and enjoying a fantasy where two people are playing a part and yes you can feel deep intimacy because really life didn’t weigh in.
Don't ever believe or trust a man by his words. For the fact that he only wanted short term and casual, as for you too it seems, shows that he really didn't care as long as you gave him what he wanted. Men will say anything to get a girl in bed, but will do anything to make sure she is felt safe and loved. Read pride and prejudice. Darcy wasn't good with his words nor his judgement, but where he lacked, he made up with his unwavering dedication and devotion to ensure Elizabeth was happy.
@ayrantogo I'm so happy you understand. I've been through too many experiences of sweet talk and not enough doing. It's absolutely true that actions speak louder than words
@@puppypizzaparty28 Definitely! I experienced this as well. I'm always saying: If a man has to always reassure you that he loves you with his words, he doesn't love you. If you really respect and appreciate somebody you would simply just do it, I wouldn't feel the need to prove it or reassure you by my words all the time. A good singer, dancer, cook, etc. wouldn't have to say that they are good, everybody will see for their own. If you are something, you just are, no need to prove it... Plus it's not like he said something so poetic and special, he just said “sorry I'm late", I think everybody said this in a relationship once and HE will definitely say it again...
Yep looking for the words instead of behavior. Did he stop and say before we do this again we need to get some professional help to make sure we are proceeding properly. No just a few words and off to headboard banging city. This sucks for her and the next man in her life.
Men are a lot more emotionally available. Than I think they're often given credit for. And I think that automatic assumption that a man can't handle something like that. And be supportive and turn that situation into a healing experience. Is probably the biggest part of the problem.
Fr, there's way too much toxic discourse from both ends on social media that it's easy to generalize all men/all women, that everyone is just like what we see on the internet etc, but we literally just need to go outside and touch grass lmao. And yeah, assuming that men can't have feelings/be empathetic is a huge problem
@@gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476 True, it's gotten to a point where I feel choked up just seeing a *decent man* . It's weird since my father, brother and the other guys in my life are all respectful and kind but the negativity on the internet had way more impact on my mind and viewpoint. I'm trying to quit at the moment
That's why they should stop focusing so much on credit. I think everyone should stop focusing on credit, because it reduce the amount of good people in the world. I should take my own advise before giving it to others though.
Lmaoo yeah but not bigger than the problem of the men who are actually emotionally unavailable And no offense but what are we to think when we’ve never actually seen a good man that emotionally available and again not to be rude but it’s my biggest pet peeve when y’all men sit here spending more time saying stuff like this than y’all do actually talking to your male friends about being emotionally unavailable
This comment section is proof that most people lack the knowledge that nothing in this life truly belong to you. Love, compassion, and vulnerability isn’t just for the ones you love long time… even evil people take care of their own. But being willing to pour that into the spaces you know you’ll eventually leave behind is what makes it truly unconditional and teaches others to love that way.
These young girls do not realise that 3/4 of these married men just wax lyrical and are devoid of real feelings towards them. Be a threat towards his stability(wife and children) and see how quickly he disposed of your dismembered body in a septic tank
I see a lot of people trashing the guys response. Remember he just listened.He just pulled her closer. And he spoke, only after he paused, and only after He was asked... As a Man, i think there is a lot we as Men, can learn from that Man.
Articulated and very well placed words. The description of goosebumps touched me in such a way. I’m only glad that I am alive to have seen this video. Thank you for sharing with us. All. So many Blessings. To you. My Queen 🫶🏿✊🏿♣️👀
Not really? Fwb typically means that two people were friends who started sleeping together and may even remain friends after sleeping together. A short, casual relationship means they immediately started a romantic relationship that lasted a short amount of time (usually a handful of months) and then they went their separate ways.
I opened up to my husband about some similar issues from my childhood and he later emotionally hurt me where I knew he didn't take my past trauma seriously at all
"I just floated home on a Cloud"....I thought that you Invited him over, yall were at your home on your bed 🛌 ....Something about this Magic 🎩 Moment sounds made up. You don't have to float home, when you are Already "Allegedly" at home. 🎉😊
Yeah. She said..in MY bed...I invited him over. Then says I floated home. And who turns and tells their SA story and dating history to their booty call??? After casual sex, it's chicken wings, pizza, weed or hit the Uber. She's full of sht
I'm sorry I'm late, lol you haven't experienced real smooth men. On a cold winters day, I was being silly while waiting for my boyfriend at a bus stop right in front of his workplace. I pulled out my phone and texted him "I just saw the most ugliest woman ever". I forgot to type "guess what it's me", because i wasn't feeling the best that day. He texted back "And I just saw the most beautiful woman ❤". I was really confused, then I looked up and saw my boyfriend crossing the road and walking towards me super suave. I kid you not, the way I blushed, I collapsed to the floor, really shyly. Then he picked me up and carried me to his car bridal style, as i stared into his eyes the entire time. After he drove me to his house, he carried me out of it, and dropped me onto his bed, undressed me, and kissed every part of my body God doesn't make men like this anymore.
It’s okay to let her live her moments. This was hers. Hers alone. She shared it to, perhaps, inspire others. Don’t rain on her parade because you have not experienced anything of that level. It might happen to you if you let it. ❤
He was hitting more than her box. Glad that she was able to let go and not try to make it more than it was. A short term casual relationship with a person that was able to feed her for the moment.
She’s beautiful and I’m so sorry she was abused in the past. Glad she met this remarkable man… wish we could clone him. Well deserved 😅Sis. He’s a keeper and so are you. Take care of each other’s hearts 💕 and continued Blessings to you both.
Cos he didn't say or do anything special lol its sad that this has become some life changing event for her. Plus he was there for sex too it was never that deep 😂 Its most likely sweet nothings he was telling her .
I would say we fellas gotta take notes but you can’t practice that kinda thing. It can only come directly from your spirit. Something you spontaneously pass on from God Himself. What a Blessing you received my Sista from another Mister.
That poem gave me goosebumps ❤
You're easy to fool.😅
That's not even a poem that is lame ass shit. Try this one instead:
If there comes a time to raise anchor from time, one day more,
A ship will set out from this harbor toward an unknown shore.
It makes way silently, as though it held no living soul;
At that unrocking parting no hand waves as the lines unroll.
Those watching from the wharf are all aching from this journey
Their eyes sting from holding the black horizon so firmly.
Wretched hearts!
What last ship leaving from the homeland is this?
And what deep mourning for a life spent in exile is this?
The loved and the lowing will wait in vain in the world here;
They do not know the belowed will never reappear.
Each of the many who are going are happy they could spend
A number of years here; the passengers never descend.
@@lewis20002000what you mean?
@@ayca8968nice, but did you need to dump on her work for yours to shine?
@@ayca8968
Hey try this one, it blows your poem away......
It was many and many a year ago,
In a kingdom by the sea,
That a maiden there lived whom you may know
By the name of Annabel Lee;
And this maiden she lived with no other thought
Than to love and be loved by me.
I was a child and she was a child,
In this kingdom by the sea,
But we loved with a love that was more than love-
I and my Annabel Lee-
With a love that the wingèd seraphs of Heaven
Coveted her and me.
And this was the reason that, long ago,
In this kingdom by the sea,
A wind blew out of a cloud, chilling
My beautiful Annabel Lee;
So that her highborn kinsmen came
And bore her away from me,
To shut her up in a sepulchre
In this kingdom by the sea.
The angels, not half so happy in Heaven,
Went envying her and me-
Yes!-that was the reason (as all men know,
In this kingdom by the sea)
That the wind came out of the cloud by night,
Chilling and killing my Annabel Lee.
But our love it was stronger by far than the love
Of those who were older than we-
Of many far wiser than we-
And neither the angels in Heaven above
Nor the demons down under the sea
Can ever dissever my soul from the soul
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
For the moon never beams, without bringing me dreams
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And the stars never rise, but I feel the bright eyes
Of the beautiful Annabel Lee;
And so, all the night-tide, I lie down by the side
Of my darling-my darling-my life and my bride,
In her sepulchre there by the sea-
In her tomb by the sounding sea..
Hommie unlocked his inner Shakespeare just to clap some cheeks 😂❤
Lol right
Dammitboyyyy 😊
@@blacklock78 IYKYK 😂
As a black man surviving in a white mans world, we are taught to “remain silent”. Be seen, but never truly heard. That often carries over into our private lives.
However, I've now learned from my mistakes. Even though a truth can be like a tree out of season, in that it bares no fruit…
Its never wrong to speak from your heart, when we are hurting…
Maybe that could have saved my marriage. 🤔
@@aQueDog it’s over bro…don’t live in regret and move on so you can find happiness (marriage isn’t the be all and end all of life)…If she left you then she wasn’t really meant for you
The short term casual relationship paired with this level of intimacy just doesn’t make sense to me
Same?? 😭 like so y’all we’re just fw each other not dating frfr
Nah word. I respect others decisions but I wouldn't spend that energy on a short term casual relationship
It's avoidants. They can't connect normally with people.
Sameeee
She's trauma dumping on him. Trying to use sex to create a long-term Bond. Borderline personality disorder type Behavior.
Damn girl, he good, told u exactly what u wanted to hear!! 😂😂😂😂😂SMH
Then smashed
Lmaaaao exactly
@@unlikerjmcrazy😂😂😂
Birds gonna chirp. Buddy fed her ear what she wanted to hear.
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism not dumb, just a bit naive. We've all been there.. women don't really understand the nature of a lot of dudes and don't understand that not all dudes are like that so it's easy for them to be fooled and get it wrong.
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism I agree. But knowledge is not equivalent to experience. You can know something, but if you've never practiced it or seen it first hand it's a whole other thing ya know.
@@jerrelCbanks we have social media and everyone’s lived experience. Running through people leaves you jaded and broken and incompatible with most people.
“Men ain’t shit” … and then “oh I was just blindly trusting him cuz I’m just a little woman” …..
We get to live in an egalitarian society , we didn’t have to work for the internet, we inherited it, we did no heavy lifting and this world is made for us.
With everything being given to us, how can we mess up our shot????
A human only gets to live 30,000 days. Sleep steals 1/3rd, employer steals 1/3rd, school steals 1/4th. No time left to be dumb in modernity.
Ignorance is not an option, it’s not an excuse when every answer is given.
Literally
@@Egalitarianism_Secularism again I agree with you. As a person who has had the knowledge and still made the same mistakes I learned that experience in itself is critical. This is biology not theory. Trauma for example alters your DNA. This could mean after you hurt yourself your biology will change to avoid such activity. Learning is not linear in the sense that once you know something you now have everything you need to practice it indefinitely. We are humans, imperfect beings, not robots. As a society we all are responsible, teaching is only but one aspect of learning, you also have practice. This is why many Scientific discipline require not only continued learning, but also active "practice". Our knowledge evolves. It's no so easy for everyone to keep up. Everyone's brain is different, their environments are different, their genetics are different, their capacities in different areas are different, their desires are different.. making it seem like it's easy just because we have the knowledge doesn't actually make it easy. I ask you how easy is it to teach someone something? Is it as simple as explaining to them the steps and how it works? If you say yes I know you have not taught anyone.
An excuse is the same as a reason. Understanding is an important part of the learning process. As a moral intellectual individual you have to understand the deficiencies and their causes before you can correct them. Like growing a plant. You can see the problem, such as the plant needs "X" nutrients, as evidenced by its leaves. But if you don't understand WHY the plant needs "X" nutrients as it relates to the plants genetics, environment, purpose then you don't really know how or if you should even give the plant"X" nutrients.
Short term, casual ,intimate is where it all went wrong for me. Intimacy is usually shared with someone you love
...and someone you know well....women just love the sparkle and tingle...
Women have redefined the whole dictionary lmao. But the are more educated than the fellas
@@inhumanjoey310 passport fellas
intimacy can be wished on a friend with benefits or acquaintance. 😂. There are skills out there, people. 😅
She is so toxic it’s coming thru the screen
It’s so important to have someone you can talk to. Not even in a relationship. It’s so good to have someone to help you get through stuff like this. I was SA’d at 14 and because I had nobody to talk to it turned into a serious trauma which sometimes still gives me ptsd. Some people think small phrases like this aren’t important but you should really treasure such a person or the things they said.
I was SA'd by my uncle when i was 13. I havent told anyone till now and im currently 17. Sometimes i remember about what happened and literally broke down. Currently i am dating someone and i really trust him more than anyone. He'a always here to support me. So im thinking about telling him what happened but at the same time im scared and i dont know why. Im just wondering if you can give me some advice since i really connected with your comment. Sorry if my english is bad, its not my first language.
@@aikonazozuki2440
Hey girl,
I’ve been SA’d a couple times and it hurts to keep it all inside. If u dont have someone u trust and love like him tell him. Especially if u think it’s getting serious with him. He’ll eventually need to know, anyway.
And I personally think it’s better to tell someone who won’t necessarily know u forever like family bcuz if there is a bad reaction u arent stuck with them forever.
I told my family the first time and it was the worst decision I ever made. I felt almost worse than how I felt after the assault. And now nothings the same.
You’re going to get thru this. I love you and appreciate u no matter what you’ve been thru.
@@AH-ej3rx thank you for the advice, but im not really keen on telling my family. My relationship with them is kinda strained.. And i dont really trust them.
@@essenceocean595 thank you for your advice. Im sorry that that happened when you told your family. Thats also the reason i dont want to tell them aside from i dont trust them..
if you trust him, you shouldnt keep secrets. your experiences do not define you, he will not judge you for it💗
She has the biggest smile. A smile that makes you smile.
I think that comes with the size of the mouth.
● give it another month.
● expect her to update us on how all men are horrible, and all they care about is getting women in the sack.
● and, like all women, don't expect her to accept any responsibility.
😂@@samsonkoladeagbede2
It's Called Delusional 🙄
@@samsonkoladeagbede2 bruh 😃
Men: *listens*
Women: omg I think I'm in love
You don't get it😂
@@YokeshaTokesha yeah fr 😂
She literally used the word casual 😂so far from the word love
@@YokeshaTokesha Oh yes yourdailyaesthetics really does get it! Some men know this sort of stuff already, that’s how they roll & that’s how come they’re so successful with most women, even their date’s mother - they respond to a woman’s emotion at the time.
Fr he didn't even say anything much
Sometimes a person just needs someone to witness their pain, and to be heard and to be seen. That can be a healing experience.
It's a skit , listen to he came to her home but she floated home on a cloud
ABSOLUTELY
James: You absolutely nailed it!
That level of intimacy with a stranger would be strange to me...
Yeah I mean he said he's late,then vanished the next day or smt 😅😅
A lot of what she says is bogus. Whether it's a lie or she's leaving out key details.
This post alone is gonna lead chicks the wrong way
Eh do it if you’re non commital or don’t get too attached. Her eyebrows and smile tell me she is not a commitment girlie lol she’s an artist
Oxymoron
@kimnoon8365 Wow. She is to old to be talking about sleeping with so many men. Feminists hatred for women made most recreation use only.
That poem should be on Valentine's day cards , wonderful poetry .
BARF... SHE BOUGHT THAT HOOK, LINE AND SINKER. GOOD JOB PLAYER
😂😂😂
Don't forget the bait
Playa being a playa 👊🏼 I would've fallen for it 😅
Its called being a good listener and knowing how to say the right things in the moment and saying it with conviction
Yeah all it takes is some good head for you guys to drop ur 20 year relationships LOL 😂
You are a very beautiful woman, and I hope everything works out for you. ❤
You are correct and he was amazing and what he said took my breath because it was so beautiful. ❤❤
I pray she is healed from that trauma she went through. Beautiful lady!
She was sexually assaulted and no one here has commented about that. I'm glad this woman has finally found someone genuine who makes her heart dance with his words.
Is called Humanity’s Normal behavior, ready to become vulture’s on one another.. Your are 100 percent right..
@@steeltree-fabricatingandcu3796
The abbreviation "SA" stands for "sexual assault." So, "Girl SA'd" means that a girl was sexually assaulted. Sexual assault is any sexual contact or behavior that is forced upon someone without their consent. It can include a wide range of acts, from touching to rape.
@@steeltree-fabricatingandcu3796
If you are aware, why did you ask. Lol. Or you thought of something else.
Thank wasn't sure what SA"d meant.@@sajalgoswami1217
I hope she reported it to the police.
This is how my fiancé was when he found out.
He told me that he was sorry he wasn’t there to protect me. I was beaten and SA’d and ended up getting pregnant because of it.
I’ve been getting help since and my daughter is 3 months old. The “man” who hurt me keeps trying to reach out, I put a restraining order on him, and he doesn’t know about my baby.
My fiancé is my best friend of almost 10 years. I’ve loved him for 8. I’m so grateful he accepted me and my daughter. He truly is a blessing.
Fiance for 10 yrs.????? What the heck are you thinking??????
Yuck.
Got knocked up and only then gave the good man the time of day?
Ratchet
@@leonietaylor7054i wonder how people get comforting with that title for sooooooo long. Living in fornication and forgetting about Jesus.
@@leonietaylor7054 That's not what she said.
I love that poem🥰
me too
Me, too. So sweet.
That is Beautiful and from the heart. How sweet
It’s called acting and pretending and enjoying a fantasy where two people are playing a part and yes you can feel deep intimacy because really life didn’t weigh in.
...or sexual access 😂
@lewis20002000 Wow. She is to old to be talking about sleeping with so many men. Feminists hatred for women made most recreation use only.
Life's bills aren't funny nore romantic !
That's called running from your problems. 🏃🏿♂️➡️🏃🏾♀️➡️ They always catch up eventually
Ladies just a little FYI we'll listen to you talk if we know it's going to pay off in the end 😅
That is the sweetest thing he said to you❤❤ I'm thinking he's a keeper😊
It was the best short term casual relationship she ever had.
No wonder he didn't marry her😂😂😂
And she is so bold in proclaiming that situation to the planet 😂
@@cmichael2967not everyone wants to get married…
Bruh it was probably the best relationship she’s had period
Women have really got dimwitted. He wanted some draws you silly chick. Wow
This poem is a timeless classic. Which will be recited over and over again
I love that poem!!
What poetry book is that
Don't ever believe or trust a man by his words. For the fact that he only wanted short term and casual, as for you too it seems, shows that he really didn't care as long as you gave him what he wanted. Men will say anything to get a girl in bed, but will do anything to make sure she is felt safe and loved. Read pride and prejudice. Darcy wasn't good with his words nor his judgement, but where he lacked, he made up with his unwavering dedication and devotion to ensure Elizabeth was happy.
THIS!
@ayrantogo I'm so happy you understand. I've been through too many experiences of sweet talk and not enough doing. It's absolutely true that actions speak louder than words
@@puppypizzaparty28 Definitely! I experienced this as well. I'm always saying: If a man has to always reassure you that he loves you with his words, he doesn't love you. If you really respect and appreciate somebody you would simply just do it, I wouldn't feel the need to prove it or reassure you by my words all the time. A good singer, dancer, cook, etc. wouldn't have to say that they are good, everybody will see for their own. If you are something, you just are, no need to prove it...
Plus it's not like he said something so poetic and special, he just said “sorry I'm late", I think everybody said this in a relationship once and HE will definitely say it again...
@@ayrantogo absolutely!
Have you been to therapy...if not you should go.
This is absolutely beautiful. I just can't say enough about it. I appreciate those words. They are coming straight from the heart.💖
WOW……love the story and the poem it inspired! ❤️👏🏽❤️👏🏽
Beautiful eyes, beautiful smile. She is beautiful
Damn! They always fall for it.😂 she building her life round that bullshit.😂😂😂
Leave her, don’t give her a clue
Yep looking for the words instead of behavior. Did he stop and say before we do this again we need to get some professional help to make sure we are proceeding properly. No just a few words and off to headboard banging city. This sucks for her and the next man in her life.
That's a real man probably with respect an love
Ain't no love in a short term hump and dump
This is just fake intumacy between two people who don't want to be alone.
Right 🤯
Damn😅
Yup
I wish I cud have this. Real intimacy involves court too much
Exactly. Ridiculous.
As a man criticizing another man's pillow talk.. that was a dope line🎉🎉🎉😂❤
not really... bc he apologized. the better thing to say imo is, "it just took me a while to find you... but i found you at the right time."
@@maxdawg as a woman, your line is amazing but I gotta side with OP. Had a man said that to me, I would have melted too❤
@@twystedelegance4650Exactly. 💯💞 There’s always 1 who has to try to ‘one up’ in the comments. 😂
Men are a lot more emotionally available. Than I think they're often given credit for. And I think that automatic assumption that a man can't handle something like that. And be supportive and turn that situation into a healing experience. Is probably the biggest part of the problem.
Fr, there's way too much toxic discourse from both ends on social media that it's easy to generalize all men/all women, that everyone is just like what we see on the internet etc, but we literally just need to go outside and touch grass lmao. And yeah, assuming that men can't have feelings/be empathetic is a huge problem
@@gaslight.gatekeep.girlboss6476 True, it's gotten to a point where I feel choked up just seeing a *decent man* . It's weird since my father, brother and the other guys in my life are all respectful and kind but the negativity on the internet had way more impact on my mind and viewpoint. I'm trying to quit at the moment
That's why they should stop focusing so much on credit. I think everyone should stop focusing on credit, because it reduce the amount of good people in the world. I should take my own advise before giving it to others though.
Lmaoo yeah but not bigger than the problem of the men who are actually emotionally unavailable
And no offense but what are we to think when we’ve never actually seen a good man that emotionally available and again not to be rude but it’s my biggest pet peeve when y’all men sit here spending more time saying stuff like this than y’all do actually talking to your male friends about being emotionally unavailable
Are they? I started fearing most men weren't
That's so beautiful. I love that you found a great person.
Short-term casual relationship is all you need to hear 😢
Tell me you are run-through without telling me you are run-through. Is the only way your statement makes sense
She was telling him about all the men she been wid he said I'm hear now. I bet he had to work quick before the Viagra wore off.
She looks so amazing and beautiful with a beautiful smile and perfect lips
Not cute at all
And gullible
@@Basslines66We get it. Your type likes men
This comment section is proof that most people lack the knowledge that nothing in this life truly belong to you. Love, compassion, and vulnerability isn’t just for the ones you love long time… even evil people take care of their own. But being willing to pour that into the spaces you know you’ll eventually leave behind is what makes it truly unconditional and teaches others to love that way.
Amen 🙏🏿
That's the most absurd cope I've ever dry heaved my way through.
@@mrsherwood2599 ok.
ive said since i was 13 that nothing is permanent but i can love and cherish everything while its within my reach
@@SunshineTheLover if only I had your wisdom at that tender age 😭
That poem is so sweet.
Now that's a dude who knows Game!! A regular Don Juan.😂 He got the cat wet through the ears!😂
BABYGIRL, SORRY TO HEAR WHAT HAPPENED YOU, YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Poor woman ,she's so confussed
Fell for a sociopath😂😂😂
U are jealous
just another 304 in her feelings 💀
These young girls do not realise that 3/4 of these married men just wax lyrical and are devoid of real feelings towards them. Be a threat towards his stability(wife and children) and see how quickly he disposed of your dismembered body in a septic tank
She never have it so deep right now he's the man she wants to keep.
He's late to come but early to leave
Comment is amazing yess 😂 makes no sense
Man hater
You're obviously a foreigner.
Exactly
I see a lot of people trashing the guys response. Remember he just listened.He just pulled her closer. And he spoke, only after he paused, and only after He was asked...
As a Man, i think there is a lot we as Men, can learn from that Man.
I literally said “girrlllll” out loud when you read that poem. instantly subscribed
Articulated and very well placed words. The description of goosebumps touched me in such a way. I’m only glad that I am alive to have seen this video. Thank you for sharing with us. All. So many Blessings. To you.
My Queen 🫶🏿✊🏿♣️👀
I don't even wanna listen to a man talk like this anymore, like he's gonna give me more trauma anyways
My cynical ass would be like who else he saying this to 😂
The poem was cute; but that was some red flag 🚩 shit for me
Forget where have you been? Where is he now? Now that's the key question
a poem in place of a commitment.😅😂
@@zamo9266 exactly
This is so beautiful 😢wish you well sister!
"Short casual relationship" yall were just fwb
Exactly...
Not really? Fwb typically means that two people were friends who started sleeping together and may even remain friends after sleeping together. A short, casual relationship means they immediately started a romantic relationship that lasted a short amount of time (usually a handful of months) and then they went their separate ways.
Booty call!
Baby your poetry just healed something inside me 🥹💟
nice delivery n worth the listen❤
you go girl
I opened up to my husband about some similar issues from my childhood and he later emotionally hurt me where I knew he didn't take my past trauma seriously at all
I'm so sorry 😢😢.
Are you still married to him?
@@Z5Z5Z5 in a third world country here. leaving isn't made easy by any measure
and that isn't even his latest or most horrible transgression 🫠
For your own health, you shouldn’t take your past trauma seriously, either.
Typical narcissist behaviour!
✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️JESUS LOVES YOU
That was a beautiful poem 🥹
Beautifully Said ❤
You invited HIM over, and YOU floated home on a cloud? Huh
I was looking for this comment I felt crazy lol
it seems like a saying, plus It had quotations by it🤷🏾♀️
It's poetical bro
Exactly 😅
😂let the girl live her phase out
That was so beautiful, my heart melted 🥹
Straight out of a fucking novel.
Emotional sensitivity sincerely expressed can be sacred when responding to another's trauma.
Dudeeeee thattttt was soooo goooood❤ i love u girlll❤❤❤
That’s dope, he smooth for that one 👌🏾
She’s sleeping with and opening up her soul to this man then calling it casual. This is losing.
"I just floated home on a Cloud"....I thought that you Invited him over, yall were at your home on your bed 🛌 ....Something about this Magic 🎩 Moment sounds made up. You don't have to float home, when you are Already "Allegedly" at home. 🎉😊
That's y it was short term...😂❤😂
Yeah. She said..in MY bed...I invited him over. Then says I floated home. And who turns and tells their SA story and dating history to their booty call??? After casual sex, it's chicken wings, pizza, weed or hit the Uber. She's full of sht
That was very sweet. Congratulations sister.
I'm sorry I'm late, lol you haven't experienced real smooth men.
On a cold winters day, I was being silly while waiting for my boyfriend at a bus stop right in front of his workplace. I pulled out my phone and texted him "I just saw the most ugliest woman ever". I forgot to type "guess what it's me", because i wasn't feeling the best that day. He texted back "And I just saw the most beautiful woman ❤". I was really confused, then I looked up and saw my boyfriend crossing the road and walking towards me super suave. I kid you not, the way I blushed, I collapsed to the floor, really shyly. Then he picked me up and carried me to his car bridal style, as i stared into his eyes the entire time. After he drove me to his house, he carried me out of it, and dropped me onto his bed, undressed me, and kissed every part of my body
God doesn't make men like this anymore.
THATS SO CUTTETEEE OMG
Wow. Words don’t even exist to describe this. Amazing. What an incredible man. ❤️
So you can accuse him of SA if you feel a certain type of way, no thanks, we love our freedom. We watched that play so many times.
We're all around healing from the scars you gave us when we made the mistake of being kind.
@@mrsherwood2599 i don't get it? what are you trying to say /genq
Wow! Im glad you found someone who could be sensitive with you in that moment ! May you find healing & the assailant be prosecuted
I love this. I hope I can find someone like that
It’s okay to let her live her moments. This was hers. Hers alone. She shared it to, perhaps, inspire others. Don’t rain on her parade because you have not experienced anything of that level. It might happen to you if you let it. ❤
If he meamt that he'd actually ask you to be his gf but nooo that's too much for men and women of today
Yeah that was dope your brother was definitely on the ball 100% good for him
And they broke up?
maybe right person wrong time fam, we never know
Sometimes it doesn’t work out, doesn’t mean it wasn’t amazing and they weren’t both good people!
It wasn’t a relationship. It was a friends with benefits
Wasn't a relationship. He was just beating the cheeks occasionally and whispering sweet nothing's.
Waoo, as an aspiring poet, this poem sure hits the right cord❤. Watching From Lagos Nigeria
Holy shit, you found a high level romantic of a human being
That smile is like beautiful and also perfect for a halloween mask
He was hitting more than her box. Glad that she was able to let go and not try to make it more than it was. A short term casual relationship with a person that was able to feed her for the moment.
Men, this IS NOT you job to do this. Seek therapy after trauma
People speak with their actions. So why did they break up?
Exactly.
SAd don't know what that means .
This was lovely poem. At the end of the day you do what you have to do . No judgement just take care of you. Xx
He definitely got them draws that night
And that’s all that matters
What..is wrong with you
He already did. This conversation occurred afterwards.
She's a beauty and a thinker for sure, though. Love that.
He's been waiting for his turn... Line was long...
She’s beautiful and I’m so sorry she was abused in the past. Glad she met this remarkable man… wish we could clone him. Well deserved 😅Sis. He’s a keeper and so are you. Take care of each other’s hearts 💕 and continued Blessings to you both.
❤
Mission accomplished he told you what you wanted to hear. Smh
You can tell a man who has been raised by a mature mother and who has sisters, we tend to understand women a little better.
The story leading up to the poem makes this. Humans and theirs storytelling...
We Need a Book. Written. By you. Seriously.
Your Vocab. Is. On🔥.
Respectfully said 💜
How
Didn’t y’all get married
Well seems like they weren’t dating in the first place
Cos he didn't say or do anything special lol its sad that this has become some life changing event for her. Plus he was there for sex too it was never that deep 😂 Its most likely sweet nothings he was telling her .
I would say we fellas gotta take notes but you can’t practice that kinda thing. It can only come directly from your spirit. Something you spontaneously pass on from God Himself. What a Blessing you received my Sista from another Mister.
Crazy that a man acting like what he should be has had been a life changing moment for her.
I'm glad you found my brother sis 💪🏿💜🤞🏿
He understood the assignment
Love it! When Drew Barrymore’s crush said that to her in ‘Never Been Kissed’ we all swooned. He gets it. Love this! 🩷🩷💞🫶🏾
LMFAO AND YOU STILL AINT W HIM?
That was a great line.
And if you're still altogether and at least it's something he was talking from his heart
You lost me at short term casual relationship.
She is beautiful
was his name Howl?
Just beautiful and touching
Where is he now?