It is frustrating, but many abuse victims get so brainwashed and codependent on their abusers. Most of the time, it's the abusers that gets their victims to think like that.
That's not always the case. I kind of understand it because I've been through it, not when the person is a significant other but when the person is a family member. You love them but you don't want to rat them out. You know they care about you but sometimes they just don't know where to put their feelings. My mentality is that it stems from an abusive childhood. Like for example the abuser used to be abused at home by their parents as a child. They aren't taught that there are other ways to deal with problems and that hitting or fear is the only thing that can solve the problem. When you learn that from a young age, its hard to stop. It's easier to forgive someone understanding why they are the way they are. So I definitely get how she feels.
This is so true, though. Abusers keep their victims close by making them feel helpless, worthless, and unlovable. This way, it makes them feel like they have no hope and no chance of escaping. It’s really sad and sickening.
Julia is still there in the background just chilling confirmed! at 3:38 Also you see her bring everyone food or SIP on their vlogs and then just just kind of hangs out there for a while in the background too.
@@Kiluei But I never said her job description was chilling. I just said she is chilling behind the cameras. I doubt she is there to actually use the cxamera and adjust anything. That's why either Ryan or Brandon is there in the other room.
Yep, I commented on a previous video, and I said I think Julia just goes away after a while. Looks like I was wrong. Looks like she's in the middle operating the 4 cameras. But what for? I mean, don't understand. I'm curious.
Those are words from a broken woman; I hope she can grow from this and learn what real love is. Ladies and Gentlemen out there no matter your situation if you are being hurt physically, mentally, or emotionally know that it is not the love which you are worthy of ❤️
She won’t necessarily learn. The pattern is set. The next guy will be the same. Nice to her in the beginning, and gradually manipulate her into being ok with being abused.
@@syd1197 "so thats why idk her" lol not a fan of them. Im ok with eating while vlogging like delaghetos sendfoodz but just straight up eating doesnt do it for me
1:19 Joe is me when: -I'm with my friends -my friends are being immature -my friends/family speak another language I don't understand -I start thinking too deep to myself -I don't get the joke -etc. (Joe is also just me when I dose off into space)
People who have been abused get really messed up in the head the damage done can't be undone because why they still love there abuser or defend them is because they still feel like they can change them or mentally sometimes they love them out of survival like to cope with the fact that it's the way that has been happening because they think it would last forever and they believe theres some good in there abuser and sometimes they dont understand why either. I didn't understand why I loved my abuser either
wow, the new girl voice is amazingly sexy to me. even more than gina. never thought anyone would replace gina as my fav. i still love all of you, but, she is just super cute
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The thing is I understand it’s frustrating for people to say hey logically don’t date get away. But he could seriously mentally break her and make it seem it’s normal you know. Which it’s never easy for them to think this isn’t okay.
I don't think JK knows what "woke" means lol. When I hear "woke," I always hear it from pocs, especially black people protesting racism. Not "sjws" that fight for female rights, but forget black people existoops.
manda guerrero The only lgbt RUclipsrs I'm subscribed to/know are Shane Dawson, Jeffree Star, Garrett Watts, Rylan Adams, ASAPscience, Superfruit, Tony Bomboni, Troye Sivan, and Arend Richards. Those are the ones I can remember at the top of my head, but I don't recall them saying "woke" or I just don't pay attention. It's probably because their channels aren't exactly lgbt-focused (e.g Arielle Scarcella, Davey Wavey), but are rather lgbt-friendly (i.e they're open and out about their sexuality, but their channel is rather focused on other things). I'm more active in the lgbt community on other social media sites, but not really RUclips. I'm mostly on Tumblr and that's where I see it (sometimes posts from Twitter)- when people are talking about social inequality. The point is, I've never seen "those types" (what Gina described) of people use the term. Also "in real life" isn't a strong argument, since we live in different areas and we know different people lol. I don't know anyone, regardless of sexuality or race, that uses the term in real life.
manda guerrero Ok. Then, "I wasn't paying attention" would be the answer as to why I didn't hear it from them (but it was too long to read, so not sure if you read that part 😂 😂 ). I usually hear Shane and his friends saying, "triggered!" and "ew!" so that's the word I associate with them. With Jeffree it's "can't relate." And the occasional, "oh my god..."
It’s frustrating that they don’t understand the concept of “battered woman syndrome”.... this video there was a lot of ignorance and lack of understanding portrayed to this issue...
Okay in Bart's defense I get what he saying. If you're married or dating someone you would never ever bring up that those subjects because you always want to have a romantic or calm mood just in case there might be sex. When he is with Joe that's not a option he wants to pursue so they talk about whatever comes to mine. If you're laying in bed trying to get your swerve on you're not going to talk about a kid chopping off his own head with a chainsaw and expect to have normal sex. So Geo. is also kind of right. It's just too late for her now she is in too deep.
Joe, you should read a book called Fearless by Francine Pascal. I have a feeling you will like it because it is about this pretty girl luring her prey to fuck em up.
She probably has Battered Woman Syndrome. (Not just women suffer from this) but basically it's when a person is in a dangerous relationship and they do things just like this woman. They defend their abuser, or make excuses for their abuser and can even have symptoms of PTSD. It's really sad I hope she's able to get the help she needs
"I'm gonna confiscate your internet" Tiff is a true mom lol.
This is how I like Julia in this video. Not in it! 👏👏👏👏👏👏🎊🎉🎊🎉
@@AJ12Gamer julia can beat u up. Real talk.
Joe had one of OUR moments: "didn't jk do this article already?"
Because Joe is us, and we are Joe. JOEMALIA UNITE!
This is how I like Julia in this video. Not in it! 👏👏👏👏👏👏🎊🎉🎊🎉
It is frustrating, but many abuse victims get so brainwashed and codependent on their abusers. Most of the time, it's the abusers that gets their victims to think like that.
Troy Goldberg so if this was your daughter, she deserves to get beat?
Stockholm Syndrome.
@Troy Goldberg you are sick in the head oh my god
That's not always the case. I kind of understand it because I've been through it, not when the person is a significant other but when the person is a family member. You love them but you don't want to rat them out. You know they care about you but sometimes they just don't know where to put their feelings. My mentality is that it stems from an abusive childhood. Like for example the abuser used to be abused at home by their parents as a child. They aren't taught that there are other ways to deal with problems and that hitting or fear is the only thing that can solve the problem. When you learn that from a young age, its hard to stop. It's easier to forgive someone understanding why they are the way they are. So I definitely get how she feels.
This is so true, though. Abusers keep their victims close by making them feel helpless, worthless, and unlovable. This way, it makes them feel like they have no hope and no chance of escaping. It’s really sad and sickening.
Binging all the Stephanie episodes
Same
Stephanie fits in to so well with the jk crew! I hope she becomes a regular
Yah shes asian
Julia is still there in the background just chilling confirmed! at 3:38
Also you see her bring everyone food or SIP on their vlogs and then just just kind of hangs out there for a while in the background too.
Yeah she run their social media page so she put them on their Instagram stories
@@Kiluei But I never said her job description was chilling. I just said she is chilling behind the cameras. I doubt she is there to actually use the cxamera and adjust anything. That's why either Ryan or Brandon is there in the other room.
Yep, I commented on a previous video, and I said I think Julia just goes away after a while.
Looks like I was wrong.
Looks like she's in the middle operating the 4 cameras.
But what for? I mean, don't understand. I'm curious.
Those are words from a broken woman; I hope she can grow from this and learn what real love is. Ladies and Gentlemen out there no matter your situation if you are being hurt physically, mentally, or emotionally know that it is not the love which you are worthy of ❤️
Samara Elizabeth
This statement is true.
Also, your profile pic is cute.
She won’t necessarily learn. The pattern is set. The next guy will be the same. Nice to her in the beginning, and gradually manipulate her into being ok with being abused.
taoist40 as someone who personally has grown and learned from a situation such as this; that is why I said hope.
So true
I need my dose of Steve, Nikki, and David
로라 [Laura] Are you an addict? You should get help
I love Stephanie Soo' s energy she seems sweet and bubbly :)
Saaaaaame. I'm so used to having them here it just doesn't feel right when they're not.
Sameeee
Yup and also Sssniperwolf too
Bart got so happy when Geo started fake, kinky running. His smile was like a boy who opened up his Christmas present getting a playstation
You mean Xbox
U mean putting together your own pc on christmas
YES BISH! So happy to see Stephanie So on here
I like the new guest she brings good energy.
does Joe still look at the comments?
If joe saw one of my videos that would be fire
Probably not.
Nope
stephanie flows so well with jk!!!
Stephanie So is bae
Hella asian stephanie. Only muk bang gina competes
Omg I cant with steph 😂💖
Stephanie: why are you sad? Me: I DONT KNOW NAN MOLLA
KIM SEEEOOOOOKKKKJJJJIIINNNN
Jessica Rahel i was going to ask wtf are you saying. Then i looked at your profile pic and just accepted it
“You know how old Asian people are really racist”
Proceeds to be racist
That is why joe and bart are soulmates 😂😂😂😂
WOW STEPHANIE IM SO EXCITED I WAS DOING HW AND SHE WAS TALKING AND I LOOKED UP TO SEE HER AND GASPED SO HARD!!!!!!!
I love stephanie so much💜
STEPHANIE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
*The mom in tiff:* "I'm going to confiscate your internet."
stephanie!!! ❤️
Bart's reaction at 14:03 😂😂
I NEED STEPHANIE ON A JK PARTY
P L E A S E
stephanie was great!!!! love her so much!!!!
jeez julia looks different in this one
Simran Deol that ain’t julia
Stephanie i love you bisssss
Stephanie and Gina seem sooooo smart.
yessss more stephh!!
I need a part two of this video
Randomly pressed on this video and my girl Stephanie is on it! Yes!
apparently stephanie does mukbangs, so thats why idk her. but shes great xD definitely need to have her back. 1 min in and she got me laughing
Alan Chen you need to watch her mukbang w Gina or just any of her mukbangs lol she's hilarious 😂
@@syd1197 "so thats why idk her" lol not a fan of them. Im ok with eating while vlogging like delaghetos sendfoodz but just straight up eating doesnt do it for me
Alan Chen ah i see. i was just recommending some videos if you wanted to check out her content! that’s fine tho, not everyone is into mukbangs lol
Her, as a person, I knew she would blend right in with them. She's not awkward or holding back
@@syd1197 haha ik, and appreciate it. Thanks :)
I agree with Joe lol A girl had to worry about getting rape and even robe.
STEPHANIE!
7:32 love the way gina says "yeahyeahyeah"
i wouldn't open the door or stop my car for a lady who is dressed like an arrested winnie the poo either
omg I love you Steph you were amazing!
Can u guys make a mukbang video that lasts at least more then 30min like if u agree
Stephanie is so cute. 💓
10:51 Gina in her mind “TEAA!!”
Omg Gina and Tiff are wearing the same kind of dress it’s so cute
1:26 IM SCREAMING 😭😵🤣🤣🤣🤣
if there was a Sip in the Bay Area, I would go.
Large Churro come down to SoCal ^_^
1:23 the cut to Joe gmfu HAHAHAHAH
14:27-14:33
🎵some of them want to use you, some of them want to be abused🎶
I really like Stephanie so I’m hoping they do more videos with her and mix it up with David or Nikki or Steve 👍🏽
Stephanie Soo!!!!!!!
I’ve been hearing about Jk news since 2013 but I never watched any of their videos. But for Stephanie I did and I actually like it 👍🏻
Joe, you guys didn't do this article yet because it recently just happened/went viral.
yas stephanie!!!!!
Yoooooooooooo this happened in my neighborhood at my friend's house, and then the guy lived on my street, there were cops everywhere 🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
Gina looks so pretty 😍
Ippei Morita yo was good bro! I fuxx with your shiet!🔥🔥
I heard of a lot of these articles already on Inside Edition.
1:19 Joe is me when:
-I'm with my friends
-my friends are being immature
-my friends/family speak another language I don't understand
-I start thinking too deep to myself
-I don't get the joke
-etc. (Joe is also just me when I dose off into space)
I want to know more
omg houston again!!!
People who have been abused get really messed up in the head the damage done can't be undone because why they still love there abuser or defend them is because they still feel like they can change them or mentally sometimes they love them out of survival like to cope with the fact that it's the way that has been happening because they think it would last forever and they believe theres some good in there abuser and sometimes they dont understand why either. I didn't understand why I loved my abuser either
I wanted to do a coffee enema 🤪👀 LOL
This happened across the street from me, the cops were in the neighborhood for a week.
Bart getting super excited @ 14:03
"Sip, I would fuck myself with this." Good tagline.
wow, the new girl voice is amazingly sexy to me. even more than gina. never thought anyone would replace gina as my fav. i still love all of you, but, she is just super cute
Joe really has his own world lmfaooo
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OMG I've been waiting forever to an update for this story and I couldn't even find it, of all places I find the update on JK news lol wow
This girl pretty cool. Bring her to jkparty for a episode.
Loving all these videos with Stephanie! 😍
joes edit bruh LMAOAOAO
The close ups on joe’s face got me fucked up lmfaooo
Damn the sad part is that she's basically screwed. There's no way she comes out of this normal and no normal guy will want to be with her.
The thing is I understand it’s frustrating for people to say hey logically don’t date get away. But he could seriously mentally break her and make it seem it’s normal you know. Which it’s never easy for them to think this isn’t okay.
Can you guys talk about the Chinese guy who got kicked out of Africa. There's a video.
Lmao "dont fuck with russians"
Joe did a perfect impression of stephanie 2:17
LOOOOOOVE STEPH
I don't think JK knows what "woke" means lol. When I hear "woke," I always hear it from pocs, especially black people protesting racism. Not "sjws" that fight for female rights, but forget black people existoops.
I always see it in memes
manda guerrero The only lgbt RUclipsrs I'm subscribed to/know are Shane Dawson, Jeffree Star, Garrett Watts, Rylan Adams, ASAPscience, Superfruit, Tony Bomboni, Troye Sivan, and Arend Richards. Those are the ones I can remember at the top of my head, but I don't recall them saying "woke" or I just don't pay attention. It's probably because their channels aren't exactly lgbt-focused (e.g Arielle Scarcella, Davey Wavey), but are rather lgbt-friendly (i.e they're open and out about their sexuality, but their channel is rather focused on other things). I'm more active in the lgbt community on other social media sites, but not really RUclips. I'm mostly on Tumblr and that's where I see it (sometimes posts from Twitter)- when people are talking about social inequality. The point is, I've never seen "those types" (what Gina described) of people use the term.
Also "in real life" isn't a strong argument, since we live in different areas and we know different people lol. I don't know anyone, regardless of sexuality or race, that uses the term in real life.
manda guerrero Ok. Then, "I wasn't paying attention" would be the answer as to why I didn't hear it from them (but it was too long to read, so not sure if you read that part 😂 😂 ). I usually hear Shane and his friends saying, "triggered!" and "ew!" so that's the word I associate with them. With Jeffree it's "can't relate." And the occasional, "oh my god..."
me the entire video: *Stockholm, Brainwashed, Aliens*
It’s frustrating that they don’t understand the concept of “battered woman syndrome”.... this video there was a lot of ignorance and lack of understanding portrayed to this issue...
I love how JK generalise over 7 billion people into few races
14:01 Thank you Geo!!
Barts laugh tho xD
EXACTLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!
The girl didn't even say she got abused did she?? She just said she felt unsafe
I was wondering when they were going to do this one.
i love this girl
Okay in Bart's defense I get what he saying. If you're married or dating someone you would never ever bring up that those subjects because you always want to have a romantic or calm mood just in case there might be sex. When he is with Joe that's not a option he wants to pursue so they talk about whatever comes to mine. If you're laying in bed trying to get your swerve on you're not going to talk about a kid chopping off his own head with a chainsaw and expect to have normal sex. So Geo. is also kind of right. It's just too late for her now she is in too deep.
Yo the victims are in a fucked up headspace. It can seem frustrating to outsiders but you have to be patient.
My dog is named poochie hahah
13:58 nice
JOE'S UNENTHUSED FACES OMEGALUL
Joe, you should read a book called Fearless by Francine Pascal. I have a feeling you will like it because it is about this pretty girl luring her prey to fuck em up.
i love how geo pretends she isn't 68% white lol
13:06 😂😂😂
Picture them being the branding team for a company
Clear sign of Stockholm syndrome
Chidi Ogoms Stockholm Syndrome is when someone gets kidnapped and the victim “falls” in love with the kidnapper.
She probably has Battered Woman Syndrome. (Not just women suffer from this) but basically it's when a person is in a dangerous relationship and they do things just like this woman. They defend their abuser, or make excuses for their abuser and can even have symptoms of PTSD. It's really sad I hope she's able to get the help she needs
Steph!!!!!!
I kinda want Julia back in some videos
Stephanie look like a korean Boze
And this is why it's hard for me to feel sympathy for victims of domestic abuse