I HATE It When She Says “I’m fine…” | Our Biggest Arguments (Ep.10)
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- Опубликовано: 7 окт 2023
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Everybody talking about missing them vlogging together but I like them in their podcast more… I like Jess in her own vlogs but for them together, I love the podcasts!!!!!
Same!
I agree!! I love these natural conversations better than any 10 min vlog
I agree
Bobby does a great job at seeing both sides of the story 👏 good on him
He’s like the therapist in the conversation 😂😅
Who else miss them vlogging💕🫶✨️
I like the sfsg pod but would appreciate if they take maybe one day a month to make a really nice vlog.
@@KayliesJourneyAgreed. But love the pod for sure.
@@KayliesJourney mutual feelings !!
Yup yup
Think they're trying to keep their private life private after having a baby, which is fair! So I guess the podcast works best for them as it allows them to earn online without showing everyone their day to day! Also Jess still vlogs here and there
Jess is right about the drive thru thing because being on the headset for those speaker boxes you can never hear the person in the passenger seat!! It’s so hard and we all wish for the person in the drivers seat to say the order. She can even repeat it to you in the moment and you as the driver say it louder for the speaker box
I live for these podcasts. It makes your relationship seem so much more realistic. Social media obviously makes people seem perfect and that’s super huge with you guys, but the podcasts are so relatable. I feel like I’m really seeing you guys as people and not “influencers”
I’m with Jess on the drive thru order though.. the driver is the designated spokesperson! Plus it’s so awkward to be screaming your order from the passenger seat
100%!!! If my husband made me shout my order out his window, I would be annoyed 😂
Same. I hate shouting in the car.
I lovvee these podcasts.. Jess has sooo much more personality here than on the vlogs.. and she’s sooo funny 💛 but then again Gabe’s homeschool so … it’s balanced .
30:02 on this point of Jess wanting to resolve things herself sometimes: this is so important! Sometimes we know that we’re upset over a small thing, and other factors may be causing us to overreact and we don’t want to start a fight. When this happens I just tell my husband: “I need some time to be upset/annoyed/mad right now”. And that’s his cue to *leave me alone*! He says okay then walks away immediately. I take my time to process the issue, do something that makes me happy, then I come back and let him know I’m good. Sometimes I’ll tell him what the issue was (if it’s something I think he should be aware of/do better on next time) and sometimes we just don’t discuss it because it’s a me problem. This is literally the reason we’ve never had a real fight (yelling/name calling/storming out/etc) in the 9+ years we’ve been together. LET PEOPLE BE UPSET AND WORK OUT THEIR FEELINGS!!😂
Love this
FYI Jess is 1,000,000 million percent correct on ordering in a DT... my most hated situation managing something like a dunkin... is a passenger order, they're hard to hear to begin with let alone if they're soft spoken, and even more so if it's windy or rainy. Realize you can hear us fine, it's hard to hear you.
I agree 😅
guys this episode is what i have hoped for with the podcast. It’s super honest and let’s us see you as real ppl❤
i feel like it'd be easier for the person closest to the window make the order for everyone. even if you have to pass the order along, or just make sure you got everything written down before you get there, that way it feels much smoother and easier for the drive-thru staff to hear it
I think the intention of this video actually turned into great advice from Jess and Gabe and Bobby too! Because a lot of these “issues” were either resolved or not happening as much anymore and I think a big thing I saw was intentionality and the want to serve the other. Beautiful❤️
I really love the podcasts. I listen to them in the morning while I travel to work, and it just makes me laugh and makes the driver better. Thanks for posting them!❤
I think the intention you guys had with this podcast really worked. These episodes are so relatable, we as a community, are getting to know you guys on another level and It really does feel like we're doing life together . Great Job!
Great episode!!💗 Also just have to say I looooove your intro...the music, the colors, the font, the logo spinning like a record, you two dancing in the corner...love it all so much, so well thought out❣💯👩❤👨
This podcast never disappoints! Listening always brings me joy❤
People saying they miss the vlogs and not even appreciating the time you guys are devoting to this poddy (away from kaia) or respecting where you guys are at the moment 🤪
I love the podcast! Every Monday morning driving to work puts me in the best mood! X
I never miss a podcast episode. Love these so much 💗 You both always have me laughing. Bobby is such a good mediator here!
You guys need to do that dating thing with Bobby that you did with Sophie! 😊
Aah, I just love listening to you guys☺️ what a cozy little podcast🥰
Bob was so intentional with everything he said. Loved this, and love your friendship
I'm 14 minutes in and it is so interesting to see how relatable this is in my relationship (me being Jess and my bf being Gabe). I'm watching, smiling and shaking my head at the same time hahaha. Haven't even watched till the end to say that this is such a good episode. Keep up the goodies you guys! Love ya❤
I always feel like listening Jess forever ❤
Jess is sooooo quick witted! I love it
Jess you’re SO right about the drive through, we’re a family of six, and my dad always asked 5 minutes before we arrived what do we want and he remembered everyone’s order!!
This was a great reminder that no couple is perfect. Even the amazing Contes have their moments. 💕 Hey, Bobby! 👋
This was so insightful and interesting, also super relatable and that made me think maybe the way we argue or things that irk us could be a personality thing but also women men thing??? Haha because i could relate to jess 😂😂😂 and yeah like Bobby said it was nice to hear stuff being already implemented to get things resolved good things to take from this podcast and Bobby did so good because he really was there for both sides, appreciate that 💛💛
omg omg omgggggg at the end when you both were talking about apologizing JUST IN THAT MOMENT i was thinking about that jess has a quote that she has said on the channel in the past that "its better to lose the argument than the person" with her lil hand movement that she did once AND JUST FEW SECS LATER you both said ittttt ahhhhhh it made me so happy hahahahahahah
The messy house comment is so relatable!
Also me and my husband are the same with the desserts and confrontational. I have to wait and he does not, I will say something being wrong and he will not. ☺️
Love you guys!!
I'd be very interested to hear both Jess' and Gabe's "pros and cons" of both America and Australia.
Love your counselor couple thanks conte
i relate to jess soooo much on all these issues
I am definitely with gabe, eating that dessert asap😂😂 and telling them when they got my order wrong (nicely of course!)
❤❤love yalls podcast , watching from Nova Scotia Canada ❤
I love these podcast! 🥰
I think this was the best episode so far ❤
This last phrase from Jess reminded me of a saying here in my country, "It's better to have peace than to have reason."
I loved this one! I always thought that a beautiful girl like Jess wouldn't be insecure or deal with jealously at all, but to see that she actually does or did made me feel more "normal" if that makes sense. Thank you!!
Totally get what you’re saying!
Lol I laughed at the sock folding comment. My partner told me earlier in our relationship that I wasn't folding washing correctly and I was like, "Oh really, is that so?" And he was like, "Yes, you do it the wrong way." So I said, "OK, well it looks like you've just earned yourself a lifetime gig because that's your job from now on for all our washing. That suits me just fine." Hahaha total backfire. 5 years later, the only time I fold his washing is when he's away for work but I make him do it when he's home😂 while I put everything in the washing machine to be washed and then in the dryer and he has to fold it and put it away lol.
Love y’all
Ok first, Bobby. I love how he’s just casually chilling lol. Secondly, my husbands family is an interrupting family and by golly it’s so hard sometimes 😅
Love love love you guys - come visit us in South Africa 🥹🇿🇦🩷
33:50 OMG I would just tell the driving person my order too 😂I can't scream I'm soft-spoken
Silent viewer here 👋 I am a 'wait for dessert & never complain about an order gone wrong' person too Jess! How funny 😄
29:30 topic. I do understand Gabe in this debate because it's part of marriage and being partners. Yes let's say that you want to resolve it yourself but try to think about what your partner would feel especially when they think that it's their fault. They just care about you and want to help you.
Jess is basically an internal processor and Gabe is an External processor 😅
This episode makes me want more marriage/communication advice from these two! Specifically would like to know what your weekly meetings look like
31:52 I work at Starbucks and I couldn’t tell you the amount of times I’ve had to say ‘im sorry I can’t hear you from the passenger seat’. I get both sides though cause it is easier to have everyone say their own, but those microphones can be muffled sometimes so the distance from the passenger seat can be hard to hear. I even have a hard time hearing people in the drivers seat sometimes.
Where Jess says sometimes you want to show you are right but its not worth it. I agree. But I see that in a point of view like sometimes when we argue or have certain opinion on something comes from a beilief which lot of the times we dont want to CHANGE as its a firm one. Its nice to be open to understand what other person has to say but when you cant find common ground. Its better to walk away. Understand the differences and not cross the boundries till you ready to understand or make a peace with saying okay thats their belief i dont have to agree neither them but understand where are we both coming from having this belief. Cause we as a Human BELIEVE in something and HOPE for better future or anything to SURVIVE.
Love you guys. I am more like jess with the cookie situation and the drive through. ❤
That was a great episode 🎉
I’m finally early 🎉 love yall
“Only cause you asked so nicely” I would lose it if my husband did that! 😂
Jess is soooo sassy here i LOVE!!!😍 so attractive
I like to wait alittle after dinner also before eating dessert! I need to wait and take my time like Jess lol
Bobby being the psychiatrist for Jess and Gabe's couple therapy 😂
looool we are getting TEA
I side up with Jess on all these points( Being a girl doesnt make me bias Lol but I see her argument being logical). Sorry Gabe !LoL.
Love the Cameo of Bobby , he is so good in understanding each person's point fo view. More podcasts with Bobby And Seb Please!
Good strategy to settle their differences by having Bob as referee.😂😂😂
i feel like jess doesn’t like gabe anymore 😂 like she’s stuck with him but at the same time is a female version on his personality but doesn’t want him to be the same bc it’s her personality now lol. i love you both 😂❤
Hey guys, loved the podcast! How can I join the members club?
The interrupting point was crazy, sent it to my boyfriend! I am Gabe and he is Jess in this situation, I didn't even think of our families being the cause but it makes so much sense😅
I'm the same as Gabriel, dessert right after dinner and I'll make sure they will give me what I order 😂😂
Another great episode! I felt disappointed about you previewed something that we wanted 45 minutes to hear and then found out we had to pay to hear it. Nonetheless, always love your guys' content! Keep it up 😊❤️
Gabe: The best at what?
Jess: The best at countrying 😂😂
Lol I’m definitely a “dessert right after dinner” person and I’ll definitely get people to fix my order if it’s wrong too😂
Enjoyed the video
I'm with Gabe with the donut sharing lol 😅
Definitely want Bobby on the podcast again!
I can totally relate to Jess with the cleaning and not liking hearing that the house is messy, and it’s not that I feel like I have the full responsibility because husband is nice about it and he cleans as well but like Jess said it’s just something that you want to do as the wife for your family lol
That’s really funny cause I’ll definitely want dessert right away and also have no problem telling someone I didn’t receive the correct item haha
I am a desert after dinner person like Gabe, but side with Jess about not wanting to inconvenience others and correcting orders. My husband is the opposite of me on both of those things.
22:56 I’m wheezing that hilarious
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i dont understand nothing in this podcast ep but I love you guys hey bob
This week’s podcast isnt here yet😫
Last comment (promise lol) Bobby kills these podcasts 👏🏻
Noooooo my musical brain so wanted Jess to resolve down at the end- it wouldve sounded so nice 😭
Hey Jess and Gabe ❤
ahahah I laughed so hard at the brownie situation.. happens all the time with my fiancé, I wait some time, and he always asks and I always give in and I’m like nah you can have it I guess 🤣 it’s usually always with desserts too!
But no, I’m the one who definitely wants to change the order if it’s wrong and my fiancé is like no no I’ll eat it it’s fine.
& oh my god we disagree on which country is the best. I’m Venezuelan but I’ve been in the States since I was 7 buuut home is home! I’m always like the quality of life is better in terms of family oriented and warm people. He is from NY-Italian and he is all no hahaha
Superrrr 💯% relate on the brownies and food sharing for me and my bub 😂🤦🏻♀️ i am very jess and he's very gabe. I think this might be common? 😆🤷🏻♀️
i thought i was the only one that gets a little sad when my fiance mentions something about the house being dirty😭😭😭🤣
I need to wait a little before a dessert 😊
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So far so good🤝🏻
I have no problem with podcast ...but love you more when there is more vlogging..its entertaining....podcast can be minimized...just putting out my view....😊
Can someone explain me who is buying their expensive t shirts with the huge writings on them????! Like why do you have to get so much money from your teenage subscribers who will buy just because they think you're cute? Hoodie for you song as well? Lol
Love the fact that bob is there to judge😅
In Aus, it's totally normal for the driver to pass on everyone's orders haha
Nope, I wait for my dessert & I politely get my order corrected if needed. 😊
I am so team Jess sometimes I like saving things for last!! and I do end up eating it if I love it sm😂 but I am also team gabe because if I don’t love it too much It will end up becoming a non eaten leftover
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from hamas
Dr Phil says “would you rather be right or would you rather be married?”
I’m a dessert right after, you got my order wrong person lol
Excited 🤗🤗🤗
I, f22, am definitely a dessert right after dinner AND a go fix your order person
On the drive through subject - whoever is driving is meant to say if it’s just me and my partner BUT if I say an order to him that’s too complicated he’ll say “I’m not going to remember that” and then I’ll just say my own
I think it’s already being at the box that’s extra awkward
I like to wait to eat my desert and I WILL NEVER correct a wrong order.
I’m a dessert right after dinner person and I also let people know if my order’s wrong haha 😂
we need Jess singing her national anthem!
Ok I am exactly like gabe re desert straight away & telling someone an orders wrong… & my partners exactly like Jess re waiting for desert & not saying anything 😂😂