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If You Have Few or No Friends, You Likely Have These 7 Rare Traits
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- Published on Mar 10, 2026
- Why do some people have few or no friends? Society tells you it's a flaw-but what if it's actually a sign of something rare?
In this deep psychological analysis, we explore the 7 Rare Traits found in people who walk alone. These aren't personality defects-they're evolutionary adaptations that separate the extraordinary from the ordinary.
🔍 WHAT YOU'LL DISCOVER:
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► Trait 1: Hyper-Acute Pattern Recognition - Why you see what others miss
► Trait 2: Intolerance for Social Entropy - Your brain's rejection of shallow interaction
► Trait 3: The Auto-Immune Response to Control - Why you can't be a follower
► Trait 4: The Architect's Obsession - Your monomaniacal focus on building
► Trait 5: The Unconscious Mirror - Why your presence triggers others
► Trait 6: Temporal Displacement - Living in the future while others live in the now
► Trait 7: The Autotelic Personality - Your internal engine that needs no external fuel
This video reveals the psychology behind why high-awareness individuals often find themselves isolated-and why that isolation might be your greatest asset.
⚠️ WARNING: This content challenges conventional thinking about loneliness, friendship, and social dynamics. Viewer discretion advised.
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📚 REFERENCES & RESEARCH:
• "Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience" - Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (Autotelic Personality research)
• "Thinking, Fast and Slow" - Daniel Kahneman (Pattern Recognition & Thin-Slicing)
• "The Interpretation of Dreams" & Jungian Shadow Work - Carl Jung (The Unconscious Mirror concept)
• Asch Conformity Experiments (1951) - Solomon Asch
• Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs - Abraham Maslow
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#psychology #darkpsychology #nofriends #loneliness #introvert #solitude #selfimprovement #personaldevelopment #mentalhealth #humanpsychology #socialanxiety #loner #sigma #mindset #deepthinking #intellectualstimulation #awareness #selfawareness #emotionalintelligence #rareminds
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Disclaimer: This video is intended for educational and documentary purposes only. To maintain a consistent and objective aesthetic, this channel utilizes a synthesized voiceover and AI-generated imagery. However, the script, research, structural editing, and curation are entirely original and human-led.
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Learn to be alone without being lonely. That is PEACE.
Just like the video said..
I don’t think being alone without loneliness is something learned. I believe if you are comfortable with yourself, you do not need the company of others all the time or even most of the time.
Agreed
This is me,
I am at peace then, i crave solitude. I am never bored
Those who walk alone aren’t lacking something - they’ve outgrown what most people still depend on.
Yes, I agree!
Well said
100%
Yeah I feel you with this one, I used to have lots of friends now I only have a few and most of the time im alone and im at peace with that
Most people depend on society, are not independent and or self sufficient. It is not their fault it is the indoctrination of society. They call it educationand I call it indoctrination. It is by design, the continuity of the elite, aka the Masters Card.
A friend to everyone is a friend to none
well said
BINGO!
Very good you got it 💯
"Small talk Is a theft of ur time"
Soooo true!
*your
Yes!
*Small talk drains me more than being alone ever did*
When I get stuck in that situation I have a memorized script that plays on autopilot while I consider solutions to problems in my head
100% agree small talk just a pain
Great minds discuss ideas, average minds discuss events and simple minds discuss people.
If someone did a fucking pie chart of which gets discussed more often, that thing would be damn near full of 'people' and the people or person they talk about the most would be themselves.
What do you think about the term 'second death' and or extinction?
Any thoughts or ideas?
Plato ?
I have no friends and I love it. Peaceful.
You're my kind of friend... Hello ,hello goodbye, goodbye 😊
Same here
I am part of the team.
I have few friends and I like being alone. I have my wife who I love immensely, my cat and dog. Being alone does not bother me. I enjoy it. It bothered me in HS. But by the time I got to college it did not bother me. I had friends in HS and college but realized it was not a priority
This video is nuts though. They don’t like me. They’ll be sorry when what a hoot
Doesn’t everyone have there traits or can relate to them
Same here and I am fine with it.
Most people aren't lonely because they're isolated- they're lonel because they're surrounded by people who drain them
BINGO. I've felt lonely because I'm surrounded my an ocean of sheep. I've tried the home lobotomy, but my lobes grew back.
Old age bites you in the backside when every one is gone & you will find yourself even wanting those people that drain you.
@earlworley-bd6zy that’s true, until you get them back, and realize that nothing has changed. Not them. And not what you needed.
For years, I've known this type of person as an "emotional vampire." I stay away from those people who demand too much time and energy from me.🧛🧛♂🧛♀
@bd4507last week was mu good bye to A vampire. Feeling Peaceful at last.🎶✨🕊️
being alone is not a liability, it's a blessing
some times yes
Why isn't a liability? Just elaborate , if you can ....
Agreed
@EzequielEcheverria-b3i it isnt a liability because you are the odd one out of the crowd.
It goes to show you have a completely different mindset from everyone else. And you can think for yourself and process the world in a way most people dont see it
I don't have any friends, but I have been married to my best friend for 26 years. He doesn't have any friends either. We love staying home. The world is too crazy for us. We are very happy and content.
U are so lucky❤
@mayamaya6478... I have 1 love, my wife of 53 yrs & my best friend,
Joe - 2003 Springer HarleyDavison
I'm content!
I wish I had that so bad. Blessings.
Wow you 2 found each other how great is that!
Amen
My mother always said, if you’re lucky…in life, maybe you’ll have one true friend and that is enough. May she rest in peace.
My mum was my best friend, may she also rest in peace with yours x
Your mom was correct. May she rest in peace
So true, mine are gone, you can’t make new ones past 60 that easily, I’ll stick with my dog
@kimdagnillo8246eeèew! Your dog.
My mother said if your lucky you'd have 5 true friends in life . I've had 2 . One died when we were teenagers.
I love not having friends. Most people are not of quality.
Most of the time you are being used.
Exactly
Many friends means having many obligations
Too many people are phony. They only care about what they can get from you.
@jackhammer8563exactly and also some raggedy relatives...
It is so refreshing to know that i am not the only person like this.
no you are not
This didn’t make me feel superior. It made me feel understood for the first time in years.
You said it clearly, its what you feel
Me too, i thought there was really something wrong with me
Agreed 👍
@janetthompson3307I had just accepted im not the standard template and learned i dont have any obligation to anyone
True I'm anyways misunderstood but it's ok I'm cool being by myself
I can't trust people anymore..been hurt too many times
Trust me.🎉
Too many Judases
I hear you, physically and mentally
@BigJayRolling TRUST ME BRO. PS, IM GONE NEED YOUR SEED PHRASE :))))
You are 100% right...I feel exactly the same way....No honesty in this world anymore....Too Bad.
I’ve always been like this. Just because I’m “alone” doesn’t mean I’m lonely
Exactly ❤
💯 well said ❤
Me too I'm a loner, I hate groups. I Hv got 1 friend only.. I liv alone I enjoying being alone..
Lier stop pretending to be strong u have opened this vid cause you feeling lonely 🤝
@sandrio-xno just curious about what others think 😂😂😂😂 curiousity is a natural state for anyone who thinks
Never tell anyone your problems. 20% don’t care and 80% are glad you have them.
That is ugly thought... and not true.
@colemant6845you are correct!
@colemant6845I believe it’s true
bingo!... those 80% are there because they crave to know there's people worse than them...
Profound statement!
My life began when I became fully alone.
Well said same here
I’m lonelier with people than I am by myself. Small talk and print gossip kills me. Idc about celebrities, fake news, I crave something deeper. So I’ve accepted a path of being alone. I’m at peace with it
My circle is tiny. There's a good reason for it.
My circle is so small it’s a C
@kimdagnillo8246my circle is so small it's a dot
There is a difference between being alone and being lonely.
Excellent social psychological statement. I am alone, not lonely. I am conservative because I see too much emotional herd mindthink bs indoctrination and social political correct ideology that does not make sense.
true
My grandma said, " if you're bored with yourself, image how boring you are to others".
I've been pretending to be dumb for way too long so I can socially fit in It sucks very accurate by the way
I tried that, but didn’t dumb down very well, and it took me forever to learn silence. Kids are nasty enough to make someone’s functional brain a liability. It’s a good thing my sons are intelligent, because they never needed a simpler version of my explanations or definitions - and were willing to ask for examples or a repeat. I admit that I occasionally resorted to “ask your father.”
Likewise, I played the dumb game way too long. That is over. God bless.
I tried that early on but hated being fake and won't ever again
Me too
In 1974, my Grandmother said to me, "Hell IS Other People" ... and she was absolutely correct!
Oh yea
Yep. I heard that and never questioned that.
I have to isolate away from the hate
I have found that the best way to deal with hate is to embrace it. If it is legitimate then you can learn from it and grow, if it's not, then you can laugh about it, and use it as fuel to add to your fire.
I like being alone at this age ,I see threw them all .
Where did you throw them?
I've liked being alone at every age. From as far back as I can remember.
@vinylmandate I was wondering the same.... 😊
I used to have a lot of friends but I learned my lesson
I never realized there were others who discovered themselves through isolation
Oh we’re NOT so special. We’re just Different. There are many of us but we’ll likely never meet let alone become Friends. It’s OKAY - knowing you are all out there, somewhere, is quite enough.
This is probably the most accurate video that explains why I am this way. I thought I was alone. This lets me know I was always on the right path.
I said the same thing!
I always just found most people boring; I always had hobbies that kept me busy.
This is exactly me too
Maybe you and I should be friends lol
Hobbies often helped my intellect get some exercise, always enjoyed them greatly, responsibility of a friendship like marriage creates growth that no hobby can equal. I married my best freind, becoming one is a blessed journey. Hard at times, but worth it. I was alone but not lonely for 45 yesrs, I was finally ready for companionship. You reap what you sow, sow bad things in the marriage or friendship, and you reap bad things. It not for everyone, but anyone can be alone.
It reframes having few or no friends not as a flaw, but as a sign of rare traits like depth, independence, and self-awareness. I really appreciate how it focuses on quality over quantity and encourages self-acceptance instead of comparison.
My grandmother said its because I don't suffer fools lightly
It's better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.
If you really need a friend, get a dog.
no, I still haven't gotten over my little Tia, humans yes Tia no Born 2000 died 2018
They are way more loyal for sure
@ronaldross8364 woof...woof...woof
I've got a friend in Jesus so I'm never alone 💙✌️💜😎🐕👣🌈☮️⚡ from Texas USA
@Oscar-z2j one of the best songs ever wrote and played, and when I die, I'm going up to the place that's the best
light attracts darkness, the higher the climb the more enemies you have
No it doesn't it drives it away
@Bumchops-mh6rg
Think of it this way: compassion is light, and dark individuals will likely think this is a weakness, especially narcissists who think they can manipulate said compassionate individuals.
@TranscendentSacredCourageyou can think anything you like but the statement was made that light attracts darkness and that is incorrect
@Bumchops-mh6rg
To each their own. Crying won't solve anything. Good-bye.
@TranscendentSacredCourage Huh? You should have stopped at 'to each their own'. The rest makes you sound like a 12-year-old.
This video is incredibly eye-opening. It perfectly explains what many introverted or deep-thinking people go through. I love how you turned loneliness into a sign of strength and individuality - truly inspiring!
Omg! This is Me!!! My motto is: MAKE YOUR MARK! RULE BREAKERS RULE!
Not loneliness, being alone rather. They literally explain that in this video.
SOLITUDE is safe, peaceful and priceless!
Lone wolf and proud 😊
Hell yeah my nickname ant solo for no reason
My problem is that people in general, don't want to understand or accept the truth. I could never push the "I believe" button without understanding. If I don't understand, I can't believe. Acceptance, for me, is, my understanding is required.
Walk alone.Walk the talk.Walk the path untrodden
I talk to myself for good conversation 😅
That's a sign of intelligence 😜
When I talk with myself, God listens
Exactly, although I don't always agree with myself.
It can lead to some quite interesting back and forth.
You're not alone 😂😂
Thank u I thought that was a problem I feel better now
Tener pocos amigos no es un defecto, es una señal de selectividad y conciencia
Too many friends as a distraction to my daily thoughts
like one. Einstein told his second wife that she was never to bother him and wasn't allowed in his room unless invited.
At least this video makes people feel less lonely....
This may be the reason I like cats more than people!🧐🤔🙂
And my dogs.
@robertcuminale1212Animals in general are, in most cases, more pleasant than humans!🙂
Aka the black sheep of the family or the black cats.
Yes, that was my title, too. Just because I was able to say no without hesitation to BS.
Most people are un-loyal and disappointing.
I have been alone for 63 years. I need to hear more. My walk with God has been long. I have seen miracles. God is with me always.
👣🙏🏼🐾
God be with you.
This connects perfectly with the “say less, win more” idea-silence isn’t emptiness, it’s leverage.
I have 0 family 0 friends. I have a cat and dog and God that's all I need.. I need money too I'm struggling but ppl use me gossip about me and I don't need ppl like that
What age range are you? Are you in the UK or USA?
In watching this video and feeling I'm fitting in on some levels as well with this video but not entirely in not a complete loner but also not as introverted anymore in my mind 40s only still feel we have been lied to a lot about so many things in life but many people are users sadly in life today I'm not into illegal drugs but seems like UK and USA average people women men all dealing drugs and in drugs daily nightmare every relationship is drug related and abusive if your not on drugs they turn on you and think your a oddball or loser or loner or weirdo creep or incel or gay or boring or different etc I feel I'm from the future in assuming the video is indicating we are more neuro divergent people? Like autistic or ADHD types maybe ? Neuro thinking not sure also when I talk to ordinary different average folk on drugs they assume your police etc as your talking about anything they sometimes give you dirty looks in England today thinking your undercover police etc all general conversations these days are so boring as well due to cancer mobile dumb phones many people can't hold any conversations online or real life evil taking over everything and everywhere sadly
Every human being need so
Someone. Adam had the entire animal kingdom yet God knew to make a female for him.
@MaryHosea-td7buGod made a female for Adam only because he felt lonely. We don’t know what would have happened if he had not.
@MaryHosea-td7buno , every human doesn’t need someone else, you don’t speak for me, speak for yourself
I am told I’m intimidating but alway with a smile and happy attitude
Me too!!
absolutely, i need logic, i am surrounded by egos and narracissit.
Add Liberals to that list and you nailed it for me
I don't seek nor need outside validation. If they don't like me the way I am, too bad.
And I don't like them back. 😊
"The future is a lonely place because noone has arrived there yet"--- stealing that one
Most people just have acquaintances, finding a friend, is like finding a diamond ❤
I am a lonely person. I've always felt that I didn't fit in, at school, at work, among my family and surprisingly, they have all pushed me away. But I'm not suffering of being lonely, I was born that way, I'm used to it. I despise small talks, reunions of people that have no meaningful aim or purpose. I lived with only 1 man in my life and he was fitting very well with me, he was highly intelligent and reflective, that is what is missing in the majority. Glad I've discovered your podcast, eager to listen to more insights. Thank you !
Thank you for sharing your experience and for the kind words!
I was always surrounded with "friends" in High school. Then two years later I was shot and paralyzed and my "friends" all disappeared. I am more happy without them as they were just using me for my ability to fight off people for them. So even though our situation is different I understand how you feel.
@jsantee1there is no better way to identify true friends than when you have problems; then you learn who your real friends are. It was a bitter pill for me to swallow, but a good reality check. Now, I don't need to waste time on these "fair weather" friends.
I tried the fitting in thing and I was successful. But it almost destroyed my private life. I had a LOT of friends if you can call them that. Then I went back to being myself and I have none and I'm at peace once again.
When no one is coming to save you, excuses disappear and strategy takes over. Standing alone forces a kind of clarity and discipline most never develop-and that’s often where real authority is forged.
If money is there to help some one servive.
I get more out of a 20 min conversation with my dog than I would ever get with an emotionally consumed human.
For far too many years I used drink to enable me to socialise. I finally realised that I am a loner and followed this way of life - and have been content and happy ever since - and have not needed alcohol.
For me, the trash finally took itself out. From this moment on, chemistry is the basement, spiritual alignment is the penthouse. On eagle mode.
This is crazy. It seems like I now understand who I really am!
Yes yes get to know YOU ,as your brother I am there myself and I LOVE IT thank God🙏🏾
the good part is when you stop trying to fit in.
For the longest I thought I was the problem. Nah, I just can’t put myself in situations or around people who have bad character traits. I take great pride in being a standup guy. With or without friends, I’ll always have Me. It doesn’t get any better than that.
You are not the problem!! Always choose you! I had to do the same. The noise from others can be so loud at times. Most are not capable of being a good human being. I love my solitude it saved my life. Everyone is not meant to go ❤
I rock in being alone
It is a long road to be the wolf but if you work on what you love you can find others that actually care for who you are and not what they want.
However they are rare
The false sence of belonging is the consequences of connecting, not the truth
very true, i hate small talk
dont do well at it either for the most part
Sometimes I want to be alone and sometimes I want company . I don’t like extremes , the middle path in life is the route to all happiness . ❤
Yes, there is a happy middle path. Mine is being alone 90% of the time. I have a small circle of friends who I know I can socialize with when I need it.
Phew chile I am bald headed af after this and it’s been so long since something has resonated this heavily! I love being sovereign and manipulation doesn’t work on me anymore.
When you look inside yourself you will find your best friend
I am lonely but I am peaceful ❤
I'm I supposed to feel special? I appreciate my independence without having to entertain someone else...
this video finally explains the apex paradox in plain sight.
the lonelier you are, the sharper you usually are.
pattern recognition makes fake people unbearable.
high need for cognition makes small talk feel like noise pollution.
resistance to control gets you labeled difficult instead of obedient.
the architect mindset trades parties for progress.
the autotellic engine means validation has zero leverage on you.
people call it loneliness because calling it evolution would scare them.
Quite insightful)
Actually👊🇬🇧
Happy you understand.
No friends. I love it❤
I've never been lonely in my life. I've been hurt but not lonely. Solitude is the only way I can experience freedoms, inner peace, and relaxation. I get to know myself better than I ever have. I would rather be alone rather than be with people who can't engage in meaningful conversation. There's a lot of crazy people out there. I don't want that.
I lost all my friends during combat in Vietnam. The people I have met since come up short in comparison to those I left in the jungles of Vietnam. I would rather have no friends if I had to accept those who come up short.
My late husband, also a Veteran who went to Vietnam, often said the same thing.
Not Vietnam, too young, but Iraq and Afghanistan. My best friends were issued to me, they toldme they were my squad. Now I'm alone and they are all waiting for me. I have a lot of acquaintances, very few friends, but only one squad.....till valhalla boys.
thanks for your service
Out of all the posts. Yours got me. Sorry for your loss. Thank you for your service sir. Mych respect!
Be strong brother, though you will never replace those you lost with anything close, you made it this far and that shows your inner individual strength.
Never ever dumb down. I know someone who is exactly like this. A genius who doesn’t like fools, sheep or anyone who lies. They have earned their superpower and are not going to share it.
Whe; I go to bars even full of people I know I'm alone in that I don't relate. When I'm walking (countryside or urban) I have friends and peace. I am a cheerful person but I walk my own path. School bullying taught me how to walk alone in peace.
This is by far the best video I've seen on this topic.
Lone wolf
Right with u brother 👊🏾
Same
I even look like a lone wolf
I'm so happy being this person. I used to feel wrong, because I was told so.
But I've learned the power in this.
Sounds like an INFJ.
I have grown to love going through life alone. I truly enjoy spending time by myself.
I have a great familiy and nice co-workers. But after a work day I need silence. Most people do not get it.
I've tried to fit in plenty of times, never works long term. I've always found thin slicing behavior in people. Thinking to myself, you don't really believe in what you're saying smh.
You aren't failing to fit in; you are failing to pretend. Once you have the ability to 'thin slice' and see the dissonance between what people say and what they believe, you cannot unsee it. Do not try to lower your resolution just to make the picture look pretty. That instinct is a filter use it.
I agree, i left the USA for 5 years. I felt so good at first not knowing the language or knowing anyone in the country. I felt free, now I want to be in the woods in the northern territories. I once thought ihad issues, but long ago i figured out most people waist everything every day. Im thinking about steps and what comes to be. Its just who we are. In short we are Awsome 😊
@jayairBofR💪🏿
My goodness, i really thought i was broken
I love being by myself, I enjoy having peace and quiet. I don’t need others to entertain myself. I’m leaving on Sunday to go snow skiing for a week by myself, and I’m fine with that. I couldn’t imagine going backpacking with other person. Other people drive me crazy, plus I don’t like loud noises, or high pitch voices. I would rather be alone, with my pets than hang around with other people.
Acquaintances are amongst the many friends are amongst the few
When family only talks about pop culture or only contact you when they need something and never returning the favor. I found life is 10 times easier only dealing with people who our on your exact wavelength or better off being alone. Being mostly alone saves time, money and a peace of mind, bad enough many of us have to work 8 to 10 hours a day then spend all evening cooking & running the kids around. Who has time for anyone else. I don't know who created this video, the comment about always living in the future, I thought I was only one doing that.
4:13 damn lol this is spot on CrAzy ..
7:02 I like that quote.. 🤏🏽🤏🏽🤏🏽
8:37 Lmaoo soon as part 3 came on.. the narcissist is what came to my mind lol 🎯
I am in Solitude but i must admit i am weak, i spend to much time gaming to much time on distractions. But unlike other i meet i feel it, i admit it and i know the time for awakening is soon. Thank you for your videos
Bro you need your game once in a while
@TradiFootballTalksor replace the game with something u can benefit from or learn new knowledge etc
@Themooryoukno9 naaaa as a sport person you need your game. Even holding the pad is therapeutic 😌
There is an Archer in All of Us . Solitude has many forms .
Solace vs. Solitude
Your honesty is admirable. I hope that you do the right thing for yourself
this video confermed everything i am but never connected the dots, thank you
HUMANS ARE SO CRUEL .... VERY FEW A REAL & TRUE GOOD HUMANS ON EARTH 💯
No not few. We are all sinners. No one is perfect and we interpret other people’s language and body language in ways that are right and wrong sometimes. Our patterns of experiences shape our fear. If we try to remember that we could be wrong in how we are interpreting their actions then a lot of the time we can overcome a false reaction to their action. For example, yesterday my husband was working on quickbooks and it is new to him and he does not have computer skills. He got stuck and asked me to help him fix it. I came over to the computer and his anxiety was high…. He was mad at the computer (not me), and he said: what are you doing…. Stop and listen to me, I am trying to explain what I need on here (angrily at me…. Even though I was quietly trying to help him)…..Anyway, he was expressing his anger at me although he was not mad at me he was mad at the computer. I used to get mad back at him because he directed it at me, but I have learned that he does not always know when he does it and when he does, it is usually not me that is the issue it is something else……….So now I don’t get mad back. I calmly redirect him and then he sees what he is doing. But for those actions another does against us out of pure meanness, yes, pull away because they are not to be trusted. But don’t lump all people into one circle of No Good humans on earth. I know many that actually care about others. I even care about you even though I have no idea who you are. There are a lot of good people out there. Look in a new location and you will find them. ❤
I love being alone honestly. I have out grown most people. I can’t handle fake people. I have one good friend & she is a true friend.
Loneliness is a state of mind
It's not a defect ... it's a feature ...
This video absolutely one-hundred percent describes me among other things as a person. I didn't know I had these rare traits until I saw this video. I don't deal with people or things unless it has substance or I can learn from them. I'm about information, learning daily, and definitely not small talk. I enjoy peace of mind over chaos, nobody stealing my joy, and my quiet time.. That's why my circle is small
“I am a glitch in the matrix “. That is so true and so funny! 👍👏🙃
I've healed alone a few too many times to need anyone
I’m o.k with people until they come at me wanting something that’s when they get drop kicked to the curb …..
The best video ever on this topic. Alone and at peace. My 40s will be all I ever wanted. I made that promise to myself. I play my part and look forward to my solitude at the end of the day.
I use to care but don’t now
When somebody defines the difference between friendship and acquaintances they acknowledge they don't have as many friends as they thought they had
Acquaintances want things from you but are never around when you need something ... Friends are there regardless .... Lots of acquaintances very few friends
A few very good friends is better than many fake friends.
Amen