How no contact hacks the narcissist's mind

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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024

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  • @joebhouse
    @joebhouse  11 месяцев назад +5

    Don't forget to check out my other Channel!
    m.ruclips.net/user/results?sp=mAEA&search_query=chillin+with+joe

  • @mirrormirroru
    @mirrormirroru 11 месяцев назад +93

    LMAOOOOOOO… I discarded mine & left him on Christmas Eve… He left to spend time with the new supply so it gave me enough time to finally WAKE UP!!! I packed my car & I took my Gifts that he bought me..He spent over 2K..I also took ALL the gifts I bought him & left like a thief in the night ..He returned home from the new supply to a empty home & a bare Christmas tree😂 He can’t believe it…he actually thought I would allow him to continue to devalue me & discard me…NOPE!!!Omg it’s hilarious to read the text of him blaming me for leaving… I WON & I’ll NEVER go back…I’m so proud of myself

    • @TheShitArtist
      @TheShitArtist 11 месяцев назад +5

      Well done, love

    • @Bleepbloopblarp
      @Bleepbloopblarp 11 месяцев назад +9

      Omg this is how its done! I love that you left him with nothing just like he deserves. So proud of you!!! ❤

    • @bigboss6867
      @bigboss6867 9 месяцев назад +1

      Does that mean you're single?

    • @mirrormirroru
      @mirrormirroru 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@bigboss6867 lol absolutely..Thank God

    • @user56gghtf
      @user56gghtf 7 месяцев назад +2

      How are you doing now?

  • @noturbo
    @noturbo 11 месяцев назад +29

    Think she miscalculated who i am , she mistook empathy for weakness she got me to love her then treated me so bad i dont give a shit what she does

  • @lorishu48103
    @lorishu48103 8 месяцев назад +8

    Your voice is soothing the constant panic

  • @TMMT4
    @TMMT4 11 месяцев назад +37

    No contact in narcissism is necessary and about you healing, it isn’t about them and their hurt…They intentionally tried to hurt you so them suffering is on them

  • @flossy-kg5qc
    @flossy-kg5qc 6 месяцев назад +19

    Stick with it!!! The more time you are in no contact, the more you heal mentally, physically, emotionally, and spiritually. I absolutely love it!!
    Best regards everyone.💝💝💝

  • @everett552
    @everett552 Год назад +188

    It's been nearly 5 years since I discarded the ex narc and I still get calls from random numbers.. I just block and delete them. Narcissists and exes should be one and done. No sequels, part 2's or second chances.

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 Год назад +15

      Anonymous cyper harassment for the last 15+ years over here. And I don't social media. I went through the anonymous phone calls too, especially during my sleeping hours. I should of changed my email address years ago but I have over 60 accounts linked to my email. Massive computer email spam I keep getting signed up for. Her going to my job and trying to get me fired was not enough. Good luck to you.

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 Год назад +18

      It's been almost 4 yrs since I went no contact with the narc. I, too, get calls/texts from random numbers but they go unanswered, ignored, blocked & deleted!

    • @wmhhealth2018
      @wmhhealth2018 Год назад +11

      I've had 2 relationships with narcissist girlfriends 1 cycle each no contact immediately after.

    • @everett552
      @everett552 Год назад

      ​@@jjones4314Good!!

    • @shoolbhritdarshan8244
      @shoolbhritdarshan8244 Год назад +1

      Same here

  • @julianterris
    @julianterris Год назад +88

    Going no contact not only robs them of the pleasure of inflicting "pain" on you, but it causes a "life crisis" that borders on an existential threat: it eviscerates their internal narrative -their (false) version of reality. They were expecting you to come (running and crying) back because you're "weak" and "stupid" -and yet there you are: *not* begging for forgiveness, and *walking* and *staying* away! 😵‍💫The only thing left for them to do -is to double down on "what an awful person you are..." They enact #ScorchedEarthPolicy -and attempt to utterly destroy your reputation, lest *the truth* be revealed. Be willing to "go 'possum" ie: gnaw your own foot off, to free yourself from the gin trap that they set for you. You have to be willing to "lose it all" to gain your freedom.

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful Год назад +8

      "Lose it all to gain your freedom" very interesting since my slogan is "You fight to be free or die in chains"

    • @dedemartin7864
      @dedemartin7864 Год назад +6

      WOW 😮 I agree 💯
      Their false version of reality. Hunting 🎯 isn't fun when the rabbit has the gun 🔫 🤣🤣🤣
      You have to be willing to lose it all. To gain your freedom. 🙏

    • @cherri_p
      @cherri_p Год назад +11

      This is where I am at right now. Fixing to lose it all and walk away from home and most of possessions. No looking back t - 30 days

    • @cynthiafortier2540
      @cynthiafortier2540 11 месяцев назад +1

      So true!!

    • @LasLejanasAventurasDeSanMiguel
      @LasLejanasAventurasDeSanMiguel 3 месяца назад +1

      Amen

  • @Solidrocfitness
    @Solidrocfitness 11 месяцев назад +51

    My narcissistic wife came to me and told me she thinks we should get a divorce. This is after giving me the silent treatment for several weeks. I didn't chase her then. When she proposed the idea of separation, I calmly said okay. I can tell by her facial expression that she wasn't expecting that. We have been estranged and in a state of alienation for months. I am planning my escape as we speak.

    • @joshnelson2090
      @joshnelson2090 11 месяцев назад +6

      God speed brother, stay strong and keep a steady hand at the helm. Get out as soon as you can, the sooner you're gone the sooner you can move on.

    • @cynthiafortier2540
      @cynthiafortier2540 11 месяцев назад +3

      Good for you, stay strong, don't fall for the I will change story, all lies!! Stay strong soldier!! Prayers to you!!

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 10 месяцев назад

      and that's how you call Narky's bluff folks...

    • @SpiritualMeka
      @SpiritualMeka 10 месяцев назад +1

      I'm in a similar situation. My husband and I just got married 2 months ago after being together for 3 years and he decided he doesn't want to be married anymore, discarded me and blocked me. I feel so disappointed in myself for allowing him into my life but I've filled out my divorce papers and I don't know how to serve him; he's an over the road truck driver. He actually started 1 week after we got married and left me at home for weeks on end. His reason for not wanting to be married anymore is because I asked for quality time 😢

    • @Solidrocfitness
      @Solidrocfitness 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@SpiritualMeka I'm sorry to hear that you're going through this. The best thing a narcissist can do is show you who and what they indeed are. If you ever want to talk do hesitate to reach out.

  • @clintonalver2715
    @clintonalver2715 Год назад +174

    Chasing a narc is the dumbest possible thing I can think of, even literal garbage is more useful to me

    • @jenofthejungle3023
      @jenofthejungle3023 Год назад +7

      I must be pretty dumb then because I did.

    • @redherronrecords
      @redherronrecords Год назад

      ​@@jenofthejungle3023if they are mirroring and love bombing you (again) to get you back... you are probably pretty good supply 🙂

    • @clintonalver2715
      @clintonalver2715 Год назад +6

      @@jenofthejungle3023 I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you've found peace now

    • @justpde
      @justpde Год назад +7

      Yes, atleast garbage can be used for compost !!!

    • @ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω
      @ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω Год назад +10

      I am ashamed of myself for having chased him for some time. Thank God, I decided to leave, having lost my self-respect first.

  • @MrBeard-ig5zc
    @MrBeard-ig5zc 3 месяца назад +3

    In retrospect. The worse abuse of my life was a blessing in disguise. I’ve jumped up in vibration.

  • @caribooskidoo3997
    @caribooskidoo3997 6 месяцев назад +4

    ". . . and the noise is gone." I like that very much.

  • @djdoolittle1315
    @djdoolittle1315 Год назад +25

    Your not feeding off me no more. I’m free to be me 😊💚

  • @BJBlaskovichGaming
    @BJBlaskovichGaming Месяц назад +2

    20 months narc free and counting! Staying strong, it’s easy at this point.

  • @zombiemolly9711
    @zombiemolly9711 5 месяцев назад +5

    I have grown from this. I have discovered things about my family dynamics, and what I need to be aware of in future relationships.

  • @joannfreedman8807
    @joannfreedman8807 Год назад +76

    Just did it!!!!!!! No contact. Got my power back!!!!! Learned my lesson!!!! Thank you ❤! I love your videos, always on time , like sent from above! . ❤

  • @jumpinjohnnyruss
    @jumpinjohnnyruss Год назад +42

    It's easier for them to treat someone who cuts them off as deliberately attacking them than it is for them to treat such a person as just disinterested. "They couldn't be disinterested. They must be feigning disinterest to attack me. I'll attack them back."

    • @vanessas2363
      @vanessas2363 Год назад

      Yes. They are so ego driven and deluded! God's gift to the world.
      Arseholes!!!
      And dangerous

    • @LN-jr6nj
      @LN-jr6nj Год назад +9

      They cant accept disinterest. It just can’t be that someone isnt interested in them. I told a narcissist this tactfully and he went on a smear campaign about how I was leading him on. Nothing could be further from the truth.

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 10 месяцев назад

      You rejected Narky. That Nark should be now looking for your approval and validation. Narky isn't good enough because of your fine qualities...

  • @sajor1847
    @sajor1847 Год назад +28

    My narcissist husband passed away after having a narcissist injury. Just as you say, I had nothing left to give, and he was not satisfied with that. He literally drank himself to death. No one left to lift him up.
    Now his narcissist mother, after 2 years no contact sends me letter in the mail. I sent it back after writing return to sender on it. You've help me understand why this woman is sending me mail. She has sent me a card once or twice in the 24 years I was married to her son. I don't have a relationship with her. she's in her 80s now and running low on supply which is why I'm sure she's contacted me. No supply here ever!

    • @treshasstarr1513
      @treshasstarr1513 Год назад +5

      Good for you, u took ur power back

    • @PicassoBeatz
      @PicassoBeatz Год назад

      Talk some personal responsibility for letting people see how weak you are. Post sounds fake, or you should just be a pro victim.

    • @RandallGlatt
      @RandallGlatt 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah of course she's wanting to make you feel guilty...

    • @BJBlaskovichGaming
      @BJBlaskovichGaming Месяц назад

      The only thing I would have done differently there is I would have thrown it in the trash. No RTS, no supply for the narc mom (oh yes, she got supply off that RTS! I promise).

  • @NickRivers-bk2ni
    @NickRivers-bk2ni 5 месяцев назад +4

    6 months narc free! Every day I realize how much better off I am. I thank God for opening my eyes.

  • @BR9900-w5l
    @BR9900-w5l Год назад +47

    4 month's and I've pretty much forgotten about this POS! I discarded him so good riddance. You have the best channel Joe. Respect from Australia 🇦🇺 🙌

    • @bradmcewen
      @bradmcewen Год назад +9

      No contact clarity removes the fog of cognitive dissonance. Changes lifes desires. The awareness expands well past the relationshit narc. Thats the education you keep. 🤜🤛

    • @BR9900-w5l
      @BR9900-w5l Год назад +5

      @@bradmcewen 100% facts!!

  • @PrettyMamaPatchwork
    @PrettyMamaPatchwork 11 месяцев назад +10

    I've taken away their freedom to abuse me.

  • @Angell_Lee
    @Angell_Lee Год назад +24

    Thank you for your video! Narc minds are wired differently, it is all for destruction and to turn you void of any hope. The more you focus on your self-love and building your most beautiful life as you deserve it for yourself, the more immune you will be to those dark energies. Much blessings to you xo

    • @dontbelongherefromanother
      @dontbelongherefromanother Год назад

      Right, narcs are seething with rage and envy, but lack the foresight that they are problematic for others and that their victims get tired of being used, abused, and gaslit. It's enough to drive anyone to the madhouse dealing with them. It's like narcs can't accept defeat and want power and control at all costs. It doesn't matter if they are emotionally exhausting and destructive to their victims because narcs lack empathy and believe they are always right, and others are wrong.

  • @aurorarene9909
    @aurorarene9909 Год назад +27

    One of the best channels on narcissists

  • @nancygarrett7972
    @nancygarrett7972 Год назад +11

    After a lifetime of derision and blame from certain family members, then a narcissistic hubby that coached the kid to bail on me, I went no contact radio silent.
    That’s when I went from “can’t do anything right” to “abusive” and “bully”.
    Amazing, how many people are so miserable at my building of a fine life for myself.

  • @NotYourOrdinaryDogWalker
    @NotYourOrdinaryDogWalker Год назад +11

    Exactly-interrupt the lies they tell themselves.

  • @Msdiamondbby
    @Msdiamondbby Год назад +16

    They discard you for someone else but steady coming watching your social media from a far 😮‍💨😮‍💨 I had to deactivate all social media and go no contact it’s been a month now ! Being hurt by a narcissist is the worst pain ever especially when you was blind to it

    • @sscot720
      @sscot720 Год назад +5

      Don't worry, I made mine leave in April 2022, and 6 months later , I was fine.. I pray, and I watch videos on stoicism also, and I concentrate on work, family, etc.. and educated myself on narcissism and alcoholism.. (he was both),, and now after a year he came knocking on my door.. I didn't answer it.. and I feel fine.. hang in there , and stay No Contact !

  • @prunelle9051
    @prunelle9051 10 месяцев назад +7

    3 years later... a flying monkey ( who's not related to me in any ways) 'Told me ' You know someone is really mad at you'' . Knowing that I have no beef with anyone... I just continued what I was doing without care nor giving it any attention. BOOM. Now he can be pissy with his ''entourage''. Return to sender... return to sender 🎶🎶

  • @louiseelliott6404
    @louiseelliott6404 Год назад +13

    Leaky tap sums the narcissist up real well. Thanks Joe. Love your videos. You have such a calming voice and you talk so much sense about the narcissist. Much appreciated on my healing journey. ❤️‍🩹 Thank you.

  • @Realmer-fz1re
    @Realmer-fz1re Год назад +25

    All what narcs think of is Food & Sex. They consider nothing else seriously, and no body should do anything but these two with a narcissist

    • @johoward-rk9nw
      @johoward-rk9nw Год назад +15

      Also 💰

    • @JP-db8dy
      @JP-db8dy Год назад +9

      Don’t forget the drugs

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 3 месяца назад +2

      Add money issues. Every narcissist that I have known has had spending money issues. Living beyond their means in an attempt to impress everyone around them. Also, they usually have massive debt and want to “borrow” money with no intention of paying it back.

    • @Realmer-fz1re
      @Realmer-fz1re 3 месяца назад +1

      @@racebannon96 @racebannon96 I agree, my ex had $12,000 speed tickets let alone the rest, but that's fine considering she's a young narc, but my father whomever meets him, ends up being his creditor, I cannot estimate that but it's millions.

    • @BJBlaskovichGaming
      @BJBlaskovichGaming Месяц назад

      Don’t forget money and material possessions of all kinds.

  • @bratbalal9042
    @bratbalal9042 Год назад +10

    Thank you youtube, can’t imagine how hard the old generation would have suffered

  • @ericxplosion08
    @ericxplosion08 Год назад +6

    your voice is so calming.

  • @lioubovgrant1935
    @lioubovgrant1935 Год назад +16

    New video in the morning and a cup of joe ☕☕ with Joe is my favorite thing !😊 Beautiful images of the nature and your calming voice are very therapeutic. Thank you for magic of Joe B. House ! 🤗❤

  • @JUMPforyourLIFE
    @JUMPforyourLIFE 11 месяцев назад +1

    I’m love’n the pint of beer analogy! 😂

  • @ladyvirgo013
    @ladyvirgo013 Год назад +10

    Thankfully ive done much better with Zero contact with my soon ex husband of 12 years...he can stay shacked up with that Jezebel Secretary from his work, i don't need his chaos

  • @Bleepbloopblarp
    @Bleepbloopblarp 11 месяцев назад +2

    No more leaky tap for me!
    He really was such a drip 😂

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 8 месяцев назад +2

    It was the most freeing thing I ever did for myself.😊

  • @katieresendez6257
    @katieresendez6257 Год назад +5

    I like this… the voice is calming too

  • @adamslosar5574
    @adamslosar5574 Год назад +6

    Excellent your voice does help as well married 23 years to our horrible, horrible toxic woman the first several months I didn’t even know where I was but through hard work and great therapy. It is literally the best thing that’s ever happened to me and our kids.

    • @DS-dn4ml
      @DS-dn4ml Год назад +3

      I just escaped my narcissistic wife 5 months ago by literally moving out of my house that I bought. I too was married to her for 23 years! I made the mistake of contacting them in person in hope that they (my wife and my brainwashed children) have changed, but only to find them even more hostile, trying to pull me back in because I am their only economic supply. It almost worked, but I got back to my senses and blocked their phones and messages. I’m still in the process of healing, but no contact is the only solution. I’ve started to see a lawyer to plan out a way out of this nightmare. It will take time I know, but I’m finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @palomahair8616
    @palomahair8616 Год назад +13

    My ex done that i was there for 7 months then went no contact he thought i would not stop like before humiliating myself and he there abusing me with new supply now both are there left high and dry after 3 months no contact he will learn that i m not coming back no longer falling on is games i m done....

  • @smartsurvival2605
    @smartsurvival2605 Год назад +7

    Even thinking that way is evil.

  • @ChristinaLagergren
    @ChristinaLagergren Год назад +3

    My Story, always, all the time. That door is closed and the tables are turned and they will se who I am.

  • @shirlspark_stardust
    @shirlspark_stardust Год назад +4

    Gm I discarded the narcissist and filed my divorce papers many months ago I emailed him and he said things that ,I needed as proof for courts I filed my divorce decree under adultery and cruelty after .I cut off contact he has hoovered twice ,called my phone several times and now he sends mail ,I’m silent no response reply nothing I remember saying be around to sign the divorce papers I refuse to take back that toxic misreble creature or give him any energy ever again.

  • @francesbernard2445
    @francesbernard2445 Год назад +11

    Laughable when the narcissist goes no contact with someone whom they are discarding and then the narcissist starts becoming a worse hoarder as time goes on. Some narcissists hoard weapons and furniture and properties like farms too which they fully intend to be abandoning too while that narcissist is going from bed to bed to bed only to congratulate themselves each time they get in their grip a new lover.

  • @ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΠΑΔΟΠΟΥΛΟΥ-π7ω

    Whenever I went no contact he would always appear and hoover.
    This time I don't think he is coming back, after the things I told him when I left him. I told the truth, of course, what a terrible person he is. And that he shouldn't dare contact me or talk to me again!

  • @m.e.tuthill8874
    @m.e.tuthill8874 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for reaching out. When I wrote the comment, I was discouraged that so many videos were about couples. Subsequently I have found very good ones about siblings and parents. I grew up with three narcissists, my dad, and my older brother & sister. Mainstream docs--clueless by the way. My dad died and I have gone "no contact" with siblings--

  • @BD-jo8ih
    @BD-jo8ih 11 месяцев назад +3

    Twice now I've been threatened with a "break-up". Only I'm so numb to the constant attacks on my sanity and emotional well-being that I couldn't care less. This infuriated him so much that he started calling me a psychopath for not caring, and how could I do this to him? My natural reactions to his abuse are "spiteful" and "petty". And yes, I've noticed that when I am around these types of people I become more like them and I hate it. I hate that the most out of everything.

  • @Gwendeline
    @Gwendeline 7 месяцев назад +1

    Sadly my heart still feels for these narcissistic people I loved but the hardest part is learning I can’t fix shit if I’m broken hence my sick cycle carousel great song

  • @Djepetto13
    @Djepetto13 Год назад +5

    I always wondered how dandelions did that lol. You are absolutely correct! Great video!

  • @cajuncrackerranch7990
    @cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад +25

    Good morning Joe! ☕️
    Thank you 🙏.
    Noise. Yes. All Cluster B’s generate noise. Even when you think it is quiet… there is this constant frequency in the background no matter where you are. Sometimes you can hear the shift in tone like a singer getting off pitch to the instruments and the key they are playing in; it’s sprinkles of sour. The Cluster B also hum every waking hour of the day. This is a sign of them trying to drown out the noise in their own head. At first you think it’s cute, you join in from time to time and if you are good you harmonize the 3rd, 5th, 7th. But when you join them… they STOP! And look at you like who are you and how do you know what they are doing or much less humming? That look of fear… “you can hear what’s going on in my head?”
    I was once asked, “If you had to give me a nick name what would it be?” My immediate response without hesitation, White Noise!
    Back in the days when the television only had three channels and when the broadcast ended… the screen would phase to a fuzzy black and white screen signal lost and just that noise, white noise. 20 years is a long time to have that noise in your background. Eventually, you just turn it off and unplug the tv and set it out on the street and move out to the country. Now it’s so quiet and peaceful…I can hear crickets phuck! 😂 And now, back to my coffee. Peace ✌️

    • @shadowyshutterbug
      @shadowyshutterbug Год назад +5

      very nice writing style and good points

    • @cajuncrackerranch7990
      @cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад +1

      @@shadowyshutterbug thank you 🙏. Much appreciated.

    • @Meruffy
      @Meruffy Год назад +2

      Nailed it. Mine whistled. Now I know why!

    • @cherri_p
      @cherri_p Год назад +1

      OMG, never thought about that whistling, humming he does all the time. Almost like happy while mulls around. Happy that he thinks he is destroying me.

    • @cajuncrackerranch7990
      @cajuncrackerranch7990 Год назад +1

      @@cherri_p Hmmm! There is no happiness inside them I assure you. It is the internal low vibrating constant frequency of the hell within them blended with white noise and static dead numb dumb conundrum bouncing in the echo chamber desperately seeking the next transmission to maintain the illusion before you without allowing their mask to fracture, split, fall, and break. On with the show they must go until they have been exposed. Stay alert! Stay alive! Stay strong! Peace ✌️

  • @tboo41
    @tboo41 Год назад +4

    Definitely can't spend the block twice ✌🏿

  • @jynx7254
    @jynx7254 10 месяцев назад +2

    ive been going no contact for 4 years but he stills tried to get my attention with harassment such as pizza deliveries. annoying but im moving soon!

  • @mortischahicks5341
    @mortischahicks5341 3 месяца назад

    NoContact was the best thing I had ever done. I have been No contact for 220 days! I am still working on me therapy and journaling every single day. I love my life without him! Stay strong and be safe.

  • @reuvensg
    @reuvensg Год назад +2

    Great narration cadance dude, makes me want to listen to you tell an audio book

  • @donaldcummings6439
    @donaldcummings6439 Год назад +5

    Well presented common sense video presentation. Thank you

  • @ninaquick1855
    @ninaquick1855 11 месяцев назад +5

    My narc ex pushed me out of the door several times and then acted as if nothing happened and would be all surprised why I would just shut down and not engage in communication days after

  • @getbusyliving144
    @getbusyliving144 Год назад +5

    Thanks Joe! Love your videos!

  • @debbiehepler2007
    @debbiehepler2007 Год назад +5

    Thanks for another great video!

  • @lindaeasley5606
    @lindaeasley5606 Год назад +5

    Narcs constantly need fuel whether is negative or positive feedback from others
    Ignoring them cuts them off from fuel sources

  • @mostHigh23
    @mostHigh23 8 месяцев назад +1

    It has been working for me ever since I started it.😅🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @dezonwill33
    @dezonwill33 5 месяцев назад +1

    I went no contact for years come to find out she was stalking me the whole time plotting revenge because in her delusional mind I was supposed to chase and beg that mut to come back she’s crazy you don’t chase the garbage truck to try to get your trash back

  • @noveltycrusade
    @noveltycrusade Год назад +7

    One size does not fit all❤❤

  • @Delta-qz3mb
    @Delta-qz3mb Год назад +2

    Lol, sad that we don’t have them. I was sad AF with them lol

  • @jenofthejungle3023
    @jenofthejungle3023 Год назад +5

    Its too bad I didn't know this before the fact. I gave him everything he was expecting. I was devastated when he discarded me because he had made me feel so worthless. I wish I could disrupt him now but its too late. He already hurt me. He won.

    • @user-of9bx1uk3u
      @user-of9bx1uk3u Год назад +1

      One word therapy!❤️

    • @jenofthejungle3023
      @jenofthejungle3023 Год назад

      @@user-of9bx1uk3u I don't need therapy. I just need to make sure it doesn't happen again. It wasn't me with the problem, it was him. The problem went away as soon as he did.

    • @astrialindah2773
      @astrialindah2773 Год назад +5

      Anytime you get away from a narcissist it is a win for you.... No matter if you were discarded or you did the discarding!

    • @IsabellaPiesch
      @IsabellaPiesch Год назад +4

      He didn´t win. You won. Because you got your second chance - a more precious life without the narcissist and his toxity. In fact the discard is no loss it is a win. Just learn to love yourself! It is never a loss to lose a toxic person.

    • @tinaelert2865
      @tinaelert2865 Год назад +3

      The same thing happened to me, I did nothing wrong to deserve being dumped but they will do this to the next person too so don't feel worthless because it's not anything you did wrong and they aren't going to live happily ever after with someone else like they are trying to portray, it only appears like they won but time will reveal that they lost and you won

  • @christineallen450
    @christineallen450 Год назад +7

    No Contact is Your Super Power & The Narc continues to Lurk in the Shadows 😂

    • @Wendy-LeeRattenbury
      @Wendy-LeeRattenbury Год назад

      Just hope others - especially their own family pull them up on all the lies - they'll run out of an audience soon enough ! I was probably lucky - just one 'ghost call' on my phone of 1 minute .... (no personal message).

  • @marydellgeorge2425
    @marydellgeorge2425 Год назад +3

    Thank You
    So very much
    For this
    Video
    I appreciate
    You
    You put things
    Into proper
    Perspective

  • @jonnasweeney405
    @jonnasweeney405 Год назад +1

    Thank you 🍃

  • @grasshopper2144
    @grasshopper2144 Год назад +14

    Love your video's mate!! !My ex narc prank called me after 6 years and then sent a flying monkey with no success. They say no response is a response. My question is, does the narc get supply knowing they may have upset you even though you have stayed no contact?

  • @Beleeber
    @Beleeber Год назад +4

    Qiestion - even if the narcisist is immersed in another relationship, should i still be concerned that the no contact order is coming to an end? And he has a criminal.record now bc of me...i left THREE years ago

    • @shell92478
      @shell92478 Год назад +10

      Always be on your toes. When they're bored they'll search you out, you and all the others.

  • @genevievechirelstein6537
    @genevievechirelstein6537 Год назад +1

    Thank you

  • @jacksavage279
    @jacksavage279 Год назад +1

    True.

  • @ginamancino3404
    @ginamancino3404 Год назад +7

    Will this make them rageful and want to seek vengeance?

    • @tonyconnor5691
      @tonyconnor5691 Год назад +8

      Sometimes yes

    • @racebannon96
      @racebannon96 Год назад +14

      Anything can set them off. They are vindictive and hateful creatures.

    • @htpm325
      @htpm325 Год назад +16

      Possibly. At a minimum it will kick off a smear campaign. If they cannot control you then they seek to control how others see you. Any friend of theirs is to be avoided moving forward.
      Take care. Peace!

    • @AAXS-op1vo
      @AAXS-op1vo Год назад +5

      Depends on what TYPE of narcissist they are.

    • @Xen-AM
      @Xen-AM Год назад +2

      In my case, yes. Still being stalked by the one I discarded and went no contact nearly two years later. He’s violent and vindictive, though. Extremely unstable person.

  • @Sorcerers_Apprentice_11
    @Sorcerers_Apprentice_11 Год назад +1

    Well said, good work

  • @TriniStarr3527
    @TriniStarr3527 9 месяцев назад

    🙏💙

  • @beingpallavi3272
    @beingpallavi3272 Год назад +1

    😊🙏🙏

  • @blastprosful
    @blastprosful Год назад

    Unless they monkey branched to new supply... they couldn't care less about you.

  • @m.e.tuthill8874
    @m.e.tuthill8874 Год назад +1

    why always romantic context --????

  • @mnmz8393
    @mnmz8393 11 месяцев назад

    Take it one layer deeper folks.
    Everyone is a narcissist 😉

  • @lindacampbell1808
    @lindacampbell1808 Год назад +2

    I’ve heard all the dirt on Narcissists, can I hear some positives . A narcissist doesn’t have to have you in their life, however what would y’all do w/o a narcissist? Then who would you dig on? Get a grip people! You have a choice go or stay, it’s your life.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 Год назад

      There is nothing positive about demons or Satan, clown!

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 Год назад +13

      Actually you do need our type in your life because you can't survive without us, but guess what we really can survive without you because we are real people and your not!

    • @lindacampbell1808
      @lindacampbell1808 Год назад +1

      @@viewerwatching5712
      I’d love to hear your theory on that one! Anyone with an iota of sense knows to start an engine take a positive & a negative. If one is confident in themselves you don’t need the circus or monkeys, unless of course you like that kind of gig yourselves.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 Год назад

      @@lindacampbell1808 no supply here devil!

    • @cameron.t
      @cameron.t Год назад +4

      @@viewerwatching5712You’re replying to a lost narcissist 😂
      Bro/ette really looking into the mirror and doubling down on it 😂😂

  • @flowersofthefield340
    @flowersofthefield340 3 месяца назад

    🔋🪫🔌