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Discussing My Trauma | EMDR therapy | PTSD and OCD (uncut)
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- Опубликовано: 28 фев 2020
- Hey guys! I hope this helps anyone suffering from anxiety, PTSD, OCD or trauma. These were our experiences of EMDR therapy. If you find videos like this helpful, let us know in the comments and we'll continue to make them! Lots of love x
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Fun fact: Fortunately, because Rosie's bisexual, her therapist told her the trauma was just a phase.
“if i make jokes is because i’m uncomfortable” CHANDLER BING ENERGY
I ACTUALLY THINK I DID VERY WELL hahahahaha
Rose and Rosie *[in janice’s voice] OH. MY. GOD.* YOU ACTUALLY REPLIED EXCUSE ME WHILE I CRY FOR THE REST OF THE DAY
Rose and Rosie AND YES YOU ABSOLUTELY DID
Literally! Like “oh...my...god”
FUCK YEA
5:48 when Rosie just says "k" and Rose stops talking immediately. fantastic example of setting and respecting boundaries. love it.
Yes! They have such great respect for each other
Yes It's amazing
Yes It's amazing
They get each other so well. I mean, a 'k' was enough while some of us need to cry to stop our partners.
@@bread2951 I'm making that a red flag from now on. If I confided something in a person and they still trample over my boundary, then it's over because they couldn't respect me enough to believe the severity of an issue to me.
"If I make jokes is because I'm uncomfortable" is literally me in every serious situation
Omg we both have marceline!!!!
I love how Rosie is, the way she talks to us and tell about her insecurities. Rosie thank you for being you.
@@smilebehappy6102 It's Ellen
She is very brave to talk about it.
It's great they have the love and support of each other. Rose leaving the light on during the night just so her beautiful wife can sleep shows just how much Rose loves Rosie.😪😴💡
16:41 Rosie stopping to quickly say "I love you" to Rose before continuing is literally the cutest thing.
honestly, I melted
Yes I die
As someone with terrible PTSD from assault and abuse, this isn’t talked about enough. I am so thankful for you both. I’m a week from a terrible anniversary. my panic attacks have been frequent and I’ve had horrid anxiety and depression and I’m so so grateful for this video. Thank you for your uncut honesty and absolute kindness and softness when regarding this issue. It’s so difficult and so exhausting and I love you both so much.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Stay strong my love, you got this xxxx
I had EMDR to deal with my assault trauma and how Rosie describes seeing the trauma behind a thick plane of glass far away is a great description. My trauma around my assault and the fear of being seen has virtually disappeared. If you can try EMDR I highly recommend it.
Prayers! God’s got you ❤️❤️❤️
Good morning you Rose and rosie you Perfect day you ☕☕☕♥️♥️♥️☀️☀️☀️😍😍😘😇🥰♥️♥️🌹🌹❤️
rose and rosie: *this video is really serious*
also rose and rosie at 1:17 : *oRaNgE*
Objective Viewer i’m not sure but i think it’s amy ordman
oh and rose is probably pooping as always lmao
Sometimes I watch their videos and I'm like "wow they tell us so much I feel like I really know them" and then I watch a video like this one and not only do I realize that I dont know them as well as I thought, but I'm reminded that Rose and Rosie really actually do love each other and they are in it for life. It's not just a passionate lust filled love. They genuinely care about each other and want to be together and they choose each other. It's a beautiful thing to watch
If I could click the thumbs up a thousand more times for this comment I would.
Wow. The most beautiful comment I've read❤ and so true.
I feel like the more I learn about someone, the less I know them. Sometimes I think I know all about someone, but then they'll tell a story I never would've guessed happened to them, and it just reminds me that people have very complex lives with so many details I don't know about.
Rose apologized for making jokes, but I actually found that very sweet, almost comforting even. Idk I like the way she handled this conversation.
I do too. It kinda softens the conversation while not distracting from the topic
The moment at 16:43 is so sweet. Sometimes I wonder if Rose is going too far when she teases Rosie because I am personally sensitive to teasing. But these two clearly are on the same wavelength and in that moment I think Rose knew exactly what Rosie needed. ❤️❤️❤️
Omg yes soooo sweeet
3:08 omg 😂
“Now I’m training to be a therapist”
“A hot one”
Everyone in the comments who can relate to this video, we didn't deserve what happened to us (no matter what it was) and have good day.❤🧡💛💚💙💜🖤
Okay your comment just made me cry, thank you, for some reason I needed to read this
Rose and Rosie is our safe space❤️
@@AileenLelie Im crying too, it really helps to hear that
Thank you. ❤️
@@AileenLelie me too :(
Rosie: hopefully I’ll be able to help people
Rose: I think you already are
Me: crying
just wanted to mention, if anyones upset when they see a cut in the "uncut", they must not also understand that maybe some things are just too far to talk about. if they have a private detail in their life they don't want us to know about it, we should respect it. we should be grateful how much content they produce weekly for us, not the fact you can timestamp a video edit
This video really shows their love for each other. Especially at 16:34 when Rosie stops just to tell Rose I love you. I’m so glad they have each other
Yes it's soooo sweet
I haven’t even watched this yet but I’d just like to say that my OCD made me buy 300 rocks in the span of one year
*sees a rock*
This shall make another fine addition to my collection
Am I allowed to laugh?? Omg
PM yes it’s so funny HDHSH
Anglerfish God 😆😆😆
This is just my OCD talking but I feel like 297.5 rocks would've been a better choice
Having been diagnosed with PTSD from my wife's death was something that I was shocked to discover I had. I thought I was just missing her. I didn't know that the pain of watching someone you love go through something like that, along with the family dynamics of homophobic in-laws, turned me into an anxiety-ridden wreck and shell of the person I used to be. I am nothing like who I used to be before that happened. I feel almost nauseous when I am happy and that is something I am working on. I love your book and I love this video. You're both very brave.
This made me cry. Not much help, I know, but there are support mechanisms out there. There are people you could reach out to, who might be some comfort, or at least help to keep your head above the water. You're not 'a failure' when you need help. Look for it, ask for it and grab onto any lifeline.
Stay afloat, flower. x
Very sorry to hear this is something you have had to deal with are are still dealing with. Please know you wont always carry these feelings with you. Sending you love and healing energies x
Sending you all the love ❤️ it’s ok that it’s unbelievably hard. I am rooting for you.
Stay strong 💪 ❤️❤️ sending love from UK
Sorry to hear this. It actually happens far more often than representation makes one think.
-witnessing a natural death
-surviving a natural disaster
-surviving a fire
-MVA
-medical trauma
-sexual abuse/assault/rape
-physical abuse
-DV
-refugee
-war
-kidnapping
-etc. Etc.
People who may need to see this, YOUR trauma is yours and valid.
"Go for the nuts and twist and rip" 😂😂
Looking back at 16-year-old me who didn't know that she was bisexual nor that she had OCD, now at 21 it makes a lot of sense why I would watch you two a lot, especially when things blew up. Thanks for giving such a positive outlook on a future, consciously and unconsciously.
I truly adore how much you two know each other. We have seen it in reverse before, but in this video we can see rose making jokes every once in a while to make sure that Rosie didn't fall into that dark hole we sometimes go into when trying to talk about our past trauma. They also discuss how rose made Rosie's trauma timeline. When you love someone, it hurts when you see them feel those deep emotional wounds because you know that overall you can't save them from their own minds. She made sure that Rosie didn't have to physically make that terrible timeline but also made sure it got done so that Rosie could see it all out there and hopefully understand herself better from it. Just a fucking gorgeous example of love.
I love when rose cracks a joke then smirks at the camera
I really needed something like this today. I've been in therapy for OCD and I've recently gotten down and I was disappointed in myself for falling down again. It's so refreshing to see people openly discussing PTSD and OCD, thank you both ❤❤❤
Sending love! xxxxx
@@RoseAndRosie sending love to you both too xxxx
I suffer from severe CPTSD from childhood which has affected me for so many years and I've just started to get treatment for it. Seeing people I love and respect be so open about it makes it so much easier for me to be honest about it with my therapist, friends, etc. Living with it can be so hard but finding people to look up to makes it so much easier. Thanks for being so amazing!!
Hope you're battling through it. Keep going, flower.
The human brain is so complicated, it really is incredible, all the things it can do but sometimes it really can be like a time bomb, I feel like we have all had experiences where we have just blown, even over the smallest things, I just couldn't imagine having to go back through all of those things that made you blow in the first place. Takes an amazingly, strong person to go through that and come out the other side and see such a good side to it all
Wow Rose making Rosie's trauma timeline for her is the sweetest thing I've ever heard
EMDR changed my life. i did like 10 sessions while in rehab and i know i wouldnt have been able to get sober without it.
Here's hoping you stay strong!
congratulations on your sobriety... too many people in my family have fallen to addiction. I applaud anyone who can get through it :)
Same here!!! EMDR is amazing. 900 days of sobriety today :)
rose is protective of rosie and it is absolutely precious. you guys are truly amazing for talking about such an ignored issue. i wish you guys the best 💕
The colour coordination is giving me LIFE- we stan some fashion matrimony
Rosie, your strength of character and beautiful loving nature is incredible. The traumas of your life seemed to have cut you and shaped you into a beautifully facetted diamond!
Rosie : so I went to therapy..can’t remember why-
Rose : sooo many reasons
😂
Rosie, I'm curious, as someone who suffered a trauma that entailed rape (through coercion) and emotional abuse and manipulation, have you ever dealt with intimacy issues as a result of your trauma? I struggle with safety issues, among other things, but intimacy has become nearly impossible for me. I wonder also how much it has affected your ability to function in general (before you saw the therapist). Love you both and thank you so much for sharing with us. This is not talked about enough.
Absolutely second this! as a young lesbian struggling to come to terms with my partners recent traumatic sexual experiences (and my own from a few years ago) I feel so lost sometimes. Would be great to hear about their perspectives and their thoughts on intimacy in relation to that.
i haven’t even watched it yet but i just wanted to say that i really respect you both so much for sharing this and many other things about your personal life and issues with us, i know it’s not easy. i think i speak on behalf of all the boobies and fwogs in here when i say that we love you and we’ll always be here for you
I've done EMDR a few times now and I can honetsly say it's the best therapy I've ever done. I have not suffered trauma, however EMDR can help with a number of different things. I had reacurring thoughts and images, I had to be hospialised yet again. Tried EMDR with my therapist, after 2 sessions I had no more horrible images/thoughts in my head. I had my shortest hospital stay ever (3 weeks!!).
And above all I had 2 whole weeks where I wasn't suicidal. I hadn't had a single day without suicidal thoughts for 8 years.
EMDR has been a true revelation for me and I have never felt this hopeful about my future!
I would truly recommend trying it to anyone with mental health issues!
Keep going, flower. You're worth the trek! x
Yes! So happy for you. You'll still have down moments, you just have to remember the good ones as well and believe you'll be fine. Much love.
Thank you for sharing your story! All the best and cheers for the bright future :)
3 years ago tomorrow I got stabbed, 6 months after the stabbing I was diagnosed with PTSD took me awhile to come to terms with it, I’ve had therapy but still have issues surrounding it. Thank you for making this ❤️❤️
All the best, Maggy.
Hi girls! As a psychologist I'd like to thank you for being so generous to share this intimate feelings about anxiety disorders. You can help many people. 😉😉😉
When you were talking about tics it made me realise that I have one. When I get an intrusive thought I snap my fingers 3 times to recognise it and if it doesnt go away I make stupid noises with my mouth until it does. Sounds stupid but it takes my mind off of it. Thank you for sharing that it was really helpful.
i swear to god, I realized I had a tic at this time as well, because when I get an intrusive thought I immediately say something incredibly random, somewhat weird, or make a loud noise, and it's really embarassing.
@@iAnneart People always think I'm trying to be rude or something when I snap my fingers. The mouth sounds I do are kinda like how you make bubbles under water... I cant really explain it. I'm glad Rose and Rosie spoke about it otherwise I wouldn't have found out about it.
Aren't tics involuntary?
My mom is trained in EMDR therapy, and has had it done on herself. She did it to me once, and it was crazy how well it worked. The lights were at her workplace, so she used her hand. Also, I have been terrified of the dark my whole life, so it’s nice to finally know of another adult who is also afraid.
Reading it's been so effective for you is super reassuring because I'm on a waiting list for therapy and am terrified. Thank you for helping a bit!
rs88 No problem, that’s why I posted it! Best of luck to you!
The Body Keeps the Score is INCREDIBLE and I’m so glad you found it helpful. You are resilient AF. Lots of love from another therapist in training in Oklahoma ❤️
*love & light to everyone reading this* 🦋
Who is the one dislike? I just wanna talk. I haven’t even watched the video yet and I’m already ready to snap on anyone that’s coming with negativity.
So proud of you Rosie. You've been through so much and the courage and strength you've had to get through it is amazing. Then you share yourself like this with everyone. You are so beautiful inside and out. Rose, you joke (which I love) but it's obvious that your love and support for Rosie through this was so important. Thank you both for sharing yourselves this way. Much love and support to you both! ❤️❤️❤️
im very proud of rosie for teling us about this 🥺❤️
I actually can't thank you enough for making this video. when the thoughts and feelings come rushing back it can feel so lonely and that your the only person who feels this way. hearing you guys talk so open and honest about is extremely comforting.
The way you two support each other is so great to see!
I am literally reading the title and I NEEDED this
Hope you're well, Taylor.
Uncut series is great, I love it!
absolutely amazing video. thank you so much for having the courage to talk about these things! it encourages me to be a bit more open about my life to the people around me.
They’re so honest and respecting of each other it’s awesome to see!
Yes Rosie! You are already helping! Thank you:)
My ptsd acts like adhd. I'm so proud of you rose's! Emdr is SO hard. I did tapping cause my therpist didn't have a light lol it was hard and worth it. I'm so proud of yall. Really watching your growth has been...just heart warming.
This video was incredibly inspirational. Thank you for sharing your lives and experiences. It really helps more than you know.
i will watch a rose and rosie uncut about ANYTHING these are fantastic
It’s really cool you are talking about things like this. Glad you’re doing better, Rosie
I think this is going to help so many people. Thank you
You’re so right. This is very valuable information. As always, thank you for sharing! Your stories have really helped me understand things about myself that I hadn’t before.
Thank you for sharing this personal part of your lives!! You are so brave! Love you ❤️
this is so interesting and educational and I could see how this could also really help someone if they'd experienced something similar, thank you for being so open and sincere it really means so much
i love that the honesty of this video continues with the fun fact ;)
Literally one of my favorite uncuts. You girls are amazing! ❤️❤️ keep it up and we are all super proud of you
this is amazing, i've learned so much from this video! so much admiration and love for you guys. This is really brave Rose. you are incredible.
We all love and support you guys
I love this video so much!! i is super proud of you guys! This editing level of this video is so amazing and gold! I will always support you guys!! I is sure this video will helps so many people in whole world
🥰🥰🥰🥰 i’m so proud of Rosie for opening up about this i love you guys with all my heart
This video was lovely, more like these please! So vulnerable, and serious, and deep, and helpful for so many people going through the same things. This is real.
I love you , there was so much love and meaning there by Rosie 💕
Thank you guys for this. Sending much love to both of you. It's really important for people to talk about mental health and it takes a lot out of a person so I appreciate you two doing this. Thank you
I can’t thank you enough for talking about this so openly. I was very recently diagnosed with ptsd and it’s made me feel very alone. I’m in therapy and have been for years but thinking about having to relive my trauma to work through things is very scary to think about. Watching this really made me feel like I wasn’t the only person out there dealing with things like this, and you’ve made me hopeful that I can get better and go on to live a life where this doesn’t have as much power over me. Thank you so much ❤️
Thank you so much for doing this video, Rose and Rosie! I’m glad to see you both are doing so well and it fills me with hope about my own mental health ❤️
I love r&r's uncut videos, the raw emotions is overwhelming and beautiful.
I’m only 16 but I’ve watched you guys since I was about 11 and honestly your channel and uploads have been one of the most consistent things In my life I’ve been threw quite a lot I was sexually assault at the age of 7 developed suicidal tendencies by the time I was 11 then my mum for better or worse place me in care. In 2017 I moved to a care home called maple view and I fell in love with my first serious girlfriend honestly it was quite toxic but I befriended who I thought where two great ppl who happened to work in my home long story short both me and my girlfriend of the time ended up being abused but the guy who we’d both become close with him even manipulating into believing they were in love with each other so after he abused me I told the other woman I was close with however she was pregnant with his child long story short she was pretty pissed and proceed to call me every name under the sun before leaving me and the other children alone with him in the house eventually I grew a pair and reported him to the police on two counts of statutory rape but for some reason I feel as if I lost way more anyway I’ve been offered help and support which I’ve always declined until I watched this video and thought to myself I might be little bit fucked up 😭 I still sleep in the same bedroom were it happed and I’m terrified of the dark I twitch all the time and suffer with extreme intrusive thoughts but you guys have inspired me to seek the help I need and I’m sure you love done the same for thousands I hope one day I can meet you and we can all have a group hug lots of love and I wish anyone reading this the best and to stay strong
”if I make jokes is because im uncomfortable”
Rose are you literally me
This was really important. Thank you for sharing. You are definitely helping people and you will be a great therapist.
This is my favorite video ever 😭 I'm so glad and thankful you guys did this it helped me , I hope you would make more of these 😢💜
Thank you for everything you did and doing for us, i really appreciate your honesty and how much you open up about your vulnerable side to help us, I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ♥️
I was able to finish the whole video this morning. Rosie, your resilience, bravery, and honesty astounds me. Thank you for sharing. You are helping tremendously! I'm so happy you're in a good place! You're a warrior. And Rose, the support you give, makes me tear up. You're both so genuine and honest and that's what I love most about your content. You're not trying to put a blanket over anything, and I really admire that about you two! Love you, Daughton's.
I love you guys so much you have no idea how much you help me in every aspect of my life like you’ve helped me come out and also deal with my mental health so thank you so much xx
Rosies eyes are so vulnerable...so beautiful.
So glad you guys decided to do this! I'm 2 minutes in and I'm loving how nervous Rose is that she's gonna make a joke lmao
I had v bad ptsd for 4 years of my life and it's so good to hear you talk about this. thank you 💘
This was a really awesome uncut. So glad you decided to move forward and share this topic... it was seriously helpful.
so glad you’re talking about EMDR!! such an amazing treatment and worked so well for me
Having the audiobook version of overshare I was like I hope one time they will talk about it🙏 thank you so much!, Rose your foundation is not the wrong shade you got an early tan for spring 😉
I love how you spoke on the topic but kept the humor in. Your willingness to be transparent will surely help someone. Thank you Rose and Rosie for always be honest and open with you supporters and fans.
I am proud of both you and the progress you have made. It is so hard, but the work is so rewarding when it pays off.
Guys , THANK YOU for your honesty ! Love you and support you always !
I hope Rosie ends up being my therapist one day because just knowing who she is I know she’d completely just understand how to do it and would be great and empathetic and understanding but wouldn’t coddle you she’d call you out but still comfort you and that’s the best thing a therapist can do
And I would hire Rose to be my private detective
I'm only 4 minutes in but I'm pausing to say I love these videos and the uncut series, please continue them (if you feel like it). I've never met two people that are so real on the internet.
You guys are so brave for opening up and honestly I found it very helpful. I learned a lot from it and helped me realise something within myself, thank you so much xx
Thanks for talking about this - can tell it's difficult (especially for Rose lol) but you do a good job and you're helping loads of people by doing so.
Can we talk about the growth in these two! So proud to be a frogggg 🔥🙌🏻
This was such a great video! I totally agree with what Rose said at the end: there is a lot of value in people sharing their own experiences with mental illnesses. It never really occured to me that Rosie was suffering like that. Hearing how it all manifested for her feels very validating, because to me anxiety issues can often make you feel very worthless and silly. I applaud both of you for facing your fears, it's never easy to do.
I think one thing that both of you do so outstandingly is normalising things that society still deems taboos. You both manage to live so authentically, and that means accepting the good with the bad, and always make me feel free by making me feel human. It's a wonderful thing to experience and I want to thank you for it!
If you decide to make another mental health chat, I'll definitely watch it!
this is one of my absolute favorite R&R videos! thank you both for such an insightful look at these topics, you both said some things that really resonated me. when you talked about waiting on the train...that was a real lightbulb moment for me.
This was so encouraging to watch. Thank you!! Please do more about this sort of topic. Y’all have really great views on mental health which are so helpful to hear
I have an OCD and it helps a lot to watch and talk about things like this. Thank you fwogs for sharing this very informative and sensitive topic.
I don’t normally comment, but I just love hearing your thoughts and real experiences on mental health. It’s helped me so much to not feel alone, please keep doing it!
Thanks for being so honest and posting a vid like this. Love you guys sm
Connected with this so much. Thank you for opening up about it. Love you both.
“If I make jokes it because I uncomfortable” is legit me
I love you two so much. Strong, lovely, caring and amazing women. Very proud of you
Thank you both for helping your community with personal videos like this. It means a lot.❤️
I have been watching you forever and I can say I have seen a huge change in you both. For the best. You both have grown up beautifully and I am so honored that I've been able to watch it and excited to see what the future holds. Thank you for talking about the serious stuff and the fun stuff and everything in between.