As man, who is ALWAYS strongly against women cheating ,, haki for the 1st time , i feel for the lady... that situation is VERY tricky and i can't blame that woman,, let the two(husband and wife)seat and solve it amicably. Let God intervene too 🙏🏽
But it should have been discussed before the cheating. She should have put forward her concerns before deciding to sleep with a lowly helper. There is no solution to this issue other than separation/divorce.
I totally disagree! You don’t have to be promiscuous with someone’s cousin in order to prove a point. Second, he should have told her husband that she wanted out of the marriage because of his condition.
Let me tell you its really hard i can testify this from my experience the worst thing it always happens to humble ones i lived with my ex for 3 yrs without conjugal rights i had vowed never to have an affair with anyone but the worst parts he felt insecure it really block my heart coz he was disrespectful ,i divorced but still i feel its better to be alone@FesterMacmbelefe
Honestly this lady is suffering and at the same time both of them Love each other.Very tricky situation which requires God's intervention.Naomba tusi judge huyu mwanamke.
This is a very sensitive case. We can't judge the actions of this woman because she has a point. 2yrs sleeping with a man and no sxx. Let them go and talk privately as a couple.
No it really isn’t. The only sensitivity is the guy refusing to use all the methods he was offered because if “ church teaching! Second, your husband having sexual dysfunction does not warranty sleeping with his cousin.
Ingekua ni huyu jamaa ofcos angekua sahii na bibi mwingine acha kujifanya bana atleast ni moja hajalala na mwingine..do youthink utaoa mgani akuvumilie
Kama dem ndo shimo ingekuwa imeziba,huyu jamaa angevumilia,..mm instead of kuhanya,ningesonga mbele..cz men nature yao nikama wadhani ma dem hawana feelings,.while wao hata 1 week hawawezi vumilia..
Woiiye mungu wetu walai mungu kamu kwa kweli uko hai, ponya na zaidia hii familia iwe sawa. Comrade hii ndio truthful family umekutana nayo iko na challenge ya kueleweka.
This now is sensitive when it involves health challenges samea huyu msichana kutu ilikuwa mob and she is still young damu bado inakimbia mbio at a rate of 100mph
Am a victim of same situation i vowed still to be faithfull but the worst thing my ex felt insecure and was very disrespectful even after divorce i opted to be alone coz its hard to find someone who deserves a good woman
For give her please😢 she's a human being she has blood in her body 😢, mm nko gulf 4yrs sasa lakini n vile tu nko prison otherwise 2 months n mob nikiwa free country 😂 ,allow her to cheat peaceful broh, and may the Lord remember you and heal you by the blood of Jesus christ.
The situation here is COMPLETELY COMPLEX SEX IN MARRIAGE HAS NO RELIGION SEX IS COMPULSORY IN MARRIAGE USE OF DILDOS ARE BETTER OPTIONS THAN PLUNGE INTO TEMPTATION MWANAMKE HANA HATIA
This is the most critical situation i have seen,, this lady has persevered sana such situations needs The Lord Jesus to intervene cos it will be difficult for the lady to deal with sexual temptations at this young age..i wish i could have a small conversation with the guy .
For the 1st time I agree with the lady. She was even feeling bad exposing the problem with her man. The man needs to accept his situation and forgive the lady. Life happens and she's genuinely interested in her marriage. Naomba huyo mwanaume awache kuwa selfish. She's too young to suffer for the rest of her life.😢
So you consider lack of sex as suffering??🤔🤔while people outside here live for more than 20years without it ,, i understand its difficult for some people but kuna situations unafaa kujicontrol haki am not judging anyone
The fact that she is a wife material ❤i mean she has really tried to shape this Man for development mpaka wakanunua plot she is so respectful but unfortunately mzee akapatwa na hio tatizo ya uanaume sio kupenda kwake pia so both of them needs to be together 💟 never judge
Sikia bwana hawez mkula na lady next service so angefany 😮.....angekuwa mke nfio ako na shida mwansume Angela kitaamboo so don't blame lady saaana.yet she's not grandma she's still naive😂😂
My dear sister you Can't stay 4 years waiting for someone apone na huwesi jua kama atapona ama story tu ya madaktali angekua ni yeye angeoa the following week After accident
It's painful to suffer in an accident and your stuff are gone,, but i would advice the guy to seek another therapist and ensure he's back on his chuma, stronger. Usi-give up manze.
The fact is bb hawezi vumilia for all that time bila kugongwa. The man naye huwezi vumilia kuishi ukijia unagongewa bb na tena ni your cousin ...so jameni ....
This lady should not be sorry at all. A woman abandons everything at her father's to come for a dick-if she cannot access it and is still active, there is no need to be sorry.
hapa nayo hakuna vyenye dem atakaa na huyu jama juu marital right lazima so km hawezi akubali tu matokeo kwani haja ya bibi ni nini km huna hisia jamani?
Si watu huvumilia jamani😢😢Like Rachel Otuoma amevumilia bwanake till last minute..hata kama machine gun imekataa si unatulia kaisi.. after everything amemfanyia..so bad
Ningumu kukaa na MTU under one roof na uko na feeling. But shida ni ATI mwanamke alijua Mahali shida ilitokea na hakuweza kuvumilia hata akasamehewa Leo na bado wako pamoja atarudia tuu. Miaka mi nne imagine ilikuwa inaisha , but it's up to them to solve.
But msichana najua kuvumilia hata mimi siwezi,lakini si ungetafuta mtu wa nje,,wa family member ni Madharau haki,ungechukua hata mwalimu mwenzako Muibane huko nje
Thus is asensitive isue where by most pple here will blame the wife but in the real sence even some ethinic groups in our country still accept what the lady did...(Alifanya na one of the family members)hakuenda nje.soo they will sort out and stay tgther as usual
Hata kama. Mimi ni dume na niko na mama hapa. Miaka mbili ni refu. Imagine uko na bibi na kitu yake imeshonwa na hauezi ifungua. Ni ku discuss hizi maneno from both parties mbele kiumane.
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As man, who is ALWAYS strongly against women cheating ,, haki for the 1st time , i feel for the lady... that situation is VERY tricky and i can't blame that woman,, let the two(husband and wife)seat and solve it amicably. Let God intervene too 🙏🏽
But it should have been discussed before the cheating. She should have put forward her concerns before deciding to sleep with a lowly helper. There is no solution to this issue other than separation/divorce.
She had a choice to talk it over,, separate in peace if she couldn't wait
This lady is very humble..Na kusema ukweli,Kuna shida hapa..GOD Have Mercy 😢
yea,,,,i undersrand her too
Wanunue dildo waache ujinga ama jamaa
Mzee amelala fofofo.atumie vidole,ulimi,anything to deliver. Aaai.he needs kuchanuka
Hapo kuna mlima mkubwa wa kupanda
The greatest lesson i've learnt in 2024......i'll not judge people harshly before listening to reason why!!
Followup ya yule dame alitendwa na rafiki yake who is HIV+ve..whoelse wishes to hear the folloup..like like like
Unataka part 3???
the likes talk
Na yule mama who could find the husband gazing at her kama amelala.
This woman is the hero of the year 2024,how many people can be that patient since 2022?????
I stayed for 10 yrs for nyang’au ilinisakiti. Imagine kuwa church na everything else praying for him ….wueeeeh. Wacha ninyamaze tu. Sina nguvu
Myself too have been for now 5years na sioni shida yeyote fr😂😂😂😂@@larcoviaridgesrealtors2677
I totally disagree! You don’t have to be promiscuous with someone’s cousin in order to prove a point. Second, he should have told her husband that she wanted out of the marriage because of his condition.
This lady is humble and honest
these people are very good people, both husband and wife, very calm and matured
I will never judge anyone some situations forces may God heal this man and be able to perform his job🙏
I love the respect between them❤❤❤may they find solution
Waah ni uzuni for real..kidogo i cant blame the lady..but stl she did wrong ... communication is key in marriage despite the situation at hand
Let me tell you its really hard i can testify this from my experience the worst thing it always happens to humble ones i lived with my ex for 3 yrs without conjugal rights i had vowed never to have an affair with anyone but the worst parts he felt insecure it really block my heart coz he was disrespectful ,i divorced but still i feel its better to be alone@FesterMacmbelefe
No situation is permanent that the lord cannot change.
I think you are not the same
@@jetitahkarimihow now?
Amen
The humility of this lady is heavenly.dont leave her.utalia saidi.
Lakini kusema tu ukweli angekua ni bibi si huyu mwanaume angekua alioa kitambo ..just forgive and continue with life
Wewe ingekuwa Ni wewe umeambukizwa
Would u HV came for followup
Angekua alimuacha kitambo😊😊😊
very true
True,mwanaume saa hii angekuwa na excuse chungu mzima
May the living God intervine and save this marriage and make things be the way it used be
Honestly this lady is suffering and at the same time both of them Love each other.Very tricky situation which requires God's intervention.Naomba tusi judge huyu mwanamke.
Mimi sitamjudge coz sio rahisi aki😊😊 but angetafuta mtu wa nje ya familia😢
This is a very sensitive case. We can't judge the actions of this woman because she has a point. 2yrs sleeping with a man and no sxx. Let them go and talk privately as a couple.
The situation is not easy at all
True ✔️
No it really isn’t. The only sensitivity is the guy refusing to use all the methods he was offered because if “ church teaching! Second, your husband having sexual dysfunction does not warranty sleeping with his cousin.
I sympathise with both of them, God will definitely guide you in making the right choice to handle the situation.....
It's hard decision to make but mzee kubali cuzoo to save marriage lady hawezi vumilia more that that unless umkatee kinembe 😅😂😂
😂😂😂wee hakuna kukata kinembee buana , wacha cuzo aendelee kugonga iyo kitu
Nwezi tuu 3 ni ngori kwa nguna😢😢
Aki hata mimi i feel for this lady,ata mimi nigemsamehea bt igekua mtu wa nje si wa familia bt all in all wanapedana sana
Very tricky and sad at the same time,,jamaa akubali kugongewa tu, this lady is very young hawezi vumilia ata team strong nikujikaza😢😢
Pole sana to this couple, I pray they get back together stronger, that is a very sensitive issue, I can't blame either party, may the Lord heal them
Congrats stevo naona ukona kaofisi,,,meanwhile tupitianeni guys ❤❤
Ingekua ni huyu jamaa ofcos angekua sahii na bibi mwingine acha kujifanya bana atleast ni moja hajalala na mwingine..do youthink utaoa mgani akuvumilie
The reason why the lady insisted they talk in the house she didn't want to expose her man
Kama dem ndo shimo ingekuwa imeziba,huyu jamaa angevumilia,..mm instead of kuhanya,ningesonga mbele..cz men nature yao nikama wadhani ma dem hawana feelings,.while wao hata 1 week hawawezi vumilia..
Bro hapa hakuna case vumilia & pay up bills ,stay with family yako.
Tulirusha mawe first episode 😢😢😢😢we listen we don't judged aki feel huyu dem 😢😢
This lady is mature first episode akutoa siri ya ndoa nje
Waa ata wewe mwanaume ingekuwa ni bbi yako ako na hio shida ungevumilia kweli ama ungekuwa umeoa tayari 😢😢
😂😂someone watu ni kujifaya tu akuna mtu anaeza kaa hio miaka yote
Woiiye mungu wetu walai mungu kamu kwa kweli uko hai, ponya na zaidia hii familia iwe sawa.
Comrade hii ndio truthful family umekutana nayo iko na challenge ya kueleweka.
Steve be posting part one so that wee can recall easily
He did post
He does that always be keen
Hujaelewa, atuwekee link ya part one kwa comment section ndio iwe rahisi kukumbuka ilikuwa gani@@GivenVelemuseni
Anamaanisha Steve awe anaweka link ya part 1
Woii a utility tu akue kama team 💪 strong mzee arudi ssawa na mzee amsamehee tu
This family is good may God heal this man 😢
This now is sensitive when it involves health challenges samea huyu msichana kutu ilikuwa mob and she is still young damu bado inakimbia mbio at a rate of 100mph
Lakini mimi nimekaa 3yrs hiyo ni mindset tu
everybody is unique
You're not her and she's not you.... Stop comparison
Mindset
Inategemea uko na miaka ngapi
Wewe utapata kulimea nyasi na cobwebs... Wacha kujitesa
Am a victim of same situation i vowed still to be faithfull but the worst thing my ex felt insecure and was very disrespectful even after divorce i opted to be alone coz its hard to find someone who deserves a good woman
It is well mamna
Mtoto anaililia ile kitu mpaka anamwaga machozi 😂😂
For give her please😢 she's a human being she has blood in her body 😢, mm nko gulf 4yrs sasa lakini n vile tu nko prison otherwise 2 months n mob nikiwa free country 😂 ,allow her to cheat peaceful broh, and may the Lord remember you and heal you by the blood of Jesus christ.
Facto 💯
😂😂😂aki niukweri kabisa
I'm talking with same problem now 1 year bro samehea wife tu ,God ako nd he ll heal us .
🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@evakioko7492 Thank you for the 🫂🫂🥰
@@jairuskipchumba8019 praying for devine healing 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Amen
Hiyo mjulus haiamki hata kidogo aki?😢 that's so so bad to survive in this world
Susan uko mrembo sana 😊
😂😂😂😂umevaya nicheke ati hata kidogo
Aki hatujui kwa sasa
The situation here is COMPLETELY COMPLEX
SEX IN MARRIAGE HAS NO RELIGION
SEX IS COMPULSORY IN MARRIAGE
USE OF DILDOS ARE BETTER OPTIONS THAN PLUNGE INTO TEMPTATION
MWANAMKE HANA HATIA
Kwani stevo huna tokens 😂😂😂😂
Hapa I cite with the lady amefumilia tu sana and she stand no blame.nimemufeel joo 😭
In SICKNESS and in HEALTH, people, don't justify ADULTERY, one can survive without sex.
Exactly 💯
Sio Kila mtu please
But even if the man could not perform mbona aendee small brother wa bwana yake ..that's abomination to share kasusu with your blood brother.
Zero grazing...she is a village girl.
Steve women will always say that to protect themselves from the things they always wanted to do but opportunity.
The best excuse ever.The man is always to blame.
Good luck..fr our children umelala na gadener...sio watoto wetu
Sorry for the lady forgive
Sorry for both,,cant blame either of them
This is the most critical situation i have seen,, this lady has persevered sana such situations needs The Lord Jesus to intervene cos it will be difficult for the lady to deal with sexual temptations at this young age..i wish i could have a small conversation with the guy .
Yenyewe at this age nyege husubua sana.. Can't blame the lady
Hili limeniguza sanaa, this is very sensitive if not well handled can affect self-esteem from both sides.
Stevo tuma meter number nikuwekee hiyo token iache kunipigia kelele kwa maskio😅
Try prayers Bro. It wil be well with you.
For the 1st time I agree with the lady. She was even feeling bad exposing the problem with her man. The man needs to accept his situation and forgive the lady. Life happens and she's genuinely interested in her marriage. Naomba huyo mwanaume awache kuwa selfish. She's too young to suffer for the rest of her life.😢
So you consider lack of sex as suffering??🤔🤔while people outside here live for more than 20years without it ,, i understand its difficult for some people but kuna situations unafaa kujicontrol haki am not judging anyone
The lady is right sijui huyu zuzu ya mwanaume inasema nini 😢nkt
acha ujinga kichwa kubwa mzee wewe
Mzee atakusamehea yes but wazazi wake watakua sawa wakisikia vile ulifanyia kijana Yao.
Bro uko na good wife,,,wewe ndo umeshindwa na kazi yako,,,forgive her and let the family be happy
As a man, i feel this woman is honest n she had no option
If she didn’t have options why can she just leave him instead of ruining family relations for ever?
This is a tough one. I hope they find peace and maintain their marriage
Mimi nimekaa 5yrs it's a mind set
The fact that she is a wife material ❤i mean she has really tried to shape this Man for development mpaka wakanunua plot she is so respectful but unfortunately mzee akapatwa na hio tatizo ya uanaume sio kupenda kwake pia so both of them needs to be together 💟 never judge
I can't blame the woman,though some just cheat for ignorance but her case and age hata Mimi ningefanya hivo
Fellow malaya
@myk6519 it's not umalaya the man lost his gun,what did you expect,or you didn't get the contest
@@dorothyrock4679 so the context is to cheat.
Enyewe malaya ni malaya
@@myk6519niue 😂😂 sis ndio tupo
I feel for this girl now
Malaya ni Malaya tu! Hata umpee Kila kitu Kwa nyumba,lazima kinembe kigongwe na mtu mwingine , very sad indeed 💔💔😡
This is a sensitive issue and medical for that matter, such kind of vitriol is uncalled for....
Sikia bwana hawez mkula na lady next service so angefany 😮.....angekuwa mke nfio ako na shida mwansume Angela kitaamboo so don't blame lady saaana.yet she's not grandma she's still naive😂😂
Listen first....
Don't be fast to judge
Listen before u answer this
Umeskiza kweli😢😢
If she can’t wait they need to separate.. hii ni separation roho safi with shaking hands
My dear sister you Can't stay 4 years waiting for someone apone na huwesi jua kama atapona ama story tu ya madaktali angekua ni yeye angeoa the following week After accident
Mtu wangu pia ako shida ak tunalala kama brother na sister
Wololo...tricky sana,hapa scores ni 1-0 in favour of the wife🙆
Soo painful plz I pray you get solution to your problem
It's painful to suffer in an accident and your stuff are gone,, but i would advice the guy to seek another therapist and ensure he's back on his chuma, stronger. Usi-give up manze.
Ata mimi siezi kaa miaka 5 nikikungoja upone nakuhanya proper so kuvumilia is ano
Broo kumbe haifanyi kaz mruhus mwanamke aende kwao kuliko kuongea ubwakin kam huu et tunaishi tuy vizut kweli
Mimi nishai kaa 5 years bila kungogwa
The fact is bb hawezi vumilia for all that time bila kugongwa.
The man naye huwezi vumilia kuishi ukijia unagongewa bb na tena ni your cousin ...so jameni ....
This lady should not be sorry at all. A woman abandons everything at her father's to come for a dick-if she cannot access it and is still active, there is no need to be sorry.
hapa nayo hakuna vyenye dem atakaa na huyu jama juu marital right lazima so km hawezi akubali tu matokeo kwani haja ya bibi ni nini km huna hisia jamani?
Wadau jwa'nga muhimu sana
Sorry to both hubby n wife. That situation is really realy discomforting.
It's very hard.
Samaaa surely is this headline really true? Mzee ameita hawa stupid???? Am taken aback after listening to conversation, weeeee! Content jamaniii
Nimengongewa na si mayai😮😮😮
honestly we cannot judge her,watu huku wanahanya bila sababu yooooh,we samehea bibi life iendeleee ❤❤
Mm nilikuwa sina ka Wifi ndio kurudi na Waiguru sai ndo naziwach...❤❤❤
pole baba msamehe mama arudi mlee familia
Si watu huvumilia jamani😢😢Like Rachel Otuoma amevumilia bwanake till last minute..hata kama machine gun imekataa si unatulia kaisi.. after everything amemfanyia..so bad
Pole , hauyuko peke yako ..tuko wengi
Ningumu kukaa na MTU under one roof na uko na feeling. But shida ni ATI mwanamke alijua Mahali shida ilitokea na hakuweza kuvumilia hata akasamehewa Leo na bado wako pamoja atarudia tuu. Miaka mi nne imagine ilikuwa inaisha , but it's up to them to solve.
Wee ungekaa for 5 yrs as young as this lady is? Honestly it's hard
But msichana najua kuvumilia hata mimi siwezi,lakini si ungetafuta mtu wa nje,,wa family member ni Madharau haki,ungechukua hata mwalimu mwenzako Muibane huko nje
Nimeurumia huyu mwanadada jamaa tu akubali tu asaidiwe
Angeeenda mbali si inner circle hivo!! That’s stooping low !
I totally agree! And I don’t think it is the cousin alone! That is very disrespectful! She has hurt this man double.
Uyu anazunguka sana hàongee kitu yamaaana imefanya bibi amcheat
A Wiseman, something deserves off camera......
This is a serious issue,,,imenifanya hadi nilie😭😭😭
Naingoja hiyo follow up I watched it felt pitty we men I don't know,tutaoa akina nani
Kusema tu ukweli pia wewe kama mwanaume huwezivumilia io miaka ni mingi
Thus is asensitive isue where by most pple here will blame the wife but in the real sence even some ethinic groups in our country still accept what the lady did...(Alifanya na one of the family members)hakuenda nje.soo they will sort out and stay tgther as usual
Oiye nimehurumia wote, both the man and the wife
Hata kama. Mimi ni dume na niko na mama hapa. Miaka mbili ni refu. Imagine uko na bibi na kitu yake imeshonwa na hauezi ifungua. Ni ku discuss hizi maneno from both parties mbele kiumane.
This lady's case is justifiable. She's very explicit in her explanation.. l pray that the husband heals .
Aii mi nayo siwezi ishi bila kuguzwa ,io ndoa ikae kabisa