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Noooo, not an example of self-sabotage. She has false self-sabotage, like false humility. She’s looking for clients. She’s not into the men except for business and pleasure purposes. Nothing more than that.
She honestly shouldn't be on a show like this. She seems to lack confidence and hasn't healed from past trauma. Healing should be her priority, not a dating show especially like this. ijs
NOPE! He picked the WRONG girl, that's the same lady that popped when the earlier guy asked the same type of question. What's wrong with today's women? Just watch these videos
Women react off of their feelings. You're looking at it from a logical perspective. She was not attracted to the previous guy and didn't "feel" the question was appropriate. She's attracted to this guy, so the question doesn't matter. She chose the guy with two kids over the dude who looked better on paper. So technically, she's actually the only making the bad choice, this guy will just have to stay smooth to keep her (the other guy would have to keep proving himself, ask the right questions, etc). Once you understand the thought process, it all makes sense 😂
It sucks when someone comes out later on because if there were any real keepers on the panel, they're most likely gone. Either way I think he only went with that girl due to not having any other options, she's ok but I dont like them together, no real chemistry.
Strippers are good at reading men. Come to find out, she was right. It was exposed that he cheated on all of his exes. He said 20s… nah. More recent than that. Lol
Damn, playboy was not left with much to chose from at all. The first girl gives me trauma and low vibrations, she's not going longterm with him for sure, they're too different and not in a good way
I respect this guy for his stance and maturity but not happy with his choice at all, especially if you watched how she was with the other guys, just BLAND all around from her, nope!
Homie was smooth but he gotta be careful, not with him on this one, hope he got good motives and she's a keeper cuz I didn't get any good vibes from her
The Somalia 🇸🇴 Woman let East Africa down in the show... They are known to be the prettiest in africa alongside Ethiopia, Eritrea, Djibouti, They are great women... Somalia women are known to be Submissive, great homemakers and homekeepers, loving, Nurturing, Hardworking, respectful and obedient
Accountability isn’t what you should have seen in the other person, it’s what you should have seen in yourself. How did you contribute to the toxicity and that’s not saying “you should have noticed his red flags or anything of that sort”. Accountability is very simple. What did you do to make things worse or could you have done things to make it better. Maybe you could have cooked more, been more submissive, less clubbing, stopped entertaining other men, stopped wearing revealing clothes(or being promiscuous). These are the things women overlook when it comes to what you could have done differently.
@@cutenfunny8909yes my woman hates me but she’s learning. I’ve opened her eyes to so much. I’m young but I just paid attention and listened and noticed patterns and specific behaviors.
Ignoring the red flags is taking accountability for your lack of self-love and settling for less. Accountability can be many things like being delusional, over-romanticizing, and poor conflict resolution, among other things.
@@liftedenergy3693 ignoring red flags is taking a chance. I don’t think that’s accountability only because you’re not directly admitting to any faults, most people say that to say “ i was used, they were hiding them well, or among other things, that you only ignored the red flags because “ I liked how he looked” or “ he had good sex”… you understand? In modern day unfortunately women more often do not say that in the context of taking accountability, it’s more so the lowest admittance to almost being ignorant on a repetitive basis. It’s like “ I have to admit to some kind of wrong or I’ll come off like the one with the issues”.
@AverageCurt ignoring red flags is not taking a risk. It is a form of self-betrayal, lack of trust in your intuition, lack of boundaries, and not establishing what your absolute deal-breakers are in connections. This should go for family members, romantic, platonic, and work relationships. Love-bombing/ false praise will have some people falling for a manipulator because they never were shown love as a child, never heard the words I love you. Or a person who did not receive support or praise as a child. Those types of people tend to go for words and nice gestures. It is important to understand yourself enough to determine I your trauma is talking or if that is your intuition. Many people I've heard say they felt butterflies with a potential spouse, but that is actually anxiety. That is not chemistry. People in general struggle with self-awareness and accountability, and it is necessary to take things slow so you can actually examine a person's behavior/actions. If a person lies to themselves, they will lie to you. Healing is a process, and through that process, people should learn their weaknesses, strengths, toxic behavior, and traits. If a person is not aware of those things, they should rethink dating until they discover who they are single. I have a male friend who speaks negatively about his baby mother he had two kids with. He even speaks negative on his mother and his grandmother, who lost her house to pay for his tuition. This man is over 41. I myself have had to learn to take responsibility for my actions and how my behavior or words can impact others.
Nobody here understand that she decided to pop the balloon and change the subject so she won't have to answer it... She played the guy in front of everybody saying he is a pretty boy so the attention goes to the guy and boom we forget the initial question.
Aight, don’t wanna sound like a hater but I guess everyone said it already. She ain’t it dawg, I understand we all have our own preferences but that woman doesn’t like ANYTHING he wants.
Guy was very intelligent and spot on.....very suave and articulate....had great energy....they say opposites attract. I already knew that was his match from the second round of questions....and I do agree with the batch of girls not being a suitable one for him.....
I think the one that liked him the most was the cheetah print dress woman. She had more genuine interest than the rest and that is a better choice in all respects. Some ppl don't like her answer 8:52 but I don't think that is a lack of accountability. Imo it shows she knew somethings were wrong but want the relationship with him so bad, desperate, etc. in liking a man too much who wasn't good for you. THAT IS accountability for a flaw in herself. It didn't seem like she was tryna blame shift as if she was flawless. THAT IS one of the major ways women lack accountability, namely in the man or men THEY CHOOSE to be with; or even have kids with.
9:14 red flag right there she took absolutely no accountability and blamed everything on him for the break up knowing damn well she had a part in it too
Notice how all the wrong the women did was a I shouldve left and the guy actually "did" something wrong. No accountability they gave them job interview answers lol
Well, I believe these matching events give a lot of auction sales aura. There's nothing like naturally knowing someone and building friendship, maybe after, but it's all about packaging 😊 Kudos to them anyways
White dress isn’t ready to date because she’s not healed yet because of her paranoia of getting hurt and the fact that she doesn’t lead with confidence is an INSTANT red flag for me because her anticipating things to go badly stops her from being the best version of herself. Basically, She’ll be getting in her own way.
He had me at the list of things he does for fun. Then he said he wants someone that still believes in love. Felt, because it’s very typical to be jaded after heartbreak. I’ve always believed that there is beauty in all of our experiences. Then he said someone that thinks for herself? Umm does anyone know this man’s phone #? Cause I think he is looking for me. Seriously… These ladies missed the point of him asking for 1 thing that THEY did wrong. Everyone has stayed longer than they should have at one point or another. But what are your shortcomings? The woman in the red and white dress was the only one that got it. This man’s IQ AND EQ are to the sky.
The second girl doesn't understand how accountability works. The guy asked the second girl. What was a flaw in the relationship from you and the girl said my flaw was not reading the red flags that my ex was showing me and that's what I'm taking accountability for. That's not how accountability works.You just let your guard down and that's how a relationship is supposed to be.You can't keep a guard up, but you can't sit up here and say that's you taking accountability.You still haven't told that man.What your true flaws and that's the red flag
Not the match I expected, the third girl (tall green) or the one that self sabotaged herself would have been the best match. He legit enjoyed the vibes with the girl that self sabotaged (in white gown) she's beautiful between!
8:51 Her fault? Nah, she's perfect. She says her fault was not seeing soon enough that he wasn't perfect. It's like she can't even comprehend a concept of her doing something wrong. You can't make this shit up... 11:26 she was honest enough to say that she did something wrong by running her mouth too much.
The girl in the white has indeed been assuming a lot, and I think it's because of her environment. She's in the entertainment industry, so she's surrounded by dudes that are non-committal, that's probably gaslight her on the daily, and she's developed insecurities due to her profession and looks (she rightly knows that most men would not commit to dancers, and the tattoos spell trouble even if she wasn't).
I want you to notice it’s always the man fault always she these days and time women’s just leave for any reason because they’re not committed and there’s no love there to keep y’all together for woman really love you. She won’t leave.
Watch the follow-up with Arnell with this guy and the girl that he chose!! He was toxic to her!! Just pull his and her name up on RUclips!! He’s no nice guy,
None of them were really that much of a great pick, the girl he winded up with is ok but I'm not confident they will last since I've been hearing he's going full simp mode on her smh
I would’ve picked leopard skin dress. She seems well spoken and knows what she wants. Tall green dress would’ve been next. Spanish mami got a nice frame but she admits she’s verbally abusive. The chick on the end is a wreck…can’t stand ppl who assume and is wrong af
This guy doesn't like this lady , he actually wanted the talĺ lady that popped her balloon bcos the guy hass two kids, God help this guy, I wish the lady can just get her balloon back.
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I'm not feeling it at all!
No Way! 👎🏼👎🏼
🤯🤯
Indifferent at best
Heavy thumbs down
The 5th girl is a prime example of self-sabotage
She's a trainwreck of emotions and trauma
Noooo, not an example of self-sabotage. She has false self-sabotage, like false humility. She’s looking for clients. She’s not into the men except for business and pleasure purposes. Nothing more than that.
She honestly shouldn't be on a show like this. She seems to lack confidence and hasn't healed from past trauma. Healing should be her priority, not a dating show especially like this. ijs
They were interviewing for that job! 😂😂😂
NOPE! He picked the WRONG girl, that's the same lady that popped when the earlier guy asked the same type of question. What's wrong with today's women? Just watch these videos
Yes he picked the wrong girl but what else could he does, the whole panel was not great overrall.
Women react off of their feelings. You're looking at it from a logical perspective. She was not attracted to the previous guy and didn't "feel" the question was appropriate. She's attracted to this guy, so the question doesn't matter. She chose the guy with two kids over the dude who looked better on paper. So technically, she's actually the only making the bad choice, this guy will just have to stay smooth to keep her (the other guy would have to keep proving himself, ask the right questions, etc). Once you understand the thought process, it all makes sense 😂
Well they're still together. There was a follow up video with them. So you're dead wrong.
You got no idea of women 😂😢
@@verb0zeI’ve been saying this too!
These women didn't pop their Ballon bc they're coming to the realization that there's no more guys left 😂
The quality is not there.
That's what happens when their pussy mileage has racked up seriously
@@bryanbeeman5256of women? I agree
Maybe he was a good catch
These shows are very interesting and entertaining, not sure about finding true love but if it does happen, it’s like winning the lotto 😂
It sucks when someone comes out later on because if there were any real keepers on the panel, they're most likely gone. Either way I think he only went with that girl due to not having any other options, she's ok but I dont like them together, no real chemistry.
He seemed really nice, but I didn't get much energy from her he was better suited to one of the others!
White dress was delusional, to assume he was a player… while she is a traveling EXOTIC DANCER😂😅😂
The irony!! 😂😂😂😂
Strippers are good at reading men. Come to find out, she was right. It was exposed that he cheated on all of his exes. He said 20s… nah. More recent than that. Lol
Hoz know other hoz. Just like gay men know who is downlow. You can’t hide them spirits. 😂
I AGREE 1000% ! THE MATCHES DONT MATCH UP!!
Wow, you guys called it, something about them wasn’t really meshing and now they’re sworn enemies 😢
Damn, playboy was not left with much to chose from at all. The first girl gives me trauma and low vibrations, she's not going longterm with him for sure, they're too different and not in a good way
9:05 These women's idea of accountability is "I should have seen that he was bad". Uh, that's a shit answer.
Her: "I missed his red flags" - "I held on for too long"
Yeah accountability is their kryptonite.
They have no clue what accountability means, sadly!!
I was tired, chile... Every answer was damn near the same for different women.
Absolutely no ACCOUNTABILITY... Females refuse ACCOUNTABILITY
I respect this guy for his stance and maturity but not happy with his choice at all, especially if you watched how she was with the other guys, just BLAND all around from her, nope!
Homie was smooth but he gotta be careful, not with him on this one, hope he got good motives and she's a keeper cuz I didn't get any good vibes from her
The Somalia 🇸🇴 Woman let East Africa down in the show... They are known to be the prettiest in africa alongside Ethiopia, Eritrea, Djibouti, They are great women... Somalia women are known to be Submissive, great homemakers and homekeepers, loving, Nurturing, Hardworking, respectful and obedient
Yea, she's definitely NOT what most East African woman behave like at all
I ain't never seen a person from Somalia that completion.
She sounds more westernized than traditional too😏
She’s a walking RED FLAG with her FALKE LIFE
@@nattydreadlocks1973there is a range of complexions in the countries of the horn of Africa.
No way..no way bro why he choose this one...there IS no match...the 3 others left were so much more curvy 😂❤
Accountability isn’t what you should have seen in the other person, it’s what you should have seen in yourself. How did you contribute to the toxicity and that’s not saying “you should have noticed his red flags or anything of that sort”. Accountability is very simple. What did you do to make things worse or could you have done things to make it better. Maybe you could have cooked more, been more submissive, less clubbing, stopped entertaining other men, stopped wearing revealing clothes(or being promiscuous). These are the things women overlook when it comes to what you could have done differently.
You're a modern womans worst nightmare, you make too much sense 😂😂
@@cutenfunny8909yes my woman hates me but she’s learning. I’ve opened her eyes to so much. I’m young but I just paid attention and listened and noticed patterns and specific behaviors.
Ignoring the red flags is taking accountability for your lack of self-love and settling for less.
Accountability can be many things like being delusional, over-romanticizing, and poor conflict resolution, among other things.
@@liftedenergy3693 ignoring red flags is taking a chance. I don’t think that’s accountability only because you’re not directly admitting to any faults, most people say that to say “ i was used, they were hiding them well, or among other things, that you only ignored the red flags because “ I liked how he looked” or “ he had good sex”… you understand? In modern day unfortunately women more often do not say that in the context of taking accountability, it’s more so the lowest admittance to almost being ignorant on a repetitive basis. It’s like “ I have to admit to some kind of wrong or I’ll come off like the one with the issues”.
@AverageCurt ignoring red flags is not taking a risk. It is a form of self-betrayal, lack of trust in your intuition, lack of boundaries, and not establishing what your absolute deal-breakers are in connections.
This should go for family members, romantic, platonic, and work relationships.
Love-bombing/ false praise will have some people falling for a manipulator because they never were shown love as a child, never heard the words I love you. Or a person who did not receive support or praise as a child.
Those types of people tend to go for words and nice gestures.
It is important to understand yourself enough to determine I your trauma is talking or if that is your intuition.
Many people I've heard say they felt butterflies with a potential spouse, but that is actually anxiety. That is not chemistry.
People in general struggle with self-awareness and accountability, and it is necessary to take things slow so you can actually examine a person's behavior/actions.
If a person lies to themselves, they will lie to you.
Healing is a process, and through that process, people should learn their weaknesses, strengths, toxic behavior, and traits.
If a person is not aware of those things, they should rethink dating until they discover who they are single.
I have a male friend who speaks negatively about his baby mother he had two kids with. He even speaks negative on his mother and his grandmother, who lost her house to pay for his tuition.
This man is over 41.
I myself have had to learn to take responsibility for my actions and how my behavior or words can impact others.
"Im not toxic" 😂
I think he wanted the dancer and just accepted the last balloon girl left
Yes, he took his time with her. Just like the guy that choose the first speaker in one of the episodes.
Nobody here understand that she decided to pop the balloon and change the subject so she won't have to answer it... She played the guy in front of everybody saying he is a pretty boy so the attention goes to the guy and boom we forget the initial question.
By the way,none of them pop their ballon not because they like the guy but because the guy is a truck driver...
All these women have a red flag. None of them listened. The dude had to ask the first question 6 times 😂😂😂😂
That white, red and brown dress girl seems like a problem
HUGE Problem! 🚩🚩
That question reveals so much lol
The man in the video did a reaction on why he chose the woman wearing the green dress
Word? thanks for sharing, we'll peep it
Thought he would pick the second one. The one in the red said “you go low, l go lower” 🚩
Yall bout the only reaction channel I actually like! Great chemistry!
He picked what was left, the girl in green is so off-putting for some reason 🤮
The girl in green seems to be the only normal one there. She's shy but respectful. The others seem like toxic messes
I love this!! Nobody can piggyback...
I believe he wanted the one in the middle with green..the one he decided to match with is just like oh ok well I go with it…that’s not who he wants
Aight, don’t wanna sound like a hater but I guess everyone said it already. She ain’t it dawg, I understand we all have our own preferences but that woman doesn’t like ANYTHING he wants.
I was hoping he pulled the other green dress girl she was the baddest one to me 😂 but as a man with two kids myself I took that L wit him lmaoo
Man just gave the criteria of what every man looking for 😂
Guy was very intelligent and spot on.....very suave and articulate....had great energy....they say opposites attract. I already knew that was his match from the second round of questions....and I do agree with the batch of girls not being a suitable one for him.....
Most of the women in most of the lineups can be summarized as: 🚩🚩🚩🚩
I think the one that liked him the most was the cheetah print dress woman. She had more genuine interest than the rest
and that is a better choice in all respects.
Some ppl don't like her answer 8:52 but I don't think that is a lack of accountability.
Imo it shows she knew somethings were wrong but want the relationship with him so bad, desperate, etc. in liking a man
too much who wasn't good for you. THAT IS accountability for a flaw in herself. It didn't seem like she was tryna blame shift
as if she was flawless. THAT IS one of the major ways women lack accountability, namely in the man or men THEY CHOOSE to be with; or even have kids with.
The short one with the orange on is stunning 😍
9:14 red flag right there she took absolutely no accountability and blamed everything on him for the break up knowing damn well she had a part in it too
something that you could have done better in the relationship is NOT, “Not LET GO.” they dont take accountability for shit lol
That dancer chick is going to ruin someone’s life 😂😂😂
With this couple when she said, We got a match… I was like, where’s the cups of gasoline, because this gone burn…
LOOK OUT O!! Heellll No especially her but yes there was no match for this guy !!! With this group of women!!!
I would not be interested in anybody who weighs more than I do.
Most underrated comment from the OP: He gotta stop dating hood chicks!!!!
The girl in the white was a wasted spot. She popped preemptively every guy
The other girl in the green... She was the keeper. But I don't blame her for poppin. She had a dream, and stuck to it.
Salty Santana be popping on herself.....
Love the fact that he knows who he is looking for!
They aren't together anymore 😔
Man dammm straight!!!!! That part because I’ve been trough it!!!!!
Notice how all the wrong the women did was a I shouldve left and the guy actually "did" something wrong. No accountability they gave them job interview answers lol
I'm starting to think that some of these women are just crying out for help, they can't be this oblivious to reality
Last girl in the white got negging down to a science. Sheesh girl, how’d he fall for that
Well, I believe these matching events give a lot of auction sales aura. There's nothing like naturally knowing someone and building friendship, maybe after, but it's all about packaging 😊
Kudos to them anyways
White dress isn’t ready to date because she’s not healed yet because of her paranoia of getting hurt and the fact that she doesn’t lead with confidence is an INSTANT red flag for me because her anticipating things to go badly stops her from being the best version of herself.
Basically,
She’ll be getting in her own way.
He didnt pick the right girl, sorry but shorty was mid AF!
He didn't have any good options other than the one he picked and the lady from Wisconsin ...
I agree with ya'll on this one, I'm not really excited but hope for the best! 🤷🏻♀🤷🏻♀
I've not seen the outcome yet, though 😂😂😂😂
7:37 is precisely why men don’t like women with guy bestfriends 🤣
At last, my love has come along!!!!!!!!!!!!❤😂
This shows you when a women is feeling you she will tolerate and celebrate you.
Girl in the white dress is self-sabotage...or either honest enough in her mind to know she ain't standard to being a wife yet!
He had me at the list of things he does for fun. Then he said he wants someone that still believes in love. Felt, because it’s very typical to be jaded after heartbreak. I’ve always believed that there is beauty in all of our experiences. Then he said someone that thinks for herself?
Umm does anyone know this man’s phone #? Cause I think he is looking for me. Seriously…
These ladies missed the point of him asking for 1 thing that THEY did wrong. Everyone has stayed longer than they should have at one point or another. But what are your shortcomings? The woman in the red and white dress was the only one that got it.
This man’s IQ AND EQ are to the sky.
He seem nervous asf and saying too much just be straight forward and calm down brother 😂😂
Did he get physical or did he defned himself?
He seems cool but I think he was feeling the dancer the most as far as physically, green dress is cool but her vibe doesn't seem to match too well
The second girl doesn't understand how accountability works. The guy asked the second girl. What was a flaw in the relationship from you and the girl said my flaw was not reading the red flags that my ex was showing me and that's what I'm taking accountability for. That's not how accountability works.You just let your guard down and that's how a relationship is supposed to be.You can't keep a guard up, but you can't sit up here and say that's you taking accountability.You still haven't told that man.What your true flaws and that's the red flag
Not the match I expected, the third girl (tall green) or the one that self sabotaged herself would have been the best match. He legit enjoyed the vibes with the girl that self sabotaged (in white gown) she's beautiful between!
Lady in the white is so damaged. She should have stayed home and watched the replay instead.
8:51 Her fault? Nah, she's perfect. She says her fault was not seeing soon enough that he wasn't perfect. It's like she can't even comprehend a concept of her doing something wrong. You can't make this shit up...
11:26 she was honest enough to say that she did something wrong by running her mouth too much.
I think he's still with the girl he chose but he's putting it on heavy! If he slows down a bit they should be just fine
I'm not crazy about his pick but he's a trucker so it may work out as long as they actually communicate long distance 🤷🏻♂
There was no match for him . I didn’t feel the excitement from this woman.
The girl in the white has indeed been assuming a lot, and I think it's because of her environment. She's in the entertainment industry, so she's surrounded by dudes that are non-committal, that's probably gaslight her on the daily, and she's developed insecurities due to her profession and looks (she rightly knows that most men would not commit to dancers, and the tattoos spell trouble even if she wasn't).
Lady in orange no way is she 34! The wrinkles say over 42!
I agree she’s toxic; “eye for an eye “ ! That’s make the relationship super toxic
Just watched him reacting to this episode he definitely picked the wrong one
This video made me subscribe 😊😊😊
They are already wishing the had do the wig guy right
Good pick.
Just was scrolling and subscribed to your channel! Imma be watching closely and interacting with you all! 🎉❤
Awesome! Thank you and welcome! 🙏🏽
@@etmreacts absolutely welcome 😁 (imma go watch some more of your reactions to these)
I want you to notice it’s always the man fault always she these days and time women’s just leave for any reason because they’re not committed and there’s no love there to keep y’all together for woman really love you. She won’t leave.
He wanted white dress lol
That question about personality is the way you find out what they bring to the table without saying saying that dumb shit
It's a good match for the couple.
I'm a Christian single brother, and I'm looking for a single Christian queen to wife.
Blessings....
Watch the follow-up with Arnell with this guy and the girl that he chose!! He was toxic to her!! Just pull his and her name up on RUclips!! He’s no nice guy,
First girl looks 58 second gal voice was so much an to many words he don’t get
None of them were really that much of a great pick, the girl he winded up with is ok but I'm not confident they will last since I've been hearing he's going full simp mode on her smh
I think he wanted the lady in the white🎉🎉🎉
I would’ve picked leopard skin dress. She seems well spoken and knows what she wants. Tall green dress would’ve been next. Spanish mami got a nice frame but she admits she’s verbally abusive. The chick on the end is a wreck…can’t stand ppl who assume and is wrong af
I don’t like his outfit but he’s cute
I really lik the chemistry in your analysis. Love your channel. I need to meet Arlette though. She is hawt!
This guy doesn't like this lady , he actually wanted the talĺ lady that popped her balloon bcos the guy hass two kids, God help this guy, I wish the lady can just get her balloon back.
Off topic but i believe judge mathis is getting divorced wtf 😮
Noooooo!!! What's going on with love these days!? 🥹
Over the road
I thought girls didn't like truck drivers from other episodes?
Everyone Last relationship couple years go the truth everyone last sex activity couple of days ago
0 self awareness
What if i want the host?
Sad ass line up , they 2s out of 10
What’s your rating Denzel 🙄
None of the females on this panel are keepers.
He is an amazing person. I can tell lucky lady. Please don't blow it.
Those women are not wife material but always recycling the sames women.
Grammar. (😆)
He needs to work on his posture