Be sure that your dad is watching over you as your guardian Angel. You have no idea how many lives you’ve touched with your positivity and energy. I never miss your videos. More power to you, girl.
Ananthi don't worry, you are strong girl, naanum ethe situation cross panniruken, only your video and interview making me strong . Like ethu yellarukum nadakum nu ethu part of the life nu nambavaikithu, love you lot..
En appa kooda rendu nal dhan treatment lam waste nu doctor kootitu po nu sollitanga aprom siddha medicine saptu 2 years kooda enga kooda irundharu nan BSMS 1 st year padikurapo he died...nan nichayam idhu mari porupilladha badhil solla matan
My dad passed away four years ago due to cancer. Every word made so much sense and it's really painful to see him suffer. Hugs Anandhi 🥺❤️ no words.. salute since you took this video
Anathi u r my motivator..i always hear ur voice while i am working in my kichen..ur voice and the way of ur talking gives strength during my low times..bcoz my mom have breast cancer..she doesn't know her stage..she is fighting everyday..me and my dad taking care of her..this video connecting me a lot..
@@TheBookShowbyrjananthi ya..sure but cant able to spend time with her..mostly she is in dark room..i have two kids 2 years and 6 years they are..i should take care of them too...but i have a hope i can give my best for making her days long with the healthy foods this is tge only thing i can give her now..
I would be the least emotional person you could ever meet.. not exaggerating cuz that's the truth.. I've never ever cried for anyone's demise in my life till now.. as my inner will is so strong.. but while listening this, tears poured like lava out of a volcano.. it's like I've cried for all the people I didn't so far.. I'm at such a point in life where you realize how love works inside Human minds.. as I'm currently with my boyfriend.. it hit me suddenly how the death, even the anticipation of losing someone so special in your life could change everything forever and hit me like a tsunami of emotions which I couldn't take in and I can't even imagine such a circumstance clearly.. Thank you for this video.. it goes into "For My Life" playlist!!.. more power to you Anandhi Akka❤️
It made me feel so deep. I could relate it to some point. My father cried to me as a kid when he was ill, I couldn't forget that moment in my life. By God's grace he had recovered. Thank you so much for this video. Lot's of love &more power to you ❤
Very Emotional review Anandhi. I also lost my father in the same situation... same trauma... same emotions.. but so many years ago. Time may heal our losses. But இழப்பு இழப்பு தானே.
It's been exactly a year today when my mum left us.. It was full of suffering.. She's was a cancer survivor as well after diagnosed with final stage 7 years ago.. Secret for battling for 7 odd years is her mental will power.. I wish I knew this book and being mortal a year before .. it would have given me an acceptance.. It's hard.. but that's life.. Take care of your loved person when alive.. create memories.. share often.. love them.. and make them feel happy amidst one's deteriorating health... Provide a painless send off..
I came across the pain of cancer as my mother was breast cancer patient. I could understand ordeal situation that you have faced. I must salute you for talking that pain again and explain with us.Hats off to you
Near death experiences will heal you....but we woman have to take this a normal thing...i can relate you...dnt take tooo personal..he has a purpose...he created rj ananthi..who is socially responsible...i can feel ur pain..we r with you..long live good soul..with abundance
Despite your pain, you have talked about the book so beautifully and shared your personal experience. For a young girl, you are very strong. Wishing you loads of love and best wishes, Ananthi! Love your videos.
One of the best books I have read, last eulogy written by his wife who is a doctor herself has a greater impact for anyone who is grieving. Highly recommended to everyone who is living to value the importance of time we need to spend with ourselves and with our loved ones before it is too late
Bro i understand ur pain i too lost my Dad but the think is our success make that disappeare ...only that we can can do ..i pray for ur success ...best of Grace
Dnt cry mam.... Always ur dad will be there wit u.... U r the inspiration for many girls.... I like ur way of taking.... All s well..what u r saying about books, it's so nice to hearing and see... It's motivating to read the books... Thanks..
I can relate to it although It took me years to realize, that my dad is no more. I have prayed to get cancer to feel the pain what they go through, but when I watched this I have a dream now to work in a cancer hospital. This is a different video that opened a different perspective of life. Thanks for the video.
இந்த உலகில் எதும் நிரந்திரமில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் காணொளி ..அருமை கடந்து செல்வேம் அப்பா இழந்து தவிக்கும் சகோதரிக்கு இத்தனை சகோதரி சகோதர்கள் இருக்கோம்......
End of the day we are some of our experience and some of the experience are some of the emotions.. 🤩🤩while hearing this ❤️I feel something inside my tummiess 😭
Akka, I always admire you a lot. I don't know how to start but I normally cry easily when seeing people's pain. The line we do not fear the death, rather fear the process of dying is so true. That line really touched me hard and I could empathize with you. Recently about few months ago, my friend's father has passed away. That was the first time in my life, I saw a death nearly close to me and which impacted me a lot. I was in a different place, she informed me through phone and I didn't know how to react. I travelled to her place after 3 days and I couldn't sleep for few days. Moreover, I really didn't know how and what to tell her and her family. A thought struck my mind, nobody taught us regarding death, how to talk to people grieving, how to talk to people in their final days? I was tongue tied at that moment and didn't know how to console her. I read that 'When things fall apart' book afterwards and it gave me a sense of clarity. I even shared the video with her. This video really made me cry. I am proud of your courage and admire how could you connect with the people through a RUclips video. I admire you a lot akka, you are one of my inspiration.
This is one of the best book that I have read and possess. The highlight of this book is how the author Paul Kalanidhi describes the progressive pain that is being felt by each muscle, with an excellent medical description. Thank you for the review of this book by blending it with your own personal experiences and being so bold and natural about your experiences ,which can heal the emotional pains of many people.. This review will be your iconic review. Please continue to do your good work for the benefit of all. Thank you Ananthi.
It's not a book review. It's remembering my relationship with others. I felt that missed feeling... Years in my eyes .... Very emotional and made me more empathy.....
Hello Anathi Akka, actually i am not someone who comments alot. But after this video I have to. Akka I really appreciate you to take the courage to talk about such a hard situation. It makes people feeling not alone. I really cried with you. It feels like you are someone I really know. Thank you for everything Akka and stay strong. Time will heal. I love you so much akka❤️
Anandhi akka.. maybe after few months or years you may revisit this video and might regret crying or emoting. Possible. If this comment catches your eye then, please know that it was so brave of you. It's not very easy to express yourself to people you don't know about. You connected with all of us through that emotion. We felt as if we lost someone in our life. You obviously know it's ok to feel low in life at times. You should also know that we are with you too. ❤️ அன்புடன், முகம் தெரியாத ஒரு தம்பி
I like book show so much, but avloka na comment panathu ila, i think this is one of urs best video, Ur utmost love of ur dad ❤and u and ur family experience of pain, Even neenga appa kaga aluthathu kuda romba attractive tha irunthuchi Enamo i like the way of expressing ur feelings Kandipa unga dad always roaming around u and ur family ❤, One more thing yaro orutharkaga nenga feel panathu more lovable thats the humanity athunala tha inum world eyanguthu❤,ungala hurt pana antha doctor kandipa intha video pathu oru nal bada feel panuvaru 🎉Sure all doctors try to be kind to all patient and their family as well ❤Again intha video heartfelt emotions voda explain paniga really felt happy for u ❤Rj anandhi 🥰🥰 engaluku bookshow vala tha theirum ❤❤Lets continue ur journey all the best to reach many more subscribers🎉sure one day i will meet u RJ ❤❤❤
I gone through a huge loss ..lossed my better off few monthsback.but this book 📖 review made me trying to out that trauma..means experiencing to lead life with pain..Especially "comfortable with uncertainty. " when things falls apart "..And now this one gonna start...Thank a lot ..Ananthi
You know what…it’s been just 3 days since I started watching your book shows. I think I nearly slept listening something else and all of a sudden woke up listening to this. You’re touching so many lives and this was so disturbing. Thanks for sharing this and god bless you.
Love ur courage of sharing ur story,there is nothing wrong in sharing ur feelings and death is part of life even if we don't want it sis...i truly feel,its really hard sharing this news and hearing the news,really sorry about ur dad
I lost my father recently due to cancer. Every penny of your word happened to my father also. U brought me to 5mnths back in time whr v wr fighting together against the cancer with my father.
Don't cry Ananthi.. You are one of the bravest person I have ever seen.. Your positivity lifted my spirit when I was on my lowest.. You are a warrior 💛
I think this is the longest video other than live.. It doesn't felt like that.. after you cried, hope you felt light ❤️ You are such a beautiful soul ka🌟🌟🌟
Ananthi you have no clue how much you influenced me to read books, trust me, suththama padikaama padika pidikaadhu enakku, your day to day videos boosting me till date to read instead of wasting times with inappropriate contents in social media, these days ye indha video paaklanu im worrying now, at least i never missed it. Half n hr continues uh kedaikla ivlo naal. But ivlo emotions orey videola iruka mudiyuma! As you gone through grief n from that time videosla kooda yepdi ivlo alaga sirichute pesranu neraya time yoschurken, u answered all in this single video. As most of the people around me going through pain by losing their dear one trusted one, na go through panra vishayangalku deep dive panni, now im realizing how much value v should give to person who are close to our heart rather than a day to day office nadakra vishyathuku, proper appraisal ilanu, jealous of watching other people n their wealth, finally idhellam fake la... Amma appa close uh 4frnds caring wholeheartedly is enough la, avanglukaga naama kooda irupomnu andha hope podhumla soul fulfil aaga... You Stay strong my girl, ena madhri u have to influence many more souls out there. Love you 💗
I have related to you from the time you spoke about your father’s death. My strong super hero appa was diagnosed with cancer in jan 2019 and passed away in sep 2019. I get everything you say. What my mom went through. My akka is in US and i am in SG, we took turns and travelled every month once to get his treatment going. I can now emphasise more with people who are grieving or going through a loss. My father was a strong healthy person and was working few days before his diagnosis too. This book i read when we were going through his treatments. Much love and hugs to you. I feel more connected to you 💖
Sorry ananthi unga videos parkum bodhellam , ivangaluku ena kavalai iruka pogudhu ? Ivalo energetic ah pesuraanga , ellam wealth dhaan reasonnu ninaichi irukean. But 19:43 la enakae theriyama unga words ena ala vaichiduchi . You're such a brave girl . Indha happy ana faceku pinadi evalo kastatha pass pani vandhu irukeenga 😥😢😢 you're such a great miss.ananthi ...
May your father’s soul rest in peace Ananthi🙏🏼 I can relate this as I have lost my father suddenly 2 weeks ago😪 your video content shows that how strong you are as you took the effort to convey the message to readers about last moments of life👍🏼 timely content & its shows the importance of showing empathy for the rest of the world ❤️
I can understand sister. Most of us gone through this situation. Being with loved ones in their tough situation. Namaku pudichuvanka kastapaduratha pakkrathuku namaku romba kastama erukum. unfortunately as you said this kind of situations only bringing back our humanity with in us. peace love.
The most disturbing fact of this whole thing is that , every one of us humans will have to face this situation at one point of time. Death/Illness of loved ones rips you apart more than when you are RIP-ed apart from your body. Excellent video Anandhi , As they say everything in life is a cycle , you have just crossed the bottom most part of it . Better things coming ahead in your life now. A pinch of love from me to add to that flavor
I have sent you an email regarding a book named "HOW DOCTORS DIE: It’s Not Like the Rest of Us, But It Should Be Ken Murray". This book is similar to the books you have mentioned in the video.
love you sissy, have been watching u r videos since lockdown, and have been inspired by u and started reading books, never typed in commemts, but this is so touchy and bought tears,so thought 2 thank u for everything, I will never forget u in my life, as u are the one who made me read books*❤️
Hi anandhi don't worry your daddy is always nearyou and is taking care of you, the same experience our family has gone through my appa passed away on 2014 because of kidney cancer i can relate everything, i don't no what to say but for sure they will be with us and protect us, your a beautiful soul anadhi love you loads ❤️
Hi vanakam Ananthi. All of the sudden I came across your videos. I was addicted to them. This morning I was watching this and I was in tears. I fully understand your situation as me too lost my hubby recently. myself and my kids came thru pain.keep rocking.
The sense of helplessness, when you see your loved ones undergoing the pain will always remain as scar. These occurrences will make us more mature. This world is meant for all of us to co-exist. Let us give your supporting hands to all those who are in need. Ananthi, you are one powerhouse. Don't worry.
Yes Ananthi - whatever you have said was right, same like your situation I was there in my childhood who lost my dad it's been 15 years - it was a very hectic life routine for the many years and the moment he left it was like our universe has stopped evolved - we used to long for the normal life to enjoy little things... But what I have believed is its gonna change and the life will be happier ever then... Loved your way of conveying the things which you have gone through the books.I believe you are changing many lives which your dad will be proud of... It become my daily routine to watch your videos...very inspiring and motivating..Thanks for that ❤️❤️❤️...keep going and I am sure that our dad will be always watching us like guardian angel ❤️❤️...
Ananthi I can relate you completely as my dad also went thru the same thing and was suffering from cancer and was hospitalised for months together with my mom only as the attender. As we had hopes for him to come back home it was a day when everything was reversed and he was into his last days, each morning would be a discussion between us claiming today he would return to normal ward and doctors are gonna share some good news of his health showing recovery symptoms but that day never came up.. I still have tears when I think him and all I believe is that god is taking good care of him somewhere.. thanks for this book show as this is very special and so much relative 😓 Love you for this book review ❤️ and showing that I am / we are not alone !!
அம்மா Honest talks on the topic That itself is enough for me My friend asked me to read 4 books, which I am yet to read, this is one of that list. 1. Clayton Christensen - How will you measure your life 2. The Last Lecture - Randy Pausch 3. Being Mortal 4. When the breath becomes air I could see a different person in you … All the best for your life
I was cried when u told about your dad.But this was actually happened to my mom when she had cancer of Multiple Myeloma(in backbone) during covid situations..She is no more today..but I still running with her memories..
Love You ❤️ Ananthi. I wasn't there with my mom when passed away, Coz of Lockdown i got struck in another country. Still i regret for not being there with her at her last time. Whatever happens, Life has to move on💞
this is my first video of yours m watching it ... you remind me of my dad who passed 2015 away due to cancer !! it was really tough for my dad to go thru !!
U r so much stronger sister. 😢Thank u. Enakkum Idhu konjam viththiyasama irundhalum.i passed that situation epdyna Enga amma veettu kastaththukkaga velinattula poay ulaikka aarambichanga iam now 27 years old. Indha 27 varushaththula oru 3 yeaRsdha ammakooda naanga mean thambi thangachi irundhirukkom Amma eppayum engalukkaga Mattumdha avangala noagadichchi ulaichchanga. Amma solluvaanga Ammavoda Appa saagumpoadhu avarukku oru 35 or 36 irukkumnu avar maavatta thalaivara irundhurukkaru. Avar irukkum poadhu Vandha yaarume avaru poanaparama thirumbi kooda paakkalanu solluvaanga Uduththa kooda onnum illama oru podavaiya renda kilichchi adhadha use pannadha amma sollirukkanga. Ammavoda thani life story romba perusu. Appo amma Nalla padippangalam but Vasadhi illa Ammava padikka vaikkiradha solli kootti poaga oru vtla vealaikku vitrukkanga appo Ammavoda vayasu 10. Oru 2 years Ammaku enga irukkonu kooda Theriyadham.enakku therinji ippo vara now amma is 53 iththana varusham Amma ulaikkiranga. Adhe nearam naanga 4 Pasanga vtla appa is no words solla he is irresponsible person. Amma engalukkaga Mattumdha kastapattanga. Enga Ammavoda passport oru 2 3 weeksdha vtla irukkum irukkum 10 years 5 times nu solli velinadu poaytanga adhula naanga Padichchom patnI illama Saaptom. But veara edhum illa amma Edhukkaga poangalo Avalo thooram but edhume engalukku mulumaiya kedaikkala. Last time work panna 2 years Ammaku sugar and high blood pressure. Ammaku ekkachakka noay. Sugarnala kannu2 um blind aagidichi.we lost our hope Eana avanga kadal kadandhu irukkanga. Amma adikkadi peasuvanga.appola soldra common word dhanuma Naa vara poaradhu illa Needha Ella paaththukkanum. 😢 Andha vaarththaigal romba valikkum. Ammatayum vara maattAnganudha Nambunanga. Ammavoda visa 2 years mudiya Oru 1 month munnala enakkoru kanavu amma engala vittu poaytanga avanga body maattuku varudhu.naa pakkaththula irundhu ammava paaththutrukke. She is so beautiful with her heart. Bayandhutte.ennala andha situation a nearla paakkuravanga dhairiyam illa. Thideernu Oru one week kAlichchi Ammata irundhu night iru 12 o clock call Maa enakku flight poattutanga naa naalaikku vandhuruvenu. Annaikkum appa semma kudi eluppi vishayaththa solli poaga solli ammava vttuku kootti vandhanga but adhu ea amma illa. Eana 80 90 vayasanavangamaadhiri Verum elumbum thoalumadha irundhanga poagumpoadhukooda naa alala eana 4 vayasula irundhu amma poavanga varuvaanga but indha mura paaththum aludhutte.control pannika mudiyala. It's so painful moment.aparama ammakoodave irundhu ammava paaththukite.now she is alright but ippayum ulaikkiranga avanga Freeya irundha avangalukku noay. Ammava Kadaisi vara koodadhula irundhu happy a vachikanunudha ennoda romba periya aasa avanga innum romba varusham vaalanumnu aasa. Idha ungakooda ea share panna thoanichinu theriyala. But u remain me that situation.ungakooda Enga amma paththu innum share pannikanunudha thoanudhu.
Ananthi..M very sorry for ur dad's loss..after all i am proud of u that beyond the loss and all these emotions u r very brave enough to smile the next day...nerya peruku idhu saathiyam ila..,it would b nice if every human being can understand it..insha Allah idhuvum kadandhu pogum...
Sister, there is only one person in our life who will be permanent throughout our life... Who is nothing but ourself... So.... Love yourself sister.... Don't think about the past, but just think about the lesson that we have learnt from it
i came through this pain in my life dear .. My Amm was cancer patient and travelled with her one year when i see the kids in those hospital my eyes are rolling with tears ..
I lost my dad before 7 days. Being Dadda girl to dad less girl . This video helps me wentout and cry to some extent. Thanks @anandhi. My kids are too small now(4 year and 1 year).will definitely show you and talk about you once they grow. Ananthi chithi mathiri strong ah irukanumnu❤
Same anger in me also with the doctor who handled my father at the last days of my father … he is one of the specialist in tamilnadu in a famous hospital … finallyy i convinced myself that my father is one of the patient among 1000 … anyways he should follow some human ethics …
Deepest condolences Ananthi. I understand COVID was a stressful time for medical professionals, but they should still not have behaved that way to your mother and you. It's literally making me furious. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Being an oncological researcher, I understand cancer and cancer therapy can be very hard on the individual and their family. I don't think any of my words could console your pain. When breath becomes air, is a challenging book, especially for someone who's going through grief. I'd like to recommend you Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner (Please check TW, and only pick it up if you're in the right headspace.)
I can feel the pain. These kinds of pain never goes. 💔 But your father is your guardian angel watching, guiding and saving you as my father doing to me ❤️
I could relate with you, Ananthi. I would like to appreciate you for choosing this topic and explaining things which most of the people who have undergone the similar situation couldn't do it. May God bless you and your family members. May your Dad's soul rest in peace. Keep going......
I too experienced the same thing at the age of 18, your talks are reasonable .... don't worry..akka...nice video.🙂 ....my first video..from u r channel.
என் தாயின் பிரிவை - இந்த வலியை நானும் உணர்ந்து இருக்கிறேன். (உங்கள் அப்பா எப்போதும் உங்களுடன் தான் இருப்பார் உடல் தான் இல்லையே தவிர அவர் ஆன்மா உங்களுடன் தான் இருந்து ஆசிர்வதிப்பார் சகோதரி) நான் என் தாயை ஒவ்வொரு நொடியிலும் உணர்கிறேன்
I totally understand, when my mother was in a critical situation I record what the doctors say so I can go through the same for better understanding. Take care dear.
I can completely relate to u coz Eva my dad had lung cancer and we lost him last year.....ungaluku nadantha Ellamae engaluku nadanchu....evlo years kalichum itha yoscha azhuga varum
More power to you🥺. I can feel ur situation. I have gone through the same situation with my grandpa when i was 15 .Its been 6 years but still i remember each and every moment. My grandpa was diagnosed for brain tumor and lungs cancer. My whole family struggled alot. We lost hope. Every morning is a breath taking for us for tat last 6 months🥺. Finally april 30 came in my life. It was a frst loved one's loss for me. I have never experienced these kind of stuffs before. Tat day i was literally broken. Everybody lose hope in my family but I was literally having a hope in the corner tat he will come over from it but Im able to understand tat everyone has tat end day in their life. I wish god could give us the power to bare the pain😭. I love him so much, I really miss him alot😔😔
Actually I'm ur follower, some how I scrolled my you tube, i watched this video 1 thing want to convey u r good human being some how this video can b relatable for every 1's life .. good keep going
Akka, feel panathinga..enga appakum cancer irunthathu..touchwood he is alright now..kavalapadathinga..unga appa vera engayum ila, ungakooda than irukaaru❤️❤️
thing i want to share is one line you spoke out that your appa was 60, but 6 or 6o the loss cannot be measured by the age, but the value time and relationship we had with the person... its true not every ones death disturb us as some... Don't worry the best one to console is we just cannot touch our loved once physically but we can definitely feel them emotionally..😢 after death..
Be sure that your dad is watching over you as your guardian Angel. You have no idea how many lives you’ve touched with your positivity and energy. I never miss your videos. More power to you, girl.
Ananthi don't worry, you are strong girl, naanum ethe situation cross panniruken, only your video and interview making me strong . Like ethu yellarukum nadakum nu ethu part of the life nu nambavaikithu, love you lot..
En appa kooda rendu nal dhan treatment lam waste nu doctor kootitu po nu sollitanga aprom siddha medicine saptu 2 years kooda enga kooda irundharu nan BSMS 1 st year padikurapo he died...nan nichayam idhu mari porupilladha badhil solla matan
My dad passed away four years ago due to cancer. Every word made so much sense and it's really painful to see him suffer. Hugs Anandhi 🥺❤️ no words.. salute since you took this video
One of the real influencers, I admire you a lot that you show the reality always. Lots of love to you❤️
Anathi u r my motivator..i always hear ur voice while i am working in my kichen..ur voice and the way of ur talking gives strength during my low times..bcoz my mom have breast cancer..she doesn't know her stage..she is fighting everyday..me and my dad taking care of her..this video connecting me a lot..
Stay strong❤️ when you are by her side, she will fight like a warrior!
@@TheBookShowbyrjananthi ya..sure but cant able to spend time with her..mostly she is in dark room..i have two kids 2 years and 6 years they are..i should take care of them too...but i have a hope i can give my best for making her days long with the healthy foods this is tge only thing i can give her now..
I would be the least emotional person you could ever meet.. not exaggerating cuz that's the truth.. I've never ever cried for anyone's demise in my life till now.. as my inner will is so strong.. but while listening this, tears poured like lava out of a volcano.. it's like I've cried for all the people I didn't so far.. I'm at such a point in life where you realize how love works inside Human minds.. as I'm currently with my boyfriend.. it hit me suddenly how the death, even the anticipation of losing someone so special in your life could change everything forever and hit me like a tsunami of emotions which I couldn't take in and I can't even imagine such a circumstance clearly.. Thank you for this video.. it goes into "For My Life" playlist!!.. more power to you Anandhi Akka❤️
It made me feel so deep. I could relate it to some point. My father cried to me as a kid when he was ill, I couldn't forget that moment in my life. By God's grace he had recovered. Thank you so much for this video. Lot's of love &more power to you ❤
Very Emotional review Anandhi. I also lost my father in the same situation... same trauma... same emotions.. but so many years ago. Time may heal our losses. But இழப்பு இழப்பு தானே.
வாழ்க்கை வித்தியாசமானது...
எப்ப வேணும்னாலும் என்ன வேணும்னாலும் நடக்கலாம்...
மன வலிமை மனவலியை மாத்தும்ங்றத ரொம்ப அருமையா சொல்லிருக்கிங்க அக்கா❤️
Your Dad must be so proud of you Ananthi! I am starting to watch your book summaries / reviews on a daily basis. You are a blessed child
It's been exactly a year today when my mum left us.. It was full of suffering.. She's was a cancer survivor as well after diagnosed with final stage 7 years ago.. Secret for battling for 7 odd years is her mental will power.. I wish I knew this book and being mortal a year before .. it would have given me an acceptance.. It's hard.. but that's life.. Take care of your loved person when alive.. create memories.. share often.. love them.. and make them feel happy amidst one's deteriorating health... Provide a painless send off..
I came across the pain of cancer as my mother was breast cancer patient. I could understand ordeal situation that you have faced. I must salute you for talking that pain again and explain with us.Hats off to you
Near death experiences will heal you....but we woman have to take this a normal thing...i can relate you...dnt take tooo personal..he has a purpose...he created rj ananthi..who is socially responsible...i can feel ur pain..we r with you..long live good soul..with abundance
Despite your pain, you have talked about the book so beautifully and shared your personal experience. For a young girl, you are very strong. Wishing you loads of love and best wishes, Ananthi! Love your videos.
One of the best books I have read, last eulogy written by his wife who is a doctor herself has a greater impact for anyone who is grieving. Highly recommended to everyone who is living to value the importance of time we need to spend with ourselves and with our loved ones before it is too late
It's been 6 years still I am going through the pain of my dad loss, your book suggestions helping me a lot thank you
Bro i understand ur pain i too lost my Dad but the think is our success make that disappeare ...only that we can can do ..i pray for ur success ...best of Grace
Just record audio, what you want to say..?? And hear it.
Dnt cry mam.... Always ur dad will be there wit u.... U r the inspiration for many girls.... I like ur way of taking.... All s well..what u r saying about books, it's so nice to hearing and see... It's motivating to read the books... Thanks..
I can relate to it although It took me years to realize, that my dad is no more.
I have prayed to get cancer to feel the pain what they go through, but when I watched this I have a dream now to work in a cancer hospital. This is a different video that opened a different perspective of life.
Thanks for the video.
You're such a strong girl , bless you loads 💜💫
இந்த உலகில் எதும் நிரந்திரமில்லை என்பதை உணர்த்தும் காணொளி ..அருமை கடந்து செல்வேம் அப்பா இழந்து தவிக்கும் சகோதரிக்கு இத்தனை சகோதரி சகோதர்கள் இருக்கோம்......
End of the day we are some of our experience and some of the experience are some of the emotions.. 🤩🤩while hearing this ❤️I feel something inside my tummiess 😭
Akka, I always admire you a lot. I don't know how to start but I normally cry easily when seeing people's pain. The line we do not fear the death, rather fear the process of dying is so true. That line really touched me hard and I could empathize with you.
Recently about few months ago, my friend's father has passed away. That was the first time in my life, I saw a death nearly close to me and which impacted me a lot. I was in a different place, she informed me through phone and I didn't know how to react. I travelled to her place after 3 days and I couldn't sleep for few days. Moreover, I really didn't know how and what to tell her and her family. A thought struck my mind, nobody taught us regarding death, how to talk to people grieving, how to talk to people in their final days? I was tongue tied at that moment and didn't know how to console her.
I read that 'When things fall apart' book afterwards and it gave me a sense of clarity. I even shared the video with her. This video really made me cry. I am proud of your courage and admire how could you connect with the people through a RUclips video. I admire you a lot akka, you are one of my inspiration.
This is one of the best book that I have read and possess. The highlight of this book is how the author Paul Kalanidhi describes the progressive pain that is being felt by each muscle, with an excellent medical description. Thank you for the review of this book by blending it with your own personal experiences and being so bold and natural about your experiences ,which can heal the emotional pains of many people.. This review will be your iconic review. Please continue to do your good work for the benefit of all. Thank you Ananthi.
It's not a book review. It's remembering my relationship with others. I felt that missed feeling... Years in my eyes .... Very emotional and made me more empathy.....
Hello Anathi Akka, actually i am not someone who comments alot. But after this video I have to. Akka I really appreciate you to take the courage to talk about such a hard situation. It makes people feeling not alone. I really cried with you. It feels like you are someone I really know. Thank you for everything Akka and stay strong. Time will heal. I love you so much akka❤️
Anandhi akka.. maybe after few months or years you may revisit this video and might regret crying or emoting. Possible. If this comment catches your eye then, please know that it was so brave of you. It's not very easy to express yourself to people you don't know about. You connected with all of us through that emotion. We felt as if we lost someone in our life. You obviously know it's ok to feel low in life at times. You should also know that we are with you too. ❤️
அன்புடன்,
முகம் தெரியாத ஒரு தம்பி
I like book show so much, but avloka na comment panathu ila, i think this is one of urs best video, Ur utmost love of ur dad ❤and u and ur family experience of pain, Even neenga appa kaga aluthathu kuda romba attractive tha irunthuchi Enamo i like the way of expressing ur feelings Kandipa unga dad always roaming around u and ur family ❤, One more thing yaro orutharkaga nenga feel panathu more lovable thats the humanity athunala tha inum world eyanguthu❤,ungala hurt pana antha doctor kandipa intha video pathu oru nal bada feel panuvaru 🎉Sure all doctors try to be kind to all patient and their family as well ❤Again intha video heartfelt emotions voda explain paniga really felt happy for u ❤Rj anandhi 🥰🥰 engaluku bookshow vala tha theirum ❤❤Lets continue ur journey all the best to reach many more subscribers🎉sure one day i will meet u RJ ❤❤❤
I gone through a huge loss ..lossed my better off few monthsback.but this book 📖 review made me trying to out that trauma..means experiencing to lead life with pain..Especially "comfortable with uncertainty. " when things falls apart "..And now this one gonna start...Thank a lot ..Ananthi
You know what…it’s been just 3 days since I started watching your book shows. I think I nearly slept listening something else and all of a sudden woke up listening to this. You’re touching so many lives and this was so disturbing. Thanks for sharing this and god bless you.
Love ur courage of sharing ur story,there is nothing wrong in sharing ur feelings and death is part of life even if we don't want it sis...i truly feel,its really hard sharing this news and hearing the news,really sorry about ur dad
I lost my father recently due to cancer. Every penny of your word happened to my father also. U brought me to 5mnths back in time whr v wr fighting together against the cancer with my father.
I could relate with your ‘going back to normalcy days’.. and envy when I see others with a carefree life..
I watch all your book review...
This is the most I like...
Certainly your dad is happy about you and smiles from heaven...
🙏🙏🙏
Akka don't cry Akka... eppavume Appa unga kooda than irupanga..ennaya evlovoo motivate pannirukinga...thq Ka...
Don't cry Ananthi.. You are one of the bravest person I have ever seen.. Your positivity lifted my spirit when I was on my lowest.. You are a warrior 💛
I think this is the longest video other than live..
It doesn't felt like that.. after you cried, hope you felt light ❤️ You are such a beautiful soul ka🌟🌟🌟
Ananthi you have no clue how much you influenced me to read books, trust me, suththama padikaama padika pidikaadhu enakku, your day to day videos boosting me till date to read instead of wasting times with inappropriate contents in social media, these days ye indha video paaklanu im worrying now, at least i never missed it. Half n hr continues uh kedaikla ivlo naal. But ivlo emotions orey videola iruka mudiyuma! As you gone through grief n from that time videosla kooda yepdi ivlo alaga sirichute pesranu neraya time yoschurken, u answered all in this single video. As most of the people around me going through pain by losing their dear one trusted one, na go through panra vishayangalku deep dive panni, now im realizing how much value v should give to person who are close to our heart rather than a day to day office nadakra vishyathuku, proper appraisal ilanu, jealous of watching other people n their wealth, finally idhellam fake la... Amma appa close uh 4frnds caring wholeheartedly is enough la, avanglukaga naama kooda irupomnu andha hope podhumla soul fulfil aaga... You Stay strong my girl, ena madhri u have to influence many more souls out there. Love you 💗
I have related to you from the time you spoke about your father’s death. My strong super hero appa was diagnosed with cancer in jan 2019 and passed away in sep 2019. I get everything you say. What my mom went through. My akka is in US and i am in SG, we took turns and travelled every month once to get his treatment going. I can now emphasise more with people who are grieving or going through a loss. My father was a strong healthy person and was working few days before his diagnosis too. This book i read when we were going through his treatments. Much love and hugs to you. I feel more connected to you 💖
My all time favourite autobiography....😭💯
Sorry ananthi unga videos parkum bodhellam , ivangaluku ena kavalai iruka pogudhu ? Ivalo energetic ah pesuraanga , ellam wealth dhaan reasonnu ninaichi irukean. But 19:43 la enakae theriyama unga words ena ala vaichiduchi . You're such a brave girl . Indha happy ana faceku pinadi evalo kastatha pass pani vandhu irukeenga 😥😢😢 you're such a great miss.ananthi ...
தெய்வமே உங்க கண்ணுல கண்ணிறா 😭😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️ ❤️❤️
May your father’s soul rest in peace Ananthi🙏🏼 I can relate this as I have lost my father suddenly 2 weeks ago😪 your video content shows that how strong you are as you took the effort to convey the message to readers about last moments of life👍🏼 timely content & its shows the importance of showing empathy for the rest of the world ❤️
Im watching your channel from Malaysia 🇲🇾 & one of my favorite RUclips channels as it encourages me to read more❤️👍🏼 Keep enlightening us❤️
Thank You...Ananthi........Because last year I felt this condition due to the loss of my father. But today this video helps me.....Thankyou..........
I can understand sister. Most of us gone through this situation. Being with loved ones in their tough situation. Namaku pudichuvanka kastapaduratha pakkrathuku namaku romba kastama erukum. unfortunately as you said this kind of situations only bringing back our humanity with in us. peace love.
The most disturbing fact of this whole thing is that , every one of us humans will have to face this situation at one point of time.
Death/Illness of loved ones rips you apart more than when you are RIP-ed apart from your body.
Excellent video Anandhi , As they say everything in life is a cycle , you have just crossed the bottom most part of it .
Better things coming ahead in your life now. A pinch of love from me to add to that flavor
I have sent you an email regarding a book named "HOW DOCTORS DIE: It’s Not Like the Rest of Us, But It Should Be
Ken Murray". This book is similar to the books you have mentioned in the video.
Enaku enna solradhunu therla ka.
Be strong !
love you sissy, have been watching u r videos since lockdown, and have been inspired by u and started reading books, never typed in commemts, but this is so touchy and bought tears,so thought 2 thank u for everything, I will never forget u in my life, as u are the one who made me read books*❤️
Hi anandhi don't worry your daddy is always nearyou and is taking care of you, the same experience our family has gone through my appa passed away on 2014 because of kidney cancer i can relate everything, i don't no what to say but for sure they will be with us and protect us, your a beautiful soul anadhi love you loads ❤️
I'm not a comment person..but ananthi just thank you so much for this video ❤️❤️ This video means a lot for me ❤️
Hi vanakam Ananthi. All of the sudden I came across your videos. I was addicted to them. This morning I was watching this and I was in tears. I fully understand your situation as me too lost my hubby recently. myself and my kids came thru pain.keep rocking.
I can relate this content to the precious time that we have with our people.... Good to all becoz life is short...
the time you start to cry I too wipe my tears......
Please don't feel nenga azhugarathu seriously kastama iruku. Be strong. Enoda inspiration nenga. Nenga feel pannuna kastama iruku Akka.
The sense of helplessness, when you see your loved ones undergoing the pain will always remain as scar. These occurrences will make us more mature. This world is meant for all of us to co-exist. Let us give your supporting hands to all those who are in need. Ananthi, you are one powerhouse. Don't worry.
Yes Ananthi - whatever you have said was right, same like your situation I was there in my childhood who lost my dad it's been 15 years - it was a very hectic life routine for the many years and the moment he left it was like our universe has stopped evolved - we used to long for the normal life to enjoy little things...
But what I have believed is its gonna change and the life will be happier ever then...
Loved your way of conveying the things which you have gone through the books.I believe you are changing many lives which your dad will be proud of...
It become my daily routine to watch your videos...very inspiring and motivating..Thanks for that ❤️❤️❤️...keep going and I am sure that our dad will be always watching us like guardian angel ❤️❤️...
Ananthi I can relate you completely as my dad also went thru the same thing and was suffering from cancer and was hospitalised for months together with my mom only as the attender. As we had hopes for him to come back home it was a day when everything was reversed and he was into his last days, each morning would be a discussion between us claiming today he would return to normal ward and doctors are gonna share some good news of his health showing recovery symptoms but that day never came up.. I still have tears when I think him and all I believe is that god is taking good care of him somewhere.. thanks for this book show as this is very special and so much relative 😓
Love you for this book review ❤️ and showing that I am / we are not alone !!
அம்மா
Honest talks on the topic
That itself is enough for me
My friend asked me to read 4 books, which I am yet to read, this is one of that list.
1. Clayton Christensen - How will you measure your life
2. The Last Lecture - Randy Pausch
3. Being Mortal
4. When the breath becomes air
I could see a different person in you …
All the best for your life
I was cried when u told about your dad.But this was actually happened to my mom when she had cancer of Multiple Myeloma(in backbone) during covid situations..She is no more today..but I still running with her memories..
I literally cry at the end🙂... I never face the pain of losing a Fav person... But now,I feel how it will be..
Love You ❤️ Ananthi.
I wasn't there with my mom when passed away,
Coz of Lockdown i got struck in another country.
Still i regret for not being there with her at her last time.
Whatever happens,
Life has to move on💞
this is my first video of yours m watching it ... you remind me of my dad who passed 2015 away due to cancer !! it was really tough for my dad to go thru !!
U r so much stronger sister. 😢Thank u.
Enakkum Idhu konjam viththiyasama irundhalum.i passed that situation epdyna Enga amma veettu kastaththukkaga velinattula poay ulaikka aarambichanga iam now 27 years old.
Indha 27 varushaththula oru 3 yeaRsdha ammakooda naanga mean thambi thangachi irundhirukkom
Amma eppayum engalukkaga Mattumdha avangala noagadichchi ulaichchanga.
Amma solluvaanga Ammavoda Appa saagumpoadhu avarukku oru 35 or 36 irukkumnu avar maavatta thalaivara irundhurukkaru.
Avar irukkum poadhu Vandha yaarume avaru poanaparama thirumbi kooda paakkalanu solluvaanga
Uduththa kooda onnum illama oru podavaiya renda kilichchi adhadha use pannadha amma sollirukkanga. Ammavoda thani life story romba perusu.
Appo amma Nalla padippangalam but Vasadhi illa Ammava padikka vaikkiradha solli kootti poaga oru vtla vealaikku vitrukkanga appo Ammavoda vayasu 10.
Oru 2 years Ammaku enga irukkonu kooda Theriyadham.enakku therinji ippo vara now amma is 53 iththana varusham Amma ulaikkiranga.
Adhe nearam naanga 4 Pasanga vtla appa is no words solla he is irresponsible person.
Amma engalukkaga Mattumdha kastapattanga.
Enga Ammavoda passport oru 2 3 weeksdha vtla irukkum irukkum 10 years 5 times nu solli velinadu poaytanga adhula naanga Padichchom patnI illama Saaptom.
But veara edhum illa amma Edhukkaga poangalo Avalo thooram but edhume engalukku mulumaiya kedaikkala.
Last time work panna 2 years Ammaku sugar and high blood pressure. Ammaku ekkachakka noay. Sugarnala kannu2 um blind aagidichi.we lost our hope Eana avanga kadal kadandhu irukkanga.
Amma adikkadi peasuvanga.appola soldra common word dhanuma Naa vara poaradhu illa Needha Ella paaththukkanum. 😢 Andha vaarththaigal romba valikkum. Ammatayum vara maattAnganudha Nambunanga.
Ammavoda visa 2 years mudiya Oru 1 month munnala enakkoru kanavu amma engala vittu poaytanga avanga body maattuku varudhu.naa pakkaththula irundhu ammava paaththutrukke. She is so beautiful with her heart. Bayandhutte.ennala andha situation a nearla paakkuravanga dhairiyam illa. Thideernu Oru one week kAlichchi Ammata irundhu night iru 12 o clock call Maa enakku flight poattutanga naa naalaikku vandhuruvenu. Annaikkum appa semma kudi eluppi vishayaththa solli poaga solli ammava vttuku kootti vandhanga but adhu ea amma illa. Eana 80 90 vayasanavangamaadhiri Verum elumbum thoalumadha irundhanga poagumpoadhukooda naa alala eana 4 vayasula irundhu amma poavanga varuvaanga but indha mura paaththum aludhutte.control pannika mudiyala.
It's so painful moment.aparama ammakoodave irundhu ammava paaththukite.now she is alright but ippayum ulaikkiranga avanga Freeya irundha avangalukku noay.
Ammava Kadaisi vara koodadhula irundhu happy a vachikanunudha ennoda romba periya aasa avanga innum romba varusham vaalanumnu aasa. Idha ungakooda ea share panna thoanichinu theriyala. But u remain me that situation.ungakooda Enga amma paththu innum share pannikanunudha thoanudhu.
Very emotional video ananthi! No one can explain this book better than this. Really a huge fan of you🖤
Ananthi..M very sorry for ur dad's loss..after all i am proud of u that beyond the loss and all these emotions u r very brave enough to smile the next day...nerya peruku idhu saathiyam ila..,it would b nice if every human being can understand it..insha Allah idhuvum kadandhu pogum...
24:12 antha manasuthama kadavul... Definitely your dad will bless you..
Sister, there is only one person in our life who will be permanent throughout our life... Who is nothing but ourself... So.... Love yourself sister.... Don't think about the past, but just think about the lesson that we have learnt from it
i came through this pain in my life dear .. My Amm was cancer patient and travelled with her one year when i see the kids in those hospital my eyes are rolling with tears ..
I lost my dad before 7 days. Being Dadda girl to dad less girl . This video helps me wentout and cry to some extent. Thanks @anandhi. My kids are too small now(4 year and 1 year).will definitely show you and talk about you once they grow. Ananthi chithi mathiri strong ah irukanumnu❤
Your are a beautiful daughter Ananthi & a vibrant person !! Your dad's soul will always be with you as your guardian Angel... be strong!!
Don't worry ka . Your dad will be happy somewhere by seeing your growth and love
Same anger in me also with the doctor who handled my father at the last days of my father … he is one of the specialist in tamilnadu in a famous hospital … finallyy i convinced myself that my father is one of the patient among 1000 … anyways he should follow some human ethics …
Mostly I won't move
After I see ur video I cried 😢 I think somewhere i can connect ur pain
Thank you sister
Neenga enaku periya support and inspired ma
Deepest condolences Ananthi. I understand COVID was a stressful time for medical professionals, but they should still not have behaved that way to your mother and you. It's literally making me furious. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Being an oncological researcher, I understand cancer and cancer therapy can be very hard on the individual and their family. I don't think any of my words could console your pain. When breath becomes air, is a challenging book, especially for someone who's going through grief. I'd like to recommend you Crying in H Mart by Michelle Zauner (Please check TW, and only pick it up if you're in the right headspace.)
I can feel the pain. These kinds of pain never goes. 💔 But your father is your guardian angel watching, guiding and saving you as my father doing to me ❤️
Romba kashtama irukka anandhi sis while u cry.. felt u ❤
Thanks for introducing new books.... Always love the way of presentation... I'm trying to do the same with my friends ...
Your emotions r really hard to express but still u could manage very well. 🤗
For all who watch this show... Stay strong... Everything will be all right...
I could relate with you, Ananthi. I would like to appreciate you for choosing this topic and explaining things which most of the people who have undergone the similar situation couldn't do it. May God bless you and your family members. May your Dad's soul rest in peace. Keep going......
I too experienced the same thing at the age of 18, your talks are reasonable .... don't worry..akka...nice video.🙂 ....my first video..from u r channel.
Ivlo naal enga irundeenga.. nan book padicha udane thoongiduven..ur video help me lot
என் தாயின் பிரிவை - இந்த வலியை நானும் உணர்ந்து இருக்கிறேன்.
(உங்கள் அப்பா எப்போதும் உங்களுடன் தான் இருப்பார் உடல் தான் இல்லையே தவிர அவர் ஆன்மா உங்களுடன் தான் இருந்து ஆசிர்வதிப்பார் சகோதரி)
நான் என் தாயை ஒவ்வொரு நொடியிலும் உணர்கிறேன்
This book also helpful for many doctors too
I totally understand, when my mother was in a critical situation I record what the doctors say so I can go through the same for better understanding. Take care dear.
What a video!!! At what time...... Lost my father to cancer.... Same journey
Thank u for being my mentor .♥️🙏
I can completely relate to u coz Eva my dad had lung cancer and we lost him last year.....ungaluku nadantha Ellamae engaluku nadanchu....evlo years kalichum itha yoscha azhuga varum
Akka intha video courage venum ka. Romba nandri akka. Nanum face panna situation
I know u Akka💗 u r a super girl... I admired u Akka.. Love u ever
no words more here..just the silence of ur dad's smiln face as feed in me..to empathize a daughters love fr humanity..with spirit in independence..
Healing is a everyday process 🙂❤️
We are always with u include ur dad ... 💜💜💜
Love You Ananthi Akka ❤️
More power to you🥺. I can feel ur situation. I have gone through the same situation with my grandpa when i was 15 .Its been 6 years but still i remember each and every moment. My grandpa was diagnosed for brain tumor and lungs cancer. My whole family struggled alot. We lost hope.
Every morning is a breath taking for us for tat last 6 months🥺. Finally april 30 came in my life. It was a frst loved one's loss for me. I have never experienced these kind of stuffs before. Tat day i was literally broken. Everybody lose hope in my family but I was literally having a hope in the corner tat he will come over from it but Im able to understand tat everyone has tat end day in their life. I wish god could give us the power to bare the pain😭. I love him so much, I really miss him alot😔😔
It is an inspiration video more then book review. You are a great daughter Anandhi
Lots of love to you your such brave& wounderfull human.I can also relate my son & father's death.
Actually I'm ur follower, some how I scrolled my you tube, i watched this video 1 thing want to convey u r good human being some how this video can b relatable for every 1's life ..
good keep going
Akka, feel panathinga..enga appakum cancer irunthathu..touchwood he is alright now..kavalapadathinga..unga appa vera engayum ila, ungakooda than irukaaru❤️❤️
thing i want to share is one line you spoke out that your appa was 60, but 6 or 6o the loss cannot be measured by the age, but the value time and relationship we had with the person... its true not every ones death disturb us as some...
Don't worry the best one to console is we just cannot touch our loved once physically but we can definitely feel them emotionally..😢 after death..