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“Relying on somebody else for something that we exclusively rely on each other for.” is THEE cleanest overall definition of cheating I’ve ever heard.
Same thought
ABSOLUTELY TERRIBLE EXPLANATION. TERRIBLE TERRIBLE TERRIBLE.
@@zacka161why do you say that?
@@zacka161 Oh, my dear human.….I imagine you feel this way because you skipped past a word I typed (“overall”). My comment was made with clear understanding that there’s nuance within each situation.
@@andreaus. It doesn't matter the situation. Cheating is cheating and never justified.
'it feels good, im a simple man' is ASTONISHING
Right?! I was shocked that he could easily say something like that. On camera too.
@@ashleigh6192 Let a woman say that openly and she'd be called out instantly
Well they asked him, why. It doesn't mean he's proud of it, just honest.
@@ZefParisoto how was he not proud when he smiled like that lmao. he was shameless about it not honest. he really thought that was a valid justification.
i was looking for this comment. was shocked by the openness, but i respect that he responded to the question truthfully
Cheating is never ok....people will move mountains and defy both logic and reason to try and justify it though 😂
I wish we could understand it😂
depends on the circumstance
@@urbanzs what circumstances makes it better to cheat than leave the person you are with and then do your business?
@@urbanzs oh for sure, saying something is harder than doing it
@@ant__ant_ant If you’re in a relationship where trying to leave or break up the relationship might put you in physical danger, or at risk of losing your life.
That’s the only legitimate reason I can think of where cheating is morally justified.
Not to put it out there for people to use as a made up excuse when they want to cheat. If you want to mess around with others beyond the boundaries of your relationship, break it off first, or course. Anything else is cowardly and unjustifiable, even if it’s for revenge or whatever else excuse people use. But actual abusive relationships where your exit routes are fundamentally cut off for you, that is the one exception.
Alcohol is NOT an excuse lol.
Right?? The girl who said that she doesn't consider it cheating when it's done intentionally drove me crazy lol. People are assholes and will not admit they're in the wrong when they actually are. What a bitch.
What if they were drunk and did it by accident?
@@kittycutetastic you don’t kiss someone by accident.
@@kittycutetastic what if they were driving drunk and killed someone by accident?
It seemed for this specific persons experience she was interfering that it was non-consensual… non-consensual = r@pe
A similar thing happened to a family member in high school with their “best friend”. Family member and high school sweet heart broke up, but quickly got back together and have been together for 30 years.
"Cheating is relying on somebody else for something we exclusively rely on each other for"... That's all the definition we need. Well said 💯
cheating just because you want the relationship to end is the dumbest thing ever
It's such a shitty excuse fr. Like what would hurt more telling someone you want to break up with them or them learning you cheated on them. The obvious answer to cause the least hurt is just breaking up with them.
It sends a message apparently
It's not logical. But not all humans can be logical at all times. I have done things out of pure emotion, it was not pretty. Still not okay to cheat, period.
If someone cheats on me and I find out, I consider it now an open relationship. I would get even and then dump them afterwards.
True. I would just ruin their reputation. Instead of a clean breakup.
Inherently, ‘cheating’ implies you’re doing something dishonest. So whatever you consider is cheating, is cheating. 🤷♀️
haha what.
So lying I ate an extra donut is cheating? I guess I am cheating my body.
stop trying to sound smart
@@XHydroYGenZ technically yes. That's why in gym culture, there's a concept of "cheat days" when you deviate from your prescribed diet and eat whatever the fuck you want on these days.
@@priyamtolani1480 So are you justifying cheat days on partners? I am so confused.
Never okay to cheat!! Wouldn’t stay with them either.
Unless they cheated first imo.
@@XHydroYGenZ That's an immature opinion tbh
@@XHydroYGenZ don't put yourself down because of others .
Don’t be naive.
@@LungaMasilela I will be - not staying with someone who cheats tf
The way so many people said they would forgive their partner for cheating is insane to me.
You don't get to have an opinion on other people's relationships. There are valid reasons to do so and the people who chose to stay should not be judge by people who know nothing about the situation.
Most people cheat. Of course it's easy to say "I'd never ever forgive that, so horrible!" but in the end, when you're already in that situation and you're in each other's lives, it's different.
@@May04bwunope 😅 Other like you, some of us are full of self confidence, love and pride. And we know for a fact that were 2 Good 2 settle For a lying, deceitful chicken coward.... If you deserve the bare minimum, then just say that, but I've been in that situation. Engaged a month before marriage and I walked away and I have 0 regrets.!!!!! Stay up
honestly, I think it's probably because they've cheated themselves and would want to be forgiven. Or just an extremely low sense of self worth. Accepting cheating in a relationship is NOT normal. Let's not normalize it.
@@hypnoteapotthe person doesn’t respect you or care about you. And you lack self respect.
My ex husband was actively trying to have sex with a girl much younger than him who was a friend of his little sister. She was a young mother and he told her what an amazing mom she is and how sexy she is meanwhile I was at home with our 2 month old. He claims he didn’t cheat because they didn’t physically have sex. Absolutely crazy to me for him to think that lol. Getting cheated on is absolutely shattering. I’m glad the general consensus is that cheating doesn’t always mean sex!
Nah, it’s never okay to cheat. I might be the bad guy here but I’ve dumped people over the mental realization that I’m attracted or fantasizing about someone else. That was enough for me to be like I need to be single. Sure they might feel blindsided at me just up and leaving but it’s better that way then betraying their trust and lying to them by cheating.
Nah, personally I’ve experienced both and I gotta say both hurt just as bad. Being ghosted with no explanation is even worse though because you’re left there with so many questions
I think it’s ok to experience attraction whilst in a relationship- like we’re only human ?? People experience attraction but the most important thing is that if you’re in a committed relationship, you don’t act on it( in regards to monogamy- ppl have different rules) overall it’s just about respecting your partner and communicating
@@lilbeanladdy5511 no
Being in a relationship doesn't make you BLIND. You can find other people attractive and be faithful. 😂
@@ESWilliams09 no
08:41 lmao that's actually sad. But impressive self awareness though
Cheating is never ok. That sick feeling and pain in the chest when you find out, suddenly your world just falls apart. You’ll never forget that feeling 💔
NOOOOO! Cheating is NEVER ok! Doesn't matter if it's relationships, taxes or board games. No one actually desires a cheater.
"no one actually desires a cheater". Really? As far as I can see cheaters desire cheaters. It takes two to Tango.
The only time I excuse cheating is education and I'm talking about tests and stuff! ESPECIALLY if the teacher does a terrible job at teaching or actually doesn't teach at all! I would've agreed with you on all levels but high school made me run into some really "iffy" teachers
I will definitely cheat taxes, fuck taxes
Wasn't cheating because she was intoxicated? She needs to take responsibility for her actions, intoxicated or not.
I felt like she was talking about being sexually assaulted or raped .
It sounded like in this case she could have been taken advantage of. If someone is too intoxicated to consent, no one needs to be trying to hook up with them. That’s creepy!!
Ooo what about the guy who said “I like cheating, I am a simple man”
@@suhashareef6275 That's wrong imo. He's not recognising the impact he has and role he plays in disrespecting other people. That's selfishness and immaturity imo.
alcohol affects the hippocampus (memory center), which is why we black out; the motor cortex, which is why we stumble; and the prefrontal cortex. the part of the brain most responsible for reasoning and judgment, It does not simply tear down our inhibitions and let loose dormant desires. It is an active chemical process, counter-intuitively fitting the definitions of “stimulant” and “depressant.” It changes nearly every part of our brain. Since our brain is who we are, alcohol does not simply let out our true, unchanged selves. It changes who we are.
Alcohol makes us happy, woozy, enthusiastic, gregarious, and loud. In some cases, an affable friend may become a mean drunk. It is a complicated drug with all sorts of good and bad effects. But it does not make us genuine. It just makes us dumb.
6:18 ewwww both of these men 💀💀💀
any sort of cheating is a huge no, but personally I think emotional cheating is the worst.
1:30. I hate this girl
She's not only cheats, but then states "oh I wasn't even consenting" so how am I in the wrong? Alcohol is not an excuse, and beyond that you can't literally say you live in some fairy land world when drunk.. where reality doesn't still apply
your take is very unscientific alcohol affects the hippocampus (memory center), which is why we black out; the motor cortex, which is why we stumble; and the prefrontal cortex. the part of the brain most responsible for reasoning and judgment, It does not simply tear down our inhibitions and let loose dormant desires. It is an active chemical process, counter-intuitively fitting the definitions of “stimulant” and “depressant.” It changes nearly every part of our brain. Since our brain is who we are, alcohol does not simply let out our true, unchanged selves. It changes who we are.
Alcohol makes us happy, woozy, enthusiastic, gregarious, and loud. In some cases, an affable friend may become a mean drunk. It is a complicated drug with all sorts of good and bad effects. But it does not make us genuine. It just makes us dumb.
@@houseofactionthis was a great comment thanks 😊
@@houseofaction Mimimi
@@houseofaction i ain't reading all that ☠️️
For those that rather cheat than just tell your partner you don’t want to be with them. Just tell them you don’t want to be in the relationship anymore rather than cheat because getting cheated on is scaring and hurts way worst.
But if you successfully cheat and they never know, it can be quite a fun and exhilarating experience while also having a loyal partner. Not everyone has morals.
@@XHydroYGenZ i just physically recoiled at your comment. how disgusting
@@XHydroYGenZ yeah sadly we live in a world full of cheaters, grapest and edp’s just a bunch of weirdo out there 🤷🏾♂️
@@jadesampson9493 it's not disgusting lol I agree with them, depending on the conditions
@@divine555So? You're a nobody, why would anyone here care if you agree or not
I cheated and learned from it. And I’m a 25 year old male. Would never cheat again and would take it back if I could. One of the biggest lessons you learn as a young man.
Dumbass
A male taking accountability and not blaming women I seen it all well done 👏
@@missandry2669 hahaha thank you 🙏🏽
Most stand up men take accountability for all their actions. It's unfortunate if you've not met any men like that.
Facts.
This guy cheated on me and wanted me back. I had him sit on my couch and tell me every detail about it while he cried his pathetic eyes out. He thought he would win me over but I kicked his blubbering arse out the door. It was so unbelievably satisfying.
Reading this was unbelievably satisfying as well lol. You absolutely deserve better
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Wow, who's more evil between you two?
Well, you are a rattlesnake after all, and rattlesnakes don't mess around!
"I'm just a simple man." Yeah, ok, if you want to sleep with a lot of people, that's completely fine, but then don't get into a relationship. Cause if simple men cheat, I don't want a simple man.
*into a monogamous and not open relationship
Simple good men don’t cheat that was just a bad guy
For those who see it as a very easy question not worth asking, consider this. A problem highlighted by many of these answers is that different people have different definitions of cheating, and different expectations for their partners. Often people enter into relationships assuming they are on the same page about what is acceptable. Sometimes you can clear up all the confusion by talking things out early on, and sometimes you realize down the line after making mistakes that the best option for you is to re-establish the terms of your relationship and the promises you are making to each other.
Nothing wrong with setting a zero tolerance boundary against cheating, far from it. But that's not for everyone, and it doesn't even mean the same thing to everyone.
Learn the difference between a monogamous and a polygamous relationship.
You set boundaries when you first start the relationship to know if you’re on the same page; should be common sense but it sadly isn’t to many.
This comment doesn’t make sense since you’re not referring to different relationship types, since you’re making up your own random opinion as if relationships don’t have structures and rules in the first place.
@@aus-li Relationship "types" are just generalizations. Labels like monogamous and polyamorous are useful shorthands, but partners can still have different understandings of what they mean and what's against the rules. Every relationship is a little bit unique and it's useful to discuss boundaries more specifically.
@@HenryZhaosTextbook I mean, those are the most common types, unless it gets into asexual or the hookup culture.
And that’s what I mean, that the best strategy is to talk about what you’re looking for in a relationship, or if you’re looking for a friend that’ll eventually turn into a relationship.
@@HenryZhaosTextbookI dont get how someone in a monogamous relationship can be okay with cheating, this video isn't about what is considered cheating, it's starting from the point that the cheating was taken place and if there is a justification.
So I don't get te point?
Cheating can be different from couple to couple, but this video isn't about that.
It's never ok to cheat Idc how badly your partner treats you if you don't wanna be with them break up with them/Divorce them. Never cheat on someone
Highly disagree with that because that partner could be highly abusive and toxic and could abuse you in so many different ways that leaves you traumatized for the rest of your life. There's also abusive relaionships where you cannot leave in fear of that person tracking you down and killing you
@@zaksharman ^agree 100% doesn’t make it necessary ok but makes it justifiable. Leaving an abusive relationship it a lot easier said than done
@@zaksharman True, but if your so scared that this person is gonna hurt you or something, why cheat? If they find out they will get even more angry, mad, and sad. Cheating hurts someone a lot. So if your scared they are gonns hurt you and you cheat? If they find out they are gonna hurt you even more. It's better to get out of there and then find someone else instead of finding someone else while with someone even if they are toxic/abusive
@@Tomboysksksk To me they would hurt you just as badly regardless of wether cheating occured or not. I know mutiple girls that were abused by a former partner that badly to the point where all of them cheated on him because that was the only way they could finally escape the hell they had been put through for years
I feel you on all that but also how the other comments are saying unless there abusive then that’s a whole other level!
There are few things more painful than finding out the person you trust the most in the world, the person you think has your back, the person you love more than anyone else cheats on you. It is never okay.
How is it easier to cheat rather than breaking up…they’re gonna be upset either way
it’s never ok to cheat lol
There are tons of psychological studies that show how cheating negatively effects both people, unless you’re trapped in an abusive relationship there is zero justification for cheating.
I haven't cheated on a single girl that I've dated. Even if I no longer have any feelings for her, I'm still degrading myself by lying and going back on my word. All the breakups have been civil as well, sat down and discussed why I felt we were just not working together anymore, or vice versa. None of that ghosting/blocking/etc crap that is so popular these days.
Cheating happens in both monogamous and polyamorous relationships so just be very clear and communicative about what you and the other party want prior committing to avoid reaching point cheat and breakup.
advice to everyone--> if someone cheats on you... grab your bags and leave period. and don't look back.
yea yea its hard blah blah. easier said than done blah blah --> leave anyways. I promise you that you'll figure something out and you'll find someone who respects you and loves you more than that person ever has and will.
it doesn't matter if you guys got kids, if they provide everything for you blah blah., forget the excuses grab your bags and go.
0:19 With that reaction he totally told on himself lol he looked like he felt attacked 💀
That "I'm just a simple man" answer infuriates me the most.
Well he is free to have sex with who he want and if you don’t respect that than you don’t have respect
well its clear that the girl in the opening shot was cheated on and then stayed with the cheater 😆 and now she is going through some cognitive dissonance
Wow a keep it 💯 video over 10min long!!🙌 I am here for this!! I like hearing longer explanations of answers
Cheating is cheap and eazy to do thats why so many people doing it these days
Cheating shows weakness and insecurities about the human who is doing it...
Having the options to cheat but saying No in the temptation is so valuable/powerful
Some cheaters have deeper roots other than not being “satisfied” or “unhappy.”
It’s so messed up. They say that cheating is not okay but they have cheated.
They say that cheating is not okay but they would have stayed with a cheater.
It just doesn’t make sens.
That’s why there is so much cheater…
Probably the first time where everyone agrees. Maybe not concerning the nuances, but generally everyone agrees.
That's not really saying much. You'd have to be a sociopath to think cheating is okay.
staying with someone who cheated on you makes it clear to everyone that you have ZERO self-respect. allowing your partner to disrespect you in such a vile way AND continuing to stay with them? incredibly embarrassing and sad.
you're so right
As I once heard, staying with a cheater is giving them permission to do it again
ik I’m a clown🥲🥲
Exactly, you give away all the power by doing that.
It means you're willing to look passed it for love. Get over yourself
Cheating is never okay but I always live by the rule that loyalty doesn't depend on the other person and you should be loyal because that's just who you are. It also shows inner strength and willingness to forgive and makes you a million times more attractive and strong(saying this as someone who's been cheated on). Also, shout out to the people in this video who are so forgiving. Stand-up people💯
1:36 you cheated, thats it dont go around it dont try to justify with stupid reasons, it is what it is, own it and let her heal.
Cheating is wrong. Shows the person’s lack of moral and lack of care towards you. Move on.
Better to be single than be with some one who will disrespect you.
I dumped someone who cheated on me.
His excuse was, “well, it wasn’t like I was trying to replace you.”
That’s one of the reasons people cheat, not to replace but to have fun while knowing you’re their stable person at home.
wow, what an asshole thing to say. Good on you for walking away from that
“That’s one of the reasons people cheat, not to replace but to have fun while knowing you’re their stable person at home.“
SO TRUE!!!! That’s the fact of the matter and it’s why you should never stay with a cheater.
thats the most coldblooded and coldhearted excuse i've heard.
Cheating is not a mistake its a choice. DONE PERIODT
2:28 is 100% another version of Ray William Johnson
Cheating is never ok, as cheating is always defined by people as "the thing" that is unacceptable (whatever that may be) outside of the relationship... but I swear that way too many people in relationships are just terrified of their partner being happy with anything that doesn't come from them. When jealousy becomes more of a factor than love, you're losing the game and need to let that person go.
My parents defined cheating as talking to someone of the opposite persuasion outside of a necessary business or social transaction.
By that standard I have cheated by having long time women friends without any romance or sex involved.
The decision to be not sober in a situation where a hookup is likely is a choice to likely have sex. That's cheating.
9:38 She described it so perfectly
no tf
Unless you’re being abused or fear for your life there’s no such thing as being “stuck” you can always end a relationship If you just grow up and stop being selfish.
It amazes me what some people already call cheating and on the other hand some other people's "limits" for what is "still fine" for them. The difference is HUGE
Cut really had me wondering if this guy 7:10 was the legendary astronaut, plumber, doctor and mechanic.
Girl
@@oranjebeer6637 The guy after her
It concerns me the amount of people who said they would stay if they were cheated on
8:35 A very emotionally intelligent perspective (a 2nd chance, willingness to reconnect and reconcile)
My God, I think I just feel in love with the woman at 06:30.. she's beautiful 😳
I don't understand how anybody could do such a thing like cheating, it's incredibly immature.
Its evil
0:33 exactly
5:00 not an excuse lady. Sure the relationship could end but so could someone’s life. I was very unpredictable in my 20s and very lucky. I threw my GF AP from a 3rd story balcony. He dropped the charges and soon all charges were dropped. Her AP had 2 warrants out for him, he was a child predator.
Ah yes, Adultery, the “get out of marriage” card. How to turn over the keys to the relationship by sending an ultimatum. The only true answer is “I’d have to look at the totality of the circumstances.” My wife never cheated on me, she died instead. If she were to show up alive recovering from a gang bang I’d welcome her and order takeout.
'If she were to show up alive recovering from a gang bang I'd welcome her and order takeout' That's.. Strangely wholesome 😭 Sorry about your wife!
And if she had wheels she'd be a bicycle. And if she never died, but instead cheated on you, instead of keeping her memory dead you'd despise her and want her out of your sight. She'd probably be a different person in that hypothetical though... you know, that's how hypotheticals go.
@@puntodelectura
You are right. My model was the Prodigal Son.
cheating on someone is never ok. that being said, allowing someone else to stay with u after they cheated on u is just as bad and is compromising your own morals.
Damn, forgot if you want a free pass, just get drunk 🤷♂️
Can't be your fault, it was the booze
Best description about what cheating is I've heard from this channel earlier... It's everything you do/allow to be happen between you and someone other that hurts your partner feelings :)
Honestly people who cheat are assholes, whats the point in hurting someone your with by cheating instead of breaking up with them. I can guarantee i would be alot more hurt if i found out someone was cheating on me rather than being broken up with. But thats just my personal preference.
My ex mentally cheated on me, i believe for the whole time in the relationship. He was still in love with his best friend (from what i hear a few months ago against my will they are in a relationship) He followed girls on social media and justified it with disgusting excuses. I could never trust him&i wanted to break up with him a couple of times before he did. I recognise the fact i should've just never given him a chance in the first place, however that doesnt excuse him crossing over my boundaries every chance he got. I am lucky to have such a strong foundation within myself because the mental games he played are insane and he obviously made me the bad guy in this whole thing. I am so so so so happy he is out of my life. I thank the gods every day. I don't feel the need to forgive him or any bs like that. I have absolutely no feelings for him, not even pity. But i will say this: him breaking up with me taught me some very valuable lessons i am glad i learned at 20 years old instead of later in life.
I will never understand why people go into a monogamous relationship if they don’t want to be monogamous....makes no sense.
Most people want to be monogamous. The chances you fall in love with someone that's not as open minded as you are pretty big. Then you either have to leave or accept it. Personally I only ever met one person who is into open relationships. But we are just friends.
just because steak is my go to meal everyday doesn’t mean if I try tacos one day out the week that I no longer want steak.
Cheating is not good,it destroys self esteem
it is okay if it’s revenge
In scenarios like "I just wanted something new, it was nothing", "I was lonely", "It was a mistake, I was drunk” I wouldn’t be able to forgive… In such scenarios a person deliberately chooses to harm someone who is good to them, who trusts them. But there are scenarios where a cheater would be not the first person to do harm. For example where husbands are extremely physically abusive and their wives can’t get out of relationships and they cheat on their husband with another man who they happened to meet who are nice to them for a change and who maybe even can give the strength and support to get out. Also another example where I can understand the cheating is a spiteful cheating. You cheat on me -> I cheat on you. Although people say it doesn’t work and doesn’t make pain any less. But I understand where it’s coming from.
I probably dont get it because ive never heard an example BUT being "stuck" and cheating doesnt make any sense... your going to have the conversation one way or another about leaving each other whether you cheat or not. its just under different circumstances.
1:48 Open the noor
My father cheated and had a child as I was in my mother's womb... Married the other woman, moved to another area, and forgot about the planned child he was supposed to raise. Cheating is not okay in such situations.
No matter how messed or toxic a relationship is, you dont cheat. That’s no excuse: you end up cheating yourself and your word
Short answer:
NO!
My lord, these people are beyond insecure! "Micro-cheating"?! Like wtaf? People are so completely obsessed with controlling people!
if your partner is abusive then leave them, breakup or try and find help so you can leave them. cheating won’t solve anything so no, it is never okay
Or..hear me out..be an adult and break up with that person! Cheating is never ever okay.
I know I could never stay with someone who cheated on me. I can be very forgiving and patient so there are many things I could get over and work through, and it's not even about pain or humiliation for me, all those can be overcome. It's the contempt. I've only been cheated on once (that I know of) and I still have such contempt and disgust for my ex that I just couldn't stay together. I need a partner I can respect as a flawed but ultimately good, decent person, and I just have too much contempt for cheaters that I could never respect them at all. I just couldn't stay no matter how much I wanted to.
Hell nah cheating is wrong (physically and mentally)!Just break up with your significant other if you have the feeling of wanting to cheat. Save them the heartache that you can cause them.
Cheating is escapism at its finest, it's fundamentally childish. It's actually incredible to me when I hear people jump straight to mental gymnastics on the topic.
Sadly, some people need to cheat to realize they need to grow the fuck up.
One of my ex's got real angry with me when she asked if I thought she might cheat on me and I said yup she might. When asked why I would think such a horrible thought I replied that she cheated on last boyfriend with me and then left him for me. No one said they was the person that the cheater cheated with, but that wasn't the question. If you fall heavy for someone then everything is forgivable. Sometimes common sense flys out of the window and you can't help yourself.
4:41 what? i think its easier to just say words in a few seconds vs sneaking around and cheating on your partner. I also don't agree of having to resort to cheating, to have someone "get the message" to leave you. Why compromise your integrity instead of just biting the bullet and speaking on your feelings versus making the situation even worse.
being drunk isn't an excuse when i'm drunk i want no one else but my man and that's all i can think about, being drunk just gives someone confidence or courage to do something they probably would already do sober
The relationship has to be defined and agreed upon by both involved. That's why there's different type of relationships. Just remember, Different strokes, for different folks.
No, it's not.
Next vid.
Betrayal is not okay
Cheating is never okay and Drugs and alcohol are NOT excuses. And if you are a cheater i have zero respect for you.
4:08 nailed it!
I think everyone gets tempted by other people at some point in a long term relationship, but there's a big glaring line that you actively make a choice not to cross, if you have love and respect for your partner.
People who cheat are weak and pathetic. They lack any integrity.
I would never ever give someone a second chance if they cheated on me, unless I was unable to function due to a stroke or something, and in a vegetative state.
If my husband of 20 years cheated on me, I'd leave him tomorrow, and destroy his life. He knows this and accepts it. Lol. In saying that, I'm not a jealous person at all, I just would never put up with such a lack of respect. If I ever got cheated on, I think I'd become slightly psychotic. 💀💘
Fr!!! Who hasn’t had someone they find attractive while they’re drinking? You can STILL say no!! I don’t get it lol it’s such a cowardly thing to do and the people who don’t even feel bad about it are even worse
@@barbellandyogastuff Alcohol is one of the worst drugs in the world and people still drink it. Alcohol can cause a lot of problems. I don't drink alcohol and that's good.
I can imagine...if someone cheated on Cinders, she would cry and scream at her husband, and she might damage some of his property, or throw some of his stuff. My mum sometimes rips stuff and throws stuff lol. Yeah, infidelity/cheating is bad, I agree.
1:45 That shirt is off the hook! So gorgeous
Not me, a elementary teacher, assuming they are talking about homework…
what the F are those phenotypes. like 60% should not even be considered human.
Been cheated on. Stuck with her for 2 more years. I really don’t know where I was mentally as a young 20 something to let this relationship happen.
The ones who cheat to get out of relationships are the worst.
Drake? 5:38
Did anyone else notice the guy who was also in the 30 year old virgins answer the question or take a shit vid?
Cheating is not okay, but people shouldn't judge others in abusive situations. Sometimes it's about survival.
I don't have it in me to forgive someone who cheats - anything beyond a friendly hug. Even if they're truly remorseful and never do it again, I'll never be able to trust them again, I'll resent them, and I'll end up making their life a living hell.
The only way I'm taking a man back should he cheat is if he let's me do it in return for as long and with as many people as he cheated with, otherwise I'm just out the door. Some people really don't have self respect or respect for their relationships at all.
Yikes, that just sounds absurdly toxic for no reason. At that point, why not just leave? It's not self-respect if you stay and just cheat back.
just stay single, its that simple
You wanna know something, most women who do take cheating men back is because they're doing some dirt as well. Men assume it's because they got away with it and they're off the hook. Maybe it's not morally right to some to do it back, but it's fair.
@@日本ジョリーン Toxic for no reason? Huh. There's a reason for that toxicity clearly after being cheated on and it's a hypothetical situation. Cheating back and dipping is having self respect.
Cheating = selfish coward. If you want to have a partner like this - it is up to you. Would not recommend 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It’s okay to cheat if he’s an abuser and you have been tricked and manipulated so you’re able to leave by finding someone else
Report the abuser then, tell your friends or family about your situation instead of acting and being in the same level as your abuser/cheater. Cheating is never justifiable.