Songs in the mid 2000s had so much innovation! Not only were the movies extremely UNDERRATED compared to the gobar aajkal jo milta hai, par music bhi western popular music aur apne regional Indian styles ke perfect blend the! Was too young to appreciate then but damn, maza Aa gaya sun ke!!
There's such a mad energy in this song, you suspect this is a genuine hat-tip to Kishore Kumar's best moments of un-choreographed tomfoolery. More so, because both Shahid and PeeCee are pretty good dancers. And then there's Gulzar's words which inject a perfect amount of crack to this ..
the choreographers hadnt arrived on the day of shooting so the two girls who happened to be present at the shooting taught priyanka basic dance steps and they shot the song...the two girls dancing with priyanka re those girls :)
Honestly in this song there are four singers - Sunidhi Chauhan, Rekha bharaddwaj, Kunal ganjawala, and Suresh Wadkar ji,, I am waiting for suresh sir portion in this song, the way he sing.. As we all know that he is a pure classical singer and than he sing these type of song this is something blessing of our ears♥️🙌🏻
different out of the box song. all the four singers sung it wif so much fun that we can feel it. sunidhi rekh ji suresh wadekar ji and kunal ganjawala all are great in this song😊
Yahi krna chahiye , Phle Ghode hi hote the main transportation k liye Ab Cars bikes h toh wahi use krna chahiye, Ghodi ko pareshan nhi krna chahiye khud k entertainment k liye
There are 5 singers in single song❤️❤️😍😍😍😍 Anyone can catch the transition from Rekha voice to sunidhi... It changes within the same antara... 😀😵😵😵 The female voice is keep fluctuating between Rekha and Sunidhi... 😱😱😱😱
Glad that very few people know about this song! Amazing lyrics, superb music and outstanding singers singing this masterpiece!! Thanks Vishal Bhardwaj, Gulzar Sahab,
[Ta na ta na ra ra ra ra.. Ta na ta na ra ra ra ra..] - 2 times [Raat ke dhai baje koi shehnai baje, Dil ka bazaar laga, dhilak ta pai baje]- 2 times Chauki chauke chauke se, khoye khoye se hum, Aankhein doobi doobi se, soye soye se hum, Dil ne kaisi durgat ki hai, pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, Aji aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai, Arey pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai, Jaan hatheli upar le li, jaanu kaisi harqat ki hai, Aji pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai… [ Ishq mein jalte hue, saans tezaabi lage, Raaz khulta hi nahi, koi to chaabhi lage] - 2 times Ishq mein jalte hue, saans tezaabi lage, Saans tezaabi lage, ishq mein jalte hue, Hoo chikne chikne lachche hai, reshmi se fande, Chupdi chupdi baaton mein bhole bhaale bande, Tanhai mein fursat di hai, Arey pehli baar mohabbat…ki hai, Aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai, Arey pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai…. Raat kuch aisa hua, jaisa hota to nahi, Thaam ke rakkha mujhe, mein bhi khota to nahi, Ek latt suljhane mein saari raat guzaari hai, Chaand ki gathri, sar pe le li aapne kaisi zehmat di hai, Arey pehli baar mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai, Hmm pehli baar mohabbat…ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai, Ta ta na na na na… Ta ta na na na na…
2008, my teenage just started, I watched this song and Priyank’a dance on 9XM. Instantly became her fan coz of this song and Desi girl. Watched all her movies in theatres ever since. Love her and miss old bollywood!
🥀⛅🔱🧜♀️🧜♂️🕉बहुत अच्छा लव गीत(गीत/नृत्य/संगीत) है 🕉🔱Very Good Love Song(Geet/Dance/Music) 🕉महापर्व नववर्ष और श्री कृष्ण जन्माष्टमी और नवरात्री(दुर्गापूजा/गरबा/गणेश पूजा/शिव पूजा) तथा श्रीरामलीला(विजयादशमी/दशहरा)-करवाचोथ और दिवाली और छठ/एकादशी और नववर्ष और (नदी/नहर/तालाब) और सागर(बंगाल/अरब) तथा महासागर(हिंद) सफाई अभियान की हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं 🔱जय श्री शिव(पशुपति नाथ/नंदी) 🏵जय श्री चंद्रदेव और सूर्यदेव [चंद्रशेखर -महादेव के आगे चांद और पिछे सूर्य] 🕉🔱जय श्री पार्वती मईया 🕉🔱जय श्री गंगा मईया 🕉🔱 जय श्री कृष्ण-राधा🏵जय श्री गोपाल🌼जय श्री राम🌼जय श्री सीता (जानकी)🏵जय श्री हनुमान🏵जय श्री लेखक (Jai Shri Writer) & जय श्री पुस्तक (Jai Shri Book) 🌸जय श्री बुद्ध🏵जय श्री जैन⛅जय श्री छठी मईया⛅जय श्री सूर्यदेव⛅🏵जय श्री महालक्ष्मी🏵जय श्री हरि 🏵जय श्री सरस्वती🏵जय श्री यमराज🌺जय श्री गणेश🏵जय श्री सागर(बंगाल/अरब) और महासागर (हिंद)🏵Jai Shri Bengali & (7 Sisters ) 🌺जय श्री भारत (INDIA)🇮🇳जय श्री हिन्दी 🇮🇳जय श्री English 🇮🇳जय श्री मातृभाषा 🇮🇳जय श्री भोजपुरी~राजस्थानी~पाली 🇮🇳जय श्री ब्राहमी लिपि (हिन्दी देवनागरी लिपि) 🇮🇳जय श्री वन्दे मातरम 🇮🇳जय श्री दुर्गा माँ(माई/मईया) 🇮🇳जय श्री शीतला माँ ⛅जय श्री नेपाली ⛅ 🇮🇳जय श्री अवधी 🇮🇳जय श्री मैथिली 🇮🇳जय श्री मराठी🇮🇳जय श्री भोजपुरी-हरियाणवी 🇮🇳जय श्री लेडिज एण्ड जेंटलमेन 🇮🇳Jai Shri Ladies & Gentleman🌸🇮🇳🕉⛅🥀🧜♀️🧜💓🧜♀️🧜♂️🕉🌈🥀🕉⛅🥀
Priyanka is so infectious in this song! Her happiness seemed so genuine - she's a very good actor
Exactly 🙌❤
They were a jodi back then...
Because they were in love....
Are bhai actress hai wooo 🤣🤣🤣
@@mdsagar2419 0p000ppp0p0p0pppppppppppp0p0ppppppppppppppppppp0ppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp😂😅
Priyanka was made for Maharashtrian roles. She's such a versatile actress and smashed it as Kashibai in Bajirao Mastani!!
Best actress in bollywood right now !! >>>>> Deepika
aman gajraj ghanta
Aaram se behen. Aapke ghanta bolne se kuch nhi badalna.
Deepika is so fake omg
Nive sarcasm, lady. Hats off !!
What a beauty.. combination of 4-5 singers in one song and it's so soothing and synchronised.. wow!
But whatever happens, it's cool.
Mybabuukm🥃💋💋😉
I love how Shahid started to smile when he meets priyanka 😍
Same here. ✨
That is all
Babujkk
Priyanka's reaction is EXPECTATION and Shahid's reaction is REALITY of marriage.
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Songs in the mid 2000s had so much innovation!
Not only were the movies extremely UNDERRATED compared to the gobar aajkal jo milta hai, par music bhi western popular music aur apne regional Indian styles ke perfect blend the!
Was too young to appreciate then but damn, maza Aa gaya sun ke!!
Obviously bro 2000's Bollywood music is much much better than today's music.
Yes to this comment
Mid to late 2000s Bollywood music was the underrated era of all time
Kya BAAT kya BAAT ek dum Sahi kahe ho
❤️ wah kya baat kahi hai
That famous step @2:40...old school memories of trying it many times to make fun and all...excellent song and superb penning by Gulzaar Sahab!!!
Wow.. that line... ek hi lat suljhane mein saari raat guzaari h.... nailed it!!!!
That's Gulzar for you. He writes soooo good. ♥
@@priyashukla1834 gulzar saab amazing
@@user-hw1vh3hv8z Yes, he is !
Power of Gulzar sahab 😍
Ikrrrr😍😍
The way Suresh ji sings tanhai ne fursat di hai!!!! straight from heaven 😌
2:12 lines and background at the same time is heaven👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤️❤️❤️
There's such a mad energy in this song, you suspect this is a genuine hat-tip to Kishore Kumar's best moments of un-choreographed tomfoolery. More so, because both Shahid and PeeCee are pretty good dancers. And then there's Gulzar's words which inject a perfect amount of crack to this ..
the choreographers hadnt arrived on the day of shooting so the two girls who happened to be present at the shooting taught priyanka basic dance steps and they shot the song...the two girls dancing with priyanka re those girls :)
Tyrion Stark 6
That just shows how amazing pri is. So talented
When real choreographers saw the choreography, they said "naukri gayi apni to"
Wow
How do you know?
Did anyone notice there's a romatic version of this song with same lyrics 'pehli baar mohabbat ki hai, ankhari baar mohabbat ki hai' ?
That's a phenomenal song , just love it. Well it's a different song and not version of this , thou words are similar
Yes, absolutely. It's a great way to use songs for storytelling
Notice ?? We haved enjoyed at that time
Movei name please?
@@systematicpath4407 the movie is Kaminey
If weddings were really like this, I would never skip them
Habibi come to maharashtra
02:40 That dance 😂😂😂
Just fabulous acting by priyanka versatile actress!!!!
It was the time jab mobile ki jagah 9xm aur zoom pe tv main gaana suna kar te the
Main bhi...
Aur MTV music ...bhi tha...ek channel...
Me2
Yes😂😂😂
Same here
Suresh wadkar sir enters in the song like fresh breeze after rain.😍😍
So true
Beautifully put
True❤
Why the hell on earth this whole Kaminey music album is highly underrated??
Every song in this movie is masterpiece ❤️🥀
The change in the music of the song at @2:58 is just out of this world , so soothing , melodious ❤️🔥
Honestly in this song there are four singers - Sunidhi Chauhan, Rekha bharaddwaj, Kunal ganjawala, and Suresh Wadkar ji,, I am waiting for suresh sir portion in this song, the way he sing.. As we all know that he is a pure classical singer and than he sing these type of song this is something blessing of our ears♥️🙌🏻
Rekha and sunidhi voice keep switching back and forth within same antra ....that's smthng i noticed now.....deadly composition 😍
If I'm not this happy , I'm not getting married. Final. 😁
exactly, what's the point otherwise anyway😕
Kyun kissi k zindagi jhand kr rhi ho? Single rho aur khush rho
Exactly
Behen ye filmi duniyaa h... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Parents doesn’t listen even if you don’t you still have to married someone that parents choose for us
different out of the box song. all the four singers sung it wif so much fun that we can feel it. sunidhi rekh ji suresh wadekar ji and kunal ganjawala all are great in this song😊
Life was so good back then 😭😭😭😭
Ji 👙👙
Yes it was i miss cartoons lol
Abhi kya Hua
Absolutely mam miss those days
bro, its your life, make it even better now :)
If she doesn't dance like this the night before her wedding, then I'm sorry, you're the wrong man
Or maybe she can't dance, or she is shy and uncomfortable to dance like that.
@@kjmmd5758 exactly! 😂😂 only private dances..
I dances but he ks not that perfect
Uske liye aap bhi Shahid jaise ban jao ki wo Priyanka ki tarah dance kare 🤣🤣
Dance physically ho aisa jaruri nahi...dance man me bhi ho sakta hai
My fav song ...maza ajata hai sunke
Im one of ur subscriber bro.. Love ur reviews and vids on movies😳😳!!!
Re suraj vai 👋
Oo really 😂😂
this song is perfect
nice choice👌
Watching at **Raat k dhai baje***
Neelkanth Thakar 😂😂😂
5 september raat k dhai baje i m here.
Oct 26 raat ke dhai baje I'm here
In lockdown dhai baje
😂
Barat on scooty😂😂😂that was hilarious
prachi dubey hahahaha 😂😂
prachi dubey shi idea de diya main bhi scoter le kr jauga ji.
Very nice song
zxcgugy
Yahi krna chahiye , Phle Ghode hi hote the main transportation k liye
Ab Cars bikes h toh wahi use krna chahiye, Ghodi ko pareshan nhi krna chahiye khud k entertainment k liye
Suresh Wadkar Saab, please sing more in Bollywood.
lajawab awaaz payi is shakas na ma b inhi k baray ma soch rha tha
He is really underrated
Amazing voice 💞
Nahi tik tokers ko to Tony kakkar ke gaane sunne hai
Good wadekar
Dream weddings.. I love how He starts of indecisive and ends up excited and happy...
2:38
Priyanka killin' those moves
Who are those two girls dancing with Priyanka? One of them does commercials.
@@yitzakshamiir3413 how do I know man?!! I'm not a casting director
On a childhood memory Marathon 😂❤❤❤
Damn.. Me too 😂
Yes🤣🤣
Sooo truee........
Me too i was watching old cartoons and then this
Same !
2:01 Suresh Wadkar legend ❤️❤️
Pasand ka ldka mile to hrr ldki aise hi dance karegi😆
So true 😁
Yes u r right
yes true
like shahid jaisa na
@@aishasharma1571 ..hi
I'm here again after years due to Corona Virus lockdown !!!!
(I miss those 90s , 2000s , < 2014 songs)
Well said bro missing those days
You are right man. The days of 90s, 2000 to 2014 were really awesome
Ishq m chalte hue saas tezabi lge
Raz khulta hi nhi koi to chabi lge
Gulzar sahb💖💖
In real life she celebrated her marriage like this only 😂😂❤️
I am so having this song at my wedding!!
Same!!! 😄😊❤
its 3 yrs, did u get married?
Dheeraj Mishra tu apna pappu fit karna ?
+Dheeraj Mishra bhaai aapko chance maarna hai kya.
Ab tak to ho hi gyi hogi...!!!
The subtle laugh of shahid is the mood i need😊
There are 5 singers in single song❤️❤️😍😍😍😍
Anyone can catch the transition from Rekha voice to sunidhi... It changes within the same antara... 😀😵😵😵
The female voice is keep fluctuating between Rekha and Sunidhi... 😱😱😱😱
Absolutely love this masterpiece :-)
Reminds me of my childhood days :)
Back then, I used to continuously listen to this song in Radio mantra !!! What a beautiful memory !!!
Suresh Ji, Sunidhi, Rekha Bhardwaj & Kunal Ganjawala. What a combination.🔥🔥🔥🔥
shahid's expressions kill me!
Why nobody appreciating Lyrics !! Gulzar ji is LEGENDS !! Raaaz khultaaa hi nahi koi toh chaaabi laaagi
Everytime shahid and vishal bharadwaj collaborate they don't really disappoint us , kaminey will always be my favorite movie of shahid
Nostalgic Saturday Nights of 2010 & 2011.. Reminds me how we used to go to Temple, Drive, Boozing & Dancing & driving back home respectively..
Ek hi lat suljhane mein saari raat Gujari hai ........amazing line ❤❤❤
Awww priyanka looks so cute :)
All songs of thus movie was marvelous ❤ Shahid and Priyanka both are phenomenal Actors 😊
2:06 damn Suresh Wadkar ji
Wadker ji told is gold purane hire he enki barabari nhi ho sakti
Sunidhis voice is killer
Yesss
Ye era poore bollywood ka sabse pyara era thaa.... Literally there was alot of masterpieces❣️😍
Whenever I listened these old songs,I can smell something,feel something that I missed for couples of year.i miss my old staffs a lot.😥
Itni jahalat Priyanka ki Yaar🤣🤣😅😅😅 full of joy just love her from Laal. Duppata❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Glad that very few people know about this song!
Amazing lyrics, superb music and outstanding singers singing this masterpiece!! Thanks Vishal Bhardwaj, Gulzar Sahab,
Why do i keep coming back to these 9xm era songs 🥰. Was too young to appreciate these beautiful songs. ❤️
3:31 is the most Melodious thing ever❤
Every bride should be like priyanka in her own wedding
2:15 lyrics music voice and dance steps of that left girl of Priyanka ❤❤❤
So I was trying to study and suddenly this song popped in my head and I had to hear it 😂😑
Damn that, 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭
Jst same!!
Damn same same same 😂
Same 🤣🤣
Same yrrrr😂😂😂
Exactly same 🤣🤣
One of my fav song.... especially lines sung by Suresh Wadkar sir r superb!
I literally love every thing on this song PC really rocks with her effortless acting skill
Sahid Kapoor invented that iconic "joker" smile
I'm here to hear this song at 2:30AM🤣😂
This song still rocking🔥...
2:20 chikne chikne lacche, reshmi se fande
is he talking about noodles 😂😂😂🤣
😂😂😂I guess about her hairs😂😂
When I was in class 7 .... Just awesome time with 9XM... In Bangladesh
Mee too
@0:21 so Joaquin's Joker smile was inspired by this?!
Omg yes
*That was the time when I only knew one type of gali .... That was "kaminey"* 😂😂😂😂
Ab to PHD kar li kya😂
@@RahulKumar-ng2gh haaa , btau kya de k 😎😂😂😂
@@shubhiawasthii hahaha, ladki badi ho gayi😂
International hit song
Raat ke dhai baje 2.30 ,
Yahan 3 baj gaye .....
Mind blowing song and music
Priyanka danced her heart out to this song ❤️❤️
0:22 JOKER movie copy this scene 😂
😂😂😂
Observation level💯
🤣🤣🤣
Loooooool
cuter joker tho...hahaha
Few of the classics after bollywood golden era since 2004-05.
This song released in 2009.
@@macksequeira4233 read clearly what he said. After the golden era, this is one of the classics
mind fresh ho gya yaar ye song sunkar pahli baar suna he aaj ye song maja aa gya
Honey Arts bass kar yaaarrrr rulayega kya
[Ta na ta na ra ra ra ra..
Ta na ta na ra ra ra ra..] - 2 times
[Raat ke dhai baje koi shehnai baje,
Dil ka bazaar laga, dhilak ta pai baje]- 2 times
Chauki chauke chauke se, khoye khoye se hum,
Aankhein doobi doobi se, soye soye se hum,
Dil ne kaisi durgat ki hai, pehli baat mohabbat ki hai,
Aji aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai,
Arey pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai,
Jaan hatheli upar le li, jaanu kaisi harqat ki hai,
Aji pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai…
[ Ishq mein jalte hue, saans tezaabi lage,
Raaz khulta hi nahi, koi to chaabhi lage] - 2 times
Ishq mein jalte hue, saans tezaabi lage,
Saans tezaabi lage, ishq mein jalte hue,
Hoo chikne chikne lachche hai, reshmi se fande,
Chupdi chupdi baaton mein bhole bhaale bande,
Tanhai mein fursat di hai,
Arey pehli baar mohabbat…ki hai,
Aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai,
Arey pehli baat mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai….
Raat kuch aisa hua, jaisa hota to nahi,
Thaam ke rakkha mujhe, mein bhi khota to nahi,
Ek latt suljhane mein saari raat guzaari hai,
Chaand ki gathri, sar pe le li aapne kaisi zehmat di hai,
Arey pehli baar mohabbat ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai,
Hmm pehli baar mohabbat…ki hai, aakhiri baar mohabbat ki hai,
Ta ta na na na na…
Ta ta na na na na…
2:58 best partr💕❤️❤️💕💕💕
i smiled through out this song.......a warm genuine smile........though iam not a priyanka fan, i must say she out performed this with elan
2008, my teenage just started, I watched this song and Priyank’a dance on 9XM. Instantly became her fan coz of this song and Desi girl. Watched all her movies in theatres ever since. Love her and miss old bollywood!
Everyone is viewing LIGGI and counting..
But this song is something which nailed the Amma vibe of Liggi -,-
Suresh Wadkar's voice gives this song a different flavour. It's so good. Music back in 2000s-2010s was so amazing❤
Suresh Wadkar is just brilliant..
I wish my wedding is this casual, informal and happy
shahid and priyanka had amazing chemistry
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Suresh wadkar voice❤❤❤
Separate fan base for Vishal movies + Gulzar sir lyrics + Rekha ma’am takes to down and spin with her angel voice
1:33 here comes the voice of kunal ganjawala what great singer
Listening this song exactly raat k 2.30 bje...
1:46 Shahid's Scooty is Blue
2:22 Shahid's Scooty changes color to Red
Its Magic its Magic!
😢 Songs that used to feel boring in childhood are now masterpiece to hear 🎉🎉🎉🎉
I am enjoying this song right now raat ke dhaai baje
Sunidhi chauhan one of best indian female singer whom agree with me?
Suresh wadekar's voice was cherry on the cake. Perfect
Rekha Bhardwaj, Sunidhi Chauhan🔥❤️
Love this movie!!! Adore this couple!💕Love this song!!!
Priyanka killing at 2:40😍😘
2:37 that music.....❤❤
Priyanka 😍
Mind blowing & Lovely Song..My Favourite Song. Always..I love this Song. Too much..I love u priyanka Chopra..Sweetheart..
4:03 Shadi main to bilkul barish nahiye par gadi main aise dikha rahe h ki bas..😂😂
In my marriage I want both of us to be as happy as her.