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@@VoiceForMenIndia The Hindu is a leftist media agency. What better can we expect from them except a feminist cover up for wicked laws that benefit only women.
@@VoiceForMenIndia you’ve done the correct thing. This young widow is being hounded by this JCO and his greedy wife. Look at the mud slinging. This young widow has received the benefits as per the Government Policy. She has done nothing wrong. Her silence is her love & respect towards her husband. Shame on such in laws.
@hatinderkhattar8102 thank you sir. From Day 1 we are saying, NOK policy relook is a separate issue. But in this case, in-laws made it into an ugly character assassination fight against a 25-year-old woman who has also lost her loved one. The father in this case is now only giving interviews to everyone who is approaching him with a Mike. Sadly, the comments on our video makes us believe whether we have failed in brining a balance to society
@@vshbgm that male feminist on the panel will also say that if the lady called wife sleeps around for one day, she should get all his property and money. Marriage is the most expensive form of pros*it*tion
Bhai too shaadi kitni mahine ki hoti too 50 percent share dete?? Kya kitna percent kitna dena hai, ye iss baat pe depend krega ki uss bande ne kiske saath jyada time spend kiya?? Bhai ye sb fuhad baate hai....
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 wrong info Wo ladka 11 saal se hii bahar hai ghr se.... And again kya years of time spend decide krenge ki kisko kitna share milna chaiye.... Means tum keh rhe hoo ki agr marriage 25 saal ki rehti, tb wife benefits le skti thhi, but marriage 5 mahine ki hai isiliye wo benefits nhi lee skti.... Yaar ye kitni fuhad baate hai, kitni neech baate hai....
@@vivek8580 tum jaise kamjor male feminist ke wajah se hi hum mardon ko anyay jhelna pad raha hai. All laws are against men only because of feminist men like you who support mahila no matter what. According to you even if a woman marries a guy for one day, she should have all rights to his assets and property. And in this case, six months she got more than 1 crore. Most men cannot even earn that much in their entire service. Accha dhanda hai ye. Shaadi karo aur ek do din mein hi divorce file karo. Karorpatni Bano. Marriage is a good business. Actually marriage is the most expensive form of prostitution
Sangwan ji, the reply is for you. She is now just 23 yrs old and she will get married to another man and the moment she gets married to another man, her rights of claiming any form of assets from Capt Shubham side should be seized thereof. And the parents should be solely have a rights over any assets of their’s son. Sangwan ji can’t understand because it is not the case happen with him. It’s totally scam which unfortunately have happen with the parents Dal me kala hai jab log larki ke against hai
13:56 it's horrible to hear him say that parents have not sacrificed anything and all the expenses were born by the govt. Is it wrong to call this guy an a**hole ? Why do you interview such perverts ? PS : if you think my comment is indecent, his comment was indecent to the power of hundred
@@Bhargava_P I have listened to his channel and then unsubscribed. He is a famous male feminist. All his views of pro women. He is a old male simp and what can you expect from a simp
Bro if you watch Amit Sangwan's video, titled "Why Indian Men Are Suffering In Marriage", that video will trigger u much more than this. That video is there on his channel Sango Life Sutras.
Mam... Aap please apna channel and muhim continue rakhiye... For gender neutral laws, in country.. For treating every gender equally.. I will soon meet you and your team.. Currently I am a student in Delhi university... So..as a student i am doing and making awaring people upto my level.. But soon I will do some big in this regard and at that time I will take your and your teammates help... Thanks..
I have watched full video. What an amazing gender neutral discussion. You always stand for what is right irrespective of gender. Huge respect for you and your work.
Thank you & that is why ignore the noise because for people commenting here unless we slam the young woman, we are villain & double faced. All equal rights activists have been exposed
@@VoiceForMenIndiapardon the language but I think you have got this wrong. And I am saying this as a neutral person. Saying that parents have got lakhs of money or father has a Pension doesn't justify their wish to hold their son's gallantry award.
@phoenix281287 neither parents have right to defame daughter-in-law. If they have opted for media trial, they will also be subjected to harsh questions
@@VoiceForMenIndia my view is you have got them completely wrong this time. They are talking about the gallantry award and the belongings of their son which the widow took away. Is this claim wrong in anyway? As a parents do they have any claim on his son's belongings or not?
“rule is like this and this is how it was working and it will continue”..!! shame on the person. parents are asking this rule has to be changed so that someone take away the benefits just because she married for few months and leave behind the parents
The host is really Useless 13:55 he meant - parents didnt sacrifice. What a Nonsense statement Child birth pain Keeping for 9 months Educating Keeping safe and secure Cooking food for him And loving him .
@@Raythelightlife teri maa lalchi ❤ day Tu kiya unko personally janta hain kiya ki unko lalchi bol diya? Jis tarah tuney unko judge kiya bus mainey bhi judge kiya Aur ladki ke parents ne bhi khoya But jo ladke ke parents ne khoya Utna bada sacrifice nahi khoya ladki walo ne. Why don't you see the bigger loss Who got ?
@@outbox93 loss dono ka hua hai. Bahu itni graceful hai wo khuch nahi boli. Bol sakti thi dahej liye mara Peeta apne chote bete se kabran shadi karwani chahi. Lekin wo lich nahi boli. Yaur ye log Naga naach kar rahe hai
@@VoiceForMenIndia I want to ask all these people who are saying that they were married for just ‘5 months’. How do you measure a person’s grief ?? Is there a machine ? Is there a meter ? How about the mothers who have lost their 2-3 year olds in Gaza is their grief less than Captain Anshuman’s mother ? Have they counted the tears the wife shed vs the mother ? Let me tell you a fact of life - a wife of 5 months can love you more than parents of 26 years. Love cannot be measured in years. If so does the mother of a new born love her baby less than the mother of a 25 year old ? Smriti’s silence has shown her love & respect for the Martyred Captain.
@@VoiceForMenIndiawhat if the parents do have only that martyred Son?...and he said above is right?? Talking money name fame medal pension etc and then move away with another...what about the parents,? Do they have the same options?
@@satishsharma4328 well the son is smart if he is in army he would share a certain percentage as captain anshuman decided 😂at this point this is just the another side of toxicity
@@satishsharma4328you tell me when they were discussing about that late last who was martyred why was all given to husband and not to the women's parents even her gallantry award the husband must have also remarried why no voice from men about that or y'all just cry when it is not in your favour
They are asking for change in NOK laws... Just because think about those parents jinke pass income source na ho, jeene kiye koi pese hi na ho... Unka kya?????? Vo kese jia?? Aur ese kai cases hai jaha par parents ki durdasha ho gayi hai after their son's virgati.. Bec unhe pension ya compensation me kuch nahi mila..
@@Spydervlogs369 sir even if the parents are well off, why should they not get credit for their son's sacrifices? Why should a random woman called wife just take away everything for sleeping around with the son for a day or two?
@@cornershop9617 truth is bitter isn't it? If my comment has offended anybody, let it be. Because that's the truth. Just for sleeping around for a few days, if a woman is entitled to lifelong pension and property rights, the system is really sick.
@@VoiceForMenIndia Mai dekha hu.. Aur samjha bhi.. Your point is hamara motto ye nahi ki mahila community ke virudh jana hamara motto hai to bring mens commission and gender neutral laws towards men in india... But i want to highlight some thing regarding your this video.... Ye aadmi bol raha hai ye ek complete feminist mind set ka hai ye gender neutrality me believe nahi karta.. Isilia isne ye tak bol dia... Ki parents kakoi sacrifice hi nahi hai??? Isilia unhe kya hi mile.... Parents se badhkar koi relationship nahi hota and this you know as well.... Taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti.. In this case... (Anshuman jiis case) inhe pese ki requrement nahi hai ye apne bahu ke behavior ke bare me bol rahe hai that how she behaved with them... And truely kirti chakra pe parents ka bhi to hakk banta hai na... Unhe chune tak kyu nahi dia..????
Parents should respect the widow, but widow too should respect the parents, it also goes the other way round. And Arnaz mam, telling that the father himself has pension, and two other kids doesn't make their case of losing their one son a weak one. It may not be about the money for the parents, it may about the feeling of being cheated by a person who will use their late son's name and benefits. Even this can be a possibility mam.
Of all people, Amit Sangwan.... Great...Next who? Karuna Nundy, Indira Jaisingh ,Rebecca Jones et al ? Parents hv not done anything, but the girl has lost everything in today's age and time. 👏👏👏 Spinning the narrative and trying to connect it with glory of the Army ( no one is pointing fingers to this greatest institution) 👏👏👏
Voice for Men India has truly outdone themselves with this one. They thought their audience will clap on their opinions. Honestly, these are the things that make me feel Men's Rights Activism is actually useless. There is always someone's fortune in someone else's misfortune. I don't understand the need for a MRA to do this type of interviews. Are they trying to diversify and be a neutral societal observer after gather audience under the facade of online men's rights activism? And worst of all, they bring Amit Sangwan on the panel. For what? What credibility does he have? Do we even know anything about him? What is he preaching us for? This whole charade just exposed the hypocrisy of a woman MRA.
The guest is a feminist but skillfully claims to be neutral. He made so many videos bashing men. He especially cannot tolerate MGTOWs. He even said in a video named 'writing on the wall for men' where he said "what use are men to the world". Not the right person to invite to discuss on this topic.
@@servantoflordkrishna4489 I agree sir. I had watched his videos. Very offending and degrading towards men. Man bashing and insulting men is his favourite hobby. Such so called men are sitting in courts as judges and magistrates.
You have brought the wrong person into the panel. He is known for his pro feminist stance. I have unsubscribed from his channel. He claims that the wife has lost everything at a young age. How? This is 2024. Women are allowed by law to work and remarry. And this lady will remarry. Just because a man got married it doesn't mean that his wife should get everything. This is absolutely wrong. There should be some amendment to the rules. And for you, let me tell you that the wife is not a. Widow. He just lost her husband and can now remarry with a bounty. As simple as that. Widow is a regressive term. She would be a widow If she was not allowed to remarry.
@@prathamsharma0000not with the husband, he was at his service but did she did her matrimonial duties of looking after her mother and father in law. No absolutely no. When she has not done any of her matrimonial duties towards her husband or her in laws what matrimonial duties has she fulfilled and for what is she demanding money? Instead she moved out of matrimonial house leaving poor old in laws to die in husband absence. Now when awards and money was distributed she appeared as widow? Do you call this being till his death? Widow ....what widow is she going to remain widow of deceased for ever and have no affairs or anything taking care of her mother and father in law after her hu husband's death? Answer is NO. Then on what grounds is she demanding money . Now don't give a reason that law is that ....money divided and all that reason . I also know that . Mere existence of law does not mean that it suits the condition and situation of society. Laws are old and outdated meant in time when women were loyal to their husband and fulfilled their matrimonial duties in marriage.But atleast not in today's time.
@@prathamsharma0000 if she remarries, she should not be allowed to keep the award and the money. Its not fair. The award should go to the parents. Its the man's family.
@voiceformenindia As much as all the awards given to the wife are well deserved,do u think the pension of the martyr should keep going to the wife when she remarries?
The mother and father who know him since before he was born and took care of him since before he was born have less rights than any woman who entered his life for a short period of time. Next if Kin such as mother, father, brother, sister, child/children should also have rights.
@@DevendraMahendraSingh fully agree with you. It is so easy for women to earn money. They just enter a relationship with a well earning man and even a day's marriage is enough for permanent retirement pension. Even a day's marriage is enough to get rights to property, bank assets etc. What is the woman's contribution to asset creation? Hardly anything compared to the man. But the system is rigged against men. The system is created to rob men
@@Kaali-cb1ph since wives have a lot of privileges and entitlement, my advise to all men in this country is to stay single. Stay single, stay happy and be safe. Today's women have a lot of entitlement. They marry and encroach upon all assets of a man. Men are better off renting than marrying. Bangkok is a better option than marriage.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 to na kare na men shaadi... All men making such claims about how great Bangkok is and might have visited there 100 times and still want a sanskari bahu.... I hate the modern day feminist and while speaking against them and asking for gender neutral laws I have realised that the modern day Men's right organisation are no less ... promoting blatant hatred..
@@NP...16 it is a man's choice if he wants to visit Bangkok and avail paid services. Why shouldnt a man seek a sanskari bahu? You mean to say that a guy should marry a pros+tit#&? When mahila can get all the benefits of education, jobs, modernism and yet play the wome* card and victim card and then the abla naari card in courts, get compensation, wear white sarees and pretend to be a widow of the 18th century, I don't see anything wrong with men seeking a traditional bahu. And with more and more anti men laws, men will stop marrying. There are better options in other countries. It is cheaper to rent than to own. This is the future, like it or not. Regarding men's rights organisations spreading hatred, we spread awareness about the dangers of fem$ni*t mafia. And you find that hatred. Because you are so brainwashed by feminism that even the slightest criticism of feminism makes you go crazy. You are just hardwired.
@@SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp she was awarded the medal by Government of India. If she has done the wrong thing why don’t the JCO and his wife approach the court. Because they know the court is very clear on the policy and their case will be thrown out. Why do you think they are resorting to such cheap tactics ? Why are they giving ‘interviews’ to every big & small channel- because that’s the only way they can get publicity and that’s the only way to harass this young widow. If Mrs. Smriti Singh has wrong them - go to court. Why are they maligning her in social media. And look at her - not a word against the in laws. That’s her love towards her husband. Shame on this JCO and his wife.
@@madhuch5527 yes, the law has wrong them, that’s why they received 65 lakhs. The law is wrong that’s why they were invited to the Rashtrapati Bhawan. The laws is wrong that’s why they have the freedom to openly malign the young widow. The fault is with the law - and not with the fame & money hungry JCO & his greedy wife.
These in laws are greedy .they were forcing her to marry her devar. Sorry but they have 2 more children, father gets a fat pension amd 75 lacs. Anshuman himself nominated his wife for pension which she won't get if she remarries. Pls read the ARMY statement , before becoming a judge. I am a MAN too but we can't always blame women.
If she is not going to remarrie, then she is a widow and she can have all his money but now everything changed eventually she will remarrie then what point in taking ex husband's keerthi chakra and money and she is not a housewife so 🤷♂️🤷♂️
Means the benefit to the women will be based on how much she will suffer, the more she will suffer the more benefits she will get.... I want to ask, in India in 21st century, why still suffering is celebrated....
@@vivek8580 she only have to suffer emotional pain, she has a job, with six months of marriage and she is getting all her husband's money and keerthi chakara is not right,, one week of marriage and 5 year's of marriage are different, no wonder why women claim maintenance with one week marriage 😂😂
@@VoiceForMenIndia where did I abuse women? Do you know the meaning of abuse? Gaaali dena is called abuse. I think you are more of a feminist and that's why you brought that old male feminist on your channel to spread his nonsense. He has always spoken nonsense in his channel. He has almost said that the parents have zero rights on their son's awards and compensation. And if this is the case, better to remain single, die single than marry and give all property and assets to random women called wife. Thank you. We don't need such relationships
@@VoiceForMenIndiaaddress change ka logic dijiye aap aur atleast medal to chuna dena chaiye na ki medal bhi ab feminist ka right hai ? Plz reply in normal way dont start targetting 😂 just curious to know
@@VoiceForMenIndia your videos were so good in the past but this time, I am highly disappointed. You are biased in favour of the wife and you have brought on board a person who is known to be biased towards women. I have unsubscribed from his channel after watching his biased views. He has mentioned all wrong things. Injustice to parents. It is so easy to make money in India for women. Just marry and when the man dies, get all his property and assets
@@VoiceForMenIndia you need to educate yourself about what abuse is. The mindset is disgusting to say the least with people who support existing laws and rules that favour wives and looting men. The person whom you brought onboard today is a well known male feminist. I had watched his channel long back and found it biased towards women and he loves to bash men. I was surprised that he brought him to express his views on this channel. I was not surprised that he supports the wife's rights and so called streedhan which is the system of the past brought into today's times. These types of champions and heroes of women's rights sitting in courts and police stations are the reason why men are subjected to grave injustice. I advise to men- don't Marry. Stay single, stay safe, stay happy. Because the system is designed to loot men.
mr. guest seems like a male pseudo feminist....his understanding is just immature... we all are free for our choices...but we must be responsible for our family and society...we all have rights ,at the same time we also have responsiblities...is there anyone who can take responsiblity of martyr's parents if they are not getting any financial help in these types of cases? if not,then atleast let them fight for their rights...dont give immature point of views
It's not about the money it's about the medal and the relationship between daughter in law and husband's parents. But just because she is a young wife she gets sympathy more than their parents should be cause they brought him this world . Take good care of him since he was born . What her husband is an ordinary lower earner guy would she marry him ? Answer we all know .
Medal only belongs to his mother, law is wrong already on 100s of other things already and it's same with NOK nothing new in a pro women law biased country like India. Only good mother teaches love for motherland to their sons and tells them to love more and even safeguard motherland first even before herself. You very subtly put in x post that about not comparing pain and grief one to another, heck why not a mother loves deserves that physical form of medal on any given day especially 100x if it comes to comparison of new modern Indian women marriages 🔥 Working function love tha jo always works on giving and receiving 🤡 True obsession love bhi nhi hein ye like Dimple Cheema and Captain vikram Batra
I know this guest... he had given some misinformation about something.... I think marriage and why men don't want to marry anymore. According to him, the reasons we give are invalid and it's because of inadequacy of men.He is far from neutral. I have no interest in hearing what he has to say. All I want to know is whether it is the soldier who decided the nominee in the nok? If the army man is choosing the nominee and he chose the wife, that is fine. But If it's the govt that is choosing for him, it's wrong.
I once watched Wing Commander Pushkal Dwivedi(Retd.) talking about this issue, on the RUclips channel For Men India, with Antara and Jyoti T Pandey. He said that the top brass of the Armed Forces have a default soft corner for wives of servicemen, that is why the clerical staff in the Armed Forces already tick the 'Wife' option in nomination form for 100% emoluments after death in the line of duty. Not to mention the fact that the military base commanders often give preference to wives in getting their CSD (Canteen Stores Department) cards made. Plus if the wife of a service member remarries another guy, be it a serviceman or not, she will still continue to get the pension of her late husband, whereas mothers of servicemen are not given first priority either in NOK, or in emoluments. If the mothers of deceased service member remarry, they will no longer be eligible for their son's pension, whereas wife can continue receiving pension even after remarriage.
Let both parties chose between Medal or Money - Once chosen / ALL discussion, henceforth, would attain the primer of analytical perspective. * ALL comments, presently, levitate in a vaccum of assumption and bigotry. This is BNS-69 in reverse.
dear VFMI team, The choice of topic is good this time but the choice of panelist is very bad. Amit Sangwan is known for bashing men and supporting women unconditionally. Atleast you could have brought someone who is known to be gender neutral. I saw some comments stating that he said parents didnt make any sacrifice for Anshuman singh.. And my first question is, do you agree with him?
Anshuman jiis parents didn't want any money they have clearly said this... They are only telling about what kind of behavior happend to them... That girl switch off her phonr, ek baar award ko chune tak nahi diya... Unke gharwalo ne bhi baat nahi kiya.. So mazboori me parents kare to kya kare??? In my pov.. Parents ko is case me kirti chakra ka samman milna chahiye.. Baaki money ki to baat hi chodh do.. They have.. Their own....
14:55 I vehemently disagree. Did she lose her father? Did she lose her mother? Did she lose her son? Did she lose her daughter? Did she lose her brother? Did she lose her sister? How can you say she lost her everything by losing her husband? She didn't lose her parents-in-law. She didn't lose her brother-in-law. She didn't lose her sister-in-law. She abandoned them. How can you say she lost everything? Did she have no independence at all? Was she fully and completely dependent on her husband? Did she have no support from anyone in this world other than her husband? Will she never marry again now that she has lost everything as you say? I am surprised by your choice of words.
Women see dreams of creating a home with husband, building moments with him, travelling the world with him, and being with him when old through thick and thin. After baby She dreams of bringing a bahu for sewa in old age, getting dowry, and to see the grandchildren face. So the entire dream for boy child revolves around having a bahu and sewa in old age. And for girl child it revolves around marrying her off to a rich family and earn respect.
@@Kaali-cb1ph Exactly, but clearly his parents didn't lose any of their dreams, his siblings didn't lose any of their dreams. It's all about her. Sure, I hear you. ☺️☺️
@@Kaali-cb1ph Can a widow remarry? Can the parents get their child back to life? The parents did not only lose their child, they also lost their child's family, their child's hopes and dreams. The same child whom a widow likes so much that a widow spends precious time with the child and even got married to the child, but when tragedy comes, very conveniently breaks off all relations with the child's parents. If this is not domestic torture of the late child's parents, what is?
@@anindyas8471parents lost their son and it's tragic. But it's foolish to compare pain of both by anyone. Trauma of being a widow always stays. Trauma of mother father is also no less
@@gurunguns06 lots of women are sleeping around for a few days and then gobbling up all properties and assets of men. Government and military rules are encouraging and promoting such gold digging by mahilaye
A mother will always be a mother for longer than the wife has been the wife...... Agar baache hote to no one would have an issue( including me) but still mother would have been a mother for longer than the kids had the matyred as their dad... So then what?? This is complex issue and people should stop hatred towards men and women. I just hope the is a bit more decorum in handling the issue by the families...
Bacche ka hai maa baap ka hai Bhai behen subka hai lekin biwi ka kuch nahi. Ladkiya bewkuf thi jo apne maa baap ko chodd kar aayo Bas ladke ke maa baap hai Itni maa baap ki chaatni hai to shadi kyu karte ho???
@@Raythelightlifesee wahi point hai..... Ma se competition me no one will win...but this is silly to say ki Ma ko sab dedo. In this case it was extremely silly of the parents to suggest ki humara chote bete se Shaadi Kar lo .... Therefore something if this sort Kar sakte hain...50-50 Karo if no kid is involved and agar kid hai to I guess 80 to kids/wife. And maybe no pension to women if she gets remarried...
So why are colours snatched from widow's life, why not mom's life.Why do mother still wear colours but wife does not. If the same thing is done by parents i. e belittling the wife no household can prosper. Colours are snatched from the widow their bangles are broken whether she is a widow for one day Or for 50 days. My MIL became widow only after 5 years of marriage she got married after one year to her brother in law but the trauma of that still stays with her. She is suffering from mental disorder due to this trauma till date despite being married now. Everyone wants their mother daughter and sister to get all the rights but no one want it for daughter in law. Her pain is nothing just because she is educated, can marry, can have carrier.
Also why it's okay for society if she marries her brother in law but the moment she marries some other person she become characterless. Vice versa never happens and is totally acceptable though nothing is snatched from men when the wife dies. He has no obligation towards in laws. No colours are snatched from him.
@@Kaali-cb1ph I agree with all you say...... It is unfortunate and even now a days the education and sanskars are not doing anything to improve this... Only thing is parents should not be left destitute otherwise I agree with you 100% . His wife has done nothing wrong here
@@Dheeraj-hv7vi watch their interviews. She never talked to them about anything. She just left and took everything with her. They never were going to stop her if she wanted to. They gave her every choice. She never even cared to have a conversation with them. Just gave them silent treatment and ignored their existence. Watch their interviews, it was unbearable and unbelievable what she did to these innocent parents who just lost their son. She's pathetic.
exactly. as per this uncle , rishta bache se tha ma baap se nai tha. Men is always expected to be a provider for life. and in return he cant even have a wife who can take care of his parents. Culture says Kanyadaan and it means something. Definitely a selfish lady.
how pathetic our society ..... she is just 26 uska depression b nhi utra hoga or ye log uspe iljaam laga rahe hai ... or jo log media mai aa k itna bol sakte hai u cant imagine wo ghar pe use kaise bolenge
@@vfouzdar006 yeah exactly my point she is just 26 and prone to depression unlike these 65 plus super strong in laws who only lost their son. They can easily get another son but she wont get any boyfriend or husband. #darksarcasmforsudofeminists
video start me hi mai samajh gaya ye hagega. mai pehle iske financial advice ke vidoes dekhen hai, aur ye usme bhi bakwwas hi krta tha. aaj iss channel se sponsors ki boo aa rahi hai. ladki ko parents ke saath nahi rehna tha, to shaadi kyu ki? girlfriend bani rehti bs
Dear VFMI team, Very bad choice of panelist He's known for his videos on men bashing. I closed the video once I saw him on the panel. The issue raised by you is good. This case should be shown in detail but the panelist is a strict no-no for a lot of us.
Just introspect what u both did.. U also hyped to that Saas-Bahu issue in public. Indian Media has lost its credibility musch earlier, after some time they will get busy with another shit and so the Public. But u both would have better remain silent on such frivolous issue as it's very insulting to that Martyred. Utterly disappointed with ur discussion.
Very sad to hear that you are not able to understand the plight of parents . They are more pained by the fact that Smriti has stopped communicating with them . She doesn’t respond to their messages , nos are blocked . Parents look quite progressive and they wouldn’t have gone to the media if she had kept in touch with them. They were helpless and hence were forced to go the media .
It's really simple, make changes in NOK, bring a clause, stating that whether after posthumous if the spouse does not stay with the parents, what should be the division of funds? Arnaz mam why are you supporting the widow in this case, since she is a defence widow? Do other men not have feelings? Do they not sacrifice in their own way? The case which you told about the late Mrs. shekhawat, I don't personally support the spouse getting all the benefits either. It's not about the gender but the person who has lost their lives, their dignity after their death.
Both Parents and Wife are in fault, Wife have no good relationship with Inlaws which is natural as she was just 6 month of marriage, she just left without clearly talking to jlher inlaws and inlaws are stupids to talk almost many other's things then there only demand of there sons 🥇, Both are wrong
Mai dekha hu.. Aur samjha bhi.. Your point is hamara motto ye nahi ki mahila community ke virudh jana hamara motto hai to bring mens commission and gender neutral laws towards men in india... But i want to highlight some thing regarding your this video.... Ye aadmi bol raha hai ye ek complete feminist mind set ka hai ye gender neutrality me believe nahi karta.. Isilia isne ye tak bol dia... Ki parents kakoi sacrifice hi nahi hai??? Isilia unhe kya hi mile.... Parents se badhkar koi relationship nahi hota and this you know as well.... Taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti.. In this case... (Anshuman jiis case) inhe pese ki requrement nahi hai ye apne bahu ke behavior ke bare me bol rahe hai that how she behaved with them... And truely kirti chakra pe parents ka bhi to hakk banta hai na... Unhe chune tak kyu nahi dia..????
@@phoenix281287 Exactly. As per the statement of parents, there has been a clear cut silence/non-communication/ non-response from the widow and her mother -father end, since the last few months.
Mam, you always see the situation from neutral point of view and stand for what is right irrespective of gender. Thats why i follow you and respect you.
@@VoiceForMenIndiaArnaz please retrospect and understand what parents are asking for. It's not money which you are trying to hype here. Disappointed with your stance And it seems you consider only those as rational who agree with your viewpoint which is wrong. Introspection needed here.
@@phoenix281287 pls read our final post on this published now. Statement received from Army Official as well. This is not an emotional debate. If one side is defaming the other, they have to come clean on facts
@@VoiceForMenIndia leave this case aside for once and tell me, should the law of giving gallantry award to the spouse change of not to include parents? In this case you have been pointing that parents have 50% of army insurance etc. ( I believe you have completely misunderstood their point and it's not about money but keeping it aside) but there are many other cases where the parents don't have any other source of income. Should the law change or not?
Truly a neutral and honest discussion without any biases. Loved it. Although i think in cases where the family is poor, they can be provided more support and amendments can be made in the laws after considering such things.
@@VoiceForMenIndia wow..such a quick reply. Yes, totally agree with u. It shouldn't be reduced to woman bashing which unfortunately is being done by some men. I personally believe there should be actual equality.
@@VoiceForMenIndia mam maine kya galat bola?? Mai bhi to yahi bola jo isne bola 🥲 samman ghrahan karne me mata pita ka bji hakl hai isme konsi galt baat hai????
@@cornershop9617Nobody is doing women bashing but as a man i am asking that you want to give compensation just for 5 months of marriage. Joo ladki sirif 5 months pahle ayi hai uska hak equal hai uss maa baap jinohne uss ladke koo iss layak banaya. Alimony, maintainance or any kind of compensation should be given according to duration of marriage, financial condition of both the spouses and what is contribution of wife within marriage.
Just a suggestion kindly discuss both problems of men and women. Change the name of your channel to voice of men and women. So that gender neutrality is followed.
Madam be focused over your work for which we respect you....don't put your head into this type of cases also plz don't bring such people over your channel..plz don't repeat this mistake in future.
Y real life h movies nhi....Duniya selfish h yaha husband gya or waha wife uske nam ka hissa leke dusri taraf chali gya to bechara husband or uske parents ka bacha or parents ko utna nhi milega jo wife ko diya gya h 🏅, pension and half compensation...esme bhi parents piche reh gye laws paralyzed handicapped rotten system waahh
These comments reek of untermensch whose personal complaains trumps over empathy. In the past, men did not let their indomitable spirit be defeated. Don't let the fear of material loss scare you. Stand strong, be courageous, and never lose your smile even when you lose everything.
@VoiceForMenIndia i have no word to defend a that wife from a society and from in law . As society where have we reached . I feel ashmed . Do we forget there such thing called as free will.
Our view about women financial independence and widow remarriage is so backward that I got shocked . When that parents say if she want I can marry my younger to her . How shameful thinking that parents have . And that only 5 month statement . Wife: educated, smart , emotional . Parents : orthodox , toxic regressive mentality . In law and wife relationship is not good to begin with .
35:06 : Stop with your hypothesis. Talk facts. It's the parents who came to out in the open and started this mess. 35:32 : Of course you won't take sides as you don't want to displease your subscriber base!
He is talking nonsense without understanding the question and point raised. The simple question is if 50% of parents can be allocated to anyone else then why not the other 50% allocated to the wife? Everyone must have full control under the law to allocate 100% as per wish. No restrictions.
Both can be wrong bro! Don't take sides blindly. Please bring better guests from here on. 🙏 Let him get "vichlit" and let him have "thanda paani". You were cool. But please please no people like him.
Also mam... A kind request to you... To please try to collab with some big you tuber.. Or channel so that the true view points of gender neutrality can reach to maximum number of people in this country... Otherwise I have noticed aapke channel pe bahut kam views aate hai... Aur subscribers bhi kam hai..
@@VoiceForMenIndia haha I don't know how you guys changing plates. If women officer dies on duty the husband gets money but in all 100% cases husband gives to wifes parents. You can limit your views only.to.this particular case where parents have another son. Otherwise this discussion has no relevance in other cases. It's daughter in law responsibility to.look after in laws and son in law responsibility to.look after in laws if they don't have another son.
@@Dr.Sathyanadh12parents are only purest, applying that logic the girl should stay with parent only. In common scenario also the new widow goes to her mayka soon as possible and nobody speaks a word or object. Govt should ask her to return the medal to govt and then the govt can give it whomever it wants.
Huge respect for this man...the way he has clarity of thoughts... Our country would have progressed so much if half people in our country of his age had thought the way he does 🙏🙏
Bhai estate thing must need to be true for both men and men, especially men as statics tells truth - widow women with no biological children with rich dead husbands are way higher and they do full enjoyment, aish, fun, fcking and what not Toh Bikul sufferings hogi tbhi money milega warna nhi ❤️🔥 Tom Cruise (although his sh't scientology are bad) put condition on divorce with 2nd wife that for 5 years she can't openly do public dating as it put bad publicity impression for tom cruise as they have a biological daughter (although he didn't meet her in general) if she wants to the fixed million alimony Meanwhile nicole Kidman (1st wife) walked away with more than $100 millions (still tom initiated divorce but she never deserved that much free money) with 0 suffering 🤮 even though due to tom cruise influence she was never sexu*lly assaulted by anyone in Hollywood in her early career in entire 1990s as well got big roles and made a carrer out of them
Where the data backing up your statement. She did not knew that her husband will die. Had he been alive she would have risked giving birth for bringing children who would have gotten his surname. Approx 61 women die daily giving birth in India for their husband's love. It's for husband for sure not for baby . This figure of 61 comes from the data that maternal mortality rate in India is 97 per lakh lbirths, and 63000 births happen daily. So if 97 women die per lakh birth, then 61 of them die per 63000 births. Not getting along with in laws do not give the licence of degrading a young women to society. What if she don't have biological child with him she clearly loved him as she dreamt of having one with him. She dreamt of building home with him and all those shattered. She was clearly not knowing that such thing would happen as her husband was a doctor.
The founder of voice for men india was loved and supported by men when she was defending men, but the moment she defends a woman she is being bashed by the same men. What do you guys really want, gender neutral laws or legal right to abuse women?
@@Ishufied we want fairness and justice. Is that too much to ask for in this female dominated, gynocentric, hen pecked society? Why is this lady supporting the wife who is taking away all the money, assets and award while leaving nothing to the parents? What do you women want?
100s of videos against anti men laws. But if you can't tolerate alternate opinion we can't stop your hate. You can call out women who are bad with husbands, but demeaning a widow by destiny is really low
@@VoiceForMenIndia exactly my point, there should be laws to defend men against cunning women, but hurling abuses at every woman which exists is not okay especially a widow of a martyr. These men are not really fighting against biased laws against men but they just want an opportunity to bash women. We must support right, not any gender.
@@Ishufied I think the panel should have been complete if we had someone to present views of parents also. Again, here the parents are father and mother who is a woman. No, we are not interested in bashing women right left and center as women activist really do. We want fairness in representation of what parents are trying to say which this video fails to show.
@@VoiceForMenIndiaif you are looking for alternate opinion why not call two panelist to debate on this topic? One Speaking from the side of the widow and other from parents side? Seems you have got this completely wrong.
Because a gold digger image of widow has been painted within 2 days across media. Time to put out both side facts. Remember parents have gone for media trial
@@VoiceForMenIndia madam apka emotion trigger ho gya hai, sidhi bat smjhyiye haq aur jimmedari dono sath me aata hai, aurat ka haq hai ki pati ka paisa paye to pati ka jimmedari bhi uska hi jimmedari hoga. Agar jimmedari chor ke sirf haq dikhana sirf paiso pe to use gold digger hi bolte hai. You can't defend it, just an example to simplify, Paisa leke to bhag gyi agar udhari rehta pati pe to udhar ki wasooli uske bap se hi hogi. Lekin madam ko kya matlab. To madam ko koi gold digger paint nhi kar rha hai, madam gold digger hai
Pta nahi log wife vs parents ka discussion kyu kar rhe hai, kaun kitna eligible hai ye swal hi nhi hai. Swal haq ka nhi jimmedari ka hai, bete ke marnoprant sas sasur bahu ki jimmedari urhane ko tayar hai lekin bahu jimmedari se bhag gai hai. Sas sasur dusri shadi bhi karwane ko ready hai aur ye mautarma paisa milte bhag gyi, paisa milne se pehle nhi bhago hai... Isliye bahu mc hai.
Publicly keh rhe ki 5 mhina ka relation important kaise hua, chudiyan tod ke safed libas me lapet kar. Aur koi uske riste ki izzat nhi unke nazar me to kaisi responsibility nibha rhe ye log. Samaaj ek vidhwa ke rang cheen kar safed libas pehna kar chudiyan todkar ye comparision krne ka besharmi kaise kar leta hai ki biwi ka pyaar jyda ki maa ka?
@@Kaali-cb1ph madam Adam jmane me ji rhi hai ap, ya to apka Ghar parivaar bahut hi wahiyat soch ke sath ji rha hai, yha sholay nhi chal raha hai na hi koi safed livas me jivan bita rha hai. Baki hmara swal sidha sa hai jo ab miss kr gyi, Paisa ka haq hai to jimmedari ka bojh bhi uthana hi padega. Aur agar bhagogi to fir wo din dur nahi ki log sati vyawastha ko smaj apnane lage.
EVERYONE ABUSING US. THE HINDU HAS PUT OUT ARMY OFFICIAL'S STATEMENT. PLEASE READ ALONG WITH OUR FINAL TAKE IN THIS MATTER IN DETAIL. WE ONLY WRITE ON FACTS, NO EMOTIONAL RANTING: x.com/voiceformenind/status/1812726856568787217?s=19
Men work hard so that woman can get everything free shame on Arnaz Hathiram Gold digger supporting gold digger
@@VoiceForMenIndia The Hindu is a leftist media agency. What better can we expect from them except a feminist cover up for wicked laws that benefit only women.
@@VoiceForMenIndia I salute you for putting forward the truth.
@@VoiceForMenIndia you’ve done the correct thing. This young widow is being hounded by this JCO and his greedy wife. Look at the mud slinging. This young widow has received the benefits as per the Government Policy. She has done nothing wrong. Her silence is her love & respect towards her husband. Shame on such in laws.
@hatinderkhattar8102 thank you sir. From Day 1 we are saying, NOK policy relook is a separate issue. But in this case, in-laws made it into an ugly character assassination fight against a 25-year-old woman who has also lost her loved one. The father in this case is now only giving interviews to everyone who is approaching him with a Mike. Sadly, the comments on our video makes us believe whether we have failed in brining a balance to society
So sad even army personals are not safe india His soul must be sad after saw this case
5 month 50% share?
25 years 50%share. This is feminist equality.
@@vshbgm that male feminist on the panel will also say that if the lady called wife sleeps around for one day, she should get all his property and money. Marriage is the most expensive form of pros*it*tion
Bhai too shaadi kitni mahine ki hoti too 50 percent share dete??
Kya kitna percent kitna dena hai, ye iss baat pe depend krega ki uss bande ne kiske saath jyada time spend kiya??
Bhai ye sb fuhad baate hai....
@@vivek8580 usne apne maa baap ke sath kam se kam 20 saal jeete hain. To award and paisa maa baap ko jana chahiye
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 wrong info
Wo ladka 11 saal se hii bahar hai ghr se....
And again kya years of time spend decide krenge ki kisko kitna share milna chaiye....
Means tum keh rhe hoo ki agr marriage 25 saal ki rehti, tb wife benefits le skti thhi, but marriage 5 mahine ki hai isiliye wo benefits nhi lee skti....
Yaar ye kitni fuhad baate hai, kitni neech baate hai....
@@vivek8580 tum jaise kamjor male feminist ke wajah se hi hum mardon ko anyay jhelna pad raha hai. All laws are against men only because of feminist men like you who support mahila no matter what. According to you even if a woman marries a guy for one day, she should have all rights to his assets and property. And in this case, six months she got more than 1 crore. Most men cannot even earn that much in their entire service. Accha dhanda hai ye. Shaadi karo aur ek do din mein hi divorce file karo. Karorpatni Bano. Marriage is a good business. Actually marriage is the most expensive form of prostitution
Sangwan ji, the reply is for you.
She is now just 23 yrs old and she will get married to another man and the moment she gets married to another man, her rights of claiming any form of assets from Capt Shubham side should be seized thereof. And the parents should be solely have a rights over any assets of their’s son.
Sangwan ji can’t understand because it is not the case happen with him.
It’s totally scam which unfortunately have happen with the parents
Dal me kala hai jab log larki ke against hai
13:56 it's horrible to hear him say that parents have not sacrificed anything and all the expenses were born by the govt. Is it wrong to call this guy an a**hole ? Why do you interview such perverts ?
PS : if you think my comment is indecent, his comment was indecent to the power of hundred
@@Bhargava_P I have listened to his channel and then unsubscribed. He is a famous male feminist. All his views of pro women. He is a old male simp and what can you expect from a simp
Power of thousand bolna sahi hoga
Seriously C hain wo
Question is if everything done by government then why government give money to anyone ?
Bro if you watch Amit Sangwan's video, titled "Why Indian Men Are Suffering In Marriage", that video will trigger u much more than this. That video is there on his channel Sango Life Sutras.
Mam... Aap please apna channel and muhim continue rakhiye... For gender neutral laws, in country.. For treating every gender equally.. I will soon meet you and your team.. Currently I am a student in Delhi university... So..as a student i am doing and making awaring people upto my level.. But soon I will do some big in this regard and at that time I will take your and your teammates help... Thanks..
@@Spydervlogs369 😂😆
Buddy best of luck for future endovers...I hope I should be a part of your journey.
I have watched full video. What an amazing gender neutral discussion. You always stand for what is right irrespective of gender. Huge respect for you and your work.
Thank you & that is why ignore the noise because for people commenting here unless we slam the young woman, we are villain & double faced. All equal rights activists have been exposed
@@VoiceForMenIndiapardon the language but I think you have got this wrong.
And I am saying this as a neutral person. Saying that parents have got lakhs of money or father has a Pension doesn't justify their wish to hold their son's gallantry award.
@@VoiceForMenIndia sorry, you have completely taken the "noise" in a wrong way. I have lost respect for Voice for men India
@phoenix281287 neither parents have right to defame daughter-in-law. If they have opted for media trial, they will also be subjected to harsh questions
@@VoiceForMenIndia my view is you have got them completely wrong this time.
They are talking about the gallantry award and the belongings of their son which the widow took away.
Is this claim wrong in anyway?
As a parents do they have any claim on his son's belongings or not?
“rule is like this and this is how it was working and it will continue”..!! shame on the person. parents are asking this rule has to be changed so that someone take away the benefits just because she married for few months and leave behind the parents
The host is really
Useless
13:55 he meant - parents didnt sacrifice.
What a Nonsense statement
Child birth pain
Keeping for 9 months
Educating
Keeping safe and secure
Cooking food for him
And loving him .
Ladki ke parents bhi sacrifice karte hai bas ladke ke karte hai kya? Laalchi hai ye log
@@Raythelightlife teri maa lalchi
❤ day
Tu kiya unko personally janta hain kiya ki unko lalchi bol diya?
Jis tarah tuney unko judge kiya bus mainey bhi judge kiya
Aur ladki ke parents ne bhi khoya
But jo ladke ke parents ne khoya
Utna bada sacrifice nahi khoya ladki walo ne.
Why don't you see the bigger loss
Who got ?
@@outbox93 50% Milne ke baad jo apne bete ka social media par mazaak baneyae wo laachi hi hai. Sango sutras ka channel dekh detailed me bataya hai
@@outbox93 loss dono ka hua hai. Bahu itni graceful hai wo khuch nahi boli. Bol sakti thi dahej liye mara Peeta apne chote bete se kabran shadi karwani chahi.
Lekin wo lich nahi boli.
Yaur ye log Naga naach kar rahe hai
So they are saying they will givev the child of second dil to her .vo nau mahine nahi rakhegi bachhe ko
She will get another Anshuman next year, but there is no compensation to parents.
What is responsibility of daughter in law towards in-laws ?
Parents also have another son and daughter. Stop this non sense of comparing anyone's grief
@@VoiceForMenIndia I want to ask all these people who are saying that they were married for just ‘5 months’. How do you measure a person’s grief ?? Is there a machine ? Is there a meter ? How about the mothers who have lost their 2-3 year olds in Gaza is their grief less than Captain Anshuman’s mother ? Have they counted the tears the wife shed vs the mother ? Let me tell you a fact of life - a wife of 5 months can love you more than parents of 26 years. Love cannot be measured in years. If so does the mother of a new born love her baby less than the mother of a 25 year old ? Smriti’s silence has shown her love & respect for the Martyred Captain.
@@VoiceForMenIndiawhat if the parents do have only that martyred Son?...and he said above is right?? Talking money name fame medal pension etc and then move away with another...what about the parents,? Do they have the same options?
@@satishsharma4328 well the son is smart if he is in army he would share a certain percentage as captain anshuman decided 😂at this point this is just the another side of toxicity
@@satishsharma4328you tell me when they were discussing about that late last who was martyred why was all given to husband and not to the women's parents even her gallantry award the husband must have also remarried why no voice from men about that or y'all just cry when it is not in your favour
They are asking for change in NOK laws... Just because think about those parents jinke pass income source na ho, jeene kiye koi pese hi na ho... Unka kya?????? Vo kese jia?? Aur ese kai cases hai jaha par parents ki durdasha ho gayi hai after their son's virgati.. Bec unhe pension ya compensation me kuch nahi mila..
40 min video & you started commenting without watching it???
@@Spydervlogs369 sir even if the parents are well off, why should they not get credit for their son's sacrifices? Why should a random woman called wife just take away everything for sleeping around with the son for a day or two?
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 Your comment reflects what kind of a person you are.
@@cornershop9617 truth is bitter isn't it? If my comment has offended anybody, let it be. Because that's the truth. Just for sleeping around for a few days, if a woman is entitled to lifelong pension and property rights, the system is really sick.
@@VoiceForMenIndia Mai dekha hu.. Aur samjha bhi.. Your point is hamara motto ye nahi ki mahila community ke virudh jana hamara motto hai to bring mens commission and gender neutral laws towards men in india...
But i want to highlight some thing regarding your this video....
Ye aadmi bol raha hai ye ek complete feminist mind set ka hai ye gender neutrality me believe nahi karta.. Isilia isne ye tak bol dia... Ki parents kakoi sacrifice hi nahi hai??? Isilia unhe kya hi mile.... Parents se badhkar koi relationship nahi hota and this you know as well.... Taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti.. In this case... (Anshuman jiis case) inhe pese ki requrement nahi hai ye apne bahu ke behavior ke bare me bol rahe hai that how she behaved with them... And truely kirti chakra pe parents ka bhi to hakk banta hai na... Unhe chune tak kyu nahi dia..????
His wife is right in this case.
This same wife will remarry and get a new husband. But how would parents find a new son??
@@jitujitu9157 they got 15 lakh alread from gov, Must have took Dory as well in their marriage. What else they want? Her organs?
@ jituj. they got 15 lakh alread from gov, Must have took Dory as well in their marriage. What else they want?
Fuck you tube
Parents should respect the widow, but widow too should respect the parents, it also goes the other way round.
And Arnaz mam, telling that the father himself has pension, and two other kids doesn't make their case of losing their one son a weak one.
It may not be about the money for the parents, it may about the feeling of being cheated by a person who will use their late son's name and benefits. Even this can be a possibility mam.
Arnaz should see this comment and introspect.
Of all people, Amit Sangwan.... Great...Next who? Karuna Nundy, Indira Jaisingh ,Rebecca Jones et al ?
Parents hv not done anything, but the girl has lost everything in today's age and time. 👏👏👏
Spinning the narrative and trying to connect it with glory of the Army ( no one is pointing fingers to this greatest institution) 👏👏👏
Voice for Men India has truly outdone themselves with this one. They thought their audience will clap on their opinions. Honestly, these are the things that make me feel Men's Rights Activism is actually useless. There is always someone's fortune in someone else's misfortune. I don't understand the need for a MRA to do this type of interviews. Are they trying to diversify and be a neutral societal observer after gather audience under the facade of online men's rights activism? And worst of all, they bring Amit Sangwan on the panel. For what? What credibility does he have? Do we even know anything about him? What is he preaching us for? This whole charade just exposed the hypocrisy of a woman MRA.
The guest is a feminist but skillfully claims to be neutral. He made so many videos bashing men. He especially cannot tolerate MGTOWs. He even said in a video named 'writing on the wall for men' where he said "what use are men to the world". Not the right person to invite to discuss on this topic.
@@servantoflordkrishna4489 I agree sir. I had watched his videos. Very offending and degrading towards men. Man bashing and insulting men is his favourite hobby. Such so called men are sitting in courts as judges and magistrates.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 great that you know him. He is the best dhurth I have seen. Pretends to be neutral for his business purposes.
@@servantoflordkrishna4489 kya dhanda karta hai wo? Dhande wadi hai wo
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 followers ikattha karta hai personal consultation business ke liye khud ko neutral dikha kar
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230those judges and magistrate men or women?
You have brought the wrong person into the panel. He is known for his pro feminist stance. I have unsubscribed from his channel. He claims that the wife has lost everything at a young age. How? This is 2024. Women are allowed by law to work and remarry. And this lady will remarry. Just because a man got married it doesn't mean that his wife should get everything. This is absolutely wrong. There should be some amendment to the rules. And for you, let me tell you that the wife is not a. Widow. He just lost her husband and can now remarry with a bounty. As simple as that. Widow is a regressive term. She would be a widow If she was not allowed to remarry.
Correct. Agree with you.
She was with the husband until he died
@@prathamsharma0000not with the husband, he was at his service but did she did her matrimonial duties of looking after her mother and father in law. No absolutely no. When she has not done any of her matrimonial duties towards her husband or her in laws what matrimonial duties has she fulfilled and for what is she demanding money? Instead she moved out of matrimonial house leaving poor old in laws to die in husband absence. Now when awards and money was distributed she appeared as widow? Do you call this being till his death? Widow ....what widow is she going to remain widow of deceased for ever and have no affairs or anything taking care of her mother and father in law after her hu husband's death? Answer is NO. Then on what grounds is she demanding money . Now don't give a reason that law is that ....money divided and all that reason . I also know that . Mere existence of law does not mean that it suits the condition and situation of society. Laws are old and outdated meant in time when women were loyal to their husband and fulfilled their matrimonial duties in marriage.But atleast not in today's time.
@@prathamsharma0000 if she remarries, she should not be allowed to keep the award and the money. Its not fair. The award should go to the parents. Its the man's family.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 Upon remarriage yes i agree
@voiceformenindia As much as all the awards given to the wife are well deserved,do u think the pension of the martyr should keep going to the wife when she remarries?
This is the only place I believe the pension should stop to the x wife.....
The mother and father who know him since before he was born and took care of him since before he was born have less rights than any woman who entered his life for a short period of time. Next if Kin such as mother, father, brother, sister, child/children should also have rights.
@@DevendraMahendraSingh fully agree with you. It is so easy for women to earn money. They just enter a relationship with a well earning man and even a day's marriage is enough for permanent retirement pension. Even a day's marriage is enough to get rights to property, bank assets etc. What is the woman's contribution to asset creation? Hardly anything compared to the man. But the system is rigged against men. The system is created to rob men
For people who don't want wife to have any right can simply not marry
@@Kaali-cb1ph since wives have a lot of privileges and entitlement, my advise to all men in this country is to stay single. Stay single, stay happy and be safe. Today's women have a lot of entitlement. They marry and encroach upon all assets of a man. Men are better off renting than marrying. Bangkok is a better option than marriage.
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 to na kare na men shaadi... All men making such claims about how great Bangkok is and might have visited there 100 times and still want a sanskari bahu....
I hate the modern day feminist and while speaking against them and asking for gender neutral laws I have realised that the modern day Men's right organisation are no less ... promoting blatant hatred..
@@NP...16 it is a man's choice if he wants to visit Bangkok and avail paid services. Why shouldnt a man seek a sanskari bahu? You mean to say that a guy should marry a pros+tit#&? When mahila can get all the benefits of education, jobs, modernism and yet play the wome* card and victim card and then the abla naari card in courts, get compensation, wear white sarees and pretend to be a widow of the 18th century, I don't see anything wrong with men seeking a traditional bahu.
And with more and more anti men laws, men will stop marrying. There are better options in other countries. It is cheaper to rent than to own. This is the future, like it or not.
Regarding men's rights organisations spreading hatred, we spread awareness about the dangers of fem$ni*t mafia. And you find that hatred. Because you are so brainwashed by feminism that even the slightest criticism of feminism makes you go crazy. You are just hardwired.
Shame on the founder. For playing double standards
How smartly you revolving this matter just with money. No discussion on MEDAL .
Why she take medal without telling the parents
@@SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp she was awarded the medal by Government of India. If she has done the wrong thing why don’t the JCO and his wife approach the court. Because they know the court is very clear on the policy and their case will be thrown out. Why do you think they are resorting to such cheap tactics ? Why are they giving ‘interviews’ to every big & small channel- because that’s the only way they can get publicity and that’s the only way to harass this young widow. If Mrs. Smriti Singh has wrong them - go to court. Why are they maligning her in social media. And look at her - not a word against the in laws. That’s her love towards her husband. Shame on this JCO and his wife.
@@hatinderkhattar8102yes law is very abusive and parents asking to change the law and policies
@@madhuch5527 yes, the law has wrong them, that’s why they received 65 lakhs. The law is wrong that’s why they were invited to the Rashtrapati Bhawan. The laws is wrong that’s why they have the freedom to openly malign the young widow. The fault is with the law - and not with the fame & money hungry JCO & his greedy wife.
These in laws are greedy .they were forcing her to marry her devar. Sorry but they have 2 more children, father gets a fat pension amd 75 lacs. Anshuman himself nominated his wife for pension which she won't get if she remarries. Pls read the ARMY statement , before becoming a judge. I am a MAN too but we can't always blame women.
If she is not going to remarrie, then she is a widow and she can have all his money but now everything changed eventually she will remarrie then what point in taking ex husband's keerthi chakra and money and she is not a housewife so 🤷♂️🤷♂️
@@Battt862 agreed. We are living in 2024. Not in 18th century. Today's women are different. The laws need to change
Means the benefit to the women will be based on how much she will suffer, the more she will suffer the more benefits she will get....
I want to ask, in India in 21st century, why still suffering is celebrated....
@@vivek8580 she only have to suffer emotional pain, she has a job, with six months of marriage and she is getting all her husband's money and keerthi chakara is not right,, one week of marriage and 5 year's of marriage are different, no wonder why women claim maintenance with one week marriage 😂😂
@@Battt862 marriage is the most expensive form of prostitution
@@Battt862 exactly my point, if she will suffer more then u will be happy....
U don't want to see her happy....
This man Amit Sangwan is indeed evil and anti-parents, perhaps he never got love from his parents.
He breaks families instead of joining them!!!
We need a massive worldwide men's rights movement. Great injustice to men and their parents
Problem with mindset. Abuse women without even watching
@@VoiceForMenIndia where did I abuse women? Do you know the meaning of abuse? Gaaali dena is called abuse. I think you are more of a feminist and that's why you brought that old male feminist on your channel to spread his nonsense. He has always spoken nonsense in his channel. He has almost said that the parents have zero rights on their son's awards and compensation. And if this is the case, better to remain single, die single than marry and give all property and assets to random women called wife. Thank you. We don't need such relationships
@@VoiceForMenIndiaaddress change ka logic dijiye aap aur atleast medal to chuna dena chaiye na ki medal bhi ab feminist ka right hai ? Plz reply in normal way dont start targetting 😂 just curious to know
@@VoiceForMenIndia your videos were so good in the past but this time, I am highly disappointed. You are biased in favour of the wife and you have brought on board a person who is known to be biased towards women. I have unsubscribed from his channel after watching his biased views. He has mentioned all wrong things. Injustice to parents. It is so easy to make money in India for women. Just marry and when the man dies, get all his property and assets
@@VoiceForMenIndia you need to educate yourself about what abuse is. The mindset is disgusting to say the least with people who support existing laws and rules that favour wives and looting men. The person whom you brought onboard today is a well known male feminist. I had watched his channel long back and found it biased towards women and he loves to bash men. I was surprised that he brought him to express his views on this channel. I was not surprised that he supports the wife's rights and so called streedhan which is the system of the past brought into today's times. These types of champions and heroes of women's rights sitting in courts and police stations are the reason why men are subjected to grave injustice. I advise to men- don't Marry. Stay single, stay safe, stay happy. Because the system is designed to loot men.
mr. guest seems like a male pseudo feminist....his understanding is just immature...
we all are free for our choices...but we must be responsible for our family and society...we all have rights ,at the same time we also have responsiblities...is there anyone who can take responsiblity of martyr's parents if they are not getting any financial help in these types of cases? if not,then atleast let them fight for their rights...dont give immature point of views
It's not about the money it's about the medal and the relationship between daughter in law and husband's parents. But just because she is a young wife she gets sympathy more than their parents should be cause they brought him this world . Take good care of him since he was born . What her husband is an ordinary lower earner guy would she marry him ? Answer we all know .
Take money and go to Australia for study and their is known respect for family and both of you are shameful supporting wrong things
Medal only belongs to his mother, law is wrong already on 100s of other things already and it's same with NOK nothing new in a pro women law biased country like India.
Only good mother teaches love for motherland to their sons and tells them to love more and even safeguard motherland first even before herself.
You very subtly put in x post that about not comparing pain and grief one to another, heck why not a mother loves deserves that physical form of medal on any given day especially 100x if it comes to comparison of new modern Indian women marriages 🔥
Working function love tha jo always works on giving and receiving 🤡
True obsession love bhi nhi hein ye like Dimple Cheema and Captain vikram Batra
I know this guest... he had given some misinformation about something.... I think marriage and why men don't want to marry anymore. According to him, the reasons we give are invalid and it's because of inadequacy of men.He is far from neutral. I have no interest in hearing what he has to say.
All I want to know is whether it is the soldier who decided the nominee in the nok?
If the army man is choosing the nominee and he chose the wife, that is fine. But If it's the govt that is choosing for him, it's wrong.
I once watched Wing Commander Pushkal Dwivedi(Retd.) talking about this issue, on the RUclips channel For Men India, with Antara and Jyoti T Pandey. He said that the top brass of the Armed Forces have a default soft corner for wives of servicemen, that is why the clerical staff in the Armed Forces already tick the 'Wife' option in nomination form for 100% emoluments after death in the line of duty. Not to mention the fact that the military base commanders often give preference to wives in getting their CSD (Canteen Stores Department) cards made. Plus if the wife of a service member remarries another guy, be it a serviceman or not, she will still continue to get the pension of her late husband, whereas mothers of servicemen are not given first priority either in NOK, or in emoluments. If the mothers of deceased service member remarry, they will no longer be eligible for their son's pension, whereas wife can continue receiving pension even after remarriage.
Usually, your videos are awesome. But you have brought the wrong guest this time.
It's never awesome , she is a manipulating people in the name of voice of men
And she is a content chor, she always steals others videos and have no content of her own
Let both parties chose between Medal or Money
- Once chosen / ALL discussion, henceforth, would attain the primer of analytical perspective.
* ALL comments, presently, levitate in a vaccum of assumption and bigotry. This is BNS-69 in reverse.
dear VFMI team,
The choice of topic is good this time but
the choice of panelist is very bad. Amit Sangwan is known for bashing men and supporting women unconditionally. Atleast you could have brought someone who is known to be gender neutral.
I saw some comments stating that he said parents didnt make any sacrifice for Anshuman singh..
And my first question is, do you agree with him?
This entire episode shows what a weak society we have in India. At the end of the day, everyone wants respect but won’t give it in turn.
Anshuman jiis parents didn't want any money they have clearly said this... They are only telling about what kind of behavior happend to them... That girl switch off her phonr, ek baar award ko chune tak nahi diya... Unke gharwalo ne bhi baat nahi kiya.. So mazboori me parents kare to kya kare??? In my pov.. Parents ko is case me kirti chakra ka samman milna chahiye.. Baaki money ki to baat hi chodh do.. They have.. Their own....
Kyu kare baat?? Accha behaviour rakhoge to karegi
He told mere chote bete se shadi Karo isliye bhag gayi
@@Raythelightlife how cheap
Devar bete jaisa hota hai
Her husband just died and they were telling her to marry her devar
@@Ishufiedaajkal shadi tool hai admiyo ka paisa hadapnai kaa.
Tummhe sab pata chal gya yahi s..@@Raythelightlife
14:55 I vehemently disagree. Did she lose her father? Did she lose her mother? Did she lose her son? Did she lose her daughter? Did she lose her brother? Did she lose her sister? How can you say she lost her everything by losing her husband? She didn't lose her parents-in-law. She didn't lose her brother-in-law. She didn't lose her sister-in-law. She abandoned them. How can you say she lost everything? Did she have no independence at all? Was she fully and completely dependent on her husband? Did she have no support from anyone in this world other than her husband? Will she never marry again now that she has lost everything as you say? I am surprised by your choice of words.
She lost all her dreams she saw with the husband of building a home
Women see dreams of creating a home with husband, building moments with him, travelling the world with him, and being with him when old through thick and thin. After baby She dreams of bringing a bahu for sewa in old age, getting dowry, and to see the grandchildren face. So the entire dream for boy child revolves around having a bahu and sewa in old age. And for girl child it revolves around marrying her off to a rich family and earn respect.
@@Kaali-cb1ph Exactly, but clearly his parents didn't lose any of their dreams, his siblings didn't lose any of their dreams. It's all about her. Sure, I hear you. ☺️☺️
@@Kaali-cb1ph Can a widow remarry? Can the parents get their child back to life? The parents did not only lose their child, they also lost their child's family, their child's hopes and dreams. The same child whom a widow likes so much that a widow spends precious time with the child and even got married to the child, but when tragedy comes, very conveniently breaks off all relations with the child's parents. If this is not domestic torture of the late child's parents, what is?
@@anindyas8471parents lost their son and it's tragic. But it's foolish to compare pain of both by anyone. Trauma of being a widow always stays. Trauma of mother father is also no less
She is doing as per government policy...Why blame her as Gold digger...why not government for biased against married Men family??
@@gurunguns06 the problem is that the government and the army is supporting gold digger women.
@@gurunguns06 lots of women are sleeping around for a few days and then gobbling up all properties and assets of men. Government and military rules are encouraging and promoting such gold digging by mahilaye
Agar female Marti hai to uske maa baap ko kya milta hai.?? Wo to dandi Dona nahi karte
@@Raythelightlifehow many female soldiers are die less than 1%
A mother will always be a mother for longer than the wife has been the wife...... Agar baache hote to no one would have an issue( including me) but still mother would have been a mother for longer than the kids had the matyred as their dad... So then what?? This is complex issue and people should stop hatred towards men and women. I just hope the is a bit more decorum in handling the issue by the families...
Bacche ka hai maa baap ka hai Bhai behen subka hai lekin biwi ka kuch nahi. Ladkiya bewkuf thi jo apne maa baap ko chodd kar aayo
Bas ladke ke maa baap hai
Itni maa baap ki chaatni hai to shadi kyu karte ho???
@@Raythelightlifesee wahi point hai..... Ma se competition me no one will win...but this is silly to say ki Ma ko sab dedo. In this case it was extremely silly of the parents to suggest ki humara chote bete se Shaadi Kar lo ....
Therefore something if this sort Kar sakte hain...50-50 Karo if no kid is involved and agar kid hai to I guess 80 to kids/wife. And maybe no pension to women if she gets remarried...
So why are colours snatched from widow's life, why not mom's life.Why do mother still wear colours but wife does not. If the same thing is done by parents i. e belittling the wife no household can prosper. Colours are snatched from the widow their bangles are broken whether she is a widow for one day Or for 50 days. My MIL became widow only after 5 years of marriage she got married after one year to her brother in law but the trauma of that still stays with her. She is suffering from mental disorder due to this trauma till date despite being married now. Everyone wants their mother daughter and sister to get all the rights but no one want it for daughter in law. Her pain is nothing just because she is educated, can marry, can have carrier.
Also why it's okay for society if she marries her brother in law but the moment she marries some other person she become characterless. Vice versa never happens and is totally acceptable though nothing is snatched from men when the wife dies. He has no obligation towards in laws. No colours are snatched from him.
@@Kaali-cb1ph I agree with all you say...... It is unfortunate and even now a days the education and sanskars are not doing anything to improve this...
Only thing is parents should not be left destitute otherwise I agree with you 100% . His wife has done nothing wrong here
Shameless biased laws, judiciary is a joke😂
She left in the most pathetic and disrespectful way possible. If she wanted to leave, she could've done it in a respectful way.
How do you know she left in a disrespectful way ? The parents are loud mouth boomers you can’t argue with them
@@Dheeraj-hv7vi watch their interviews. She never talked to them about anything. She just left and took everything with her. They never were going to stop her if she wanted to. They gave her every choice. She never even cared to have a conversation with them. Just gave them silent treatment and ignored their existence. Watch their interviews, it was unbearable and unbelievable what she did to these innocent parents who just lost their son. She's pathetic.
exactly. as per this uncle , rishta bache se tha ma baap se nai tha. Men is always expected to be a provider for life. and in return he cant even have a wife who can take care of his parents. Culture says Kanyadaan and it means something. Definitely a selfish lady.
how pathetic our society ..... she is just 26 uska depression b nhi utra hoga or ye log uspe iljaam laga rahe hai ... or jo log media mai aa k itna bol sakte hai u cant imagine wo ghar pe use kaise bolenge
@@vfouzdar006 yeah exactly my point she is just 26 and prone to depression unlike these 65 plus super strong in laws who only lost their son. They can easily get another son but she wont get any boyfriend or husband.
#darksarcasmforsudofeminists
video start me hi mai samajh gaya ye hagega. mai pehle iske financial advice ke vidoes dekhen hai, aur ye usme bhi bakwwas hi krta tha. aaj iss channel se sponsors ki boo aa rahi hai. ladki ko parents ke saath nahi rehna tha, to shaadi kyu ki? girlfriend bani rehti bs
Dear VFMI team, Very bad choice of panelist He's known for his videos on men bashing. I closed the video once I saw him on the panel.
The issue raised by you is good. This case should be shown in detail but the panelist is a strict no-no for a lot of us.
Just introspect what u both did..
U also hyped to that Saas-Bahu issue in public.
Indian Media has lost its credibility musch earlier, after some time they will get busy with another shit and so the Public.
But u both would have better remain silent on such frivolous issue as it's very insulting to that Martyred. Utterly disappointed with ur discussion.
Voice for men is becoming baised😂😂
Very sad to hear that you are not able to understand the plight of parents . They are more pained by the fact that Smriti has stopped communicating with them . She doesn’t respond to their messages , nos are blocked . Parents look quite progressive and they wouldn’t have gone to the media if she had kept in touch with them. They were helpless and hence were forced to go the media .
It's really simple, make changes in NOK, bring a clause, stating that whether after posthumous if the spouse does not stay with the parents, what should be the division of funds?
Arnaz mam why are you supporting the widow in this case, since she is a defence widow? Do other men not have feelings? Do they not sacrifice in their own way?
The case which you told about the late Mrs. shekhawat, I don't personally support the spouse getting all the benefits either.
It's not about the gender but the person who has lost their lives, their dignity after their death.
I completely agree here. Arnaz should introspect here.
लड़कियों को देखकर लड़का भाग रहा है (before Married matter)😢😢
Both Parents and Wife are in fault,
Wife have no good relationship with Inlaws which is natural as she was just 6 month of marriage, she just left without clearly talking to jlher inlaws and inlaws are stupids to talk almost many other's things then there only demand of there sons 🥇,
Both are wrong
Mai dekha hu.. Aur samjha bhi.. Your point is hamara motto ye nahi ki mahila community ke virudh jana hamara motto hai to bring mens commission and gender neutral laws towards men in india...
But i want to highlight some thing regarding your this video....
Ye aadmi bol raha hai ye ek complete feminist mind set ka hai ye gender neutrality me believe nahi karta.. Isilia isne ye tak bol dia... Ki parents kakoi sacrifice hi nahi hai??? Isilia unhe kya hi mile.... Parents se badhkar koi relationship nahi hota and this you know as well.... Taali kabhi ek haath se nahi bajti.. In this case... (Anshuman jiis case) inhe pese ki requrement nahi hai ye apne bahu ke behavior ke bare me bol rahe hai that how she behaved with them... And truely kirti chakra pe parents ka bhi to hakk banta hai na... Unhe chune tak kyu nahi dia..????
Same way men are saying ki 5 mhaine ki shaadi thi but I don't see y'all getting offensive over that
Like other media, you are also presenting a biased, distorted and incomplete article.
Silence of Widow is also questionable.
Silence also means dignity and respect for departed soul. Everything is not for social media gossip mongers
@@VoiceForMenIndiaokay then why is not responding to his parents even before this debate started?
@@phoenix281287 Exactly. As per the statement of parents, there has been a clear cut silence/non-communication/ non-response from the widow and her mother -father end, since the last few months.
@@phoenix281287may be that an allegation. Are people judge
Mam, you always see the situation from neutral point of view and stand for what is right irrespective of gender. Thats why i follow you and respect you.
Thank you. Only want rational followers here. All extremists who think men & women are commodities should follow other channels
Thank you. Only want rational followers here. All extremists who think men & women are commodities should follow other channels
@@VoiceForMenIndiaArnaz please retrospect and understand what parents are asking for. It's not money which you are trying to hype here.
Disappointed with your stance
And it seems you consider only those as rational who agree with your viewpoint which is wrong.
Introspection needed here.
@@phoenix281287 pls read our final post on this published now. Statement received from Army Official as well. This is not an emotional debate. If one side is defaming the other, they have to come clean on facts
@@VoiceForMenIndia leave this case aside for once and tell me, should the law of giving gallantry award to the spouse change of not to include parents?
In this case you have been pointing that parents have 50% of army insurance etc. ( I believe you have completely misunderstood their point and it's not about money but keeping it aside) but there are many other cases where the parents don't have any other source of income.
Should the law change or not?
Truly a neutral and honest discussion without any biases. Loved it. Although i think in cases where the family is poor, they can be provided more support and amendments can be made in the laws after considering such things.
Thank you and we truly want to cultivate only balanced views here. Men's Rights Activism has been reduced to abusing women daily
@@VoiceForMenIndia wow..such a quick reply. Yes, totally agree with u. It shouldn't be reduced to woman bashing which unfortunately is being done by some men. I personally believe there should be actual equality.
@@VoiceForMenIndia mam maine kya galat bola?? Mai bhi to yahi bola jo isne bola 🥲 samman ghrahan karne me mata pita ka bji hakl hai isme konsi galt baat hai????
@@cornershop9617 there is zero neutrality in this video. The male feminist on the panel is outrageously anti men
@@cornershop9617Nobody is doing women bashing but as a man i am asking that you want to give compensation just for 5 months of marriage. Joo ladki sirif 5 months pahle ayi hai uska hak equal hai uss maa baap jinohne uss ladke koo iss layak banaya. Alimony, maintainance or any kind of compensation should be given according to duration of marriage, financial condition of both the spouses and what is contribution of wife within marriage.
Just a suggestion kindly discuss both problems of men and women. Change the name of your channel to voice of men and women.
So that gender neutrality is followed.
@@anushap4626 she is voicing the perspective of women in the name of men. I am disappointed with this type of video
First ask women commission to rename as women and men commission
@@Battt862 well said
5 month 50%...
what a shame...
Madam be focused over your work for which we respect you....don't put your head into this type of cases also plz don't bring such people over your channel..plz don't repeat this mistake in future.
Y real life h movies nhi....Duniya selfish h yaha husband gya or waha wife uske nam ka hissa leke dusri taraf chali gya to bechara husband or uske parents ka bacha or parents ko utna nhi milega jo wife ko diya gya h 🏅, pension and half compensation...esme bhi parents piche reh gye laws paralyzed handicapped rotten system waahh
This guest has be more balanced..he has strong female follower based so his views are always too biased
These comments reek of untermensch whose personal complaains trumps over empathy. In the past, men did not let their indomitable spirit be defeated. Don't let the fear of material loss scare you. Stand strong, be courageous, and never lose your smile even when you lose everything.
i have seen a sickness in comment section so sorry guys
They only feel happy when women are abused daily. This case has exposed many people's sick mindset of targeting a widow
@VoiceForMenIndia i have no word to defend a that wife from a society and from in law . As society where have we reached . I feel ashmed . Do we forget there such thing called as free will.
Our view about women financial independence and widow remarriage is so backward that I got shocked .
When that parents say if she want I can marry my younger to her . How shameful thinking that parents have . And that only 5 month statement .
Wife: educated, smart , emotional .
Parents : orthodox , toxic regressive mentality .
In law and wife relationship is not good to begin with .
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@@VoiceForMenIndia Please change ur channel name to Voice for Men and Women India
This man will lose many subscribers after this evolved he showed today.
35:06 : Stop with your hypothesis. Talk facts. It's the parents who came to out in the open and started this mess. 35:32 : Of course you won't take sides as you don't want to displease your subscriber base!
He is talking nonsense without understanding the question and point raised.
The simple question is if 50% of parents can be allocated to anyone else then why not the other 50% allocated to the wife?
Everyone must have full control under the law to allocate 100% as per wish. No restrictions.
He is feminist not equalist
Wow! What a pathetic language used by him after 26 minutes. He is justifying my comments.
Both can be wrong bro! Don't take sides blindly. Please bring better guests from here on. 🙏
Let him get "vichlit" and let him have "thanda paani".
You were cool. But please please no people like him.
Also mam... A kind request to you... To please try to collab with some big you tuber.. Or channel so that the true view points of gender neutrality can reach to maximum number of people in this country... Otherwise I have noticed aapke channel pe bahut kam views aate hai... Aur subscribers bhi kam hai..
If any married female officer dies in duty, then does her husband gets all the benefits?
Yes sir. Read Lt Kiran Shekhawat 2015 Case
@@VoiceForMenIndia haha I don't know how you guys changing plates. If women officer dies on duty the husband gets money but in all 100% cases husband gives to wifes parents. You can limit your views only.to.this particular case where parents have another son. Otherwise this discussion has no relevance in other cases. It's daughter in law responsibility to.look after in laws and son in law responsibility to.look after in laws if they don't have another son.
@@Dr.Sathyanadh12parents are only purest, applying that logic the girl should stay with parent only. In common scenario also the new widow goes to her mayka soon as possible and nobody speaks a word or object. Govt should ask her to return the medal to govt and then the govt can give it whomever it wants.
@@Dr.Sathyanadh12no such scenario occurred also in this case the parents are getting money
Thanks for this video.
this amit fello is the BIGGEST FAKE person.
@@ashish31945 male feminist who is scared of his wife. Maybe he seeks permission from his wife even to speak
Very True
@@thecontrarycontrarian4230 Hahah that's so true
Huge respect for this man...the way he has clarity of thoughts... Our country would have progressed so much if half people in our country of his age had thought the way he does 🙏🙏
Lol this man is a hypothetical bigot who shames and slanders men for abandoning traditional norms of the society.
😢😢
Bhai estate thing must need to be true for both men and men, especially men as statics tells truth - widow women with no biological children with rich dead husbands are way higher and they do full enjoyment, aish, fun, fcking and what not
Toh Bikul sufferings hogi tbhi money milega warna nhi ❤️🔥
Tom Cruise (although his sh't scientology are bad) put condition on divorce with 2nd wife that for 5 years she can't openly do public dating as it put bad publicity impression for tom cruise as they have a biological daughter (although he didn't meet her in general) if she wants to the fixed million alimony
Meanwhile nicole Kidman (1st wife) walked away with more than $100 millions (still tom initiated divorce but she never deserved that much free money) with 0 suffering 🤮 even though due to tom cruise influence she was never sexu*lly assaulted by anyone in Hollywood in her early career in entire 1990s as well got big roles and made a carrer out of them
Where the data backing up your statement. She did not knew that her husband will die. Had he been alive she would have risked giving birth for bringing children who would have gotten his surname. Approx 61 women die daily giving birth in India for their husband's love. It's for husband for sure not for baby . This figure of 61 comes from the data that maternal mortality rate in India is 97 per lakh lbirths, and 63000 births happen daily. So if 97 women die per lakh birth, then 61 of them die per 63000 births. Not getting along with in laws do not give the licence of degrading a young women to society. What if she don't have biological child with him she clearly loved him as she dreamt of having one with him. She dreamt of building home with him and all those shattered. She was clearly not knowing that such thing would happen as her husband was a doctor.
This widow is getting hate just for existing. All those allegations are not proved yet.
The founder of voice for men india was loved and supported by men when she was defending men, but the moment she defends a woman she is being bashed by the same men. What do you guys really want, gender neutral laws or legal right to abuse women?
@@Ishufied we want fairness and justice. Is that too much to ask for in this female dominated, gynocentric, hen pecked society? Why is this lady supporting the wife who is taking away all the money, assets and award while leaving nothing to the parents? What do you women want?
100s of videos against anti men laws. But if you can't tolerate alternate opinion we can't stop your hate. You can call out women who are bad with husbands, but demeaning a widow by destiny is really low
@@VoiceForMenIndia exactly my point, there should be laws to defend men against cunning women, but hurling abuses at every woman which exists is not okay especially a widow of a martyr. These men are not really fighting against biased laws against men but they just want an opportunity to bash women.
We must support right, not any gender.
@@Ishufied I think the panel should have been complete if we had someone to present views of parents also. Again, here the parents are father and mother who is a woman.
No, we are not interested in bashing women right left and center as women activist really do.
We want fairness in representation of what parents are trying to say which this video fails to show.
@@VoiceForMenIndiaif you are looking for alternate opinion why not call two panelist to debate on this topic?
One Speaking from the side of the widow and other from parents side?
Seems you have got this completely wrong.
Me isko bhut sunta tha par aaj iska vichr sun ke shock ho gya .i am aloso unfollow this man chanel
devil lies in the detail
No matter what, that question in the thumbnail is very derogatory and undignified
Because a gold digger image of widow has been painted within 2 days across media. Time to put out both side facts. Remember parents have gone for media trial
@@VoiceForMenIndia madam apka emotion trigger ho gya hai, sidhi bat smjhyiye haq aur jimmedari dono sath me aata hai, aurat ka haq hai ki pati ka paisa paye to pati ka jimmedari bhi uska hi jimmedari hoga. Agar jimmedari chor ke sirf haq dikhana sirf paiso pe to use gold digger hi bolte hai. You can't defend it, just an example to simplify, Paisa leke to bhag gyi agar udhari rehta pati pe to udhar ki wasooli uske bap se hi hogi. Lekin madam ko kya matlab. To madam ko koi gold digger paint nhi kar rha hai, madam gold digger hai
Pta nahi log wife vs parents ka discussion kyu kar rhe hai, kaun kitna eligible hai ye swal hi nhi hai. Swal haq ka nhi jimmedari ka hai, bete ke marnoprant sas sasur bahu ki jimmedari urhane ko tayar hai lekin bahu jimmedari se bhag gai hai. Sas sasur dusri shadi bhi karwane ko ready hai aur ye mautarma paisa milte bhag gyi, paisa milne se pehle nhi bhago hai... Isliye bahu mc hai.
@@vatsalanidhi tumhari dadi, nani hogi exploit krne wali, hamne Aisa Aaj Tak nhi dekha. Aur tumhare jaise auraton se jimmedari ka kya expectations rkha jaye, accountability is your kryptonite 🤣
Publicly keh rhe ki 5 mhina ka relation important kaise hua, chudiyan tod ke safed libas me lapet kar. Aur koi uske riste ki izzat nhi unke nazar me to kaisi responsibility nibha rhe ye log. Samaaj ek vidhwa ke rang cheen kar safed libas pehna kar chudiyan todkar ye comparision krne ka besharmi kaise kar leta hai ki biwi ka pyaar jyda ki maa ka?
@@Kaali-cb1ph madam Adam jmane me ji rhi hai ap, ya to apka Ghar parivaar bahut hi wahiyat soch ke sath ji rha hai, yha sholay nhi chal raha hai na hi koi safed livas me jivan bita rha hai. Baki hmara swal sidha sa hai jo ab miss kr gyi, Paisa ka haq hai to jimmedari ka bojh bhi uthana hi padega. Aur agar bhagogi to fir wo din dur nahi ki log sati vyawastha ko smaj apnane lage.
@@hrishant100ye log tmko christian dikh rhe kya
@@Kaali-cb1ph pagal ho kya, ya Bina sir pair ke bat karne ka aadat hai
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