STOP Being TOO NICE and start taking control of your life!

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  • Опубликовано: 1 фев 2025

Комментарии • 68

  • @VijayRagMalimNawar
    @VijayRagMalimNawar 9 дней назад +8

    It's all depands with family circumstances. And why one must sacrifice and being nice to others in the family. When my dad died my elder brother was 17 years old, i was 14 years old, younger was 12 and other younger sisters was 11 and 8 years old. My brother has to take the burden to become as a father figure looking-after brothers and sisters in our family including mum. My brother was extremely kind with us until his last breath of life despite he was married having his own family. He died few years ago. Now i am on my 60's living and staying with own family abroad outside In

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  9 дней назад +1

      Hi sir, thank you for your valuable input. Your brother’s sacrifice is truly admirable, and it’s clear he did a lot for the family. At the same time, I believe it’s important for everyone to find a balance and take care of their own well-being. It’s really nice of you to appreciate his good deeds. But In some cases, when making such sacrifices for the family, it can sometimes lead to others taking advantage, creating a situation where they might feel unable to live their own life fully. That’s why I believe that finding a balance is important.
      Also Sometimes, even in families without such circumstances, there’s an expectation for someone to sacrifice. In such situations, it can lead to a pattern of overly sacrificing for everyone, which can be exhausting.Thank you for sharing your thoughts 😊

  • @mohanbabu.m9844
    @mohanbabu.m9844 3 дня назад +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @uthaya_kumar28
    @uthaya_kumar28 9 дней назад +7

    அருமையான காணொலி சகோதரி 😊. என்னுடைய வேண்டுகோள் நான் 7 ஆண்டுகளாக காதலித்தேன் ஆனால் 3.9.2023 அன்று காதல் தோல்வி அடைந்தேன் .துரோகத்தால் காதல் தோல்வி அடைந்தேன் ( வெற ஒரு பையன் கிடைத்து விட்டான் என்ற கரணித்திட்காக விட்டு சென்றால்). உங்களிடம் ஒரு வேண்டுகோள் துரோகத்தை எவ்வாறு கடந்து செல்வது என்று ஒரு காணொலி வேண்டும். என் வேண்டுகோள்.😢

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  9 дней назад

      Thanks brother.. I’m sorry that you had to go through this. Soon Inthe video upload pandren brother

    • @uthaya_kumar28
      @uthaya_kumar28 9 дней назад +1

      @FinelyShine I am waiting sister

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  8 дней назад

      Sure brother 😊 will upload soon

  • @bunban38
    @bunban38 13 дней назад +5

    I understand that I have been nice way to long and thank you for this video

  • @uniquesha8
    @uniquesha8 4 дня назад +2

    Amazing video angel 😇 great explainations

  • @prakashkanna2736
    @prakashkanna2736 3 дня назад +2

    Enna pathi 8 mins pesuna mari Iruku...😂😂😢😢😢Sirikuratha ella feel pandratha nu terila🙄🙄

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  3 дня назад

      😅 solutions try panni paarunge.. im sure u can change anything and gain back your value.. u deserve to be appreciated and valued 😊✨️

  • @mmb-moviemarkbrothers4410
    @mmb-moviemarkbrothers4410 7 дней назад +2

    I'm now same situation 😢 im addicted in my small age ur right

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  7 дней назад

      Don't worry.. once you know the cause, now you can change it. Start to prioritise yourself 💫

  • @raghulg6155
    @raghulg6155 6 дней назад +1

    Never expected this video to be professional and impressive.. Trust me this video is gonna be the most viewed video of your channel

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  6 дней назад

      That’s really kind of you 😊 thank you 🙏

  • @harishsdr891
    @harishsdr891 7 дней назад +2

    Thanks for this ❤🎉

  • @mercymaran8896
    @mercymaran8896 2 дня назад +1

    Evloo pataluu soranaye vara maatuku mam . But crt ah solringa elame

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  2 дня назад

      Don’t worry. You are capable of changing any situation. Try to use the methods given in the video 😊

  • @tryeverything9498
    @tryeverything9498 8 дней назад +2

    Thank u so much, sister. I recognised it completely. I should follow for my good life. Thank you so much 🙏

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  8 дней назад

      You're most welcome brother 😊

  • @cristalk332
    @cristalk332 10 дней назад +8

    I never thought this video would so impact me and be so helpful to me. I was stuck in that stagnant situation for many years, and I was deeply hurt for many years, but this video just made me realize what I'm doing in my life, where I'm so dumb and blind in many situations. Always, people chose first their own priority, but myself, my priority was others situations, where I myself sacrificed in many ways. I myself am forgiving me for what I have done many years, after seeing this video. Thank you, Angel, and you're really an angel. 🫂💝

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  10 дней назад +3

      Welcome 😊. I’m glad that this video helped you to identify the downfall. You are capable of changing any situation. Just start prioritising yourself and everything else will fall in place ✨you are worthy of self respect ✨

  • @venuprasad7116
    @venuprasad7116 10 дней назад +5

    Am that kind of person am a too too nice person but they didn't appreciate me it really hurts me bad

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  10 дней назад +1

      We have to prioritise our mental and emotional health first, brother. Try applying the methods given. You will adapt to the best things to do and gain back your value 😊✨️❤️

  • @VijayanSuper
    @VijayanSuper 14 дней назад +3

    You have posted a intricating issue in the most refined way to comprehend.
    Sacrificing with no objective & worth is the most deed to be eliminated by everyone today.Though,it might be a casual issue but it's serious.
    Madam Angel,u hve tapped on an vital topic & have constructed meticulously which heighten the way of living.Awesome!
    #SeekProfessionalHelp

  • @CinemaRasigan001
    @CinemaRasigan001 7 дней назад +2

    Akka please continue doing this personal development content 🙏...this is exactly about me sis 😢 kadaisiya sugestion vandinga neenga 💛 thankyou so much akka 💛

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  7 дней назад +1

      Sure brother. I’m glad it helped. Don’t worry. Strong ah irungge. U deserve self respect ✨❤️

  • @theconsigliere5944
    @theconsigliere5944 12 дней назад +2

    You can’t imagine how much of an eye opener this is! Thank you so much ⚡️

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  12 дней назад

      Glad it was helpful. Thank you 😊

    • @theconsigliere5944
      @theconsigliere5944 12 дней назад +1

      Godspeed! 2025 lets goo!
      Wishing you more power⚡️

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  12 дней назад

      Thank you 😊 wishing u all the blessings from the universe ✨

  • @dhanush_639
    @dhanush_639 10 дней назад +4

    Worth to subscribe ❤ 😇

  • @CinemaRasigan001
    @CinemaRasigan001 7 дней назад +2

    Next overthinking pathiyum oru video podunga please akka 😊❤️💛

    • @CinemaRasigan001
      @CinemaRasigan001 7 дней назад +1

      Adh evlo nenachlum nirtha mudiyala akka. Overthinking destroying mine and many students life

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  7 дней назад +1

      Sure brother. Soon upload pandren 😊

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  7 дней назад +1

      Don't worry brother. You can overcome this with practice. I will upload the video soon

  • @eherman810
    @eherman810 7 дней назад +1

    Thank you ❤ neega solltrathu ellam correct na eni try pantra No solli.

  • @dhanush_639
    @dhanush_639 10 дней назад +1

    Love advise ellama individual self development related tips solluga angel

  • @sugasinia2299
    @sugasinia2299 10 дней назад +1

    Your presentation and edits are awesome 🎉

  • @savi9051
    @savi9051 11 дней назад +1

    Super points.Do u give counselling?

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  11 дней назад

      Thank u 😊 I don't give counselling. But I do provide coaching and courses. You can find more information here -> www.finelyshine.com

  • @madhuravi9270
    @madhuravi9270 14 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @revanthn9552
    @revanthn9552 11 дней назад +1

    Good content, it's helpful , thank you 🎉🎉

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  11 дней назад

      Welcome 😊. Glad it was helpful!

  • @Harish00343
    @Harish00343 7 дней назад +1

    Good

  • @MUTHURAMANA-z5d
    @MUTHURAMANA-z5d 9 дней назад +1

    Worthuuuu❤

  • @lakshmananvishwa90
    @lakshmananvishwa90 13 дней назад +2

    Sister neenga intha dress 👗 la romba azhaka irukeinga ❤️ unmaiya 💯 you are beautiful

  • @12ghost1212
    @12ghost1212 11 дней назад +1

    என் ஞானக்கண்ணை திறந்துட்டீங்க தெய்வமே😁😁

  • @smartcricofficial7622
    @smartcricofficial7622 7 дней назад +1

    En character appudiya sollitinga pongo -Introvert.

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  7 дней назад +1

      Introvert rombe powerful trait. You are capable of being strong. I’m glad the video helped 😊

  • @Devil_king_hk
    @Devil_king_hk 11 дней назад +1

    🤩🤩

  • @udayashankar6418
    @udayashankar6418 9 дней назад +1

    NGS da..

    • @FinelyShine
      @FinelyShine  9 дней назад

      Sorry I don't understand. Would you like to elaborate?