@Surbhigandhi99 I losted my mother at the age of 8, facing a lot of taunts,khud ko bhi Shambhala and also managed household responsibilities from a very young age and other struggles also,still done btech from a good state engg college,and nowadays most of the girls do not want to work at home in most of the cases.mother in laws and husband's are so supportive nowadays,girls are totally showing worthless egos.thats it,I prefer a women managing house first then making careers
After reading the comments, I realised how lucky I am. My parents don’t let me do household chores while studying; my mom even brings me food at my study table. Sometimes, I jokingly say my brother not to worry about my studies, saying girls have marriage options. In response, my parents reply me angrily that I can only marry after becoming independent I love you both so much, Mom and Dad!💕
1. don't let marriage stress your study; stand up for yourself for being independent 2. you need to grow with yourself & your actions 3. Put your 100 percent efforts 4. Be independent financially 5. Complete your degree as soon as possible - give them the life they deserve before you get married 6.
Ma'am I'm a CS executive student i watch your 30 days videos daily it motivate me a lot....n there is no one to support me in CS as I have got attempt they think CS krri hai na chal chhod....n as I girl i also want to become financially independent it's a dream bas Jo pasand aaye vo le lo bina price tag dekhe.🎉 thank you so much ma'am 😊❤ for your support 🙏🏻
I m 17 year old girl and preparing for neet. We r from lower middle class family in a small village of bihar and i cant Orford offline choching so i study from pw online . And i am giving my best . I want to fulfil all dreams of my parent because they fight a lot for us . They protect us from our toxic society and relative❤
It's great to see someone like my age and have same condition and courage....hope you definitely chase your dream with 1000% dedication❤️ I am also 17..and started preparing for upsc.😊
.... You guys have aims, dreams where I don't even know about my career.. It might sound cringe lil bit... But I don't know about what my ambitions, dreams, aims are......i dont know what plan god has made for me🙂🙂🙂
@@Tach-yon7cy no worry bro,just work on have some kind of clarity about life by research or give a try to anything you want... it's gonna take time but if you want you can...best of luck bro💌🌱.
Really ....for girls so relatable 😢 ...muze meri mummy bola hai agr jee nhi hua o meri shadi kravadenge😢 becoz hm girls hai...koi more chance nhi deta😢 ...but my dad says ...u try ur best jan mai nhi hua to April mai try kro then nhi hua to second career option hai😢 but Muze iit,nit mai hi jana hai😢 negativity ,anxiety ,sadness ne bhut ghera hua hai muze...but kisike sath share nhi kr skte ...ur videos to motivate mi ..u will do it❤ tnx diii for this makes❤❤
Don't get panic do your study just for you, think God as your friend , do more practice and revision. Jo time hai vo sirf tumhara hai Emotional hoke koi fayada nahi hai, meditate and do chanting for a while for stable mental health jyada soch kar health mat kharab karna . Be at your own best baki aage dekhi jayegi. 😊😊😊😊
soo true and genuine opinion mam being independent is very important nowadays we just can't depend on some one for our needs and have to build our own value
Ma'am your video is truly inspiring. Every girl needs to hear this! Financial independence and standing up for our dreams are so important. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this empowering message! 💖✨
as a boy,i appreciate you maam and salute to ur passion.YOU r doing great and making nyc video for girls.now girls have to prove that.when i used to went my hometown i see that my parents toxic behaviour hits my sister a lot she is also a ca student i tried to convience my parents but still they always saying there is an age limit for girls.whyyyyyyyyyy girls have no rights to make their own carrier by their hands it seems like our society never change their mentallity towards girls.but as a big brother i promise u that i will always defend my sister and making her a CA.i also share ur video which helps to motivate her☺☺🙏🏼🙏🏼
Importantly I'm following my own path because i found out that majority of them write CA exam just to become employee in mnc like a slave but in mnc there's no job security because anytime employee can be laid off and I'm following growth mindset because in real education making mistakes is the way to learn and no one is perfect and i also started to travel like you because it gives me the reality of life outside of school and college and i never prefer employee mindset which is stored in my subconscious mindset 🤗🤗😘😘😘😘😘😘💖💖💖💖💖
I'm in 11th right now and preparing for neet and some times my father used to say that m tujhe bhar padhne nhi Jane dunga jo karna h vo apni hi city m karna or job karungi h to shadi ke baad kar na kyoki ladkiya bhar job karke haat se nikal jati h or ye sunke na mere ask aasu se bhar jate h ki I am sacrificing every thing to make the name of my family and they literally don't care about my feelings and my struggle.
@@flowingenergy7326 han padh liya or jab uske parents job nhi karne denge iska matlab vo nhi kar paegi to fir kya jarurat hai struggle karne ki accha padho shadi Karo fir shayad koi achha insaan mil jae jo support kare
I was 27 and met a road accident which led me sit for 6 months in that phase result came and i passed finals group in nov 19 but unfortunately clock started ticking for me i saw my parents crying to sleep for my marriage as if nothing mattered more .. just imagine putting on weight due to accident then finals dena hai then papa ka shadi ka pressure then i said yes then even worse things happened that broke my self esteem to a point that i dont feel like myself ever again..ristas stared pouring left right centre and many good ristas from well settled doctors iims wete rejected because i was not a ca n then they say sbse ca ni hota.. my confidence shattered..i gave up n just wanted to marry for the sake of marrying because ghar was beyond toxic.. n within a year i got blessed with a baby girl.. now i have given 2 attemps of finals group 2 but its no more the same portion has changed thrice after that n everytime i sit to prepare feeling of defeat overwhems me..m 30 btw
You are right sis. Some people really don't want girls to fly high. Unko ladkiyo ki tarakki se bohut zyada jalan hoti hai. Logo ka kaam hi hai women ko sabana because itne saalo se yahi hota aa raha hai. Time badal gaya circumstance badal gaya lekin log nhi badle. Logo ko whi ourani orthodox thinking hi psnd hai.
I saw your video first time and seriously isse phele tk me khudh ko galat samajh rahi thi ki me sayad sahi nahi hu or baki sab thik bol rahe he now ab lag raha he ki 1st of all me khudh hi khudh ki priority hu thnx didi❤
ty mam for talking about such topic. i pray for success for all my hardworking brothers and sisters. i will comment back after becoming IITian very soon ❤
Simple logic- if an unemployed guy doesn't get married then no unemployed girl should get married either. Marrying while being jobless is signing up for an undignified life and lifelong slavery.
Di mera to 6 years se relationship hai or maine or mere bf ne decide kiya hai ki jab tak hum successful nhi honge shaadi nhi karenge hamari families ko bhi ye baat pata hai or unhe bhi 2-3 saal rukhne mein koi problem nhi hai or mere bf ki family bhi bahut supportive hai or vo bhi.
Thankss dii❤ m neet ki preparation kr rhi , koi ni smjhta apne sahi kaha sb glat hi smjhtee h lekinn mujhe khud pe beleive h ek din m sb thik kr dungi thnkuuuu diii 😌🥹🫂apki voiceee>>>>>🥺❤️🩹
Surbhi ji this is really amazing video thank u so much and lits of blessings to u❤ even im a ca aspirant and moreover i started my journey at an where people generally complete (started ca at 22) im 26 now and still didnt clear my inter but due to direct entry i somehow completed articleship but as u told very few parents are supportive without bringing topic of marriage im glad my parents are those supportive ones till day they never pressurised me regarding marriage but i still have the responsibility of completing the course somehow and give them &myself a good life❤☺️
@Surbhigandhi99 That's really sweet of you thank you so much means a lot 💕and I think there's a solution in your videos for every issue any aspirant is going through and watching them just motivates and brings a clarity😊keep making more such videos❤️
Didi I found your channel today I'm subscribing ❤ Loved the content and the way you said it all I'm currently in high school, but aj bhi agar mai ghar me kabhi bol du ki dekhho agle hafte se exam hai nahi jana kisi ke Birthday party pe ya aur kuch, they start telling me that I'm not social and all. Soch ke bhi kabhi kabhi dar lagta hai ki aj hi ehi hai ajb school me hu iske bad kya hoga.....
Thank goodness, my parents are supporting. I am grateful for having parents who puts me >>> marriage . 🦋❄ Yeah and my partner is also supportive. 💓 My life is sorted. Alhamdulillah ❄❄
.... You guys have aims, dreams where I don't even know about my career.. It might sound cringe lil bit... But I don't know about what my ambitions, dreams, aims are......i dont know what plan god has made for me🙂🙂🙂
I was 19 and had just given law college exams and I opted for law and started interning with my dad along with distractions like chatting with boys on phone which is definitely infatuation in my head like loneliness gets me do that and over that one day I was with my relative and they said Teri bhi sagai karwa denge but I have had no job since I am a college student now I turned 20 and I never got that satisfaction in my life like I am not even focused on studies already distracted because of boys and attraction and then sometimes I think I ewillr each and age where family will tell me to marry so I shall not get distracted but then I feel what am I doing now I decided to approach more competitive exams and try my luck in CA and also have decided tos tart doing part time jobs at a lawyer office to benefit me I don't know what I am doing wrong but I don't want to sit at home
It's a loop of education system jisko age nikaalna bolte hai start doing part time along with studies and aage badhoo similarly my friends also kept studying and all one year junior of mine just sitting at home using phone doing household chores alon with studies ek baar Ghar ke kaam karna shuru karo fir Ghar pe hi rehne ki jimmedaari aane lagti hai
thankyou so much didu aap meri life me kya aaye ki life hi turn ho gyi h mera mindset bhi khud ke liye mere surround aisa koi nhi jo mujhe aise guide kre only you who is my mentor also love you meri pyari dii😘😘😘🥰🥰
hats off to your efforts didi😇 it means a lot to me💖💖💖 your all the videos are helpful to me your videos motivates me when i feel low🤗 and about this video this is amazing 🤩🤩god bless you with lots of happiness and love❤❤
You're just like me🗿 I'm also a girl its been three years i haven't attended any functions and i prepare myself for loneliness now this turn into my solitude I will be a strong independent women then I will get married otherwise i will never get married chz i know the world little bit and its enough for my motivation 💀btw you're such an inspiration of all the teenage girls and womens who tried hard for their future God bless you hope you get all things you love❤
Sissy I am now in 10th class and in February I am giving my boards and after 10th I want to study commerce but I am with very weak economical ground. So I want to ask that do I choose commerce? One thing I want to mention that I love commerce.
Di maine neet ke liy 2drops liy hai par mera selection nhi hua to muze lag rha hai mai pharmacy krr lu par parents fhirse neet hi repeat krneko bolrhe par ab muze dar lagrha hai agr fhirse nhi hua to fhir kya . Toh di kya maine pharmcy Lena chahiy ya nhi
Thank you so much dii . ap or apki bate dono muje bhut ache lagti haii . you are shine like a Wonder. I am very greatful you are my mentor and also I subscriber you channel. Thank you so much
totally agree with you diii i am the same which face the same situation thats why i loves you alot because from you i get only best thing from you loves you alots
You Are The First Jise Mene Apna Inspiration Maana Hai....Jab mujhe kuch maalum nahi tha ki mujhe aage krna kya hai...ban na kya hai...tb I passed 12th exam from pcm...and then I don't want to do btech fir suddenly mene aapki video dekhi thi Is Ca Worth It..waali... And literallyyy diii your every video....your every reel gave me motivation....and reminds me of my goals...of my parents dream....Yesss I'm Yourrr Biggest Fan....I Was Never Be That Much Inspired from any utuber in all those years...bt idk how I literallyy felt everything u say,u do is from heart and that's why it is spreading to all over the world....Surelyy Pass The Foundation In This Attempt...THANKYOUUU FOR ALL THESE VIDEOS...LOVEEEE YOUUUUUU🥺🥺💗💗🧿🧿Abhi to aapki bahut growth hona baaki hai🧿🧿🧿
@@ShubhangiNagotaJain OMGGGG! THANKYOU SO SO MUCHHHH Shubhangi🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️ THIS REALLY MEANS A LOTTTT Big hug to you🧿🧿🧿 I wish you all the happiness and success in the world
Off course I'm also 25 but I'm about to start from foundation there is no restrictions of age in CA if you start CA at age of 25 and clear at 30 almost it's not bad because it will all worth it one day Better late than never don't regret after when you enter in your 30s that I didn't do anything big so start your journey if you really want to achieve it 🔥👍👍
Please bust out the myth ki ca hard hai ya nhi as an average student my parents don't want ki mai ca ki preparation kru 😳 even I am also confused towards my career about what to do after 12th now I am a 12 class students non maths students
My school ex student turned 27 years old and her mom is like uski abhi age ho gyi hai usko thoda Ghar ka kaam karwane bitha dia hai like home science and all and that girl did bcom after 12th then mcom then LLB and when her family told her to get engaged at 22 or 23 she said no and she cleared ca inter while she failed in finals she works with her dad and I called to take advise shall I do CA she recommended no she said try for CS or other internships and I feel she said correct only
Even I am your age law last year course age 20 and my family is telling me I wasted my life and all and I want to go for CA but I got no time because of college exams and my family tells me to keep studying I don't wanna loose in this education system so I decided to go for part time at a lawyer and continue studying
Shadi bhi jaroori h ...samajh aaya....kabhi kabhi kuchh sapne shadi bad pure ho jate h..aur har chiz ka time hota h..ye nhi ki exam clr nhi ho rha h to zindagu bhar dete hi rho..aage badho hi n life me
@SakibKhan-s7j nhi mai ye nhi bol rhi hu ki turant shadi hi kr lo..Mera mtlb ye tha ki aaj ke time pe bs log padhai ke nam pe time pass krte h...gf bf banane ke liye time reht h...lekin shadi krne ke liye career yaad aata h..
Mam ca inter jan 25 attempt de rhi hu itna pressure hai samjh me hi nhi aaraha due to financial crisis main thoda late after graduation start Kiya hai preparation ab age 23 hogyi hai kuch nhi samjh aaraha anxiety ho rhi hai nhi hua to kya hoga arre relatives ka zabardasti ka pressure ke abhi tak beti padh hi rhi hai kya sari Umar padhana hi hai job ka kya hoga and all
Mujhe bhi yeh hi dar lagta hai when I was 19 they said tumhe kya ata hai khana banane Mai and all mei toh law ki padhai kar rhi hu har professional course kliye 26 27 tak padhna hi padta hai lekin yeh education system baccho ko kamana hi nahi sikhata fasa deta hai and upr se agr aap 26 27 ki age mai bhi parents pe depend karte ho toh socho kya fayada padhne ka and habit gharpe bethne ki lag jati hai I bet jitni ladkia hai sab padhte padhte hi shadiyan karleti hai job market mai utar hi nahi paati
dii please di ap batavo na ke ham ca ke sath keya basic exercises kar sakte hai jes health thik oh matlab bovtu advance vala nath jeshe ham na karpay kiyu ki badme study bhi karna hai . thank you di
There are some options 1. Paid Internships 2. Tuition 3. Classes of any skill you know like dance ,singing,yoga etc . 4. Part time editor 5. Content writer 6. Trading ( not for everyone) 7.youtube , content creator 8.call center job
I have One problem generally people at the age off 17 are in 12th or 11th preparing for neet etc just like thaT i was also supposed to be in 11th i am 17 rn but mere 2 saal drop hogaye and im in 9th only that also due to family and place circumstances and as a girl from middle class family who has strict parents i am also said to get married a lil more early than the normal age and i dont want to but they are strict ik i have to do whatever they say they dont value education much so a big problem for me especially in a place where its very hard for a girl to be independent after marriage i also wanted to take commerce simce i dont like science and arts i was thinking of becoming CA but with all of this how can i i am not soo good in science n maths too i dont have interest in any particular subject but i work hard and trust myself? I cant delay marriage too but i dont want to be like other women whos fate is just till washing dishes i have got this taunts even from my own family even the ones who are younger than me have told me tht " i bet at last she has to wash dishes" and i cant say no to tht yes i will wash dishes do my work but also i want to earn i want to be bold but idk why it seems like i can not in this strict family😔
I literally started crying on your last point 😭 Thankyou for making such a wonderful video❤ Soon going to be CA Komal 🙌🏻
How much attempt did you complete??
Please reply
@@soumyadubey770 2
best wishes to u sister.
@Surbhigandhi99 I losted my mother at the age of 8, facing a lot of taunts,khud ko bhi Shambhala and also managed household responsibilities from a very young age and other struggles also,still done btech from a good state engg college,and nowadays most of the girls do not want to work at home in most of the cases.mother in laws and husband's are so supportive nowadays,girls are totally showing worthless egos.thats it,I prefer a women managing house first then making careers
After reading the comments, I realised how lucky I am. My parents don’t let me do household chores while studying; my mom even brings me food at my study table. Sometimes, I jokingly say my brother not to worry about my studies, saying girls have marriage options. In response, my parents reply me angrily that I can only marry after becoming independent I love you both so much, Mom and Dad!💕
Same!
Shaadi ke baad sab karna hoga
I'm 16 years old and I will come back to this comment after becoming a chartered accountant😼❤️
Thanks ma'am
@@DivyaniGupta-n6t 😅
Bro is light
I'm 17 neet aspirent😊
@@hustlingtoberich Yeah his female version 😸 who is born to win at any cost 😾
@@pratibhaMourya-kb7iw Future Doctor 👑❤️
1. don't let marriage stress your study; stand up for yourself for being independent
2. you need to grow with yourself & your actions
3. Put your 100 percent efforts
4. Be independent financially
5. Complete your degree as soon as possible - give them the life they deserve before you get married
6.
Ma'am I'm a CS executive student i watch your 30 days videos daily it motivate me a lot....n there is no one to support me in CS as I have got attempt they think CS krri hai na chal chhod....n as I girl i also want to become financially independent it's a dream bas Jo pasand aaye vo le lo bina price tag dekhe.🎉 thank you so much ma'am 😊❤ for your support 🙏🏻
I'm so glad girls creators are motivating another girls to be financially independent ❤❤❤ loved it.
I m 17 year old girl and preparing for neet. We r from lower middle class family in a small village of bihar and i cant Orford offline choching so i study from pw online . And i am giving my best . I want to fulfil all dreams of my parent because they fight a lot for us . They protect us from our toxic society and relative❤
It's great to see someone like my age and have same condition and courage....hope you definitely chase your dream with 1000% dedication❤️
I am also 17..and started preparing for upsc.😊
Exactly same girl !
.... You guys have aims, dreams where I don't even know about my career.. It might sound cringe lil bit... But I don't know about what my ambitions, dreams, aims are......i dont know what plan god has made for me🙂🙂🙂
@@Tach-yon7cy no worry bro,just work on have some kind of clarity about life by research or give a try to anything you want... it's gonna take time but if you want you can...best of luck bro💌🌱.
Really ....for girls so relatable 😢 ...muze meri mummy bola hai agr jee nhi hua o meri shadi kravadenge😢 becoz hm girls hai...koi more chance nhi deta😢 ...but my dad says ...u try ur best jan mai nhi hua to April mai try kro then nhi hua to second career option hai😢 but Muze iit,nit mai hi jana hai😢 negativity ,anxiety ,sadness ne bhut ghera hua hai muze...but kisike sath share nhi kr skte ...ur videos to motivate mi ..u will do it❤ tnx diii for this makes❤❤
Fir bhi ldke bolenge tumhe to tension hi nh hai 😐
Right💔
Gies focus in your study
Don't get panic do your study just for you, think God as your friend , do more practice and revision. Jo time hai vo sirf tumhara hai
Emotional hoke koi fayada nahi hai, meditate and do chanting for a while for stable mental health jyada soch kar health mat kharab karna .
Be at your own best baki aage dekhi jayegi.
😊😊😊😊
Dear you can do IIT without jee in IIT Madras
soo true and genuine opinion mam being independent is very important nowadays we just can't depend on some one for our needs and have to build our own value
Ma'am your video is truly inspiring. Every girl needs to hear this! Financial independence and standing up for our dreams are so important. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this empowering message! 💖✨
as a boy,i appreciate you maam and salute to ur passion.YOU r doing great and making nyc video for girls.now girls have to prove that.when i used to went my hometown i see that my parents toxic behaviour hits my sister a lot she is also a ca student i tried to convience my parents but still they always saying there is an age limit for girls.whyyyyyyyyyy girls have no rights to make their own carrier by their hands it seems like our society never change their mentallity towards girls.but as a big brother i promise u that i will always defend my sister and making her a CA.i also share ur video which helps to motivate her☺☺🙏🏼🙏🏼
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏
I appreciate you🥺
@@The__Gauri also hoping for ur best future🤗dear sister
@narendrapanwar-dm8mu thannks brother 😌
We need men like you 😢😊❤
Importantly I'm following my own path because i found out that majority of them write CA exam just to become employee in mnc like a slave but in mnc there's no job security because anytime employee can be laid off and I'm following growth mindset because in real education making mistakes is the way to learn and no one is perfect and i also started to travel like you because it gives me the reality of life outside of school and college and i never prefer employee mindset which is stored in my subconscious mindset 🤗🤗😘😘😘😘😘😘💖💖💖💖💖
Job security aapka talent deta hai koi or ni ....
So now what are you doing?
Due to some issues i discontinued CS Executive but definitely I am going to clear CS ❤
I'm in 11th right now and preparing for neet and some times my father used to say that m tujhe bhar padhne nhi Jane dunga jo karna h vo apni hi city m karna or job karungi h to shadi ke baad kar na kyoki ladkiya bhar job karke haat se nikal jati h or ye sunke na mere ask aasu se bhar jate h ki I am sacrificing every thing to make the name of my family and they literally don't care about my feelings and my struggle.
Then don't do this much struggle if you cannot go out and do job.
Same here 😔😔
@@agagamerz0001 bhai padh to le kya likha hai usne
@@flowingenergy7326 han padh liya or jab uske parents job nhi karne denge iska matlab vo nhi kar paegi to fir kya jarurat hai struggle karne ki accha padho shadi Karo fir shayad koi achha insaan mil jae jo support kare
I was 27 and met a road accident which led me sit for 6 months in that phase result came and i passed finals group in nov 19 but unfortunately clock started ticking for me i saw my parents crying to sleep for my marriage as if nothing mattered more .. just imagine putting on weight due to accident then finals dena hai then papa ka shadi ka pressure then i said yes then even worse things happened that broke my self esteem to a point that i dont feel like myself ever again..ristas stared pouring left right centre and many good ristas from well settled doctors iims wete rejected because i was not a ca n then they say sbse ca ni hota.. my confidence shattered..i gave up n just wanted to marry for the sake of marrying because ghar was beyond toxic.. n within a year i got blessed with a baby girl.. now i have given 2 attemps of finals group 2 but its no more the same portion has changed thrice after that n everytime i sit to prepare feeling of defeat overwhems me..m 30 btw
KEEP HUSTLING MAM, YOU CAN DO IT!!
mam i pray for your success ,happy life and more power to you
Keep doing ma'am u will definitely conquer it soon ❤
Suffering is the essence of success . Don't give up.
Thomas Alva Edison failed 1000 time then only he invented bulb light
Truely a MUST WATCH video for every girl...💫
Thank you Universe
Thank you god
Thank you Shiv shambhu
I love you god
A heartfelt gratitude to you that you're trying to making the best version of myself ❤😘 Grateful to your efforts for us ❤🥹💌🥰💗
Really ma'am aapke video ne mujhe ese time par jab bht demotivate,low,scared,etc. feel ho Raha tha tab bht motivate Kiya hai thankyou so much.....
Yes its really difficult after marriage to continue CA
N its so true financial freedom is very imp to live a life in ur own way
You are right sis. Some people really don't want girls to fly high. Unko ladkiyo ki tarakki se bohut zyada jalan hoti hai. Logo ka kaam hi hai women ko sabana because itne saalo se yahi hota aa raha hai. Time badal gaya circumstance badal gaya lekin log nhi badle. Logo ko whi ourani orthodox thinking hi psnd hai.
Thank you Mam !!! So motivational ❤😊 Future CA Anuja !!!!
I am 16 year old and I purchase cs . My only dream company secretary ❤❤❤
May God bless you with CS degree 🩵🫶🏻✨
I'm doing the same course..
i am also doing CS ♥
@@yashfeenbagban7211hello can you tell me i only pass cs executive so can i get training in listed company will they hire me as i only pass executive
I'm 18 years old I want to become a cs ❤
INSHALLAH
WILL DO IT!❤️🥲
Thank you mam for your care and concern for us 😥😥 thankyou for your guidance ❤❤❤❤
her hair looks so glam, wonder if they are natural or extension 🤔
@@ps-gh3hu all real
I saw your video first time and seriously isse phele tk me khudh ko galat samajh rahi thi ki me sayad sahi nahi hu or baki sab thik bol rahe he now ab lag raha he ki 1st of all me khudh hi khudh ki priority hu thnx didi❤
ty mam for talking about such topic. i pray for success for all my hardworking brothers and sisters. i will comment back after becoming IITian very soon ❤
Thank you so much universe Thank you so much shri Krishna
Simple logic- if an unemployed guy doesn't get married then no unemployed girl should get married either.
Marrying while being jobless is signing up for an undignified life and lifelong slavery.
Di mera to 6 years se relationship hai or maine or mere bf ne decide kiya hai ki jab tak hum successful nhi honge shaadi nhi karenge hamari families ko bhi ye baat pata hai or unhe bhi 2-3 saal rukhne mein koi problem nhi hai or mere bf ki family bhi bahut supportive hai or vo bhi.
Di I am company secretary student thanku so much di for this video ❤😊
Heyy.. Which stage of cs are you in?
@akankshadewangan Executive level
Thankss dii❤ m neet ki preparation kr rhi , koi ni smjhta apne sahi kaha sb glat hi smjhtee h lekinn mujhe khud pe beleive h ek din m sb thik kr dungi thnkuuuu diii 😌🥹🫂apki voiceee>>>>>🥺❤️🩹
Thank u didu❤🥹😭 CA🔥
didi theory subject like law ko kaise padha and kaise improvment kaise laya eska related aak video bna do plz
Surbhi ji this is really amazing video thank u so much and lits of blessings to u❤ even im a ca aspirant and moreover i started my journey at an where people generally complete (started ca at 22) im 26 now and still didnt clear my inter but due to direct entry i somehow completed articleship but as u told very few parents are supportive without bringing topic of marriage im glad my parents are those supportive ones till day they never pressurised me regarding marriage but i still have the responsibility of completing the course somehow and give them &myself a good life❤☺️
SO GLAD TO KNOW THIS❤️❤️❤️ ALL THE BEST. Let me know if I could Help you know Any You. Wish you all the success and Happiness 🤗🤗
@Surbhigandhi99 That's really sweet of you thank you so much means a lot 💕and I think there's a solution in your videos for every issue any aspirant is going through and watching them just motivates and brings a clarity😊keep making more such videos❤️
Didi
I found your channel today
I'm subscribing ❤
Loved the content and the way you said it all
I'm currently in high school, but aj bhi agar mai ghar me kabhi bol du ki dekhho agle hafte se exam hai nahi jana kisi ke Birthday party pe ya aur kuch, they start telling me that I'm not social and all.
Soch ke bhi kabhi kabhi dar lagta hai ki aj hi ehi hai ajb school me hu iske bad kya hoga.....
Thank goodness, my parents are supporting. I am grateful for having parents who puts me >>> marriage .
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Yeah and my partner is also supportive.
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My life is sorted. Alhamdulillah ❄❄
thank u for talking about this... thanks a lot for thinking about aspirants like us
.... You guys have aims, dreams where I don't even know about my career.. It might sound cringe lil bit... But I don't know about what my ambitions, dreams, aims are......i dont know what plan god has made for me🙂🙂🙂
Di mai cs ke liye apply kr rhi hu aur aapne jo video banaya hai vo relatable hai.. thank you so much ...❤ Your so great..😊
JAI MAA AADISHAKTI 🔱🕉️🙏🏻🌌 THANK YOU SO MUCH DIDI FOR THIS VIDEO 🙏🏻🕉️🤍🌌GOD BLESS YOU DIDI 🥰🦋🕊️🌺🌷🦚🌈
I was 19 and had just given law college exams and I opted for law and started interning with my dad along with distractions like chatting with boys on phone which is definitely infatuation in my head like loneliness gets me do that and over that one day I was with my relative and they said Teri bhi sagai karwa denge but I have had no job since I am a college student now I turned 20 and I never got that satisfaction in my life like I am not even focused on studies already distracted because of boys and attraction and then sometimes I think I ewillr each and age where family will tell me to marry so I shall not get distracted but then I feel what am I doing now I decided to approach more competitive exams and try my luck in CA and also have decided tos tart doing part time jobs at a lawyer office to benefit me I don't know what I am doing wrong but I don't want to sit at home
Since sitting at home will bring boredom and useless thoughts
It's a loop of education system jisko age nikaalna bolte hai start doing part time along with studies and aage badhoo similarly my friends also kept studying and all one year junior of mine just sitting at home using phone doing household chores alon with studies ek baar Ghar ke kaam karna shuru karo fir Ghar pe hi rehne ki jimmedaari aane lagti hai
Thankyou so much dear dii 💗🌸
thankyou so much didu aap meri life me kya aaye ki life hi turn ho gyi h mera mindset bhi khud ke liye mere surround aisa koi nhi jo mujhe aise guide kre only you who is my mentor also love you meri pyari dii😘😘😘🥰🥰
hats off to your efforts didi😇 it means a lot to me💖💖💖 your all the videos are helpful to me your videos motivates me when i feel low🤗 and about this video this is amazing 🤩🤩god bless you with lots of happiness and love❤❤
You're just like me🗿 I'm also a girl its been three years i haven't attended any functions and i prepare myself for loneliness now this turn into my solitude I will be a strong independent women then I will get married otherwise i will never get married chz i know the world little bit and its enough for my motivation 💀btw you're such an inspiration of all the teenage girls and womens who tried hard for their future God bless you hope you get all things you love❤
thankyou didi😇this is my current situation!
Sissy I am now in 10th class and in February I am giving my boards and after 10th I want to study commerce but I am with very weak economical ground. So I want to ask that do I choose commerce? One thing I want to mention that I love commerce.
Mam keep uploading such type of motivational video
Thankyou so much di ❤ thanks for making such a wonderful video 😊 your video are very motivated 😭 Your the best di 😊apki jasi sister sabko Mila ❤
Thank You Di❤ Each and Every Advices you gave are really very important.. Thank You for motivating.. Soon to take a Selfie With You as a CA❤
Mam sachii apne mujhe bhut motivate kiya...
Thank you so much ,well said 🥰
Thank you didi for reminding me....❤❤ Video sach mai bana
Didi I also want to become a chartered account.... ❤❤
Inspired by you ✨💜
Mostly needed this videoo
Di maine neet ke liy 2drops liy hai par mera selection nhi hua to muze lag rha hai mai pharmacy krr lu par parents fhirse neet hi repeat krneko bolrhe par ab muze dar lagrha hai agr fhirse nhi hua to fhir kya . Toh di kya maine pharmcy Lena chahiy ya nhi
Pharmacy le lo aur uspe hi focus karo jab neet ka exam paas aa jayega tab de dena hua to theek nhi hua to theek
@riddhimaplayz ha par parents nhi man rhe na😇 o repeat hi bolrhe unka kehna hai pharmcy mai jyada jobs nhi hai
Drop le le km age h to. Sath me bsc nursing ka entrance bhi de dena
Thank you so much dii . ap or apki bate dono muje bhut ache lagti haii . you are shine like a Wonder. I am very greatful you are my mentor and also I subscriber you channel. Thank you so much
They say girl life is easy they dont need to do jobs and they can live with their parents
totally agree with you diii
i am the same which face the same situation
thats why i loves you alot because from you i get only best thing from you
loves you alots
Thank you so much ❤ ma'am keep it up 😊 you are really a good person ❤
thank you for the subtitles sis
that line '"ziddi hoga dil toh mil jygi manzil'" made my day🥰🥰
Yess you are right
Mere parents bhi 12th class se hi bahut piche pade the mere
Thank you mam please esi tahar muje support karna muje bhi koy c.a ke leye support nahi karte thankyou 😊❤❤ didi
I'm very Inspiring
Thank you so much mam❤
Maam me apke sare vidoes ko relate kr pa rhi hu .... ❤
You Are The First Jise Mene Apna Inspiration Maana Hai....Jab mujhe kuch maalum nahi tha ki mujhe aage krna kya hai...ban na kya hai...tb I passed 12th exam from pcm...and then I don't want to do btech fir suddenly mene aapki video dekhi thi Is Ca Worth It..waali... And literallyyy diii your every video....your every reel gave me motivation....and reminds me of my goals...of my parents dream....Yesss I'm Yourrr Biggest Fan....I Was Never Be That Much Inspired from any utuber in all those years...bt idk how I literallyy felt everything u say,u do is from heart and that's why it is spreading to all over the world....Surelyy Pass The Foundation In This Attempt...THANKYOUUU FOR ALL THESE VIDEOS...LOVEEEE YOUUUUUU🥺🥺💗💗🧿🧿Abhi to aapki bahut growth hona baaki hai🧿🧿🧿
@@ShubhangiNagotaJain OMGGGG! THANKYOU SO SO MUCHHHH Shubhangi🥹🥹🥹❤️❤️ THIS REALLY MEANS A LOTTTT Big hug to you🧿🧿🧿 I wish you all the happiness and success in the world
@Surbhigandhi99 I'm Literallyyy Cryingggg😭💗💗💗💗🫂🫂🫂🫂
Hi i am married with 2kids doing ca final i am in situation
Really proud of u ❤🎉 keep it up
Thankyou ❤dee for this motivation
Very 🎉🎉 nice video.
Thankyou very much 😊
For the video
Mam I am 25 now kya main kr Shakti hu please guide me
Off course I'm also 25 but I'm about to start from foundation there is no restrictions of age in CA if you start CA at age of 25 and clear at 30 almost it's not bad because it will all worth it one day
Better late than never don't regret after when you enter in your 30s that I didn't do anything big so start your journey if you really want to achieve it 🔥👍👍
@littlestepSKA thank you 😊
@littlestepSKA actually I am preparing cma inter
@bhaktirawool4686 then also OK go ahead 🔥
@@bhaktirawool4686 👍
I am 26 and stuck in inter
Please bust out the myth ki ca hard hai ya nhi as an average student my parents don't want ki mai ca ki preparation kru 😳 even I am also confused towards my career about what to do after 12th now I am a 12 class students non maths students
I will do everything for them shadi se phele bhi or baad bhii
Thx you diii for motivation 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤
My school ex student turned 27 years old and her mom is like uski abhi age ho gyi hai usko thoda Ghar ka kaam karwane bitha dia hai like home science and all and that girl did bcom after 12th then mcom then LLB and when her family told her to get engaged at 22 or 23 she said no and she cleared ca inter while she failed in finals she works with her dad and I called to take advise shall I do CA she recommended no she said try for CS or other internships and I feel she said correct only
Thank you so much ma'am 💛🙏
Soon to be DR.PARI SHIVHARE
Mam my age age 21 I m very confused go for ca or govt job preparation pls suggest I m bcom last year student 😢
Even I am your age law last year course age 20 and my family is telling me I wasted my life and all and I want to go for CA but I got no time because of college exams and my family tells me to keep studying I don't wanna loose in this education system so I decided to go for part time at a lawyer and continue studying
Any boy is here who watched whole video 😂
Please do a video student ko taiyari k waqt ky ky dekhna chahiye bore lagne par....
you are so sweeet and cute also didu❤❤❤❤
didi, video ki thumbnail aap hi bnaate ho kya ? bs aise hi puch lia
Mam kya mai ca foundation ke liye registration kar skti hu last date 23 November ka haii or mai sath hi graduation kar rhi hu
U r great diii ❤❤
Shadi bhi jaroori h ...samajh aaya....kabhi kabhi kuchh sapne shadi bad pure ho jate h..aur har chiz ka time hota h..ye nhi ki exam clr nhi ho rha h to zindagu bhar dete hi rho..aage badho hi n life me
It's your point of view...har koi tumhari trh nhi sochta....if you want to get married to kr skti ho
@SakibKhan-s7j nhi mai ye nhi bol rhi hu ki turant shadi hi kr lo..Mera mtlb ye tha ki aaj ke time pe bs log padhai ke nam pe time pass krte h...gf bf banane ke liye time reht h...lekin shadi krne ke liye career yaad aata h..
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Tum kr lo na nikah kon mana kr raha hai jitna krna hai Karo jab krna hai Karo
Sabka apna apna soch hota hai
Tumne khud apne comment me KABHI KABHI likha hai. Dekh lo.
Shadi ke bad pati ne bola khud kamao aur Khao kya karogi
Mam ca inter jan 25 attempt de rhi hu itna pressure hai samjh me hi nhi aaraha due to financial crisis main thoda late after graduation start Kiya hai preparation ab age 23 hogyi hai kuch nhi samjh aaraha anxiety ho rhi hai nhi hua to kya hoga arre relatives ka zabardasti ka pressure ke abhi tak beti padh hi rhi hai kya sari Umar padhana hi hai job ka kya hoga and all
Mujhe bhi yeh hi dar lagta hai when I was 19 they said tumhe kya ata hai khana banane Mai and all mei toh law ki padhai kar rhi hu har professional course kliye 26 27 tak padhna hi padta hai lekin yeh education system baccho ko kamana hi nahi sikhata fasa deta hai and upr se agr aap 26 27 ki age mai bhi parents pe depend karte ho toh socho kya fayada padhne ka and habit gharpe bethne ki lag jati hai I bet jitni ladkia hai sab padhte padhte hi shadiyan karleti hai job market mai utar hi nahi paati
Aur koi aur distraction aagya toh aur fas jaati hai jaise koi ladka pasand agya toh
Ha toh beta 23 is not too old either r get a part time job with studies handle karna aa jayega
I'm 22 in last year of college...nd I want to become data analyst
Love it ❤
I want to do mba and bba with us cma kya yeih good combination hai 😅 please didi reply me 🤞
Same 😢😢
dii please di ap batavo na ke ham ca ke sath keya basic exercises kar sakte hai jes health thik oh matlab bovtu advance vala nath jeshe ham na karpay kiyu ki badme study bhi karna hai . thank you di
Thank you di❤
Thank u so much mam❤
It’s made me cry
Maam study ke sath kya kam kr skte he jo thoda bhot decent earning ho ske plz make video on this ..
There are some options
1. Paid Internships
2. Tuition
3. Classes of any skill you know like dance ,singing,yoga etc .
4. Part time editor
5. Content writer
6. Trading ( not for everyone)
7.youtube , content creator
8.call center job
I have One problem generally people at the age off 17 are in 12th or 11th preparing for neet etc just like thaT i was also supposed to be in 11th i am 17 rn but mere 2 saal drop hogaye and im in 9th only that also due to family and place circumstances and as a girl from middle class family who has strict parents i am also said to get married a lil more early than the normal age and i dont want to but they are strict ik i have to do whatever they say they dont value education much so a big problem for me especially in a place where its very hard for a girl to be independent after marriage i also wanted to take commerce simce i dont like science and arts i was thinking of becoming CA but with all of this how can i i am not soo good in science n maths too i dont have interest in any particular subject but i work hard and trust myself? I cant delay marriage too but i dont want to be like other women whos fate is just till washing dishes i have got this taunts even from my own family even the ones who are younger than me have told me tht " i bet at last she has to wash dishes" and i cant say no to tht yes i will wash dishes do my work but also i want to earn i want to be bold but idk why it seems like i can not in this strict family😔
I am a boy ,can I see this?
Yes, boys k liye to very important video 😀
@@ABCXYZA1011 Why?
Thankyou 😊