First girl was so nice and patient with Mark. Clearly knew it wasn't a good fit, but could tell he had some pain and wanted to help before she left. Even ejected herself in kind manner. Gentle button press, calm, settled tone of voice, didn't rush through explaining why they weren't a good fit just to get out of there faster... With everyone calling themselves an "empath" these days, cool to actually see one lol. 10/10 nice person.
Sure but honestly its a pretty lame series when it doesn't matter what they say; the people who go on a second date are always attractive people. Like if two people are good looking they are going on a 2nd date.
Personally I believe my expectations have been met for every contestant on the Button today. This was one of the only The Buttons where no one's an outright loser and forces their beliefs on someone else (aside from the Astrology lady). Really enjoyed people's reactions of this so I came to watch it a second time!
@@juvialoxar1987 in what setting, poor lad probably isn't even talking to women, it does get progressively harder once you're out of school/uni. And people your age get progressively "taken" 😂 I don't think it's that bad of a setting, he might end up meeting someone in the halls or something like that, not specifically on the seat.
Lol would save a lot of time and we’d see more pairings, but sadly I feel the majority on both sides would all have the same standard look type that only a couple on both sides probably match.
Mark seems to have severe social anxiety. It's a tough mental health issue to overcome and people often do not understand what the patient is going through. However, I hope that he succeeds ❤
It's because they want people to think they're bad so they'll eliminate themselves. Neither this version or the "normal" version of the button have people acting truthfully.
Jennifer guessing both men's signs correctly based on minimal information was impressive but I think her choice in her guy was not good. She knows he has an ego, he admits to not being trusting and calls girls like her “witch bitches” in a derogatory way. He's clearly willing to make an exception because she's attraction. Didn't like this pairing at all.
I think this speaks more into the attraction of dark triad personality ( bad boy) that many women find attractive than anything. It's like this current trend of toxic relationships still is prevalent
@@joshuataylor3550 eh. most people are born in the late summer time (july-august) due to people partnering up more in the fall/winter as it gets colder and people are going outside less. Or in mid winter (november/december) due to the same reasons (still cold in march winter starting to end and people hooking up more) so its like a 1 in 4 chance when guessing for most people (im completely bullshitting but it makes sense in my head)
I'm not even 2 mins in but Jasmine seems like an amazing and kind person. Her reactions and responses were so respectful and open-minded, and she really balanced out the awkwardness. Beautiful woman.
Oh god, I see why Mark has never had a date. He says the worse things that are also sometimes offensive. He also, continuously makes a face like he is "disgusted". He's simply too awkward and uncomfortable and it shows a LOT.
Looks. Spencer is not ugly but also not conventionally attractive. The last guy that the zodiac girl paired with was an awful match. She was better with spencer but the last guy was her physical preference. I would prefer to go on a date with Spencer as im attracted to his talent, friendly social skills, and clearly an inte guy.
I love the lack of competitiveness that comes with them having to reject themselves. They seem to be slightly more likely to give each other a chance haha or at least hear the other person out
Personally I believe my expectations have been met for every contestant on the Button today. This was one of the only The Buttons where no one's an outright loser and forces their beliefs on someone else. Really enjoyed people's reactions of this so I came to watch it a second time!
I love it when they get to reject themselves. Much better outcomes with this rule. Less room for pretence and just straight up decisions about the person in front of them. ❤ it!! More of this please
the interesting thing is that when they reject someone else by pressing the button, they go into the next date feeling powerful. When they get rejected and immediately have to go on another date, you get a lot less cockiness.
awww i feel bad for the first guy, i wish his family and job were ok. that would make him a lot happier and his smile/face kinda wants to make me cry for some reason 😢😭❤️
Started watching this and a few older episodes. The button to reject yourself is the best change to the show. It was actually mentioned from the comments in an old episode. Kudos. This format makes ppl think about why, instead of the button being buzzer and everyone tried to beat each other at pushing it.
honestly for someone with his lack of experience/social issues he did extremely well imo. Got some neurodivergent vibes from him, but it was still pretty smooth and straightforward.
Spencer seems like a great guy, but he's giving funny best friend vibes. He almost has too much charisma and is a little too high energy lol. Slowing down a bit and staying calm on a date allows sexual tension to build, if it's going to.
Did you see how her face changed when he didn't want to decide where they should go for a meal? I agree that a lot of these matches probably don't meet after the show.
Imo, this goes to show that the first episode where they tried it and everyone hated this style of rejection really depended on the people who were on it. I liked this episode a lot for its gentle honesty that a lot of the people showed even before they pressed the button to let themselves out, and even two people hit the button at the same time. If there aren't people who try to play games instead of searching for a relationship, then it works extremely well. Plus, Spencer has my whole heart - I'd sing while you play piano :)
the button should do a behind the scenes where they show the parts of the videos they removed and label it button uncut , i think that’d be really cool !
You go girl, she was upfront about wanting initiative, and those are 2 things that is lacking in this world currently. People meaning what they say, and saying what they mean, and initiative/intentionality.
I like the zodiac girl. She knows exactly what she wants and how to communicate it. For example, you can tell she wants a man to take initiative and lead. Plus she seems fun.
y’all gotta realize mark might be autistic or just awkward/nervous and unaware of social norms, i don’t think any of his off color comments were intentional or reflective of bad character, give him some compassion :(
@@mochimochi6357 He’s not an incel, he’s clearly very gentle and respectful. He is a man who appreciates cleanness and he’s honest about himself even if it doesn’t benefit him. Just because he’s in a hard place mentally because of his family , job and probably other things doesn’t mean that it takes away his worth. If anything, your comment looks like an incel who feeds off negativity and spends their whole day on the internet wrote it
10:36 That was so great of her to let him go first because she gave him the courage and did NOT disappoint him ToT so adorable! I totally relate to him tho I've never been cheated on (never dated💀), and I need that!! She's rlly the best
i find it interesting that people have "family oriented" as a deal breaker. Most people don't choose to not get along with their families, but everyone has the right to set whatever standards they want for a relationship ig, even if it's something the other can't control
this should be the format! reject yourself so it doesn't turn into a 'who pushes the button faster' competition Spencer was so lovely and approachable, I'm sure he'll find someone who'll appreciate him fast 🥰 and my unsolicited advice to Mark is - talk to women more, even the ones you're not interested in romantically, and maybe avoid telling them they're 'too old' or whatever it may be, you're supposed to make people feel good about themselves when they are talking to you, not vice versa.
i really want them to do an episode where the people waiting in the back can watch the current date on a screen so they see and hear what the people said before as well and we can see everyone’s reactions
I'm a little confused about the second woman. She must've thought that pressing the button would kick out the other person, because why would she try to beat Mark to it if he was rejecting himself? He's doing the job for you silly
Jasmine was so sweet and patient and she handled the awkwardness of the date pretty well
Jasmin with no E, but thats my bestie!!
@@katieherrera8915 shut your mouth
This is such an awkward button episode
@@katieherrera8915 whats her insta
Hard agree. Jasmin seems like a dope ass person. Hope she gets to come back.
First girl was so nice and patient with Mark. Clearly knew it wasn't a good fit, but could tell he had some pain and wanted to help before she left. Even ejected herself in kind manner. Gentle button press, calm, settled tone of voice, didn't rush through explaining why they weren't a good fit just to get out of there faster...
With everyone calling themselves an "empath" these days, cool to actually see one lol. 10/10 nice person.
This!!
Yeah she is a true sweetheart!
And she didn't need to call herself an empath to show it.
She's a true class act
First girl was honestly such a vibe. loved her for that
I think this concept is SO MUCH BETTER than the regular button
we actually get valuable conversations out of it
Better in that it's more productive for the people on the show, but less entertaining to watch overall (at least imo).
Yes! And I'm thrilled I was the 1000th liker of this comment 😂🎉
Everyone was commenting that they wanted this version, I'm so glad they switched it
Sure but honestly its a pretty lame series when it doesn't matter what they say; the people who go on a second date are always attractive people. Like if two people are good looking they are going on a 2nd date.
Respect for Mark stepping out of his comfort zone and being honest
We need a video with Jennifer guessing people's signs in a lineup. And a video of her explaining how she guesses so well.
I would love to see that
Yes
YES!!
Man, I was amazed
@@iamme25yagoSlow much? did you watch the video at all?
Oh my god Spencer seems so nice, he's so outgoing and personable, I'm confident he is going to find someone perfect for him before long
Nah fr he seemed so sweet 😢 I feel bad for him ngl but I hope he meets someone out there
He's gonna end up with a baddie. Mark my words, lol.
A baddie that cheats on him relentlessly maybe. Dudes a simp with not an ounce of masculinity
Nah I don’t like him THAT much😨
Someone who is outgoing and personable like he was, will struggle to focus on one person. Double-edged sword in that sense.
thank you for letting them reject themself
indeed. allows for honest rejections. not just reject to scroll
Lmfao exactly 😂
@@mikkahoppe8636 yeah seems like asexual lol
it's a lot more genuine!
Yeeeees finally 🎉
Spencer is just dripping charisma out his pores. We must protect that man at all cost.
Jennifer is a gem, I would love to see her in more videos.
i love spencer man
Jennifer is the type of girl I need.
Does anyone know his TikTok @?
Personally I believe my expectations have been met for every contestant on the Button today. This was one of the only The Buttons where no one's an outright loser and forces their beliefs on someone else (aside from the Astrology lady). Really enjoyed people's reactions of this so I came to watch it a second time!
@@worldblazin4209 There was a whole ass religious fanatic that forces her beliefs on other people and you decided to fixate on the astrology girl?
"i did shower today"
"thank you"
spencer was wholesome af 😭 i loved his energy
First guy was not prepared for this 😭
AT ALL 😂😂
It's good for him though to break him out of his shell, they should bring him back just to see if he starts improving
@@oftheHowl This was a good comment. I agree
@@juvialoxar1987 in what setting, poor lad probably isn't even talking to women, it does get progressively harder once you're out of school/uni. And people your age get progressively "taken" 😂 I don't think it's that bad of a setting, he might end up meeting someone in the halls or something like that, not specifically on the seat.
"Oh God"
The Button really knows how to make things extra awkward 👍
It's a talent really.
Im convinced that’s it’s only job 😂
This version is SO MUCH MORE AWKWARD!
@@khalilahd. ikr what’s up with all the awkward whiffs and handholding lmao
It was quite uncomfortable to hear the buttons comments on this episode, it felt pushy in the wrong direction.. >__
There should be an episode where they set each other up with their "type" appearance-wise and try to focus solely on chemistry.
Commenting to help engagement because hard agree
They would just say yes without any chemistry lolll
Lol would save a lot of time and we’d see more pairings, but sadly I feel the majority on both sides would all have the same standard look type that only a couple on both sides probably match.
This definitely would be an interesting one and I'm for it (definitely commenting like the above said for engagement)!!
Nah that would be too controversial imo. Could result in ppl being matched up by race or some shit
jasmin stole my attention. she is sooo pretty, soft, and also family-oriented. i feel like she is wife material. please invite her again next time 😍
so not feminist
Chill aint nobody gonna like u incel
@@myaisheree???
Women of faith often exude those qualities when looking for a partner! You are absolutely right, she was very caring for Mark!
Mark seems to have severe social anxiety. It's a tough mental health issue to overcome and people often do not understand what the patient is going through. However, I hope that he succeeds ❤
Don't feel sorry for him, this's coming from someone who was socially anxious.
@@naufalmEZaI have severe anxiety too but I do not understand, what’s your reasoning for saying this?
People are so much more unfiltered when it they have to reject themselves. I love it.
Right 😂😂
I honestly love this concept better
exactly, it's way better!!
Omg mEe too. I noticed that. Cute out all the small talk lol
It's because they want people to think they're bad so they'll eliminate themselves. Neither this version or the "normal" version of the button have people acting truthfully.
Jennifer guessing both men's signs correctly based on minimal information was impressive but I think her choice in her guy was not good. She knows he has an ego, he admits to not being trusting and calls girls like her “witch bitches” in a derogatory way. He's clearly willing to make an exception because she's attraction. Didn't like this pairing at all.
THIS THIS THIS!!!
I was thinking the exact same thing
Wtf is your yt name
I agree, but I think homegirl knows what to do..I think she's just giving the date a shot.
I think this speaks more into the attraction of dark triad personality ( bad boy) that many women find attractive than anything. It's like this current trend of toxic relationships still is prevalent
Jasmin is a true gem. What a wonderful person. She handled that beautifully.
jasmin handled that so well, good for her for being so understanding
Mark is literally me if my friends hadn’t forced me to go outside and socialize
Love you Mark, good luck out there👍
Spencer stole my lil heart within seconds 😩 Seems like a down to earth dude
Literally, I love funny men😭
Gabriella, you're gorgeous!
@@iamReddington You’re too kind, thank you! :)
I know right!
@@justbeelleyeah this spencer dude seems cool fr fr
that girl guessing the signs twice in a row is so impressive
and i‘m a gemini and could relate so much lol
I don’t even believe in that stuff but I gotta admit that was cool lol
1 in 12 shot.
@@joshuataylor3550 that would be for one guess. two guesses in a row = 1/12 * 1/12 shot = 1/144 shot
@@joshuataylor3550 eh. most people are born in the late summer time (july-august) due to people partnering up more in the fall/winter as it gets colder and people are going outside less. Or in mid winter (november/december) due to the same reasons (still cold in march winter starting to end and people hooking up more) so its like a 1 in 4 chance when guessing for most people (im completely bullshitting but it makes sense in my head)
I'm not even 2 mins in but Jasmine seems like an amazing and kind person. Her reactions and responses were so respectful and open-minded, and she really balanced out the awkwardness. Beautiful woman.
"Definitely not my family or my job."
😂😂😂😂
First lady was so sweet about everything, tbh she was so nice
"Are you attracted to me?"
"Yeah. Tf"
I love that 😂
I’d fold immediately if someone said that to me
@@aH5oAAJv2BPyPwYKOQ9g no one asked and no one cares
@@neutralGuy777 no one asked and no one cares
@@jayyy1677 stop copying clown🤡
@@jayyy1677no one asked and no one cares
Spencer has so much charisma, I could definitely feel the wiz 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
The first girls was so gentle with him, honestly couldn't be my, props to her
The first girl had such an admirable personality! I hope to present myself so sweet like that
It was so much more calm now that they rejected themselves, they actually talked about who would stay instead of just rush in. Loved that
Spencer deserved a match fr 😭😂 I can tell his personality is hilarious and he's cute too, he's just nervous lol
Spencer was such a good sport, love his vibe😂
4:15 - his social fuel was depleted
He really had the nerve to say she looks old 😭
She does tho
Low key incel
@@talaiar.533 doesn’t make it any less rude? You can definitely approach topics with respect for other people and their feelings.
@@talaiar.533 he does too😂
Still shook at this 😭😭
This shows being attractive is super important. No matter how rude your are , if you're attractive,you a winner.
I really liked Spencer! Had such a great personality and conversationalist!
This is way better than people rejecting the other! Just keep it this way from now on!
They've had this before and it was one of the most toxic episodes. This round just happened to have a lot of nice people
everyone seemed more honest or relaxed with this rather than the regular version. the vibes were so much better over all
Oh god, I see why Mark has never had a date. He says the worse things that are also sometimes offensive. He also, continuously makes a face like he is "disgusted". He's simply too awkward and uncomfortable and it shows a LOT.
Poor Spencer has god tier rizz, is in good shape, well dressed and has a ton of cool hobbies but just isn’t that good looking. Poor dude.
"Looks don't matter. Just be yourself and be confident" 😂
Spencer deserved better 😭he was funny and interesting idk what they were looking for 🤣
Looks. Spencer is not ugly but also not conventionally attractive. The last guy that the zodiac girl paired with was an awful match. She was better with spencer but the last guy was her physical preference. I would prefer to go on a date with Spencer as im attracted to his talent, friendly social skills, and clearly an inte guy.
Jennifer is the only person I’ve EVER seen guess someone’s zodiac first try … and TWICE😳 she’s really a wizard
I met a girl once who could guess and it was insane.
most people guess mine right first time tbh
I love the lack of competitiveness that comes with them having to reject themselves. They seem to be slightly more likely to give each other a chance haha or at least hear the other person out
jasmine is the sweetest. such a kind, kind soul. i know she’ll find the one soon!
Spencer would be an ideal first date
You could try doing a 50/50 chance of rejecting yourself or your date! Would be interesting too!
OOH THAT SOUNDS REALLY COOL
Great idea
Personally I believe my expectations have been met for every contestant on the Button today. This was one of the only The Buttons where no one's an outright loser and forces their beliefs on someone else. Really enjoyed people's reactions of this so I came to watch it a second time!
I love it when they get to reject themselves. Much better outcomes with this rule. Less room for pretence and just straight up decisions about the person in front of them. ❤ it!! More of this please
Jennifer & Spencer were so cute together 😭❤ He was instantly nervous & fidgety when he saw her. Wish they had paired.
The first girl was so kind, I loved her vibes
“I just want to get out of here” 😂
the interesting thing is that when they reject someone else by pressing the button, they go into the next date feeling powerful. When they get rejected and immediately have to go on another date, you get a lot less cockiness.
beautiful observation!
You explained it perfectly!
Dude got friendzoned so many times 😭 he deserved better
awww i feel bad for the first guy, i wish his family and job were ok. that would make him a lot happier and his smile/face kinda wants to make me cry for some reason 😢😭❤️
Started watching this and a few older episodes. The button to reject yourself is the best change to the show. It was actually mentioned from the comments in an old episode. Kudos. This format makes ppl think about why, instead of the button being buzzer and everyone tried to beat each other at pushing it.
bro spencer is a joy of a human
They really found the most awkward guy on the planet to start this episode with.
Just like me Fr
Props to him for putting himself out of his comfort zone. Who wasn't awkward when they started out dating?
😂😂😂
honestly for someone with his lack of experience/social issues he did extremely well imo. Got some neurodivergent vibes from him, but it was still pretty smooth and straightforward.
Bring Jennifer back to guess everyone’s signs lol that was impressive
Spencer has so much charisma, I wanna have a conversation with him fr
Spencer seems like a great guy, but he's giving funny best friend vibes. He almost has too much charisma and is a little too high energy lol. Slowing down a bit and staying calm on a date allows sexual tension to build, if it's going to.
this is waaaaaaaaay better. when they got to reject the other, there is just a rush to see who rejects first, like it is a competition.
I'm only 2 minutes in but goddamn Mark you have to at least try lmao, he's so depressing
exactly 😭😭 he wasnt bringing anything into the convo
Please don't stigmatise depression.
@@joshuataylor3550snowflake?
@@swaggerstudiosofficial2219not a snowflake lmao
Not everyone is that good with people, he's definitely trying
Jennifer looked like she didn't like him but still said yes. I don't think a lot of these matches even meet after the show lol
Did you see how her face changed when he didn't want to decide where they should go for a meal? I agree that a lot of these matches probably don't meet after the show.
i was trying to clean but now im sitting on my bedroom floor watching yet another speed dating video
that happens every time lol
Lmfaoo they get me every time too 🤷🏽♀️
Everyone dies
Omggg meee rn hahhaha
@@joshuataylor3550 way to spoil it josh
Spencer is it. Very interesting and socially smart, love him.
When they say "feel friendship", they mean you're physically lacking. lmaoo
Imo, this goes to show that the first episode where they tried it and everyone hated this style of rejection really depended on the people who were on it. I liked this episode a lot for its gentle honesty that a lot of the people showed even before they pressed the button to let themselves out, and even two people hit the button at the same time. If there aren't people who try to play games instead of searching for a relationship, then it works extremely well. Plus, Spencer has my whole heart - I'd sing while you play piano :)
I loved Jasmin! Definitely seems like she’s super sweet and very open minded.
They need to do a follow-up episode of all the past matches to see how they held up together
10:28 she put her hands under the table, and he also did.
that could be a sign of love! (copying actions)
the button should do a behind the scenes where they show the parts of the videos they removed and label it button uncut , i think that’d be really cool !
BRO, poor mark I wish that man all the luck.
We need a follow up/“where are they now”for all the people that go on dates from The Button
Both Jasmine and Spencer were amazing people. Wow. Wish they would've gotten to meet each other.
We did after filming!
@@Jasminlrr Oh awesome! Just wanted to say, you looked like a beautiful person inside and out, and I hope you find someone soon!
Thank you so much for your kindness! Haven’t found anyone yet but still looking (:
@@Jasminlrrcan i get the ig? 😭
@@Jayden-hb3rsare u fr 💀
They should do this more often! Btw I would date Spencer just because his personality is amazing!
Spencer was so wholesome!
PLEASE BRING BACK SPENCER he deserves to find someone here, he's so kind and funny
You go girl, she was upfront about wanting initiative, and those are 2 things that is lacking in this world currently. People meaning what they say, and saying what they mean, and initiative/intentionality.
I like the zodiac girl. She knows exactly what she wants and how to communicate it. For example, you can tell she wants a man to take initiative and lead. Plus she seems fun.
y’all gotta realize mark might be autistic or just awkward/nervous and unaware of social norms, i don’t think any of his off color comments were intentional or reflective of bad character, give him some compassion :(
He’s an incel
Naa I thought the same ; at the least we can say he could use some help understanding societal cues
@@mochimochi6357 you know calling another man names like that doesn't make you more of a stud . 😅 Hahahaha
@@mochimochi6357 He’s not an incel, he’s clearly very gentle and respectful. He is a man who appreciates cleanness and he’s honest about himself even if it doesn’t benefit him. Just because he’s in a hard place mentally because of his family , job and probably other things doesn’t mean that it takes away his worth. If anything, your comment looks like an incel who feeds off negativity and spends their whole day on the internet wrote it
why does everyone also pseudo diagnose people with autism cuz they act a bit awkward? my god
1:08
- "I did shower today"
- "Thank you"
😂
😂😂
I can watch the last girl guess people's astrology signs all day! She's good.
10:36 That was so great of her to let him go first because she gave him the courage and did NOT disappoint him ToT so adorable! I totally relate to him tho I've never been cheated on (never dated💀), and I need that!! She's rlly the best
i find it interesting that people have "family oriented" as a deal breaker. Most people don't choose to not get along with their families, but everyone has the right to set whatever standards they want for a relationship ig, even if it's something the other can't control
I like Spencer. He was so kind!
I adore the first girl omg 😭
Love the self rejection concept!
this should be the format! reject yourself so it doesn't turn into a 'who pushes the button faster' competition
Spencer was so lovely and approachable, I'm sure he'll find someone who'll appreciate him fast 🥰
and my unsolicited advice to Mark is - talk to women more, even the ones you're not interested in romantically, and maybe avoid telling them they're 'too old' or whatever it may be, you're supposed to make people feel good about themselves when they are talking to you, not vice versa.
spencer is so cute omg why are people rejecting themsleves 😭😭
I absolutely loved Spencer! He seems so genuine and sweet’
i really want them to do an episode where the people waiting in the back can watch the current date on a screen so they see and hear what the people said before as well and we can see everyone’s reactions
Spencer is so sweet 😭
Now this concept is MUCH better. The earlier one had too many narcissists on a role to buzz the opposite person off.
I'm a little confused about the second woman. She must've thought that pressing the button would kick out the other person, because why would she try to beat Mark to it if he was rejecting himself? He's doing the job for you silly
All this astrology talk and we never found out her sign. Smh
Imma go ahead and guess Cancer. Final answer.
I said Taurus or Libra but I’m really bad at guessing sun signs so I might be wrong or guessing her rising/moon.
@@Wraiven22 I second that. Hope she answers! 😂
spencer was great - loved his energy
Jasmine was super sweet to mark when she could’ve be hard on him
That’s nice of her to be so kind
Zodiac girl, Jennifer, deserves her own show on here guessing ppls zodiacs
She should sign up for Jubilee's lineup, she has an audition tape now 😂
she has such show hostess energy frrr
luck
Right!
Yess @Cut please make it happen
Mark's rizz probably goes crazy if this was taking place on his Discord server and the girls had anime pfps.
Mark doesn't seem like a really unattractive guy or whatever, hopefully one day he finds his perfect partner!
he is very unattractive tf r u saying 💀
👀
You date him
He is handsome actually. He looks like harry styles
@@cnachopchopnewsagency what 💀
I loved spencer he was so sweet
Jasmine was really sweet