How To Get Him To Ask You Out (Even If He's Shy Or Introverted)

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  • Опубликовано: 19 ноя 2024

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  • @HelenaHartCoaching
    @HelenaHartCoaching  3 года назад +2

    Check out the description of this video to get Rebecca Boatman's course, "Manifest Your Evolved Man: How To Meet And Attract Your Dream Guy In A Single Weekend, No Matter Where You Live” (if you click on the title of this video, it will open up the description). ❤️

    • @Gauntlet1985
      @Gauntlet1985 3 года назад

      Oh my word! I love Rebecca's upbeat personality and she's a stunner! Is she single Helena? set me up! :D

    • @Megz129
      @Megz129 11 месяцев назад

      Q3³12a​@@Gauntlet1985

  • @walkinbeauty574
    @walkinbeauty574 5 лет назад +11

    Okay ladies. Here's my story.
    I saw a very handsome sweet kind looking man at church one time, and during church time, he looked across at me and had a lil smile and yes, he looked for a good 3 seconds! Then after church was over, everyone usually shake hands and when it was his turn to shake my hand, he had that same but just a little more smile on him again, and for another 3 good seconds! And I never had the guts to go up to him and chat, and vice versa. To this day, I don't know who he is, and something about that 3 second smile gave me some hope. Anyway. That's my story. I still think about him but Idk what to say or do if I ever saw him again. I'm more of a gal who keeps to herself. ❤️🌹🤔😊

    • @RebeccaBoatman
      @RebeccaBoatman 5 лет назад +3

      Walk In Beauty hey love bug!!:)
      Awwww this is so awesome!! I totally understand wanting to keep to yourself ;) are you open to being courageous and telling him “id love for someone like you to take me out;)”

    • @ringrinka
      @ringrinka Год назад +1

      its almost same with me! but i quickly divert my eyes from him n cant smile wide due to my shyness. i need to practicing the smile n 3s stare. not just for him but any good man! coz i have sex abuse (several case/person) trauma, now am afraid with eyes of man who look me as woman. i need get rid of that trauma first. But actually, if the man come and talk bout something i can receive it better. i can give good response n be open. yes as long as i dont have to look his eyes.

  • @ashleyf450
    @ashleyf450 5 лет назад +2

    Helena, thank you so much for this video. It’s exactly what I needed to hear. And Rebecca is adorable ❤️ please have her on again!!! 😬

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад +1

      I’m so glad this was helpful! Yes, Rebecca is awesome! 💕

  • @lambo2655
    @lambo2655 Месяц назад

    We need the modern day version of the dropped handkerchief routine.

  • @sandradaeschler6620
    @sandradaeschler6620 5 лет назад +3

    I watched the video Helena about "asking a guy out" Lol..I will try it and hopefully come back here to let you know what happaned!! Thank you much 😊😉

  • @maggie2617
    @maggie2617 5 лет назад +5

    1:57 I feel so seen! 😂💖

  • @Missnidski
    @Missnidski 5 лет назад +3

    Great tips from this video. On an aside note Rebecca has beautiful nails!

  • @lambo2655
    @lambo2655 4 месяца назад

    I'm 59 with average looks 5'9" and always been very shy around women. Still single, never had a GF and dated very little. I would pose quite a test to the ladies to get me out of my shell.

  • @jaeldiaz1834
    @jaeldiaz1834 3 года назад +1

    Thank you very much...I love your tips😘❤❤

  • @MrsAnaelimont
    @MrsAnaelimont 5 лет назад +1

    How about if it's a guy I met online and he texts me everday and shows interest but it's been a week and he hasnt straight up said...."let's met up" but keeps implying things like "when we meet up..."

    • @RebeccaBoatman
      @RebeccaBoatman 5 лет назад +2

      ILEANA Montoya hi love, you can say “I look forward to meeting you in person.” Allow him to make the plans. Continue to talk to other men and stay available to other great men ;)

    • @MrsAnaelimont
      @MrsAnaelimont 5 лет назад +1

      @@RebeccaBoatman I am definitely talking to other guys and going on dates with them but this new guy has me curious. Your response was perfect!!! I'll use that one with any future guys I meet online who are acting more like penpals than an interested potential date. thanks!

    • @ericabassi7728
      @ericabassi7728 5 лет назад

      Pin him down on one day and time and if he misses it let him know that didn't make you feel very nice and wait to see what he does next.

  • @cinnflowergirl
    @cinnflowergirl 5 лет назад +2

    Hi, thank you for this. Amazing stuff! Loving Rebecca's energy. I have had great first dates and at the end of the date I'm sure they like me and say they want to see me again. I am not sure if they thought I didn't like them that much. I know I can tend to be stoic. I am trying to be more outwardly warm and smiley. I think I am going to use some of what you said to check in with them and if I don't get a response I'll take that as I misread the situation. It has been a week and a half from the first date. Not sure about timing. I'm totally a newbie to dating. (I was married or in a relationship since I was a teen.)

    • @HelenaHartCoaching
      @HelenaHartCoaching  5 лет назад

      You're welcome, we'd love to hear how this goes for you!

    • @cinnflowergirl
      @cinnflowergirl 5 лет назад +1

      @@HelenaHartCoaching I got like five texts from him. He wasn't ready for a serious relationship before. I appreciate the honesty. I just it go. I'm going to do the same with another man who seems similar. I just went on a date with a nice man, who is smart and dynamic but now keeps texting me things like, "just ask me anything" or seems bothered if I don't text him back immediately. I'm feeling a little insecurity and neediness. But I'll say something if it continues. It's an adventure. Lol. Thanks!

  • @DiaN-do3jm
    @DiaN-do3jm 5 лет назад

    i'm in school and spring break is in late march and i would love to hang out with my crush if he's free. would asking if he is free masculine energy? we usually spend time at school before class starts but i would like to get to spend time outside of class. we're both introverted but he seems more extroverted than i am sometimes.

    • @DiaN-do3jm
      @DiaN-do3jm 5 лет назад +1

      @Rebecca Boatman It's an indirect way of saying I'd like to spend time with you if you are free by asking are you free . thank you