The way the mother said “wait you left her outside downstairs ?? No let’s go get her “ & ran downstairs to welcome her MELANTED queen👸🏾daughter in law was so beautiful…. Litterally brought tears to my eyes 😭💕
Erica is so beautiful! I feel so sorry how the father treated her. He is embarrassed for his son to be seen with someone with darker skin and that is really terrible. This girl is not only beautiful, but kind and gentle. This guy is very lucky to have her!
As a black woman, my daughter wouldn't be meeting anyone's parents alone for the first time without her parents being present!!! That slum s__t she walked into, and the dad has the nerve to act like she's not good enough, really? Having her change everything about her appearance was embarrassing!!! It's definitely a no for me dealing with racist people!! No excuses!!!😂😎
This is how it is, unfortunately. We can pretend, but the Chinese don't like Africans even in their country. Seems the younger generation loves us and is more open. I pray all this hate would go away.
@@stacytrowell6890 The audacity! And her house in Africa was way nicer than his parent's little apartment. When he zoomed in on her nose while his dad was clowning her on the phone about the nose ring was disrespectful to me! Why would he even do that to this girl.... Couldn't pay me enough to tolerate any part of this foolishness and disrespect!!
A changing world? Change isn't always good. Imagine if Africa is changed by a million Chinese settlers. Blacks generally wouldn't want to lose their racial identity. I myself am a Spaniard who married a dark Khmer from Cambodia. The light-skinned Asians said she resembled an African. My wife was poisoned with feminism, and betrayed me, always lying, and was violent against me, so I put her in her place and divorced her. Asian women are not all traditional even when they look traditional AKA submissive and feminine.
I’m a Chinese woman and I’m ashamed to see you being treated like that. I don’t mean to be rude but Erica you need to leave this man. He expects you to carry your own luggage and know his culture when you don’t even speak his language? I lost it when he told his mum to ignore you?! I cannot believe you came all the way to China for this man. Erica, please leave him. He is just using you for views. Tbh I clicked on this video because of your beautiful face. Don’t let him take advantage of you girl! Leave him right now!! The internet prays for your safety and wellbeing. Go Erica 💪
Mom raised her son well. I can see where he gets it from! shes so open minded and sweet 🥺 His dad however is a peice of work. I know in asian cultures they want to save face and worried about what others will say but how your child feels should be all that matters.
Asian cultures are worried about marrying beneath you he is far beneath her his family live in Ia slum! He is far beneath her, she should value herself more she is a stunning beautiful cultured girl!
His Dad is just worried about what people will say, he’s not worried and doesn’t care if that’s what makes his son happy. As a black girl I’m so happy for the love his mother showed to her
Saving face is essential in Asian culture, especially in provincial areas. Correct the father is not exhibiting racial or cultural discrimination on his own accord.
You can't blame the father. He has his own values and preferences. It's not smart to force yourself on other races. Also, just because the mother is smiling and courteous doesn't mean she likes you. Some people are good at pretending.
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Can you guys imagine what it feels like for the world to have the reaction of the dad and it be actually common . Imagine having to be open minded to be accepted in most of their world
How scary to be in another country and culture and experience this. Not everyone is global minded. Erica is brave, and Panda handled himself well. He must have had quite the chat with Erica’s father.
Brave is an understatement. He didn’t even bother to prepare her for what to say, how to dress, behave or greet his family. He was too busy chasing clout if the situation blew up, which he knew it would. The only hero in this situation was his mother and the young lady for staying calm. Although she didn’t really have a choice not understanding the language or customs. His mothers welcoming grace saved the day. If I was that girl I wouldn’t just walk, but run to the nearest taxi to the airport and away from there and him if I’m being honest. This entire relationship is about views and exploitation for the sake of making money on social media. 🤦🏽♀️
@@jaeshasway I agree. I wish she would start her own channel. I would be interested in the content. This is a lesson for us all to run not walk, today not tomorrow. Never prolong suffering.
What a pretty girl 🥰 thankfully Mom is not concerned with the neighbors ❤ I love Mom ❤ I am thankful that I am strong enough to accept all God's people. What a blessing 🙌
The sadness on this beautiful lady’s face broke my heart. What a GORGEOUS WOMAN! And so sweet too. She was obviously nervous & tried so hard to appear unaffected by the rude father’s actions & words. The mother was very sweet to her- but the son (friend) did not seem to take her feelings seriously. If I were her- I would leave THEM ALL behind & start over. This sweet girl is going to get hurt by this toxic family.
Being a mother instinct to see her prodigal son comes back with loving and warm welcome as a sign of missing her son for a long time. Blessing for her.
I’m a Jamaican woman who has a background of Chinese grandparents and growing up in Jamaica we never experienced anything like this and my country is mixed with so many different races. It surprises me that different races treat black people like crap or there embarrass of us.. why can’t we all just live together peacefully as human beings.. this planet is done for good
His dad is just a shitty person, they are people like that unfortunately, but remembrer about those like me who don't see colors when it comes to skin.it's not about the culture or tradition, it's about the personality, if someone is bad then racism happens. Culture or age is not an excuse for anything. There's no excuse for the dad, his just a bad person
Trust my girl as a Brown Jamaican of European and Black and a little admixture of Taino, Jamaica has prejudice also. I and other minority Jamaicans ( Brown, White, Indian, Chinese) have been treated unfairly regularly based on our appearance and complexion- this isn't rampant though. I remember one day a fishmonger told us , " she naw serve no Brown people " . We also pay higher prices at market, they say its tax. Also some Brown, Chinese and White families don't want no African son or daughter in law. Some Black Jamaicans don't want any Brown, Chinese or Indian as an inlaw either. Just to be clear, this is not as bad like other countries. The big exception to that is if the person has money and Middle class and up!
❤️Your mother was so gracious. As an African woman, it is unfortunate that even if you are kind, beautiful, intelligent, and capable; that this is still a reaction we have to deal with.😢 But your mother saved the day.
Why should blacks force to be where they aren't accepted,we are the only desperate group always looking for acceptance and validation from people who don't like and want you
I am proud of Panda for taking Erica to visit his parents. She is such a beautiful person and is good for Panda, I have so much respect for his mother. She was very warm and beautiful, and she welcomed her son and Erica into their home . It's unfortunate that his dad has not caught the present time , 2023. He could have at least been polite and shown some respect. I also have even a greater respect for Panda for sticking by Erica. She is a good young lady and good for Panda. I hope he will not be discouraged by his father. Thank goodness his mother is standing up for Erica and her son. She truly has the love of God in her. Stay strong, you guys. I will be watching and praying for you guys.
I’m so proud of my color black. No matter how other humans race think or see me . I know who I am😊 imagine in all colors of race black is the unique color in the world I thank God all mighty for my color 😊😊❤ I love myself like I love everyone else ❤
@@zihengfeizhoushenghuo ...your mother is not only beautiful but she is warm, gracious, kind, civilized and from GOOD stock! I send her many hugs ((((Panda's mom))))
This man has inherited some of his dads behavior like when her girl asks her a question he doesn't answer it straight away and they even got in the car without telling the girl where they were going ...
If you understood chinese like me you would know that there are a lot of english words he doesnt know..He is different from his father. He doesnt know how to say register at the police station.. You got it wrong because of language barrier
@@DancingDeity Am sorry but the keyboard warrior is always Alfa and Omega, and seems to know the beginning and the end for himself. Am sorry but if you are intelligence as you seems to put words, why don't you understand that they learnt both language for them to get to this stage of communication and will definitely scale to be better. I advice you search the meaning of improvement and taking step. I don't mean to be harsh but they are better than a keyboard warrior that is afraid to take bold step
Hellow. As a Tanzanian I believe your Dady will understand well other people's culture, it's ok, even our African parents sometimes behave that way. But we love them.
Someone’s FAMILY doesn’t always represent them. Some Asian men wouldn’t dare let a black woman near their family. This says a lot… he tried. He can’t control the actions of his father.
Your absolutely Right!! He can't control his father's actions!! His father should know how to control his own actions!! After all he is a Adult!! What is it about us Black People that scares Chinese people so bad!!@@alexf9447
When Ziheng visited Erica’s family he was received graciously by her family, and attracted 1 million viewers. And when Ziheng brought Erica to his parent, his father was angry and disgusted and stormed out the house. But his mother was so nice and glad to see her son home and welcomed Erica. Here in western countries and also America, the racism is common, especially involving family’s member.But in China????????The people here in Europe and also in America are curious abut this matter. I was not surprised at all, that this episode attracted over one millions viewers ( 1,2 million ). But Thank God, Ziheng’s father has softened, and his attitude changed for the better. I have to give Ziheng thumb 👍up for protecting Erica, and stand by her. I nearly shed tears when Erica wanted to go back to Tanzania and cried pitifully. 😢
@@reeeeeeeeee4364 My point is why do people even talk about her skin in the first place, as if something that is different from white skin comes out of extraordinary, as if there is something wrong.
Your mum is amazing, loving, beautiful. I'm Nigerian and my family is made up of people from the diverse tribes of Nigeria and Africa and I'm really proud of them.
“look at that hair- does it look Chinese?” “ did you see that that snail in her nose-does it look Chinese?” no- hangs up😂 as an Dutch Ethiopian i died. He is convinced that that is enough reason to view and treat someone with such a contempt. When in reality, all that it proofs is that he’s afraid of change and new things. Change of their reputation since there is such thing as “losing face” in China. Thanks for sharing this video! We have a long way to go
As an African American man, looking at her: JACK-FUCKING-POT!!! She is gorgeous as hell! Traditional families are used to being homogenous with the overall look and such, so the dad's reaction doesn't surprise me. What does sueprise me is how much he cares about the neighbors' opinion about something that shouldn't affect them. I swear most American men would be jealous.
Erica is so beautiful! What an amazing glow she has! It is so hard when parents won't accept their child's wish to be happy. So happy that his mother is so warm and welcoming.
I agree with everything that you said up to the point when you said that Africa always had Chinese blood in them, in the early years. No, it is the other way around.
Your mom is amazing so sweet kindhearted and beautiful 💕Nice to see she welcomed Erika with open arms. Your dad is very old fashioned, but many dads are. It's very important for the older generation how their friends, neighbors think and what they say. The dress code is very important as well more conservative to make a good first impression. Give him some time to process and your mom is the key she will talk to him. It might take a while, but it will be fine. Don't worry. Good luck to you both 🍀
@@EduruChan mf you got to be stupid to think this isn't racism bffr theirs racist people in every country not just in the US stop trying to defend that mf
Your mum is so kind, she really has a mum's heart. And I hope you too stay strong because that cultural difference can built a huge hole in your relationship. I wish to Erica to find support and people on who she can rely on
I love Your Mums attitude, she raised You very well. You are so good ur self. We love n treat people from China very well here in Uganda. Isaac from Uganda
Erica est si douce et si jolie, ça me peine pour elle. Vous formez un couple magnifique, imposez vous, les personnes qui vous aiment finiront par l'accepter sinon tant pis pour elles. La maman est adorable aussi. Plein de bonheur pour vous, soyez heureux❤️🙏🍀
I love how his mother is so welcoming to her❤ she’s a beautiful mum and a beautiful human being. May The Good Lord bless this young couple especially if they marry🙏🙏🙏
Zihdeng your mother is a beautiful kindhearted lady. Thank God she is able to accept Erica so she can feel at ease and not so scared meeting your parents for the first time!
Ziheng, you are so lucky to have a kind hearted mom. Your dad still conservative, but I believe your mom can convince him. Stay safe, healthy and happy with Erica and your beloved family. 👍🏻🙏🏻😍
When the open saw bossy Zehing his mom in door way greeting with open arms at first I thought his sister,mom look young and very open mind person and she like Erica and gave some of her clothes for Erica to try, but dad thats very different story, not very happy with bossy Zehing brings Erica back home to meet the family,I don't know why he so upset, Erica not dating bossy Zehing and just friend,dad needs calm down and respect foriegn guess,mom is very friendly and cool except Erica open arms so fast as friend ❤
The father has a typical Chinaman conservative attitude. Seems very unreasonable but typical of the average Chinese father. The only person who can appease him is his wife. Why do think after 2,000 years of civilisation and 150 years of occupation by foreigners the population of China is still over 90% Han Chinese. If Erica wants to remain with Ziheng she has to adapt to the ways of traditional Chinese values. It's up to Ziheng to explain to Erica about filial piety in Chinese family. Then again how serious is the relationship between Ziheng and Erica. It would be interesting to see how much Erica would be prepared to sacrifice just to be with Ziheng. She is 23 but still behaves like a 15 year old. Still an interesting storyline.
Panda, I have to tell you that your Erika is so beautiful and you are such a wonderful guy. You and Erica are the perfect couple. Your parents should be proud of you.
Very interesting and raw. As an African myself if I did anything similar my father would have a similar reaction. To add more to it, he would mainly try to argue some points too. I think you're really courageous. Also hopefully she learns more Chinese. Of course you learn some of her language as well.
Your mom is beautiful and dress nicely. Mom tries her best to make the african feel welcime. May God bless your mom. Take your father around the world to see different cultures.
I have put a pause on every conversation to understand all the conversations, now Erica has been identified, the children of Erica and Ziheng will be cute because all his parents are beautiful ❤️ ❤️ God took his time to create them well 😍🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
Wow wow wow this is so very transparent. I am so proud of you for bringing her home to meet your family. You are a good man no matter how your father feels 🇬🇧🙏🏽👵🏽
His dad is Conservative and we cant change the thinking of older generation but Erika omg you are such a pretty young lady , your facial features are gorgeous 💗 💖 love from India😊😊
The way the mother said “wait you left her outside downstairs ?? No let’s go get her “ & ran downstairs to welcome her MELANTED queen👸🏾daughter in law was so beautiful…. Litterally brought tears to my eyes 😭💕
Hmm sick. Hope he gets tested due to statistics on health.
Is she an actress or is she his real girlfriend ?
Is this video fake ?
Possibly and Possibly she was too embarrassed for the neighbours to see lol
Ypu must jave missed the real essence of the video. She's not welcomed.
You melanated so called kweens need to stop deluding urselves.
that's NOT her daughter-in-law, it's her boyfriend's lovely mother who, UNLIKE his father, is not a racist.
Erica is so beautiful! I feel so sorry how the father treated her. He is embarrassed for his son to be seen with someone with darker skin and that is really terrible. This girl is not only beautiful, but kind and gentle. This guy is very lucky to have her!
His girlfriend is stunning.
As a black woman, my daughter wouldn't be meeting anyone's parents alone for the first time without her parents being present!!! That slum s__t she walked into, and the dad has the nerve to act like she's not good enough, really? Having her change everything about her appearance was embarrassing!!! It's definitely a no for me dealing with racist people!! No excuses!!!😂😎
This is how it is, unfortunately. We can pretend, but the Chinese don't like Africans even in their country. Seems the younger generation loves us and is more open. I pray all this hate would go away.
@@stacytrowell6890 The audacity! And her house in Africa was way nicer than his parent's little apartment. When he zoomed in on her nose while his dad was clowning her on the phone about the nose ring was disrespectful to me! Why would he even do that to this girl.... Couldn't pay me enough to tolerate any part of this foolishness and disrespect!!
@@ccc4102 She is gorgeous and deserves way better than this!
His mom looks like she could be his sister! She is such a beautiful soul. His dad is so hard hearted and fighting against a changing world.
@@sandrafernandez3839 this show is addictive though. I hope it plays out for the best.
A changing world? Change isn't always good. Imagine if Africa is changed by a million Chinese settlers. Blacks generally wouldn't want to lose their racial identity. I myself am a Spaniard who married a dark Khmer from Cambodia. The light-skinned Asians said she resembled an African. My wife was poisoned with feminism, and betrayed me, always lying, and was violent against me, so I put her in her place and divorced her. Asian women are not all traditional even when they look traditional AKA submissive and feminine.
@@48mavemiss2這個父親...活在過去，在中國有很多這種人，有一種“優越感”...無知的一群😊
@@SiGa-i1r … you literally telling the West Indian and first Gen American black woman about colonialization? Lmao, but go off.
@@48mavemiss2 You ignored my point. And you're playing the victim card. Blacks sold blacks to Europeans.
I’m a Chinese woman and I’m ashamed to see you being treated like that. I don’t mean to be rude but Erica you need to leave this man. He expects you to carry your own luggage and know his culture when you don’t even speak his language? I lost it when he told his mum to ignore you?! I cannot believe you came all the way to China for this man. Erica, please leave him. He is just using you for views. Tbh I clicked on this video because of your beautiful face. Don’t let him take advantage of you girl! Leave him right now!! The internet prays for your safety and wellbeing. Go Erica 💪
Honestly, that's what I was thinking! I'm glad I'm not the only one it's so obvious he's doing this for views
He never told her to ignore her. He made a joke that his mother was ignoring him giving all the attention to the girl.
Is that a more accurate translation overall? Because I was thinking "smh...boys are boys all over the world".
I thought exactly! A pretty girl treated like trash
It always starts like this. Girl is strong will deal with that in no time
Mom raised her son well. I can see where he gets it from! shes so open minded and sweet 🥺 His dad however is a peice of work. I know in asian cultures they want to save face and worried about what others will say but how your child feels should be all that matters.
Facts are more important than feelings which is why racism is dumb. See "IQ is stupid and racist" by SCINTILLAM DEI.
That's in every culture, afrocans do the same thing too.
Asian cultures are worried about marrying beneath you he is far beneath her his family live in Ia slum! He is far beneath her, she should value herself more she is a stunning beautiful cultured girl!
@@SnacckyChanT and she still stayed lol
@@knerri6839 ofc she did. Shes with her love and not with his family lol
All I can say as a Nigerian is that your mum is lovely, beautiful and adorable
❤❤❤
you dont have to be Nigerian to say it
@@RumbidzaiSibanda-u9r 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣right!!
@@RumbidzaiSibanda-u9rRight!!
Exactly
Dude what yall to know where he's from that all, peace
Father is LICKY to have such a beautiful black princess in his family. She is top level beauty
Definitely not the majority of Chinese people's beauty standard, for sure
@@ytytlee4560 I need to say, she is very beautiful to me.
She is absolutely gorgeous...
@@ytytlee4560Because racism is part of their culture
@@melbee5767 she’s ok
She is cute .. ❤ they make a cute couple ..and his mom is a sweetheart . The world is full of Blasian love ..😂
We create beautiful couples and families. We should embrace each other more often.
His Dad is just worried about what people will say, he’s not worried and doesn’t care if that’s what makes his son happy. As a black girl I’m so happy for the love his mother showed to her
Saving face is essential in Asian culture, especially in provincial areas. Correct the father is not exhibiting racial or cultural discrimination on his own accord.
how i wish my dad can watch this video also, he still dont want to approve my girlfriend
Error :.... Amongst "other" cultures!
You can't blame the father. He has his own values and preferences. It's not smart to force yourself on other races. Also, just because the mother is smiling and courteous doesn't mean she likes you. Some people are good at pretending.
You have a nice girl, but wearing that hair is not good for meeting your family.
Barbie look is fake Image.
Mom is very open minded. I’m happy to see her so happy around Erica.
Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned, and have broken God’s law (The Ten Commandments). Wrong doing deserves justice and must be punished (just like how a criminal has to pay for the crime they have committed) but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God in flesh, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by dying on the cross and resurrecting, so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace, you must repent of your sins and put your faith in Jesus Christ and Bible says that His Blood will cover all of your sins, you will be forgiven, saved from eternal punishment, and be given everlasting life. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Turn away from sin, read the Bible, pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!
Can you guys imagine what it feels like for the world to have the reaction of the dad and it be actually common . Imagine having to be open minded to be accepted in most of their world
How scary to be in another country and culture and experience this. Not everyone is global minded. Erica is brave, and Panda handled himself well. He must have had quite the chat with Erica’s father.
@@KBI7 Thank you for your input. Now, slink on back to the cave you crawled out from...
Brave is an understatement. He didn’t even bother to prepare her for what to say, how to dress, behave or greet his family. He was too busy chasing clout if the situation blew up, which he knew it would. The only hero in this situation was his mother and the young lady for staying calm. Although she didn’t really have a choice not understanding the language or customs. His mothers welcoming grace saved the day. If I was that girl I wouldn’t just walk, but run to the nearest taxi to the airport and away from there and him if I’m being honest. This entire relationship is about views and exploitation for the sake of making money on social media. 🤦🏽♀️
@@jaeshasway I agree. I wish she would start her own channel. I would be interested in the content. This is a lesson for us all to run not walk, today not tomorrow. Never prolong suffering.
No she is not brave. She is a call girl. She deserves everything she gets. She is a disgrace to Africa selling herself to those animals.
Exactly@@jaeshasway
What a pretty girl 🥰 thankfully Mom is not concerned with the neighbors ❤ I love Mom ❤ I am thankful that I am strong enough to accept all God's people. What a blessing 🙌
The sadness on this beautiful lady’s face broke my heart. What a GORGEOUS WOMAN! And so sweet too. She was obviously nervous & tried so hard to appear unaffected by the rude father’s actions & words.
The mother was very sweet to her- but the son (friend) did not seem to take her feelings seriously.
If I were her- I would leave THEM ALL behind & start over.
This sweet girl is going to get hurt by this toxic family.
She's beautiful she better going back home 🏡
The young lady is a gem, and I wish her tge happiness that she deserves.
You've got to realise that behaviour of humans hating skin colour is of ages and it takes times to actually adjust and swallow that pride
The son doesn’t care for her. He’s just using her and her pain for clickbait.
I agree. The son used her for views. Disgusting 🤮
Your mother is truly a beautiful, graceful and warm woman. You should be proud of her. Greetings from Indonesia.
Being a mother instinct to see her prodigal son comes back with loving and warm welcome as a sign of missing her son for a long time. Blessing for her.
She is a beautiful young lady. You make a stunning couple. Hopefully Dad will come around😊❤️
I’m a Jamaican woman who has a background of Chinese grandparents and growing up in Jamaica we never experienced anything like this and my country is mixed with so many different races. It surprises me that different races treat black people like crap or there embarrass of us.. why can’t we all just live together peacefully as human beings.. this planet is done for good
His dad is just a shitty person, they are people like that unfortunately, but remembrer about those like me who don't see colors when it comes to skin.it's not about the culture or tradition, it's about the personality, if someone is bad then racism happens. Culture or age is not an excuse for anything. There's no excuse for the dad, his just a bad person
Out of many we are one ☝️ Jamaica 🇯🇲
U funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It is not, over 95% of population is considered black . The history of the country is diverse though.
Trust my girl as a Brown Jamaican of European and Black and a little admixture of Taino, Jamaica has prejudice also. I and other minority Jamaicans ( Brown, White, Indian, Chinese) have been treated unfairly regularly based on our appearance and complexion- this isn't rampant though.
I remember one day a fishmonger told us , " she naw serve no Brown people " . We also pay higher prices at market, they say its tax. Also some Brown, Chinese and White families don't want no African son or daughter in law. Some Black Jamaicans don't want any Brown, Chinese or Indian as an inlaw either. Just to be clear, this is not as bad like other countries. The big exception to that is if the person has money and Middle class and up!
❤️Your mother was so gracious. As an African woman, it is unfortunate that even if you are kind, beautiful, intelligent, and capable; that this is still a reaction we have to deal with.😢 But your mother saved the day.
Why should blacks force to be where they aren't accepted,we are the only desperate group always looking for acceptance and validation from people who don't like and want you
People don't understand how hurtful it is to be mistreated hated not chosen not desirable for the skin you're born in. Momma thank you!
i feel sorry for peoole like the dad, cs he too can get duscriminated for the way he looks😂 foolish man
Your mother is a beacon of light. I'm glad you became a version of her rather than a version of your dad
Mother is so nice to her I really appreciate her for doing that
I am proud of Panda for taking Erica to visit his parents. She is such a beautiful person and is good for Panda, I have so much respect for his mother. She was very warm and beautiful, and she welcomed her son and Erica into their home . It's unfortunate that his dad has not caught the present time , 2023. He could have at least been polite and shown some respect. I also have even a greater respect for Panda for sticking by Erica. She is a good young lady and good for Panda. I hope he will not be discouraged by his father. Thank goodness his mother is standing up for Erica and her son. She truly has the love of God in her. Stay strong, you guys. I will be watching and praying for you guys.
the host can't speak English , how they communicate ?
@@chenisikymoh Google Translate and Sign Language.
The Mom is nice but the Dad mmmmmm not so much.
@@cosmoray9750 @ dad act as non educated ass hole
wait are they dating?
Hi.. I'm from Malaysia.. Really respect your mom.. She is so understanding and open minded women.. but your dad is so conservative..
@@mrmieman9552 . He’s not conservative. He’s conservastupid.
I like your mom’s attitude to Erica. Opportunity is hard to find. Cherish the moment you guys have. Good luck 🍀
I’m so proud of my color black. No matter how other humans race think or see me . I know who I am😊 imagine in all colors of race black is the unique color in the world I thank God all mighty for my color 😊😊❤ I love myself like I love everyone else ❤
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It is wonderful to see Panda and Erika together. Have strength together and draw upon your mums good manners.
Thank you for posting this real uncut videos showing us a glimpse of your life and your mom is extremely bueatiful and such a lovely human being ❤
Your Mother is a great woman, God bless her.
No woman should be treated like this...如果不是因为你，她不需要受这种委屈，她也可以捍卫自己。你是个成年人，如果选择在一起，你需要站出来捍卫她。
。。。拍个短视频而已，你如此当真
É dorameiras peguem essa! Eles não gostam de pessoas de cor!
I agree:[
OMG I love your mom! Her friendly welcome is so heart warming and so nice. Sh'e pretty and looks super young! Your mom is the best!!!
Thanks
@@zihengfeizhoushenghuo ...your mother is not only beautiful but she is warm, gracious, kind, civilized and from GOOD stock! I send her many hugs ((((Panda's mom))))
媽媽超級漂亮又非常文明，子恆像媽媽~
You mom is beautiful outside and inside too! and no matter about culture is about we're need to be kind 🙏 Erica is a beautiful woman!
我可以想象这位年轻女士的感受。
有时候不理解也很好，但那家伙的母亲就是110%/100%。
我已经喜欢她了
在非洲，我们不介意你的肤色或语言
哦天啊！你爸必须去旅行, 他应该理解. 在中国的时候.....我也經歷過這樣的待遇，但有些中國人對我也很好. 你和你妈是好人，好好照顾她好不好？我以你為榮
This man has inherited some of his dads behavior like when her girl asks her a question he doesn't answer it straight away and they even got in the car without telling the girl where they were going ...
He’s as ignorant as his father! She should get away while she can. These types of families are very low class and have no respect.
If you understood chinese like me you would know that there are a lot of english words he doesnt know..He is different from his father. He doesnt know how to say register at the police station.. You got it wrong because of language barrier
It's because of communication problem. The guy doesn't know how to communicate in English fluently and the girl doesn't know how to speak Chinese.
@@ytytlee4560 why are they even together if they can’t communicate? What kind of stupidity is this?
@@DancingDeity Am sorry but the keyboard warrior is always Alfa and Omega, and seems to know the beginning and the end for himself.
Am sorry but if you are intelligence as you seems to put words, why don't you understand that they learnt both language for them to get to this stage of communication and will definitely scale to be better.
I advice you search the meaning of improvement and taking step.
I don't mean to be harsh but they are better than a keyboard warrior that is afraid to take bold step
Hellow. As a Tanzanian I believe your Dady will understand well other people's culture, it's ok, even our African parents sometimes behave that way. But we love them.
His father is just jealous 🤣🤣
Erica is s pretty Africa girl mother are very pretty and young
Yes his mom is really young looking & prett
When I first study geography about Africa, I thought Tanzania is where Tarzan lives.
@etloo1971 What? Are u serious?
Poor girl she didn't understand what was going on but she is so pretty and your mum is warm she dressed her so well
RUN GIRL RUN!!!!! Get out of that situation asap!! He is not the one for you.
Someone said it 🤭
Really...?!
Someone’s FAMILY doesn’t always represent them. Some Asian men wouldn’t dare let a black woman near their family. This says a lot… he tried. He can’t control the actions of his father.
😂😂😂😂
Your absolutely Right!! He can't control his father's actions!! His father should know how to control his own actions!! After all he is a Adult!! What is it about us Black People that scares Chinese people so bad!!@@alexf9447
When Ziheng visited Erica’s family he was received graciously by her family, and attracted 1 million viewers. And when Ziheng brought Erica to his parent, his father was angry and disgusted and stormed out the house. But his mother was so nice and glad to see her son home and welcomed Erica. Here in western countries and also America, the racism is common, especially involving family’s member.But in China????????The people here in Europe and also in America are curious abut this matter. I was not surprised at all, that this episode attracted over one millions viewers ( 1,2 million ). But Thank God, Ziheng’s father has softened, and his attitude changed for the better. I have to give Ziheng thumb 👍up for protecting Erica, and stand by her. I nearly shed tears when Erica wanted to go back to Tanzania and cried pitifully. 😢
She’s so pretty. And you’re mom is so nice.
這個女生心地善良，肯為你吃苦融入環境就好！必竟已後是你們要一起生活的
外在只是皮攘，人的內心比較重要的！父親不接受就慢慢的讓他接受！
By the way, could you tell me what's wrong with her skin?
@@africanbuddy Nothing is her skin is beautiful its the heart of that father that is wrong
@@reeeeeeeeee4364 My point is why do people even talk about her skin in the first place, as if something that is different from white skin comes out of extraordinary, as if there is something wrong.
@@africanbuddy They are racist they do not like brown skin idk why but it needs to change we are all human
怎么也比打光棍强吧？
媽媽年輕、漂亮又大方！真的見過世面！！
What a GORGEOUS young lady!!!! And obviously sweet and very trusting of you!!!! Treat her with the respect and kindness she deserves!!! She is GOLD!
Your mum is amazing, loving, beautiful. I'm Nigerian and my family is made up of people from the diverse tribes of Nigeria and Africa and I'm really proud of them.
Which Nigeria 😲😲
@@dubemellit2932 pourquoi être étonné parce qu'on parle d'humains à humains et alors !
“look at that hair- does it look Chinese?” “ did you see that that snail in her nose-does it look Chinese?” no- hangs up😂 as an Dutch Ethiopian i died. He is convinced that that is enough reason to view and treat someone with such a contempt. When in reality, all that it proofs is that he’s afraid of change and new things. Change of their reputation since there is such thing as “losing face” in China. Thanks for sharing this video! We have a long way to go
This is why as a grown MAN I don't live my life for my parents.... I live my life for ME!! 💯
You two seem like a very loving couple. Mom is so cool and welcoming, I truly hope that your dad comes around.
As an African American man, looking at her: JACK-FUCKING-POT!!! She is gorgeous as hell! Traditional families are used to being homogenous with the overall look and such, so the dad's reaction doesn't surprise me. What does sueprise me is how much he cares about the neighbors' opinion about something that shouldn't affect them. I swear most American men would be jealous.
I love Dark girls ❤I wish I have her to be my wife she is so beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I want one too bro.
Ikr, she's so pretty!!!
Настоящая красавица! Как актриса, звезда или фотомодель! ❤
Not only pretty she seemed humble and good manners as well!
Brown skin is beautiful wish I have too. 🙊
Erica is so beautiful! What an amazing glow she has! It is so hard when parents won't accept their child's wish to be happy. So happy that his mother is so warm and welcoming.
Your mum was the star hero in here and your dad was the villain! Love the script LOL! Honestly, love your mum, she is so nice & understanding.
The dad is just jealous 😂
爸爸的表现不佳，不近人情啊，这个人 是你我他，而不仅仅只有自己。再怎么，她是你儿子的朋友，而且还是万里之远的朋友。她来造访你家，就给你摊面子啦？邻居就会如此看? 务必沟通一下，是你爸爸需要改善改变提高，而不是其他。中华文明，有别于其他文明的地方，就是天下一家。何况非洲早年就已经有中华血脉了。
Facts! And Chinese still has at least 2% African blood pumping through their veins.
Well said.
父親需要時間適應的，慢慢來
I agree with everything that you said up to the point when you said that Africa always had Chinese blood in them, in the early years. No, it is the other way around.
She is already recognized by mom, so they should just ignore dad with his bad behavior.
She is stunning just gorgeous ❤aww his mom is soo sweet God bless her ❤
She is a beautiful young lady. Very lucky young man. And she seems well like a sweet girl. It hurts my heart to see her experience this.
You go to any parts of the world there is no one who understands you so well than your mother 😍😍🥰respect to your mother for her kindness
His mom is a sweetheart. Thankfully she's so kind.
喜歡你的母親的態度接受Erica, 很溫，很好的女孩子，不要錯過機會喔...❤🎉
一般家里不能父母两个都钉，总得有一个要开通一点的，不然孩子没法做人了。
我们家也是，父亲特TMD机车，规矩一套接一套，我不知道他什么时候会不高兴，我父亲在家里是随着自己性子随便耍性子的人。小时候我还忍他，长大了就对上了，我妈就会打圆场，心疼我又要顺顺她老公的脾气，后来我妈干脆替我直接怼他，他就没话说了。
有些家庭是妈特别机车，爸爸经常做中间调人。
她很漂亮不黑呀 ? 是歐非混血的吧 ?
@@spiritual.grace_sin I think she might be Ethiopian. Her features are very similar to that African country.
I agree. Auntie is very accepting and understanding. I feel she will handle pops. Hopefully he will come around. This is I lovely couple❣️
I could waiting to another iric and Erica like a movie to me please make another thank you
Mothers are sooo sweet she’s a good mother ❤
Your mom is amazing so sweet kindhearted and beautiful 💕Nice to see she welcomed Erika with open arms. Your dad is very old fashioned, but many dads are. It's very important for the older generation how their friends, neighbors think and what they say. The dress code is very important as well more conservative to make a good first impression. Give him some time to process and your mom is the key she will talk to him. It might take a while, but it will be fine. Don't worry. Good luck to you both 🍀
Basically his dad is narrow minded and racist lol, am i lying? 😂
They are script
Sister, you are too naive! It's all acting, don't underestimate the Chinese acting talent.
@@djdad2482 not everything is about rcism stttoooopppidd.....that's western concept....
@@EduruChan mf you got to be stupid to think this isn't racism bffr theirs racist people in every country not just in the US stop trying to defend that mf
Your mum is so kind, she really has a mum's heart. And I hope you too stay strong because that cultural difference can built a huge hole in your relationship. I wish to Erica to find support and people on who she can rely on
Mom is so sweet to welcome Erica to the house!
I love Your Mums attitude, she raised You very well. You are so good ur self. We love n treat people from China very well here in Uganda. Isaac from Uganda
Dont be too sad Erica, you are so beautiful....dont let others rudeness affect you in any way. ❤love from South Africa
Erica est si douce et si jolie, ça me peine pour elle. Vous formez un couple magnifique, imposez vous, les personnes qui vous aiment finiront par l'accepter sinon tant pis pour elles. La maman est adorable aussi. Plein de bonheur pour vous, soyez heureux❤️🙏🍀
Ils sont vraiment en couple ?
Gorgeous couple. Blessings to you both. Your mom is so sweet and caring.
Mum so kind. Dad will come around. Good relationship. The gentleman could have explained to the lady Chinese procedures just to ease her nerves.
媽媽好年輕，ㄧㄡ有氣質，又明理❤
Mother very open and friendly.
我支持他爸爸，你这个做儿子的就待在非洲别回来了，入非洲籍吧，我不是种族歧视，但是我们必须面对一个客观现实，都说人人平等，现在男人平等吗？女人有逼行天下在中国，权贵阶层横着走，解决阶级分化了吗？这些都不是重点最最想要的是黑人可以黑化任何种族，这太可怕了！以后孩子全黑色，这个非洲女孩挺漂亮的，但是黑色接受不了，中国解决不了以黑为美，这不亚于推翻共产党的难度，真要是想在一起就去非洲，在中国你们这种行为就是自私自利的恶心鬼，孩子以后一定会受到歧视，年轻人自私自利鼠目寸光太常见了，自大狂妄，真理不会玩因为你们自大无知而改变，更可怕的的是美国一个白人国家马上变成黑人国家，法国太多国家黑化，中国人比白人还能中和黑色还是咋滴？黑人命确实惨我很同情，就像那些生在穷人家的孩子，我们谁也改变不了这些规则，我更害怕被黑化，不敢想象自己以后变成黑色，孩子也是黑色，红色都够难看了，这些女孩样貌在中国也是数一数二的，但是黑色这一点直接所有优点没了，至于说内在美，我可能会笑，尤其中国人貌似不配谈这个，都是明码标价的逼还谈内在
@@ddzg-pp3jz 笑死，太認真了吧，這是一篇作文比賽
@@DruidHydra 那你赶紧去找个黑人吧，争取你后代子孙黑下去，看看他们以后怎么感谢你会不会把你挖坟掘墓了
對人對事不要太露面😅😅😅
So cute when he said, No why. They seem to love each other and hopefully it will work out for them.
I love how his mother is so welcoming to her❤ she’s a beautiful mum and a beautiful human being. May The Good Lord bless this young couple especially if they marry🙏🙏🙏
At least we got to witness how lovely your mother is. Pure hearts are amazing to be around.
子恒媽媽可爱又漂亮
Zihdeng your mother is a beautiful kindhearted lady. Thank God she is able to accept Erica so she can feel at ease and not so scared meeting your parents for the first time!
Maybe it's not true .is performance
I dont know why we are hated as black people, this is touching, brave people though
Ziheng, you are so lucky to have a kind hearted mom. Your dad still conservative, but I believe your mom can convince him. Stay safe, healthy and happy with Erica and your beloved family. 👍🏻🙏🏻😍
Ziheng mum so sporting and welcome Erica and she speaks English to welcome her kudos to Ziheng mum. Mother is beautiful and wants to hug her son.
When the open saw bossy Zehing his mom in door way greeting with open arms at first I thought his sister,mom look young and very open mind person and she like Erica and gave some of her clothes for Erica to try, but dad thats very different story, not very happy with bossy Zehing brings Erica back home to meet the family,I don't know why he so upset, Erica not dating bossy Zehing and just friend,dad needs calm down and respect foriegn guess,mom is very friendly and cool except Erica open arms so fast as friend ❤
The father has a typical Chinaman conservative attitude. Seems very unreasonable but typical of the average Chinese father. The only person who can appease him is his wife. Why do think after 2,000 years of civilisation and 150 years of occupation by foreigners the population of China is still over 90% Han Chinese. If Erica wants to remain with Ziheng she has to adapt to the ways of traditional Chinese values. It's up to Ziheng to explain to Erica about filial piety in Chinese family. Then again how serious is the relationship between Ziheng and Erica. It would be interesting to see how much Erica would be prepared to sacrifice just to be with Ziheng. She is 23 but still behaves like a 15 year old. Still an interesting storyline.
I had to pause because this felt very scripted lol
@@_CL You are right CL, It's a script. Anyway we enjoyed it, 加油 Ziheng!👍🏻🙏🏻😍
Panda's mother is beautiful as well as kind-hearted
Your mom is so sweet, she's really outstanding
Panda, I have to tell you that your Erika is so beautiful and you are such a wonderful guy.
You and Erica are the perfect couple. Your parents should be proud of you.
Mom is super nice and open minded. She is young and pretty too! I think Erica is very lucky~
His mom seems like a really nice lady, and like she’s going to steer her husband in the right direction eventually.
she is beautiful lady.just like Barbie❤. you discover her.Thanks for helping her Auntie.
Warm welcome from his Mum, that was beautiful very kind of her and she's pretty young and innocent 😊a big smile for Mama.
His mom is truly gracious, unlike his obstinate father who does not even have the basic courtesy not to humiliate his son's guests.
Come on, he's gay and the entire channel is staged for our entertainments😂
The mom is so understanding. Be strong Erica! What matters most is the mom is so warm!
这视頻子恒爸媽对儿子的关心和爱子恒真幸福爸爸媽媽都是对的子恒加油香港友支持你
❤❤❤❤❤❤
那爸不能這樣！這有失體面！這不是我們中國人的待客之道！就算再不喜歡！俗語族：過門都是客人！別把艾麗卡嚇壞！她祇是一個不知就裹的女孩
子恆在家陪媽媽高氣質確實順便多拍一些曰常應好看。
Beautiful young couple and wish them nothing but the best future. Respect to mom her genuine beautiful heart. ❤❤❤
Aww she is adorable so humble and innocent. It’s hard to find that in the west today
子恒妈妈也太漂亮了吧 难怪子恒这么帅气
Very interesting and raw. As an African myself if I did anything similar my father would have a similar reaction. To add more to it, he would mainly try to argue some points too. I think you're really courageous. Also hopefully she learns more Chinese. Of course you learn some of her language as well.
Mom is so sweet and welcoming!! Looks super young as well❤
He's just an honest rustic man, he'll come around
I pray the best for ERICA, you will find another man and his family who love you dearly.. run for your own good girl.
Your mom is beautiful and dress nicely. Mom tries her best to make the african feel welcime. May God bless your mom. Take your father around the world to see different cultures.
I have put a pause on every conversation to understand all the conversations, now Erica has been identified, the children of Erica and Ziheng will be cute because all his parents are beautiful ❤️ ❤️ God took his time to create them well 😍🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
What are you talking about, they are not attracted to each other
@@nikiniki5124 relax good things are coming
And who told you they are dating 😂😂😂😂😂Ooh lol so nowadays you can't have just a friend eeeww!!
很漂亮等Erica, 連我都超喜歡她🎉❤，加油！！！
The mother is so civilized, loving, beautiful, kind and a real mother figure. Love you mum
OMG! Your mom looks so pretty! Your dad is conservative and it will take some time but he will be ok. Just enjoy each other company.
子恆真是個好孩子，要我早跟老父打起來了。
I would want my mother in law to treat me like this. Your mom is the best.
Any parent should be proud to have such a beautiful daughter in law. The mother looks like a good person.
你和你的母亲都是美丽而善良的灵魂，你的父亲非常保守，但随着时间和教育的推移，希望他会改变。❤🎉
很难，基本不可能
@@jiaoma7543 也许吧，但请记住，即使不可能也说不可能！所以永远不要放弃，我们作为一个民族不应该放弃。正确的？
😂😂看到白皮就贴，看到黑皮就嫌弃哈哈😂❤
@@user_3086de *不可能=我是可能的。恶心的行为，告诉我你喜欢自己吗？中国人不是白人吗？做得更好！
Wow wow wow this is so very transparent. I am so proud of you for bringing her home to meet your family. You are a good man no matter how your father feels 🇬🇧🙏🏽👵🏽
His dad is Conservative and we cant change the thinking of older generation but Erika omg you are such a pretty young lady , your facial features are gorgeous 💗 💖 love from India😊😊
She is so very beautiful. She looks like Ethiopian~
He is narrow minded and racist. Absolutely disgusting behavior!
That’s not conservative, he is ignorant and a fool
I love to have Erica as my wife ❤❤
@@tmc1373Tanzanian.
This mother is priceless and totally exemplary. Mommas for you👍👍👍✅