Personally I love having a Virgo Venus. I’ve avoided a lot of potentially toxic relationships by detaching my emotions and paying attention to how they choose to act. My relationships have only been bad when I chose a partner that I saw “potential” in, instead of taking them at face value. Find a partner that knows how to take care of themselves so that you don’t have to. I’ve fixed my personal love issues by learning to be comfortable spending time alone, and also having a good circle of friends that can meet the needs that my partner lacks.
I wish I didn't have a Venus in Virgo. It's the worst in my opinion. I remember when I spoke to a psychic and he told me it's ok Kim Kardashian has Venus is virgo I almost disconnected the phone.
I feel as though having Venus in Virgo is a gift and a curse. I am Sun , Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus in Virgo lol. Now that I am in my 30's and have experienced so many toxic situations and relationships early on, it has strengthened me so much and i'm wise beyond my years and have such a deeper understanding of myself and others
I’m here because my crush has all the same placements except the moon, his is Aries and I believe he is my soulmate. I felt his sadness and his burden as soon as I saw him.
Wow! I know this is challenging for you. I am total opposite, I'm earth sign like you, I'm mostly Taurus. But I can imagine you are looking for all types of perfectionism everywhere. And when it comes to love I would say, my advice would be to be a more open-minded. Best of luck to you on your journey!
Omg!! You are so gifted .and So correct I have Venus in Virgo I was in abusive relationships constantly in my early years. It was only at 35 that I realized an researched spiritual healing. With meditation. Healing my chakras with crystals doing deep ineer spiritual work. Not most would believe it works . but for me it was absolutely life transformation!!
OMG same (in regards to early abuse...for me in was especially bad from 7 years old and the peak at 16 but still not great in my early 20s (and mental breakdown at 23) as I had to start a rough healing process..). I am almost 32 and currently looking into crystals/etc. Venus & sun in Virgo, moon in Pisces.. I wish I knew how to heal as you did!
@@paradisalpin Same for me as well. it was a long painful journey but through deep spiritual healing we will come to know our worthiness and how lovable deserving we are thus breaking the cycle to attract people whom are abusers to us and no longer tolerate this again
My Aquarius sun friend awhile back told me “don’t let anyone take your power away” & as a Virgo sun mercury & Venus I feel this statement is truly important for us as virgo Venuses that get in toxic relationships
You see yourself becoming emotionally & physically abusive with your partners? Why is that - is it as soon as you start developing feelings you suddenly feel like sabotaging it and forming the sadist/masochist dynamic?
Omg 😫 you hit the nail on the head. I can't even take a compliment without feeling like I have to back up my "Thank you " with a distraction. Its like I have this need of humbleness like you said guilt of atonement like im not worthy of anything. My grandmother ask me what do I want for Christmas I always say I don't know. But its really me feeling like I haven't earn anything. I often feel depressed when nothing is fucking wrong with me. Like why am I like this. But like you said it was the previous life who took this on.
I have a venus in virgo and the only thing I can relate to is the part when you said we tend to think we are undeserving of love and we're insecure. As far as the whole abusive thing I've never experienced it nor have I ever abused anyone. I did however grow up witnessing alot of domestic violence, which left me feeling some type of way. It is hard to trust people or even open up to love. This is interesting...
It can be other types of abuse other than physical. Even giving someone the silent treatment or passive aggressive behavior or being codependent even can be a form of abuse.
Venus in Virgo 4th house. Nobody can love as purely and deeply as me. I love this position. Venus in Scorpio, Taurus, Leo, and Cancer are great matches I believe. I have yet to meet a fellow Venus Virgo. I’m the type to put socks on your feet before I leave for work so you don’t feel the cold floor when you get out of bed.
Yes @ M Rosa, when we are in a committed relationship we are “dutiful” and “dedicated”. Love is “work”. It’s like landing the job of your dreams position. You clock in, work overtime, dedicate yourself, grow to reach greater heights, plan, create, gain trust, strengthen position, make connections, learn, know every detail, constantly perfecting, embracing and being so proud because you throw yourself into your relationship aka “work”.
I have been waiting for this and I'm so happy it's here! I have my Venus and Mars is Virgo. You called me out on something I was already aware of; I can be your best friend or your worst nightmare, you choose 😁
that soul sickness hit me hard😭 ever since i was a kid i would never know why or what was making me sad. sun in leo virgo moon scorpio rising and virgo in mercury, and venus
Omg , I am Venus in Virgo and I am a Dom / switch / hedonist... I wished that I wasn’t so dark in love ... Most men are intrigued but they fear me deeply. I have a couple pay pig and I’m cautious in relationships because men become overly obsessed with me. I stay away from Scorpio men...
I relate to this so much, I also have Venus in Virgo badly aspected by Saturn and Mars and relationships are so hard for me. I either been in relationships with men who didn't offer too much or men that became obsessed with me. I resonate especially with the part were you said you stay away from Scorpio men. My last boyfriend was a Venus in Scorpio. I really couldn't handle him.
Yes, happened when I was 19 years old! I was abused horrifically, and raped 🤬🤬 I never asked for this, I was trying to escape my controlling parents, but I have grown strong through every obstacle I have come face-to-face with in my life...I am proud of who I am becoming, yet we must remind ourselves of this daily!! Bless all of you Venus in Virgo, you can move on, heal, and grow, better yet, help others through our experiences! 🙏❤💯❤🙏
Yes this is something.. I've been molested by couple of Ppl as a child the as a teen to adult i was date r@p3ed 7 times and even stayed in relationship with guys who date r@p3d me. Had several preg losses . Then married at 26 and was totally neglected sexually, but I'm here still but I've had some difficult relationships. But I still have our genuio love. And I LOVE myself and i totally love being a Virgo
You read me with this one. So on point with why I've been depressed my whole entire life and don't know why. How can I overcome and heal this aspect of myself. It's a major blockage in my life. It's robbed me of a lot of opportunities.
I’ve been OBSESSED with these series. I cannot wait for you to talk about Venus in Libra 😍. By the way I’m a Scorpio with a Libra moon and Venus with an Aquarius rising.
If you catch me staring off in space or zoning out you would see my expression of a sad sad girl. And when asked " hey are you ok" immediately I would snap out of it and say yes and then get offended that you assume something was wrong with me. But it is and I can't figure out what's wrong myself . 😭
I'm a Gemini rising. Libra Sun. Libra Moon and Venus in Virgo.....b4 I learned more about astrology and only knew my sun sign I was puzzled how I could be a libra yet have so much difficulty in relationships. I truly feel like I'm better off alone. Focusing on other areas of my life I feel is much more constructive for me...love=heartache. it's just not in the stars for me in this lifetime .
I get why all men I get obsessed with me!!! Papa legba the man with the keys to.all doors #thedevil lmao I am nasty Virgo ♍ #i am very spiritually!!! Virgo /pieces over here 💎💎💎🦋💕💘🔥
I hav venus in virgo ( mars in sco), iits very accurate, i also feel like everthing i do, watch of read in my live has to be practical / to do with selfimprovment or knowledge, i can t read novals neithee i watch movies, my selfwotrth often rellly sucks......i am looking for a partnsr who is also intersetsd in selfimprovment, intelligemt, practical and sexual, also i always want that everyone feels good otherwise i cant have fun, the part with the inner sadness and depression is 1000% true...i have to conciously all the tiem to remind myself to stay postiv , my inner sadness self can other peiple make freak out, they cant deal with it and think sth is wrong with me....
You are nothing but the truth good sir 😁 Im sooo happy that i found you, im learning so much about myself through astrology and numerology and i feel so blessed to find people like you who know so much information Thank you so much! and God bless ya My Dear 🥰
You know personally, I can say now that I am OK with heaven, Virgo and Venus, because I have experienced so much in life that has led me to where I am now in regards to knowing myself and believing in myself more. as to the darkness I am glad you brought that up because I have always known there is darkness within me that I have always had to tame and now I have come to a mutual understanding with it where I can coexist and be comfortable with it. Thank you for letting me know what I already knew. It just validates my growth.❤
Damn. Never thought that this placement was so hard. My ex has this placement... explains a lot. My Venus is in Scorpio, and I’m Pisces rising. It makes sense now. But this makes sense, he’s talked about not feeling right before and it bothered him deeply .
Did you guys have a sadist/masochist dynamic? Did you guys ever say unforgivable things to one another and then end up making up and getting back together?
Spot on, my venus is however in my 5th house. So i know my happiness is found in the arts, in my creativity, play, childlike wonder. I know once i make that firm decision to dedicate my energy into my passions/purpose (and shake off this insecurity as chiron is in this house under virgo too) i'll truly feel alive.
I am loving your unique perspective on Virgo and Virgo Venus. I have a stellium in Virgo and Venus is there in its fall. With that said, I have an exalted Mercury, so there’s hope 🔥
In my early years I was in an psychological abusive relationship with a guy who took me through the ringer from age 18 to 20 . I was also sexually assault through rape at 19 my first year in college . The guy told me I would only be a good fuck to men after he raped me . It took me going to therapy and investing in shadow occult teaching to save me from my self . I learnt to love all of me and my taboos . Stop being so hard on myself , selective morals and to accept laws of magic . Im in my thirties and I own my shit ...
I have watched this video a few times, but this time, I was brought to tears when he speaks about abuse. I realize how much abuse I endured from my father which was emotional and verbal and my kids father who beat me like he really hated me then apologized after and I never really internalized how debilitating and wrong this was. It is DEEP.
Dang all my placements are hard and complex...moon in Capricorn Mars in cancer venus in virgo...sheesh. I am a domestic violence survivor and thankfully I got out alive. I still dont understand why that had to be my experience but I got stronger and honestly I felt just like you said in this video. Its DEEP indeed.
@@NND2024 hello. For a LONG time I was just tired. I used to ask God to take away my feelings so I couldn't feel anymore because I got tired of the pain but I think we all, no matter who we are want and need love. So once I worked through all that I had been through, I decided to be as authentic and true to myself as I can no matter what. I decided to pray for discernment and wisdom instead so that I wouldn't so readily give my love time and effort to when it was welcome or desired. That goes for anybody...family or friend. I learned that we create our experiences and manifest them by what and who we allow in our lives. I try to be as positive and respectful as I can and anyone who isnt on that same vibe I simply wish them well but I can't allow them into my life too deeply and again that mean family and friends. For me, I noticed that if I continued to allow the heaviness of negativity to be a part of my life, it leaves no room for love. Darkness and light cant occupy the same space (darkness being negativity hate etc light being love positivity etc) so I had to make a choice. It was a process. Best of luck to you 😘
Nobody ever goes in depth like this smh they always be so basic and surface level thanks now I understand my dark side that’s how I know bad ppl cause I have wild thoughts
MR , Fernando, your very unique Astro one of the kind in these years, appreciate your details of all your research in each video you been created, i would like to add you for helping me out for birtchat , don't know how to asd you for service, anyway could help me please here 🙏🙏🙏
I am dating a person with this position, I dont know how to fix that low confidence and put a stop n how everyone makes fun of him.....I don't know how to undo that ....I feel that heaviness. Not only that but he has mars in cancer and moon in scorpio....I try to monitor myself from being mad and literally saying hurtful things to him, b/c I want him to action into flourishing and being happy......but it is not always easy.....I feel like I am adding to that shit he already has, when all I want is to help.
You can’t fix or undo what they feel/how they are. They have to do the work to develop the self worth an confidence. No amount of telling them good job or you can do it will work. They have to cultivate that from within. It’s tough.
I wish more astrologers had a deeper understanding of Virgo. They often repeat the same descriptions. "Virgo: perfectionist, logical, and intellectual." I'm always left feeling like, "Is that all?" I possess so much more than just those wonderful traits! 😅 this video makes perfect sense to me… let me start my healing process 😐
Can you explain the dynamic? I was dating someone with this placement and he is... odd. If I make one small mistake he takes it so personally and feels like I need a deep deep punishment to drive home the lesson. It’s super weird. Also it seems like when I come to him lovingly he does not take to it but if I come harshly, call him out of his name, belittle him, treat him like absolute shit he suddenly feels more open to hearing me. It’s so weird... I really don’t understand.
@@zztops3739 yeah we're kind of similar, dramatic aggressive communication. He always thinks that he's right and when you apologizes for his wrong doing it always ends with a reason why.. let's both out out own happiness above our partners, okay? 💕
@@NObodDEE no not okay 😂 I’m not putting his happiness above mine we can both mutually be happy. The pros do not outweigh the cons enough to make me want to do that lolol
I think that this is a great video. I have many virgos in my family, and I didn't have knowledge of any of this issues. This explanation has been an eye opener. Now I might be better prepared to help them. This video is like going to a class. Now I can understand so many things... Thank you sooo much. Really great explanation.
I do have a sadness inside that i don't understand. But I love me, i enjoy me, i love hard though. But I feel like it's 3 sides to me lol. 3 personalities. At my older age I'm learning the stars a bit and in sun Virgo and Venus in Virgo.
Thanks for making this vid I’m a new subscriber and just came across your vids I love them! My sun is Libra, Rising Sag, Moon Aquarius, Mercury Scorpio, VENUS IN VIRGO 😊
Could be they do not realize that the image they see in the mirror is not what they look like. Everyone has a need to be beautiful. And everyone is beautiful. Once that is figured out, everything that made a Venus in Virgo person wrong become right...
I used to do a lot of psychedelics, and the zodiac didn't really come til after I stopped. But I would intermix practices, while my buddy was into gotetia, I was into sabteria. I would see and hear papa legba regularly. I just find it odd with the venus in virgo. I don't want to jump steps and say its why. Im also a leo sun, Aries moon, and cancer rising. Itll all fight itself until either something pisses me off, brings out the trickster, or makes me fall in love
I’m a cancer ♋️ Venus in Leo Moon in Taurus Ascendant cancer ♋️ Mercury in Scorpio ♏️ Pluto in Virgo ♍️ 2nd house Virgo ♍️ who met someone with moon in Virgo ♍️ after hearing this I’m out... I don’t want to be connected with someone like this...
Shoot this is so spot on. I'm always wondering was I seriously wicked or effed up in my past life for me to go through or feel how I feel. So having this placement I understand. Crumbs looking at my chart n placements it's like giiiirl you pissed the god's off but they still gotcho back tho.
Ascendent in Libra. 1H sun in libra. Leo moon in thee 11th. Mercury in scorpio in the 8th, mars in scorpio in the 2nd, Pluto in scorpio Virgo venus in its 12th house. Sadist and a masochist as well. 100% switch This resonated with me and shook me to the core, I'm currently in tears over this... Sigh help
Love your videos love your energy. You keep it real. Me and my son are Venus and Leo and my daughter is virgo in Venus, we are also 3 virgo suns too. God helps us lol
@@zztops3739 no we don't at all, it's all love and kindness. But they are only kids. My daughter has the Venus in virgo I hope it will mean she will have high standards when picking a partner but I think we tend to go for people who treat us like our dads did, and she's lucky cos she has a great Dad, very kind and always there for her, he loves the two of them so much. But who knows what the future holds, hopefully happiness ♥️
Personally I love having a Virgo Venus. I’ve avoided a lot of potentially toxic relationships by detaching my emotions and paying attention to how they choose to act. My relationships have only been bad when I chose a partner that I saw “potential” in, instead of taking them at face value. Find a partner that knows how to take care of themselves so that you don’t have to. I’ve fixed my personal love issues by learning to be comfortable spending time alone, and also having a good circle of friends that can meet the needs that my partner lacks.
I wish I didn't have a Venus in Virgo. It's the worst in my opinion. I remember when I spoke to a psychic and he told me it's ok Kim Kardashian has Venus is virgo I almost disconnected the phone.
I have Venus in Vigo but I never been through this I don't think
What's wrong with having venus in virgo
😂😂😂😂
Lol.
I wish I could give it away. I dont want it
Saaaammee
I've decided to fall in love with my venus in Virgo instead of be at war with myself. I'm transmuting this damn thing.
here with you
How's this going hunbun?
omg I was never at war with it at all, I love venus in virgo I just need to stay clear of toxic relationships ^^
👏🏾♥️♥️♥️
Exactly! I'm rising ♍with Pluto and Venus conjunctions in the 1st overlapping the 12th house. I have embraced my Shadow 👑💪🏾
I feel as though having Venus in Virgo is a gift and a curse. I am Sun , Moon, Mars, Mercury, and Venus in Virgo lol. Now that I am in my 30's and have experienced so many toxic situations and relationships early on, it has strengthened me so much and i'm wise beyond my years and have such a deeper understanding of myself and others
Girl I have all those placements except my mars is in Libra! We are Virgo to the core 🥵🥴
I’m here because my crush has all the same placements except the moon, his is Aries and I believe he is my soulmate. I felt his sadness and his burden as soon as I saw him.
Yes I love this realization and outlook on having moon in Virgo 😅
Wow! I know this is challenging for you. I am total opposite, I'm earth sign like you, I'm mostly Taurus. But I can imagine you are looking for all types of perfectionism everywhere. And when it comes to love I would say, my advice would be to be a more open-minded. Best of luck to you on your journey!
5 planet Virgo stellium too...Leo Sun Scorpio rising Gemini Moon
Omg!! You are so gifted .and So correct I have Venus in Virgo I was in abusive relationships constantly in my early years. It was only at 35 that I realized an researched spiritual healing. With meditation. Healing my chakras with crystals doing deep ineer spiritual work. Not most would believe it works . but for me it was absolutely life transformation!!
OMG same (in regards to early abuse...for me in was especially bad from 7 years old and the peak at 16 but still not great in my early 20s (and mental breakdown at 23) as I had to start a rough healing process..). I am almost 32 and currently looking into crystals/etc. Venus & sun in Virgo, moon in Pisces.. I wish I knew how to heal as you did!
And abuse from a parent born in the late 50's who has that Pluto (abuser) placement. ... Gosh.
@@paradisalpin Same for me as well. it was a long painful journey but through deep spiritual healing we will come to know our worthiness and how lovable deserving we are thus breaking the cycle to attract people whom are abusers to us and no longer tolerate this again
You are soooo dramatic😍 I love it!!! I’m Leo sun
Leo sunrise
Venus in Virgo
😫🤣
Omg same , and my moon is in aries
Me tooo. Moon in sag
same
SVT Carat I’m a Leo sun, Aries moon, Virgo rising and Venus. Hey twin!
Me too moon Libra
My Aquarius sun friend awhile back told me “don’t let anyone take your power away” & as a Virgo sun mercury & Venus I feel this statement is truly important for us as virgo Venuses that get in toxic relationships
Sun moon and Venus in Virgo, I've always foreseen these bad things happening in relationships & I avoid at all costs, my logic always wins.
You see yourself becoming emotionally & physically abusive with your partners? Why is that - is it as soon as you start developing feelings you suddenly feel like sabotaging it and forming the sadist/masochist dynamic?
@@zztops3739I wanna ask my boyfriend this question…
Omg 😫 you hit the nail on the head. I can't even take a compliment without feeling like I have to back up my "Thank you " with a distraction. Its like I have this need of humbleness like you said guilt of atonement like im not worthy of anything. My grandmother ask me what do I want for Christmas I always say I don't know. But its really me feeling like I haven't earn anything. I often feel depressed when nothing is fucking wrong with me. Like why am I like this. But like you said it was the previous life who took this on.
Whew this is sooooo true !!!
I have a venus in virgo and the only thing I can relate to is the part when you said we tend to think we are undeserving of love and we're insecure. As far as the whole abusive thing I've never experienced it nor have I ever abused anyone. I did however grow up witnessing alot of domestic violence, which left me feeling some type of way. It is hard to trust people or even open up to love. This is interesting...
It can be other types of abuse other than physical. Even giving someone the silent treatment or passive aggressive behavior or being codependent even can be a form of abuse.
Same I grew up witnessing a lot of domestic violence too. So his explanation about upbringing and feeling enough worthy of love was interesting.
Venus in Virgo 4th house.
Nobody can love as purely and deeply as me. I love this position. Venus in Scorpio, Taurus, Leo, and Cancer are great matches I believe. I have yet to meet a fellow Venus Virgo. I’m the type to put socks on your feet before I leave for work so you don’t feel the cold floor when you get out of bed.
An Introverts Perception Venus in Virgo in the 4th house... legit we are dedicated, dutiful and loving 🌟💛
Yes @ M Rosa, when we are in a committed relationship we are “dutiful” and “dedicated”. Love is “work”. It’s like landing the job of your dreams position. You clock in, work overtime, dedicate yourself, grow to reach greater heights, plan, create, gain trust, strengthen position, make connections, learn, know every detail, constantly perfecting, embracing and being so proud because you throw yourself into your relationship aka “work”.
I have been waiting for this and I'm so happy it's here! I have my Venus and Mars is Virgo. You called me out on something I was already aware of; I can be your best friend or your worst nightmare, you choose 😁
What’s the deciding factor on your end?
I was born with so much Virgo. It’s difficult.
Skylar A...me too so much but we got this..
@@divinemasculineunspokenwor1227 YOU DO GOT THIS. YOU CAN WORK ANY ASTROLOGICAL PLACEMENT!
Same...
Skylar A. I Have a Stellium in Virgo as well, Not the easiest placements but it’s a Blessing. Trust.
Same girl, Sun in Virgo, Mercury in Virgo, Venus in Virgo.
that soul sickness hit me hard😭 ever since i was a kid i would never know why or what was making me sad. sun in leo virgo moon scorpio rising and virgo in mercury, and venus
Every word you just said is me except for my moon is in Pisces. Ever since I was a kid, I couldn’t understand my inner sadness.
Omg , I am Venus in Virgo and I am a Dom / switch / hedonist... I wished that I wasn’t so dark in love ... Most men are intrigued but they fear me deeply. I have a couple pay pig and I’m cautious in relationships because men become overly obsessed with me. I stay away from Scorpio men...
I relate to this so much, I also have Venus in Virgo badly aspected by Saturn and Mars and relationships are so hard for me. I either been in relationships with men who didn't offer too much or men that became obsessed with me. I resonate especially with the part were you said you stay away from Scorpio men. My last boyfriend was a Venus in Scorpio. I really couldn't handle him.
I’m a Virgo and my husband is a Scorpio
@@artsymusicartmovies5187 what happened with your venus in scorpio boyfriend. who was the abuser.
This man is straight fire! So on point. Shit is scary.
Yes, happened when I was 19 years old! I was abused horrifically, and raped 🤬🤬 I never asked for this, I was trying to escape my controlling parents, but I have grown strong through every obstacle I have come face-to-face with in my life...I am proud of who I am becoming, yet we must remind ourselves of this daily!! Bless all of you Venus in Virgo, you can move on, heal, and grow, better yet, help others through our experiences! 🙏❤💯❤🙏
Yes this is something.. I've been molested by couple of Ppl as a child the as a teen to adult i was date r@p3ed 7 times and even stayed in relationship with guys who date r@p3d me. Had several preg losses . Then married at 26 and was totally neglected sexually, but I'm here still but I've had some difficult relationships. But I still have our genuio love. And I LOVE myself and i totally love being a Virgo
The best astrologer. I am learning so so so much from you. Thank you!! 😘😘😘
Evolved Venus in Virgo here ✅ 18:23 spot on.
Excellent job Fernando.
You read me with this one. So on point with why I've been depressed my whole entire life and don't know why. How can I overcome and heal this aspect of myself. It's a major blockage in my life. It's robbed me of a lot of opportunities.
I’ve been OBSESSED with these series. I cannot wait for you to talk about Venus in Libra 😍. By the way I’m a Scorpio with a Libra moon and Venus with an Aquarius rising.
Dam that’s literally me! I’m just a Gemini Sun 💯💯
If you catch me staring off in space or zoning out you would see my expression of a sad sad girl. And when asked " hey are you ok" immediately I would snap out of it and say yes and then get offended that you assume something was wrong with me. But it is and I can't figure out what's wrong myself . 😭
I know what you mean. Same Here. I also Look sad while i am asleep.
Bdsm ....wouldn't have it any other way...guess its venus in virgo...that explains it all
This was so on point it’s almost scary
Love your energy!! And that Laugh😎 sending you love & light 🌟 Venus in Virgo here☺
Everything you said is so true. I have venus in virgo conjunct my sun in virgo and yes having this placement feels exactly like you say so far.
I have this placement also.
Song that represents Venus in Virgo: Beautiful- Eminem
I haven’t even started watching and I already know I’m going to be ripped in half on this one.
no not really
How is the v. virgo dark energy is expressed when the Sun is in Leo?
- Sun in Leo, Venus in Virgo, Pluto and Uranus in Virgo :((
My husband has Sun in Leo, Venus in Virgo and he is highly narcissistic!
It depends on if it’s a Leo make lie or woman -as they are like night and day
Maybe I'm sexually suppressed😂😂but I tell ya that Shades of Grey made me raise both eyebrows🤔😂love your work
I'm a Gemini rising. Libra Sun. Libra Moon and Venus in Virgo.....b4 I learned more about astrology and only knew my sun sign I was puzzled how I could be a libra yet have so much difficulty in relationships. I truly feel like I'm better off alone. Focusing on other areas of my life I feel is much more constructive for me...love=heartache. it's just not in the stars for me in this lifetime .
Meadow Wood I’m libra sun libra moon cancer rising and Venus is Virgo & I feel the same .... I’m feel best when left tf alone lol
Virgos aren't cheaters and liars. Virgo is based on being pure. But everything else you said was right
Very anxious to watch this video! I watched previous Virgo vids and they had me rolling in laughter and provided some real truths!!! Thank you sir!!!
I get why all men I get obsessed with me!!! Papa legba the man with the keys to.all doors #thedevil lmao I am nasty Virgo ♍ #i am very spiritually!!! Virgo /pieces over here 💎💎💎🦋💕💘🔥
Do you fall into the sadist/masochist dynamic?
I watch my Leo women and show everyone your video before to let them know who they dealing with.and.thank.you.for.gardenia
I hav venus in virgo ( mars in sco), iits very accurate, i also feel like everthing i do, watch of read in my live has to be practical / to do with selfimprovment or knowledge, i can t read novals neithee i watch movies, my selfwotrth often rellly sucks......i am looking for a partnsr who is also intersetsd in selfimprovment, intelligemt, practical and sexual, also i always want that everyone feels good otherwise i cant have fun, the part with the inner sadness and depression is 1000% true...i have to conciously all the tiem to remind myself to stay postiv , my inner sadness self can other peiple make freak out, they cant deal with it and think sth is wrong with me....
You are nothing but the truth good sir 😁
Im sooo happy that i found you, im learning so much about myself through astrology and numerology and i feel so blessed to find people like you who know so much information
Thank you so much! and
God bless ya My Dear 🥰
I keep coming back to this video. Uncle Fernando you keep.❤
You know personally, I can say now that I am OK with heaven, Virgo and Venus, because I have experienced so much in life that has led me to where I am now in regards to knowing myself and believing in myself more. as to the darkness I am glad you brought that up because I have always known there is darkness within me that I have always had to tame and now I have come to a mutual understanding with it where I can coexist and be comfortable with it. Thank you for letting me know what I already knew. It just validates my growth.❤
You just made a lot of things make sense ..you are a blessing
"The Category is Venus in Virgo" Yasss
Damn. Never thought that this placement was so hard. My ex has this placement... explains a lot. My Venus is in Scorpio, and I’m Pisces rising. It makes sense now. But this makes sense, he’s talked about not feeling right before and it bothered him deeply .
Did you guys have a sadist/masochist dynamic? Did you guys ever say unforgivable things to one another and then end up making up and getting back together?
I've been waiting 4 this. I'm a virgo in venus & virgo moon cancer sun gemini rising.
I'm about 2 watch now. Thank u 4 ur videos, I love ur channel 😊
Spot on, my venus is however in my 5th house. So i know my happiness is found in the arts, in my creativity, play, childlike wonder. I know once i make that firm decision to dedicate my energy into my passions/purpose (and shake off this insecurity as chiron is in this house under virgo too) i'll truly feel alive.
Venus in Virgo Scorpio sun here let's go!!!
Same. We get shit crackin 😂
Me too
Same here with a taurus moon.... why me lord I'll never get a long lasting relationship 🤣🤣🤣
I am loving your unique perspective on Virgo and Virgo Venus. I have a stellium in Virgo and Venus is there in its fall. With that said, I have an exalted Mercury, so there’s hope 🔥
Mother Teresá was def a demon in real life
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 you explain things so well that is funny. Now I am scared of Virgo.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are spot on. I was with two abusive husband's. I divorced them both!
In my early years I was in an psychological abusive relationship with a guy who took me through the ringer from age 18 to 20 . I was also sexually assault through rape at 19 my first year in college . The guy told me I would only be a good fuck to men after he raped me . It took me going to therapy and investing in shadow occult teaching to save me from my self . I learnt to love all of me and my taboos . Stop being so hard on myself , selective morals and to accept laws of magic . Im in my thirties and I own my shit ...
Best thing on RUclips. Just watched part 2. Hope part three is coming
👍🏿
I have watched this video a few times, but this time, I was brought to tears when he speaks about abuse. I realize how much abuse I endured from my father which was emotional and verbal and my kids father who beat me like he really hated me then apologized after and I never really internalized how debilitating and wrong this was. It is DEEP.
Maybe because my other placements are more powerful? But as a Venus in Virgo I’ve always loved myself deeply almost to a scary point.
What are your other placements?
Same ! My Mars in leo reminds me that I’m that bitc- anytime I do feel sad or insecurity arises…I remember my power
Dang all my placements are hard and complex...moon in Capricorn Mars in cancer venus in virgo...sheesh.
I am a domestic violence survivor and thankfully I got out alive. I still dont understand why that had to be my experience but I got stronger and honestly I felt just like you said in this video. Its DEEP indeed.
THE BEST, FOR YOU, IS YET TO COME...
@@unclefernandotheastrologer I believe that sweetie. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and humor ❤
OMG I know someone with ur exact placement, what gives you the motivation to open your heart and build a long term relationship?
@@NND2024 hello. For a LONG time I was just tired. I used to ask God to take away my feelings so I couldn't feel anymore because I got tired of the pain but I think we all, no matter who we are want and need love. So once I worked through all that I had been through, I decided to be as authentic and true to myself as I can no matter what. I decided to pray for discernment and wisdom instead so that I wouldn't so readily give my love time and effort to when it was welcome or desired. That goes for anybody...family or friend. I learned that we create our experiences and manifest them by what and who we allow in our lives. I try to be as positive and respectful as I can and anyone who isnt on that same vibe I simply wish them well but I can't allow them into my life too deeply and again that mean family and friends. For me, I noticed that if I continued to allow the heaviness of negativity to be a part of my life, it leaves no room for love. Darkness and light cant occupy the same space (darkness being negativity hate etc light being love positivity etc) so I had to make a choice. It was a process. Best of luck to you 😘
@@rlmcclain1 Sounds like a big journey indeed, bravo and I second fernando:the best is yet to come 😎
You have such a wonderful personality and a great way of explaining astrology!
Am a Libra sun, Venus in Virgo, cancer moon, Aquarius rising
I love all of your videos 😊
Same here except Aries moon
Sun in Libra
Moon in Scorpio
Venus in Virgo
This is my ex husband, what's your rising?
Mine is Gemini Sun, Moon in Scorpio, Venus in Cancer, Cap rising.
Mines to
There are a lot of Libra suns with Virgo Venus
Gah thanks for covering this. It's really nice to know someone knows what it's like.
Do you mind sharing what your other placements are like?
@@zztops3739 I'm not sure where to start haha But my ViV is in the 10th house with Jupiter & Vesta in Virgo
@@CFM7 what is your sun, moon, rising? xx
Nobody ever goes in depth like this smh they always be so basic and surface level thanks now I understand my dark side that’s how I know bad ppl cause I have wild thoughts
MR , Fernando, your very unique Astro one of the kind in these years, appreciate your details of all your research in each video you been created, i would like to add you for helping me out for birtchat , don't know how to asd you for service, anyway could help me please here 🙏🙏🙏
I am dating a person with this position, I dont know how to fix that low confidence and put a stop n how everyone makes fun of him.....I don't know how to undo that ....I feel that heaviness. Not only that but he has mars in cancer and moon in scorpio....I try to monitor myself from being mad and literally saying hurtful things to him, b/c I want him to action into flourishing and being happy......but it is not always easy.....I feel like I am adding to that shit he already has, when all I want is to help.
How is your relationship dynamic? Is he your angel or your devil? Did you help him with his sadness/low self esteem?
You can’t fix or undo what they feel/how they are. They have to do the work to develop the self worth an confidence. No amount of telling them good job or you can do it will work. They have to cultivate that from within. It’s tough.
You Just Nailed
Very Bold Accurate I have ever heard ✌✨💫
I wish more astrologers had a deeper understanding of Virgo. They often repeat the same descriptions. "Virgo: perfectionist, logical, and intellectual." I'm always left feeling like, "Is that all?" I possess so much more than just those wonderful traits! 😅 this video makes perfect sense to me… let me start my healing process 😐
Engaged to be married to a Virgo Venus / Mars.. his strongest aspect is the conjunction between those two. I’m a ♊️
What is your relationship dynamic?
Wow same here! Is he also a cancer?
I've been in an on off realtionship with a leo whos Venus is in virgo for years.. so incredibly traumatic and toxic.. like wow..
Can you explain the dynamic?
I was dating someone with this placement and he is... odd. If I make one small mistake he takes it so personally and feels like I need a deep deep punishment to drive home the lesson. It’s super weird. Also it seems like when I come to him lovingly he does not take to it but if I come harshly, call him out of his name, belittle him, treat him like absolute shit he suddenly feels more open to hearing me. It’s so weird... I really don’t understand.
@@zztops3739 yeah we're kind of similar, dramatic aggressive communication. He always thinks that he's right and when you apologizes for his wrong doing it always ends with a reason why.. let's both out out own happiness above our partners, okay? 💕
@@NObodDEE no not okay 😂 I’m not putting his happiness above mine we can both mutually be happy. The pros do not outweigh the cons enough to make me want to do that lolol
@@zztops3739 I was suggesting the opposite..
@@NObodDEE oh I misunderstood
I think that this is a great video. I have many virgos in my family, and I didn't have knowledge of any of this issues. This explanation has been an eye opener. Now I might be better prepared to help them. This video is like going to a class. Now I can understand so many things... Thank you sooo much. Really great explanation.
I do have a sadness inside that i don't understand. But I love me, i enjoy me, i love hard though. But I feel like it's 3 sides to me lol. 3 personalities. At my older age I'm learning the stars a bit and in sun Virgo and Venus in Virgo.
@Fernando Prudhomme Can you please do Venus in Virgo PART TWO please. You left off with saying we can be fixed spiritually
Hands down best astrologer online!!! Ty 🥰 I have Virgo rising and Venus and Mars in Virgo in the 12th.
I love your channel. How long have you been studying these signs? You know it down to a T.
over 40 years!
@ Kings and Queens, I just love him! The depth of information he provide us is simply amazing.
@@goddessenergy7238 Oh yes. No doubt. I keep my white henny close by so I can sip and laugh with him...he got mad skillz💯
Hehehehe. He makes wanna puff a mega spliff each time He lights his. Lol
Thanks for making this vid I’m a new subscriber and just came across your vids I love them!
My sun is Libra, Rising Sag, Moon Aquarius, Mercury Scorpio, VENUS IN VIRGO 😊
what exactly is
Venus in Virgo?
which date ranges fall
into this category?
@Abstract Alignment
hey thanks AA!
discovered I am
Sun in Libra 🌞♎
had no idea how
intricate astrology
could be 😬
you must be charted
Your laugh is contagious lmaooo 😂❤️
Lawd have mercy ... Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars in Virgo
EtioBeeudi same as my bf, on top that they all fall in the 8th house -scorpio 😥
I pray for yoy
Lmao
Just let me think about that for a second, while I light my spliff....
Could be they do not realize that the image they see in the mirror is not what they look like. Everyone has a need to be beautiful. And everyone is beautiful. Once that is figured out, everything that made a Venus in Virgo person wrong become right...
Virgo moon, Venus and Chiron in 12th.. definitely a struggle
@4:54 , sheesh brotha
Master teacher
Sun in libra, moon in Scorpio, Rising in Leo and Venus in Virgo
Sierra Secor libra sun with Virgo In Venus too. Sheesh
You almost scared me
Sun in ♎️
Moon in ♏️
Mercury in ♍️
Venus in Virgo
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Well that explains the empty void that I be feelin out of nowhere for no reason😩 I want a redo😮💨
Where is part two!?!?!??!
Can I get that link for part 2
This is why I’m struggling to get plastic surgery. I will get it
I have Venus retrograde in Virgo, does this mean it take on the characteristics of Pisces? Or what does it mean?
Did this video resonate with you?
I used to do a lot of psychedelics, and the zodiac didn't really come til after I stopped. But I would intermix practices, while my buddy was into gotetia, I was into sabteria. I would see and hear papa legba regularly. I just find it odd with the venus in virgo. I don't want to jump steps and say its why. Im also a leo sun, Aries moon, and cancer rising. Itll all fight itself until either something pisses me off, brings out the trickster, or makes me fall in love
I’m a cancer ♋️
Venus in Leo
Moon in Taurus
Ascendant cancer ♋️
Mercury in Scorpio ♏️
Pluto in Virgo ♍️
2nd house Virgo ♍️
who met someone with moon in Virgo ♍️ after hearing this I’m out...
I don’t want to be connected with someone like this...
Same. This is... a lot.
I’m waiting for Venus in Capricorn !!!!!😳😳😳😳😭🤣🤣
So on point almost made me cry it's like he was describing me
Shoot this is so spot on. I'm always wondering was I seriously wicked or effed up in my past life for me to go through or feel how I feel. So having this placement I understand. Crumbs looking at my chart n placements it's like giiiirl you pissed the god's off but they still gotcho back tho.
Hi where is VENUS in VIRGO PT. 2?
Venus is cap cant wait love Thank you for this amazing awareness.. I want to kiss you ...pisces sun..xx
Mmmm your are right my husband is ♌ sun ♊ moon with capricorn rising venus in virgo he is a lot of work but love him to death
Oh Yes, I've seen "The Burning Bed" ..I was born in 77"
Is there a part 2 ?
I have Virgo Sun with Scorpio Moon and Virgo Venus with Sagittarius Mars . Your videos are so spot on . Thank you for the work you do.
Whoa - I’m dating a guy with the same placements but Mars in Libra. Are you the saint or the devil?
Ascendent in Libra. 1H sun in libra. Leo moon in thee 11th.
Mercury in scorpio in the 8th, mars in scorpio in the 2nd, Pluto in scorpio
Virgo venus in its 12th house.
Sadist and a masochist as well. 100% switch
This resonated with me and shook me to the core, I'm currently in tears over this...
Sigh help
You said your a twin?
This shocked me as well! I want to see them side by side lol
I love you and your.laugh.So so.much
He loves me he really really.loves meeee
Love your videos love your energy. You keep it real. Me and my son are Venus and Leo and my daughter is virgo in Venus, we are also 3 virgo suns too. God helps us lol
Do you guys have the masochist/sadist dynamic with each other and/or with romantic partners?
@@zztops3739 no we don't at all, it's all love and kindness. But they are only kids. My daughter has the Venus in virgo I hope it will mean she will have high standards when picking a partner but I think we tend to go for people who treat us like our dads did, and she's lucky cos she has a great Dad, very kind and always there for her, he loves the two of them so much. But who knows what the future holds, hopefully happiness ♥️
my mother has this , she been in abusive relationships one physical the mental abuse the past