I’m 38. If you feel lost in early 30s or 20s, watch this

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  • Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024

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  • @JustFost0203
    @JustFost0203 13 дней назад +59

    I just turned 33 last week and I feel so ashamed that I have not accomplished a single thing. At least it feels like it. I needed to hear this, thank you

    • @SR-mv2mf
      @SR-mv2mf 7 дней назад +4

      Am 35 I was and still feel that way but you know what that feeling is getting smaller because the world is not what i was raised for and it ain’t my fault that things didn’t go as per the plan of the times

  • @esevelina
    @esevelina 14 дней назад +52

    Thank You for this 🥰32 here, moved continents 3 times, tried several different jobs.....still trying to find my path, completely lost between voice of intuition and rational thinking. Sending love to whoever is lost in their search🌹

    • @StefanieMuller-cl5qm
      @StefanieMuller-cl5qm 12 дней назад +1

    • @kap849
      @kap849 9 дней назад +1

      33 here. From 2029-2023, I live in Asia, Europe and Africa any just like you, I've had many different jobs. I finally took a leap of faith and decided to pursue teaching since that's what I have always wanted to do. I am finally feeling settled.
      All the best hun 💓.

    • @Nancykitter
      @Nancykitter 8 дней назад +1

      Same here, I have finally decided to do content creation and I believe I will make it

  • @vixxlelame5617
    @vixxlelame5617 14 дней назад +44

    I’m 32 , hope to look as young as you at 38 🙌

  • @DontBeATree
    @DontBeATree 13 дней назад +65

    27 and it’s comforting to know we are all going through it. No matter what age or problem.
    We got this guys

  • @mariantruly
    @mariantruly 14 дней назад +38

    Girrrrl I’m 34 and this is exactly what I needed to hear today. God bless you ♥️

    • @reinventingpoppy
      @reinventingpoppy  14 дней назад +6

      You've got this girl!

    • @hnnhml
      @hnnhml 13 дней назад +3

      31 here and ditto 🙌🏻

  • @TruthFinder7839
    @TruthFinder7839 14 дней назад +26

    I’m 68 and experienced the best of times for business and marriage and had a good run for 30 plus years, what goes up goes down sometimes even faster. Keep moving and take actions and self improvement should be your goal and never give up. 😅❤🙏😊🙌
    P.S. all your advice is correct 1000% from my personal experience 😊

    • @reinventingpoppy
      @reinventingpoppy  14 дней назад +2

      I love you mentioned what goes up, goes down, it's so ture.

    • @TruthFinder7839
      @TruthFinder7839 14 дней назад +3

      @@reinventingpoppy I always thought I’d reach a steady plateau of success and happiness and it would last forever or become even greater. It’s not the case at all, you’re either going up or you’re going down, nothing lasts forever. Biggest lesson in life I learned, everything changes sooner or later, don’t get too attached to anything or anyone for your personal happiness, this is something you build within and control.

  • @NamiBurger
    @NamiBurger 10 дней назад +9

    I'm almost 30. I have a lot of anxiety, self doubt and guilt about my future and i find myself thinking about it when im not busy working or doing something. I always worry about finances, am i doing the right thing, am i a good person, am i a good gf, my partner's aswell as my health, how will i deal with aging and my parents passing etc. People tell me left and right i should make more money, get a better car, dress differently, do this and that for myself but im trying my best to spend more time with my own inner voice and what i really value in my life separate from society's conditioning.

    • @apostlefausterkapaya1526
      @apostlefausterkapaya1526 7 дней назад +3

      Worry not your still young my dear. Everything gonna be fine, try to listen to your inner self and start budgeting and saving and pray, you will see wonders. May God give you peace dear

  • @jonpauldelange
    @jonpauldelange 7 дней назад +2

    It's never too late to "prioritize your peace." ☮Well said, and so deserved when we learn the lessons you outlined here. 🙌🏼

  • @youtuber-cc8sx
    @youtuber-cc8sx 13 дней назад +8

    My current job is ok in terms of work, not challenging, but my coworkers don’t have anything to offer personally in terms of relationships. This is depressing because there is such a lack of opportunity to meet people outside of work unless you already have a circle which I don’t have.

  • @samanthaspegele2700
    @samanthaspegele2700 4 дня назад +1

    27 ~ thank you so much for this point of view; it’s comforting to know I’m not alone in this mental roadblock ❤❤

  • @Louis76-z3i
    @Louis76-z3i 14 дней назад +7

    I am 48. And I know how life is. Its hard going. And we all feel stuck in a thankless job, at times. Most people don't know what their actually want, in life and out of life. And people don't know and are always quick to forget. All we can do is to just keep on. And Yes we should have that quiet time when we can only listen to our self. My saying is. Just stop and slow down. If not then just stop and think. And its true Drink Cold water as cold as Ice. And go for a slow walk is also wise move. No phone no head phones. And I hope you have a happy day.😎🚭🏁

  • @helee28
    @helee28 3 дня назад +1

    Dear Poppy,
    You are calm, articulate and so beautiful. I appreciate you looking out for us, and yourself. Thank you for sharing. This video was so calming.
    More love and magic to you sister 💓

  • @astrostar49
    @astrostar49 10 дней назад +3

    "Imagination...its limits are only those of the mind itself." - Rod Serling.

  • @headshotcaptain8389
    @headshotcaptain8389 3 дня назад +2

    28 and no house, spouse, kids and no career living at home with parents. Been working dead end jobs throughout my twenties and the mere idea of entering my 30s in the same exact situation makes me even more depressed now than ever before. Going to school and can't for the life of me find a job in my field is so goddamn depressing as I just want to be independent and start my life already. Every day is filled with unbearable depression my off days I cannot even physically get out of bed at the time I'd like too and even then when I do I procrastinate about what to do the entire day when I should be coming up with a game plan on how to fix my life. I sit down and look at other things I could do to start moving my life in the right direction but it all seems so overwhelming and feel like time is running out as when I'm 30 I'm supposed to have had my life figured out already career>house>wife>kids.

    • @iva6692
      @iva6692 3 дня назад +1

      Same situation, I am 28 now... But sometimes you can't change everything when you want..

    • @headshotcaptain8389
      @headshotcaptain8389 2 дня назад

      @@iva6692 Years of depression with all the above and a toxic ex gf with a traumatic past unfotunately led her to abuse many drugs and me alongside with her and since the beginning of this year i've tried kms multiple times only to bleed out profusely and cry in a pool of blood and tears. Started using again because at this point in my life i honestly don't see the point anymore in even trying, no point in continuing when kms is the only answer.

  • @xiangxiadang
    @xiangxiadang 14 дней назад +5

    I’m in my late twenties. Life is a journey, and I’m still learning about myself 🪞

  • @tr7339
    @tr7339 14 дней назад +3

    Yes .... we grow we leran.

    • @tr7339
      @tr7339 14 дней назад +1

      We learn rather

  • @hisisnoppadontour4783
    @hisisnoppadontour4783 6 дней назад

    Thank you for positive and inspiring thoughts ❤ it made my day😊 I’m stuck in my 30 as well but now I will refocus to my ultimate and long term goal.

  • @karajohnson913
    @karajohnson913 12 дней назад

    Hey Mama thank you so much for your gracious words in showing us that we are not alone and going through the exact same things you are talking about. Thank you so much for providing solutions and being a mental gateway look for all of us to fall into our purpose in life and thank you so much you have no idea how much of a therapeutic voice you have and I appreciate that you have created your channel to show your genuine nature this is so much needed girl. Sweet dreams,

  • @astrostar49
    @astrostar49 10 дней назад

    Thanks for continuing to provide insightful commentary. I love this channel.

  • @yaniverse2549
    @yaniverse2549 8 дней назад

    First time watching your video and my gosh you speak with so much peace and wisdom. And you loook 30, my dear friend😍💛 What a goal when I reach 38. It makes me subscribe to your channel. Bless be upon you.😊

  • @RobertCllis
    @RobertCllis 13 дней назад +133

    read the forbidden book Magnetic Aura on Borlest, and you'll see the secrets they're keeping from us.

    • @ddaj23
      @ddaj23 13 дней назад

      Can’t find it

    • @sithj398
      @sithj398 13 дней назад +14

      Scam

  • @SweetestLavender
    @SweetestLavender 12 дней назад

    Thank you for your advises. You’re a great help to people like me who always overthinks and sometimes have low motivation.

  • @aliciang4058
    @aliciang4058 10 дней назад +2

    I feel ya gurl as I'm 35 already and l'm still clueless😭

  • @EnzoBordone
    @EnzoBordone 13 дней назад

    this format really suits me

  • @almaschowdhury7130
    @almaschowdhury7130 3 дня назад

    You're 38 and you look like you're my age- 26. Great video!

  • @Louis76-z3i
    @Louis76-z3i 14 дней назад

    And thank you also for posting this upload. Very formal and useful.👑

  • @BeCourageous-01
    @BeCourageous-01 13 дней назад

    What I wanted to hear this morning, thank you so much🥰

  • @brianhope4236
    @brianhope4236 13 дней назад

    Another great video Poppy!

  • @mollyandmeimeimei
    @mollyandmeimeimei 11 дней назад +1

    thank you for this video

  • @mychi-b3u
    @mychi-b3u 14 дней назад +2

    You look so beautiful and more energy today😊😊

  • @jabs3005
    @jabs3005 12 дней назад

    So True and relatable Thank you for this video, i will sure look out for more of your videos 💯👌🏾👍🏾

  • @ilonak7841
    @ilonak7841 3 дня назад

    I love your videos ❤ But I hope you’ll consider to change the music at the of the video. It’s so sad and depressing, at least for me. Thank you!

  • @MH02DW1264
    @MH02DW1264 14 дней назад +2

    I am reaching my 40.. and had a similar experience...

  • @Mike_61610
    @Mike_61610 10 дней назад +2

    i woke up and i’m almost 40…. in 20 years ill be almost 60… a fkn grandpa!!!!! wtf…..

  • @jayfranklin6776
    @jayfranklin6776 13 дней назад

    Very useful. Thank u so much! 😊

  • @MadelenaSweet
    @MadelenaSweet 13 дней назад

    really liked this video

  • @izuraheman4899
    @izuraheman4899 20 часов назад

    Hey, im 24, just broke up & feeling guilty & lost. This video is, helpful.
    Thank you for creating such an art that also serves as a guide in my new chapter.
    Sending you good prayers, luck & love xx

  • @igotbit9454
    @igotbit9454 14 дней назад

    good for u.
    u seem pretty grounded

  • @Maria.SweetRose
    @Maria.SweetRose 13 дней назад +1

    💖thank you

  • @hananyassin-es5mx
    @hananyassin-es5mx 2 дня назад

    Thanks

  • @DONALD_DADDY_TRUMP
    @DONALD_DADDY_TRUMP 7 дней назад

    It’s better to be young like a teen

  • @michal4521
    @michal4521 13 дней назад

    Thank you !

  • @offdabeatenpath
    @offdabeatenpath 11 дней назад

    Uncertainty is a certainty, so it's all about the response. It's all about perspective. I juuust posted a video about this today!▶
    Glad I got turned onto your channel. Wonderful video, thank you for making this and sharing it! This message needs to be restated from all directions.
    From one business owner to another, we got this!! --- Dominique, Founder, Off Da Beaten Path Learning LLC | 1-on-1 self-directed education

  • @Tiia922
    @Tiia922 9 дней назад

    Thank you❤ I feel so behind. I just have my career and I am 31. M boyfriend is 34 and he is not ready to move in together or anything because he is finishing his PhD. All my friends are married and have children. I’m scared I will lose my fertility while waiting him to be ready.

    • @apostlefausterkapaya1526
      @apostlefausterkapaya1526 7 дней назад +3

      My dear we woman have limit time than mans, ask him if he is not ready move forward. Don't wait someone to waste your time if are not ready it's okay.

  • @Tamietwist
    @Tamietwist 11 дней назад +1

    I want to know about work and buying a house. I do not want to overwhelm myself after I finish college. I am in Europe just for reference. I just want to know if its worth it and realustic to think about. I am planning on working part-time after I am done with college and fucus (maybe) on my youtube channel but that probably isnt going to do much for me 😅

    • @reinventingpoppy
      @reinventingpoppy  5 дней назад

      I'd say RUclips is a long game. I don't recommend anyone quitting their job for RUclips but doing RUclips on the side until you have some income from it instead. I talk a lot about it on this channel.
      I am a home owner and from my experience I do think it's worth it if you plan to stay at the same place for a long time. House buying doesn't make sense if you buy and sell after a few years as there are costs associated with buying and selling and your house may have not appreciated enough in value to cover those costs.

  • @ennvee1989
    @ennvee1989 6 дней назад

    35 and watching😊

  • @catspurity
    @catspurity 14 дней назад

    Thanx darling

  • @RayHlinger
    @RayHlinger 13 дней назад

    best!!!

  • @hananyassin-es5mx
    @hananyassin-es5mx 2 дня назад

    You look 20

  • @CesarSandoval024
    @CesarSandoval024 13 дней назад

    I dont oay attention to all that because im stupid, and you cant fix stupid 😂

  • @FernanesPinto
    @FernanesPinto 13 дней назад

    awesome

  • @nuhaalmariyood5105
    @nuhaalmariyood5105 14 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @stevefleming7393
    @stevefleming7393 14 дней назад

    💯💖

  • @dolmasherpa9988
    @dolmasherpa9988 10 дней назад

  • @Divyv520
    @Divyv520 13 дней назад

    Hey Reinventing, really nice video ! I was wondering if I could help you with more Quality Editing in your videos and also make a highly engaging Thumbnail and also help you with the overall youtube strategy and growth ! Pls let me know what do you think ?

  • @bagzhansadvakassov1093
    @bagzhansadvakassov1093 13 дней назад

    Understand yourself better, live someone's else life. Aint that some new age bs.

  • @bonolomofahla
    @bonolomofahla 14 дней назад

    🤎

  • @hnnhml
    @hnnhml 13 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much for sharing your journey in such a transparent way🫶 its so good to feel less alone 😅

  • @YaioMaiASMR
    @YaioMaiASMR 10 дней назад +2

    Thank you for this! I needed this

  • @vegito1880
    @vegito1880 5 дней назад +1

    Who’s to say you’ll have it all figured out in your 30s, 40s or 50s or beyond. Whether you have less or more than others it all boils down to gratitude. It your grateful then life will hopefully give you more or make things that aren’t for you leave.

  • @edmonddantes8134
    @edmonddantes8134 14 дней назад +3

    In the 50s too...

  • @nvika3852
    @nvika3852 13 дней назад +3

    Im 19 soon going to be 20 in November....nd now im going into med school but sm of my frnds r already in 2nd and 3rd yr of collage and i always felt like i was late by comparing myself to them ....but thaku sm now im not going to compare bcz everybody's life path is different ❤

  • @pepsicolla123
    @pepsicolla123 7 дней назад

    I feel so comforted by this video ❤. You gained a new subscriber. May God bless your creative work endeavors!