Competition Guised As Courtship: Your Partner Can’t Love You Because They Envy You

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  • Опубликовано: 18 окт 2024

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  • @laurat.4791
    @laurat.4791 20 часов назад +32

    life is way more peaceful right now - when no one is interested in me

  • @eeeasyyySunday
    @eeeasyyySunday День назад +29

    Also Carrie was insecure, and envious partners will sense that and Prey on that

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад +2

      @@eeeasyyySunday GREAT point! 🎯

  • @Thekenyattamusic
    @Thekenyattamusic 16 часов назад +18

    I retired at 27 and for the last 10 years it’s no man that can hold a candle to me my age, and I have no desire to be with an old man or build anyone up. So here I am trying to make a million a month my salary 😂 they been jealous of me I get it. I’m not breakable

    • @zowdeezowdee
      @zowdeezowdee 16 часов назад +4

      I'm about to retire at 25

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад +1

      @@Thekenyattamusic OOP! Okay Queen! 🙌🙌🙌🙌 congratulations 🎉🎊

    • @Khaegch-favh
      @Khaegch-favh 9 часов назад +1

      😱😱😱
      🤩🤩🤩
      🫡🫡🫡
      🙌🙌🙌

  • @thesevenkingswelove9554
    @thesevenkingswelove9554 20 часов назад +21

    Men are seriously not worth it,what did Carrie even get from all this? Money? No Love? Absolutely not. All she got was abuse

    • @ebonyassassin
      @ebonyassassin 17 часов назад +6

      Just to be a third wife when Big finally grew old and not as desirable anymore; then croaked on their bathroom floor by a heart attack. 🥲

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад +2

      @@thesevenkingswelove9554 this was definitely an emotionally abusive dynamic!

    • @HerbeyStudies
      @HerbeyStudies Час назад +2

      @@ebonyassassinand left his money to his PREVIOUS wife, the woman he always wanted

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 16 часов назад +22

    I'm sorry. CARRIE WAS NOT WILD AND FREE. She was ruled by Big

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад +5

      @@catcat9582 okay, you have a point. But my girl needed to say that to feel better about the situation!

    • @arkangelmerici1170
      @arkangelmerici1170 6 часов назад +1

      She was always running behind him. I don't think she is a good example for anything. She was also pretty toxic and an awful person.

  • @jessicaselenecenteno
    @jessicaselenecenteno День назад +10

    Exactly. Very true. Masculine and feminine energy has to be balanced.

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад

      @@jessicaselenecenteno balance is imperative!

  • @tiffsterritoryonyoutube
    @tiffsterritoryonyoutube 7 часов назад +6

    good assessment.. big didnt want her but didn't want anyone else to have her either. shady boots...

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  6 часов назад

      @@tiffsterritoryonyoutube definitely wanted to have his cake and eat it too!

  • @csylla
    @csylla 15 часов назад +3

    This is so true and personally relevant.

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад

      @@csylla glad you enjoyed babes 💕💕😭

  • @elenamendoza1733
    @elenamendoza1733 27 минут назад

    OMG, u are so right with this take 😮

  • @xoxo-vp7ww
    @xoxo-vp7ww 19 часов назад +13

    I understand envy in relationships. But, she’s the wrong character to depict that in my opinion unless you want to showcase her jealousy towards Mr. Big’s WIFE. She continuously competed with his wife for Mr. Big’s attention. She even stalked the wife after Mr. Big passed away. She was obsessed with him and would not let up. The sidechick IMO will never be fully respected esp if the side chick KNOWS she is the side chick.

    • @Confessions089
      @Confessions089 15 часов назад +4

      Thank goodness some of us prefer not to be sidechicks. Also, is marriage even worth it? Especially if husbands prefer sidechicks.

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад

      @@xoxo-vp7ww okay. I only focused on the beginning/introduction.

    • @xoxo-vp7ww
      @xoxo-vp7ww 9 часов назад

      Yeah, in the beginning he may have treated her that way out of guilt or hesitation to pursue since he knew he was married. I’m just saying I don’t think this was jealousy. But, definitely good information/content.

    • @xoxo-vp7ww
      @xoxo-vp7ww 9 часов назад

      @Confessions089: there’s so many benefits to marriage imo, but I understand it’s not for everyone. And I don’t think husbands prefer side chicks, I think that a lot of men are still VERY PRIMAL and just want to conquer. It’s also an ego/insecurity thing.🫣

  • @lynnyogabellydance3737
    @lynnyogabellydance3737 6 часов назад +4

    I don’t see none of this. It doesn’t relate to their situationship. It was never a relationship till the end. Carie was a booty call, one of many. She wasn’t a classy woman like the women he enjoyed dating. They meet when he was picking up her condoms from the floor, that was the image and value she had in his eyes. He was never serious about Carie.

  • @Ava-KellyGray
    @Ava-KellyGray День назад +3

    love this video on jealousy

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад

      @@Ava-KellyGray glad you enjoyed love 💗

  • @leanita7549
    @leanita7549 19 часов назад +2

    ❤💯 Really important info.

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад

      @@leanita7549 appreciate you Leanita 🥹💕💕💕💕💕

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 16 часов назад +1

    Good video

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  9 часов назад

      @@catcat9582 glad you enjoyed 🤝

  • @catcat9582
    @catcat9582 16 часов назад +3

    I feel like maybe big is an avoidant and narc?

  • @crystalmorgan9118
    @crystalmorgan9118 4 часа назад +1

    Is Carrie a sigma woman

    • @MsReadTheRoom
      @MsReadTheRoom  3 часа назад +4

      @@crystalmorgan9118 idk what a sigma woman is 😂

    • @teddslens
      @teddslens 52 минуты назад +1

      Yes

    • @crystalmorgan9118
      @crystalmorgan9118 26 минут назад

      @@teddslens i reckon so I guess Mr Big is a Alpha Male which could not tame Carrie

    • @elenamendoza1733
      @elenamendoza1733 25 минут назад

      100% no