Oyo! Once he's gone, let it be gone forever. No need for going through the same heartache. Good for you sister for standing your ground and being determine.
Your husband only sees you when he doesn’t have someone on the side. I commend you for standing strong and setting a good example for us Hmong women. I wish you the best and I hope that you will find love again.
Hmoob aw cas mloog cov neej neeg no ntau ntshe ntshav yuav siab vim peb saws daws zaum ib lub rooj xwb cov me nyuam yeej tsis nyog hlub tus txiv dev no vim nws twb tsis hlub nej yog nej pheej hlub nws ces ua rau cov txiv neej thiab poj niam hmoob tseem yuav coob tus ntxiv
Tus niam tsev awww! Koj ua tau yog kawg li lawm os! Txhob ntseeg niag txiv dev ntawv yooj yooj yim nawb! Ua cas es nej muaj hmoos tau cov laus txoj kev pab nej lub neej zoo hos kuv tsis muaj li os. Tu siab ua luaj. Niag ntsej muag txiv dev ntawv tsis txhob cia nws rov qab los lawm.
Please don't take him back if he begs you to. People who leave you for someone "better" and see that the grass is not greener on the other side just wants a safety net to fall back on. Lord knows what the future hold and please don't even bother to reach out to him, unless the kids have an important event or a medical emergency.
Poj laus aws Cia nws mus os. If you still love him that much than just let him marry you n have a second wife cus it seems you just cant let go of the past. If someone has the heart to leave you for another move on....if you cant than jus stay so u dont have to come tell another similar story that we all have heard of already! PERIOD!
Txhob tu siab tus neeg zoo li ua neej tsis kawg peb ua neej nyob tsis yog ua neeg os nco ntsoov tias peb sib qev txiv xwb tsis yog leej twg tus thiaj tsis mob koj
Zoo heev tus niam tsev tus niag txiv Zoo li koj niag txiv dev ko mas txhob txuag nws kiag yeej meem cia nws tshuab qeej plhuaj taub xwb nws thiaj li yuav paub tab.
my hmong sisters please love yourself and respect yourself because when a man is cheating on you, he no longer loves you... why stay with a man that doesn't have any feelings for you... if he truly loves you he'll never even look at another woman... you hmong women need to love and respect yourself, don't make yourself look desperate for him... he's not the only man with a stick.
Forgive and forget for you to have peace. Move on with your life, love yourself and your children. Men are not the same but for this one, he doesn't deserve your love and attention.
I don’t get Hmong men...why do their usual lame complain is that their wives are old n they need a younger woman? Don’t they realize that in most case they are older than their wives? Omg can’t believe these geezers!
Some hmong people like to play the cat and mouse game. Once a person decides they want to pursue new relationships just let them go. Have value for yourself and stay away from that drama.
Yog koj tsis kam rov qab yuav koj tus txiv cas koj pheej tseem nrog nws tham ua dab tsi na yog ntxiav ntxim siab txhob tham li mas thiaj yog tsis khuv xim os yog tseem pheej tham ces kawg rov qab yuav xwb mas
Zoo siab koj tso taus tus dab no tawm lawm.......txhob quaj ntxiv lawm mog, koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj.....nws twb tsis xav tias nws los kuj laus phim koj thiab xwb........kav liam koj yog ib tug nyab zoo, tus tsis zoo ces yog niag yawg dab ntawm ko ntxeev siab nkaus xwb. Txhob khuvxim nawv nrog koj tub koj ntxhais nyob xwb zoo dua tus dev laus ntawm tsim koj lub siab nawv.
Hmoob yuas hmoob cas nej nim coj nej cov neej neeg coj tuaj hais22 pub peb mloog es tus xav li cas los muaj ntawm kuv txoj kev xav mas yog nej tuaj tham mas nej txhob hus22 kwj tse es nej hais txoj kev ntshaw ntawm nej seb yog vim li cas kuv coj li no hos kuv tus khub coj li no es wb lub neej thiaj tsis tiaj tsis tus no rau peb mloog mas yuad hmoob. Ua tsaug nawv.
Peb poj niam hmoob feem coob thaum ua neej zoo thiab muaj nyiaj lawm cov txiv yeej phov li no. Peb cov niam tsev hmoob ces xav tau txiv ces mob txog hnub tuag. Yog uv tsis tau ces neej yawg tag xwb os hmoob aw. Kuv yeej taug ib txoj kev no thiab tseem phem tshaj no thiab os lawv. Peb poj niam hmoob kuv kua muag los txog thaum twg thiaj tag li os
I can’t understand why ib tug txiv neej los pojniam Cia li Muab lub neej pov tseg ncaim mus ua dua ib lub neej yam tsi muaj kev txhawm li ! Peb cov pojniam hmoob mas Raug tsim txom tag li xwb ! Luag yeej tsi hlub yus tiag, luag ntsua ua kom koj lub neej puag xwb !
Good, another strong hmong woman. Good for you. He doesn't deserve you. Teach your DAUGHTERS how to be strong. Teach your sons that Hmong women will not put up with that bullsht. Stop answering his phone calls.
Wow, cov niag ntxiv dev no mas liam tshaj. Tseem ua yus yawg txiv lub ntees los tseem tham me cab es nws lub phone tseem tseem ceeb tshaj yawg txiv lawm thiab. - Kudos to this lady. She kept her ground and didn’t give in by taking her ex-husband back. She is one of the few smart Hmong women I have seen. Sometimes being disobedient towards the elders (listening to them about taking your ex back) is okay. Love yourself first! Smart woman. 👍
Sister I am so proud and bow down to you!! More us women should learn to have more guts to do what you have done!! A lot of us need to learn to stand our ground!
Twb muaj hluas nkaug lawm es tseem tuaj tom koj tsev ua dab tsis os tus niam laus tso kev rau koj tus txiv mus os txhob muaj2 koj cov nyiaj rau lawm os
Peb cov pojniam hmoob mas xyov li lau, pheej yug menyuam coob 2 ua rau yus lub cev puas tag li lau yog li no thiaj ua rau cov txiv neej zoo li no thiaj hloov siab.
@@justforlove9784 I think when they were young he chose her that means if she had only a few children and kept herself thin and attractive then that should keep her cheater husband’s eyes away from other women because she was the best for him but, it’s too bad and too late for her. Hmong women should start thinking of having fewer children and keep themselves attractive.
@@justforlove9784 no matter how faithful he is if she doesn’t keep herself attractive he will change his mind someday due to her unattractive behavior.
@@SierraANDcelica Nah, I've seen A LOT of beautiful, thin, married Hmong women getting cheated on by both Hmong guys and non-Hmong guys alike. To hell, most beautiful housewives on Beverly Hills have the best trainers, doctors, and connections to the world, but they still have cheating husbands. We should just admit that cheaters cheat if they want to cheat. No amount of good looks or a good attitude can keep a cheater. This is coming from someone who dealt with a lot of patients with infidelity issues btw.
@@Zeb1245 then you should tell those cheaters to go to hell because you seen them. That particular case she said her body was ugly. Still Hmong women need to consider having fewer children and keep themselves attractive.
Wth is wrong with you women! Men gives you everything and even willing to pay for beauty support as he leaves and yet you still bs him when he needs help but say you still love him! Aleast be fair to others as is done to you! I hope you Men understand not to have pity them as you guys are braking up!
To most of my Hmong men and women don't ever think about the other person will accept your life of blue print. When you get into marry the other person will change your life blue print? The blue print of house we can change but not the life of blue print.
You and those relatives who kept telling you to take him back are all FOOLS...Obviously you are not over him yet...especially when you still kept on referring to him as "kuv tus txiv" Get over it, he was no longer your husband when he left you. smdh...move on and stop playing his game
I hate to repeat myself but the grass is never greener on the other side!! It’s a little to late to mend a 💔 heart!!
Zoo siab koj tsis yuav nawb koj yog ib tug pojniam zoo ris siab rau txoj kev lwj siab raug tsim txaus mog..
Peb cov poj niam yuav tau muaj siab muaj ntsws. Thaum luag twb nrauj yus mus yuav lwm tus lawm ces luag dhuav yus dhaum. Tsam no nws mus lub neej tsis kawg nws rov los thov tsis txhob yuav lawm nawb. Yog koj yog neeg yug ces rsis txhob k lawm.
tham tau zoo hv thb tu sb hv li
Good for you sis, stand up for yourself, he has nowhere to go so he came back to you...
Glad that your a smart women and didn’t take him back
Neeg tsis sawm zoo, tsis muaj hmoo tau zoo lub neej rau yav laus.
Oyo! Once he's gone, let it be gone forever. No need for going through the same heartache. Good for you sister for standing your ground and being determine.
Don't take him back! Hold your ground. Best wishes to you niam tais
Very strong women and you know how to care for yourself and don't let your ex husband hurt you again
Your husband only sees you when he doesn’t have someone on the side. I commend you for standing strong and setting a good example for us Hmong women. I wish you the best and I hope that you will find love again.
koj mas tseem hluas2 kawg li os sister aws thiab kuv mas tuaj mloog koj tas li xwb os hais tau zoo kawg thiab
Good for you!
Hmoob aw cas mloog cov neej neeg no ntau ntshe ntshav yuav siab vim peb saws daws zaum ib lub rooj xwb cov me nyuam yeej tsis nyog hlub tus txiv dev no vim nws twb tsis hlub nej yog nej pheej hlub nws ces ua rau cov txiv neej thiab poj niam hmoob tseem yuav coob tus ntxiv
typical Hmong marriage but glad you’re smart and stand your ground
Most men’s don’t know what they got when it’s really gone. Don’t feel bad for him. Love yourself
Sister ua ib siab os mog
Cov niag txiv neej siab phem siab dub tshob cuab khib xuab zoo li ntawd xwb txhob khuv xim o poj hmoob ....nws mud nws ma.yeej tsis txog twg li lawm o...nws txoj niag Kev lwj siab yeej tos rawv nws xwb o
Yog nws nrauj yus lawm ces yus tseem tshuav hmoov ua neej o mog
Tus viv ncaus, koj ua yog lawm. Nws xav rov qab los rau koj ua qhev rau nws xwb os.
Really typical Hmong men that still lives in the era of 1800.
YESSS she didnt take him back. Stay smart
Niam txiv kev loj leeb mus tsi kawg. Yog kawg txhob txais tus neeg ntxeev siab ib zaug tsam kj pa hos tu nawb
Tus niam tsev awww! Koj ua tau yog kawg li lawm os! Txhob ntseeg niag txiv dev ntawv yooj yooj yim nawb! Ua cas es nej muaj hmoos tau cov laus txoj kev pab nej lub neej zoo hos kuv tsis muaj li os. Tu siab ua luaj. Niag ntsej muag txiv dev ntawv tsis txhob cia nws rov qab los lawm.
Please don't take him back if he begs you to. People who leave you for someone "better" and see that the grass is not greener on the other side just wants a safety net to fall back on. Lord knows what the future hold and please don't even bother to reach out to him, unless the kids have an important event or a medical emergency.
Poj laus aws Cia nws mus os. If you still love him that much than just let him marry you n have a second wife cus it seems you just cant let go of the past. If someone has the heart to leave you for another move on....if you cant than jus stay so u dont have to come tell another similar story that we all have heard of already! PERIOD!
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You're such a smart woman! Don't let such a fool like that enter your life again. You deserve better!
Txhob tu siab o niam laus lub cai no ces tu kwv twb tuag lawm tsuav tu tij nyob xwb es thiaj hu koj xwb
Txhob tu siab tus neeg zoo li ua neej tsis kawg peb ua neej nyob tsis yog ua neeg os nco ntsoov tias peb sib qev txiv xwb tsis yog leej twg tus thiaj tsis mob koj
Zoo heev tus niam tsev tus niag txiv Zoo li koj niag txiv dev ko mas txhob txuag nws kiag yeej meem cia nws tshuab qeej plhuaj taub xwb nws thiaj li yuav paub tab.
nco ntsoov hlub yus tus kheej txhob hlub yus tus txij nkawm tag tag thiaj tsis ua rau yus crazy os.
my hmong sisters please love yourself and respect yourself because when a man is cheating on you, he no longer loves you... why stay with a man that doesn't have any feelings for you... if he truly loves you he'll never even look at another woman... you hmong women need to love and respect yourself, don't make yourself look desperate for him... he's not the only man with a stick.
💯 truth! Both men and women have equal rights. We shouldn't treat each other any less. Respect goes both ways.
So happy that you a strong woman and stóod up to this txis dev raum
Forgive and forget for you to have peace. Move on with your life, love yourself and your children. Men are not the same but for this one, he doesn't deserve your love and attention.
Scary story next please
Tus txiv dev no cia nws mus ua dev thawj thiab pw xas loos thiaj li zoo dev tsis sawm zoo.
He doesn’t deserve your forgiveness don’t let him come back.
Smart lady!
He is just too scared. Cause he is too worried
I don’t get Hmong men...why do their usual lame complain is that their wives are old n they need a younger woman? Don’t they realize that in most case they are older than their wives? Omg can’t believe these geezers!
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Hmoob aw Tsi txhob ua dev thawj thiab os mog
Poj hmoob koj dag li dag. Niaj hnub tos nws niag rws txob los sav...
Some hmong people like to play the cat and mouse game. Once a person decides they want to pursue new relationships just let them go. Have value for yourself and stay away from that drama.
Tsis txhob k tus neeg no tsis Tau Kev tuag mam Los xwb tsis k lawm nrag
Zoo siab heev tias koj tsis pub tus txiv dev liam no rov qab los. Koj yog ib tug qauv zoo heev rau peb cov poj niam Hmoob.
Poj gaib ruam puag ge o niam tais yawm txiv zoo cais yug vauv rog . Yug nab rog nab tom yus ntog .
Yog koj tsis kam rov qab yuav koj tus txiv cas koj pheej tseem nrog nws tham ua dab tsi na yog ntxiav ntxim siab txhob tham li mas thiaj yog tsis khuv xim os yog tseem pheej tham ces kawg rov qab yuav xwb mas
Niam ntsuab teev tsi yog koj tau khaub thua lawm Los ua ca koj pauv suab lawm na
Zoo siab koj tso taus tus dab no tawm lawm.......txhob quaj ntxiv lawm mog, koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj.....nws twb tsis xav tias nws los kuj laus phim koj thiab xwb........kav liam koj yog ib tug nyab zoo, tus tsis zoo ces yog niag yawg dab ntawm ko ntxeev siab nkaus xwb. Txhob khuvxim nawv nrog koj tub koj ntxhais nyob xwb zoo dua tus dev laus ntawm tsim koj lub siab nawv.
Pab koom kuv thaib ua tsaug
tsi sib haum li ntawd ce ua vaj tswv tsaug xwb mua.
Hmoob yuas hmoob cas nej nim coj nej cov neej neeg coj tuaj hais22 pub peb mloog es tus xav li cas los muaj ntawm kuv txoj kev xav mas yog nej tuaj tham mas nej txhob hus22 kwj tse es nej hais txoj kev ntshaw ntawm nej seb yog vim li cas kuv coj li no hos kuv tus khub coj li no es wb lub neej thiaj tsis tiaj tsis tus no rau peb mloog mas yuad hmoob. Ua tsaug nawv.
Peb poj niam hmoob feem coob thaum ua neej zoo thiab muaj nyiaj lawm cov txiv yeej phov li no. Peb cov niam tsev hmoob ces xav tau txiv ces mob txog hnub tuag. Yog uv tsis tau ces neej yawg tag xwb os hmoob aw. Kuv yeej taug ib txoj kev no thiab tseem phem tshaj no thiab os lawv. Peb poj niam hmoob kuv kua muag los txog thaum twg thiaj tag li os
I can’t understand why ib tug txiv neej los pojniam Cia li Muab lub neej pov tseg ncaim mus ua dua ib lub neej yam tsi muaj kev txhawm li ! Peb cov pojniam hmoob mas Raug tsim txom tag li xwb ! Luag yeej tsi hlub yus tiag, luag ntsua ua kom koj lub neej puag xwb !
Good for the wife...
Niam laus kuv xav xa ib zaj neej neeg rau koj hai thiab e yuav xa qhov twg os
KOJ TUS TXIV YOG MONSTER XWB TXHOB NCO LAWM OS...
Good, another strong hmong woman. Good for you. He doesn't deserve you. Teach your DAUGHTERS how to be strong. Teach your sons that Hmong women will not put up with that bullsht. Stop answering his phone calls.
Wow, cov niag ntxiv dev no mas liam tshaj. Tseem ua yus yawg txiv lub ntees los tseem tham me cab es nws lub phone tseem tseem ceeb tshaj yawg txiv lawm thiab. - Kudos to this lady. She kept her ground and didn’t give in by taking her ex-husband back. She is one of the few smart Hmong women I have seen. Sometimes being disobedient towards the elders (listening to them about taking your ex back) is okay. Love yourself first! Smart woman. 👍
Sister I am so proud and bow down to you!! More us women should learn to have more guts to do what you have done!! A lot of us need to learn to stand our ground!
Twb muaj hluas nkaug lawm es tseem tuaj tom koj tsev ua dab tsis os tus niam laus tso kev rau koj tus txiv mus os txhob muaj2 koj cov nyiaj rau lawm os
Hais rau koj tias tsis txhob qheb qhov rooj rau lawm cia nws ua dev thawj thiab thaum nws tsis muaj chaw nyob ces nws tias koj zoo tab yog nws muaj tus tshiab ces nws yeej yuav mus dua txhob yuav ntxiv lawm cia nws mus kom kawg xwb
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Peb cov pojniam hmoob mas xyov li lau, pheej yug menyuam coob 2 ua rau yus lub cev puas tag li lau yog li no thiaj ua rau cov txiv neej zoo li no thiaj hloov siab.
A good faithful husband will love you regardless of how you look after giving birth. A cheating husband will cheat even if he has a trophy wife.
@@justforlove9784 I think when they were young he chose her that means if she had only a few children and kept herself thin and attractive then that should keep her cheater husband’s eyes away from other women because she was the best for him but, it’s too bad and too late for her. Hmong women should start thinking of having fewer children and keep themselves attractive.
@@justforlove9784 no matter how faithful he is if she doesn’t keep herself attractive he will change his mind someday due to her unattractive behavior.
@@SierraANDcelica Nah, I've seen A LOT of beautiful, thin, married Hmong women getting cheated on by both Hmong guys and non-Hmong guys alike. To hell, most beautiful housewives on Beverly Hills have the best trainers, doctors, and connections to the world, but they still have cheating husbands. We should just admit that cheaters cheat if they want to cheat. No amount of good looks or a good attitude can keep a cheater. This is coming from someone who dealt with a lot of patients with infidelity issues btw.
@@Zeb1245 then you should tell those cheaters to go to hell because you seen them. That particular case she said her body was ugly. Still Hmong women need to consider having fewer children and keep themselves attractive.
You are gorgeous and beautiful lady some day ❤️ love will find you 🇺🇸😎🙏👍
Txhob txw menyuam ua phem rau lawv txiv thiaj tsis muaj kev npam
Wth is wrong with you women! Men gives you everything and even willing to pay for beauty support as he leaves and yet you still bs him when he needs help but say you still love him! Aleast be fair to others as is done to you! I hope you Men understand not to have pity them as you guys are braking up!
To most of my Hmong men and women don't ever think about the other person will accept your life of blue print. When you get into marry the other person will change your life blue print? The blue print of house we can change but not the life of blue print.
These stories are getting annoying...annoying a$$ old man cheating going nowhere story...smh.
Stupid typical cheating.... beep!!! Ugh! He only came back to you because he has no where else to go. Darn user
You and those relatives who kept telling you to take him back are all FOOLS...Obviously you are not over him yet...especially when you still kept on referring to him as "kuv tus txiv" Get over it, he was no longer your husband when he left you. smdh...move on and stop playing his game