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  • @shannonburke4074
    @shannonburke4074 5 месяцев назад +1719

    "It's just a dog" comes from people who have never experienced the unconditional love that comes from a pet- they are more than a pet, they are family. Praying for all of you during his cancer journey. Thanks for sharing this. I too am in a valley right now and tend to freeze. I needed this reminder that we are not alone and sometimes life just sucks. But it never stays that way, and there are good things even in the valley.

    • @Patriotgrl01
      @Patriotgrl01 5 месяцев назад +21

      Totally agree. Pets are family members ❤ I too am going through the valley and have a small fight, but I’ll get through it and you will too ❤

    • @eatmyoctopus
      @eatmyoctopus 5 месяцев назад +19

      💯 agree. I really can’t stand how people try and minimize what these beautiful animals mean and do for us.

    • @oliveb6318
      @oliveb6318 5 месяцев назад +5

      I have had so much love, unconditional love from mom and dad and I also give the same now to my kids. I for some reason always think of a dog as a dog. Just a dog. That’s alright. It has nothing to do with not experiencing unconditional love. ☺️

    • @Airwreckasaur
      @Airwreckasaur 5 месяцев назад +22

      @@oliveb6318 "Unconditional love that comes from a pet." They view the pet as family is their point. They didn't say experience unconditional love from a parent...

    • @FlashyKam72
      @FlashyKam72 5 месяцев назад +2

      Well said. I've never heard of the valley term, but I'm definitely in the deepest crevice there is. I've never been in this predicament, and it's scary. Not having a way to pay rent, insurance, groceries.... plus, I need to put down my very sick dog. It's never-ending. I just want to go to sleep and not wake up to this life.

  • @amyad
    @amyad 5 месяцев назад +409

    There’s something called “Anticipatory grief” and it’s absolutely a real thing. It sounds like that is what you’re feeling and is so understandable ❤Losing an animal is a special kind of heartbreak

    • @bryanaperry8760
      @bryanaperry8760 5 месяцев назад +26

      I've lost a lot of people and pets, and the anticipatory grief is always the worst for me. It is terrible waiting for something terrible to happen to someone you love.

    • @allthingscloudy
      @allthingscloudy 5 месяцев назад +5

      How does one work and heal through that?

    • @shellzabelle4146
      @shellzabelle4146 5 месяцев назад +11

      @@allthingscloudy I’ve been through it with people and animals. Something I found to be very important is to not rush your grieving process and don’t allow others to tell you how to grieve. If you suppress the feelings of grief, you won’t be able to fully process it, preventing you from getting through it in a healthier way where you can come to terms with it, let it sink in, and then continue on with your life (if that makes sense). You eventually may need to push yourself to do things you love again, but that will come with time and you’ll know when you’re ready. That’s been my experience anyway.

    • @danigirl1318
      @danigirl1318 5 месяцев назад +5

      That’s is amazing advice🙌🫶
      *Ive held on to grief so what I thought would help others process their own first. But grief is wild and it will come out in other ways

    • @mommashawna707
      @mommashawna707 5 месяцев назад +5

      How crazy I was going to say the same thing but I didn’t know how to put it in words, I didn’t realize there was an actual name for it, that the time leading up to someone’s passing is actually worse than the passing and I don’t mean that to sound rude, I just lost my mother last year, she wasn’t just my mom she was my best friend and I’m still struggling but it’s true. It’s something you have to keep telling yourself and even then the unimaginable is very scary and I think that’s what makes it worse than the actual passing. As humans when something happens we deal with it one way or another but when you don’t know what’s going to happen it’s out of our hands.

  • @toxyvella
    @toxyvella 5 месяцев назад +173

    Having a sick or elderly pet is a neverending stress. The 'waiting' can feel really crippling and having to silently carry that in your day to day life is the worst. The only comfort is knowing all the joy you brought to each others lives. My heart goes out to you ❤

  • @TheCindybaby84
    @TheCindybaby84 5 месяцев назад +55

    I lost my Lil’MAN cat 6 weeks ago. I had him for 14 years and 9 months. I ugly cry for him. We were bonded and had an amazing connection. When he looked at me, I could feel his love. I’m incredibly grateful I had him for so long. Your Puka is so lucky to have such an amazing DOG MOM! Prayers are going out to you and Puka. So sorry you are going through this. Hugs Tati❤

  • @melissainvbva
    @melissainvbva 5 месяцев назад +195

    All the positive energy to Puka! Its never "just a dog". I had my ride or die little pup and lost her in 2022. She was (and is) my whole heart. When you were talking about Puka i felt the pain and my heart is with you 😢

    • @carolesimmons1
      @carolesimmons1 5 месяцев назад +2

      Prayers for Puka!! I sobbed as you were talking. I lost my 75 lb rescue black lab mix three years ago and he just totally left with my heart. He had lymphoma and steroids kept him going in great form for over a year until one day he came in the kitchen and looked at me like “😊I’m sorry.” But we had another lab who had inoperable cancer. Vet said nothing could be done except take him to the Kansas University Vet School. He stayed at KU getting chemo for a month. We’d go see him on the weekend and take him to a hotel. He was already 12 but he lived four more years cancer free. Was it a lot money- thousands but worth every penny. You just never know so don’t give up hope.

    • @irinabugai1022
      @irinabugai1022 5 месяцев назад +1

      I lost my sweet boy (Scottish fold cat) on February 4th 2023. I’m still not over my sweet boy. I miss him so much. Poor Puka, and poor your little pup , Melissa.

  • @kn9937
    @kn9937 5 месяцев назад +213

    I lost my sweet dog back in December and what you're experiencing is anticipatory grief. I went through it and was so terrified of life after my sweet boy was gone. It will be hard when the day finally comes, but you will be okay. Feelings are scary, but you've made it through every difficult day of your life so far and will make it through this. What's helped me is remembering that because of God, I can see him again one day, and every day that passes without him is one day closer to seeing him again. I'm so sorry that this is happening to Puka. I wish you and James comfort and healing as you process this. You've given him a good life, so no matter what happens, you loved him with everything you had and that's all he ever needed. Hugs Xx

    • @wendypowell7460
      @wendypowell7460 5 месяцев назад +16

      I love this sweet comment so much. Perfect words of wisdom and sympathy.

    • @veronika__asmr_
      @veronika__asmr_ 5 месяцев назад +3

      Such a sweet & endearing comment! I like how you see life & death ( wish I could see it that way) sending love and light your way 💜

    • @cindyolson4549
      @cindyolson4549 5 месяцев назад +4

      So sorry for the loss of your own baby. I lost my girl in November. Her bonded brother and I still miss her. I find comfort in the future rainbow bridge too.

    • @CC-gn4tb
      @CC-gn4tb 5 месяцев назад +1

      Very well said. ❤
      Love and peace to anyone going through the loss of a pet. It's one of the hardest things to live through. Xo

    • @AyaAziz
      @AyaAziz 5 месяцев назад

      Aw wow. I'm so sorry for your loss. I appreciate hearing your words that everyday is one day closer to seeing him. I have a Maine coon who's been going through a tough time, and I fear of how much time we have together. Proud of you for staying strong willed and sharing this with everyone.

  • @KymmiTunes
    @KymmiTunes 5 месяцев назад +27

    Tati, they are never "just a dog". Never. The way they love us and the way we love them is huge. You have all my prayers for Puka. So much love to you both.

  • @callmeclaireee
    @callmeclaireee 5 месяцев назад +23

    Finding your soulmate in a dog is so special and so heart breaking to know that don’t live forever.
    Sending Puka all the love and good vibes that he’ll be okay and comfortable. ✨🖤

  • @mleine8926
    @mleine8926 5 месяцев назад +81

    Pets are family too and have a special place in our hearts. I have a similar story too with my pup. She was my world! Prayers for your family and Puka. ❤

  • @lizyoung4049
    @lizyoung4049 5 месяцев назад +265

    Praying for Puka!!!! I am currently battling breast cancer myself and I know how rough it is not only on the patient (be it human or animal) but also the family. And pets are absolutely family!! The things I have found helpful are to stay positive and hopeful, focus on the good, and surround yourself with a good support system. Sending love to you and Puka and all of your family 💖

    • @kristyreynolds8334
      @kristyreynolds8334 5 месяцев назад +13

      May God bless you. Hope you are feeling ok.

    • @user-zv3ce6lv4b
      @user-zv3ce6lv4b 5 месяцев назад +13

      I too have not long recovered from breast cancer ! & losing my pet rabbits they were so cute & my little babies ! But be strong you will get through this battle & come out stronger & more put together than ever before god bless you & I hope everything goes fantastic here on in the future 🙏😍

    • @ambra8957
      @ambra8957 5 месяцев назад +9

      I wish you the best of luck and strengh to get through this.

    • @FlashyKam72
      @FlashyKam72 5 месяцев назад +9

      Sending you positive healing vibes!

    • @janelleodionu3631
      @janelleodionu3631 5 месяцев назад +6

      Wishing you a speedy recovery my friend. ~

  • @kayleighwittenborn9221
    @kayleighwittenborn9221 5 месяцев назад +46

    Pets are family! I feel for you right now. I lost my two chocolate labs and let me tell you, those boys got me through my 20s, into my 30s. My husband and I waited 2 years before getting a recent puppy. My labs will never be replaced but it’s been so fun to have joy in the house again. After a hard day, there is nothing like unconditional love from a dog. 🐾 🥰
    Sending prayers!

  • @cherylmartin1740
    @cherylmartin1740 5 месяцев назад +32

    Prayers for Puka. I'm so grateful I work for a company that realizes it's not just a dog and allows us sick time for our pets and bereavement leave. Tati, keep those best memories close to your heart.

  • @marielnicole6973
    @marielnicole6973 5 месяцев назад +57

    I’ve been a silent follower for years now; this week has also been one the worst weeks of my life, in tears basically all day, and the little speech about putting on makeup on your worst days in the beginning, as I’m currently putting on my makeup to feel a little better. Just, thank you. Thank you for putting this out even though you weren’t feeling it, it helped push me to even do my hair and grab a coffee. Appreciate you Tati ✨

    • @SunandSweettea
      @SunandSweettea 5 месяцев назад

      Know that you are not alone. Even when everything is quiet and you feel that no one understands, know that there are people thinking of you.

  • @jessicastevojoe
    @jessicastevojoe 5 месяцев назад +148

    It’s definitely not just losing a dog. It’s a family member, when I lost my dog I was inconsolable for months. So I get it. Your doggy is in my thoughts and fingers crossed regardless of the cancer he is with you for as long as possible ❤

    • @MissMalevolent
      @MissMalevolent 5 месяцев назад

      After my mom's pomeranian died...she had his picture on her phone for 2 years afterward. It took her that long to think about getting another dog again....

  • @victorialeeds301
    @victorialeeds301 5 месяцев назад +9

    as someone who just lost her cat I know where you are coming from. You're 100% valid in feeling the way you feel. I am still pretty broken over the loss of her. I can't stand those people who say "its just a pet." urks my soul to the max. Stay strong tho Tati. Prayers for Pooka!!!!!

  • @anner1460
    @anner1460 5 месяцев назад +13

    Our pets are with us through everything in life. Without judgment, through the ups and downs. They are much more than just a pet, they are family. The pain is so very valid just like losing a person. Prayers to you and James Tati. Absolutely soak up the love Puka gives and give him all the love you can.❤

  • @HimadriPatel
    @HimadriPatel 5 месяцев назад +514

    Sending prayers and love to pukashell❤❤ stay strong he'll get through this

    • @lesleylathrop6062
      @lesleylathrop6062 5 месяцев назад +3

      Your pets are your loves too.

    • @theambitlady
      @theambitlady 5 месяцев назад +1

      Prayers to you Tati. I know how hard it is when your baby pup isn’t well. My love & prayers are with you, my beauty Tati. ❤

    • @denafletty727
      @denafletty727 5 месяцев назад

      Love and Prayers for PukaShell & Family! I have real children and let me tell you!My fur babies rank as high, IF NOT HIGHER! Your feelings are just that, YOURS! LOVE YA TATI!

  • @chellabelle87
    @chellabelle87 5 месяцев назад +42

    Praying for you, Puka and James as your navigating Puka’s cancer diagnosis and figuring out the right course of treatment. Being in this phase of anticipation of what’s to come can be so draining. Be gentle with yourself and James. Puka is your family and this is a huge thing to navigate. I hope in time, your heart will be open to another fur baby. Time and the love of another pup helps heal a lot of hurt ❤

  • @TaNdy88tJiSmE
    @TaNdy88tJiSmE 5 месяцев назад +24

    Giving all my kisses, hugs and doggie treats to Puka through the internet. As a pet mum with no kids, I can't even imagine what that terror feels like. Love to you and James Tati! Take care of yourself and each other❤❤

    • @pizzapizza6756
      @pizzapizza6756 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, I don’t have kids either so my dog is my baby. He is definitely a dog sent from heaven.

  • @embellishmarin4647
    @embellishmarin4647 5 месяцев назад +4

    There is no “just” when the subject is a soul you love deeply. Soak your sweet boy up, and know that you can never be truly apart. I believe it’s not goodbye, but “until then.” Sending big healing ❤️‍🩹 love to you all.

  • @kellyburnett1833
    @kellyburnett1833 5 месяцев назад +24

    I worked at Veterinary Clinics most of my life, as I am a passionate animal lover. I completely understand about the bond you share with your Pukashell. I send you positive vibes and prayers.

  • @FinalFantasyFairy
    @FinalFantasyFairy 5 месяцев назад +164

    I'm so sorry the week has been rough for you. Dealing with the same rough week as well. And guess what, my Christmas tree is still up too, lol. Keep your head up. You will get through this. Never let anyone make you feel small for being emotional about your dog. Pets are as much as family as humans are.

    • @chemistryflavored
      @chemistryflavored 5 месяцев назад +5

      I didn’t even put a tree up due to life events. So honestly kudos to those who put up and decorated a tree! You’re doing great!

    • @romymakeup8699
      @romymakeup8699 5 месяцев назад +1

      U will get thru it. Stay strong

    • @HelenaElenahelena
      @HelenaElenahelena 5 месяцев назад +1

      My Christmas tree is still up to 😂😅

    • @halo2d
      @halo2d 5 месяцев назад

      Can I just tell you, my mom bought a ficus tree when I was a kid and it was not cheap. Anyway, it died within a month. My mom, ever resourceful, went to Franks an old craft store and bought fake ficus leaves and hot glued them to the tree. She put lights on it for Halloween, Easter, valentines, st Patrick’s. You name it.
      I guess I typed all that to say, if the tree makes you happy decorate it for whatever season and enjoy it. Life is too short rock the simple joys.

  • @katielanphear3726
    @katielanphear3726 5 месяцев назад +19

    My Autumn girl is my soul dog, she is almost 12 and I literally stress myself out every single time she doesn’t anything out of the ordinary. I worry myself sick over loosing her and pray that the day never comes 😢 dogs are so much more than some people think. Prayers for your baby, I hope everything works out. Send all the healing energies and thoughts 🤍

  • @nidiadoherty5405
    @nidiadoherty5405 5 месяцев назад +5

    Holding you and Puka in light. I lost a heart dog to cancer many years ago. The grieving process started way before he was gone, but was also a chance to really soak him in, to enjoy what I loved most about him. They do leave paw prints all over our hearts.

  • @meagenb4968
    @meagenb4968 5 месяцев назад +15

    I'm so very sorry to hear about Puka. Enjoy every moment with him. Dogs are angels sent to give us love and light. Be present with him and do fun things and make more memories with him by keep living with him. Yes, I went through this with my Aussie in my profile pic. Big hugs to you and James. ❤

  • @pennieplatinum2767
    @pennieplatinum2767 5 месяцев назад +27

    Much love to you, Tati, and to Puka. I started to tear up just listening to you talk about the situation. Those of us here who have loved and lost a dog know about the joy and the heartache that can come with such an amazing bond. 💞

  • @pssurvivor
    @pssurvivor 5 месяцев назад +19

    i lost by furbaby a few months ago. i totally understand, it's not "he's just a dog". a lot of us bond with our pets like children. i just cannot believe one day he was here and now there's a him shaped hole in my life. I know exactly the feeling of impending anxiety that you were describing. the expectation of future anxiety, the reason for the anxiety add to anxiety in the present

  • @Oneandonliest13
    @Oneandonliest13 5 месяцев назад +5

    The Dyson curls are life! I’m so sorry that you’re going through this, I have grieved harder over my dog than most of the humans in my life that have passed. There’s something sacred about that bond and I hope that Puka pulls through. Prayers for Puka❤

  • @Michaela-98
    @Michaela-98 5 месяцев назад +37

    I’m so sorry you had a bad week Tati, but being optimistic in crappy situations is such an important skill to have! I’m still working on it myself, but I thank God for all of my blessings every day!

  • @elizabethm1367
    @elizabethm1367 5 месяцев назад +9

    I send you so much love for Puka, it is so heart wrenching when anything happens to our fur babies. I hope for speedy recovery to his sweet little self.

  • @soniaorozco5344
    @soniaorozco5344 5 месяцев назад +2

    Sending blessings and prayers for Pukas recovery, miracles happen everyday.. they are so much more than “just a dog” they are such a big part of us. They are our therapists, our friends, our kids… such unconditional love…

  • @laurabaker8256
    @laurabaker8256 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for sharing Puka with us. We love him too. Wishing you, James, and Puka love, light, and peace.

  • @SAI1973
    @SAI1973 5 месяцев назад +12

    I just went through this 2 weeks ago… and I felt all the feels , what I learned is that I knew what was coming but every day , I cheered him for giving me one more day with him to be his mom.. I celebrated him every day until he was ready to go. It’s “there then we realized how we give thought to “things “that in reality no matter.. Family matters.. he was family. Unavoidably we become someone else after such heartache but life keeps going. Best wishes for Puka , you and your hubby. ❤

  • @glamwarrior2327
    @glamwarrior2327 5 месяцев назад +48

    Oh no, Puka!! Oh, I'm so so sorry. I'm praying for Puka and you. They are not just dogs! They are such a big part of our families and, truthfully, more human than some humans. Sending lots of love.❤

  • @user-lf5oz9ki8z
    @user-lf5oz9ki8z 5 месяцев назад +2

    I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles with your fur baby. I've lost four dogs to cancer and I can empathize with how much it hurts. They're family, and we love them like family. And I agree that glitter helps. I've been struggling with some pretty heavy issues for about six months now, and my daily relief is my makeup time. So I may feel horrible, but at least my makeup looks good. Some days it's those little things that carry us across the finishline.

  • @AriesMoon622
    @AriesMoon622 5 месяцев назад +2

    Praying for sweet Puka and you guys. The connection we form with our fur-babies is undeniable, and I know how much he means to you. ❤

  • @itsjuliehoran
    @itsjuliehoran 5 месяцев назад +59

    Tati, YOUR HAIR! It looks beautiful. Settling in to watch, but sending you love 💖

    • @jt9058
      @jt9058 5 месяцев назад +6

      I want a tutorial on this hair!!!

    • @lidiakuhn6505
      @lidiakuhn6505 5 месяцев назад

      Praying for Puka to heal and feel better. I know how hard it is when our pets are sick. I lost my shitz tzu last August, he was 18, and we miss him terrible. I hope you can give him Al the TLC that he needs. Praying 🙏 for him and for you and James❤

  • @PennyHyde
    @PennyHyde 5 месяцев назад +27

    Nothing in the world can stop me in my tracks like when my golden, Abigail, is sick or hurt. Our pups bring joy & love into our lives that is like no other. So full of personality & fun, they can make us smile even when we’re having the worst day. Sending prayers for Puka, and for you. ❤️🐾

  • @dena5558
    @dena5558 5 месяцев назад +1

    Praying for you, James, and Puka as you walk through this together. I lost both of my labs between Jan 2021 and October 2022…it was devastating and I still have moments where grief hits me like a dump truck. I truly believe the world is better with dogs. They are truly such an example of unconditional love and loyalty and all things good. Love ya Tati ❤🙏🏻

  • @thebookiez
    @thebookiez 5 месяцев назад +1

    My puppy dog had a cancer too, and I love him so so much so I feel you. ❤ It truly sucks.
    My focus was on making sure my boy lived his best life and was as happy and comfy as he could. Stay positive and enjoy and appreciate every moment you have together ❤ Praying for all of you

  • @ablivious
    @ablivious 5 месяцев назад +84

    Sending love and healing to Puka!!

  • @maraedelacruz
    @maraedelacruz 5 месяцев назад +27

    Sending lots of love and prayers Tati. Thank you for still uploading even life is a struggle

  • @heatherb2161
    @heatherb2161 5 месяцев назад

    Prayers for you, James, and sweet Puka! It's NEVER just a dog.... they're family, and Puka is so loved with the best Mom and Dad in the world. I saw a comment below about Anticipatory Grief, and she is spot on (I am a nurse and worked hospice for a while). Sending you love and light.

  • @kassycarsini8401
    @kassycarsini8401 5 месяцев назад +4

    I am so sorry Tati about your beloved dog I am crying with you I know how it feels. Unfortunately there is not much that anyone can say or do to alleviate your sadness and pain. For those people who say it is just a dog are people not capable of loving.
    Take care and spend as much time with your dog as possible XOXOXO from Toronto, Canada

  • @sleepysloth2385
    @sleepysloth2385 5 месяцев назад +12

    Sending all my love and prayers for Puka and your family as you go through these bad times. Puka is more than a dog, he's family and he knows he's loved by you.❤❤❤❤

  • @yikes9944
    @yikes9944 5 месяцев назад +9

    Hey Tati! I’m so sorry you had a bad week and I’m praying for you and Puka, please please please don’t forget to involve the Lord in everything!! He cares about you and what you care about, and I’ve gotten through some of the hardest of times when I didn’t rely on my own strength and trusted in Him throughout the whole process. You’ll make it out alright when you leave it in His hands 💕

  • @lieslehardt6987
    @lieslehardt6987 5 месяцев назад +1

    I feel for you, brings me back to when we found out our sweet fur-baby had cancer as well and all that followed with the treatments, Chemo and surgery...sending you lots of love and completely understand how they are far more than dogs to many! BIG hugs!!!

  • @dianegilbank5095
    @dianegilbank5095 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my goodness I am crying my eyes out!!!! Bless you it’s so horrible and he is the most important thing in your life right now!, you and James have given him such a wonderful life and he knows that but grief is grief and it will be tough and really hard. Thank you for showing up and still doing this for us Tati!

  • @lesanswau
    @lesanswau 5 месяцев назад +7

    I’m so sorry Tati to hear that you guys are going through this - sadly I’ve been through it several times & it’s never easy when it’s your fur baby. Keeping you all in my prayers & hoping for a miracle. God bless 🙏

  • @lauracuevas8948
    @lauracuevas8948 5 месяцев назад +10

    I get it. Sometimes it takes more than one day to chill. Do what feels good to you. I like to get cozy, read, light a new scented candle, put on good feeling music, and dance if the time is right. I hope your day gets better!

  • @TheLawNurse78
    @TheLawNurse78 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hugs to you Tati. I had a dog pass in a house fire then another shortly after we adopted had a whole slew of health issues and we only had him for not even 2 years. I was just done having to feel those awful feelings so we're taking a break from pets for the moment. I know what you are going through. The grief stops your life, really. Hugs and prayers again.

  • @debrabarycki8819
    @debrabarycki8819 5 месяцев назад +2

    Prayers for Puka, I lost 2 dogs in the past and to be honest I grieved more for my furbabies then people I knew who passed, it was very depressing, and again I got another dog and he’s 11 and already I’m anxious about him getting older, they are are family and whoever doesn’t understand that never had a pet❤ 🙏

  • @emilymorse6374
    @emilymorse6374 5 месяцев назад +10

    Sending love and healing vibes to Puka! Hope you continue to find happiness in this chaos Tati! ❤🫶🏻

  • @MC-rh9eu
    @MC-rh9eu 5 месяцев назад +1

    I hope only for the best for Puka because I understand how much pets can mean so much more to people than just a pet. I appreciate you mustering the energy to make this video and still talking about your beauty favorites. I actually immediately went to buy the Derma E eye patches and this is probably my first absolute favorite because of how well they adhere, lightweight they are, and how hydrating and energizing they feel to wear it in the morning. I am definitely the type to curl up and do nothing when things aren't going well, so I hope delving into things that give you peace and joy can help you along the way.

  • @saxyroro
    @saxyroro 5 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my dog of 15 years Scruffy last Thursday. The day before, he had a +$700 blood test. It just sucks. We adopted 2 bonded boys on Sunday. We miss our little buddy, but we just had rescue our Max and Milo. Sending all the love to you, James and of course Puka.

  • @hawkiisjourney5767
    @hawkiisjourney5767 5 месяцев назад +6

    I hope for healing for Puka, and for good vibes for you and yours!
    Do what you can to take care of yourself, and enjoy every moment with the pup !
    I hope things get better for you!

  • @jaradaniels9289
    @jaradaniels9289 5 месяцев назад +4

    Right Tati whenever life seems to be going good and on track, bam something crashes. My heart goes out to you and James. Just keep that beautiful head up.

  • @TeriHillgartner-hv4vl
    @TeriHillgartner-hv4vl 5 месяцев назад

    Prayers for Puka. Anyone who says it’s just a dog hasn’t experienced the love that happens. Puka is not just a dog, he is your best friend, your baby, your biggest fan, companion, snuggle buddy, and family. I understand how you are feeling right now. I am so sorry and I wish Puka a speedy and successful recovery.

  • @hayleymerrill1312
    @hayleymerrill1312 5 месяцев назад

    Lifting your sweet Puka, you and James through his cancer journey and many prayers for healing, love and strength.

  • @lizardbreathh
    @lizardbreathh 5 месяцев назад +4

    You're hair is always ✨️STUNNING✨️

  • @shelbyrenner
    @shelbyrenner 5 месяцев назад +5

    Hugs and prayers for your Puka Shell 🥺❤️❤️❤️ You're such a sweet dog mama, Tati.

  • @sheilap
    @sheilap 5 месяцев назад

    Tati I get it. My soulmate dog Shasta was diagnosed with bladder cancer, and we had to say goodbye in May of 2021. That was after my oldest sister passed in February and my dad in April of that same year. All were crushing, yet saying goodbye to that sweet girl was a heartache I can’t explain. We dealt with the anticipatory grief prior to her passing as well. Embrace each moment with Puka and get all the snuggles & naps you can together!!! There’s nothing like the unconditional love they give!! ❤️🐾

  • @cheyannedonis2892
    @cheyannedonis2892 5 месяцев назад

    Happy energy for Puka! Let the sweet boy receive so much love in all stages of his life, no matter the circumstances ❤ I lost my ferret about a year ago and I’ve been so happy he’s out of pain, it of course I miss his cute little face 🤍 actually.. before he passed, I had never had a dream about a ferret, and now that he has, I’ve had 5! 🤍🤍 Our sweet angels are always so greatful for our love and care. That’s all they want and need 💗❤️‍🩹 Love you guys!! Wishing him comfort while he’s feeling under the weather 💖❣️

  • @andreatalamantez6000
    @andreatalamantez6000 5 месяцев назад +12

    I’m with you Tati, I called out sick today! Perfect day for this video!

  • @lenajensen5940
    @lenajensen5940 5 месяцев назад +28

    Everything is going to change and be better. It’s part of life with the dark days, but by gosh, they are hard. I hope sweet Puka will feel better ❤❤❤ a dog is a family member, and the worries are real.

  • @Cindyf78Didi
    @Cindyf78Didi 5 месяцев назад +1

    We get it Tati, Puka is your baby, it's a member of the family, like a child to you... everyone who truly loves pets, gets it.
    Sending healing and loving vibes to Puka you and James. ❤

  • @cindyolson4549
    @cindyolson4549 5 месяцев назад

    OMG - prayers for your beautiful fur baby. I lost one of mine last November. Fine one day and strong nonstop seizures the next. Her brother is a bonded litter brother. Been sad here. You actually provide me a ray of sunshine when I watch your videos. I hope our love towards you does the same for you.

  • @sadnesslake
    @sadnesslake 5 месяцев назад +7

    Sending so much love your way. Hope this next month get better

  • @rachaelsmith2956
    @rachaelsmith2956 5 месяцев назад +9

    Love your content Tati! Glitter always helps! 💕

  • @jaymienilsson7741
    @jaymienilsson7741 5 месяцев назад

    It’s not just a dog. He is part of your family. They heal hearts and bring joy into our lives. Our fur baby was my son’s dog. He was supposed to be the “family dog” but he and my son had a special bond. We lost our son in a car accident 7 years ago his pup has helped us overcome some dark days. Your sweet fur baby will be in my prays. All the love sent your way.❤

  • @makeupfitz1169
    @makeupfitz1169 5 месяцев назад

    I am an OG who remembers Puka was James’s Mom dog and the video where you picked him up from the airport. How lucky he is to be so loved over his long life! 💕💕

  • @noahchauvin1784
    @noahchauvin1784 5 месяцев назад +4

    Lots of Love & Support from your RUclips family 🥰🤗 Thank you Tati for keeping us all in the loop & best wishes for everything to get better soon! 2024 will be a roller coaster year but with the highs & lows we are here for you!! 💜💜💜

  • @chanlerbeckham2772
    @chanlerbeckham2772 5 месяцев назад +7

    so proud of you! you’re doing amazing!

  • @FeliciaLansborg
    @FeliciaLansborg 5 месяцев назад

    There is litteral science proving that the love, worry and grief we feel for our pets is actually just as deep as what we feel for the people we love, even deeper. If they're sick or we loose them and are not "allowed" to feel it because it's "just a dog" it makes it so much worse! So go ahead and feel it and stay in bed and be sad and worried, it's PUKA!! ❤

  • @AyaAziz
    @AyaAziz 5 месяцев назад

    Aw Tati. I had a similarly tough week with my house cat. I spent a whole day just crying and trying to rescue myself from my own feelings. Hope you feel loved and the best mama for pooka shell. I've been watching you for so, so long. You make my day. I watched your videos during the week I spent in bed crying. Thank you for being there ❤

  • @sCASTRODesigns
    @sCASTRODesigns 5 месяцев назад +7

    With you and your sweet Puka all the best. I am going through it too with my fur baby and learning a lot about Holistic Dog Care... My boxer Blaze, is currently detoxing from all the Western medicine I've subjected him to over the past 8 years and it is without a doubt one of the hardest things I've ever had to do/witness. Our emotions play such a big part in their wellness as well. Sending all of the positive vibes and love to both of you!

  • @stephro74
    @stephro74 5 месяцев назад +3

    There's no such thing as "just a dog". What they mean is "it's just YOUR dog, and I can't relate because I don't know your dog, and I want you to stop being sad because you are my entertainment." Our pets are our family members... Love to Puka 💖

  • @welldonewit5129
    @welldonewit5129 5 месяцев назад

    Anyone who says it's just a dog is probably trying too help but it for sure is not just a dog, that is your baby your family your best friend, your roommate, your biggest fan, you source of positivity and energy, your comfort and they are way more than just a dog. Praying for puka❤️

  • @AmeliaAnne
    @AmeliaAnne 5 месяцев назад

    Praying for Puka! And he's not "just a dog" they are apart of the family. Wishing Puka all the best 💜

  • @jenniferburke2076
    @jenniferburke2076 5 месяцев назад +4

    Hope your week gets better Tati!!

  • @kellyyke
    @kellyyke 5 месяцев назад +5

    Hi Tati. Good vibes for the new month💝💝💝

  • @cher1894
    @cher1894 5 месяцев назад

    Sending lots of love & prayers to little Puka. Puka is not just a dog, he's a huge part of you & your family. Animals give so much joy, unconditional love & friendship. Stay strong Tati. ❤
    I'm currently battling stage 4 bowel cancer & I know the tough times only too well.

  • @tellittomyfryingpan
    @tellittomyfryingpan 5 месяцев назад

    Our furbabies, like our humans, are family. My first shared baby with a partner had hypomyelination, and it taught both of us a lot about patience, communication and compassion. We both use each other to recover some days when it gets too hard, and having someone who knows the struggle does help.
    You're thriving, in your willingness to share and be authentic, and I hope your support network is in place, just in case. I pray the best for your precious pupper, but I know he's loved and you're loved, and Gos will give you all you need in any unhappy event. You deserve all love and prayers. ❤✨

  • @maria7filipina
    @maria7filipina 5 месяцев назад +4

    Oh no!! I hope that things get better. Please take care of yourself 🥰

  • @juggalettyjrb
    @juggalettyjrb 5 месяцев назад +3

    I’m sorry lovely!!! I tore my meniscus… the year is off to a rocky start!!! Stay positive everybody!!! ❤

  • @carmenmacgregor9588
    @carmenmacgregor9588 5 месяцев назад

    Prayers and positive vibes for Pukashell. It happened to me a few years ago and I completely understand how you feel. No, gets it until it happens to them, sadly but be strong and loving ❤️ as you are always. 😊 sending you love!

  • @summerburrous7292
    @summerburrous7292 5 месяцев назад

    Praying so hard for pookah. Anyone who says they’re just a dog doesn’t understand and is tone deaf if they’re saying that to someone who is going through it or not. Also praying for your peace and sanity through it all. I lost one of my dear angels at the start of the new year and it was a traumatic experience and I still am struggling. Just keep yourself busy and surround yourself with the ones you love and your sweet baby. 🩷

  • @Marina-ve8qn
    @Marina-ve8qn 5 месяцев назад +3

    I hope Puka will be feeling well soon❤

  • @tinytonks
    @tinytonks 5 месяцев назад +3

    Sending love, hugs and prayers 💜

  • @josephhomanick8964
    @josephhomanick8964 5 месяцев назад +1

    I just wanna add that last year when i lost my girl Gucci to cancer. I literally watched so many of your videos on my downtime to bring up my spirits. Its a pain that is unimaginable, and i am still working through it so sending prayers

  • @LeilaNavab
    @LeilaNavab 5 месяцев назад +1

    OMG this brought me to tears. I totally get this. He's not just a dog. Dogs are our family. Sending love and prayers for Puka.

  • @meganl.9777
    @meganl.9777 5 месяцев назад +5

    Gosh your hair is fantastic

  • @PrincessHERandez
    @PrincessHERandez 5 месяцев назад +3

    Tati 🫶🏻 you got this girl ❤️

  • @ZenWithZuriOfficial
    @ZenWithZuriOfficial 5 месяцев назад

    Tati I’m sending so much love to you and your family right now. You and another content creator I love to watch, Jonna, are going through the same thing right now.
    Dogs are more than just animals that exist, dogs are souls that are here to love and teach us, just as we teach and love each other as human beings.
    Please take it easy, and I hope February treats you the way you deserve💕🧘🏽‍♀️.

  • @mismagicrabbit
    @mismagicrabbit 5 месяцев назад

    Prayers for Puka, you, James, your family and everyone’s health and safety ❤ Tati, you are such a positive role model and I appreciate your vulnerability then wanting to play with makeup to smile. Thank you for sharing your reviews with us. You’re an angel 😇

  • @laurenmountain-ledoux6901
    @laurenmountain-ledoux6901 5 месяцев назад

    It’s not just a dog, it’s the most loyal friend and confidant and the most comforting being in the world. I have a 15, almost 16 year old Puggle whom I’ve had since she was 4 months old. She has the energy of a puppy at times, but has given me some scares over the past year and a half. My heart hurts for you! Keeping you Al in my thoughts and prayers!

  • @jacajaca7109
    @jacajaca7109 5 месяцев назад

    it's not just a dog, it's part of the family, that's how I treat pets in my home, and even today I grieve for my cat that died almost 20 years ago and there's not a day that goes by that I don't think about him, the active time of grief is behind me, but he is a beautiful memory that will stay with me for the rest of my life, even though I have other pets now

  • @karenwingler1647
    @karenwingler1647 5 месяцев назад

    Sweet Tati - they are never “just a dog” love Puka and will be sending prayers for not only him but for you & James as well. 💙🙏🏻

  • @808rochelle
    @808rochelle 5 месяцев назад

    Love all of your recommendations as always. Prayers 🙏🏼♾️🙏🏼for Puka. We all love our fur babies♥️🫶🏽♾️🫶🏽♥️

  • @melindarozas1334
    @melindarozas1334 5 месяцев назад

    Sending prayers for Pukashell. And you and James! Stay strong!! Very nice Love the eye shadow palette. Beautiful colors. Much love to you Tati!!!