She won’t ever know her worth until she leaves that man! Some women prefer sticking with a guy because of “history/babies/afraid of goin out on their own”. He treats her the way he does because she allows and accepts it! What’s the point of arguing with him when he steps out the marriage IF YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE HIM BACK EVERYTIME.... if the roles were swapped he would dump her.... that’s what women don’t realize! Once a man has his standards and limits and us women don’t meet it or do stuff wrong they cut us off like the say but we accept them even when they don’t meet our standards
@@ralphieyvelez9675 shut up. Your one of them men that would do the same thing that kirk is doing. He literally wanted her to get an abortion and your saying that. Buy your life Gn.
She thrived because of being with him..her whole career he managed ..he bought her business pressed, the first building. He’s not perfect but he loves his wife and helped her become who she is today
Kirk is ducking disgusting. The fact that he allowed a camera crew to film him cheating knowing she will see it?!?! He obviously doesn't give a damn about her feelings
💯 I wondered about that. Like why .... Whyyyyyyyyyy did he want that disgusting moment to be shown worldwide! Forever,it's on the net. It's embarrassing and disgusting!
@@Sezz-Boman this is their digital foot print. Why would he do this to her ? He doesn’t respect or LOVE himself deeply, so ofc he can’t LOVE her correctly.
I would have loved to have seen how Kirk would try explaining the women all up on him in the hot tub. Good luck 😍on that one. Me personally, I enjoy being single and there's no such thing that a personal relationship is supposed to happen. Being single is just as good as being married.
He was so rude to her and when she FINALLY said she see a lawyer and that she would get half , and something about the laws in that state when it came to him cheating THATS WHEN he started “being nice” and wanting to “repair” the relationship. Maybe the only reason he stoped talking to her crazy is bc it was on TV and no one is feeling his disrespect.
Girl facts. He was 30 year’s old and married when he started messing with her, took her to Vegas to get hitched because shirleen wanted him arrested. She had her first baby at 18. She thought she was slick changing her age closer to his on google when everybody called out his grooming.
@@Bijecarli it’s so true! I grew up in the A, and yeah every since she was consent age, not legal! But unlike most people I’m not mad at either of em! Her mom new about everything though!
He's so MANIPULATIVE and jealous in my opinion. He's insecure and keeps her down as low as he can to keep her success and shine from making him feel even more insecure. He's threatened by her mentality, her drive, her success, her mind, her EVERYTHING.
@@breezybee8538 yup! Rasheeda is probably the reason that Kirk and her are famous with a spot on VH1. I don't blame Rasheeda for not making it easy for Kirk's baby momma to share her hard earned shine (fame). Kirk, like so many other black men, is not honoring Rasheeda as she grows older. OTHER EXAMPLES: The Jackson's father, The Braxton's father, Jill Scott's Husband, Mary Jay Bleige husband, Wendy Williams husband, Monica's husband, Tina from Mary Mary's Husband, B. Smith's Husband and even Beyonce's husband can be included though reconciled... Kirk is no different. He has had Rasheeda since 14. He doesn't want to be without her, but does not honor her either.. What he is doing is symbolic of how so many black women are treated as they are trying to age gracefully with their companion
One thing she was right about... She surely don't gaf! She don't gaf about herself, her morals, her standards, her self respect. Like my gosh, I was literally cringing the entire time! How embarrassing!!
Maybe because their baggage is all exposed but women in other parts of the world who get the same treatment behind closed doors with long marriages are praised because “they can keep a man” & “are still married”
The first scene had me thinking... he is pathetic for making her feel bad for going out and expressing eagerness to advance. Is her career and she is absolutely right to go above and beyond for herself. Now that’s a boss move!
But if another manager did things for her, Kirk wouldn’t be entitled to any proceeds. That’s his one and only issue (with Rasheeda’s career.) Entitlement. I always find it sus when a spouse wants to be/ is your manager. I think that’s the root cause of what went wrong for Monique. At that point, between the business and the marriage they completely “own” you. That’s all about control.
@@LotsofLisa This! Female celebrities should NEVER EVER let their boyfriend/husband's be their manager or let alone have access to their money. We've seen this before and It NEVER ends well. All the female musicians I can think of right now that had their boyfriend's manage them, ended up in a bad situation somehow. With them either losing money, or them ending up in an abusive relationship, or them not being able to prosper with their career.
@@toomessy Was Mary J’s husband her manager too, or just her Producer, because I felt the same about him but couldn’t pinpoint why until after they split.
What about the good y'all look at the bad but not the good they have a loving family and this good stores and they love each other that's all that matters.
Dear Lord, please never allow my daughters to ever become a Rasheeda. I’m sorry, but history or not, he KNOWS she will take him back regardless of what he does due to the love and timeline. Stop staying with people because of history. They will tear you down until you reach a breaking point of no return. I know first hand. I hope Rasheeda takes the time away from him to Heal herself and realize she doesn’t have to deal with his bean head ass.
Goddess Vibes amen! When I was younger I thought “stay with a man at all costs”. Now that I’m grown, it’s all about knowing your worth! I pray the same for my daughters as well!
How the hell you gonna tell YOUR WIFE to end the pregnancy?!?!? And how you gonna stay with a man that tells you that?!?! He has "doubts" about being his?!?! WTF?!?!?!!
@@amanibethea9369 i was just thinking the same thing when he said its still time to X that outta the equation like wtf??? I hope that little boy never see’s this
How heartbreaking having your HUSBAND in front of a staff of professional photographers tell you that the baby might not be his and he will need a blood test and to abort the baby. ALL while cheating and having a baby outside his marriage. So pathetic.
He is very narcissistic. He kept telling her he the only one who was on her side. And he flipped it on her. He’s really controlling and he acts like she’s his daughter/wife. Like I’ve never really payed this much attention before.
The reason this relationship is looked up to by their castmates, is only because they've been together so long. It's an expectation in this industry that the man will cheat. So no one is surprised or shocked by that. A person outside the industry would see this as a disrespectful abusive relationship.
Rasheeda is so beautiful and sooo talented and soooo smart. She deserves so much better and it's so sad that Kirk has caused more tears than smiles on this show
It’s sad how she’s been with him for so many years. Missing out on the opportunity to be with a guy that actually takes accountability and treats her with respect and doesn’t gaslight her. He’s so controlling she can’t do anything without his permission. She needs to leave !
Rasheeda should've divorced his ass the day he disrespected her at the photoshoot when he said, he has doubts about being the father and asking her what rappers are known for? She still kept him and even after having a baby on her still forgave him. She's a bad example to women.
Rachel Ngugi yet he believed his side thot Jasmine and put her in an apartment and was taking care of her and the baby! I can’t believe he is talking to her in front of outsiders about not trusting her to about if the baby is his! He is disgusting! He wants to control Rasheeda! He can use the business money for whatever he wants! Cheating on tv , so disrespectful! Rasheeda still with this dog!
He NEVER wanted Karter but had Kannon What people forgot is, he KEPT telling her he didn't want more children because he had too many children and grandchildren.
Kirk groomed this woman since she was 17 years old to follow him no matter what he does like a dog. He’s disgusting I can’t believe Rasheeda allows her children to see this kind of behavior and accepts it. I feel bad for the kids the most
Kirk doesn’t even look in love with Rasheeda & Rasheeda seems like too good of a woman to have to deal with this. Just because you’ve been married for a long time doesn’t mean you don’t deserve a REAL and RESPECTFUL love.
This! She's staying in that relationship because It's all she knows, and that's SAD. I wish someone would convince her and make her realize that she does deserve better, and that she CAN get better. She's absolutely stunning. There's so many men out there that would love to date a woman like her. So, I don't understand why she feels the need to tie herself so bad to that man, when he's been doing nothing but disrespect her, disrespect her home, disrespect her dignity, her family and their kids!
@@toomessy . She’s staying in that relationship to prove that she could keep a man. I would’ve divorced his ass after he had a child by the mistress, Jasmine.
Damn why the hell every body saying resheda crazy in this and that every body on this earth had problems with there relationship period even if people situation was diffrent people still had problems in the main problems people have in this world is with there dude far ass cheating in i know people fa gave there dude at time of there life for cheating thats 100% of the problem people have in this world 🌎 so for people to say why she take him back after he got another woman pregnant she love him shit thats her husband shit we know kirk is dead ass wrong im not Sayin he not wrong but some people move on when they ready to move on she not ready in she wasnt talkin to kirk for that for ah min he kep begging her in all da shit so she took him back shit God make things happen for reasons far as them still being togeather its not ment for her to move on from kirk God the only one to judge not yall.............
@@darrisscruggs9612 sooooooo you would stay in a 20 year long PUBLICLY dysfunctional marriage for the sake of “love” 🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s pathetic you should really love yourself first like the person above you said
Kirk is not only a horrible HUSBAND he’s a horrible person he is verbally abusive blaming every thing on Rasheeda and trying to make her feel bad for something she hasn’t done
I think Kirk knew that Rasheeda had what it took to be big . And he’s insecure . He held her back . Like deb said rasheeda should have been Georgia’s peach . She missed her mark being stagnant
Kirk was so disrespectful to Rasheeda, HIS WIFE, to accuse her of cheating and telling her he wants a blood test! Then telling her how she needed to act! Selfish! “Turning up”, while she is home pregnant. I mean just letting women be all over him and then a 3sum. Heck no!!! Insecure! Never understood how she could forgive him. Signs of things to come…
I really do think Rasheeda loves him, but I feel like she’s been ready to walk away for some time yet their finances being intertwined and losing all her hard work keeps her stuck with him. By doing this he ensures she won’t be able to easily leave him. Plus he’s all she’s known since was a teenager starting over would definitely be foreign.
She’s given him waaaaay to much of her BEST years. I don’t understand what makes her stay and where was her dad to love her and tell her how beautiful she is. Her self worth is suffering. I love her and wanna say girl.. plus this video is old but he since has a baby with some young stripper. She still took him back. I know love is blind but come on already..
Rasheeda is so strong, she's a hustler, she works hard she's always tryna make her money, her downfall is that she is so dedicated to proving her loyalty, that people take advantage of her. It's honestly heartbreaking she deserves so much better.
Yes, she sacrificed possible commercial success for Kirk. And he acted soooo hurt and like she wasnt loyal, over business, and then he turns and betrays her terribly. Smh.
@@debravan1167 I don't really like Cardi B or Megan thee Stallion. There's a market for all different types of people. Not everybody wants to hear and see the raunchy stuff all the time.
Rasheeda gorgeous but aaayyyyyyyyy.....Come on now👀Ooooh wait I didn't know BAMBI was at the cabin???!!!! And with BENZINO!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Wwwoooowwwww!!!!!
Awww looking at kirkalina cry in the beginning because he noticed her taking a meeting on her own was her doing something she wanted to do and not what HE wanted her to do. She felt at peace about the situation so clearly it was meant to happen. I love that first scene. Little crybaby, manipulative self
Rasheeda just confirmed it at 10:23 She “ain’t no cheating ass wife” but yet she’s saying now that she has cheated on Kirk to make him not look so bad. Which is it🧐
I think she said that to take away from the fact that he was constantly cheating on her so by her say she cheated also it would be less embarrassing if that makes sense
Now I understand why he can do anything to her and she will stay. He basically raised her, in her head she owes him, in his head she owes him so she will never go anywhere. God bless them, tho
I could NEVER and no woman should EVER....you tryin to tell me Rasheeda is a bigger and better person for holding down Kirk's greasy cheating ass???? No mam, not me, if that's being big and good than im itty bitty small and bad👎✌💅nuh un not me
Fuck this shit, She is too Damn BEAUTIFUL and too much of a woman to be with him, maybe she doesn't know her worth. I'm said for her but she has to put herself first period, God bless you Rasheeda
This is really hard to watch. Makes me wonder what happened in Rasheeda's life/childhood that would allow her to let a man treat her like that and it makes me wonder what happened in Kirks life/childhood that makes him think its acceptable to treat your woman like that.
I can’t believe vh1 made this video. Lord, give her guidance. He’s a master manipulator and takes advantage of the fact that’s she’s got with him from a young age. It seems like he’s been cheating way before they got on the show.
Let me get this straight......he's mad about a meeting that she didn't inform him about, yet has multiple secret affairs with other women !?
🤔🤔🤔
Dre Day he’s a narcissists
Dre Day right tf is he talking about
That Part
Hell naw, u don't think 👀
Dre Day hypocrite asshole
Kirk is a horrible husband. Rasheeda deserved so much better.
He knows he can do him and be forgiven.
Brandon Jones he’s a poor excuse for a man let alone a husband 🤦🏾♂️
She won’t ever know her worth until she leaves that man! Some women prefer sticking with a guy because of “history/babies/afraid of goin out on their own”. He treats her the way he does because she allows and accepts it! What’s the point of arguing with him when he steps out the marriage IF YOU ARE GOING TO TAKE HIM BACK EVERYTIME.... if the roles were swapped he would dump her.... that’s what women don’t realize! Once a man has his standards and limits and us women don’t meet it or do stuff wrong they cut us off like the say but we accept them even when they don’t meet our standards
Brandon Jones she doesn’t want better so don’t feel sorry for her.
Brandon Jones Kirk best husband ever fuck u get a life lol 😂
He’s emotionally manipulative
Very
And she is mentally delayed. Idc
VERY MUCH SO....
@@kay-ty5rx EXACTLY!
FACTS!
So disgusting how he really brought the idea to his wife about aborting his child and then had one with another woman . Wild
Exactly
One thing a man going to always have is the audicty
Bruh, if this isn't the truth. I just conclude that this is all for TV because there is no way... in real life
Thankfully she didn’t listen to him with that nonsense. That scene with Amina and Peter was too much.
And what’s crazy is he told Jasmine he don’t believe in having abortions!
she is the living representation of “that’s my man and ima stick beside em”😭😭.
I will never let any man tell me what I should do and don't do with my body,mind, and soul he'll be on the damn ground looking for his jaw
Only When You are married
Yes, as a WIFE should.
Lmao I will never be her
It’s disgusting in their situation
This is disgusting. Kirk is a Horrible husband.
This is why I am single, cause this is what they want they all want rasheeda. She dope in many ways but not in this aspect
No he is not she is hr put his life on the line for her🤨🤨🤔🤔
Womanizer All Day👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎👎💤💤💤💤💤
@@Donique_23 fr its so hard to believe and it feels like something is wrong with you when theres a collective of them making you feel like there is
@@ralphieyvelez9675 shut up. Your one of them men that would do the same thing that kirk is doing. He literally wanted her to get an abortion and your saying that. Buy your life Gn.
I’m sorry but people say rasheeda has class but tolerating Kirk frost is stupid PERIODT
Thank you!!!👏👏👏👏that could never be me sis
I been saying it frm day one.
On point!!! 👍🏾🤦🏾♀️
Its hard to throw away a lot of years with someone who is your bestfriend and first love
True. Plus, he's a lot older than she is. They met when she was like 16/17 and he was like 29/30.
Imagine how much Rasheeda would thrive without an awful child in her life like Kirk.
Swear.
I've always said the same thing! I'm not a fan of Kirk at all!
She loves his dirty draws
No you missing the point She thrive because she with Kirk
She thrived because of being with him..her whole career he managed ..he bought her business pressed, the first building. He’s not perfect but he loves his wife and helped her become who she is today
Rasheeda’s mom driving over Kirk’s bike is such an iconic moment 😂
He deserved worse
My favorite part of the whole damn series from season 1 and on.
"MOVE RASHEEDA!!"
❤that ...Kirk doesn't give a FK unfortunately! Will have just bought another! 😢
🎉
Kirk is ducking disgusting. The fact that he allowed a camera crew to film him cheating knowing she will see it?!?! He obviously doesn't give a damn about her feelings
💯 I wondered about that. Like why .... Whyyyyyyyyyy did he want that disgusting moment to be shown worldwide! Forever,it's on the net. It's embarrassing and disgusting!
@@Sezz-Boman this is their digital foot print. Why would he do this to her ? He doesn’t respect or LOVE himself deeply, so ofc he can’t LOVE her correctly.
I kinda forgot she rap because it’s always about Kirk
Me too 😂😂😂😂
Yeah its always about him cheating or being disrespectful
😂😂😂😂fr
*THANK YOUUUUUU* ... every year, the question is, "What dirt is Kirk gonna do Rasheeda *this* season???
I would have loved to have seen how Kirk would try explaining the women all up on him in the hot tub. Good luck 😍on that one.
Me personally, I enjoy being single and there's no such thing that a personal relationship is supposed to happen. Being single is just as good as being married.
So, basically, this relationship has been pathetic since day one. Thanks for the reminder!
😂😂😂
Lol 😂
Renee lmao 😂 best comment
Lol I'm dead 🤣🤣
They got together when she was 19 and he was in his thirties.....
Your HUSBAND should never react like that to you announcing your pregnancy EVER
She must have had a sense of how he would react. Not baby we're pregnant! Just I'm pregnant in a sad tone of voice.
And then make another baby on you
All facts ❤
He was so rude to her and when she FINALLY said she see a lawyer and that she would get half , and something about the laws in that state when it came to him cheating THATS WHEN he started “being nice” and wanting to “repair” the relationship. Maybe the only reason he stoped talking to her crazy is bc it was on TV and no one is feeling his disrespect.
Kirk has conditioned her. Its really sick. Hes been grooming her since she was like 16 years old.
Girl facts. He was 30 year’s old and married when he started messing with her, took her to Vegas to get hitched because shirleen wanted him arrested. She had her first baby at 18. She thought she was slick changing her age closer to his on google when everybody called out his grooming.
Noooo fucking waaaay Holy shit. I had no mf idea
@@Bijecarli it’s so true! I grew up in the A, and yeah every since she was consent age, not legal! But unlike most people I’m not mad at either of em! Her mom new about everything though!
@@nerdseyeview2936 Noooo not Shirleen!!!!
Accurate
Kirk is a sociopath. He has zero empathy for Rasheeda and her feelings. He cheated multiple times and had a whole baby on her.
Doesnt mean he dont love her !
@@judithrose6659He doesn’t love her he has love FOR her
He’s an Aquarius
I’m sure there’s a reason why his past relationships didn’t work either
Her husband destroyed her career and dreams😢
He's so MANIPULATIVE and jealous in my opinion. He's insecure and keeps her down as low as he can to keep her success and shine from making him feel even more insecure. He's threatened by her mentality, her drive, her success, her mind, her EVERYTHING.
Ur exactly right
Breezy Bee , Damnit you nailed it 💪
@@breezybee8538 yup! Rasheeda is probably the reason that Kirk and her are famous with a spot on VH1. I don't blame Rasheeda for not making it easy for Kirk's baby momma to share her hard earned shine (fame). Kirk, like so many other black men, is not honoring Rasheeda as she grows older. OTHER EXAMPLES: The Jackson's father, The Braxton's father, Jill Scott's Husband, Mary Jay Bleige husband, Wendy Williams husband, Monica's husband, Tina from Mary Mary's Husband, B. Smith's Husband and even Beyonce's husband can be included though reconciled... Kirk is no different. He has had Rasheeda since 14. He doesn't want to be without her, but does not honor her either.. What he is doing is symbolic of how so many black women are treated as they are trying to age gracefully with their companion
Shanice Sullivan she should have gotten the other manager like she wanted to. But she chose love over her career.
The timing wasn’t right for Rasheeda to get pregnant but it was for jasmine 🤔
RIGHT EXACTLY!SMDH!
Thank you
🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
🤣🤣🤣
That Nigga prolly got some more outside babies that we don’t know about
It’s a damn shame that Rasheeda’s business mindset and female boss moves is overshadowed by her submissiveness to Kirk and his bs.
This is so true!!
Agreed! 💯
this ain't no submission!! this is slavery damn!! Its submission when there is love from the man
@@sisterhoodwebcast7093 EXACTLY!!!
IS THAT BAMBI IN THE TUB WITH KIRT AND BENIZIO WOW LIKE THAT
One thing she was right about... She surely don't gaf! She don't gaf about herself, her morals, her standards, her self respect. Like my gosh, I was literally cringing the entire time! How embarrassing!!
The said part is she feel like they love kept them together when all the time it's her insecurity
Maybe because their baggage is all exposed but women in other parts of the world who get the same treatment behind closed doors with long marriages are praised because “they can keep a man” & “are still married”
💯🤡😂💃🏽
The first scene had me thinking... he is pathetic for making her feel bad for going out and expressing eagerness to advance. Is her career and she is absolutely right to go above and beyond for herself. Now that’s a boss move!
But she still caved. Kirk played mind games.
But if another manager did things for her, Kirk wouldn’t be entitled to any proceeds. That’s his one and only issue (with Rasheeda’s career.) Entitlement. I always find it sus when a spouse wants to be/ is your manager. I think that’s the root cause of what went wrong for Monique. At that point, between the business and the marriage they completely “own” you. That’s all about control.
@@LotsofLisa
This! Female celebrities should NEVER EVER let their boyfriend/husband's be their manager or let alone have access to their money. We've seen this before and It NEVER ends well. All the female musicians I can think of right now that had their boyfriend's manage them, ended up in a bad situation somehow. With them either losing money, or them ending up in an abusive relationship, or them not being able to prosper with their career.
@@toomessy Was Mary J’s husband her manager too, or just her Producer, because I felt the same about him but couldn’t pinpoint why until after they split.
Rasheeda and Kirk will never be couples goals.
Damn😂😂😂😂
Never ever
What about the good y'all look at the bad but not the good they have a loving family and this good stores and they love each other that's all that matters.
@Jas Nirk it does
Niylaa Lewis the bad outweigh the good. Love don’t mean shit, loyalty is what really matter.
Dear Lord, please never allow my daughters to ever become a Rasheeda.
I’m sorry, but history or not, he KNOWS she will take him back regardless of what he does due to the love and timeline. Stop staying with people because of history. They will tear you down until you reach a breaking point of no return. I know first hand. I hope Rasheeda takes the time away from him to Heal herself and realize she doesn’t have to deal with his bean head ass.
Goddess Vibes amen! When I was younger I thought “stay with a man at all costs”. Now that I’m grown, it’s all about knowing your worth! I pray the same for my daughters as well!
@@Ang_Nicole Yesss
amen
Amen to that prayer👏🏽
All that truth.
There's no damn way I'd stay with him after the things he said 2 her. NEVER EVER EVER NEVER
Thy actin.dont yall.get it a story line thy are very happy
How you married and scared to tell yo husband your pregnant. She seemed like she was nervous
A married couple arguing about the wife being pregnant…that’s crazy to me
How the hell you gonna tell YOUR WIFE to end the pregnancy?!?!? And how you gonna stay with a man that tells you that?!?! He has "doubts" about being his?!?! WTF?!?!?!!
Rosie VeHi Exactly!!!!!!
Exactly
Thank you He Got that Jasmine Girl Pregnant and he the Father of her baby
can you imagine your baby growing up one day and seeing that on the internet
@@amanibethea9369 i was just thinking the same thing when he said its still time to X that outta the equation like wtf??? I hope that little boy never see’s this
Rasheeda's weave stays on point, I'm shocked she hasn't come out with a line.
@@trlonge09 Lol, I'ma need for her to get a new name!
Raquel C. Gary That would actually be a good idea for her👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾
@@RaquelCGary girl I know 😭😂😂😂 the name was too long for me
trlonge09 😂😂😂
I’ve definitely seen a vending machine at my local mall with her hair and her picture on it.
He make her look like a damn fool.....
she has her part in it too
@@chocolatethundercherry143 yeah I don't feel sorry for her not one bit
charleston thomas Imma beat his ass when I catch him in the street on me
@@deonisjackson2295 🤣😂
She is she can do much better
Can you imagine the kid watching this one day and seeing his dad’s reaction? :(
Yeszzz… can you imagine his friends pointing this out to him when he’s older???
I always think if they see it and what their opinion
They old enough now. SMH
And even got a DNA test lmao
@@shaylawatson1244he was only projecting onto her what he was doing smh
The fact she’s still with him till this day is crazyyyyy
and he just cheated on her AGAIN in the upcoming season 🤦🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂💯🍯🤡💃🏽
@@malayacarey69😂😂😂😂😂😂
She can do better to me she too pretty for that PERIOD💯‼️
She's pretty, but a damn fool.
KB Bell Rasheeda is broken and weak asl. I can’t stand her ass anymore
Pretty or not u have to want better for yourself
HE SHOWED SO MANY RED SIGNS 🤦🏽♀️
So many
Too many Red signs
He done had her since she was 14
@@Simplykiebby boyy
@@Simplykiebby I've heard that too
How heartbreaking having your HUSBAND in front of a staff of professional photographers tell you that the baby might not be his and he will need a blood test and to abort the baby. ALL while cheating and having a baby outside his marriage. So pathetic.
He is very narcissistic. He kept telling her he the only one who was on her side. And he flipped it on her. He’s really controlling and he acts like she’s his daughter/wife. Like I’ve never really payed this much attention before.
he’s 100% a narcissist. sadly he’s been grooming her since she was a minor, it’s been an abusive power imbalance.
Not a relationship i look up to.. thats for sure
Goddess Sekhmet 100% I would never been in a relationship where someone disrespects me like that.
He was even telling her to get an abortion... TF...
@@shaendra3309 to each his own... She knws why she is staying... But i dnt wanna knw
Right!!!
Goddess Sekhmet yeah that sounds about right
He wouldn't have to worry about me anymore after he wanted a blood test...vroom!!!
What u trying to hide lol
@@artbydami1395 is what I'm thinking lmfao
@@artbydami1395 why would a husband say the baby not his lmboooo that’s what she saying
NOT VROOOMMM
I know "marriage/relationships" have it's ups & downs BUT DAMN 🤦🤦🤦
Right 😂😂😂
Nah man this marriage is full of downs smh
RIGHT EXACTLY!SHEESH!
@@kamyracarter2403 ikr🤦
@@23redcomet lol just too much
The reason this relationship is looked up to by their castmates, is only because they've been together so long. It's an expectation in this industry that the man will cheat. So no one is surprised or shocked by that. A person outside the industry would see this as a disrespectful abusive relationship.
Kirk wants to live the life of a single man but doesn’t want to get divorced because he’d lose everything
Hes emotionally manipulating.
He controls her completely and she lets him. She knows how he is... Its the money simple as that. 🤷🏾
So he overreacts because she went to a meeting behind his back. But he doesn’t think it’s a big deal that he had a baby behind her back? Lol kay 👌🏾
Salute that hair stylist for putting in work despite being in the room for one of the darkest couples' fights in LHH history 😂
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Time stamp, please?
@@NikkiRen9:20
@@NikkiRen11
Rasheeda is so beautiful and sooo talented and soooo smart. She deserves so much better and it's so sad that Kirk has caused more tears than smiles on this show
It’s sad how she’s been with him for so many years. Missing out on the opportunity to be with a guy that actually takes accountability and treats her with respect and doesn’t gaslight her. He’s so controlling she can’t do anything without his permission. She needs to leave !
Rasheeda should've divorced his ass the day he disrespected her at the photoshoot when he said, he has doubts about being the father and asking her what rappers are known for? She still kept him and even after having a baby on her still forgave him. She's a bad example to women.
Exactly
Rachel Ngugi I wasssss just saying that as I watched
Rachel Ngugi yet he believed his side thot Jasmine and put her in an apartment and was taking care of her and the baby! I can’t believe he is talking to her in front of outsiders about not trusting her to about if the baby is his! He is disgusting! He wants to control Rasheeda! He can use the business money for whatever he wants! Cheating on tv , so disrespectful! Rasheeda still with this dog!
EXACTLY I'M IN FULL AGREEMENT WITH EVERYTHING YOU SAID HERE 100% CAUSE IT'S THE TRUTH!
These females need to love themselves before loving someone else. Just leave
True I need to do that
He NEVER wanted Karter but had Kannon
What people forgot is, he KEPT telling her he didn't want more children because he had too many children and grandchildren.
Wow that’s rough
He Probably Knew That Jasmine Girl Was Gonna Do What She Wanted To Do Anyways He Probably Told Her To Get Rid Of The Baby Too, She Just Wasn’t Going
He has enough for a damn basketball team. His oldest could be his youngest parent. He knows better
Well he didn't think about that
Kirk groomed this woman since she was 17 years old to follow him no matter what he does like a dog. He’s disgusting I can’t believe Rasheeda allows her children to see this kind of behavior and accepts it. I feel bad for the kids the most
Keyword: groomed. It’s sad
17 isn't a child.
@@feefs2139teenagers are children wtf, 17 is still a MINOR
@@ALTBAEGOMAE that part. Legally and mentally...
Like I was still clueless and dumb at 25.. someone who would have gotten me early would have killed me.@@ALTBAEGOMAE
Who’s here after finding out Kirk married Rasheeda at 17 and got her pregnant at 17 while she gave birth a couple months before her 18th bday
She wasn’t 17,it came out that she had lied about her age
Solo Dolo Kaa how old was she then ?👀
@@goofykiy8782 25
@@ericaashlynn854 yk thats impossible right😭😭 when he was 42 he said they been together for 17 years . which made her 18
He doesn't even look hurt when she cries😔😔😔
Kirk doesn’t even look in love with Rasheeda & Rasheeda seems like too good of a woman to have to deal with this. Just because you’ve been married for a long time doesn’t mean you don’t deserve a REAL and RESPECTFUL love.
Inventing Queen 27 exactly... but people stay in situations in life for the wrong reasons... just gotta pray for god to get them out
This! She's staying in that relationship because It's all she knows, and that's SAD. I wish someone would convince her and make her realize that she does deserve better, and that she CAN get better. She's absolutely stunning. There's so many men out there that would love to date a woman like her. So, I don't understand why she feels the need to tie herself so bad to that man, when he's been doing nothing but disrespect her, disrespect her home, disrespect her dignity, her family and their kids!
@@toomessy . She’s staying in that relationship to prove that she could keep a man. I would’ve divorced his ass after he had a child by the mistress, Jasmine.
He has the same facial expression 100% of the time.
She needs to move on from him. He is disgusting
Terrible
Facts Why was she letting herself get done this way
HE SURE IS!
@Ranetta Maxwell Damn, that is really a long time. She can still redeem herself, but she should've done it sooner, much sooner.
Ranetta Maxwell sigh I’m not staying in a relationship if I know I’m not being treated right
Imagine talking about love with a bunch of hoochie mamas while your wife is at home🤦🏾♀️
I personally can’t believe Bambi had/has the nerve to act so high and mighty when she was one of the girls in the hot tub 🌚.
He was trifflin, good for nothing type of brother.
And she should've found another
Silly me! Shoulda gone n found another
Edit: A BALLER!
A scrub like you who don't know what a man's about....🤷🏾♀️
Can he pay her bills? Can he pay her telephone bills?
Reyna M can he pay her automo-bills?? I don’t think he do...
Leave Kirk's asss point blank PERIOD 💯🙄
It's called low self esteem to no self esteem. SMH
He ugly anyway.......... she need to move her beautiful ass on!!!!
When a woman truly loves herself 1st , she'll know when to leave instead of staying for less then what she deserves.
Damn why the hell every body saying resheda crazy in this and that every body on this earth had problems with there relationship period even if people situation was diffrent people still had problems in the main problems people have in this world is with there dude far ass cheating in i know people fa gave there dude at time of there life for cheating thats 100% of the problem people have in this world 🌎 so for people to say why she take him back after he got another woman pregnant she love him shit thats her husband shit we know kirk is dead ass wrong im not Sayin he not wrong but some people move on when they ready to move on she not ready in she wasnt talkin to kirk for that for ah min he kep begging her in all da shit so she took him back shit God make things happen for reasons far as them still being togeather its not ment for her to move on from kirk God the only one to judge not yall.............
@@darrisscruggs9612 sooooooo you would stay in a 20 year long PUBLICLY dysfunctional marriage for the sake of “love” 🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s pathetic you should really love yourself first like the person above you said
Kirk is not only a horrible HUSBAND he’s a horrible person he is verbally abusive blaming every thing on Rasheeda and trying to make her feel bad for something she hasn’t done
Kirk started changing his mind when Rasheeda hinted at divorce in season 2 😂
I think Kirk knew that Rasheeda had what it took to be big . And he’s insecure . He held her back . Like deb said rasheeda should have been Georgia’s peach . She missed her mark being stagnant
Same thing with Peter and Amina. Now she’s creating albums and has better publicity.
@Truth Hurtz yes she can because she doesn't have plastic sugary
She can’t rap BUT she could’ve had been on a Trina/remi ma level.
As a man Kirk was tripping smh
Omg this was so sad and stressful to watch 😩 , thank God her baby came out healthy because that was an extremely stressful pregnancy smh
Y’all know y’all petty for that thumbnail. 😂😂😂😂
Was that Jasmine???
@@latoyacross7061 most definitely 😂
@@latoyacross7061 no. It was BAMBI in the hot tub
@@ilovesports5468 yep
Vanessa Bella Beauty lmaooooooo 😭😭
Kirk was so disrespectful to Rasheeda, HIS WIFE, to accuse her of cheating and telling her he wants a blood test! Then telling her how she needed to act! Selfish! “Turning up”, while she is home pregnant. I mean just letting women be all over him and then a 3sum. Heck no!!! Insecure! Never understood how she could forgive him. Signs of things to come…
I really do think Rasheeda loves him, but I feel like she’s been ready to walk away for some time yet their finances being intertwined and losing all her hard work keeps her stuck with him. By doing this he ensures she won’t be able to easily leave him. Plus he’s all she’s known since was a teenager starting over would definitely be foreign.
i have a strong dislike for this man now😂
She’s given him waaaaay to much of her BEST years. I don’t understand what makes her stay and where was her dad to love her and tell her how beautiful she is. Her self worth is suffering.
I love her and wanna say girl.. plus this video is old but he since has a baby with some young stripper. She still took him back. I know love is blind but come on already..
I don’t give a damn what anybody says! She is BEAUTIFUL!!!!!💕💕💕💕💕
Beautiful women can be stupid too 🤷♂️
She’s gorgeous, inside and out.
You tube Fan! And stupid.
Nobody said she wasn’t ....😂😂 what?
Ummm ok tht don't take away how dumb she is
So he left rasheeda pregnant & went to cheat ? She deserved better from a long time ago
I still can’t understand what she sees in this man. He’s so emotionally manipulative and abusive. Treats her so disrespectfully
AND ugly aswell
He’s all she knows he groomed her he got with her wen she was like 15 and he was damn near 30
And financially abusive… sickening!
Rasheeda is so strong, she's a hustler, she works hard she's always tryna make her money, her downfall is that she is so dedicated to proving her loyalty, that people take advantage of her. It's honestly heartbreaking she deserves so much better.
Is there a season where he doesn’t cheat on her😂😂😂😂
Nope!
🤔🤔
If your my manager I dont need your permission to go have a conversation.
Im only just starting this and i am already embarrassed!
And that's not all..
LMAO 😂😂😂
Sooooo he was quick to do a DNA test for his child with his wife but dragged his feet to get one for his "could be" child. 😤Smh just disgusting
Benzeno telling Kirk he don’t have to cheat is the funniest thing
Ugh that Adam's apple makes me gag
Ikr it's so out there I jus wanna punch him in the throat 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@lovelyrose1775 💀
Ikr
Yea it look like a 🍆
Why everybody keeps talking about his Adam's Apple
The Deb situation mite could have help her a little with the music career .
Jamaal Mc It really could have! I feel like that’s why he sabotaged her smh
Yes, she sacrificed possible commercial success for Kirk. And he acted soooo hurt and like she wasnt loyal, over business, and then he turns and betrays her terribly. Smh.
No it wouldn’t. She’s not talented. She’s no Cardi b or Megan the stallion type level.
@@debravan1167 I don't really like Cardi B or Megan thee Stallion. There's a market for all different types of people. Not everybody wants to hear and see the raunchy stuff all the time.
Well do u think she can rap?😬🤷🏽♀️
No comment, I'm just here for all the other comments👀🧐
Right lol
joi fulton I’m here for you boo ❤️
Amore Love Warthen I’m sorry I just had to laugh at this 😂
Its men like this that give the rest of us a bad reputation 🤦🏾♂️
I didn’t realize how toxic and manipulative Kirk dusty self is 🤦🏽♀️ chile I hope I never end up in a relationship like this
amen to that coz I cant imagine my person in a hot tub, some woman rubbing on his bald ass head while talking about how "love works" smh
Rasheeda gorgeous but aaayyyyyyyyy.....Come on now👀Ooooh wait I didn't know BAMBI was at the cabin???!!!! And with BENZINO!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Wwwoooowwwww!!!!!
Yep Bambi was passed around in the industry! She messed with girls too.. Ask Draya Michele😋😊😊😊
We knew! Thats why it was funny on last night episode when she said the cabin is nice...
And girls like that can get a husband!
Love Nurtures and now married to scrappy 😂
Damn Kirk is depressed because his wife is pregnant 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
😂😂😂
But a couple Seasons later the side chick got a baby? Throw the whole Kirk away!
@@adrienneandcarlie realz 😂😂😂
his ass gon say "thats yo fault" & jus put the blame on her for being pregnant tff he's a bad husband idc idc
That last scene though...my heart actually broke for Rasheeda.
Then I remembered she took his ungrateful ass back again and again.
I sometimes wonder how their son will feel eventually growing up seeing his dad tell his mom to X him out
Awww looking at kirkalina cry in the beginning because he noticed her taking a meeting on her own was her doing something she wanted to do and not what HE wanted her to do. She felt at peace about the situation so clearly it was meant to happen. I love that first scene. Little crybaby, manipulative self
Dear Lord, I've seen what you've done for others....
And I want no parts
Lmaaaaao 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀⚰️⚰️⚰️⚰️😩😩😩
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Nope I've seen the CHOICE others have made Lord help me not to be like that
Rasheeda just confirmed it at 10:23
She “ain’t no cheating ass wife” but yet she’s saying now that she has cheated on Kirk to make him not look so bad. Which is it🧐
Zaria F. Exactly she full of shit. She know damn well she never cheated, she just wanted to look like less of an embarrassment
Facts
I think she said that to take away from the fact that he was constantly cheating on her so by her say she cheated also it would be less embarrassing if that makes sense
@@starmiller77 Exactly!!! That part!
Lol
The Bambs was one of the girls in the infamous ‘hot tub’ scene 😱
Wow didnt even notice that. & was the other girl on Kirk his babymomma jasmine or no
Hell yeah I noticed that when scrappy started dating her.
🤣🤣😂😂🤣
Notice from day one
Not the bambs chile Smh!
The scene with her & that sundress is so sad. Raw feelings & emotions.
Kirk like 60 talking bout “lemme find myself” he is just so pathetic
Now I understand why he can do anything to her and she will stay. He basically raised her, in her head she owes him, in his head she owes him so she will never go anywhere. God bless them, tho
I wonder how scrappy feels watching Bambi in the hot tub 😂😂😂😂
😂
My exact thoughts 😩😅
Hahahahaha 😂🤣🤣
@Yikes idk, but the last episode, they together at the cabin confessions.
Lacy Daniella She has a past just like he does.
I could NEVER and no woman should EVER....you tryin to tell me Rasheeda is a bigger and better person for holding down Kirk's greasy cheating ass???? No mam, not me, if that's being big and good than im itty bitty small and bad👎✌💅nuh un not me
Fuck this shit, She is too Damn BEAUTIFUL and too much of a woman to be with him, maybe she doesn't know her worth. I'm said for her but she has to put herself first period, God bless you Rasheeda
The reason he ain’t want her to touch the account was that he was questioning how much he was gonna get in a divorce
This is really hard to watch. Makes me wonder what happened in Rasheeda's life/childhood that would allow her to let a man treat her like that and it makes me wonder what happened in Kirks life/childhood that makes him think its acceptable to treat your woman like that.
This got nothing to do with childhood these grown ups with brain's
Her and her dad don’t get along so i think it’s daddy issues
seriously though, it really makes you think what the hell happened to her to make her accept all the shit that she put up with from him.
coz how do you lock your pregnant wife out her own house AFTER confessing to cheating on her?
*Kirk plays too many games.*
So does Rasheeda
@@psychedforlife7176 *She plays them because of Kirk.*
I can’t believe vh1 made this video. Lord, give her guidance. He’s a master manipulator and takes advantage of the fact that’s she’s got with him from a young age. It seems like he’s been cheating way before they got on the show.
I remember when even Nicki Minaj cursed Kirk ass out on Twitter when that hot tub episode aired😭
Lol
I remember that.
Damn I didnt know nicki was a LHH stan 😂
T M yess nicki love reality tv. She cussed Farrah Abraham too
___1901 1999 oh gosh 😭😭😭 i love Nicki
When he said she got pregnant out of spite....I just died lmaooo like bro....really?
I’m glad she kept the baby because they had Carter and he’s absolutely adorable
Kirk have s funny shaped head lol
I swear 😂don't he😂😂💯🅿
Milk dud
@@breakglassdawkins1570 weirdo.
I hate it so much! Somebody probably dropped him on his head as a baby