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A very few do, but yeah, virtually none. I have heard of young men going for old wealthy women. It's really the same deal. The guys report "loving" her, enjoying sex with her, staying with her until the end and then getting her remaining wealth. Most men can't wrap their heads around the concept. Yes, they target wealthy women for their money, but it only works if they can actually then fall in love. Gold diggers, with no love, rarely survive long term. People can't fake it forever. Same deal for women in poor countries. They target men with resources, but still have to fall in love with the guy. Some women in the West target tall men, handsome men...but they still have to fall in love to be happy.
@@bobbruce4135plus that old fake assumption that Pinay are different, more humble, pure heart angels - unlike white women. Pinay on pedestal quickly turns into demon
A lot of average men are delusional. They get fed with this Disney Hollywood bullshit that a woman would love him unconditionally even if he is a lazy bum. 😂😂😂 No you lazy bum, a woman will only love you for what you can provid for them. The only woman that will love you unconditionally is your own Nanay.😂😂😂 Everybody pays. If you’re thinking you will not pay for punane then you are probably is on the same level as Leonardi Di Caprio or just a beta blue pilled guy.
@@XxArielxX986 That's not the way it works. Wife works full time earning $80k/yr, husband earns $200k/ yr... he's going to be paying alimony. Genders could be whatever, higher earner pays.
I don't get your point. Men pay for their woman no matter where they live in the world. In the west, you're paying ten times more for ten times less. I'll take my chances in the Philippines anytime and if you want to call it prostitution, call it what you want, but men pay everywhere but you're getting it for a bargain here.
Speak for yourself. Never had a girlfriend / partner who didn't pay her whack of everything. I don't need to visit the Philippines to find one either. Mind you we have so many in Hospitals here it won't be hard to find one 😆😆
@corneliusmack8464 Traditionally men went to work and women stayed home to bring up children. Then they paid for everything. Not so today when both partners work and two incomes are better than one. Any man today who pays for everything must want his head examined. True SIMPING.
The first thing i look for in a woman is a "JOB", no job no relationship period. The lady i have been with for the last 3 years has a good job working for an american company and she makes a comfortable middle class filipino income. She has never asked me for money for anything. I do not understand guys who think they have to support an entire family just to have a relationship with a woman in the Philippines.
I have the same modus no job no relationship and my girlfriend is happy with me and not asked for a single pesos from me . Hey guy’s wake-up and find real Filipinas not prostis!
@@Steven-t9s Get a life...I mean that is what you do when she is working. Read a book, write a book, go fishing, swimming, sailing, walking, jogging, gym....and lots of other activities or hobbies.
😂😂😂 yes I don’t get anyone complaining about supporting a Filipina! Hell, a lot cheaper than any woman in the west. You gonna pay one way or the other. You get value and return for a few pesos. Unlike the west no value and a waste of a lot of money.😂😂😂
Back in 98 I paid over $200,000 in a divorce settlement, to my white wife, no child support since my son lived with me. So tell me again about how much a Filipina costs.
If you only pay a cent for such things and assume that most women are just geared toward making their life easier, you’ve completely misunderstood something. You’ve gone down the wrong path, met the wrong people in life, and don’t know a world like the one I know: honest, loving, fair, and supportive. I have to say, I’m amazed at what people are writing here. It’s completely outside of any experience I’ve had with women.
If you live here and choose to be 'single ' there are plenty of opportunities to meet filipina woman of all age's without having to pay for her company. Just be honest and treat with respect.
Lol! For the privilege of having a beautiful, younger woman doting on one, I agree with a previous commenter! 9,000-30,000 is cheap, and things may well end up ok! All male/female relationships are transactional, when it comes down to the nitty gritty! If you’re considering a “paid” girlfriend, in S.E. Asia, be sure all your recorded conversations mention that she needs to work, pre, or post graduation! Never mention sex as reciprocation in writing! Never let your gf know just how much money you’re bringing in Always make it 100% clear, that the money goes when you pass If the “relationship “ turns out to be “genuine “, marry her and hook her up with your Social Security family benefits, but handle the money yourself. She can be pleasantly surprised after you pass A big bonus, with transactional relationships, is that you can pick up and head for greener pastures if things take a bad turn! Just move to a different province or country, and start again! No reason to put up with a wrinkled, dried up shrew in your home country!
I think you'll find that women all over the world tend to form relationships with much older, much wealthier men....doesn't matter it's first world or third world.....I mean how much does it cost Donald Trump each month for Melania?.....
P5000/mo for a young hottie is a bargain! In the West just one date will cost you way more than that and you probably won't even get a goodnight kiss 😭
@@RealGaryGibson Spot on! S.E. Asia is awesome! @$100.00 USD for a sure thing? $500.00-$600.00 USD for monthly “rentals”? Talk about a no brainer! Plus, the odds of hooking up with a keeper are many x’s better , vs what the average man faces in the west!
It's a great vlog, and it's very true, but i do have to say that some really are just looking to be loved and genuinely don't care about age. I'm not saying how many but from personal experience definitely some.
Well done to you mate. You talk about subjects, which most expat vloggers living in the Philippines don't dare to talk about. Keep it up. You are talking about reality and reality cuts like a knife. Well done for reflecting the reality.
This is a little sensational ! All relationships between Filipinas and foreigners , regardless of age, is about getting some help . As a matter of fact it’s a lot like that in western countries as well. Most Filipinas are very poor and often stuck raising children alone because men just abandoned them. Prostitution is not the right word. What is it exactly that you’re doing in the Philippines ?
prostitution is the right word. Definition: "the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment." That's EXACTLY what's happening here. No payment, no sex.
Almost every relationship depends on money, to some extent. Don't believe me? Try making time with any eligible woman who has not met you before, while you are dress in rags. Invite her home after a date. Then, take her to a large cardboard box and claim it is your home. Trust me, that will stop any possibility of a relationship with an attractive, sane, non-addicted, woman. Yes, almost every relationship depends on money.
Duh. There are men in the world who don't pay to keep a woman, but extremely rare. Men "love" women for their beauty and youth. Women "love" men for what they can provide. Video is talking about a Sugar Daddy relationship. Yes, that's closer to prostitution, but duration is different. For some men this is cheaper than marriage. Men are paying a premium for a women's highest worth years and then can move on to another young woman. If a guy can't tell the difference between a woman wanting a long term, medium, short term, one night then that's on him. I hear many guys hire a Thai woman out of a bar, fall in love with her after 1 day and then spends all his money on her. He's a simpleton. Letting a woman into your house and allowing her to sit around and do nothing is also on the guy.
Escaping To Philippines used to be saying - "PH is a sex playground. Always overpromise & underdeliver to girls. Do not get attached" They are for us only temporary anyway when it is our turn. No woman is loyal forever.
Yes honesty, Integrity, kindness, fun shared experience, capability, Straight talking, hard working and of course LOVE. Money doesn't come onto it. Letting her in to do NOTHING is the sign of a spineless incell. Get some BACKBONE wimp.
The typical age gap in Filipino to Filipina relationship is 2 to 3 years. Just about anywhere in the world if you want to date women 20+ years younger than you, you're going to carry the financial burden. That's just common sense.
Not really.. there are many larger age gaps in Filipino relationships...it might be a mistress.. but it ain't a poor guy with a young girl..but it's around a bit. You need remember they are all religious so they won't advertise it all. Love does happen in those situations...
@Liminalplace1 I base my information on PSA and I said "typical". I never said "all". If you think the "typical" age gap in Filipino relationships is 20+ years. You are mistaken.
@Matipid_Lolo it's the same in the West But because foreigner are considered as higher status and wealthier they are desired just as a wealthy Filipino is. It's just that age gaps are much more acceptable in n Philippines where as in the West even age gaps to wealthy are frowned upon so there is a clear cultural basis to the age gap in Philippines. In Davao I know of a Filipina pastor who is 70 married to a women 25. This seems acceptable to his church.
@@Liminalplace1 What? Age gaps are accepted in the West all the time. Trump, Leonardo di Caprio, millionaires on their yacht. Etc etc. The difference is in the Philippines a lot of guys that can't afford age gap relationships in the West can afford them in the Philippines. They are not millionaires, but they are pesonaires. 🤣😉
@Matipid_Lolo even DiCaprio situations raise eyebrows in the West. No eyebrows are wasted in Phil over foreigners with a Philipina because it's written in the culture)) it's acceptable and expected. The exception is a same age relationship. The unspoken attraction IS THE AGE GAP. Age gap is the norm
so us old bald guys who go to the Philippines don't have the pretty young women chasing us down for our personalities?? OK, what did you think they wanted us for?
What about my tall, slim university educated gf? Qualified RN. Doesn’t need a man. Own income, wants to make her own fortune, in demand occupation - can work anywhere in the West. Never asked me for a peso in 3 years
@ I don’t think most foreigners in Phils pull gf calibre of mine. Old with obvious infirmities, drink/smoke/substance abuse/medicated. Pot gut beer bellies, dress poorly, bald, beards, tattoos. Poor dental. Don’t embrace physical fitness. Only ones left seem to be uneducated midgets from the province or bar girls with kids.
You are missing the whole point of the video. Let me explain since it's way over your head. What he is saying is that it is difficult to find a woman who loves him for him and not just for his money. The amount of money is not the issue here.
I think i miss what the commenter ment here let me explain for u...that's all over the world women don't love average men its not a thing...like men don't love good women that's not a thing...not with the majority anyway only those and this seems to be key in this era for those who are lu(ky...
Congrats for the vid, dude. That IS What i was looking for. I go to Cebu City in xmas. Still have deeper questions about What u Talk about. If you or somebody wants to clarify me some things i would be soooo grateful. Take care dudes!!!!!!
@@adriver4471 define “expensive “! I never spent more than 200 dollars, in a month, on my ex’s nieces/nephews for their educational needs, and only @400 bucks to save her brother’s life! Her family is 10x better off than before I entered the picture, and her cousins flirt with me, unabashedly, now that I am available!
I'm 64 and have a GF in her 30s with no financial transactions involved. We have been seeing each other for 7 years and living together for 2 and have never been asked for money. Is this unusual for the Philippines??!
That song near the end - wow! Fits the conclusion I've come to about LDRs. It's a fun fantasy, but "it don't feel right." It's cheaper and less time involved to watch your nice catches of the maganda dalagas.
great job on always including pretty ladies in your videos. few vlogger document muslim areas and the sulu sea. the region is my suggested travel destination. we live through you vicariously.
It’s been apart of culture in Asia for centuries,older man supports poorer younger girl,recently I was flying from Bangkok to Shanghai and sitting next to an elder well to do Thailand lady,I told her my story about I have been married to a Thai for 38 years,she asked me 3 times if I had a Mia noi ? A minor wife,it’s part of the culture here in Thailand,if you have a few quid you get a younger model,sorry to say I am a skint member
9:34 i totally agree with you .. but be honest ... the vast majority of women in a relationship with you in the west cost you much more than 500 a month .. you live in a bigger flat/house, go out more, pay 100+ for nice dinners each and so much more stuff ... it's still transactional .. no matter how big a problem people have with that perspective
This guy must have been burned every time! It’s the same way in all countries if you have a big age gap. Stay away from big cities and online girls. Just go there and you will find something you both want! Never tell them you’ve had a vasectomy either!
@@platoon1081 Bingo dingo, as it was meant for those who are looking for a serious LTR! Just saying the ones who know you can’t get them pregnant and half your age are most likely looking for a good time and one can’t whine afterwards! I’m agreeing with you on your comment! Who cares as it still cheaper than being married to a prude!
I've taken a look at many comments on this video and I could safely say that most of them are ignorant and/or dumb. The whole point of the video is not how much he has to spend on a filipina. He is simply stating that it's really difficult to find a good quality woman who loves him for him and not just for his money. He is basically saying that most poor filipinas in the Philippines are prostys.
Oh! Where were the background videos shot? I never see girls in string bikinis, or even more modest ones, outside Angeles city in the Philippines. Usually they use bathing suits as underwear!
Taking care of someone dear to you is hardly" prostirution". If you had a Filipina girlfriend who treated you respectfully then you would certainly know the difference. Good luck finding a "good one" on the dating apps.
Charlie Sheen said it best…” I’m not paying for sex, I’m paying her to go away after we have sex”… So basically The only difference with eastern and western woman is the exchange rate
Bruh, what's the problem did you get hurt by a few of these young women? The older man is paying for what he wants and the young woman is being compensated (I hope fairly). Sure she can choose a young man, but she may have other ideas. A developing country doesn't come with many perks and privileges. She's probably had tougher experiences with money's practicality and has a different world view. The young woman is looking for security and opportunities and the older man may have what she wants. A lot of men are looking for passion, companionship and someone to take care of. Both choose. When needs are met to mutual benefit what's the problem? What they're doing is really none of anyone else's business. What is this moral high ground, should she stay in her place and he stay in his? Doesn't matter where in the world or at what age, a man is going to pay for female company and sex. The younger a woman, the higher her value, the older a man the more he'll usually pay, and by correlation his value can raise too. There's an exchange so what, all relationships are transactional. A Filipina chooses to align with the man and she gets opportunities that are important to her and can add value to her life even life changing. He's there for the affordability and social acceptance of what's really none of anyone else's business. There are benefits for her and she can find love too, it happens. No shame in that. The older single man can remain in his home country, and save money not chase after young women. The price to be with a young woman can be high and out of reach. Add to that the societal pressures to date 'age range'.. He selects from a pool of older women that may have money, but he doesn't care about that anymore.. Altogether he may have a less than stellar sex life and that's on him, but who cares those are his choices. People looking down on other people for their choices, things that don't have anything to do with them, are projecting and looking down on everybody themselves included. People decide what they want and not all will get it. To each their own.
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Take money out of the equation and would any woman choose to be with a man? Women want security along with companionship and love. A man wants Respect with companionship and love.. each have their own needs which differ but can be given by the other..
@jackscott3589 Filipino and Thai men dont pay their women any money. They also used them up and abandon them after taking their youth and value. Never heard of a Thai or Filipino man paying child support or spousal support either
My money, my arm candy. I'm 61 my live-in GF is 24 (no kids), I give her an allowance and she save or spend on her parents and siblings as she see fit. Win-win for everyone, it is a fact of life here for an age gap relationship, so get your pension money's worth.
No fool like an old... Met many an older man on my travels basically saying: "this girl just took my money".. I remember travelling to places like Capri near Naples in Italy. An island retreat for some of the world's richest sugar daddys (Or Dubai). You won't find those guys complaining in seedy videos. So.. I dinnae the think the Philippines or its women deserve to be cynically singled out. It's a poor country- and many older men are very happy to take advantage of how far their money goes and to be made to feel like a super stud even if it's just an illusion.
Older men pay? Well, fatter men pay. Uglier men pay. In every country. Money is an equaliser. Always has been. Lose your job and see how long your wife sticks around. I've had same gf 5+ years. Cute, slender, caring, generous. See her once a week overnight, brunch the next morning. Never drinks. Chooses lower cost dining options. She always brings a gift. I pay her monthly rent. Total expense, rent and food, is😊 $200 a month; the cost of one unrewarded dinner date in America. And she leaves me in peace the rest of the week. We met when she was newly turned 27 and I was 77. As close to paradise as a guy living on SS - because of divorce after 27 years - is going to get in this world.
The time of abundant good pinays are long behind us. Social media and desperate simps have ruined the place. Now, guys are running into a dozen shit shows before even meeting a decent potential. Watch your back because you haven't experienced that level of game and deception and you WON'T see it coming!!!
Yep. No woman will want you for you especially if you are older. Take that and move accordingly. If you are a hedonist, you can 'date' a different Filipina every day. I visit every 3-4 months and have a 20yo girlfriend who has a small child. She had started college, but got pregnant. I didn't have to, but I chose her and I'm satisfied with her. I give her 9- 12k pesos a month but give her 3k a week or she will probably spend it all at one time. I'm of this mind: are you happy? I say to all men that engage in this game in the Philippines, do what you are comfortable with. Watch your spending on them. We will make entitled monsters that we left in the West and make it bad for others that come after us if we spoil them. Learn to say no.
I would not have a girlfriend unless I lived there. I would expect to give some kind of allowance to a non working full time lover especially if she was making kids for me.
I see my Filipino girlfriend once a year when she's not working in Kuwait, she is a proud woman and never asked me for money....don't judge all Filipino's as the same
Most women don't ask for money. Mostly guys just give it to them. The next most common is the woman telling a guy about her problem and he offers help. Then we have the "just showing up" for women in clubs never paying for a drink.
There is a cost to everything... even for being a stubborn old man alone, right? Every single thing you do (your perceived utility vs market elasticity) or don't do (opportunity cost) is a mathematical equation. Money flows towards perceived utility. Any other story or "moral" you assign to that math is entirely at your discretion. You might as well enjoy the last couple of years of being the dominant species on this planet. From there, the ability to assure our future free market structure as Humans becomes... murky.
haha what a minefield look at it this way staying single means ya can trade her in for a newer model. marrying a woman means you just get to see them fall to bits , just like a car
Paying a woman a salary, or lavishing her with resellable gifts is very different that treating her to a vacation for two. I will suggest that making arrangements for the finances of a wife or fiance after you are gone is not a bad thing to do.
Prenup. All these arrangements are only a matter of duration. Marriage for life costs a man less than a nightly pro 3-4 times a week. Sugar Baby is in between cost.
It seems to be the western guys who are desperate who believe they are getting some kind of bargain relationship, so ultimately get what you pay for? You omitted the all present family and that agreed amount probably won't cover their demands. Although if you live in the Philippines perhaps there is a benefit but if you are abroad it is a waste of money. The monthly salary girls are like a business and are only loyal to the biggest paymaster and often have multiple sponsors. If you think about it, 9K is far cheaper than using hookers, so perhaps the guy is getting value however living there you have many opportunities to meet better quality girls. I suspect that the old guy pays more than 9K as, I remember the university yearly fees are similar across the Philippines and start out from 20K+, that doesn't include materials etc.
Seems guys like this are paying the same as being married to a housewife without the marriage, or divorce. Don't all women cost money? Interesting point you make, paying to have a relationship with the freedom to have as much fun as possible and nothing to tie you down. I wonder if it works for these guys?
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No one gets it for free. Not for long anyway.
Get married, and the price goes up, while the service deteriorates. Way of the world, not just PI.
You are SO right.😊
Truth. But, there seems to be more delusion and denial because of the rate of exchange makes it appear less costly.
A very few do, but yeah, virtually none. I have heard of young men going for old wealthy women. It's really the same deal. The guys report "loving" her, enjoying sex with her, staying with her until the end and then getting her remaining wealth.
Most men can't wrap their heads around the concept. Yes, they target wealthy women for their money, but it only works if they can actually then fall in love. Gold diggers, with no love, rarely survive long term. People can't fake it forever.
Same deal for women in poor countries. They target men with resources, but still have to fall in love with the guy. Some women in the West target tall men, handsome men...but they still have to fall in love to be happy.
@@bobbruce4135plus that old fake assumption that Pinay are different, more humble, pure heart angels - unlike white women. Pinay on pedestal quickly turns into demon
A lot of average men are delusional.
They get fed with this Disney Hollywood bullshit that a woman would love him unconditionally even if he is a lazy bum. 😂😂😂
No you lazy bum, a woman will only love you for what you can provid for them. The only woman that will love you unconditionally is your own Nanay.😂😂😂
Everybody pays.
If you’re thinking you will not pay for punane then you are probably is on the same level as Leonardi Di Caprio or just a beta blue pilled guy.
I know guys here in USA that pay thousands in alimony per month. 9000 php is a bargain.
Make sure she is working in the USA, then u won't have to pay her alimony
@@XxArielxX986 That's not the way it works. Wife works full time earning $80k/yr, husband earns $200k/ yr... he's going to be paying alimony. Genders could be whatever, higher earner pays.
Correct @@waterbug1135
@@waterbug1135 only 7 states have permenant alimony. Alimony is typically 15 - 40 % the length of the marriage.
We ALL pay just make sure you getting your monies worth!
I don't get your point. Men pay for their woman no matter where they live in the world. In the west, you're paying ten times more for ten times less. I'll take my chances in the Philippines anytime and if you want to call it prostitution, call it what you want, but men pay everywhere but you're getting it for a bargain here.
Absolutely TRUE !!!
@@corneliusmack8464 Testify!
Speak for yourself. Never had a girlfriend / partner who didn't pay her whack of everything. I don't need to visit the Philippines to find one either. Mind you we have so many in Hospitals here it won't be hard to find one 😆😆
@corneliusmack8464 Traditionally men went to work and women stayed home to bring up children. Then they paid for everything. Not so today when both partners work and two incomes are better than one. Any man today who pays for everything must want his head examined. True SIMPING.
Exactly this.
I wish I could have a 19-year-old girlfriend in Europe for just 100 euros a month, unfortunately I have to travel 10,000 km to get it.
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The first thing i look for in a woman is a "JOB", no job no relationship period. The lady i have been with for the last 3 years has a good job working for an american company and she makes a comfortable middle class filipino income. She has never asked me for money for anything. I do not understand guys who think they have to support an entire family just to have a relationship with a woman in the Philippines.
I have the same modus no job no relationship and my girlfriend is happy with me and not asked for a single pesos from me . Hey guy’s wake-up and find real Filipinas not prostis!
I will look for this as well, I'll be there in a few weeks!
Yes but if your retired what are you to do while she is working?
@@Steven-t9s 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@Steven-t9s
Get a life...I mean that is what you do when she is working. Read a book, write a book, go fishing, swimming, sailing, walking, jogging, gym....and lots of other activities or hobbies.
😂😂😂 yes I don’t get anyone complaining about supporting a Filipina! Hell, a lot cheaper than any woman in the west. You gonna pay one way or the other. You get value and return for a few pesos. Unlike the west no value and a waste of a lot of money.😂😂😂
Back in 98 I paid over $200,000 in a divorce settlement, to my white wife, no child support since my son lived with me. So tell me again about how much a Filipina costs.
Amen to that. I did the same.
He has got short arms with deep pockets 😂 that’s why.
Blue pilled who believe that women should love him even if he is a tight git.
@@timlee5260 the color of her skin doesn’t matter! White, Black, Brown, mixed…
It’s her CITIZENSHIP!
@@altriplett9099 True, women behave as badly as they allowed to. In countries where men are needed the women value them.
If you only pay a cent for such things and assume that most women are just geared toward making their life easier, you’ve completely misunderstood something. You’ve gone down the wrong path, met the wrong people in life, and don’t know a world like the one I know: honest, loving, fair, and supportive. I have to say, I’m amazed at what people are writing here. It’s completely outside of any experience I’ve had with women.
The true question, "Do you receive value for value?" I'm a disciple of Ayn Rand.
If you live here and choose to be 'single ' there are plenty of opportunities to meet filipina woman of all age's without having to pay for her company. Just be honest and treat with respect.
@user-ds8uy6um, Finally someone who has since in the comments!
@@user-ds8uy6um5w lol! You’re still gonna be paying for the date(s)! It’s just a lot less costly, vs home!
Lol! For the privilege of having a beautiful, younger woman doting on one, I agree with a previous commenter! 9,000-30,000 is cheap, and things may well end up ok!
All male/female relationships are transactional, when it comes down to the nitty gritty!
If you’re considering a “paid” girlfriend, in S.E. Asia, be sure all your recorded conversations mention that she needs to work, pre, or post graduation!
Never mention sex as reciprocation in writing!
Never let your gf know just how much money you’re bringing in
Always make it 100% clear, that the money goes when you pass
If the “relationship “ turns out to be “genuine “, marry her and hook her up with your Social Security family benefits, but handle the money yourself. She can be pleasantly surprised after you pass
A big bonus, with transactional relationships, is that you can pick up and head for greener pastures if things take a bad turn! Just move to a different province or country, and start again!
No reason to put up with a wrinkled, dried up shrew in your home country!
I think you'll find that women all over the world tend to form relationships with much older, much wealthier men....doesn't matter it's first world or third world.....I mean how much does it cost Donald Trump each month for Melania?.....
Have a look at all of the women saying that men should pay for everything in western dating… that’s far more expensive.
Correct. It's a value question.
i am enjoying these cynical, but accurate, takes on what is an industry in itself. Dating a Philipina.
Not your girlfriend just your turn 😂
Sounds like what they say in Dumaquete
P5000/mo for a young hottie is a bargain! In the West just one date will cost you way more than that and you probably won't even get a goodnight kiss 😭
@@RealGaryGibson Spot on!
S.E. Asia is awesome!
@$100.00 USD for a sure thing?
$500.00-$600.00 USD for monthly “rentals”?
Talk about a no brainer!
Plus, the odds of hooking up with a keeper are many x’s better , vs what the average man faces in the west!
You are missing the whole point. A loser pays to sleep with women.
@@RelaxEntertainmentTV- All Men Pay.
I don't want to end up like this guy. He plays the game too. Empty.
We are tourists, so we pay. When it's time to leave, no emotional attachment or commitment. Become a ghost.
It's a great vlog, and it's very true, but i do have to say that some really are just looking to be loved and genuinely don't care about age. I'm not saying how many but from personal experience definitely some.
Well done to you mate. You talk about subjects, which most expat vloggers living in the Philippines don't dare to talk about. Keep it up. You are talking about reality and reality cuts like a knife. Well done for reflecting the reality.
^ Incel
You pay for it one way or another. Cash up front for "services" rendered is at least honest.
Change my mind.
Cheap Charlie speaks.
That’s why he is in the Philippines 😂😂😂
This is a little sensational ! All relationships between Filipinas and foreigners , regardless of age, is about getting some help . As a matter of fact it’s a lot like that in western countries as well.
Most Filipinas are very poor and often stuck raising children alone because men just abandoned them.
Prostitution is not the right word.
What is it exactly that you’re doing in the Philippines ?
prostitution is the right word. Definition: "the practice or occupation of engaging in sexual activity with someone for payment." That's EXACTLY what's happening here. No payment, no sex.
@@GinJ1337 Ok so by your definition your wife is a prostitute .
Almost every relationship depends on money, to some extent. Don't believe me? Try making time with any eligible woman who has not met you before, while you are dress in rags. Invite her home after a date. Then, take her to a large cardboard box and claim it is your home. Trust me, that will stop any possibility of a relationship with an attractive, sane, non-addicted, woman.
Yes, almost every relationship depends on money.
Duh. There are men in the world who don't pay to keep a woman, but extremely rare. Men "love" women for their beauty and youth. Women "love" men for what they can provide.
Video is talking about a Sugar Daddy relationship. Yes, that's closer to prostitution, but duration is different. For some men this is cheaper than marriage. Men are paying a premium for a women's highest worth years and then can move on to another young woman.
If a guy can't tell the difference between a woman wanting a long term, medium, short term, one night then that's on him. I hear many guys hire a Thai woman out of a bar, fall in love with her after 1 day and then spends all his money on her. He's a simpleton.
Letting a woman into your house and allowing her to sit around and do nothing is also on the guy.
Escaping To Philippines used to be saying - "PH is a sex playground. Always overpromise & underdeliver to girls. Do not get attached"
They are for us only temporary anyway when it is our turn. No woman is loyal forever.
So true
Yes honesty, Integrity, kindness, fun shared experience, capability, Straight talking, hard working and of course LOVE. Money doesn't come onto it. Letting her in to do NOTHING is the sign of a spineless incell. Get some BACKBONE wimp.
The typical age gap in Filipino to Filipina relationship is 2 to 3 years.
Just about anywhere in the world if you want to date women 20+ years younger than you, you're going to carry the financial burden. That's just common sense.
Not really.. there are many larger age gaps in Filipino relationships...it might be a mistress.. but it ain't a poor guy with a young girl..but it's around a bit. You need remember they are all religious so they won't advertise it all. Love does happen in those situations...
@Liminalplace1 I base my information on PSA and I said "typical". I never said "all". If you think the "typical" age gap in Filipino relationships is 20+ years. You are mistaken.
@Matipid_Lolo it's the same in the West But because foreigner are considered as higher status and wealthier they are desired just as a wealthy Filipino is. It's just that age gaps are much more acceptable in n Philippines where as in the West even age gaps to wealthy are frowned upon so there is a clear cultural basis to the age gap in Philippines. In Davao I know of a Filipina pastor who is 70 married to a women 25. This seems acceptable to his church.
@@Liminalplace1 What? Age gaps are accepted in the West all the time. Trump, Leonardo di Caprio, millionaires on their yacht. Etc etc. The difference is in the Philippines a lot of guys that can't afford age gap relationships in the West can afford them in the Philippines. They are not millionaires, but they are pesonaires. 🤣😉
@Matipid_Lolo even DiCaprio situations raise eyebrows in the West. No eyebrows are wasted in Phil over foreigners with a Philipina because it's written in the culture)) it's acceptable and expected. The exception is a same age relationship. The unspoken attraction IS THE AGE GAP. Age gap is the norm
so us old bald guys who go to the Philippines don't have the pretty young women chasing us down for our personalities?? OK, what did you think they wanted us for?
Of course it is. The same here in Thailand. My missus costs me half my wage but fortunately shes an amazing cook and even better lay
What about my tall, slim university educated gf? Qualified RN. Doesn’t need a man. Own income, wants to make her own fortune, in demand occupation - can work anywhere in the West. Never asked me for a peso in 3 years
Congratulations! Did you listen to my disclaimer at the start about filipinas who don't ask for a dime or had you switched off before then?
@ I don’t think most foreigners in Phils pull gf calibre of mine. Old with obvious infirmities, drink/smoke/substance abuse/medicated. Pot gut beer bellies, dress poorly, bald, beards, tattoos. Poor dental. Don’t embrace physical fitness. Only ones left seem to be uneducated midgets from the province or bar girls with kids.
A salary means she buys her own stuff, no double dipping
New Sub! What part of the Pines were U in when filming the beach scenes.
It's an option to escape poverty, some take it others don't, I'm not judging I've never had to walk a day in those shoes.
If I lived in PHP, 20k pesos for 3:55 sold! I have never had a probelm with fair compensation for services rendered.
Keeping a girlfriend in the west is more expensive than what you've quoted.
You are missing the whole point of the video. Let me explain since it's way over your head. What he is saying is that it is difficult to find a woman who loves him for him and not just for his money. The amount of money is not the issue here.
I think i miss what the commenter ment here let me explain for u...that's all over the world women don't love average men its not a thing...like men don't love good women that's not a thing...not with the majority anyway only those and this seems to be key in this era for those who are lu(ky...
Congrats for the vid, dude. That IS What i was looking for. I go to Cebu City in xmas. Still have deeper questions about What u Talk about. If you or somebody wants to clarify me some things i would be soooo grateful. Take care dudes!!!!!!
Always love your perspective, along with the copious amount of "evidence." J
Quality Production, editing and narration, your videos are entertaining, informative and a visual and audio banquet for this elderly Beggar.
Hey, just a shout out to you and your videos. Love your sense of humor! I'm thinking of taking the plunge to visit PH. Thanks for your videos!
So what you're saying is, I should get a short term lease with an option to end the lease early with no penalties .
you don’t really want to get dragged into all their financial problems
it’s simply not worth the hassle and extremely expensive
@@adriver4471 define “expensive “!
I never spent more than 200 dollars, in a month, on my ex’s nieces/nephews for their educational needs, and only @400 bucks to save her brother’s life!
Her family is 10x better off than before I entered the picture, and her cousins flirt with me, unabashedly, now that I am available!
more like this! The good old storys from and about life...
ALWAYS GREAT INFORMATION 🌞
Lived there for 10 Years - will never go near one again
I'm 64 and have a GF in her 30s with no financial transactions involved. We have been seeing each other for 7 years and living together for 2 and have never been asked for money. Is this unusual for the Philippines??!
Why you asking me? You should know considering you've been living here longer than me.
You pay them to LEAVE
who wants all the constant spending trying to keep a GF happy
rent by the night is the way forward 🎉
Said this for years, works for me.
100%
May work for you but many like relationships. A connection, not just sex. You're paying either way. It's affordable in PH
We're all prostitutes then aren't we. Getting paid to do things we wouldn't otherwise do if not for the financial aspect
Perfectly said.
we all have to pay for a girlfriend there are no freebies for anyone you know i liked this video
Remind me, what's the number one cause of divorce in the West?
Women wanting too much sex?
It’s certainly not a guy with a small penis, it’s a guy with a small wallet .
Pretty cynical outlook. Lots of Filipinas become exceptional partners and wives
Hey mate you really are the best, you see it as it is and you tell us as it is... plus your wicked British sense of humour 😅😅😅 !!!
That song near the end - wow! Fits the conclusion I've come to about LDRs. It's a fun fantasy, but "it don't feel right."
It's cheaper and less time involved to watch your nice catches of the maganda dalagas.
Thailand babes are charging 25k baht a month to do the full time exclusive GF thing.
Slow mo with music was very cinematic. Lovely.
great job on always including pretty ladies in your videos. few vlogger document muslim areas and the sulu sea. the region is my suggested travel destination. we live through you vicariously.
You are 100 % right
It’s been apart of culture in Asia for centuries,older man supports poorer younger girl,recently I was flying from Bangkok to Shanghai and sitting next to an elder well to do Thailand lady,I told her my story about I have been married to a Thai for 38 years,she asked me 3 times if I had a Mia noi ? A minor wife,it’s part of the culture here in Thailand,if you have a few quid you get a younger model,sorry to say I am a skint member
9:34 i totally agree with you .. but be honest ... the vast majority of women in a relationship with you in the west cost you much more than 500 a month ..
you live in a bigger flat/house, go out more, pay 100+ for nice dinners each and so much more stuff ... it's still transactional .. no matter how big a problem people have with that perspective
This guy must have been burned every time! It’s the same way in all countries if you have a big age gap. Stay away from big cities and online girls. Just go there and you will find something you both want! Never tell them you’ve had a vasectomy either!
Blue pilled.
Believes the Disney Hollywood happy ever after bullshit 😂😂😂.
I tell them I had a vasectomy; it allows some to have relations without the fear of pregnancy. You may be surprised.
@@platoon1081 Bingo dingo, as it was meant for those who are looking for a serious LTR! Just saying the ones who know you can’t get them pregnant and half your age are most likely looking for a good time and one can’t whine afterwards! I’m agreeing with you on your comment! Who cares as it still cheaper than being married to a prude!
You're not the first. You're not the only one. You won't be the last.
So funny you were able to capture Brian the Lion on your vlog 🤣
I met him when I was roaming around BGC last year. Nice guy. Lady behind him caught my eye too.
What time is that on the video?
@@KutWriteVery early 0.22
I've taken a look at many comments on this video and I could safely say that most of them are ignorant and/or dumb. The whole point of the video is not how much he has to spend on a filipina. He is simply stating that it's really difficult to find a good quality woman who loves him for him and not just for his money. He is basically saying that most poor filipinas in the Philippines are prostys.
Enjoy your choice of songs. I like your ear for music
Oh! Where were the background videos shot? I never see girls in string bikinis, or even more modest ones, outside Angeles city in the Philippines. Usually they use bathing suits as underwear!
Taking care of someone dear to you is hardly" prostirution". If you had a Filipina girlfriend who treated you respectfully then you would certainly know the difference. Good luck finding a "good one" on the dating apps.
All men pay with all women in the world.
Everyone pays, I don't know why guys get hung up over it. Especially when geomaxxing and a large age gap...
Charlie Sheen said it best…” I’m not paying for sex, I’m paying her to go away after we have sex”… So basically
The only difference with eastern and western woman is the exchange rate
Bruh, what's the problem did you get hurt by a few of these young women? The older man is paying for what he wants and the young woman is being compensated (I hope fairly). Sure she can choose a young man, but she may have other ideas. A developing country doesn't come with many perks and privileges. She's probably had tougher experiences with money's practicality and has a different world view. The young woman is looking for security and opportunities and the older man may have what she wants. A lot of men are looking for passion, companionship and someone to take care of. Both choose. When needs are met to mutual benefit what's the problem? What they're doing is really none of anyone else's business. What is this moral high ground, should she stay in her place and he stay in his?
Doesn't matter where in the world or at what age, a man is going to pay for female company and sex. The younger a woman, the higher her value, the older a man the more he'll usually pay, and by correlation his value can raise too. There's an exchange so what, all relationships are transactional. A Filipina chooses to align with the man and she gets opportunities that are important to her and can add value to her life even life changing. He's there for the affordability and social acceptance of what's really none of anyone else's business. There are benefits for her and she can find love too, it happens. No shame in that.
The older single man can remain in his home country, and save money not chase after young women. The price to be with a young woman can be high and out of reach. Add to that the societal pressures to date 'age range'.. He selects from a pool of older women that may have money, but he doesn't care about that anymore.. Altogether he may have a less than stellar sex life and that's on him, but who cares those are his choices. People looking down on other people for their choices, things that don't have anything to do with them, are projecting and looking down on everybody themselves included. People decide what they want and not all will get it. To each their own.
Hi Uncle... Just a friendly opinion about your glasses: I think you would look 10 years younger with other glasses, which fit better to your face. Your glasses seems to be much too wide in relation to your head. Just try other glasses if it's possible. Like your videos. Thanks
Sir, you are the only honest vlogger in PH. Please keep up the great and honest work you do. I've been to PH and experienced all you say. I am retiring to Baguio next month. Please let me know how to meet up so I can shake your hand@
Take money out of the equation and would any woman choose to be with a man? Women want security along with companionship and love. A man wants Respect with companionship and love.. each have their own needs which differ but can be given by the other..
@jackscott3589
Filipino and Thai men dont pay their women any money. They also used them up and abandon them after taking their youth and value.
Never heard of a Thai or Filipino man paying child support or spousal support either
Phil...your cynicism is showing. Starting to sound like George Carlin late in life. But then Carlin was always insightful too
George Carlin was right
In the country of my father, women from the west pay for holiday boyfriend, and pay alot more...!😂😂😂
Yep, Only-Chads are loved. All others are Only-$imps.
Do they only treat foreign men like this? I wonder if the local men get a pass.
ofc locals are on lower tariff
Watch the video with the sound off. Far more enjoyable.
No matter where in the world you are in, they all care about financial support one way or another.
My money, my arm candy. I'm 61 my live-in GF is 24 (no kids), I give her an allowance and she save or spend on her parents and siblings as she see fit. Win-win for everyone, it is a fact of life here for an age gap relationship, so get your pension money's worth.
How much do you think it costs you to have a stay at home girlfriend/wife in the west? All women have expenses all over the world
Always about the Money😂
No fool like an old... Met many an older man on my travels basically saying: "this girl just took my money".. I remember travelling to places like Capri near Naples in Italy. An island retreat for some of the world's richest sugar daddys (Or Dubai). You won't find those guys complaining in seedy videos. So.. I dinnae the think the Philippines or its women deserve to be cynically singled out. It's a poor country- and many older men are very happy to take advantage of how far their money goes and to be made to feel like a super stud even if it's just an illusion.
I gotta give you a big thumbs up for this video. Never have I heard so much truth!
Older men pay? Well, fatter men pay. Uglier men pay. In every country. Money is an equaliser. Always has been. Lose your job and see how long your wife sticks around.
I've had same gf 5+ years. Cute, slender, caring, generous. See her once a week overnight, brunch the next morning. Never drinks. Chooses lower cost dining options. She always brings a gift. I pay her monthly rent. Total expense, rent and food, is😊 $200 a month; the cost of one unrewarded dinner date in America. And she leaves me in peace the rest of the week. We met when she was newly turned 27 and I was 77. As close to paradise as a guy living on SS - because of divorce after 27 years - is going to get in this world.
In what way is that arrangement different from the so called western "traditional family" when the wife lives off of her husband?
The time of abundant good pinays are long behind us. Social media and desperate simps have ruined the place. Now, guys are running into a dozen shit shows before even meeting a decent potential.
Watch your back because you haven't experienced that level of game and deception and you WON'T see it coming!!!
Yep. No woman will want you for you especially if you are older. Take that and move accordingly. If you are a hedonist, you can 'date' a different Filipina every day. I visit every 3-4 months and have a 20yo girlfriend who has a small child. She had started college, but got pregnant. I didn't have to, but I chose her and I'm satisfied with her. I give her 9- 12k pesos a month but give her 3k a week or she will probably spend it all at one time. I'm of this mind: are you happy? I say to all men that engage in this game in the Philippines, do what you are comfortable with. Watch your spending on them. We will make entitled monsters that we left in the West and make it bad for others that come after us if we spoil them. Learn to say no.
@kevindavis3598
Single moms have very little value in Thailand and Philippines. They have been used up and abandoned by local men
Phil: the girl at 8:37... What island is this? I'm in love! 😂
Sabang, Mindoro. Working girl.
@BiggWorldCinema I can fix her!
Why do you think any relationship in the world is not on terms so each person gets what they want???
The diameter of the locals seems to be expanding by the month
I would not have a girlfriend unless I lived there. I would expect to give some kind of allowance to a non working full time lover especially if she was making kids for me.
Isn't it a better idea to hire a young domestic helper so she can do everything for you?
I see my Filipino girlfriend once a year when she's not working in Kuwait, she is a proud woman and never asked me for money....don't judge all Filipino's as the same
Most women don't ask for money. Mostly guys just give it to them. The next most common is the woman telling a guy about her problem and he offers help. Then we have the "just showing up" for women in clubs never paying for a drink.
Ofc... but is she 18-25 and 8/10+ ?
@@waterbug1135instead of asking for money they cheat & upgrade (date up)
@@wtf6694
Ofw Filipinas are “used up” single moms. She probably have 5 kids
A new video made by a great friend, for me to enjoy during dinner later! Great!
There is a cost to everything... even for being a stubborn old man alone, right? Every single thing you do (your perceived utility vs market elasticity) or don't do (opportunity cost) is a mathematical equation. Money flows towards perceived utility. Any other story or "moral" you assign to that math is entirely at your discretion. You might as well enjoy the last couple of years of being the dominant species on this planet. From there, the ability to assure our future free market structure as Humans becomes... murky.
hhahahahhah... brother you are so rude.... and funny... keep going you are doing a good job.
I PAID $60 PER DAY PLUS TWO MEALS PLUS DRINKS A TENNIS SHOES A PURSE AND TRANSPORTATION VIA GRAB TO GO TO CHURCH
haha what a minefield look at it this way staying single means ya can trade her in for a newer model. marrying a woman means you just get to see them fall to bits , just like a car
I think it's okay. Men pay for everything. Anyway, they're going to pay for the house. They're going to pay for the food.I don't see the problem
Paying a woman a salary, or lavishing her with resellable gifts is very different that treating her to a vacation for two. I will suggest that making arrangements for the finances of a wife or fiance after you are gone is not a bad thing to do.
Prenup. All these arrangements are only a matter of duration. Marriage for life costs a man less than a nightly pro 3-4 times a week. Sugar Baby is in between cost.
It seems to be the western guys who are desperate who believe they are getting some kind of bargain relationship, so ultimately get what you pay for? You omitted the all present family and that agreed amount probably won't cover their demands. Although if you live in the Philippines perhaps there is a benefit but if you are abroad it is a waste of money. The monthly salary girls are like a business and are only loyal to the biggest paymaster and often have multiple sponsors. If you think about it, 9K is far cheaper than using hookers, so perhaps the guy is getting value however living there you have many opportunities to meet better quality girls. I suspect that the old guy pays more than 9K as, I remember the university yearly fees are similar across the Philippines and start out from 20K+, that doesn't include materials etc.
Seems guys like this are paying the same as being married to a housewife without the marriage, or divorce. Don't all women cost money?
Interesting point you make, paying to have a relationship with the freedom to have as much fun as possible and nothing to tie you down. I wonder if it works for these guys?