I became 20 weeks pregnant yesterday and I didn’t know who to talk to about how I am feeling. So I looked up a video to put me at ease some way. I am terrified to be a mom because it’s something I have always dreamed of and here it is passing so fast already. I’m so emotional and so many thoughts run through my head. I am so excited to be a mom but so scared.
I am sorry this is such a late reply, I haven't been making videos anymore. but I am glad I could help comfort you! I hope you and your baby are doing well
I want to thank you from the deep of my heart. I'm 31 week pregnant, two years after you posted this video, and I feel THE EXACT SAME WAY. Everyone look at me as I was some sort of miracle on earth 'cause I'm carring a baby, but I'm scared to death. Even if I have a supporting partner and all, I feel so alone in this... I mean, she's kicking inside me right now, labour is so close and I have no idea of what to expect (yes, I know the theory, but... you know...), or how I will face everything that is yet to come. Will I be able to protect my baby from the harm of this world? Will I be a good example for her? Everyone says it will be all so natural, but I don't think so... I didn't even planned to have a children, how can I be a good mom if I didn't deeply wanted it before got pregnant? Now I am happy to have this baby, of course, but shouldn't a mother supposed to WANT it before even try to have one? Sorry If there's any mistake, I'm from Italy and I don't practice my english very often... Thanks for this video, I'm sorry to see you don't upload videos anymore, I'd really like more "real talk" channel like yours!
Hi! thanks for the comment. If you use TikTok I make a random mix of content at Cheyenne Webb (thesinginghr). But mama I totally get it and I still have my days where I question if I am a good enough mom for my baby but the truth is you are the perfect mom for her because she is yours. She is made from you and because of that your mother instincts are strong and such a wonderful gift. Trust yourself you'll be okay. I promise. You can message me on TikTok or Instagram whenever if you need someone to talk to!
Only watching this makes me know, you are going to be a wonderful mommy - Being concerned is just a sign of how much you love and care for and think of your baby already 💓and that is more than the baby could ever ask for ☺️ be kind to yourself, and all the best wishes to you both 🤗
This is pretty much exactly how i am feeling right now being 5 months pregnant and now its all hitting me that im actually having a baby and gonna become a mother and i am terrified if i am going to be a good mother or if i am making the right decision which is crazy because i wanted to have a baby and idk ive just been in my thoughts lately and iam glad that i am not the only one that feels this way
I don’t know if this a coincidence or not but my name is also Cheyenne I am also 21 and I am also pregnant. I looked up the words I am terrified of being a mom and this is what came up. Thank you ❤ I know I’m not alone
Thank you for sharing! I have similar thoughts. I have different expectations as how I want to be a mother as I was raised and I fear not being able to teach my future kids things I don’t know. I have experienced mental illness too which scares me when thinking about raising children. I’m 25 and have waited, and will probably wait at least 4 more years.
15 weeks today and I’m showing more and more, at first I was confident I’d be an amazing mother but it gets harder every day tbh. But we’re in it now so no turning back, I’ve gotta do my best and hopefully I can be good enough. Regardless of what I’ve been told, or what people are predicting my life to be.
You are going to do great mama! There are hard emotional days but there are so many happy days too. I believe in you and I am always here if you need someone to talk to!
Thank you for sharing this...I'm terrified myself (not pregnant) but for that one day. Scared of failure especially when it comes to the well being of another person that you are responsible for, I guess taking it day by day is the best thing.
I became 20 weeks pregnant yesterday and I didn’t know who to talk to about how I am feeling. So I looked up a video to put me at ease some way. I am terrified to be a mom because it’s something I have always dreamed of and here it is passing so fast already. I’m so emotional and so many thoughts run through my head. I am so excited to be a mom but so scared.
I am sorry this is such a late reply, I haven't been making videos anymore. but I am glad I could help comfort you!
I hope you and your baby are doing well
I want to thank you from the deep of my heart. I'm 31 week pregnant, two years after you posted this video, and I feel THE EXACT SAME WAY. Everyone look at me as I was some sort of miracle on earth 'cause I'm carring a baby, but I'm scared to death. Even if I have a supporting partner and all, I feel so alone in this... I mean, she's kicking inside me right now, labour is so close and I have no idea of what to expect (yes, I know the theory, but... you know...), or how I will face everything that is yet to come. Will I be able to protect my baby from the harm of this world? Will I be a good example for her?
Everyone says it will be all so natural, but I don't think so... I didn't even planned to have a children, how can I be a good mom if I didn't deeply wanted it before got pregnant? Now I am happy to have this baby, of course, but shouldn't a mother supposed to WANT it before even try to have one? Sorry If there's any mistake, I'm from Italy and I don't practice my english very often... Thanks for this video, I'm sorry to see you don't upload videos anymore, I'd really like more "real talk" channel like yours!
Hi! thanks for the comment. If you use TikTok I make a random mix of content at Cheyenne Webb (thesinginghr). But mama I totally get it and I still have my days where I question if I am a good enough mom for my baby but the truth is you are the perfect mom for her because she is yours. She is made from you and because of that your mother instincts are strong and such a wonderful gift. Trust yourself you'll be okay. I promise.
You can message me on TikTok or Instagram whenever if you need someone to talk to!
Only watching this makes me know, you are going to be a wonderful mommy - Being concerned is just a sign of how much you love and care for and think of your baby already 💓and that is more than the baby could ever ask for ☺️ be kind to yourself, and all the best wishes to you both 🤗
This is pretty much exactly how i am feeling right now being 5 months pregnant and now its all hitting me that im actually having a baby and gonna become a mother and i am terrified if i am going to be a good mother or if i am making the right decision which is crazy because i wanted to have a baby and idk ive just been in my thoughts lately and iam glad that i am not the only one that feels this way
I don’t know if this a coincidence or not but my name is also Cheyenne I am also 21 and I am also pregnant. I looked up the words I am terrified of being a mom and this is what came up. Thank you ❤ I know I’m not alone
Sending you all my love and positive vibes mama!! You will be amazing ✨
Thank you!
Thank you for sharing! I have similar thoughts. I have different expectations as how I want to be a mother as I was raised and I fear not being able to teach my future kids things I don’t know. I have experienced mental illness too which scares me when thinking about raising children. I’m 25 and have waited, and will probably wait at least 4 more years.
15 weeks today and I’m showing more and more, at first I was confident I’d be an amazing mother but it gets harder every day tbh. But we’re in it now so no turning back, I’ve gotta do my best and hopefully I can be good enough. Regardless of what I’ve been told, or what people are predicting my life to be.
I’m about to start 27th week too. I’m so freaking scared too! Fighting anxiety!
This was so therapeutic… I’m 26 weeks tomorrow and you spoke my truth word for word. This is exactly what I was looking for today.
I dont check here much since I don't post anymore but I am glad it helped mama. I know you are doing great!
I am soooo with you sis! How is it as a mom now ?
I love being a mom. Yes it’s hard but definitely worth it
Me too!!
I am watching this being almost 4 months pregnant and I am struggling so much emotionally.
You are going to do great mama! There are hard emotional days but there are so many happy days too. I believe in you and I am always here if you need someone to talk to!
Thank you
How u been doing?
Thank you for sharing this...I'm terrified myself (not pregnant) but for that one day. Scared of failure especially when it comes to the well being of another person that you are responsible for, I guess taking it day by day is the best thing.