This song seriously makes me so sad. Literally every girl I’ve fallen for has been straight. I’ve basically fallen in love with this girl who’s a friend of mine. It’s the hardest thing ever. You feel like you’ll never get over them. She’s perfect in every way. I wish things could be the way I imagine. Hayley has literally described my exact feelings.
I feel in love with my friend one time and its so shitty I couldn't have her over to my house without thinking how perfect and beautiful she is and I couldn't see her at school with her boyfriend with out being jealous
ok not only do we get to watch the beautiful work of hayley kiyoko but the fact that in some shots you see cellulite/stretch marks is beauty all in its own depending what this songs meaning is even the fact that she has this all in her head she has every little detail about this women she likes and that is amazing to see now adays especially in musc which many can relate..... keep up the amazing work hayley
jb bellinato right? I was looking for this comment. The fact that she's showing that she loves this girl, not just an idealistic version of her that's perfect, but every little thing about her that makes her beautiful including her stretch marks and cellulite. It's really beautiful agh
I know I saw the stretch marks and gasped. it's rare that we ever see stuff like that in the media and seeing her being portrayed as beautiful is really amazing
"Damn, I wish I was your lover" by Sophie B. Hawkins will forever be my 'fell for a straight friend/girl' song, but this has a similar energy for sure.
They didn't cover her stretch marks, they didn't straighten her natural hair, they didn't make her lighter. They let her be her and that's amazing. I love you Hayley Edit: about this comment, I mean how you get lots of artists who get poc to be in their videos and they make them look lighter and they straighten their natural curly hair. And Hayley didn't do that to that young woman, she let her have those things, didn't even try and cover things like stretch marks. I just mean it as in its nice to see proper representation of people of color.
Girls with stretch marks = *melt* I don't know why, or where this particular thing came from, but, I have it. I'm demisexual, so, while I can gauge sort of generally what society would deem to be "attractiveness" in a person, I'm not attracted to them until I get to know them and we get along well, and then I just feel that pull toward them. I don't have any other physical features that have an impact on me like stretch marks do. I'm personally tall and awkwardly lanky and painfully thin, so maybe that's where some of it is from - I like girls with curves because I lack them? I'm literally just guessing here. There has to be more to it than I was just born liking stretch marks on females, right? I always thought I didn't have any preferences physically in a partner, so, why of all the beautiful physical attributes women can possess, mine is so randomly this one? It's one I'm very glad to have - it seems like too many curvier females aren't aware that they're absolute goddesses and I like setting them straight about not being ashamed about their body and any perceived "imperfections".
Always gotta fall for the straight friend. She'll hold your hand. She'll change in front of you. She'll tell you everything. But she'll never feel the same way. FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
I'm a cis straight white autistic man who is still married to my first love after 20 years, so I can never really know what that would feel like, but your song and video still hit me like a gut punch. Well done, and thank you for helping me better understand people who are different than me (my autism drives me to do the work to understand people because it is so challenging). EDIT: My wife and I both have stretch marks, so I was delighted to see them not airbrushed out in this video. It helps me feel more normal.
She always has the most beautiful girls in her music videos, herself included. And i love the fact that she tries to include a diverse range of girls as well in each music video
why is kookie good at everything wtf Fantastic Comment ☺ I completely agree and that is something I have also often thought myself. Hayley obviously appreciates the Different Types of Beauty in all the Different Types of Woman and that's a Wonderful Thing. The Fact that she hand picks the girls and directs most of the videos herself. She makes sure,that she has either complete Artistic Control or At Least a Big Part of it,which Really Helps ☺ Keep the Message and Organic Feel and The Artistic Integrity Intact ☺ ❤ it 🌹
I'm so happy you said that. Honestly I had a major gay moment when I saw that and it was the only thing on my mind for that entire day. UNALTERED HUMAN BODIES ARE GORGEOUS! My god I don't even know you but I love you XD
The thing I love about Hayley is that we get gay content without sacrificing quality. We're so starved for any kind of representation that we usually just take whatever we can get, but with Hayley's music we actually get amazing songs as well. Like, I totally came here for the gay, but I'm gonna play her music on repeat because its amazing in its own right.
When the girl you are in love with listens to this song all the time with you and she’s like “what a cute song”, “you know every word”, “that’s cool!”, “you must be thinking about someone” and you’re over there just like “...you, I’m thinking about you”
I met this girl at my workplace back in February and we talked like we’ve known each other for a long time. she told me she was straight...so I respected that, but I still had deep feelings especially since she did things like hold my hand while she drove. She would bring me lunch and make sure I got home safe. We would talk on the phone every night. But she kept saying she was straight. One night I just told her I couldn’t control how much I felt for her. She said she had a dream of us kissing. I sent her this song and we cried because she was so afraid to come out to me and to tell me she liked me. We always had sleepovers in our heads. :) 4 years in counting 🥰 thanks everyone for the continued support
Hayley made me realise that not all girls have feelings like that for other girls, I remember accidentally listening to this and questioning myself and realise that I am attracted to women and men. She has helped me discover myself and I'm so grateful for that.
YES OMG!!! I connect with this song so much! I've had such a huge crush on the same girl for the past 3-4years now, but I'll never have her cause she's straight😭😭
@@sarahslove1194 well I'm a bi girl and I would never use anyone. ...well and in my 18 years of life I never had a relationship.. I only had crushes on boys eho had a girlfriend already and straight girls ...I always fall for the wrong people :') *cries in bisexual *
Has anyone ever made a movie about a girl who's dating her best friend but then in the end it turns out the whole thing was in her head and she never told her friend how she felt? Because that sounds like the kinda shit a gay movie would pull on us, to be honest.
That’s crazy I used to listen to this song back in like freshman year of highschool and it made me think of my crush who I’ve been best friends with since 3 years prior. We have been bestfriends now for 7+ years but guess what, we now live together in our own home and are engaged and soon to be married ✨✨ don’t give up if you know you love them go after it. Best decision I ever made
HOLY FUCK. IT'S BEEN FOUR MINUTES AND IM ALREADY *OBSESSED WITH THIS SONG.* I relate so much to this, especially in my 6th-7th grade years when I was closeted and had sleepovers all the time.. Hayley Kiyoko, you are the MVP in music.
AlyGrace DO YOU KNOW HOW WEIRD IT IS TO SEE YOU COMMENT?? I FOLLOWED YOUR INSTAGRAM AND I FRIENDED YOUR SNAP AND JUST HOLY CRAP WHEN YOUR INSTA GOT DELETED I GOT SO MAD
Same. I've been in the closet for some years, and am tired of hiding. I am going to come out first online, then to some friends, and then see how it goes with those I worry will judge or reject me because of their strict religious beliefs. I'm grateful for Hayley's music, and her music videos: at the moment, they're the one support for coming out I have.
I never really understood how deeply INLOVE I was with this song until I read the lyrics and now I know it’s because I’m definitely not straight. Thank you Haley Kiyoka for representing the gay community in the best ways possible.
Zoe Delane And just bc of this song, I kissed a girl. And my friends fucked with it. 😂 They thought I was totally cool. I 1, liked it and 2, im still straight. I think....
Woah how time flies. I used to hear this and cry about figuring my feelings out and understanding myself 😂 thank you so much Hayley you get me through all those hard times of mine❤
I resonate with this song on such a level. This was me with my now fiancé when we were teenagers. I would lie awake next to her and wish for her to feel how she did in my dreams. I am so lucky and forever grateful that she is no longer just in my head but in my heart and more importantly I am in hers ❤️🏳️🌈
Me: Whats your favorite thing to do at a sleep over? Friend: Truth or dare! Other Friend: Just hanging out! Hayley Kiyoko: Fucking in a bath full of strawberry milk.
I’m just now realizing the symbolism of the yellow wallpaper in the intro, referencing The Yellow Wallpaper short story and supporting that idea of going insane or living outside of reality is the partner disappearing out of the shots, like a memory or a figment of imagination or both. The artistry in this song from the literary perspective of TYW story - when you listen to the lyrics coupled with the visuals, it’s truly something special to understand and feel 💛❤️
irene brenda Basemera *insert ok here’s the thing tiktok sound but with girls instead of boys* OK SO HERES THE THING MOST GIRLS ARE EITHER CUTE OR HOT YOU GRT ONENOT BOTH BUT ONE DAY WHEN GOD WAS MIXING IN HIS LITTLE MIXING BOWL HE SAID LET ME DO BOTH SO HE TOOK HOT AND HE TOOK CUTE AND PUT THEM IN THE MIXING BOWL
irene brenda Basemera 2015: *just learned what gay meant* 2016: I’ve got a boyfriend so straight 2017: who fucking cares? I’m straight I guess, but seriously I don’t give a fuck I ain’t dating anyone for real anyway 2018: fucking shit this girl asked me and my sister out what the fuck?? I’m still like straight I think... or maybe, no? 2019: I’m straight, I just couldn’t tell because that girl confused me and messed me up 2020: GOD LORD WAS I A RETARD LAST YEAR!!! I’MGAY AS FUCK But seriously tho that girl was weird as shit she asked me and my older sister out in the same day. What the fuck???
yesss. struggled for so long with mine. took me a few years to be confident with them, but about a year ago I finally just didn't feel insecure about them. this video could have helped me so much, and I hope it helps others.
I used to listen to this when my best friend would come sleepover. I really had no idea that she wasn't straight. I confessed my feelings for her and turns out she had felt the same way for a long time. We've been together for over a year now.
''You wanna be friends forever, I can think of something better'' Wow..this really is how things often play out for us gay girls, Hayleys songs are always too real.
Right? Then all you can do is dream about it. I hate being in the pit of falling in love with a straight girl. I try so damn hard to not because I'm chasing after something that will never work.
I just wanted to comment on the gorgeous stretch marks. I'm absolutely in love with this, I always think they look like an ocean or sand as the light catches the lines. :)
Honestly, I didn't like mine for awhile when they first started to appear, yes. I've grown tired of hiding something natural, and now really just love having them there. I am uh "googoogaga" over them or whatever fun fancy loving word people like to say, I love them. Not pretending at all. Whatever you want to think though... always something isn't it.
Super Kawaii I used to hate mine when I was at school- they used to be brilliant red and really obvious and I was so conscious of them, but now I've grown older they've faded to silver and now I've moved beyond just accepting them, I think they're really pretty and I don't bother trying to hide them at all 😊
I absolutely LOVEEE the fact they didn't edit them out! that moment when you realize "OMG this is a real unedited woman" makes it even more sensual...damn what beautiful woman, and song.
Bravo!! That was one beautifully sexy video! I'm a 50-year old feminine lesbian who came out at age 16. Back then, there was nothing like this in popular culture. The closest thing we had to a role model was Catherine Deneauve (sp?) and Susan Sarandon in The Hunger. This is so much better, more healthy. I used to dream of the day when gays and lesbians could be out like they are today. I never dreamed it would be so openly beautiful like this. I'm so happy for the young people coming out now. It's so important to be true to yourself.
Ah man...you're such a kind person. Instead of holding a grudge against us because your generation did not have something like that in pop culture, your happy for us. They way you descriped your confrontation/ideals with being gay in the past, got me teared up. I really wish it would have been like today back then...
I am so happy to be (at least partly) growing up in this... I want to call it an LGBT revolution. I get to be one of the first gay teens that can see herself represented in media like this without fearing censorship and hatred. People underestimate the impact of media on self-acceptance. I hated myself for being gay, but seeing myself in women like Hayley is a comfort and a necessity.
not me at 3 am thinking about how many times hayley, when she was doing her concert in my town, did all the eye contact with me and i was make a whole ff about us when she was singing this :(
Viveka Barnes I am scared to come out as bi because my family don't like LGBT. I have been hiding myself for a year and i am going though hard time I am rlly not happy
Kirstyn_gabrial I'm sorry your going through that. It's hard enough coming to terms with your own orientation sometimes let alone a homophobic family. I'm out to my siblings and some people at work. I don't have the courage to come out to my parents even though I don't live with them and I'm 27. We're here for you. I would suggest watching Ash Hardell's video about coming out with other RUclipsrs. It provides great advice and a non romanticized look on coming out. Stay strong ♡ Hugs from Ohio ^_^
I can only find one thing wrong with this video. It didn't last forever.This is one of the realest videos I've seen in a long time with the stretch marks and the interracial couple vibes and the gayness.Fuccccck I'm sure alot of people (including myself needed this.)
My Family TV stop trying to play the victim. interracial couples where both people are POC are good for diversity and representation and you don't see it often. it's not about hating white people, stop being a baby and trying to make things about you.
Such incredible talent... I am continually in awe of the way she talks about her experiences and portrays them through her songs and music videos. So relatable and so wonderful!
This song seriously makes me so sad. Literally every girl I’ve fallen for has been straight. I’ve basically fallen in love with this girl who’s a friend of mine. It’s the hardest thing ever. You feel like you’ll never get over them. She’s perfect in every way. I wish things could be the way I imagine. Hayley has literally described my exact feelings.
Bethany Brown I'm currently in love with a best friend and she's straight and it *sucks*
Just a girl wandering around youtube - I’m in love with my best friend too I’ve known her for more than two years now - but she’s asexual
Your blindness I brought you out of grief
Makes me glad that I'm not the only one who thought that way. :)
I feel in love with my friend one time and its so shitty I couldn't have her over to my house without thinking how perfect and beautiful she is and I couldn't see her at school with her boyfriend with out being jealous
Showing her strechmarks - you don't know how much it means to me that you don't feel the need to cover them! She is so stunning.
Poydeba sasali ako
ok not only do we get to watch the beautiful work of hayley kiyoko but the fact that in some shots you see cellulite/stretch marks is beauty all in its own depending what this songs meaning is even the fact that she has this all in her head she has every little detail about this women she likes and that is amazing to see now adays especially in musc which many can relate..... keep up the amazing work hayley
jb bellinato right? I was looking for this comment. The fact that she's showing that she loves this girl, not just an idealistic version of her that's perfect, but every little thing about her that makes her beautiful including her stretch marks and cellulite. It's really beautiful agh
I know I saw the stretch marks and gasped. it's rare that we ever see stuff like that in the media and seeing her being portrayed as beautiful is really amazing
You got it guurl 🙌🏻🔥😎
I was admiring that girl's butt, when I saw the stretch marks I felt so represented and so happy. Oh. My. God.
jb bellinato why do you want to see cellulite?
The 'I-fell-in-love-with-my-straight-bestfriend' anthem
This song and wish you were gay by claud make me feel that way
My jam
More than a friend from GIRLI
+line without a hook
👏🏻😭
"Damn, I wish I was your lover" by Sophie B. Hawkins will forever be my 'fell for a straight friend/girl' song, but this has a similar energy for sure.
*CURLY GIRLS JUST HIT DIFFERENT. DAMN.*
Man, I gotta figure out how to twist my spine in a sprial. Maybe then I'll get a date.
curly girls..?? IM SCARED WHAT
@@d.ema.lition they probably meant curly haired girls 😂❤
@@123lorane oop yeah that makes more sense JSAKSJ
@@d.ema.lition lol OK yeah it does 😂❤
Why tf is no one talking about how STUNNING the curly haired girl is?!?!
She is very beautiful
Dragon AJ I know right!?
@@sydneybrooks6038 Yeah.
Beth Berryhill exactlyyy😻
She's breath-taking 😍
Omg the girl in this video is so DAMN gorgeous
@Frances Christon
That was what I was thinking for, legit, the whole video
IKR
ik hayley is damm gorgeous isnt she
@s. d.
Me too :(
Most of the girls in her videos are 😂
They didn't cover her stretch marks, they didn't straighten her natural hair, they didn't make her lighter. They let her be her and that's amazing. I love you Hayley
Edit: about this comment, I mean how you get lots of artists who get poc to be in their videos and they make them look lighter and they straighten their natural curly hair. And Hayley didn't do that to that young woman, she let her have those things, didn't even try and cover things like stretch marks. I just mean it as in its nice to see proper representation of people of color.
YESS
Wtf.
Make her lighter? She's already light 🙃
@@deehines5750 right
Girls with stretch marks = *melt*
I don't know why, or where this particular thing came from, but, I have it.
I'm demisexual, so, while I can gauge sort of generally what society would deem to be "attractiveness" in a person, I'm not attracted to them until I get to know them and we get along well, and then I just feel that pull toward them. I don't have any other physical features that have an impact on me like stretch marks do. I'm personally tall and awkwardly lanky and painfully thin, so maybe that's where some of it is from - I like girls with curves because I lack them? I'm literally just guessing here. There has to be more to it than I was just born liking stretch marks on females, right? I always thought I didn't have any preferences physically in a partner, so, why of all the beautiful physical attributes women can possess, mine is so randomly this one? It's one I'm very glad to have - it seems like too many curvier females aren't aware that they're absolute goddesses and I like setting them straight about not being ashamed about their body and any perceived "imperfections".
ARE THOSE STRETCH MARKS IM SEEING? HELL YES 😍
Andrea Ramos. Right?! 😍
Andrea Ramos. AMAZING RIGHT I AM SO IN LIVE WITH HER VIDEOS AND SONGS
Andrea Ramos. IT JUST GETS BETTER
YES ♥ ♥ ♥
Had to like this because you had 666 likes.
Dude that girl's body is legit goalssss
В ЗАСОС ...
... In my case, wife goals.
Greta Blackwell awhh
But her bra is way too smalllllll 😭😭😭
My shape is fucked up as I mean by that I’m a bit overweight and I’m TRYING to lose weight but I cant
Always gotta fall for the straight friend. She'll hold your hand. She'll change in front of you. She'll tell you everything. But she'll never feel the same way.
FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF
coming back to this video when it’s all blown over,,,,,i was such a soft baby gay,,,,,
@@raventrunite6459 Same fellow sapphic. Same.
Sleepover had become awkward when people found out.
Infinite F
And they like hug and play around with you and like it just AGHH
Ugh
I'm a cis straight white autistic man who is still married to my first love after 20 years, so I can never really know what that would feel like, but your song and video still hit me like a gut punch. Well done, and thank you for helping me better understand people who are different than me (my autism drives me to do the work to understand people because it is so challenging).
EDIT: My wife and I both have stretch marks, so I was delighted to see them not airbrushed out in this video. It helps me feel more normal.
the fact that she didn’t even bother to cover the stretch marks just makes my day and gives me so much confidence
snazzy jazzy stretch marks are kinda hot ngl
red x purple TRUTH
Stretch marks are my fetish oof
I know, i genuinely thought they made her even more beautiful, it's too sad society thinks otherwise
The stretch marks literally show how real the fantasy feels
This song is the definition of falling for your straight best friend.
And i relate so bad t-t
My exbestfriend was straight and she was my first ever crush 😭
BTS William bro same i have a crush on my straight best friend!
@@grey-tm3qi another one here... 🤦🏻♀️🖐🏻 Don't know what to do, she doesn't knows... I'm scared, she's the first one I liked
Clara Sanchez i’m sorry!
She always has the most beautiful girls in her music videos, herself included. And i love the fact that she tries to include a diverse range of girls as well in each music video
cu no
Omg army💞
why is kookie good at everything wtf Fantastic Comment ☺ I completely agree and that is something I have also often thought myself. Hayley obviously appreciates the Different Types of Beauty in all the Different Types of Woman and that's a Wonderful Thing. The Fact that she hand picks the girls and directs most of the videos herself. She makes sure,that she has either complete Artistic Control or At Least a Big Part of it,which Really Helps ☺ Keep the Message and Organic Feel and The Artistic Integrity Intact ☺ ❤ it 🌹
I commented about the same thing not long ago so I went back and deleted it. But yes yes yes I agree.
why is kookie good at everything wtf Army
I watched this multiple times every day for at least a year and really thought I was straight
Hahahahah 😂
LMFAOO pls
“i jUsT LiKe tHe bEaT!!”
hahahahaha
Oh sweetie you not XD
Well, I'm pretty sure Hayley really enjoyed filming this video :p
Ananas Who dont? 😂😂
And most of us definetly enjoyed watching it.
tardcakez lol
Ananas yeeepp 😵
storm LOLLL
1:09 it's just a little thing but the stretch marks on her legs are beautiful and I'm glad someone finally put what real girls legs are like thank you
Kendrick Lamar-Humble
Alessia Cara-Scars To Your Beautiful
00447440720158 whatup
So true. Women are beautiful!
1:07
I'm so happy you said that. Honestly I had a major gay moment when I saw that and it was the only thing on my mind for that entire day. UNALTERED HUMAN BODIES ARE GORGEOUS! My god I don't even know you but I love you XD
The thing I love about Hayley is that we get gay content without sacrificing quality. We're so starved for any kind of representation that we usually just take whatever we can get, but with Hayley's music we actually get amazing songs as well. Like, I totally came here for the gay, but I'm gonna play her music on repeat because its amazing in its own right.
emma n
Trus dat!!
easily the best comment on this vid
Her music videos are so well put together too. Always feel like small movies. You often don't get that even with average music videos
Why Did Tammy,Kitty and Dudley was eyes closed the gap between last of them 😴🐈💤🐕💤🐰💤🔭🌌🌙
*i die everytime the girl with curly hair smiles*
You're dead a hundred times ove-- oh
the girl featured in this video is gorgeous
When the girl you are in love with listens to this song all the time with you and she’s like “what a cute song”, “you know every word”, “that’s cool!”, “you must be thinking about someone” and you’re over there just like “...you, I’m thinking about you”
Bella M this is way too relatable aha
Ouch you’re friendzoned
Sounds like she likes u too
I 👏 need 👏an 👏update 👏👏how are y’all doin?
update 👏🏻 us 👏🏻 pls 👏🏻 sis
I met this girl at my workplace back in February and we talked like we’ve known each other for a long time. she told me she was straight...so I respected that, but I still had deep feelings especially since she did things like hold my hand while she drove. She would bring me lunch and make sure I got home safe. We would talk on the phone every night. But she kept saying she was straight. One night I just told her I couldn’t control how much I felt for her. She said she had a dream of us kissing. I sent her this song and we cried because she was so afraid to come out to me and to tell me she liked me. We always had sleepovers in our heads. :)
4 years in counting 🥰 thanks everyone for the continued support
Aw that's cute
*jealousy* but srsly good for u
that's the sweetest thing i've ever seen
Nw9nbeo
Nw0nbnei
Nw9nbw8
Nw9hbw8
ur literally living life like in a dream
Hayley made me realise that not all girls have feelings like that for other girls, I remember accidentally listening to this and questioning myself and realise that I am attracted to women and men. She has helped me discover myself and I'm so grateful for that.
This song really hurts when you actually get it.
Couldn't agree more, but hey at least we got the girl in our head
YES OMG!!! I connect with this song so much! I've had such a huge crush on the same girl for the past 3-4years now, but I'll never have her cause she's straight😭😭
Ikr ;-;
It matches so perfectly what did happen at my sleepover and then the girl used me to get a guy hate bi girls useing you 😟
@@sarahslove1194 well I'm a bi girl and I would never use anyone. ...well and in my 18 years of life I never had a relationship.. I only had crushes on boys eho had a girlfriend already and straight girls ...I always fall for the wrong people :') *cries in bisexual *
i LOVE HER STRETCH MARKS!!!!
The female body is just so beautiful no one can deny it, this is beautiful 🌈
2718aj, well the female body shown here isnt real
2718aj ik bro
Ok repeat after me.
gay... men...
(joking btw, I know someone can find something beautiful without being attracted to it)
2718aj This is art
black current and how do you know?
My mom: my daughter is straight.
RUclips: no she is lesbian
😂 same
a lesbian*
🤣😆
😂😂😂💜💜💜🏳️🌈
Girls, What if You are!!! Just be free and happy
Why can't lesbian movies be as good as hayleys music videos?!
sofia ranta
Cause lesbian movies are never made by any lesbian or bi directors and actors
tainattovisk preach 🙌 so damn true
there are a couple of pretty good lesbian movies, like carol, bound, and but I'm a cheerleader (some of my faves) but yea most of them suck
Has anyone ever made a movie about a girl who's dating her best friend but then in the end it turns out the whole thing was in her head and she never told her friend how she felt? Because that sounds like the kinda shit a gay movie would pull on us, to be honest.
what about blue is the warmest colour?!?!?!!? loooove that movie
Am I the only one that loves the 'my head my head my head my head' backing vocals?
Emina Rose Parrison I fucking live for it
I loved it too
SAME
shoutout to all the people who actually end up with the girl they like
Taylor Rose I have my girlfriend she’s so beautiful
Can’t relate 🤷🏻♀️😭😪
I’ve got a girl :) I’ve never been happier
Got mine💜
i gots minez :)
That’s crazy I used to listen to this song back in like freshman year of highschool and it made me think of my crush who I’ve been best friends with since 3 years prior. We have been bestfriends now for 7+ years but guess what, we now live together in our own home and are engaged and soon to be married ✨✨ don’t give up if you know you love them go after it. Best decision I ever made
CHIIIIILLLLLLSSSSSS❤❤❤
this is the ultimate "i fell in love with a straight girl" anthem
oml yessssssXDXD
So fucking true lmaooo😂😂
Ikr
So tru
Also it's a "I'm in love with my friend who's not straight but not into me" anthem
Did anyone see her stretch marks?
Thank you Hayley for not covering them.
Coral Narvaez I did. it's nice that they didn't feel the need to block them out. she's beautiful anyways :)))
i personally find them hot as hell uwu
Coral Narvaez Yass
Coral Narvaez omg ik right ❗️❤️
I didn't notice. I was too busy looking at how fricken beautiful this gurl is. But yas hun body positivity
I just found out my crush is dating my brother.... I'm going to listen to Hayley's songs for 78 years...
My names blurryface And i care what u think ooohh boy hfkeienenfhfjrbfjfjixiwje
My names blurryface And i care what u think omfg! I am so sorry fir you. I would die 😭❤️🙌🏼
I'm literally praying for you, fellow gay.
Erin OMFG I FEEL SO BAD FOR YOU
Naomi G IT'S ALL GOOD, DON'T FEEL BAD! IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT!
I’m secretly in love with my friend, who shared this video with me. I feel you Hayley 💔
Shoot ur shot🫶🏽✨
Maybe your friend wants you back 😉
That sounds like a sign to me! 😮
WHEN HAYLEY PROMISES GAY SHE FUCKIN DELIVERS
FORRREEEAAAAALLL
missmissingyou yasss
missmissingyou yasss
yasss
😢 0:03 😅
HOLY FUCK. IT'S BEEN FOUR MINUTES AND IM ALREADY *OBSESSED WITH THIS SONG.* I relate so much to this, especially in my 6th-7th grade years when I was closeted and had sleepovers all the time.. Hayley Kiyoko, you are the MVP in music.
*UPDATE* It's been another four minutes and I WATCHED IT AGAIN
AlyGrace amazing
AlyGrace DO YOU KNOW HOW WEIRD IT IS TO SEE YOU COMMENT?? I FOLLOWED YOUR INSTAGRAM AND I FRIENDED YOUR SNAP AND JUST HOLY CRAP WHEN YOUR INSTA GOT DELETED I GOT SO MAD
AlyGrace Hi
what does MVP mean?..
My mom: " when are u getting a boyfriend. "
My youtube history: " Never "
Axxx
Same. I've been in the closet for some years, and am tired of hiding. I am going to come out first online, then to some friends, and then see how it goes with those I worry will judge or reject me because of their strict religious beliefs. I'm grateful for Hayley's music, and her music videos: at the moment, they're the one support for coming out I have.
Kybele Kordax INTJ good luck 😁
wow... 100% relatable
Lol same
is no one talking about the fact that hayley's voice is so beautiful
It really hurts falling in love with your friend.... i know the feeling...
Marolin Cabrera For me the mixed signals are the problem...
This is true. I got the same and still now for over a year I am suffering.
Kawaii Panda it happened to my friend except she got with the girl
I know the feeling too...
I liked my best friend for three years and we are dating now
Wow that girl with Hayley is gorgeous
A-GREEEED!
And i think a good kisser
Vault Dweller I agree
right but hayley is pretty too
Yep our lesbian jesus is the most gorgeous human alive
I never really understood how deeply INLOVE I was with this song until I read the lyrics and now I know it’s because I’m definitely not straight. Thank you Haley Kiyoka for representing the gay community in the best ways possible.
Are we not gonna talk about how beautiful the girl is ???? Like wth 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Taehyung's Girlfriend Her name is Cristina Santini
armyyy
Hayley has the ability to make everyone question their sexuality 😂😂
Mae Lily ..ur question is right..
Sexuality?
Mae Lily hahahahaha exactly
Mae Lily and ruby rose
IKR
I LOVE HOW LITERALLY EVERYONE IN THE COMMENTS IS SARCASTIC AND SUPPORTS THIS VIDEO AND ISNT LEAVING HATE😍
Zoe Delane Ikr 😂😂😂
yeah its cool :D
Zoe Delane And just bc of this song, I kissed a girl. And my friends fucked with it. 😂 They thought I was totally cool. I 1, liked it and 2, im still straight. I think....
SAAAAAMMMEEEEEEE A LOT OF PEOPLE THINK GAY IS GROSS BUT ITS CUTE
Penelope Ruscoe yesssssss
Woah how time flies. I used to hear this and cry about figuring my feelings out and understanding myself 😂 thank you so much Hayley you get me through all those hard times of mine❤
The way that Hayley looks dead in her eyes throughout the whole lap dance😍😍😍
Shaerys Santiago ×××
Shaerys Santiago maybe she was high😂😂
I resonate with this song on such a level. This was me with my now fiancé when we were teenagers. I would lie awake next to her and wish for her to feel how she did in my dreams. I am so lucky and forever grateful that she is no longer just in my head but in my heart and more importantly I am in hers ❤️🏳️🌈
Regotale Late comment, but my gay heart just exploded. Congrats 😁
We lie down together and hear the same song
Aww thats so nice😊
Aww congratulations 😍
Congratulations on you my love
Me: Whats your favorite thing to do at a sleep over?
Friend: Truth or dare!
Other Friend: Just hanging out!
Hayley Kiyoko: Fucking in a bath full of strawberry milk.
Smol Chil in
Same
Smol Chil ooh yea
I thought that everyone did that at sleepovers
I've NEVER had a sleep over and slept with a girl in a bathtube filled with strawberry milk....
usually i just use choclate milk but...
I’m just now realizing the symbolism of the yellow wallpaper in the intro, referencing The Yellow Wallpaper short story and supporting that idea of going insane or living outside of reality is the partner disappearing out of the shots, like a memory or a figment of imagination or both. The artistry in this song from the literary perspective of TYW story - when you listen to the lyrics coupled with the visuals, it’s truly something special to understand and feel 💛❤️
2016: I'm not a lesbian, but this is so good! Love is love c:
2017: girls are kinda cute..
2018: maybe I'm Bi?
2019: okay so here's the thing..
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irene brenda Basemera *insert ok here’s the thing tiktok sound but with girls instead of boys* OK SO HERES THE THING MOST GIRLS ARE EITHER CUTE OR HOT YOU GRT ONENOT BOTH BUT ONE DAY WHEN GOD WAS MIXING IN HIS LITTLE MIXING BOWL HE SAID LET ME DO BOTH SO HE TOOK HOT AND HE TOOK CUTE AND PUT THEM IN THE MIXING BOWL
2020: haha i¨m lesbian
2015:Nah I'm not lesbian
2016: Oh girls are cute
2017: Bi
2018: Lesbian?
2019: Nah, bi
2020: Unless? 😳
irene brenda Basemera
2015: *just learned what gay meant*
2016: I’ve got a boyfriend so straight
2017: who fucking cares? I’m straight I guess, but seriously I don’t give a fuck I ain’t dating anyone for real anyway
2018: fucking shit this girl asked me and my sister out what the fuck?? I’m still like straight I think... or maybe, no?
2019: I’m straight, I just couldn’t tell because that girl confused me and messed me up
2020: GOD LORD WAS I A RETARD LAST YEAR!!! I’MGAY AS FUCK
But seriously tho that girl was weird as shit she asked me and my older sister out in the same day. What the fuck???
You know you're sad when you take an angsty bath in strawberry milk.
Selena Chance AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
XDDDD
5
Those lesbians, always bathing in strawberry milk
Me tho lol
I CANNoT get it through my brain HOW SOMEONE WOULD NOT WANT HAYLEY?! LIKE SHES A DREAM
My guilty pleasure is watching Hayley Kiyoko music videos
ok but can we talk about the black girl's stretch marks? thank you for showing those! be confident of your marks!!
yasss!
yesss. struggled for so long with mine. took me a few years to be confident with them, but about a year ago I finally just didn't feel insecure about them. this video could have helped me so much, and I hope it helps others.
yessssss stretch marks are honestly sexy imo
yeaaaahhh
Matey I was thinking the same!
Me: I'm not sure about my sexuality... Am I straight? Idk.
Me: **watches this**
Me: oh yeah I'm definitely not straight.
I swear that's what I just was thinking 😭😂
Literally me lol
Relatable
aha same
ثنيز
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Ah she cares about her friend so much! Great to see strong friendships like these between gals :))))))
ThreeEmsy Friendship goals! God, girls are so comfortable with each other :)))
100% platonic!!! no homo at all ammirite??????!!!@????@!!!!!
haha jus gals being pals amiright
Yes they are such galpals ;)
haha I love galpals :)
Being in love with your best friend and not being able to say a single thing pretty much sums up the teenage experience
Anyone else thinks that curly hair girl is so damn beautiful? 😩🤤😍
Nairam Coral the most beautiful little stretch marks on her thighs 😍😍😍
I swear, her dimples make me go crazy.
Not only you
Her name's Christina Santini
She's so sexy! Omg
A girl like Hayley Kiyoko would treat me RIGHT
I can do that with you my love you can be lover text me back ok love you very much-need to me text me back ok love you
Walter Berlinski looser!
Yes, I'm like her for some reason. So, I can treat you RIGHT too.
Yeh cuz she's half Eastern and they're usually brought up to respect Everyone. It's her Eastern side that will treat you right
When the girl im crushing on tells me to listen to this album
Abigail Skelton she’s into ittttttt!!!!
What happened r u guys dating or official?
bitch please we were together for a bit but then she ghosted me lol so it's over now
Abigail Skelton BISH I WANT TO KNOW D'S STORY
Abigail Skelton you'll find a better one soon :)
When Hayley's songs start to actually make sense on another level...
What I loved the most is that the girl has stretch marks, and they cast her anyways, and they show them at 1:07 and it's beautiful!!
CuchiNuna yes omg when I saw them I got jealous of her
CuchiNuna I know it's beautiful glad they hired her
I even thought it was sexy
almost every woman have stretch marks even models... don’t believe what you see on tv, instagram etc.
CuchiNuna I thought i was the only one who saw that
AS A GAY, I FEEL VALIDATED. VALIGAYTED
okay this actually made me lol haha
I'm a straight girl but all these comments are giving me life!! ❤❤🌈 This was absolute art
ME TOO MAN
BEST COMMENT
thank you for this
I'm currently at a sleepover, playing this song, surrounded by straight girls. Including my crush. End me.
RIP
a trick is to get them drunk and pretend to be... that way you can say it was just the actual
a more than sutle way of going about it
i wiLL D;
Psychxtic Demøn that was me like two weeks ago. until my crush kissed me and said she's bi, sooooo... hopes up :)
I'm 42 year old woman who had my first girl crush on my best friend about 30 years ago. It's both adorable and cruel, that it goes on.
I used to listen to this when my best friend would come sleepover. I really had no idea that she wasn't straight. I confessed my feelings for her and turns out she had felt the same way for a long time. We've been together for over a year now.
I’m jealous:( but congrats
Congrats.
what a miracle! congrats wow
Omg this is so cute, congratulations queens❤
Too cute. Congrats
''You wanna be friends forever, I can think of something better''
Wow..this really is how things often play out for us gay girls, Hayleys songs are always too real.
Ida Danzig yel
Ida Danzig thats why she so damn relatable
Right? Then all you can do is dream about it. I hate being in the pit of falling in love with a straight girl. I try so damn hard to not because I'm chasing after something that will never work.
Ida Danzig this is so relatable for gay girls who fall in live with hetero girls
Is it me or shes really pretty:) And you could tell the girl in the song wasn't just acting she was lowkey into it
They are always low-key into it
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
Who wouldn’t be into it😉
Listening❤❤❤
I just wanted to comment on the gorgeous stretch marks. I'm absolutely in love with this, I always think they look like an ocean or sand as the light catches the lines.
:)
Same!
Honestly, I didn't like mine for awhile when they first started to appear, yes. I've grown tired of hiding something natural, and now really just love having them there. I am uh "googoogaga" over them or whatever fun fancy loving word people like to say, I love them. Not pretending at all.
Whatever you want to think though... always something isn't it.
Trish Mckean I noticed them too!! So pretty!! But then she was just amazing in general!! 😘
Super Kawaii I used to hate mine when I was at school- they used to be brilliant red and really obvious and I was so conscious of them, but now I've grown older they've faded to silver and now I've moved beyond just accepting them, I think they're really pretty and I don't bother trying to hide them at all 😊
I absolutely LOVEEE the fact they didn't edit them out! that moment when you realize "OMG this is a real unedited woman" makes it even more sensual...damn what beautiful woman, and song.
I think its amazing how they didn't photo shop her stretch marks out #naturalbeauty
Jimins pink hair 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
Jimins pink hair yes!! That’s just one of the things I love about this video!
Jimins pink hair YESS ❤️
Jimins pink hair yessss i know rightttt
Yesss
Bravo!! That was one beautifully sexy video! I'm a 50-year old feminine lesbian who came out at age 16. Back then, there was nothing like this in popular culture. The closest thing we had to a role model was Catherine Deneauve (sp?) and Susan Sarandon in The Hunger. This is so much better, more healthy. I used to dream of the day when gays and lesbians could be out like they are today. I never dreamed it would be so openly beautiful like this. I'm so happy for the young people coming out now. It's so important to be true to yourself.
Aubrey i love you so much
😭💜
Ah man...you're such a kind person. Instead of holding a grudge against us because your generation did not have something like that in pop culture, your happy for us. They way you descriped your confrontation/ideals with being gay in the past, got me teared up. I really wish it would have been like today back then...
you're so inspirational no kidding
This is literally the best comment i have ever read with my two eyes 😭
The music, the videography...truly works of art. So beautiful.
I can't think straight
:V Pun intended or not?
im just not lmao
None of us can
I’m not str8
i’m just not straight after this
"I'm going to give the gays everything they want"
Hayley Kiyoko right now and always 😂😂😍😍😍
She should include that line in one of her songs xD
me:im straight
my search history: oH rEaLlY n0t aCcoRdInG t0 tHe fAcTs
😍😆😘🥰🤗👰🤵🤰🧖🧖🏻♂️🛀🏻💏مترزرزبن
same
This is my gay mind every DAY 😂😂😂
Lol
Same though
Don't mind me just watching this on repeat. Anyone wanna Hayley Kiyoko and chill? She is my whole vibe right now, swooned.
oh hayley where were you when i was younger
Yeeeeeeees!!!!!
Scooby Doo playing Velma. Bless.
I am so happy to be (at least partly) growing up in this... I want to call it an LGBT revolution. I get to be one of the first gay teens that can see herself represented in media like this without fearing censorship and hatred. People underestimate the impact of media on self-acceptance. I hated myself for being gay, but seeing myself in women like Hayley is a comfort and a necessity.
She was such a big part of me coming to terms with myself, now every video is a gift to remind me of how far I've come💜
Miriam EH same and same and same
Let's talk about that lucky girl who sit on Jesus' lap
What do you want for Christmas, little girl?
@@raggedyrbin2284 a girlfriend
😂
PREACH SIS!!!!!
cherrytrxffle Jesus
My crush invited me to a sleepover at her house tomorrow, this is all I will be thinking about most likely.
Lucky
literally me, (buts shes my gf) like my mum is like no boys and im like ok and in my head i laugehd evily
How'd it go? 😏
How you go😎
Ray Baxter
i hope everything went well lmao
It's been 5 years and Lesbian Jesus is still underrated
🥰🥰🥰🥰
Hayley is here again to save the world
Casually rewatching this and wondering how the fuck Hayley survived this. How she didn't just spontaneously combust into rainbow confetti. Good. GOD
huh?
Cause shes lesbian jesus🙄
Have you seen curious....how could she sing with all those gorgeous women on her.....Whoa!!!!
@@okiegirlsrock5103 She’s not singing, she’s lip syncing, duhhhhhh!!
@@LaVonne_208 but still ya totally understand, haha....it was hot!!!!!
straight people listen to this and be like “wow such good friends, bffs!!!!!!!!”
lmaooooo yeah "theyre so close physically and emotionally !!!! wow this is so deep !!! the power of friendship"
nikolas charlie just gals being pals🤪🤪
Friendship goals😍
#BFFsForever !!!!!!
Thor Odinson lmao
I listen to this because it helps me with my depression❤️❤️
Thankyou Hayley for making this song, love you ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I love the fact they didn’t cover up the girls stretch marks showing how beautiful they are my confidence went 📈📈📈
i didn't notice that which part
@@virginiaherrera3545 I think this part is meant 1:07
Deixe eu ver di verdade qerida
I agree
@@virginiaherrera3545 owwwwws
I had no idea there was a lesbian artist like, unashamedly talking about girls. I think I could cry right now, I'm so glad I discovered this.
I think she said she's bisexual? But maybe I'm wrong. But yeah, it's amazing.❤️
You should try listening to Beatrice Eli, she is lesbian and amazing.
Ckeck out Ally Hills on RUclips or Spotify/iTunes. She's lesbian and makes awesome music! xx
Alannah same 😭👏👏😭
Mom: Why haven't you got a boyfriend?
Me: I'm saving myself for Jesus
Gayvenclaw Commonroom I’m choking
Gayvenclaw Commonroom lol Lesbian Jesus😏
They say God is a woman
No no no, Hailey is GOD
LMAO
not me at 3 am thinking about how many times hayley, when she was doing her concert in my town, did all the eye contact with me and i was make a whole ff about us when she was singing this :(
SHE DESERVES MORE RECOGNITION
Growing up in a homophobic house was pretty tough. I lied to myself for 27 years. Finally able to say that I'm bisexual.
Viveka Barnes 💪❤☝🖒👏
Viveka Barnes good for you 💕
Viveka Barnes I am scared to come out as bi because my family don't like LGBT. I have been hiding myself for a year and i am going though hard time I am rlly not happy
Kirstyn_gabrial I'm sorry your going through that. It's hard enough coming to terms with your own orientation sometimes let alone a homophobic family. I'm out to my siblings and some people at work. I don't have the courage to come out to my parents even though I don't live with them and I'm 27. We're here for you. I would suggest watching Ash Hardell's video about coming out with other RUclipsrs. It provides great advice and a non romanticized look on coming out. Stay strong ♡ Hugs from Ohio ^_^
Viveka Barnes thank you💕
The fact that the brown haired girl has stretchmarks just makes me feel so good...
Luca Middel are they stretch marks or scars
Jocelyn Bloomer I think they are stretchmarks, but they could also be scars
Luca Middel just say black girl
Luca Middel she mad pretty
I almost broke into tears when I saw it this video is just like puring my heart out
September 2024 ❤❤❤ in love with Hayleys life!!! 🫠😘🤨❤❤❤😛
I can only find one thing wrong with this video.
It didn't last forever.This is one of the realest videos I've seen in a long time with the stretch marks and the interracial couple vibes and the gayness.Fuccccck I'm sure alot of people (including myself needed this.)
Belle ikr 💘
Belle totally agree!
Belle I was 420th like
When I saw those stretch marks I fell deeper in love with this video. Stretch marks are natural and beautiful. They even appear on guys like me
Oi eu sou a Luana o meu número é 73991680029 manda aí
the stretchmarks !!! the interracial coupley vibe !!!! the gayness !!!! the pink bathtub water !!! hayley kiyoko !!!!
Interracial couples where both women aren't white are super great
this video is my aesthetic
My Family TV stop trying to play the victim. interracial couples where both people are POC are good for diversity and representation and you don't see it often. it's not about hating white people, stop being a baby and trying to make things about you.
XXlololouiseXX what stretch marks? :)
1:08
Such incredible talent... I am continually in awe of the way she talks about her experiences and portrays them through her songs and music videos. So relatable and so wonderful!
This is one of my favorite songs Hayley Kiyoko 😊
I am gay for the curly girl. Never seen someone so beautifully perfect. I'm shook.
Johanna Jean Who is she? She look familiar
Detective Lekxa I have NO idea but she does look familiar. She is freaking gorgeous. She makes me question my sexuality lol
Johanna Jean Her name is
Christina Santini
Johanna Jean found her she is so BEAUTIFUL
She got the booty too 😏👌
No, but she really is pretty though 😍