I think the guy who made fun of the anorexic girl knew what he was doing. I doubt he actually thought she was fat, he just said the most hurtful thing he could think of. Trash.
@anderson "JUsT DeAl WiTh IT."Wow just imagine someone tells you to "just deal with it" when something goes wrong in your life. (Not like it hasn't yet.)
@@roxassora2706 www.huckmag.com/art-and-culture/tech/meet-the-women-of-the-incel-movement/ The femcels. And this:www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/what-should-women-do-if-they-re-involuntarily-celibate-20180426-p4zbt4.html
Yes, it’s very exhausting and it makes me hate my life so much more. I’m not even an incel but I do share some stuff in common with them unfortunately. I actually do get jealous of other people’s happiness where it just fills me with hatred. Just reminds me how shit my life is. Not a good place to be in.
I can't stand that post about the anorexic girl and her recovery. Anorexia almost took my sister from me...twice. She would get a little recovery time under her belt, but then backslide hard after harmful comments when she's only looking for support. After the last time she almost died, she got some help and deleted all her social media accounts. That was two years ago and I'm happy to report that she's still going strong. It's not a joke, and ignorance of just how destructive it can be can have fatal consequences. Remember to stay educated and stay an ally to the people you love who are trying their best.
She looked fine in the second pic tho I just felt bad to be honest You achieve something vital to you and these incels and simpletons is just *sooo depressed* that they have to go around fucking people up because *SOCIETY MADE ME THIS WAY*
I'm glad you still have your sister in your life, and she's lucky to have a sister(or brother idk if you specified which sorry) that cares and all that good stuff. I remember having eating problems when I was younger to harm myself (long story). It's a horrible place to be and any little thing can trigger it off so deleting the social media was probably for the best.
“I like your beard!” “How F***ing dare you, Garden tool.” Also, that girl who was anorexic is beautiful and doesn’t deserve to hear that stuff. I can’t even wrap my head around that mindset It sounds like the incel with a sister wants to have adult fun time with her 6.5’/10 boyfriend.
" no woman wants their man to cook" Bro are you serious... if a man cooks for me I would marry him in 10 seconds... I can't even cook ramen noodles correctly... Edit: I can bake better.
My bf and I have been living together for 3 years, a d we always split the housework and cooking- its just easier to treat eachother as equals...bc we are equals :)
They have no idea. My boyfriend is a good cook and i cant wait for him to cook something for me, even if id enjoy cooking for him too. People are fools haha
The part about Indian skin tone was so disgusting. First of all he has some deeply seated internalized racism and colourism. Secondly, who talks about their own sister like that, ugh.
Most these incels are indian and they are very racist against themselves but they blame it on women. Its pretty stupid. Ive known many of ehm. They were actually nice to me for some reason in private messages. But they were really angry and upset.
I’ve seen people commenting on that post that the girl recovering from anorexia needed to loose weight. Thankfully, there were so many people defending this girl and her progress. I hope she’s doing ok
I get where his jealousy comes from, though. Incel thinks all his problems are due to not having sex, and they also believe the only way to have sex is being attractive. Makeup makes people more attractive (most of the time), but men "aren't allowed to wear it."
I'm a perfectly healthy weight, and have been called "too skinny", "figureless", "impossible to find attractive", and my favourite one of all: "bonebag". I'm at around the same size as that poor girl in her recovery picture, yet she's too fat? They can't even remember their own standards. I shouldn't let them get you down. They've got no idea what they're "supposed to" find attractive.
@@axolotl593 if you ever feel the need to lose weight, don't do it for a anyone else but yourself. Do it for your health, not for some asshole men that think you'd look better if you were starving. And if you decide against losing weight, Idc it's your body, it should be your choice ♡
Brutal Flms I’m a short guy (5’5) dating someone who’s 6 feet tall. It really isn’t that big a deal, just be a kind a genuine person. You seem to be blaming women tbh
Brutal Flms you misunderstand me, I’m not saying it isn’t harder for short guys, or fat or ugly etc, just that it isn’t impossible if you’re being genuinely kind and looking for someone who is also genuinely kind. I appreciate you linking an actual study though You can’t also say you too don’t have preferences in women. That doesn’t mean that’s all that matters (unless it does for you then that’s an actual problem)
Brutal Flms Can y’all just... not? For five seconds? My God, instead of victim blaming and invalidating a woman’s experience with bad men, try to help them out and help them see that good men are still out there. Don’t just go “Oh WeLl WoMeN dO iT tOo So YoU dOnT mAtTeR” when she’s struggling. Yeah, some women absolutely suck, but it doesn’t give you a right to victim blame.
Yep I feel it's sad but I also lose some sympathy due to the terrible attitudes they show. Why should any woman (or man for that sake) care about or respect them when they do absolutely zero of that back? They are giving people no reason to like, care about or respect them or even give them a chance because they already shown how terrible people they are. I do wonder how much their life and attitudes/behavior would improve if they actually got a girlfriend and could have sex regularly besides not feeling worthless because they cant attract a partner. Since that is their main problem that made them bitter in the first place.
5:48 she looks healthier now it looks like her blood flow is better and her cheeks are red. She probably also feels so much better, these people are human garbage for making fun of her.
Being anorexic can make you depressed and guilty...but once the effects from not eating actually set in, it's horrible. I used to feel like I couldnt sit up all the way, and moving hurt. My heart was constantly fast and I'd throw up nothing but green bits...I think its bile. Why do some men like women underweight? What's hot about ribs poking out? And chronic nausea? Now I can't go more than a day without eating or else I'll get sick and just start throwing up
I don’t understand their logic. She looks so beautiful and healthy (sorry that sounds weird and creepy) in the recovery picture. Anorexia is a very very hard thing to go through and I’m really happy for her.
Honestly I think my boyfriend is what a neckbeard wants to be. He’s open about his beliefs on respecting women, he actually has one or two katanas but isn’t cringy about it (like edgy photos n stuff) but he’s just genuinely nice, funny and has good hygiene.
@@roxassora2706 Nice, my favourite is Re:Chain of Memories, because I'm into card games, but 3 is definitively up there. I feel like people give it too much crap over nothing.
@@QuartzIsAnOxide Yeah. It's a mixed game for the fandom. Lots like it and lots of the fandom doesn't. I like the graphics, the boss battles, the music. They gave Sora a few things that he's never had.
for a long time i found myself useless and digusting for being born as a girl because of incels. Due to my very low self confidence ive always belived everything bullies say and id lose sleep over it for years. Ive always tried to fit in, be like "the cool kids" but ive always been harrassed and a victim to sexism and many more. when i found out about this subreddit, rants etc and seen people hating on sexism, ive expirenced a level of happiness that i cant describe. Thankfully, I am now very proud of being a girl and becoming stronger day by day ^^
I'm proud of you for learning to accept yourself. I was raised as the only girl in a family of all boys. Ppl would say I looked trashy and boyish bc I didn't show off (why would I wear revealing clothes near my brothers?) And now as an adult when I do wear short shorts, or a bikini at the beach, I'm ways worried and guilty that I'm coming off as slutty. Even my bf tells me dressing a certain way isn't really whorish or provocative...esp if I'm wearing those short shorts to the beach on a hot day. I still cant help but feel like I need to hide myself. My roommates friends are all incels and last time I hung out with them, they called me a "despicable creature" I'm not even kidding
Gracie Anne, please get therapy. You need to get to a mental place where you don’t need anyone’s validation or reassurances. You existing in your body and dressing as you feel comfortable in the moment (before you remember other people will see you in your outfit) is not slutty. It’s called living. And I despise anyone who makes derogatory comments towards women to tank their self-esteem to the point that they’re not living, rather they’re obsessing about how misogynists perceive them. Women don’t exist in a state of either desirable (aka how “fuckable” they look) and non-desirable. Women exist as people. Don’t let anyone shame you for wearing a skirt or cargo pants. You don’t exist to cater to someone else’s idea of how desirable women should look and behave. If they have an issue with being unable to separate a woman from gender stereotypes, then that problem is on them. Don’t bend for these people. You live your life.
Dude this post about this former anorexic girl is so upsetting. I was also fighting anorexia and after I got out of it and got into a healthy weight area (55 to 60kg) my exboyfriend threatened to leave me because he thought I was getting fat. This is super toxic.
Ugh...I'm with you. Used to be anorexic and super upset about those comments on the thread. Being healthy is more important than being thin. When I was anorexic, my hair was brittle, my stomach couldnt handle anything, and I felt sick 24/7. Sitting up all the way drained me and hurt. Now, I'm proud to have muscle and fat. I'm proud to have rolls and folds because every woman has them. Even when I was 98lbs my stomach still had folds when I was sitting, it's just skin and genetic makeup. Ignore those incels, they're just mad bc they cant have us
Im lucky enough to have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me and never tries to change my appearance and actually tries to make me more healthy (ive always been overweight) i hope if you havent already, you find an amazing person who supports you and helps you recover.
7:50 As someone who grew up in an Asian household, you were taught to be able to take care of yourself. So, I don't really understand what's so wrong with a male doing "women's work" when literally millions of boys grew up doing it. In fact, it means that you came from a good household in my culture.
It means the same in THIS culture, too. Or, perhaps I should say that that particular meaning has been added to the list of acceptable meanings. The problem is that until the old meaning gets erased, the incels, misogynists, and TRULY weak men will still be able to pick and choose which meaning to embrace, to the discredit of our society.
Coming from a half black/half Asian household, I didn’t know this was supposed to be a culture thing tbh. I thought it was a “if youre a lazy asshole or not” type of thing.
Corporate America pushed the idea that women are supposed to be homemakers, while men are the hard working providers. (I say corporate America because lots of handy dandy products were advertised pushing such gender roles. "Here ladies! Buy this product to make ironing your man's tie easy!"). Modern society has obviously adapted, due to a little thing called **progress**. Unfortunately many people still romanticize outdated 1950s idealism, which includes viewing women as maid servants that should be pregnant and/or raising children while the husband works. It's mainly fundamentalist Christians who believe that, but it's a misogynistic worldview that can be held by anyone. I think all adults should be self-sufficient...but some people want to cling to gender roles.
I think it depends within households. Me and my family are fully Asian. With my cousins who are girls and my age, their parents expect them to do all the housework and stuff. It’s really annoying and sad. As for me, my parents try to get me to do housework but without any success. I’m not obliged to do something just because of my gender
I agree that nothing's wrong with a man doing housework, but at the same time, I'm also Asian and men were actually discouraged from helping, like serving tea and doing the dishes would somehow tarnish a mighty man's honor or whatever. Guess it depends on what country.
My favorite thing is how incels assume that women do _everything_ for someone else. No Kevin, I don't shave my legs because I'm trying to attract a man, I shave them because I have sensory processing issues and don't like leg hair.
but leg hair is something that can actually be annoying i would imagine. whereas makeup only costs you bunch a lot of money and time yet i still see egirls defend it because "we're doing it for ourselves" yeah yeah whatever. we'd see for how long they'd do it for themselves if they were put on a peaceful island with enough food and makeup for a year or something
@@KonstantinaDRV see you would only do it out of boredom. take away the people you think you're impressing and give you something better to do and boom, suddenly you're not "doing it for yourself" anymore.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 "the people u think ur impressing" Lol i know guys don't give a sht about the makeup I wear I really don't wear it for them I just do it for myself cause I simple like... Idk how to explain but for me it's relaxing and some form of fun art
Oh, definitely. Heck, even as a guy, that man sounded utterly revolting. I would be quite surprised if he is still a free member of society. It just sounds illegal.
I googled copulins. What I found about them is that they are a pheromon produced when a woman is "wet" but it has more to do with scent, not blood, as there was at least one test using copulin infused masks. However, pheromones don't actually mean as much to humans as they do to animals and aren't that meaningful. It does seem to help men's self-esteem when their exposed to it and tend to find women more attractive than they might otherwise. So, once again, science proves incels wrong.
Also, the amount of times that I've been hit on by men that look older than my father is ridiculous. One even "joking" about following me onto my bus. The most recent one looked like he could have been my grandpa. And I'm 31.
@@elfdragon1227 I'd be tempted to go on and on about how gross they are, how no woman would want anything to do with them, and that if their kids knew what they were doing they would probably disown his creepy, slimy, vile, perverted ass!!!
9:53. It's so weird to me, their obsession with fertility. I mean, that's related to reproduction, but none of these guys ever talk about fatherhood, or how wonderful babies would be and how badly they want to raise kids. All they ever talk about is sex and things they want to do to women... no reference to parenthood. I just don't see the connection.
The guy who complained about the girl complimenting his beard....does he not realize every single woman in the world has dealt with unsolicited comments about their appearance- both good and bad - for their entire lives? Probably not. Because then he would have to think critically about someone other than himself.
That is also the reason they hate women. Because they get rejected for creepy comments and cat calling. So they decided they aren't the problem but women is at fault because women have the power now to rejected men's advances. These men wants to go back to a time where people born with an uterus could be forced in to marriage. It's sad that in a way they hate themselves so much that they blame their hatred outwardly and think the only way they can find a partner is through force.
It’s one thing to point out that men have more of the hormone thing that makes them a little more strong or something like that and it’s one thing to just rant about how they are weak because you are a toxic uncle.
I can never understand how incels don't see 20-30 as young still??? You're literally in your first adult years. Most usually live up to 80 and above, though It varies, so even 30 isn't consider old. 💀💀💀 They just see women as limited edition items that you have to get fresh or miss out on getting them at all.
They are probably people who would sext a child and then say it’s a joke and would bully the child. 40 years old is not even that old imo because it’s just a little old but not really man and it’s not even a bad thing to be old.
@Rivers Doster Some do. Some women do as well. Others don't. Why should men who want children try to devalue the women who don't? In the end, it's the woman's choice since she is the one to carry the children.
@@ratboy2 value is subjective. from an evolutionary standpoint an infertile woman is worthless and so is an infertile man. it's just that today the infertile woman still dates way above her looksmatch and is constantly being told she's brave and stunning or whatever nonsense, while chances are good that her looksmatch isn't infertile at all, but can't get any action for other reasons, so he joins the incel community.
5:49 good on her! I hope she's proud of herself for getting through anorexia. That is a very toxic and painful cage that is incredibly difficult to break out of. Don't listen to the incel.
I got them once years ago and within 5 Mins of leaving the salon I had 2 guys laughing at me and imitating me and saying ew why tf woukd anyone get those.. they were not that big but drying and hurt and I had never got them so I was holding then out in front of me outside and after that I cut them and still was treated badly by women and men and ripped them off painfully. Never again!
Phrog the frog lol why would you want to use "female" casually anyway? just say woman or girl. female is usually used in scientific settings or in, like, legal/police/military settings.
Also,as someone that was in anorexia WhatsApp groups, theres a lot of creepy man just wanting nudes,it's disgusting how knowing they are insecure and in a bad state and they take advantage of it.
Yeah, a lot of men will call themselves "coaches" and try to get nudes or get you on video to do provocative and revealing things. Some men will sell those videos too...its disgusting and I've fallen for it once. I cant believe I was ever that stupid
@@DayDreamingWriters lol ok, mind telling me what i did? as you can see YT deleted my comment and i don't recall what this one in particular was about.
The first time I watched a video on this subreddit, I felt physically sick and, once I'd finished, had a much more negative outlook on humanity than before. I consider myself smart (well, smarter than these guys), so listening to their bullsh!t reasoning for 10+ minutes (even if through the mouth of someone reasonable) felt like mental torture. I don't know how they even get to such a rock bottom. Did they have a shovel and started digging?
@not relevant someone dug a 2 feet hole in the ground and left a shovel there... the incel fell in, and instead of climbing out, they took the shovel and dug deeper, until it's so deep they can't get out. Then they blame the person that dug the 2 feet hole that they fell into for getting them stuck and continue digging deeper.
The yoga pants dude made me scared for my life omg. What if one day he is following a tiny girl (smaller then him) and feels confident enough to do something to her? That's totally possible, this is so scary
Reminds me of that time I had an incel boyfriend because I was guilt tripped into dating him and he got upset because I didn’t want to kiss him on the lips because it made me uncomfortable. Plus he would ask overly sexual and private questions and made me feel like an emotionally drained piece of crap. I’m glad I broke up with him and I hope he gets the help he needs and turns his life around for the better.
The post about the guy who cleans the house reminds me of something. I once replied to a comment which basically went. Do what you preach, we all know girls wouldn't date a feminine guy. Then I said I would absolutely date a feminine guy. Then for some reason a person replied to my comment. And his reply basically went. NO! You like masculine men. You just phrased it wrong. Then I was like ???, I literally just said I would literally date a feminine person. I don't understand their thought process and it still confuses me now
All men have different sides to them...femininity is one of them. If a man proclaims himself as an alpha male, he most likely has some insecurities and self esteem issues. Fr, I've painted my mans nails the same color as mine and he gave no fucks. Some random man at the gas station called him out, making fun of him and asking if he was gay. He didn't care about him talking shit either....true "manliness" in my eyes is not caring about what's manly or not. Just behave and be a good person. It's not that hard once you become comfortable with yourself, the confidence will come. Some people just have to work on building that confidence; but acting all big and alpha is not the way to get that.
@@Great_Lake_Surfer Tbh men whom doesn't care about stupid comments about manliness are fvcking hot and sadly hard to find. I mean have some confidence bruh.You don't need any validation to be a man, same goes for women as well. I really wish to people stop trying to fit in to gender norms.
ok but why say this here? did i miss something or is your thought process literally just "MAN > CRITICIZES MY "ART" > INCEL INCEL THE ONLY REASON WHY YOU WOULD SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT WHAT IM DOING IS THAT YOURE INVOLUNTARILY CELIBATE"
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 ahe never called him or even implied that the guy is an incel. she simply said that you should get out of the studio if you don't know how to appreciate her work. yet you immediately started talking about a made up thought process.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 Ah you're here too. You're under every comment trying to invalidate the point of the original comment then moving on to the next once your so-called " logic" gets torn down. Why are you even here if you're just gonna be salty the entire time?
I can somewhat relate to that girl who posted about her recovery from ed … I was just talking on an anonymous chatting page with a guy, and when I told him my body type and my weight (which idk why he asked for), he told me that my weight was brutal (I’m 62 kg/136.6 lbs with 172 cm/5’64 feet), and he told me the max weight of a skinny girl is 50 kg/110.2 lbs, he also said that he once had a girlfriend who weighed 39 kg/85.9 lbs, and I was like was she ill or something, and he told me ‘so what, it’s still skinny’, I’m still struggling with accepting my body and the way I look
i've honestly never been so addicted to a youtube channel until i found yours. you are just so wildly underrated, i'm so glad you exist. i look forward each day to see you upload, Vincey! your voice and overall sense of humor is perfect for youtube, i really hope to see you grow more because you deserve it. also, i hope you're doing alright after being sick. don't forget to care for yourself every now and then! :D
"why do girls even wear fake nails" a lot of these guys are so entitled they think that everything a woman does is for their attention. they need to stop acting like they're the main character.
as someone who has anorexia and body dymorphia its really hard not to take those things to heart, someone could look at me and say "omg youre so skinny!!!" and id be like "No??? im pretty chubby..." and the people that call others fat disgusts me, its how my ED started, from my brother (i dont blame him now, he was doing the wrong thing {he was bullied for being chubby}) calling me fat. Everytime i get anxious while eating (someone watching me, someone i dont know talking to me, etc...) i lose any appetite i have. Im trying to get better but when people are mean its really hard
It is really scary meeting people with this mindset. I have had bestfriends have crushes on me and then yell at me and stop being friends with me because I didn't like them :(
@@roxassora2706 I dont think you want to be acknowledged if how they do it is sexualising you and making you feel like an object. Just my personal opinion
6:26 Omg she has made such an amazing upgrade! Getting over her eating disorder like that I’m legit so proud even tho I don’t know her. Those people have *NO* right to comment on her weight PERIODT
As a male who’s been in previous relationships and rejected by many crushes as well and still has yet to be in another relationship myself, I can say with all honesty that if these guys are going to blame women for rejecting them, then maybe they don’t deserve to have a girlfriend to begin with. I just don’t understand how these people can’t understand that THEY are the problem and not women. Their ego must be bigger than a mansion.
Its important for young men to regularly sit down and think about how the world works and how we should interact with it. It helps prevent and mitigate this behavior.
There are two factors I see that create incels: 1. They expect women to do all of the work and approach them, because they don't have the nerve to do it themselves. 2. They have a sense of entitlement to a partner that society deems attractive. They only go after the "Stacies"; never the average looking women.
Srsly, that guy has the most backward thinking. My bf cooks/ cleans for me all the time. He doesnt expect me to take off my clothes for him bc of it, he just does those things to maintain hygiene and bc he cares for me. I have another roommate who's a guy and he's lazy to the point of not showering for weeks. He's a good guy, but damn his room and clothes smell. To this day, he still doesnt have a gf because of it.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 coming from the guy whos such a reddit obsessed loser he treats the youtube comment section like a reddit 2.0 because he cant handle anything different
My “brain” and genetics chase me to experience high levels of aggression and rage any moment I’m not asleep. Yet somehow I have enough self control to not attack people. Hmmmmmm.
"Female" here. Guys, if you want some advice from a married woman... clean up after yourselves and cook once in a while. You should be doing 50% of the house work, because whether you like it or not, you're responsible for making 50% of the mess. If you don't like it, then live alone. We're not your mothers, so stop treating us as if we should be.
@@ratboy2 that's what alienation from a young age on does, it's actually pretty sad if you ask me, but remember: bullying is only sad when a girl is on the receiving end.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 Agreed, but.. I hope you aren't serious about that last part. Bullying is wrong regardless of who is being bullied. Saying otherwise is misandrist, dear.
seeing posts like these (incel posts) and especially seeing men justify this behavior- like the following women around if they're wearing leggings cos they can't "control it"- really makes me wonder if most men are like that. thanks for making a video about this to show that some men are actually as disgusted and weirded out by those actions as i am, and that there definitely are some men who aren't controlled by their selfish thoughts and desires etc.
I found the study about Copulin (Pheromones and their role as aphrodisiacs: A review), and surely enough, the vagina does secrete these compounds. However, note that when Semwal et al say Copulin controls the male brain, they don't mean that it literally directs a man's actions. Copulin can raise testosterone levels in a man to highten sex drive, as well as make the woman appear more attractive. It's not that much different from how testosterone in a man's saliva is hypothesized to work. Women can't control our mind... Yet.
I can already picture them. - Seven chins - Long rectangular glasses - receding hairline caused by their tightly pulled back greasy ponytail - horrible acne - obesity - sweating profusely - smelly breath and overall their entire body - misusing science/ using false facts - having a lisp (and not the cute one the spitting a lot one) - Obsessed with anime and not the normal weeb The list goes on I can write a book on them
Bruh...she just said she liked your beard? And generally girls (when they like someone.) Will compliment on things you have control over. She said she liked your beard because she assumed YOU liked keeping it that way for a reason. Yeeeeash.
"Will compliment on things you have control over" I also noticed that and thought it was very thoughtful of her! man is sadly too blind and then will complain no woman finds him good looking
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I think the guy who made fun of the anorexic girl knew what he was doing. I doubt he actually thought she was fat, he just said the most hurtful thing he could think of. Trash.
anderson uh... I am dealing with it. By commenting about it lmao
@anderson you made that tweet, didn't you?
anderson damn, give your mom her phone back, kid
anderson damn, give your mom her phone back, kid
@anderson "JUsT DeAl WiTh IT."Wow just imagine someone tells you to "just deal with it" when something goes wrong in your life. (Not like it hasn't yet.)
Guy: *gets rejected once*
Guy: *puts down people with eating disorders*
Ugh, so toxic.
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When they do so little with there lives normal things seem catastrophic
Incel: Person Vs self disguised as Person Vs Society
... Don't they get tired of being angry all the time? That sounds exhausting.
Yeah. Same question applies to femcels.
@@roxassora2706 the involuntary celibate girls don't act the same way as these guys nor have that kind of comunity. So practically they don't exist.
@@kiriki4558 They do though. They blame the opposite sex for their problems instead of getting a personality.
@@roxassora2706 www.huckmag.com/art-and-culture/tech/meet-the-women-of-the-incel-movement/
The femcels.
And this:www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/what-should-women-do-if-they-re-involuntarily-celibate-20180426-p4zbt4.html
Yes, it’s very exhausting and it makes me hate my life so much more. I’m not even an incel but I do share some stuff in common with them unfortunately. I actually do get jealous of other people’s happiness where it just fills me with hatred. Just reminds me how shit my life is. Not a good place to be in.
I can't stand that post about the anorexic girl and her recovery. Anorexia almost took my sister from me...twice. She would get a little recovery time under her belt, but then backslide hard after harmful comments when she's only looking for support. After the last time she almost died, she got some help and deleted all her social media accounts. That was two years ago and I'm happy to report that she's still going strong.
It's not a joke, and ignorance of just how destructive it can be can have fatal consequences. Remember to stay educated and stay an ally to the people you love who are trying their best.
Plus, he must actually be morbidly obese himself and just insecure
I know right? And they probably don't care that they're purposefully trying to trigger a relapse into a deadly mental illness.
She looked fine in the second pic tho
I just felt bad to be honest
You achieve something vital to you and these incels and simpletons is just *sooo depressed* that they have to go around fucking people up because *SOCIETY MADE ME THIS WAY*
I'm glad you still have your sister in your life, and she's lucky to have a sister(or brother idk if you specified which sorry) that cares and all that good stuff. I remember having eating problems when I was younger to harm myself (long story). It's a horrible place to be and any little thing can trigger it off so deleting the social media was probably for the best.
I'm so glad your sister is doing better, and is healthier. Glad she has supportive people to combat the bs like you, sib!
“I like your beard!”
“How F***ing dare you, Garden tool.”
Also, that girl who was anorexic is beautiful and doesn’t deserve to hear that stuff. I can’t even wrap my head around that mindset
It sounds like the incel with a sister wants to have adult fun time with her 6.5’/10 boyfriend.
She looked soo cute in the second photo
I think *Adorable*
Northern lights Even if she wasn’t conventionally attractive, she still overcame a tragic disorder... and should never EVER be shamed for that
Lol it's not ok to make fun of a woman but it's ok to make fun of a short man lmao
@@m1951-j2u Damn, we see an Incel in an incel post, what are the chances?
@@orengk2443 i did not expect to see one in the RUclips wilderness
" no woman wants their man to cook"
Bro are you serious... if a man cooks for me I would marry him in 10 seconds...
I can't even cook ramen noodles correctly...
Edit: I can bake better.
My husband cooks for me every night and sometimes breakfast
Gordon Ramsey’s wife right now
My bf and I have been living together for 3 years, a d we always split the housework and cooking- its just easier to treat eachother as equals...bc we are equals :)
My boyfriend is a chef. I couldn't ask for more.
They have no idea. My boyfriend is a good cook and i cant wait for him to cook something for me, even if id enjoy cooking for him too. People are fools haha
The part about Indian skin tone was so disgusting. First of all he has some deeply seated internalized racism and colourism. Secondly, who talks about their own sister like that, ugh.
Most these incels are indian and they are very racist against themselves but they blame it on women. Its pretty stupid. Ive known many of ehm. They were actually nice to me for some reason in private messages. But they were really angry and upset.
@Brutal Flms you can acknowledge these things and still blame him and maybe even just maybe hold him accountable
Ankita Sharma so true, we need to call people out for potentially harmful views.
@Andy Dorannuu that’s the North Indians, South Indians are Dravidian or descended from Africans. Completely different races
I think racism is bad idk about you
I’ve seen people commenting on that post that the girl recovering from anorexia needed to loose weight. Thankfully, there were so many people defending this girl and her progress. I hope she’s doing ok
"Some men just want to watch the world burn."
Bruh, I know I'm getting sensitive, but that comment thread just hurt me so bad lol
Me too.
Some 'people are just sick
@@Great_Lake_Surfer sensitive? no, this is something that is reasonable to be upset about
“You have to be a woman to understand” >proceeds to explain women behaviour and how they work
I get where his jealousy comes from, though. Incel thinks all his problems are due to not having sex, and they also believe the only way to have sex is being attractive. Makeup makes people more attractive (most of the time), but men "aren't allowed to wear it."
@@QuartzIsAnOxide he could express himself with clothes makeup isn't the only solution to look attractive it could help him love himself more
@@Rose-cq3bf Not really
@@Rose-cq3bf also they could just wear makeup if they wanted...lots of dudes already do actually :)
@@thepanda9782 that is also true if you want to do something just do it
Jesus. That anorexia one got me mad. I really hope she’s ok and eating. It’s saddening that these people exist and think like this.
He should’ve said jk like fr man
@@frgwyn3760 even if it's a joke it can still be harmful
It’s literally telling them to try and commit suicide in my eyes.
Yeah I can’t imagine how sad she was after
I'm mildly overweight and have been called a "landwhale" "hamplanet" and "hambeast" by self-identified incels. Their dictionary is so weird.
I'm a perfectly healthy weight, and have been called "too skinny", "figureless", "impossible to find attractive", and my favourite one of all: "bonebag". I'm at around the same size as that poor girl in her recovery picture, yet she's too fat? They can't even remember their own standards. I shouldn't let them get you down. They've got no idea what they're "supposed to" find attractive.
I’m so sorry! I’m also a bit chubby... a hekin chonker gorl. I haven’t been teased by anyone yet, surprisingly, but I know it’s inevitable
@@axolotl593 if you ever feel the need to lose weight, don't do it for a anyone else but yourself. Do it for your health, not for some asshole men that think you'd look better if you were starving.
And if you decide against losing weight, Idc it's your body, it should be your choice ♡
This shows how messed up society's views of women are...
sorry, but I sharply nose-exhaled at "hambeast"
it's really sad how these people end up in negative feedback loops and radicalize themselves this hard
Brutal Flms even if that is true so what, what are you gonna do about it.
Brutal Flms I’m a short guy (5’5) dating someone who’s 6 feet tall. It really isn’t that big a deal, just be a kind a genuine person.
You seem to be blaming women tbh
Brutal Flms you misunderstand me, I’m not saying it isn’t harder for short guys, or fat or ugly etc, just that it isn’t impossible if you’re being genuinely kind and looking for someone who is also genuinely kind.
I appreciate you linking an actual study though
You can’t also say you too don’t have preferences in women. That doesn’t mean that’s all that matters (unless it does for you then that’s an actual problem)
Brutal Flms Can y’all just... not? For five seconds? My God, instead of victim blaming and invalidating a woman’s experience with bad men, try to help them out and help them see that good men are still out there. Don’t just go “Oh WeLl WoMeN dO iT tOo So YoU dOnT mAtTeR” when she’s struggling. Yeah, some women absolutely suck, but it doesn’t give you a right to victim blame.
Yep I feel it's sad but I also lose some sympathy due to the terrible attitudes they show. Why should any woman (or man for that sake) care about or respect them when they do absolutely zero of that back? They are giving people no reason to like, care about or respect them or even give them a chance because they already shown how terrible people they are.
I do wonder how much their life and attitudes/behavior would improve if they actually got a girlfriend and could have sex regularly besides not feeling worthless because they cant attract a partner. Since that is their main problem that made them bitter in the first place.
5:48 she looks healthier now it looks like her blood flow is better and her cheeks are red. She probably also feels so much better, these people are human garbage for making fun of her.
Being anorexic can make you depressed and guilty...but once the effects from not eating actually set in, it's horrible. I used to feel like I couldnt sit up all the way, and moving hurt. My heart was constantly fast and I'd throw up nothing but green bits...I think its bile.
Why do some men like women underweight? What's hot about ribs poking out? And chronic nausea?
Now I can't go more than a day without eating or else I'll get sick and just start throwing up
She looks fit 😳😳😳
I don’t understand their logic. She looks so beautiful and healthy (sorry that sounds weird and creepy) in the recovery picture. Anorexia is a very very hard thing to go through and I’m really happy for her.
They are poo poo heads
she looks so beautiful now
Honestly I think my boyfriend is what a neckbeard wants to be. He’s open about his beliefs on respecting women, he actually has one or two katanas but isn’t cringy about it (like edgy photos n stuff) but he’s just genuinely nice, funny and has good hygiene.
I have 2 kingdom keys (not the same thing) and I shower frequently. I'm not a guy but it's really a mindset
@@roxassora2706 Kingdom Hearts is such a good video game. Do keep your kingdom keys friend.
@@Cindy99765 Yep. My favorite one is kh3.
@@roxassora2706 Nice, my favourite is Re:Chain of Memories, because I'm into card games, but 3 is definitively up there. I feel like people give it too much crap over nothing.
@@QuartzIsAnOxide Yeah. It's a mixed game for the fandom. Lots like it and lots of the fandom doesn't. I like the graphics, the boss battles, the music. They gave Sora a few things that he's never had.
for a long time i found myself useless and digusting for being born as a girl because of incels. Due to my very low self confidence ive always belived everything bullies say and id lose sleep over it for years. Ive always tried to fit in, be like "the cool kids" but ive always been harrassed and a victim to sexism and many more. when i found out about this subreddit, rants etc and seen people hating on sexism, ive expirenced a level of happiness that i cant describe.
Thankfully, I am now very proud of being a girl and becoming stronger day by day ^^
good for you bro!!! good luck on working on your self esteem, because that stuff takes a lot of work 💖
I'm proud of you for learning to accept yourself. I was raised as the only girl in a family of all boys. Ppl would say I looked trashy and boyish bc I didn't show off (why would I wear revealing clothes near my brothers?) And now as an adult when I do wear short shorts, or a bikini at the beach, I'm ways worried and guilty that I'm coming off as slutty. Even my bf tells me dressing a certain way isn't really whorish or provocative...esp if I'm wearing those short shorts to the beach on a hot day.
I still cant help but feel like I need to hide myself. My roommates friends are all incels and last time I hung out with them, they called me a "despicable creature" I'm not even kidding
Gracie Anne, please get therapy. You need to get to a mental place where you don’t need anyone’s validation or reassurances. You existing in your body and dressing as you feel comfortable in the moment (before you remember other people will see you in your outfit) is not slutty. It’s called living. And I despise anyone who makes derogatory comments towards women to tank their self-esteem to the point that they’re not living, rather they’re obsessing about how misogynists perceive them.
Women don’t exist in a state of either desirable (aka how “fuckable” they look) and non-desirable. Women exist as people. Don’t let anyone shame you for wearing a skirt or cargo pants. You don’t exist to cater to someone else’s idea of how desirable women should look and behave. If they have an issue with being unable to separate a woman from gender stereotypes, then that problem is on them. Don’t bend for these people. You live your life.
Same I always felt a little useless
I was raised by an incel and I can relate to what you said so much. I still am working on washing that dirt off my soul.
Dude this post about this former anorexic girl is so upsetting. I was also fighting anorexia and after I got out of it and got into a healthy weight area (55 to 60kg) my exboyfriend threatened to leave me because he thought I was getting fat. This is super toxic.
Ugh...I'm with you. Used to be anorexic and super upset about those comments on the thread. Being healthy is more important than being thin. When I was anorexic, my hair was brittle, my stomach couldnt handle anything, and I felt sick 24/7. Sitting up all the way drained me and hurt. Now, I'm proud to have muscle and fat. I'm proud to have rolls and folds because every woman has them. Even when I was 98lbs my stomach still had folds when I was sitting, it's just skin and genetic makeup.
Ignore those incels, they're just mad bc they cant have us
By the sound of it your ex boyfriend was toxic af. Jesus...
What an asshole 🤬 I hope you are in a better place now ❤️
Im lucky enough to have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me and never tries to change my appearance and actually tries to make me more healthy (ive always been overweight) i hope if you havent already, you find an amazing person who supports you and helps you recover.
That guy who said you were fat is an incel
"This effect wears off." That moment when girls work like Minecraft potions
Lmao exactly what I was thinking too
these men are why i date women.
Careful, next thing we know they'll be blaming us for stealing all the women lol
and im super confused on why I’m still straight
I dont like being pan cuz I have to be attracted to men 😔
These men make me really wish I was into women. Alas that is not the case.
Edit: on second thought, as someone who’s questioning, that may be the case
@@bunny-fv5mp I’m pan too! Yay and I also hate the fact that I have to be attracted to men
7:50 As someone who grew up in an Asian household, you were taught to be able to take care of yourself. So, I don't really understand what's so wrong with a male doing "women's work" when literally millions of boys grew up doing it. In fact, it means that you came from a good household in my culture.
It means the same in THIS culture, too. Or, perhaps I should say that that particular meaning has been added to the list of acceptable meanings. The problem is that until the old meaning gets erased, the incels, misogynists, and TRULY weak men will still be able to pick and choose which meaning to embrace, to the discredit of our society.
Coming from a half black/half Asian household, I didn’t know this was supposed to be a culture thing tbh. I thought it was a “if youre a lazy asshole or not” type of thing.
Corporate America pushed the idea that women are supposed to be homemakers, while men are the hard working providers. (I say corporate America because lots of handy dandy products were advertised pushing such gender roles. "Here ladies! Buy this product to make ironing your man's tie easy!"). Modern society has obviously adapted, due to a little thing called **progress**. Unfortunately many people still romanticize outdated 1950s idealism, which includes viewing women as maid servants that should be pregnant and/or raising children while the husband works. It's mainly fundamentalist Christians who believe that, but it's a misogynistic worldview that can be held by anyone. I think all adults should be self-sufficient...but some people want to cling to gender roles.
I think it depends within households. Me and my family are fully Asian. With my cousins who are girls and my age, their parents expect them to do all the housework and stuff. It’s really annoying and sad. As for me, my parents try to get me to do housework but without any success. I’m not obliged to do something just because of my gender
I agree that nothing's wrong with a man doing housework, but at the same time, I'm also Asian and men were actually discouraged from helping, like serving tea and doing the dishes would somehow tarnish a mighty man's honor or whatever. Guess it depends on what country.
12:36 "that rhymed, i should be a rapper" i love your tiny comments and your voice goes so well with these kinds of things.
They're not the same person. It's a lifecycle.
Niceguy->neckbeard->incel
@not relevant most incels are also pedos
I love your channel so much. You're just a wholesome guy!
You're so kind! Appreciate you!
@@VinceyReads you should do r/yiffinhell some time cause wow those furry guys are weirdos.
Couldn’t have put it better
Indeed
My favorite thing is how incels assume that women do _everything_ for someone else.
No Kevin, I don't shave my legs because I'm trying to attract a man, I shave them because I have sensory processing issues and don't like leg hair.
Leg hair joined the chat:
but leg hair is something that can actually be annoying i would imagine. whereas makeup only costs you bunch a lot of money and time yet i still see egirls defend it because "we're doing it for ourselves" yeah yeah whatever. we'd see for how long they'd do it for themselves if they were put on a peaceful island with enough food and makeup for a year or something
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 I would still put makeup on if I was in a "peaceful" Island cause I would be bored so idk what u trying to point here
@@KonstantinaDRV see you would only do it out of boredom. take away the people you think you're impressing and give you something better to do and boom, suddenly you're not "doing it for yourself" anymore.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 "the people u think ur impressing" Lol i know guys don't give a sht about the makeup I wear I really don't wear it for them I just do it for myself cause I simple like... Idk how to explain but for me it's relaxing and some form of fun art
10:33
That dude is probably extremely dangerous. As a girl, reading that, everything just felt wrong.
It makes me want to wear a gigantic cloth over my entire body tbh
Oh, definitely. Heck, even as a guy, that man sounded utterly revolting. I would be quite surprised if he is still a free member of society. It just sounds illegal.
you wouldn't care if chad said it
@kez ••• you don't have to swallow if it's too salty :)
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 Right, because women are fine with being stalked. People like you belong in the 1800s
The girl that got through her anorexia is so beautiful though they’re just salty bc she wouldn’t want them
They're salty bc she's strong enough to kick their asses now....poor boys are scared
@@Great_Lake_Surfer if they were scared they wouldn't make comments that could come off as provocative lol
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 because making a woman feel horrible about her body is so provocative lmao
@@melonsoup9058 is it not? ok then. will definitely keep that one in mind.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 No..it’s not.. do you want to be shamed for overcoming anorexia?
I googled copulins. What I found about them is that they are a pheromon produced when a woman is "wet" but it has more to do with scent, not blood, as there was at least one test using copulin infused masks. However, pheromones don't actually mean as much to humans as they do to animals and aren't that meaningful. It does seem to help men's self-esteem when their exposed to it and tend to find women more attractive than they might otherwise.
So, once again, science proves incels wrong.
Also, the amount of times that I've been hit on by men that look older than my father is ridiculous. One even "joking" about following me onto my bus. The most recent one looked like he could have been my grandpa. And I'm 31.
@@elfdragon1227 Pepper spray or call 9-1-1
@@elfdragon1227 I'd be tempted to go on and on about how gross they are, how no woman would want anything to do with them, and that if their kids knew what they were doing they would probably disown his creepy, slimy, vile, perverted ass!!!
@@roxassora2706 thats bit much
@@incelstate2466 Well they won't bug you. But what do I know?
The guy who ranted about the girl complimenting his beard is the same guy who must’ve told 5 stranger women to smile in the same day
sachita you need to smile
@@falcon3196 OH SHIIIIIIIIIIIT YOU SURE SHOWED HER HAHAHAHAH YOU GOT HER good job man A+ gold star HAHAHAHA WHAT A PLAY SHOTS FIRED ʘ‿ʘ
@@peachy_lili smile nerd
@@falcon3196 you need to cry
10:32 this is literally why I don't wear leggings. I have resorted to wearing jogger sweatpants, and I honestly like them better.
Wait, there are actual people who do that kind of stuff???!!!! That's disgusting! And Illegal too pretty sure 🤢
I mostly wear leggings but have never experienced this, guess i'm not their types lol. Tho i'm so paranoid that i would notice if someone followed me.
It's so creepy :(
9:53. It's so weird to me, their obsession with fertility. I mean, that's related to reproduction, but none of these guys ever talk about fatherhood, or how wonderful babies would be and how badly they want to raise kids.
All they ever talk about is sex and things they want to do to women... no reference to parenthood.
I just don't see the connection.
They want to pump and dump, they only care about spawn of their seed, they don't want to raise kids, just to reproduce
The guy who complained about the girl complimenting his beard....does he not realize every single woman in the world has dealt with unsolicited comments about their appearance- both good and bad - for their entire lives?
Probably not. Because then he would have to think critically about someone other than himself.
That is also the reason they hate women. Because they get rejected for creepy comments and cat calling. So they decided they aren't the problem but women is at fault because women have the power now to rejected men's advances. These men wants to go back to a time where people born with an uterus could be forced in to marriage. It's sad that in a way they hate themselves so much that they blame their hatred outwardly and think the only way they can find a partner is through force.
Just like dark humor, they laugh about all the dark jokes TOWARDS women, but boo's anyone who make dark jokes TO them.
It was just an innocent compliment not like some guy saying he likes our breasts.. ew lol
The one about the yoga pants is incredibly creepy and just awful.
and that’s why I hide myself in oversized sweaters. I never wear yoga pants. Or leggings. I’m 12 and Idk why I’m even worrying about it-
@@zentinelz dude you should still be worried. You shouldn't have to but, you have to
@@silcrow4045 That is pretty messed up. But the fact that it is most probably true is just disgusting.
@@zentinelz i'm so sorry you have to suffer from this when you're young
Dude like this in my therapy. I was cold and shivering and he went on a whole rant about how women are weak 👁👄👁
That’s so cringe of him lmao
It’s one thing to point out that men have more of the hormone thing that makes them a little more strong or something like that and it’s one thing to just rant about how they are weak because you are a toxic uncle.
Incel*
What the hell. That’s horrid. I’m sorry bud
On a lighter note I like your pfp
I can never understand how incels don't see 20-30 as young still??? You're literally in your first adult years. Most usually live up to 80 and above, though It varies, so even 30 isn't consider old. 💀💀💀 They just see women as limited edition items that you have to get fresh or miss out on getting them at all.
They're probably assuming that all young women are dumber and more easily influenced at those ages or something to that tune.
They are probably people who would sext a child and then say it’s a joke and would bully the child. 40 years old is not even that old imo because it’s just a little old but not really man and it’s not even a bad thing to be old.
@Rivers Doster That's true, but a woman's value and youth is not determined by whether she can bear children.
@Rivers Doster Some do. Some women do as well. Others don't. Why should men who want children try to devalue the women who don't? In the end, it's the woman's choice since she is the one to carry the children.
@@ratboy2 value is subjective. from an evolutionary standpoint an infertile woman is worthless and so is an infertile man. it's just that today the infertile woman still dates way above her looksmatch and is constantly being told she's brave and stunning or whatever nonsense, while chances are good that her looksmatch isn't infertile at all, but can't get any action for other reasons, so he joins the incel community.
5:49 good on her! I hope she's proud of herself for getting through anorexia. That is a very toxic and painful cage that is incredibly difficult to break out of. Don't listen to the incel.
I need a link to the tweet so I can report them with multiple twitter accounts
@@roxassora2706 fear not. they have been suspended
@@yjiokhi4479 Okay
7:20 at least he is aware, now maybe he will change his perspective.
There is still hope!!
that post is fake
@@fcdmfddcfy2388
Do you have any proof for that? Or like??
@@pineapple423 Vador is either an incel or he's on here just to stir up shit. I've yet to see him comment with facts on anything.
4:36
My dude got offended over a compliment.
Touchy
10:56 "I always strategically follow them around." That's some interesting to say you're a stalker.
We get the fake nails to keep people like this away. It's also useful for scratching people in self defense.
I got them once years ago and within 5 Mins of leaving the salon I had 2 guys laughing at me and imitating me and saying ew why tf woukd anyone get those.. they were not that big but drying and hurt and I had never got them so I was holding then out in front of me outside and after that I cut them and still was treated badly by women and men and ripped them off painfully. Never again!
Even tho I’m a girl I’m scared to use the word “female” cuz my worst nightmare is becoming an incel
Eh, I think you're okay. As long as your mindset isn't similar to the boys in this video XD
As long as it isnt in a dehumanizing way! Like you can use it in a scientific way or as a descriptor.
As long as you are not sexist or toxic.
As long as it's on something scientific or something
Phrog the frog lol why would you want to use "female" casually anyway? just say woman or girl. female is usually used in scientific settings or in, like, legal/police/military settings.
Also,as someone that was in anorexia WhatsApp groups, theres a lot of creepy man just wanting nudes,it's disgusting how knowing they are insecure and in a bad state and they take advantage of it.
Yeah, a lot of men will call themselves "coaches" and try to get nudes or get you on video to do provocative and revealing things. Some men will sell those videos too...its disgusting and I've fallen for it once. I cant believe I was ever that stupid
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 ⚠️Incel Allert⚠️
Someone paid for being clown or just voluteering?
And onlg person who actually is stupid is you.
@@DayDreamingWriters lol ok, mind telling me what i did? as you can see YT deleted my comment and i don't recall what this one in particular was about.
The first time I watched a video on this subreddit, I felt physically sick and, once I'd finished, had a much more negative outlook on humanity than before. I consider myself smart (well, smarter than these guys), so listening to their bullsh!t reasoning for 10+ minutes (even if through the mouth of someone reasonable) felt like mental torture. I don't know how they even get to such a rock bottom. Did they have a shovel and started digging?
@not relevant someone dug a 2 feet hole in the ground and left a shovel there... the incel fell in, and instead of climbing out, they took the shovel and dug deeper, until it's so deep they can't get out. Then they blame the person that dug the 2 feet hole that they fell into for getting them stuck and continue digging deeper.
The yoga pants dude made me scared for my life omg. What if one day he is following a tiny girl (smaller then him) and feels confident enough to do something to her? That's totally possible, this is so scary
Men like that are the reason I carry pepper spray.
As a recovering anorexic, that one talking about the girl who recovered made me *sick* like that was so hurtful and unneeded
sicker than when you had anorexia? :^)
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 hahaha i guess xd still have it tho lol
Take it easy, you've got it. People are just dumb. It's great that you're trying to fight it, go on!
@@lydiagalantmotherf aw thank you so much, that means a lot♡
I’m glad you’re recovering. Stay strong, and don’t let anyone drag you down again
Honestly, all incels live on "My Whole Identity is Victimism Island"
Reminds me of that time I had an incel boyfriend because I was guilt tripped into dating him and he got upset because I didn’t want to kiss him on the lips because it made me uncomfortable. Plus he would ask overly sexual and private questions and made me feel like an emotionally drained piece of crap. I’m glad I broke up with him and I hope he gets the help he needs and turns his life around for the better.
What I really dont get is how they see 25 years as "old" "wrinkled" "worn out" like wtf, what kind of 25 year old women do you meet in your life?
The post about the guy who cleans the house reminds me of something.
I once replied to a comment which basically went. Do what you preach, we all know girls wouldn't date a feminine guy.
Then I said I would absolutely date a feminine guy. Then for some reason a person replied to my comment. And his reply basically went.
NO! You like masculine men. You just phrased it wrong.
Then I was like ???, I literally just said I would literally date a feminine person. I don't understand their thought process and it still confuses me now
some people are. not the most intelligent.
All men have different sides to them...femininity is one of them. If a man proclaims himself as an alpha male, he most likely has some insecurities and self esteem issues.
Fr, I've painted my mans nails the same color as mine and he gave no fucks. Some random man at the gas station called him out, making fun of him and asking if he was gay. He didn't care about him talking shit either....true "manliness" in my eyes is not caring about what's manly or not. Just behave and be a good person. It's not that hard once you become comfortable with yourself, the confidence will come. Some people just have to work on building that confidence; but acting all big and alpha is not the way to get that.
@@Great_Lake_Surfer Tbh men whom doesn't care about stupid comments about manliness are fvcking hot and sadly hard to find. I mean have some confidence bruh.You don't need any validation to be a man, same goes for women as well. I really wish to people stop trying to fit in to gender norms.
I fucking hate cleaning the house and I’m pretty retarded and I know cleaning the house is not a gender thing.
well Beep_Boop, the way you're writing this it seems like you only said that you like feminine men just so you could "prove them wrong".
The dude who shaved his beard now knows the feeling of when incels tell girls what to wear
Except now it’s worse because the girl was just complimenting him and he went trigger happy
*Me, on my way to go shower Hina and all the people replying to her with their anorexia stories with my unconditional and understanding love*
Go forth child of light
take this wand of kindness /*
Lol I was just watching one of your r/justneckbeardthings then this notif popped up :0
Woo! Thanks for being here!
@@VinceyReads aww :)
8:06 "no woman alive finds that attractive"
proceeds to name some of the most attractive things a man can do.
I was fine till a guy started criticizing acrylic nails. Boy, this is a work of art, if you dont like it, get out of the studio
ok but why say this here? did i miss something or is your thought process literally just "MAN > CRITICIZES MY "ART" > INCEL INCEL THE ONLY REASON WHY YOU WOULD SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT WHAT IM DOING IS THAT YOURE INVOLUNTARILY CELIBATE"
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 where did she say anything about the guy being an incel?
@@lemongrassandpeach4884 she's b/tching about people not liking her "art" on an inceltears video out of all places?
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 ahe never called him or even implied that the guy is an incel. she simply said that you should get out of the studio if you don't know how to appreciate her work. yet you immediately started talking about a made up thought process.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 Ah you're here too. You're under every comment trying to invalidate the point of the original comment then moving on to the next once your so-called " logic" gets torn down. Why are you even here if you're just gonna be salty the entire time?
its sad that these people can’t take a genuine compliment without assuming a woman has ill-intentions
It’s because they give compliments with ill-intentions.
They’re projecting.
It's cause he didn't want her in "control"
I wonder if you’re brave enough to face r/I’msorryjon.
he’s wholesome :( this is work for the click
The click is more cursed than Satan, and he will overtake hell once he dies
Lucille the Fox common knowledge, my good sir
the best subreddit
The guy who shaved his beard off when he got complimented would probably be pissed if a girl did the same thing with her hair lmao
I saw ur channel name and the first thing I thought was “Da Vinky?!”
omg haha i should change it to that!
I'm not even a feeemale and I'm sick of them saying feeemale 🤦♂️
Yeah like wtf. They're too scared of acknowledging us as women....poor lil boys are scared of us
@@Great_Lake_Surfer boys, boys, boys.
Someone continue the song pls
@@Great_Lake_Surfer ok female
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 I love how you are exposing yourself as a drawing in you're profile picture.
I can somewhat relate to that girl who posted about her recovery from ed … I was just talking on an anonymous chatting page with a guy, and when I told him my body type and my weight (which idk why he asked for), he told me that my weight was brutal (I’m 62 kg/136.6 lbs with 172 cm/5’64 feet), and he told me the max weight of a skinny girl is 50 kg/110.2 lbs, he also said that he once had a girlfriend who weighed 39 kg/85.9 lbs, and I was like was she ill or something, and he told me ‘so what, it’s still skinny’, I’m still struggling with accepting my body and the way I look
Need more Vincey in my life! This channel is so wholesome and fun!
Means the world!! Thats my only goal with the channel, to be wholesome and fun! Appreciate you!
VINCE ITS CALLED BIKINI BOTTOM NOT ROCK BOTTOM IM SCREAMING
Hahahaa no no no you know that little scary town from spongebob where they go down the cliff to get to haha I'm probably wrong
Lana Joy that episode used to scare me when I was little
10:13 this... this is a man who failed high school biology...
i've honestly never been so addicted to a youtube channel until i found yours. you are just so wildly underrated, i'm so glad you exist. i look forward each day to see you upload, Vincey! your voice and overall sense of humor is perfect for youtube, i really hope to see you grow more because you deserve it.
also, i hope you're doing alright after being sick. don't forget to care for yourself every now and then! :D
Dude, you've gone from like 3k to 7k so quick. Everytime I see your video you get like a 1k and I'm so happy. Keep up the good work
It's insane!! Thanks so much for being here!
"why do girls even wear fake nails" a lot of these guys are so entitled they think that everything a woman does is for their attention. they need to stop acting like they're the main character.
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Haha right? I always say something like "well if you don't like ___ then you don't have to wear/do/etc."
Hey, why do some women wear fake nails? I dunno, it just looks uncomfortable, and this comment peaked my curiosity.
"What? You think you're a valid human being? Unacceptable!"
Omggg you were so fed up at 12:05. You had it, officially.
people who shame people who have recovered from ANA, ED, Self Harm for any reason are the lowest scum
as someone who has anorexia and body dymorphia its really hard not to take those things to heart, someone could look at me and say "omg youre so skinny!!!" and id be like "No??? im pretty chubby..." and the people that call others fat disgusts me, its how my ED started, from my brother (i dont blame him now, he was doing the wrong thing {he was bullied for being chubby}) calling me fat. Everytime i get anxious while eating (someone watching me, someone i dont know talking to me, etc...) i lose any appetite i have. Im trying to get better but when people are mean its really hard
It is really scary meeting people with this mindset. I have had bestfriends have crushes on me and then yell at me and stop being friends with me because I didn't like them :(
7.17k already? I can't even count how many subscribers you are gaining in a few days
It's ridiculous!! I can't keep up either haha!
Your videos keep my roommate and I rolling on the floor laughing. We get excited when it shows up every day.
Aww that's so awesome!! I still can't believe anyone watches my videos haha!! Thanks for the support!
11:06 This ladies is why we can't wear leggings and yoga pants to school or hell even in public.
Are ya sure? I've done it and nothing bad came to me.
@@roxassora2706 then your lucky. Ive been catcalled before.
@@sleepwalking3345 How am I lucky? Men don't acknowledge me at all
@@roxassora2706 I dont think you want to be acknowledged if how they do it is sexualising you and making you feel like an object. Just my personal opinion
The whole “This is why we can’t have nice things” phrase fits this perfectly.
6:26
Omg she has made such an amazing upgrade! Getting over her eating disorder like that I’m legit so proud even tho I don’t know her.
Those people have *NO* right to comment on her weight PERIODT
As a male who’s been in previous relationships and rejected by many crushes as well and still has yet to be in another relationship myself, I can say with all honesty that if these guys are going to blame women for rejecting them, then maybe they don’t deserve to have a girlfriend to begin with. I just don’t understand how these people can’t understand that THEY are the problem and not women. Their ego must be bigger than a mansion.
As a woman, I would never date or marry a man who refused to do housework
Not gonna lie, the amount of incels in this comment section are amusing
Its important for young men to regularly sit down and think about how the world works and how we should interact with it. It helps prevent and mitigate this behavior.
Girl: (exists)
Incel: And I took that personal
I just have to say I finally placed where I heard your background music first. actually one of my other fav channels funnily enough
There are two factors I see that create incels:
1. They expect women to do all of the work and approach them, because they don't have the nerve to do it themselves.
2. They have a sense of entitlement to a partner that society deems attractive. They only go after the "Stacies"; never the average looking women.
8:06 women do find that attractive, for example, my dad never did any of that and my mom divorced him because of it.
Srsly, that guy has the most backward thinking. My bf cooks/ cleans for me all the time. He doesnt expect me to take off my clothes for him bc of it, he just does those things to maintain hygiene and bc he cares for me.
I have another roommate who's a guy and he's lazy to the point of not showering for weeks. He's a good guy, but damn his room and clothes smell. To this day, he still doesnt have a gf because of it.
@@Great_Lake_Surfer you always talk about all the shit your oh so amazing boyfriend does but what do you do? sit on your ass watching reddit comps?
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 coming from the guy whos such a reddit obsessed loser he treats the youtube comment section like a reddit 2.0 because he cant handle anything different
@@mrselfdestruct7605 how did you manage to pull this much made up nonsense out of your ass
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 hey, can u not judge her? Maybe she's working all day? Or maybe her bf likes to cook and clean. Stop being so narrow minded.
Take my like sir. Your wholesome content always leaves me feeling good.
Also, incels, wow
Aww I'm glad!! Thanks so much for watching!
My “brain” and genetics chase me to experience high levels of aggression and rage any moment I’m not asleep. Yet somehow I have enough self control to not attack people. Hmmmmmm.
I never got mad at anything from Reddit before but this just fucked me up real bad
WHOA eggman with no bald
9:26 That is so fucking sad. "Subhuman?" "Horseface and Indian skin tone?" Dude. That is some STRONG internalized racism. Ouch..
“Don’t worry, I’m not a gay person.”
That one killed me. XD
I dunno, whenever one of these types opens with "studies show" my first reaction is "show me the studies"
this is why my bar is below the ground. deadass all I want is someone who sees me as a human being but that's rare nowadays💀
it’s always the ones with the anime profile pictures
"Female" here. Guys, if you want some advice from a married woman... clean up after yourselves and cook once in a while. You should be doing 50% of the house work, because whether you like it or not, you're responsible for making 50% of the mess. If you don't like it, then live alone. We're not your mothers, so stop treating us as if we should be.
Foid and femoid are the funniest terms ever
Wtf is a foid? Are they scared of us or something?
@@Great_Lake_Surfer no it's term specially designed to refer to women without being disrespectful to men.
Right? It's like they think women are sci-fi aliens or something.
@@ratboy2 that's what alienation from a young age on does, it's actually pretty sad if you ask me, but remember: bullying is only sad when a girl is on the receiving end.
@@fcdmfddcfy2388 Agreed, but.. I hope you aren't serious about that last part. Bullying is wrong regardless of who is being bullied. Saying otherwise is misandrist, dear.
3:57 extremely unrelated but I can't stop thinking that Bakugo would make a post like this
"Seriously??? You want a pencil? I'll give you a pencil"
seeing posts like these (incel posts) and especially seeing men justify this behavior- like the following women around if they're wearing leggings cos they can't "control it"- really makes me wonder if most men are like that. thanks for making a video about this to show that some men are actually as disgusted and weirded out by those actions as i am, and that there definitely are some men who aren't controlled by their selfish thoughts and desires etc.
After being scared by a opossum in the trash compactor at work this video is just what I needed. Thank you. (Don't worry, the opossum isn't hurt.)
I found the study about Copulin (Pheromones and their role as aphrodisiacs: A review), and surely enough, the vagina does secrete these compounds. However, note that when Semwal et al say Copulin controls the male brain, they don't mean that it literally directs a man's actions. Copulin can raise testosterone levels in a man to highten sex drive, as well as make the woman appear more attractive. It's not that much different from how testosterone in a man's saliva is hypothesized to work. Women can't control our mind... Yet.
how could that guy say something so hateful to the girl who was recovering from anorexia?
I can already picture them.
- Seven chins
- Long rectangular glasses
- receding hairline caused by their tightly pulled back greasy ponytail
- horrible acne
- obesity
- sweating profusely
- smelly breath and overall their entire body
- misusing science/ using false facts
- having a lisp (and not the cute one the spitting a lot one)
- Obsessed with anime and not the normal weeb
The list goes on I can write a book on them
I found your channel not too long ago and I really love it, you're definitely going to hit a million subs in no time
Bruh...she just said she liked your beard? And generally girls (when they like someone.) Will compliment on things you have control over. She said she liked your beard because she assumed YOU liked keeping it that way for a reason. Yeeeeash.
"Will compliment on things you have control over"
I also noticed that and thought it was very thoughtful of her! man is sadly too blind and then will complain no woman finds him good looking
Well, I don't have very much control over anything, not even my life. No wonder women don't compliment me.