When You Are Thinking About Someone All The Time

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  • Опубликовано: 16 сен 2024
  • When you are thinking about someone all the time, what does it mean? Why is this happening and how does it affect you and your life? Can the person that you are thinking about feel your thoughts and if so, does it affect the way they think about you? Can the energy of your thoughts affect the way someone behaves towards you?
    The energy of your thoughts can be very powerful. In this video, I explain the effects of thinking about someone all the time and what you can do about it.
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  • @AlikiHoidas
    @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +88

    Subscribe for more information on how the energy works when you are thinking about someone. It's all about you moving into the happiness and love within you.

    • @angel-no5sy
      @angel-no5sy 3 года назад +1

      Awesome ty

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +2

      @@angel-no5sy you are so welcome Gloria.

    • @liufox1292
      @liufox1292 3 года назад

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    • @pure-pisces9470
      @pure-pisces9470 3 года назад +2

      Please help me to understand this concept & how it is done, i am going through this atm not having any idea where I stand, is very difficult being an overthinker & take things to heart...?

    • @maridevi9389
      @maridevi9389 3 года назад

      Aliki, your guidance is spot on. Heart centered consciousness is important for connection to Source within, first and foremost, and then energy expands outward with clarity. Thank you for this valuable video.♡

  • @sheliapark3097
    @sheliapark3097 3 года назад +270

    I can't stop thinking about him .I'm goin crazy I have never done anything like this before and I think about him 24/7

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +40

      Go easy on yourself. I understand how frustrating this is but you can move forward out of constantly thinking about him. I have created several videos to help you with this in the playlist called Thinking About Someone.
      The more you move into the happiness and love within your heart, your core, the more you move into clarity and empowerment.

    • @carmilo9399
      @carmilo9399 3 года назад +30

      I know how you feel, I'm a man and I can't stop thinking about a female friend of mind. I believe I'm in love with her.

    • @frankovera7553
      @frankovera7553 3 года назад +12

      I didn't know women could feel like this

    • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
      @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves 3 года назад +5

      @@frankovera7553 um yes and I'm trying to get out of it

    • @nanbanjinchannel5716
      @nanbanjinchannel5716 3 года назад +1

      Me too (about her)

  • @sassyclassy3316
    @sassyclassy3316 3 года назад +97

    I think about him so much I'm so in love with him,I hope he can feel me!

    • @michaelpearce8733
      @michaelpearce8733 3 года назад +5

      He definitely can!

    • @Ava-lm1zy
      @Ava-lm1zy 3 года назад +4

      Yes it’s hard to let go when you know they are meant to be your soul mate. Hope he feels my vibes too.

    • @frankovera7553
      @frankovera7553 3 года назад +2

      Can women feel love?

    • @Ava-lm1zy
      @Ava-lm1zy 3 года назад +3

      @@frankovera7553 of course we can.

    • @frankovera7553
      @frankovera7553 3 года назад

      @@Ava-lm1zy good to know, I guess my wife didn't love me, doesn't mean she was not able to love, just don't me. Sad but true.

  • @TroyPosey
    @TroyPosey 4 года назад +178

    Thanks for uploading this Aliki. I have been dealing with this for a while. As an INFJ we naturally tend to do this. And when we like someone, we really think about them a lot. So it’s EXTREMELY hard to break the cycle. Just last week, I decided to let it all go, stop stressing about things I can’t change or control, and put everything in God’s hands. If it happens, it happens. I hope she and I end up together, but now that I’m no longer stressing about it, and just going with the flow of life, I feel so much better. 👍🏻✌🏻

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +15

      I am so happy to hear this. It really is less about breaking the cycle and more about making a new beginning just as you have done. Keep shifting your energy into your heart, your core. I wish you happiness and love!

    • @shivangi3769
      @shivangi3769 3 года назад +8

      INFJ here and I see what you say. The only difference is that I'm agnostic, so I just leave it.

    • @callmekells802
      @callmekells802 3 года назад +6

      Infj love

    • @chandrasekar3635
      @chandrasekar3635 3 года назад +3

      INFJ and also obsessed with someone....... exactly like you......

    • @barbramarshall9790
      @barbramarshall9790 3 года назад

      I dont think its for me gotta get used to it

  • @KH-bq3lz
    @KH-bq3lz 2 года назад +8

    I can’t stop thinking about my person that I overwhelmed me everyday. Then I found this video which is very powerful to help me get through.

  • @candichiu6552
    @candichiu6552 4 года назад +116

    This video came at time what I needed it the most. Lots of love!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +2

      So happy to hear that my dear Candi. Lots of love!

  • @jessicajasminesiegfried3466
    @jessicajasminesiegfried3466 3 года назад +8

    I think of him daily because he loves me through inner me soul wise.

  • @Nola5427
    @Nola5427 3 года назад +71

    Another words back off of them, forget about them, focus on yourself, better yourself, live your life and if it' s meant to be in Divine timing it will happen and they will come to you, sounds cliche but it' s usually true, don' t obsess, don' t pout, don' t bombard and smother them that stuff only drives them away and turns them off and ppl sense that energy, that' s what i' ve been doing with my Love backing off and it is hard because I Love him and I know he Loves me he told me but I am the bigger initiator and communicator and I want him to do those things more, I want him to want to and I want that reunion so bad ( we live in diffrent cities) but I am backing off and not making myself so available, gives them the space and time to think and miss you, maybe it' ll even wake them up to take some kind of action in fear of the thought that they are losing or lost you and if they don' t come sadly it wasn' t meant to be and that' s their loss.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +5

      By shifting your energy into your heart, your core this happens naturally. It makes it so much easier to stand in your happiness and love and move forward with clarity. Thank you for being here. I wish you happiness and love.

  • @brookebrown8297
    @brookebrown8297 3 года назад +11

    Honestly like it’s making me angry I almost want to cry that I’m so frustrated thinking about this person and I don’t even care to think about them

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +2

      I understand how you feel. I have created several videos to help you stop constantly thinking about someone in the playlist called Thinking About Someone. The more you move your energy into your heart, your core, the more expansive your energy becomes so you move out of this. I wish you happiness and love.

  • @lydianicole872
    @lydianicole872 3 года назад +6

    I think about him in every blink of eye even when I'm busy at work,Than dream about him every night..I try as much as possible to delete him off my mind but in vain..I hope he comes back

  • @dayrarodriguez2503
    @dayrarodriguez2503 3 года назад +170

    I was thinking of someone like everyday, and I decided to stop, days later they texted me

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +36

      It's all energy flowing. Keep moving forward with happiness and love.

    • @parneetkaur2579
      @parneetkaur2579 3 года назад +24

      I had stopped thinking of them naturally then I ran into them! Thrn i couldnt stop thinking again since then 😩😭 I'm trying to stop

    • @gamerkinetingz4135
      @gamerkinetingz4135 3 года назад +5

      Stop lying

    • @NondiakaRj_1
      @NondiakaRj_1 3 года назад +9

      @@gamerkinetingz4135 😂😂😂 why do you think that they are lying though? 😂😂😂 lol....

    • @gamerkinetingz4135
      @gamerkinetingz4135 3 года назад +1

      @@NondiakaRj_1 cause I know

  • @safiyohasan1427
    @safiyohasan1427 3 года назад +37

    I feel hurt when ever I think about him but Allah knows if he is thinking about me too

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +6

      I understand how painful this can be. I have created several videos to help you with this. Check out the playlist called Thinking About Someone. I wish you happiness and love.

    • @AR-cx5yf
      @AR-cx5yf 3 года назад

      safiyo hasan@ maxaa sameysay

    • @xouloudguenoune6171
      @xouloudguenoune6171 3 года назад +3

      After cutting my realationship with him for 2 years and got over him , now i suddenly from nowhere started to think about him again 🙃 like fuck him bro i hate when i think about him . He is not even my type

    • @rheeAlhamdullilah
      @rheeAlhamdullilah 3 года назад +2

      InshaAllah Allah’s promise is true sister 🍓🥥you both will be reunited InshaAllah Ameen

    • @safiyohasan1427
      @safiyohasan1427 3 года назад +1

      @@rheeAlhamdullilah ameen

  • @therayman3
    @therayman3 3 года назад +8

    Your telling the truth. I should start to channel the energy into my heart rather than think of her and so many amazing things we might do together when we reconnect. So the story is back in Spring 2015, when I was a Jr/Sr in college, I had this female in my class who caught my eyes and my spirit. So we wounded up working with each other as lab partners in our class and got to know each other quite a bit. We clicked for the most part, but then my gut/instincts started to tell me that we are going to be in a relationship one day and have kids with each other/do and own businesses. So she caught my heart and I tried to pursue but she was playing hard to get. I can also assume because at that time she also has a boyfriend. At the end of the semester when I just moved on from her, I noticed she started following me and standing next to me all over class everywhere I went. That is when I knew that we were both crushing over each other. So after that semester we no longer had class with each other so no more mutual connection there. Now just a few months ago I found out she was pregnant with her boyfriend child, and just recently I found out that he proposed to her. All of this had me crash fully to the point now I’m just trying to get back up, and get into my reality again. Overall I am going to take your advice, and just let everything about her go and leave it to the MOST HIGH to deliver on its promises. Either way, I’m still going to enjoy life regardless. P.S. sorry for the long message. I had to get some steam out.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      The more you move your attention away from her, from the situation, from the pain you feel and focus your energy in your heart, your core, the more you move into the happiness and power within you. You instantly can start to feel so much happier.
      I wish you happiness and love!

  • @jacquinewman8125
    @jacquinewman8125 3 года назад +33

    This makes so much sense. Thank you. It's been push and pull for 2 years. I've distanced physically, but not emotionally or mentally. I do try to move into my centre, I've done it before, but this has been the hardest... The word "trying" resonates... Easier said than done

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +3

      You are so welcome. Yes, it takes practice and persistence. The beautiful thing is that at some point it comes naturally and you can do it with great ease in a moment.

    • @garyhunt8789
      @garyhunt8789 3 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas im hopong so for me'

    • @shellpen7326
      @shellpen7326 2 года назад +1

      Yeah you automatically think if you cut off anything that reminds you of them will help, but no that energy just lingers around forever!

    • @PaulW1954
      @PaulW1954 Год назад +3

      I know how difficult and painful it is .. “What’s meant for you won’t pass you by” In time you will be thanking your ex for allowing you to find someone better than them .. I pray it won’t be too much longer for you🙏

  • @delmazio1
    @delmazio1 4 года назад +14

    Thanks Aliki❤️❤️❤️... i certainly know now where this heaviness in my heart is coming from. True to what you said that whenever you try to fix things outside of you, sooner or later without your knowledge you got stuck in this loop that is beyond your control... and the fear of not thinking of a specific person may lose your connection with them; which is not true as to what you’ve explained it best. More power to you. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад

      You're welcome Dennis! I am so happy to hear that my video helped you. Thank you for sharing this with me. Wishing you happiness and love. ❤️💖😊

  • @marykissel9273
    @marykissel9273 3 года назад +5

    This was VERY confusing .....I never learned what "the loop"meant or how to stop thinking about someone. I once heard that when your constantly thinking of someone it's because they are thinking of you. That makes more sense to me!

    • @craigo3849
      @craigo3849 2 года назад

      I used to think that about my ex and she Never Ever called again and we were in love...In my humble opinion and Respectfully, don't believe that they are thinking of you, because you are thinking of them. Yes, it's possible they are thinking of you too...but if you contact him or her 20 times in x years and they Never reply for years, you are mistaken about that energy and reciprocation, and it's implosive. Forgive me if that's offensive to you ...just my experience and it's been a painful one , BTW

  • @lathikasunder9363
    @lathikasunder9363 3 года назад +8

    Yes!!! I am connected to infinite energy. I am super detached, and am a magnet of love💕.Thank you Universe

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      Yes, you are. 💖✨ Wishing you happiness and love.

  • @eaglelikeindependent1596
    @eaglelikeindependent1596 3 года назад +31

    I didn't even tried but it strikes to my mind naturally...is this that I overthink or isn't it that they think about me in return😁

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +6

      You can know the answer to this question by moving your energy into your heart, your core and asking. I wish you happiness!

    • @affluentmindmatrix
      @affluentmindmatrix 3 года назад +1

      @@AlikiHoidas i understand what you are saying, but how do we do that? just focus on our heart?

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +3

      @@affluentmindmatrix I explain how you can do this in this video ruclips.net/video/1OiX1KUrVYs/видео.html Thank you for being here!

    • @affluentmindmatrix
      @affluentmindmatrix 3 года назад +2

      @@AlikiHoidas thank you!!! just watched it! i'm starting to get it now...keep going with your videos :)

  • @francielydearaujo34
    @francielydearaujo34 3 года назад +28

    I love chats about connection and energy!!!Thank you!!!💖

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      So do I. You are so welcome. ❤️✨

  • @lewiscooper7397
    @lewiscooper7397 4 года назад +15

    I think of her every second.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +6

      I understand how you feel Lewis. Remember that it is all within you. All your happiness, love and power.

  • @shanaalexander4234
    @shanaalexander4234 3 года назад +26

    This is soo true, yet hard to do purposely! Whenever my life gets hectic and I’m not so wrapped up with the thoughts of my tf, he always comes back, but yet when he’s the only thing I can think of...... he continues to run from the connection....

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +2

      Yes, it takes practice and persistence. I have a video coming up on twin flame love. May your most beautiful dreams come true!

  • @adoublea9728
    @adoublea9728 2 года назад +2

    I have a SP that I really wish loves me and I can't stop thinking about her for the last two months, I keep worrying what she is doing and if she sees anybody, I really hope not.
    I don't know what to do anymore..

  • @scottb7539
    @scottb7539 3 года назад +6

    I never had someone so devoted to say they think about me all the time.

  • @william44660
    @william44660 2 года назад +6

    Thanks, Aliki. I think you're right. In the end you have to leave it in the Lord's hands. You can't orchestrate it.

  • @neel8011
    @neel8011 3 года назад +11

    One of the best advice I have ever received in my life and at perfect time. Thank you very much dear. God bless you

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      You are so welcome. Thank you for being here. Wishing you happiness and love

  • @johnnyblakes9956
    @johnnyblakes9956 3 года назад +4

    I dont agree on the subconscious part because its just a memory bank that hold the things we experienced. Thoughts dont just pop out of our subconscious mind, things have to trigger that process. Once a thought become conscious you have full control to either engage or disengage. Keep telling your forget it everytime you think about it will soon leave your subconscious. This is a prime example, trying to remember something. When u stop thinking about something it leaves your subconscious mind to make room for what u think is relevant to you. In order to forget old memories u have to make new ones to pysh those out.

  • @missy8046
    @missy8046 3 года назад +83

    Can someone please explain how to move into my centre so that I don’t think about the other person so much? It has completely taken my life over and it’s gotta stop but it’s just so hard, he’s constantly in my mind and I’m thinking all sorts of things, what happened, why it happened, what will happen, how to make it happen, it’s going from happy memories to sadness, anger, love, hate, compassion, understanding, hope, etc 🤷‍♀️🤔 please stop the train, I want to get off!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +12

      I understand how you feel. I have created a video to explain how to move into your heart, your core. ruclips.net/video/1OiX1KUrVYs/видео.html I wish you happiness and love!

    • @trinijoyl1720
      @trinijoyl1720 3 года назад +10

      WOW. i feel the same way. u hv to do drastic things. Thats new. To start a new Routine. But one at a time. Know that yr worthy! And u are enough! God has made u in his own imagine and likeness. Pray a lot! God bless

    • @trinijoyl1720
      @trinijoyl1720 3 года назад +7

      KEEP BUSY!

    • @sebolelomasia8246
      @sebolelomasia8246 3 года назад +13

      I'm glad to see that I'm not the only one who feels like this

    • @missy8046
      @missy8046 3 года назад +7

      @@sebolelomasia8246 I tried moving into my heart as soon as my thoughts wandered into my guy and it really does help! It’s an amazing technique and worth a try. I’ve been doing it for the last two days and surprisingly enough, my guy texted me this morning (just when I stopped thinking about him that much). I recommend to try it! It takes practice but totally worth it

  • @heavyaccept
    @heavyaccept 3 года назад +6

    My personal story: I met a girl in 2015, she was an exchange college student from the US. We met couple of times in the same class and in the college gym once and we spoke a bit, I wanted to ask her on a date, but it was at the end of the semester, so I didn't saw her again.
    Later, I found her on Instagram and Facebook, I texted her that I wanted to get to know her better, and since I met her till now I'm thinking about her all the time.
    Her response was "Hey!", she said nothing more and then she blocked me on fb and insta.
    The truth is that I'm not a person that falls in love everyday, but this is real. I can't stoping thinking about her.
    I planning to go to the US for work. But the fact that I cannot reach her again, kills me...

    • @snowypmoon1893
      @snowypmoon1893 2 года назад +1

      Sorry

    • @brucekimble8494
      @brucekimble8494 2 года назад +1

      I think I know what you're talking the best way to work with that filling is take one day at a time hide those thoughts when dating other girls practice to be a Chad for a while it will come to you I'm not sure but it sounds like your letting her Ghost you talk to someone older

    • @neosonic199
      @neosonic199 Год назад +1

      I feel it: A couple of days ago in Miami, me and the guys went to a party, mingling and having a blast. I saw a girl sitting by herself, but I barely worked up the courage to speak to her when it was time to leave.
      She was a cute light-skinned Hispanic girl. How do I find myself feeling this kinda way towards a stranger.
      I never saw her again after that night, but she’s been hot on my mind (I find myself regretting not taking the opportunity when I had the chance😔).

    • @heavyaccept
      @heavyaccept Год назад +1

      @@neosonic199 , yeah, I know what you mean pal...

    • @neosonic199
      @neosonic199 Год назад

      @@heavyaccept: I’ve actually kept it to myself, but felt that I had to share my thoughts after reading your story.

  • @ladybird491
    @ladybird491 3 года назад +12

    I am that rare person who don't think about anyone alot and actually think alot about me and my goals. I don't make people my business unless they are apart of my personal growth.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      So happy to hear this Victoria. Wishing you happiness and love.

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 3 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas I learned how not too years ago. I made so many people my business back in high school and I believe it's why for years my life was a mess. It is really mind freeing to wake up every day focusing on you and able to that every where you go. It took a long way for me to get to that point but I am glad I did. 😊

  • @elisabettavatielli6211
    @elisabettavatielli6211 4 года назад +38

    Thank you Aliki . I love this.
    Obsession is very hard to heal and you gave a great solution!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +2

      You're welcome Elisabetta. I wish you happiness and love.

  • @joduncan8235
    @joduncan8235 3 года назад +3

    He told he loved me, I was married with young children. I got scared. Many years has past now, I am divorced and the children as grown up. My ex husband is in prison now, and my thoughts are about what if and but. I'm still in love with this man from the past.

    • @DaveGrohlsprincess
      @DaveGrohlsprincess 3 года назад +1

      Why’s he In prison?

    • @joduncan8235
      @joduncan8235 3 года назад

      @@DaveGrohlsprincess because he try to blame somebody else for his crimes, perverting the course of justice

  • @michaelsuchomski6438
    @michaelsuchomski6438 3 года назад +6

    WE ARE RECEIVERS OF VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY WITHIN 🙏 WATER HOLDS MEMORIES AS WELL 🙏 BEAUTIFUL BEINGS OF LIGHT FAITHFULLY WITHIN 🙏

  • @hilhil6294
    @hilhil6294 3 года назад +4

    i do think and dream of him so much, but that is what makes me happy. i think positive therefore good things will come between us. i know he does the same because it all comes out in the end! he loves me deep down and it shows despite him hiding it. good thoughts brings positive things to one’s self!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      May your most beautiful dreams come true!

    • @hilhil6294
      @hilhil6294 3 года назад +1

      @@AlikiHoidas 🙏praise you 💕

  • @hon-yip6460
    @hon-yip6460 3 года назад +15

    I thought about someone for a few days and they popped up and messaged out of nowhere and i dont even talk to them a few days after!!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +7

      Amazing! You felt the energy of their thoughts. I wish you happiness and love!

  • @dvez7542
    @dvez7542 3 года назад +6

    How interesting discovering this right now. I've been wondering about the dynamics of this for some time and thinking, am I deluding myself, in fantasy land? It's important to let go and get on with your purpose.

  • @shaheenakhan9571
    @shaheenakhan9571 3 года назад +5

    Heart strings ....tied together....

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      Yes! More like dancing together and flowing together.

  • @sigmaman721
    @sigmaman721 3 года назад +3

    After watching some other coaches on the topic I would disagree. When you look deeper inside your heart it makes you miss the Ex more, cause the strong feelings towards your Ex are just in the heart. You must turn your brain and reasoning up instead and figure out that they need some time alone or just don't want you anymore. That hurts but it is the only way, then you have to get back on your purpose, work, hobbies, sports and keep yourself busy

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You are so right about moving forward with happiness and doing what you love. However, when I say heart, I am speaking about your core. About source energy. About all your knowledge, wisdom, happiness and love.

  • @sumalatha7
    @sumalatha7 3 года назад +1

    I dunno if I really will get him in my life, but he is everything to me

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      Move your energy into your heart, your core. The more you focus on the happiness and love within you, the more you have insight and clarity on how to move forward. May your most beautiful dreams come true!

  • @nat4581
    @nat4581 3 года назад +8

    Thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us. It makes perfect sense what you said.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You're welcome Natalia. Happy to hear that it resonates with you.

  • @teresemariecloonan.c7739
    @teresemariecloonan.c7739 3 года назад +1

    Thank you.
    So many women were never taught this basic instinct.
    Including, me.

  • @maxfieldstanton5411
    @maxfieldstanton5411 4 года назад +6

    I realized I propel people away because my outward energy is so big. When people encounter a wildfire they can't put it out using water so they just run away until it burns itself out.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +1

      I would suggest changing the way you think about your energy. Instead of comparing it to wildfire, see it as all-embracing. It is all within you so it begins with the way you see you. Wishing you love and happiness!

    • @maxfieldstanton5411
      @maxfieldstanton5411 4 года назад +1

      @@AlikiHoidas I kinda like that aspect of myself, I think it's a good quality, though I realize it can have an unintentional negative effect. I guess just because it's there doesn't mean it has to be showcased.

  • @sunnybaig2961
    @sunnybaig2961 2 года назад +1

    It’s crazy how I’ve been going crazy thinking about her 24/7 for the past two months, and up until now 😭

  • @malcolml1967
    @malcolml1967 3 года назад +14

    Thank you i thought i was going crazy now i truly overstand it now👍👍

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +2

      You're welcome! So happy to hear that. 😊✨I wish you happiness and love.

  • @pragyasingh2297
    @pragyasingh2297 3 года назад

    My body subconsciously shuddered when I saw this title, and I’m taking it as a sign that I need this advice.

  • @tarass8737
    @tarass8737 3 года назад +7

    Its about your thoughts creating its simple most people think negative thoughts about the person so they dont call or text when they stop that repulsive energy is cut off and they're attracted to you. If you think positive thoughts anyway, they'll gravitate towards you without you having to stop thinking about them. You just change the kind of energy flow from negative to positive by changing your thoughts.

  • @mildredchilo5499
    @mildredchilo5499 2 года назад +1

    I can't stop thinking of my crush I love him with the last drop of my blood.

  • @Mm-br8vp
    @Mm-br8vp 3 года назад +5

    Girl you gon make me cry

  • @Mm-br8vp
    @Mm-br8vp 3 года назад +4

    But you’re explaining exactly what I’m going through with this girl I like right now

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      Wishing you happiness and love Matt.

    • @Mm-br8vp
      @Mm-br8vp 3 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas thank you, you too god bless you! You are very wise

    • @Mm-br8vp
      @Mm-br8vp 3 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas Also I plan on continue to watch your videos , I am very shy from being bullied for being fat as a kid and I want to ask this girl to hang out she’s been giving me all the signs eye contact , positioning herself by me when I’m leaving gym . And I’ve been too shy to go up to her because I’m emotionally scarred. But can you please give me advice? I know she wants me and I want her but how do I overcome this shyness? I need to go say hey and get her number before she walks out of my life forever and Im left wondering what if? I can’t put myself through that need to act ? Please give me some advice I know you would have some great advice for me

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      @@Mm-br8vp I believe that this video can help you speak with her. ruclips.net/video/b314uNP25Co/видео.html

    • @Mm-br8vp
      @Mm-br8vp 3 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas thank you! I appreciate you you have no idea the help you are giving me

  • @K3D.
    @K3D. Год назад +2

    Story time: I was always that 'open minded' person, a person who doesn't judge others as much, learn new concept... Etc. I found a girl that I'm deeply intrested in, but unfortunately recently i found out that she have had a boyfriend back at her home country (we are both international university students) she is 4 years older than me, and from my perspective, I've known that her home country is more open minded towards age gap (i know this may come off as stereotyping but that's how we tend to generalize stuff) anyways, the main thing is that aside from her charm and persoanlity (a hardworker) I've loved the way she perceives things, she has a unique and a total 180 way of thinking than other people, so much that it stunned me, and while I'm talking to my mates, some things that really shouldn't be said outside, or even mentioned to other people, they were stunned too, (ofc they don't know her or see me hang around her much and I do respect her privacy) I am now really intrested in the different types of people and broadening my perspective of how different people have their own thought process and how they perceive things. Anyways sorry for wasting your time on my rant but I really would like some recommendations of videos or anything related to that if possible. ❤️🤍❤️🤍

  • @jefe2098
    @jefe2098 8 месяцев назад

    7 years here we still go out and have fun i feel more than friends she says not

  • @okiedokie4358
    @okiedokie4358 3 года назад +7

    It’s called obsessive thoughts

    • @frankovera7553
      @frankovera7553 3 года назад +1

      Love could be very obsessive, could it obsession just be love?

  • @vijisridhar2024
    @vijisridhar2024 3 года назад +9

    I really loved watching and listening to you a lot Ma'am! I have been literally thinking a lot more about a person subconsciously and can't stop myself from thinking too!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      I am so happy to hear that you enjoyed my video.
      Move your energy into your heart, your core and move forward with happiness and love.

  • @katherinegrace1255
    @katherinegrace1255 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Aliki, once again, a very thoughtful, helpful post on a difficult subject.

  • @aliyahb9509
    @aliyahb9509 3 года назад

    You really deserve a biggest community.

  • @SparkingLife111
    @SparkingLife111 3 года назад

    My boyfriends mother broke us up for good. She was relentless. He said he needs to move on with someone else bc he wants a clean slate and will not make the same mistakes moving forward. He will not let his mother interfere. I am feeling the separation of our energies after yrs being together.

  • @carolvevle8190
    @carolvevle8190 3 года назад

    In my case, I was in a long toxic marriage. My thoughts go onto him a lot less. He has caused some serious problems & I need to stay a head of his game. Thinking of him less, though, because I have gotten so busy, there's less time to dwell on him. A blessing, for sure!!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      Being busy can be helpful but it is not a lasting solution. The more you move your energy into your heart, your core, the more you move forward with happiness and love. May your most beautiful dreams come true.

  • @DanteGonzales.
    @DanteGonzales. 4 года назад +14

    Thank you for this 💚appreciate it!🎯

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +1

      You are so welcome Dante. Thank you for being here! ✨😊

  • @happihatela3278
    @happihatela3278 3 года назад +3

    Wooow so uplifting...I now know what to do in my current relationship.Thanks a lot.

  • @yamehnagasac6437
    @yamehnagasac6437 3 года назад +2

    I'm so happy to found your channel here. It helps me. Thanks 💞! More blessings 💝 to you!😘

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      I am also happy you found my channel! Thank you for being here. I wish you happiness and love! 💖✨

  • @A11-e1h
    @A11-e1h 3 года назад +2

    Thank you universe for showing this video when I need this most . And thank u Aliki 🙏

  • @mmmmmmmm323
    @mmmmmmmm323 3 года назад +2

    They think about me and stalk me. I only live my life never bothering anyone.

  • @andreabeech8201
    @andreabeech8201 Год назад

    I close my eyes and he's there I can't get him out of my head😩😩😩

  • @anthony-leesanchez6219
    @anthony-leesanchez6219 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much for sharing! you reminded me of this information and i feel like i’m slowly coming back to myself 😍 MUCH LOVE

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      I am so happy to hear that Anthony! Much love ✨💖

  • @jonathanleverdesigner
    @jonathanleverdesigner 3 года назад +3

    Aliki, your video just popped up on my video page. It hit a sweet spot as exactly what im experiencing. Thanks for your video 👍👍👍

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      You are so welcome Jonathan. Wishing you happiness and love in 2021.🙂✨

  • @mattgraham2835
    @mattgraham2835 4 месяца назад

    the stronger and powerful as the experience is taken somewhere that its suppossed to go transfer to the person that is manifest in create the stronger the connections comes in waves and glowing

  • @rayr7800
    @rayr7800 3 года назад +1

    There is a young lady I'm always thinking about and when I go around her I can't help myself I want to talk to her but the words won't come out my heart gets full this is driving me crazy

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      Move your energy into your heart, your core and you will know how to speak with her and express yourself. I explain how the energy works in this video: ruclips.net/video/3nU7IF_V5SE/видео.html Believe in you and move forward.

  • @jasguy2715
    @jasguy2715 2 года назад

    I just came across your video and I don't know how. I watched a few of them. You have some good thoughts and insights. I don't 100% agree with what you said here but I agree with a lot of what you did say. Overthinking about someone can be unhealthy for you and one knows that you need to give yourself a break. I don't agree to completely stop thinking of them because I think you can lose the connection if you do. at the same time, overthinking is not good either. I think that thinking of someone that is dear to you at healthy intervals and not constantly and relentlessly is necessary to keep a connection at least on your part. A connection that you do not wish to evaporate whether it is one-sided or not.

  • @judychaves1120
    @judychaves1120 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video I thought I was the only one who did this thought I was going crazy I think if him 24/7

  • @sheillasebbeda440
    @sheillasebbeda440 3 года назад +5

    The exact words I needed to hear...

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      I am so happy to hear that Sheilla. Wishing you happiness and love

  • @MASoulChild85
    @MASoulChild85 3 года назад +5

    Thank you so much. It was destiny I watched your video

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      Thank you and you are so welcome. Wishing you happiness and love.

  • @stevenkarris2927
    @stevenkarris2927 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you! This is the exact message the universe wanted me to hear.

  • @-dew82-96
    @-dew82-96 3 года назад +3

    Jeez! Ive been thinking of this person since 2017😖the day the we never said goodbye;we close the door in each others face instead...full of hate...

    • @-dew82-96
      @-dew82-96 3 года назад

      @John William im kinda sort this out after viewing this😃... im getting out of it, slowly though---gettin there😉thanks anyways😊

  • @Deen4Life11
    @Deen4Life11 2 года назад

    I truly don’t know what happend, but around new years eve he suddenly popped into my mind and I can`t stop. I think about texting him, but I cant build up the courage and I feel like the whole world says no.. He is 24/7 in my mind and I think about what its like to talk to him, what it would be like to date him and I cant control it, it drives me crazy..

  • @jazmynemoszee1902
    @jazmynemoszee1902 2 года назад +3

    You explained this really well 💛

  • @randyussery1738
    @randyussery1738 3 года назад

    Aliki, I hope you see this question. What does a person do or have to do to move the energy to your core next to us to avoid the loop you speak about? I have met this wonderful young lady and she is special to me. I don't want to push her away with such heavy energy? Does pulling the energy into your core really self confidence or confidence she will be there with you eventually?

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      I explain how you can do this in this video: ruclips.net/video/1OiX1KUrVYs/видео.html Also, I have created a playlist called Thinking About Someone with several videos that can help you understand how the energy works. The more you move into the happiness and love within you, this not only builds your confidence in you but in life.
      May your most beautiful dreams come true!

  • @elenamamais6047
    @elenamamais6047 3 года назад +1

    Αλίκη μου, thank you for this video. I am in turmoil and have been for months. I cannot stop feeling, thinking of this person and I have never met him in person. But intuitively I feel that I have known his energy from a past life or something to that effect. Sometimes it is so strong that i can actually feel him in my room. At times I get very mad and ask that energy to leave me alone that I will not allow him to enter but it is so strong - I cannot over come it. Am I going crazy or what? I want it to STOP because I believe it is stopping my twin flame from coming in. Plus it has stopped me from doing work that I need to attend to. I pray everyday for God to allow me to experience a true love because Ποτέ δεν ήξερα την αληθινή αγάπη. Thank you once again Aliki - you beautiful soul.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You are so welcome Elena. The way for you to move out of this is by moving your energy into your heart, your core. I have several videos in the playlist Thinking About Someone to help you with this. ruclips.net/video/1OiX1KUrVYs/видео.html in this video I explain how you can move your energy into your core. It takes practice and persistence to move forward fully, but once you do, the person who is truly meant to be at your side will be. May your most beautiful dreams come true Έλενα! Σου εύχομαι αγάπη και χαρά.

  • @therodriguezs781
    @therodriguezs781 3 года назад

    It's not all that bad though.
    If you can get to a point where you revisit certain things that trigger the thoughts and find that you feel quite differently than before, then you know you are winning. If the thinking is a negative thing anyway

  • @michaelstitt9726
    @michaelstitt9726 4 года назад +5

    They also say if u start thinking about someone or suddenly start is their thinkn of u to.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  4 года назад +6

      Yes, this is very often the case. Thank you for being here.

    • @michaelstitt9726
      @michaelstitt9726 4 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas sometimes I get a hard rush feeling shes near me that I can feel her sometimes vid clips

  • @garycordle5295
    @garycordle5295 3 года назад +3

    I was on a roller coaster ride to a cover narcissistic, I wouldn't wish that on anyone.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +2

      Yes, I wouldn't either. However, most of us have been or are in this type of situation. That is why it is so important to to move your energy deep into your core and stand in your power. I wish you happiness and love.

    • @garycordle5295
      @garycordle5295 3 года назад +1

      @@AlikiHoidas thank you

  • @Sweetnsassydee
    @Sweetnsassydee 2 года назад +1

    I think since he has never done anything bad to me or even able to, I’m not able to find a good way to keep him off my mind. Or it could just be voodoo for real. Why else would I be so stuck on someone like never before. I feel like we are a lot in common like 90% but the other 10% of traits seem to be the complete opposite in the worse way that’s why I don’t want to want him. I want to find a way to never think about him and move on especially since the last 2 people I only dated to try to think about someone else. It didn’t even work. He’s not even doing anything to make me think of him so that bothers me even more since I’m stuck for no reason. It upsets me. We have never messed around so it’s not a sexual soul tie. What the hell is it? Maybe they have voodoo on me. I was dating this guy and I still couldn’t get “him” off my mind until the point I told the guy I was dating we can’t be together. I just felt bad dating someone but wishing he was the other guy. The guy I was dating ended up hurting me physically since I stopped dating him randomly and out of nowhere. It’s been over a year and I’m dating someone else and I still think of him. Now once again I just broke up with Someone else because of this bull crap. I left her because I feel so wrong dating anyone but thinking of & dreaming of someone else. I thought dating would
    Help me move on but I end up feeling bad since it doesn’t work. I can’t wait until I get over this. I just feel dumb about it all. I have no reason to be thinking about this person. I’m just going to stay single until I’m over them. This feels so unhealthy man. It sucks.

  • @faun_fatale
    @faun_fatale 3 года назад +1

    It's almost embarrassing. I often think about this person I don't even know that well... Years ago it got obsessive. It got better, though. I was able to see people and live my life. It came back in quarantine.
    I don't even want to talk about it anymore, because I don't wanna look crazy. :/
    What is it about them, I really can't tell.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      It's usually something you saw that you connected with. Move your energy into your heart, your core and look at the energy. See what it is showing you and once you understand it, you can release it.
      Keep moving forward with happiness and love.

    • @faun_fatale
      @faun_fatale 3 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas thank you, I will meditate on it later :)

  • @stacijohnson8444
    @stacijohnson8444 3 года назад +3

    Amazing video, thank you for explaining this. ❤️

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You're welcome Staci. 💖✨Wishing you happiness and love

  • @purplishgems
    @purplishgems 3 года назад +1

    Very well explained! So much clarity.

  • @jennyparker6934
    @jennyparker6934 Год назад

    She is absolutely truth need to act myself more protective and is very important to me

  • @deebaahmed4304
    @deebaahmed4304 3 года назад

    Aliki ,
    thank you for this video.
    It has opened my eyes to see whats important. I am thinking too much and it makes sense to save your energy in your heart.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You are so welcome. Yes, your heart energy is truly expansive and transformational. I wish you happiness and love!

  • @easypeasylifehacks
    @easypeasylifehacks Год назад +1

    While watching this video i was still thinking about someone and I couldn't focus here wth am i supposed to do

  • @MDean888
    @MDean888 3 года назад +2

    Aliki, Thanks For The Knowledge...You open My New Awareness Abt Relationships...Thanks Again...May God or Universe Bless You...
    😘😘😘

  • @mimiltakes
    @mimiltakes 3 года назад +5

    Love it.. the right time I watched this..

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад

      I am so happy to hear this. Wishing you happiness and love.

  • @Guardia.168
    @Guardia.168 2 года назад

    thanks so much ! It is truly helpful to me now. Your consultation is so meaningful, thoughtful deeply and beautiful 🙏

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  2 года назад

      You are so very welcome Henry. i wish you happiness and love.

  • @ifouziya
    @ifouziya Год назад

    Finally i got a useful video abt this matter👍thanku❤️

  • @22soldier22
    @22soldier22 3 года назад

    I haven't been in love for a very long time. But i can't stop dreaming about her. She came so close that it scares me..

  • @hayatdevamediyor4931
    @hayatdevamediyor4931 3 года назад +3

    I just needed that ,, thank you for this message !!!!!😘😘😘

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You are so welcome Roha. Wishing you happiness and love! 💖✨

    • @jollyscaria1922
      @jollyscaria1922 2 года назад

      I dont car man making bad mind my show my bed come famliey come and what is mood ??why self car

  • @icysnow57cold64
    @icysnow57cold64 3 года назад +2

    I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
    Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance.
    I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse.
    People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

  • @jamiecee4960
    @jamiecee4960 3 года назад

    I want to do things with them. And experience things with them. I haven't stopped thinking of him since I met him. I hope he feels me thinking of him. We did connect.

  • @MayBee3240
    @MayBee3240 3 года назад +1

    I've been thinking about someone,but he's ignoring me..no more texts & calls from him. It really hurts me but i don't want to move on coz i strongly blieve he'll be back...will he be back?

  • @DrazinMalfoy
    @DrazinMalfoy Месяц назад

    i think about my partner but idk if she’s thinking about me as much i am about her

  • @stevet4064
    @stevet4064 2 года назад +1

    I so want to stop thinking about her. I'll l always love her, but do want her out of my thought at least for a while. Is it because she's thinking of me? I told her I was moving on with my life 5 months ago. And I've tried. But it's too powerful for some reason.

  • @vanillalee9473
    @vanillalee9473 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for your explained. I really need this.

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You are so welcome! Wishing you happiness!

  • @VJNIKS
    @VJNIKS 3 года назад +2

    Thank you ✌️ that was great to listen and understand. I too had felt this before that does I have to constantly think about someone to be able to get someone in my life thinking that we are connected. This made me clear that what my intuition told me about was that it's not always necessary. Other thing I learnt is that creates a disturbed energy around me which drows people away. When I am with myself I should be doing my thing and when I am with the person or when she or he is available I need to there completely so I can connect with them fully. I do get lost in overwhelming thoughts.

    • @VJNIKS
      @VJNIKS 3 года назад +1

      Another thing is... Your smile is cute 😁

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      You're welcome! Yes, the more you focus your energy into your heart and allow the other person to have clarity, the more you are able to move forward with happiness and love.
      May your most beautiful dreams come true!

    • @AlikiHoidas
      @AlikiHoidas  3 года назад +1

      Thank you ✨😁

    • @chin-sunvlogs8007
      @chin-sunvlogs8007 2 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas ❤️❤️❤️

    • @chin-sunvlogs8007
      @chin-sunvlogs8007 2 года назад

      @@AlikiHoidas I always dreamed almost every night almost 5 years ago, I don't know why this is always what, what should I do?

  • @kaneezfatma931
    @kaneezfatma931 11 месяцев назад

    Lovely explanation..Thank you so much ❤