STOP SAYING UM, AH, ER, LIKE... | Avoid Using Fillers for Effective Speaking

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  • Опубликовано: 20 дек 2024

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  • @yashareivazi8699
    @yashareivazi8699 3 года назад +7

    I really liked the comparison parts, they really showed me how much big of a difference could be made using pauses instead of crutch words.
    As you know, I use a lot of 'you know' in my speech 😅 and I really try to avoid that, but as you said it's sometimes good and natural to use fillers.
    Thanks for the lesson and I hope you have a wonderful new year with a lot of good things happening for you and your family.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Great to hear from you, Yashar! You've done the fist step in identifying the crutch phrase. And then just keep trying to avoid this. I've gone through this myself over the years. I also went through a period of using "you know" a bit too much. But noticing it helped me stop it. 👍

  • @juanfran579
    @juanfran579 3 года назад +1

    I teach my students to use fillers conscienciously and on purpose in order to gain control, speed up and feel more confident. Expressions like "well" and an "emm" here and there can be useful and natural. I agree as far as the repetitive use of standard expressions ist concerned, such as "sort of", " you know" as something automatic.

  • @michelelima1078
    @michelelima1078 3 года назад +3

    Avoid fillers seems really hard at the first time speaking English, but I know it is important to avoid fillers while I speak would be awesome. I'll work on it. Thanks so much for this video!!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for commenting & sharing with us. 👍

  • @aprendainglesozinho
    @aprendainglesozinho 3 года назад +7

    Loved the movie part, especially the voice over. 🇧🇷

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +3

      Thanks! That was my best Mel Gibson impression. 😂

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans Год назад +1

      ikr i scream cry watching that 😭

  • @Aerosmith77
    @Aerosmith77 3 года назад +3

    Thank you for this lesson. First I thought what an ordinary topic you choose during the holidays, but seeing Mel Gibson, I realized this is the most important. Like making mistakes in writing is okay if we take notes but if we write an essay as a presentation, grammatical mistakes can make us to seem uneducated. Happy New Year!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for checking out the lesson Judit. Have a Happy New Year! 🥳

    • @Aerosmith77
      @Aerosmith77 3 года назад

      yw, thanks

  • @konekokat3897
    @konekokat3897 3 года назад +2

    I TOTALLY AGREE ... BECAUSE IT IS REALLY UNPLEASANT TO HEAR SOMEONE SAY UMM AR EE TERRIBLE ...... THANK YOU TEACHER GREAT LESSON !!!!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the lesson! Thanks for commenting. 👍

  • @xyzoub
    @xyzoub 2 года назад +1

    The best way to stop using fillers is to listen to speakers who don’t use them. Thanks for the video

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  2 года назад

      Thanks for checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @wintthirishwe5479
    @wintthirishwe5479 3 года назад +1

    A great lesson! Although i have a liitle speaking practice in my daily life, i usually use these fillers without notice. So i have to try to avoid them from now. Thanks so much and happy new year, teachers😍

  • @casdoorcasdooor3117
    @casdoorcasdooor3117 3 года назад +1

    it's a pleasure to get a notification from you

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      That's great! Thanks for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @stevengerrad6590
    @stevengerrad6590 3 года назад +1

    Lesson is utterly amazing. Thanks a bunch.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad to hear that! Thanks for your comment. 😃

  • @InteractiveEng
    @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +4

    Would you like more speaking practice? Do you want to speak with me? Check out my speaking course. 🎉
    👉 bit.ly/Join_Speak_Up

    • @YukiKunikida
      @YukiKunikida 2 года назад

      Hi, I'd love to join the class, but I saw it has already started on January, when is going to be the next enrollment period? Ty!

  • @jaimesilvaf.401
    @jaimesilvaf.401 3 года назад +1

    Good topic! I've to recognize that I find it difficult to avoid using these fillers. I'll have to work on it.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @zehraal-hadi9195
    @zehraal-hadi9195 3 года назад +1

    Lesson was awesome, thanks a lot

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Glad to hear that! Thanks for commenting. 👍

  • @ossital1808
    @ossital1808 3 года назад +1

    thanks, Happy New Year!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Same to you! Thanks so much for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @lorens6003
    @lorens6003 2 года назад +1

    This was so funny 😂
    Thanks for this

  • @tombrady3086
    @tombrady3086 Год назад +2

    My dad used to stop me if I said ‘um or er’. He would say ‘if you aren’t sure about what you’re saying, I don’t have time for it’. Possibly a little harsh when dealing with a child, but I don’t use these fillers today.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  Год назад

      Thanks for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @RPITOMBO70
    @RPITOMBO70 3 года назад +1

    Congrats for this useful video!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad you think so! Thanks for your comment. 😊

  • @loredanatagliaferri5339
    @loredanatagliaferri5339 3 года назад +1

    Sooo useful! Thanks!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Glad you think so! Thanks for your comment. 😊

  • @ClaudineL
    @ClaudineL 3 года назад +1

    Really appreciate these tips!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      So glad! Thanks so much for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @zeinabsleman2918
    @zeinabsleman2918 3 года назад +4

    Haha!😂 I really loved the example of Mel Gibson, the original and the fake one😅 thanks so much for this lesson. Happy new year Wes to you and your family❤

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed it! Happy New Year to you too! 😃

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans Год назад

      this lives rent free in my brain

  • @imanemahou3062
    @imanemahou3062 3 года назад +1

    very intersting keep going and happy new year from morocco

  • @lindajacquelinenunezrivera6345
    @lindajacquelinenunezrivera6345 4 месяца назад

    hahhaa you made my day with movie video, funny example and definitely a huge difference on both speeches

  • @sunvaj6754
    @sunvaj6754 Месяц назад

    This is a great information! Thanks.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  Месяц назад

      Glad it was helpful! Thanks so much for your comment. 🤗

  • @ligiasommers
    @ligiasommers 3 года назад +1

    Very helpful, thank you 🙏🏻

  • @mira8755
    @mira8755 3 года назад +1

    😂😂 really pauses make you more confident .
    Please we need a video for words which are similar like " thing , issue , matter , important " and so many words so 🌻

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for checking out the lesson. I'll keep your suggestion in mind. 👍

  • @leoneljoseoropezavasquez7609
    @leoneljoseoropezavasquez7609 3 года назад +2

    One day I realized I used 'um' A LOT! Then I told myself: Myself, you should stop using that. It was a little difficult, but I did it.
    Thanks, Wes! Now I understand more about fillers. I really enjoyed this lesson. (The movie part) 🤣

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed the lesson. Thanks for sharing!! This has also happened to me. Years ago I said "you know" quite often. After realizing it, I was able to catch myself and slowly change. 😊

  • @羅天宇-g7i
    @羅天宇-g7i 3 года назад +1

    I totally agree with you.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @lpko6592
    @lpko6592 2 года назад +1

    Thank you🌸🙇🏼‍♀️🌺

  • @chuchelka
    @chuchelka 3 года назад +1

    Hello! Grat video, thanks!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      So nice of you. Thanks for checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @valterraj3316
    @valterraj3316 9 месяцев назад

    The example is simply superb

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  9 месяцев назад

      Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for commenting. 🤗

  • @codiethompson3401
    @codiethompson3401 Год назад

    Great information here.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  Год назад

      Glad to hear that! Thanks for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @malik7221
    @malik7221 3 года назад +1

    Hello sir. This was a really useful lesson. Because of these lessons I am very confident that one day I will be speaking and understanding like a native English speaker. I also have a little question, hope you won't mind asking me it. I had given a application for the transfer of my car title but it was refused and on it was written that my application has been regretted.what does word regret means in this context? Is it a typo or does word regret has more than one meaning?

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks for checking out the lesson. I've never heard of an application being "regretted." It may have been a mistake and they meant to say "rejected." 🤔

  • @QueenMotherxx
    @QueenMotherxx 17 дней назад

    Thank you so so much for this!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  17 дней назад

      Glad it was helpful! Thanks for your comment. 🤗

  • @zakariaomer17
    @zakariaomer17 3 года назад +1

    Thank so much

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Most welcome. Glad you enjoyed the lesson. 👍

  • @pppjyo
    @pppjyo 3 года назад +2

    Very useful video! 👌 💐 🌹 🌸 🏵 🌼 💐

  • @sandymakesplans
    @sandymakesplans Год назад +2

    i return to 5:28 regularly for a good ego boost and intellectual laugh 😂😭😭😭

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  Год назад +1

      Glad you enjoy it. 😊

    • @sandymakesplans
      @sandymakesplans Год назад

      @@InteractiveEng definitely, it's never too late to make it a short either

  • @theottomanemperor1767
    @theottomanemperor1767 3 года назад +2

    Thank you very much sir.
    Sir I would like to ask you regarding sentence, how to make a long sentence like News paper please this type of video.
    I'm Zubair Al mahmud from Bangladesh.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Good question. Here's a lesson you may find helpful: ruclips.net/video/oLX7oyZB5Ng/видео.html 👍

  • @Fabio2009able
    @Fabio2009able 3 года назад +1

    I am a non native fluent English speaker. How are your classes going to be separeted by levels?

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  2 года назад

      The classes are not separated by levels. The course is for intermediate to advanced speakers, so it's a little bit of mix. For more info, you can check out the course page: bit.ly/Join_Speak_Up 👍

  • @clarissalavaughn5714
    @clarissalavaughn5714 2 года назад +1

    But they'll never take ummm OUR FREEDOMMMM 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    I'm here because of the excessive use of fillers that I poured out as a guest on someone's podcast 😭😭😭😭😭🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ thanks for this lesson

  • @siddharthchavali4614
    @siddharthchavali4614 3 года назад +1

    Thanks !!!

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Most welcome. Glad you enjoyed the lesson. 👍

    • @siddharthchavali4614
      @siddharthchavali4614 3 года назад

      @@InteractiveEng My dad always criticizes whenever I use those filler words. Sometimes more I look for words inside my head the less I find them and I end up using the filler word "Ahhhh" and the conversation looses it's momentum.

  • @kapitulyanti9729
    @kapitulyanti9729 3 года назад +2

    5:48 brilliant haha)

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks for commenting & checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @hamail8662
    @hamail8662 3 года назад +1

    Thank u Wess

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the lesson. Thanks so much for your comment. 😃

  • @mawa7228
    @mawa7228 3 года назад +1

    Thank u 🌺

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      You’re welcome. Glad you enjoyed the lesson. 😊

  • @user-hp9ei9xd8e
    @user-hp9ei9xd8e 3 года назад

    Não sei se concordei ou se confirmei algo sem ler , quando da entrada na página.

  • @EmadJasimKareem
    @EmadJasimKareem 2 года назад +1

    What about the overuse of "And" is it considered a filler too?

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  2 года назад +1

      Yes, some may also use that as a filler. Thanks for checking out the lesson. 👍

  • @ThiagoRodrigues-il8vs
    @ThiagoRodrigues-il8vs 3 года назад +2

    I keep imagining myself getting to an English-speaking country, right in the airport. I would be so nervous, so afraid of making mistakes. I would probably use many fillers during my speech. In fact, I use fillers even in my own language. As some poets say, words are many, thousands, millions, countless. I am only one person. I get lost trying to choose just some of them.
    Bye bye!!

    • @chuchelka
      @chuchelka 3 года назад +1

      Hello, Thiago!! That's Ok to use fillers and to make mistakes. If you don't make mistakes you don't learn! Good luck to you and happy new year!

  • @adityajaiswal6082
    @adityajaiswal6082 3 года назад +1

    Grateful 🐨🌼

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the lesson. Thanks so much for your comment. 😃

  • @AwesomeOnlineNetworks
    @AwesomeOnlineNetworks Год назад

    Skip to the main part 6:08

  • @ariohandoyo5973
    @ariohandoyo5973 3 года назад +1

    Your words reminds me of it, i do use fillers sometimes coz i'm comfused what sentence should i say.😂

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks for commenting & checking out today's lesson. 👍

  • @albertoshernandez5251
    @albertoshernandez5251 3 года назад +1

    In many languages people use fillers when they're talking, but some people they use it too much, and it's stressful to hear them talking. 😣.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for commenting & sharing with us. 👍

    • @albertoshernandez5251
      @albertoshernandez5251 3 года назад

      @@InteractiveEng it's a big pleasure to have a comment in your videos..happy new year teacher, and your family as well...👍🏻🇬🇹

  • @anne-zoehsu9336
    @anne-zoehsu9336 3 года назад +1

    Tks👍🌹

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks Anne. Glad you enjoyed the lesson. 😃

  • @TheJoesWorld
    @TheJoesWorld 3 года назад +2

    My favorite filler is (LIKE) 🤧😆 Just can't talk without that... Dang, can anybody...?? 😉 Happy New Year, Wes! 🎉🎄

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Thanks for commenting & sharing with us Yury! Happy New Year to you too! 👍

  • @funnybunny1408
    @funnybunny1408 3 года назад +1

    At first I thought you forget the title of the video when you said this lesson is about.....umm,uh🤣

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      LOL...that has happened before but I edit those parts out. 😂

  • @RyngKatBaDPhiTogetherwithYou
    @RyngKatBaDPhiTogetherwithYou 3 года назад +1

    Great content but speak 22 means money. Heck, No! the YTC watch time given is already helpful to us. Thank you Sir.

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Glad you enjoyed the lesson. Thanks for your comment. 😃

  • @paulsolon6229
    @paulsolon6229 4 месяца назад

    No, wrong comment by speaker
    People don’t use fillers b c lose thought etc etc
    But b c they are unsure what they think, they don’t really know what their opinion is, thus they say uhm aah like.
    They have nothing to say and they say it
    And wrong comment again about ok in informal conversation: then you get into habit of disfluency. B c that’s 98% of our talking.
    2% we speak in public. Thus, practice your talking during the day.
    Self awareness

  • @VickiBee
    @VickiBee 3 года назад

    From Gustav, Alert: lntense comment. might sound like a rant; Vicki said my issue with judgment and Americans being Elitist these days is "the worst I've seen in 50 years."
    Why do we have to agree with everything you say? We're never ALLOWED to have a different opinion & I thought Americans WANTED to have different opinions.
    Vicki'ed friend, Shannan Watts won 2 awards in advertising presentations she did for her company, She won awards and paid vacations to Punta Cana and the Caribbean because of the two ads that earned them lots of money.
    She said um and uh the whole time in two videos and won vacations & a Lexus. Le Vel, her company, cares more that she made LOTS of money for them and don't care about her language. It confuses me. Why can't you have both a good presentation that makes money? Vicki wonders that.
    That seems like the only gd thing they care about in English-speaking countries and I'm SICK of being spitted on because I won't place family below making money.
    Companies try to force you to "value overtime" even if it kills you getting there.
    I don't care how much they like money, but all their JUDGEMENTS of me because I don't think like them has to go.
    I'm allowed to have a different opinion than someone else without being make fun of because of it.

    • @VickiBee
      @VickiBee 3 года назад

      I don't mean it to be a rant. I'm gestresst too. Gestresst = stressed out

    • @VickiBee
      @VickiBee 3 года назад

      From Vicki: His boss told him he needs to place work above family because "work is what pays for you to afford a family."
      His boss's wife isn't thrilled with him right now.

  • @franciscojavierveracardena6578
    @franciscojavierveracardena6578 3 года назад +1

    Is fillers or fillets?

  • @johnlomi
    @johnlomi 3 года назад +1

    I don't understand.
    Isn't it part of sound like native English speaker?

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад +1

      Yes, it's natural. But you want to avoid them with effective speaking (presentations, speeches, etc). You also don't want to overuse them, which sometimes happens if learners have trouble finding the right words. 👍

    • @johnlomi
      @johnlomi 3 года назад

      @@InteractiveEng Thank you,Wes. I got the point.
      Happy holiday from Indonesia.

  • @Basstroutfishing
    @Basstroutfishing Год назад

    Use the cawwwd..

  • @rui2565
    @rui2565 3 года назад +1

    I hate uh huh

    • @InteractiveEng
      @InteractiveEng  3 года назад

      Thanks for commenting & sharing with us. 👍

  • @НуржаннаСеверная
    @НуржаннаСеверная 3 года назад

    By the way, Mr.Teacher! You say " umm" a looottt. 🙄 Rewatch some yr videos and you'll see.

  • @serenesoul775
    @serenesoul775 3 года назад

    I request you not to show shocking reactions on your face in Thumbnail. Please!

  • @paulsolon6229
    @paulsolon6229 4 месяца назад

    No, wrong comment by speaker
    People don’t use fillers b c lose thought etc etc
    But b c they are unsure what they think, they don’t really know what their opinion is, thus they say uhm aah like.
    They have nothing to say and they say it
    And wrong comment again about ok in informal conversation: then you get into habit of disfluency. B c that’s 98% of our talking.
    2% we speak in public. Thus, practice your talking during the day.
    Self awareness