@@moorechristopher873 EVERY woman says I only cheated because you did. Now if that's what you wanna believe I have a bridge in Brooklyn I wanna sell you. That ex is on stanby whenever that woman wants him and if you think if only when that dude messes up you crazy. I'm glad he admitted he needed to get himself together before he considered getting back with her.
@@moorechristopher873 oh please! that's a weak excuse that changes nothing about the truth in the doubt of the paternity. There is there no man on this earth that can make me stoop to that level, if it is against my morals and character to do so. She wanted to cheat, just like he does, she just uses his cheating as an excuse to get away with hers. except oops now a baby is brought into the mix and because we know who the mother is, the father is filled with every viable reason to doubt. That man owned up to his faults (while seemingly doing nothing to change it) while she did nothing but blame him for her choices as a grown a$$ independent woman. doing nothing but making excuses for a woman who could very simply walk away from a cheater but chooses to cheat to "get even". Cheating is still cheating no matter the reason. They're both cheaters.
@@moorechristopher873Silly comment! Men are not the ones that end up pregnant not knowing who their baby father is! She should have kept her legs closed or used protection
That second case... that young woman was so broken... those sobs were truly the sounds of a shattered soul. God bless her...she deserves a quick prayer.
Why was this last father did not hug his daughter after it was a nnounce that he was the father. He said he was glad but he did not show it. Anybody else notice that?.
This first couple needs to break up. The girlfriend seems to love the chaos. She basically said she's waiting for HIM to cheat again so she can call her EX to cheat with HIM. They need to stop having kids and take a break from each other and just coparent.
And she said no matter what the results is he still going to take care of her and a baby that’s not his if the results come back saying that he’s not the father. She’s not even thinking about how hurt he’s going to be if the baby not his.
My mom did that to me It hurts so bad, till now i don't know Who is my father, the person she put on my birth certificate is not my father! I'am struggling with depression and i don't feel like living I am 24 years old, and my life just doesn't make any sense at all! I am so lost
@@madge397 so sad! My dad got with a woman when I was younger and they had a son who looks exactly like him and me and I’m not saying my dad did good in the relationship, he was really messed up, but she now refuses to tell my brother who his dad is, in fact, she put her husbands name on the birth certificate and he’s a white man my brother is mixed. it’s been very difficult because I can’t even get in contact with him. If there comes, any chance where I can get into contact with him, I’m just waiting at this point. I hope your family is doing the same. I hope God guides your path together. ❤️
Second case: it's amazing how the man or the father is always portrayed to be the vilain even though it is clear the mother was messed up. he did everything to take care of the mother and her kids but he literally had to battle to vindicate his image in court. This society is messed up
Because , in these cases, the mothers always lie and tell the kids how bad their fathers were, and kids grow up believing that. She said she was told a different story, how bad the father was. And that is what mothers do, just to make themselves look like super heroes to the kids.
First case: the man says he is tired of her lies, but cheating on her is hardly a sign that he himself is straightforward. He is right that he has to get his own act together.
My heart goes out to the children. They having babies like changing their underwear. I wish they thought of the children before bringing them into the world.
@@Novakane78 because they never hold the women accountable for their own actions and choices. She has to get it together too and stop blaming him for the choices she makes.
That’s because it’s emotionally easier to have an absent father than a narcissistic mother. It’s also harder being mad at the dead when you are in grief. It’s easier to scream at the living than someone you’re in grief over losing. The girl needs to be in intense therapy. Especially since she was in foster and that obviously left damage.
@@gooddogtalksthat is opposite of my experience. It was always my mother that was there, even when it was hard. My father was in the military and in and out every other year. By time I was in 4th grade, I would have preferred that he didn't come back. We were poorer when he was gone, but the world didn't revolve around him like when he was home. It was like a stranger butting in every other year. He would come in and take over. Supposedly we were close when I was a little kid, but I don't remember that. I totally understand why kids give their mothers more leeway, it's because that is who is there for them, even if they are less than perfect. Fathers walk away if they are inconvenienced. You can't trust them.
@@kadebebesis4204 so true. No matter how I express my unconditional love for my son. I still became his target. I think it's because I'm relevant in his life. Where as his father being decease and absent prior to his departure. My son had nothing tangible to Blame his father for. So as an adult and parent it's expected to bear that cross. Only because the WORLD VIEW from the eyes of a child is different from the lense of an adult. Constant communication, attentive listener, receptive to the truth ,conditioning and just getting to the root. Is all one can do for healing. Also my grandmother's kids resent her for the way she disciplined and how she expressed the kind of men they should date. I had to explain to these now adults that their mother was raised in a time that men ruled, beat women, and kept them pregnant. MY grandmother escaped that life with no education. Moved to the U.S with 5 kids. She had explained to me her world view was the segregation of various colored children be treated differently. Which was one reason why she was opposed to her children dating dark skinned men. I shared this story. Because without being receptive to the idea of listening to an individuals life choices and what molded them. We would never overstand the love of history. Thank you for sharing your experience.
2nd case... when you open Pandora's box, you find out things you may not want to know. Sad but why blame one not both parents. Why the other family members get them before foster care got involved? So many questions, not enough answers. Very sad 😢
My heart goes out to you, Judge Lake, losing a parent you have had all your life and loved so long...it hurts as deeply. Your memories of your parents and their spirit's will be with you always...😉
My heartfelt condolences to our dear Judge Lake, may u and your dear beloved family find solace in the Lord Jesus and may dad's dear soul rest in eternal peace
My Family and I are so happy, Thanks to all of you. your prayers and condolences on the passing of my mom were so touching. Me and my family couldn't be more happier than we thought. Rest in Paradise Mommy, We Love and Miss you So Much 1971-2023
People are trained in our society to always blame the father over the mother in almost every circumstance. They're conditioned to think of women as the victims, and men as the victimizers. Very unfortunate but true.
Trauma. Some kids cling to the parent that was there others like myself cling to the one the one that wasn't. I'm just now at 31 repairing the relationship with my mother who wasn't necessarily kind to me but was present & have chosen for my own peace of mind to go no contact with my father who i use to put in a pedalstool. It really depends. She could have respect for her mother for giving her up knowing that she couldn't do better for her children. When you're deprived of the bare minimum when it comes to love from your parent a crumb of attention seems like a grand gesture.
The second case: I get she desperately wanted the guy to be the dad but her mum and her mum's family are the ones who did her WRONG. Don't know why she was even angry at the guy when the grandma took her back cause she didn't get the benefits she wanted from having her out if foster care. She is angry with the wrong person. The guy she was alleging to be the dad seems like a decent guy. He really does.
In the 3rd case, I have lupus. No family history. I’m so happy he is her dad. They look alike and he seems sweet, so does she. The mom too. She did right by her daughter because she saw him in her daughter. ❤
Her mom is bad to leave her in foster care. And have her dad arrested and banned from seeing her. Did she not listen? Why did her family, grandma etc not have her and leave her in foster care? Mom had him arrested when he came back for leave from army. Mom is to blame. Those kids are blaming wrong person. Mom threw them away into foster care as did grandma etc. Mom slept around. Mom threw possible dad's away. They need to grow up.
Exactly she’s not holding who she needs to accountable you mom left you in the system and only saw you twice and you blame the father that’s not even the father
2nd case why is that girl all about blaming the man? what about her useless Mother ?she was the one who should've taken care of her and instead left her in care or at her Grandmothers. That man did enough for the kids and needed to get away.
To the second story. He isn’t making your Mom look bad, your Mom made herself look bad by acting that way. He’s reciting facts, not lies. Also asking someone “why didn’t you leave them if they were so bad,” is something you NEVER say to any victim of domestic abuse. My Mom was stuck with my Dad for 10 years before she finally got things set up to be able to leave him.
*First case: HE CLEARLY DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH HER… AND HAS LIKELY MOVED ON WITH SOMEONE ELSE…. that’s why he’s acting like this. It’s sad, because she’s stuck raising 3 of his children. SMH. I would never continue to sit up there and have baby after baby while in a toxic relationship… she played herself. I wish her healing and the strength to move on.* ❤
No he had MULTIPLE reasons to act like that. She keeps playing herself at the same time sitting here saying he’s still gonna be with me. She’s toxic and he’s toxic. It’s a whole mess!
Yeah, she Wildin' and is Not deserving of any Man right now, especially as she so clearly stated that the "Ex" is on the back burner for the next time Mr Man messes up ..she is clearly Not ready for a Real Relationship ..Kudos to the Gentleman for His sincere apology and for acknowledging that He has to get His stuff together ..He is a Real Man !!!
Lauren Lake, Me and my family want to give our massive prayers and condolences to you and your family on the passing of your father. My Mom Passed Away 2 months ago in the hospital. I hope you give your condolences to my family and me.
@@johndecelien did you post for judge lake or to get sympathy for you? I get the troll posted to see where your heart resided and you showed your hand.
“We don’t know if the egg came before the chicken or the chicken came before the egg, we just know we’re fried” hahaha I gotta say Judge Lake’s one liners and quips are epic 😂
She was so angry at the nice man and not her mom. I believed him all along. Her personality is possibly of her mother. That man who wasn't her dad seemed to be a just a nice guy who tried to help a woman with kids.
2nd case. Oh my my my😢. She is so precious, I know your heartbreak. Please learn the lesson I had too. I am parent less & family less other than my kids. Even if we never had a father here we have a heavenly father. Who loves us 🖤
I thought she was going to stick to her story of " using protection with her ex." But, then she justified that she knows with her heart and child features.
i am so grateful to have both of my parents, it breaks my heart that people like Ms.McCraw have to go through this i really hope she finds her father. I wish young men and women could understand how truly important it means to have a mother and a father and how life without them is something i couldn’t ever imagine. The second case just breaks my heart and i wish that whoever is going through something similar should know that it’s never there fault and they shouldn’t blame themselves ever. when i have my kids i will make sure that their life is amazing, and teach them that there’s nothing more beautiful than knowing you have a mother and father who love and adore you.
That second case had me a little teary-eyed. That woman was so distraught. And I'm curious if the brother was his son or not? Mothers need to do better for their kids. I think sometimes some of us want to save face and some are just selfish liars but at the end of the day, once youre a mom your kids come FIRST. Especially when theyre little. The foster care system is overloaded and has been for a very long time. And when it comes to Black and Brown kids, its alot harder to find people to adopt them. We also dont have enough Black and Brown people as foster parents and that's so important. Im curious as to why the mother's family didnt take the kids in. Im not judging. I know from personal experience that sometimes family just cant take on kids. Im just wondering what the situation was. I hope she's able to find her father.
It’s possible the mother’s family was unable to for many different reasons from them not wanting to not being financially stable to the amount of children they already had
It's sad that she blames the "father" when she could experience the truth about the mom, and its hard to believe him when she did the same to her own kids
Judge lake my condolences to you on your dad's passing prayers sent &stay uplifted I k how it feels & to the family who lost their mom condolences to youall as well. I'm sorry for both.of the losses
My sister and I, and my daughter all have autoimmune disease. My daughter has Lupus. Neither my mother, nor my father has autoimmune disease. It can be hereditary, but it isn't necessarily so.
First case they need to stop the revenge cheating. And he needs to just admit that he doesn't want to be with her. He seems to have been looking for a reason to get out of the relationship. First it was her cheating and lying then it turned to them needing to work on things
If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸
In the 2nd case...i will never understand how the mothers are continually let off the hook, then they go after the potential father as if its his fault....that man is a great man to still try to stick by that woman and her children, and it was a blessing that he left and hopefully had children of his own because that was a good man to have kids with 🎉
If you don't want to have to tell your kids that then maybe you shouldn't have done it. If he is cheating, leave. You're gonna gamble with your life and body? And now you have to deal with this.
No one has any disease in a family until someone does have it.... you could be the first, you can get it on your own... no one in my family had cancer until my mama had cancer.... c'mon
I wish she would stop saying she’s a nurse and making statements like that! She should know that that lupus may or may not be genetic, it doesn’t have to come from a parent either!
He's not making your mom look like a bad person, she made herself look bad. He is just relaying a true memory in court where he's sworn to tell the truth. You never heard the story before because he wasn't swearing to disclose the truth, that was likely done to protect you & your siblings.
"If you must cheat"? You do know that cheating by the lady (female promiscuity) is literally why paternity court exists right? As the saying goes, "Mama's baby Papa's Maybe." So no. Bad advice. Just don't cheat!
Second case:😢😢i feel sorry for the daughter for real it's soo hard thinking someone is your dad yetthey are not i cried so hard😭😭😭and the man was so cool i love him🥰 On the other hand Judge Lauren Lake may Allah strengthen you my dia🤲 so sorry for your loss my love 😢
Not in the old days fathers didn't sign. In Canada no father signs anything. Birth certificates aren't done in the hospital. You send away for them to the govt. You just get a birth registration card with baby and mom name. My son was 12 before I sent for his birth certificate and I never put father on yet father was ordered child support because he wanted visitation.
Same where I live. The husband is the father, the end. Getting out of it is a circus and if the mother works against you, 50/50 tough luck. If you didnt do it in 1 year of finding out, sucks to be you. If you didnt do it before the kid turns 4 (going by first court date, not date of filing!), sucks to be you. Getting engaged to or married to a woman that you reasonably could have or should have known to be pregnant equals adoption, where you knowingly take the chance to raise another mans baby. No way no how you get out of that one. Trust me on this.
Yeah, she Wildin' and is Not deserving of any Man right now, especially as she so clearly stated that the "Ex" is on the back burner for the next time Mr Man messes up ..she is clearly Not ready for a Real Relationship ..Kudos to the Gentleman for His sincere apology and for acknowledging that He has to get His stuff together ..He is a Real Man !!!
What a horrible person the last woman is. She keeps on cheating while in a relationship. She is an absolute evil person for using such a wonderful man. All three kids, not his! It's heartbreaking!! I hope he leaves her and moves on with his life. He deserves away better than this ice-woman. Eventually, she'll kick him out when she no longer needs him 😢
About the last case, I love how professional, educated, well-mannered and respectful the daughter is towards her parents. Even though there's a case between them she remained loving, respectful towards them. I have watched many cases in the paternity court and none of them behaved like this. Her parents brought her up so well. I'm glad he is her biological father.
The second case was sad,but her Mom sounds like an addict. Setting him up with the police, letting them go back to foster care, because of material things weren't granted. I'm not talking about her in a negative way,but it seems there are behaviors of a woman that was fighting demons. I hope the daughter receives the healing she deserves.
@@jakeb6473 sure, til you're pregnant and it could be someone else's kid. If you're not happy with someone, you should leave them, as opposed to playing cheating game. Just my opinion.
1st case - She quotes "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you." That doesn't mean you have to do unto them because they did it to you. And, with every court show I watch I hear that one mate cheats on the other because the other has cheated on them. But I don't see that it has solved anything yet!!! When will they ever learn?
This guy in the high school sweethearts episode is ridiculous. He just blaming her for lying and stuff but he is not taking accountability for his actions that caused the situation!
For the first case, he had every reason to doubt but his response was so genuine and remorseful it was moving.
😅😅😅😅
but it all could've been avoided had he stopped cheating. They both agreed she only steps out when he does.
@@moorechristopher873 EVERY woman says I only cheated because you did. Now if that's what you wanna believe I have a bridge in Brooklyn I wanna sell you. That ex is on stanby whenever that woman wants him and if you think if only when that dude messes up you crazy. I'm glad he admitted he needed to get himself together before he considered getting back with her.
@@moorechristopher873 oh please! that's a weak excuse that changes nothing about the truth in the doubt of the paternity. There is there no man on this earth that can make me stoop to that level, if it is against my morals and character to do so. She wanted to cheat, just like he does, she just uses his cheating as an excuse to get away with hers. except oops now a baby is brought into the mix and because we know who the mother is, the father is filled with every viable reason to doubt. That man owned up to his faults (while seemingly doing nothing to change it) while she did nothing but blame him for her choices as a grown a$$ independent woman. doing nothing but making excuses for a woman who could very simply walk away from a cheater but chooses to cheat to "get even". Cheating is still cheating no matter the reason. They're both cheaters.
@@moorechristopher873Silly comment! Men are not the ones that end up pregnant not knowing who their baby father is! She should have kept her legs closed or used protection
That second case... that young woman was so broken... those sobs were truly the sounds of a shattered soul. God bless her...she deserves a quick prayer.
Story two. The damage was caused by the MOTHER not the father or father figure
Exactly
True ..I kept wondering why they were coming so hard for this Man !!!
Yet she still taking up for a woman who had her in foster care at the age of 2 and saw her twice over ten years before she died, sad smh
Why was this last father did not hug his daughter after it was a nnounce that he was the father. He said he was glad but he did not show it. Anybody else notice that?.
@@yvonnegabbidon2430 yes I wonder as well
This first couple needs to break up. The girlfriend seems to love the chaos.
She basically said she's waiting for HIM to cheat again so she can call her EX to cheat with HIM.
They need to stop having kids and take a break from each other and just coparent.
Definitely
He loves chaos too , he cheating to begin with,
No she doesn't. He has obviously cheated on her a lot yet plays the victim.She is a reflection of his treatment towards her
@@tylergoudeau well clearly but he isn't blaming someone else, while she is.
And she said no matter what the results is he still going to take care of her and a baby that’s not his if the results come back saying that he’s not the father. She’s not even thinking about how hurt he’s going to be if the baby not his.
Condolences to Judge Lake,and her family, she always spoke lovingly about her dad,she was admittedly a daddy's girl 😢
Trash!
I’m so sorry, Judge Lake! 😢
What are y’all talking about?
@@rcinfinite fr
@@rcinfinite I am guessing that her dad passed away????
People leave the world holding their secrets like no one else will be affected smh. Tell the truth so they can heal from your mistakes.
My mom did that to me
It hurts so bad, till now i don't know Who is my father, the person she put on my birth certificate is not my father! I'am struggling with depression and i don't feel like living
I am 24 years old, and my life just doesn't make any sense at all!
I am so lost
@@madge397 so sad! My dad got with a woman when I was younger and they had a son who looks exactly like him and me and I’m not saying my dad did good in the relationship, he was really messed up, but she now refuses to tell my brother who his dad is, in fact, she put her husbands name on the birth certificate and he’s a white man my brother is mixed. it’s been very difficult because I can’t even get in contact with him. If there comes, any chance where I can get into contact with him, I’m just waiting at this point. I hope your family is doing the same. I hope God guides your path together. ❤️
Exactly, that's so selfish. The mother went to her grave with the secret.
@@madge397❤
I feel bad for Mr. McGraw. She needs to be mad at her mom. SMH she is a horrible mother to do this.
Her mum is dead
@@dsp_91she’s still a terrible mom she should’ve told her daughter who her father was before she passed don’t defend the mom
@@johnomalley7211 who said I’m defending her mum, the woman is dead so she can’t grill her for lying to her lol
It’s hard to be mad at the dead when you are in grief. That girl needs to be in therapy.
Second case: it's amazing how the man or the father is always portrayed to be the vilain even though it is clear the mother was messed up. he did everything to take care of the mother and her kids but he literally had to battle to vindicate his image in court. This society is messed up
Sure is
Agreed
Because , in these cases, the mothers always lie and tell the kids how bad their fathers were, and kids grow up believing that. She said she was told a different story, how bad the father was. And that is what mothers do, just to make themselves look like super heroes to the kids.
First case: the man says he is tired of her lies, but cheating on her is hardly a sign that he himself is straightforward. He is right that he has to get his own act together.
My heart goes out to the children. They having babies like changing their underwear. I wish they thought of the children before bringing them into the world.
Makes her worse in my opinion...she had 0 humility and was no where near contrite ...he was... so why is she not addressed in this comment?
@@Novakane78 because they never hold the women accountable for their own actions and choices. She has to get it together too and stop blaming him for the choices she makes.
People that cheat be the most insecure. He talking about her lying and cheating like he wasn't the one to do it first.
The second case was so sad… I hope he really means what he says about being there for her…
First episode...HE CHEATED..I CHEATED! WHY HAVE MORE CHILDREN BY A KNOWN CHEATER!
Why stay when you still gon cheat on your baby mama ?
They both in the wrong either way
True
@@Faith-mi3ti no one said either one of them were right.
@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare I never said anyone did 💀
These young people always blame their dads for their terrible past, but their moms are also to blame. Either way it’s heartbreaking
That’s because it’s emotionally easier to have an absent father than a narcissistic mother. It’s also harder being mad at the dead when you are in grief. It’s easier to scream at the living than someone you’re in grief over losing. The girl needs to be in intense therapy. Especially since she was in foster and that obviously left damage.
It's because Men will actually take accountability. Even when they don't have to.
@@gooddogtalksthat is opposite of my experience. It was always my mother that was there, even when it was hard. My father was in the military and in and out every other year. By time I was in 4th grade, I would have preferred that he didn't come back. We were poorer when he was gone, but the world didn't revolve around him like when he was home. It was like a stranger butting in every other year. He would come in and take over. Supposedly we were close when I was a little kid, but I don't remember that. I totally understand why kids give their mothers more leeway, it's because that is who is there for them, even if they are less than perfect. Fathers walk away if they are inconvenienced. You can't trust them.
@@kadebebesis4204 so true. No matter how I express my unconditional love for my son. I still became his target. I think it's because I'm relevant in his life. Where as his father being decease and absent prior to his departure. My son had nothing tangible to Blame his father for. So as an adult and parent it's expected to bear that cross. Only because the WORLD VIEW from the eyes of a child is different from the lense of an adult. Constant communication, attentive listener, receptive to the truth ,conditioning and just getting to the root. Is all one can do for healing. Also my grandmother's kids resent her for the way she disciplined and how she expressed the kind of men they should date. I had to explain to these now adults that their mother was raised in a time that men ruled, beat women, and kept them pregnant. MY grandmother escaped that life with no education. Moved to the U.S with 5 kids. She had explained to me her world view was the segregation of various colored children be treated differently. Which was one reason why she was opposed to her children dating dark skinned men.
I shared this story. Because without being receptive to the idea of listening to an individuals life choices and what molded them. We would never overstand the love of history.
Thank you for sharing your experience.
@@kadebebesis4204she is prwmature vrey, and si is she!
2nd case... when you open Pandora's box, you find out things you may not want to know. Sad but why blame one not both parents. Why the other family members get them before foster care got involved? So many questions, not enough answers. Very sad 😢
The last case the guy did the right thing all those years ago so now he doesn’t have any guilt. He is a good man and I’m happy for the family.
For the 3rd case the daughter looks exactly like her father 😂
Big ‘ole egg head and all… chile 🙄
Yeah, when I saw one of the younger pictures of Her, I could see instantly, She is His !!!
Yup 😂
In my opinion the 3rd case at the end when the results was read he was the father he didn’t appear to be happy about it.
yess that's what i thought when the third ep begin
My heart goes out to you, Judge Lake, losing a parent you have had all your life and loved so long...it hurts as deeply. Your memories of your parents and their spirit's will be with you always...😉
My heartfelt condolences to our dear Judge Lake, may u and your dear beloved family find solace in the Lord Jesus and may dad's dear soul rest in eternal peace
My Family and I are so happy, Thanks to all of you. your prayers and condolences on the passing of my mom were so touching. Me and my family couldn't be more happier than we thought. Rest in Paradise Mommy, We Love and Miss you So Much 1971-2023
Great you’re doing okay
Why are children so quick to blame dad, but mom left you in foster care
You only see a little bit of them here. They're probably blaming a lot more than what you see.
💯 nobody cared if you was in the system
People are trained in our society to always blame the father over the mother in almost every circumstance. They're conditioned to think of women as the victims, and men as the victimizers. Very unfortunate but true.
Trauma. Some kids cling to the parent that was there others like myself cling to the one the one that wasn't. I'm just now at 31 repairing the relationship with my mother who wasn't necessarily kind to me but was present & have chosen for my own peace of mind to go no contact with my father who i use to put in a pedalstool. It really depends. She could have respect for her mother for giving her up knowing that she couldn't do better for her children. When you're deprived of the bare minimum when it comes to love from your parent a crumb of attention seems like a grand gesture.
Maybe mom wouldn't have....had 'DAD' been there to help.
The second case: I get she desperately wanted the guy to be the dad but her mum and her mum's family are the ones who did her WRONG. Don't know why she was even angry at the guy when the grandma took her back cause she didn't get the benefits she wanted from having her out if foster care. She is angry with the wrong person. The guy she was alleging to be the dad seems like a decent guy. He really does.
Condolences and Prayers to the Lake Family
In the 3rd case, I have lupus. No family history. I’m so happy he is her dad. They look alike and he seems sweet, so does she. The mom too. She did right by her daughter because she saw him in her daughter. ❤
There was absolutely no disputing on looks
Last case, put me in tears that he do the right thing even though they were doubts about her
Her mom is bad to leave her in foster care. And have her dad arrested and banned from seeing her. Did she not listen? Why did her family, grandma etc not have her and leave her in foster care? Mom had him arrested when he came back for leave from army. Mom is to blame. Those kids are blaming wrong person. Mom threw them away into foster care as did grandma etc. Mom slept around. Mom threw possible dad's away. They need to grow up.
Exactly she’s not holding who she needs to accountable you mom left you in the system and only saw you twice and you blame the father that’s not even the father
Well it's pretty hard to be mean to a dead person.
Just didn’t want to have anything to do with taking care of them children that’s all it is point blank
2nd case why is that girl all about blaming the man? what about her useless Mother ?she was the one who should've taken care of her and instead left her in care or at her Grandmothers. That man did enough for the kids and needed to get away.
To the second story. He isn’t making your Mom look bad, your Mom made herself look bad by acting that way. He’s reciting facts, not lies. Also asking someone “why didn’t you leave them if they were so bad,” is something you NEVER say to any victim of domestic abuse. My Mom was stuck with my Dad for 10 years before she finally got things set up to be able to leave him.
Everything is her mother's fault.
if they're high school sweethearts how does she end up with an ex, she must have been dating since she was 10 years old
*First case: HE CLEARLY DOESN’T WANT TO BE WITH HER… AND HAS LIKELY MOVED ON WITH SOMEONE ELSE…. that’s why he’s acting like this. It’s sad, because she’s stuck raising 3 of his children. SMH. I would never continue to sit up there and have baby after baby while in a toxic relationship… she played herself. I wish her healing and the strength to move on.* ❤
No he had MULTIPLE reasons to act like that. She keeps playing herself at the same time sitting here saying he’s still gonna be with me. She’s toxic and he’s toxic. It’s a whole mess!
She’s stuck raising three of her own kids.
I wonder if He has a whole nother Family !?!?!?
@@daihalla1139 that’s exactly what it seems like. He has a woman in his ear. He don’t want to take care of any of the kids.
I was looking for this comment. I knew it couldn't just me
No doubt that Mr cherry is no angel, but at least he is accountable for what he did wrong. She blames him for everything she did wrong
Yeah, she Wildin' and is Not deserving of any Man right now, especially as she so clearly stated that the "Ex" is on the back burner for the next time Mr Man messes up ..she is clearly Not ready for a Real Relationship ..Kudos to the Gentleman for His sincere apology and for acknowledging that He has to get His stuff together ..He is a Real Man !!!
Lauren Lake, Me and my family want to give our massive prayers and condolences to you and your family on the passing of your father. My Mom Passed Away 2 months ago in the hospital. I hope you give your condolences to my family and me.
Sorry for your loss 😢
I’m sorry for your loss
She has doubled frenchrolls. I haven't seen this style in ages
@@veronicajones7486 Uh, What Part of My Mom Passed away did you not understand?
@@johndecelien did you post for judge lake or to get sympathy for you? I get the troll posted to see where your heart resided and you showed your hand.
Kudos to Mr McGraw Jr for going to comfort the woman who believed he was her father. He offered her support even when the truth was known.
God Bless Him ....Waisted years,l pray a good woman comes in he's life ...he looks so young as a father to her ..the mum too ...
The second case was so sad. And I truly believe if someone would’ve told him he was in foster care he would’ve came and got her. Dad or not 😢
“We don’t know if the egg came before the chicken or the chicken came before the egg, we just know we’re fried” hahaha I gotta say Judge Lake’s one liners and quips are epic 😂
That needs a t-shirt
I hate to break it to the lovely young lady in the second segment, but her mom was a horrible person.
Pretty Much !!!
She was so angry at the nice man and not her mom. I believed him all along. Her personality is possibly of her mother. That man who wasn't her dad seemed to be a just a nice guy who tried to help a woman with kids.
First case: I respect the young man's transparency. He seems like a good dude.
Second case: She had aunt?? Why was she put in foster care?
2nd case. Oh my my my😢. She is so precious, I know your heartbreak. Please learn the lesson I had too. I am parent less & family less other than my kids. Even if we never had a father here we have a heavenly father. Who loves us 🖤
I thought she was going to stick to her story of " using protection with her ex." But, then she justified that she knows with her heart and child features.
I caught that too. I was definitely waiting for her to say because I used protection🤦🏾♀️ like the man said all she do is lie
i am so grateful to have both of my parents, it breaks my heart that people like Ms.McCraw have to go through this i really hope she finds her father. I wish young men and women could understand how truly important it means to have a mother and a father and how life without them is something i couldn’t ever imagine. The second case just breaks my heart and i wish that whoever is going through something similar should know that it’s never there fault and they shouldn’t blame themselves ever. when i have my kids i will make sure that their life is amazing, and teach them that there’s nothing more beautiful than knowing you have a mother and father who love and adore you.
I love these. Cleaning the kitchen rn and time flies
Standard! 😂 anytime i get into the kitchen 1st thing I do is PaternityCourt BayBeeee!
My condolences to you and your family 👪 on the passing of your dad 👨 ❤
1st episode she said the ex is on standby for when he cheat again…
Case two was so annoying she blaming everybody but the mom who left her in foster care
This isn’t relevant but the daughter seeking her father from case #3 is BEAUTIFUL!!
I immediately thought the same thing. She is gorgeous!
I don't understand these women, 'he cheated so I cheated too' does two wrongs make a right? What about your integrity? Wow!!!
What Ill never understand, is, why if one partner cheats, the other goes and does the same thing...That just never makes sense to me...
Sorry for your loss judge LL and fm...
Accept my deepest sympathy😢
That second case had me a little teary-eyed.
That woman was so distraught. And I'm curious if the brother was his son or not?
Mothers need to do better for their kids. I think sometimes some of us want to save face and some are just selfish liars but at the end of the day, once youre a mom your kids come FIRST. Especially when theyre little.
The foster care system is overloaded and has been for a very long time. And when it comes to Black and Brown kids, its alot harder to find people to adopt them.
We also dont have enough Black and Brown people as foster parents and that's so important.
Im curious as to why the mother's family didnt take the kids in.
Im not judging. I know from personal experience that sometimes family just cant take on kids. Im just wondering what the situation was.
I hope she's able to find her father.
I want to know why too...she said her mom's family lived close by...and she had contact with her grandmother 😢
It’s possible the mother’s family was unable to for many different reasons from them not wanting to not being financially stable to the amount of children they already had
It's sad that she blames the "father" when she could experience the truth about the mom, and its hard to believe him when she did the same to her own kids
Judge lake my condolences to you on your dad's passing prayers sent &stay uplifted I k how it feels & to the family who lost their mom condolences to youall as well. I'm sorry for both.of the losses
My sister and I, and my daughter all have autoimmune disease. My daughter has Lupus. Neither my mother, nor my father has autoimmune disease. It can be hereditary, but it isn't necessarily so.
In care at 2? Not a single family would take her in? I am so glad we don't run that way. Now my people don't have much but family is family
First case they need to stop the revenge cheating. And he needs to just admit that he doesn't want to be with her. He seems to have been looking for a reason to get out of the relationship. First it was her cheating and lying then it turned to them needing to work on things
If you are reading this there’s a reason……No matter how good or bad you have it,wake up each day thankful for your life.Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for theirs ❤️🇧🇸
The only thing expected in this life is DEATH!! A lot of ppl just need to welcome it and the family needs to start to heal
Omfg, these people talk about their privates and relationships like they're part time jobs.
Feel so bad for Miss McGraw❤
In the second case,why was she in Foster's care when she had family close to her
Family trifling just like the mammy.
They didn't want her
When I had my kids in the late 60’s, men didn’t go into the deliver room and weren’t required to sign anything.
In the 2nd case...i will never understand how the mothers are continually let off the hook, then they go after the potential father as if its his fault....that man is a great man to still try to stick by that woman and her children, and it was a blessing that he left and hopefully had children of his own because that was a good man to have kids with 🎉
Condolences Judge Lake.
A lot of us grew up in the foster system . We are not angry today with anyone except our parents. 😢
3rd case. Beautiful results. I am smiling.
My condolences to Judge Lake and family
I love paternity court and I love Judge Lauren Lake and I love Jerome and he is so funny?
If you don't want to have to tell your kids that then maybe you shouldn't have done it. If he is cheating, leave. You're gonna gamble with your life and body? And now you have to deal with this.
No one has any disease in a family until someone does have it.... you could be the first, you can get it on your own... no one in my family had cancer until my mama had cancer.... c'mon
I wish she would stop saying she’s a nurse and making statements like that! She should know that that lupus may or may not be genetic, it doesn’t have to come from a parent either!
The last one Awh ❤ you can tell dad and daughter love each other ❤
Oh, wow, the last two had me DEEP IN TEARS
It trips me out when women think a man won't leave her no matter what she does. In the 2nd case she's blaming him for her mom sh!t making life.
He's not making your mom look like a bad person, she made herself look bad. He is just relaying a true memory in court where he's sworn to tell the truth. You never heard the story before because he wasn't swearing to disclose the truth, that was likely done to protect you & your siblings.
In the first case she obviously wanted to spend a night with her ex and when she got a chance she did 😭😭
The last story was a great story. The seem like 3 wonderful people especially the nurse
It seems like everyone always blames the man !!
Ladies, if you must cheat (I aint judging nobody) but please use protection in addition to birth control.
"If you must cheat"? You do know that cheating by the lady (female promiscuity) is literally why paternity court exists right?
As the saying goes, "Mama's baby Papa's Maybe."
So no. Bad advice. Just don't cheat!
There's no must...shouldn't period!
@@alejandragonzalez5763 😂😂 Let me rephrase. If you feel.the need ro cheat, do it responsibly.
@@cherylseebreth328 I don't understand why anyone finds the need to. Like just break up and do your thing why mess with someone
It’s okay when he does it but a problem when she does it?
Are you forgetting STI’s he could give her?
The last case was so obvious. They were mirror images of eachother
I love this show .you come through for these families .Wish we had a family court like this in S.A 🙏
Second case:😢😢i feel sorry for the daughter for real it's soo hard thinking someone is your dad yetthey are not i cried so hard😭😭😭and the man was so cool i love him🥰
On the other hand Judge Lauren Lake may Allah strengthen you my dia🤲 so sorry for your loss my love 😢
Not in the old days fathers didn't sign. In Canada no father signs anything. Birth certificates aren't done in the hospital. You send away for them to the govt. You just get a birth registration card with baby and mom name. My son was 12 before I sent for his birth certificate and I never put father on yet father was ordered child support because he wanted visitation.
Same where I live. The husband is the father, the end. Getting out of it is a circus and if the mother works against you, 50/50 tough luck. If you didnt do it in 1 year of finding out, sucks to be you. If you didnt do it before the kid turns 4 (going by first court date, not date of filing!), sucks to be you.
Getting engaged to or married to a woman that you reasonably could have or should have known to be pregnant equals adoption, where you knowingly take the chance to raise another mans baby. No way no how you get out of that one. Trust me on this.
Dang that first girl needs to understand her mom is just as much at fault as the man.
Mr Cherry, run away from that woman!!!! She is going to do you wrong
Lol then he should stop cheating tf
Both of you STOP CHEATING.
Yeah, she Wildin' and is Not deserving of any Man right now, especially as she so clearly stated that the "Ex" is on the back burner for the next time Mr Man messes up ..she is clearly Not ready for a Real Relationship ..Kudos to the Gentleman for His sincere apology and for acknowledging that He has to get His stuff together ..He is a Real Man !!!
@@daihalla1139 lol kudos to nobody , they all trash.
What a horrible person the last woman is. She keeps on cheating while in a relationship. She is an absolute evil person for using such a wonderful man. All three kids, not his! It's heartbreaking!! I hope he leaves her and moves on with his life. He deserves away better than this ice-woman. Eventually, she'll kick him out when she no longer needs him 😢
McGraw case has been tearing 😢
“Bill, Bob” got me😂💀😭
2nd one makea me cry at the end 😢 happy tears
About the last case, I love how professional, educated, well-mannered and respectful the daughter is towards her parents. Even though there's a case between them she remained loving, respectful towards them. I have watched many cases in the paternity court and none of them behaved like this. Her parents brought her up so well. I'm glad he is her biological father.
Am so happy that he’s her dad I was praying before me hear the results 🎉
The second case was sad,but her Mom sounds like an addict. Setting him up with the police, letting them go back to foster care, because of material things weren't granted. I'm not talking about her in a negative way,but it seems there are behaviors of a woman that was fighting demons. I hope the daughter receives the healing she deserves.
My dad never signed my certificate. My mom did. 80s was a different time
I feel like the first chick doesn't get the golden rule... She does unto others as they do to her. Lol
As she should
@@jakeb6473 sure, til you're pregnant and it could be someone else's kid. If you're not happy with someone, you should leave them, as opposed to playing cheating game. Just my opinion.
Tell him that too. They both wrong in this situation
@@nancylovett2399 You are right like judge lake always says 2 wrongs don't make a right.
It gotta stop somewhere SMH
Back in the day if you were not married fathers didn’t have to sign birth certificates. Mom could list whomever
Mr Cherry needs dna on all kids though.
1st case - She quotes "Do unto others as you want them to do unto you." That doesn't mean you have to do unto them because they did it to you. And, with every court show I watch I hear that one mate cheats on the other because the other has cheated on them. But I don't see that it has solved anything yet!!! When will they ever learn?
Who helping these men with these "exhibits" 7:12
I like that Ms judge Lauren Lakes ( the egg bfore the chicken or the chicken bfore the egg we just know we’re frying 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Case 2. Not father. Shame on her bio family for not being honest with her.
This guy in the high school sweethearts episode is ridiculous. He just blaming her for lying and stuff but he is not taking accountability for his actions that caused the situation!
Oh my heart is breaking for 22nd case. The poor girl
He's not bringing babies home to you telling you they're yours. Do you see the problem? I bet you don't
Dear kings if you love her ....don't dish it out if u can't take it
the last case, she was her daddy twin 😂 but i understand her doubt given that their was no medical history