EPISODE 25: WHERE I WAS DECEMBER 9th I Overcomfort Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 2 окт 2024
- On this episode of the Overcomfort podcast, I open my heart up to you guys and share my experience of December 9th. That is the day my mom passed away and one of the worst days of my life. A day I will never forget.
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Jenika as a mother I want to say Chiquis has done a great job keeping you guys together as siblings . That is so important she is a great sister and mother. God bless you Jenika!
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I agree. Chiquis has done amazing. ❤
I need to see Vanessa Bryant on this podcast! 😭
Jenni worked for HER KIDS!! Jenika and the siblings are her legacy.. ❤️
My mom also passed Dec 9th 2005. I was 6 I’m 24 now. I was used to life without her but it hit hard once I got pregnant. Dec 9th 2020 I was in active labor & gave birth Dec 10th. I know she’s always with me 👼🏼 sending everyone who’s lost a loved one lots of love 🥺🤍
Also both of our birthdays are Oct 3rd 🫶
Like y’all are soul sisters 😯
@@yiselGR yes! My mom also left 5 children behind.. exactly 3 girls & 2 boys like her it’s crazy 🥺
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I lost my mother when I was 5. It also didn’t really hit me until I had my son. It hurts now more than ever. Something I thought I healed from, completely blindsided me with grief. I pray for healing for you 💞
I remember I used to love watching “I Love Jenni” and to watch those last episodes without her was hard
What episode was she last in?
It’s insane that I was 10 years old and remember arriving home from school to the news that her plane was lost. I even began to cry it was crazy because she was such an idol. A strong and brave woman. She is definitely proud of you! I pray god continues to give you the strength to you and all your family to keep pushing. I myself can’t imagine that pain and definitely don’t look forward to the day but God is always there. Love you Jenika!🤍
We know this was a hard episode! Thank for your vulnerability and rawness , everything your momma did was for you all and she would be so proud how you all have grown, even tho she’s not here physically, she’ll always be with you,
"A life with love will have some thorns, but a life without love will have no roses."
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Wow I love how you express everything without talking bad about anybody else. A lot of people need to learn that. Ánimo and am sure Jenni Que en Paz descanse is so proud of ya.
I lost my mom last year on June 16th, 2022 she passed away the day after my due date I feel as if she was waiting for me to give birth because she knew the due date witch was June 15th, I gave birth 3 days after her passing June 19th, 2022 on Father’s Day. I felt her with me as I was giving birth and it was the most hardest feeling to be grieving my mom and bring new life all at once it felt like such a bluer. Us as woman giving birth all you want and yearn for is our moms love and presence to comfort you through the pain as I was pushing my baby girl out I felt a strong squeeze on my left arm mind you my fiancé was on the right side of me I know that was my mommy helping me push through like she was their when I gave birth to my first daughter she was so proud of me having my baby natural and said see mamas you’re strong just like me I love you so much 🤍🥺🕊️
The beautiful thing about you guys having a reality show back then is that you can go back to so many memories.
I remember this day, my sister and I were literally watching Selena, when an interrupted broadcast came up of Jenny’s plane being lost. When we think back we’re like what a coincidence how we were watching that movie. Two amazing singers gone too soon ❤
I was watching Selena too!!!!!!
Saaame!!
Cried the whole time Jenicka! She is soooo missed 😭😭😭.
You and your sibilings are so strong with everything that is going on.
You should really have your Tio Lupe on your podcast 😭
You always seemed like the strongest in your grief. Strong like your momma. 🦋
But also don't be afraid to grieve & let it all out, that will greatly help you heal more! You were strong for your family now be kind to YOU and grieve in your own needed way.
Your mom is buried at the same cemetery as my grandma, and I remember seeing all of the flowers on her spot when I went to visit my grandma. Such a tragedy and great loss the world had. A Long Beach legend 🫶🏼🦋
Sad part is she left loving all these people so much and wanting the best for all her family. And glad she never gets to see the betrayal. Because in heaven she sees no evil or feels no pain. May god guide you all.
Keeping a journal & writing the memories you want to always remember helps 🫶🏻 sending you a hug 🤎
Or you can also record a video or audio of those special memories of her so you won't forget them! You can keep adding new remembered memories whenever you recall them.
I will do that my Dad, thank you so much!
your so strong jenicka not only you but your siblings as well can’t imagine what ill do without my mom . i have major respect for you and look up to you sm 😢❤️
You’re so strong for sharing this, your heart is so pure in genuine. Much respect to you love 🫶🏼 May your mom rest in peace and forever watch over you guys 💕
Yes your mom was the best and she loved her kid's so much and did everything for us guy's I will never forget that day I cried so much but she is always in are heart 🥰🥰🥰🥰🫂🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I grew up listening to your moms music and then watched I love Jenni and The Riveras I love your family so much 🥺 I remember when the news was out about your mom I was working at a Mexican restaurant and we had the tv on and it was your moms funeral everyone was in tears. I keep up with you and your siblings I’m so happy you guys are all doing so well your mom is so proud watching you from where she is ❤️ Love you Jenicka ❤️❤️
I’m so sorry you had to go through that, thank you for sharing with us your experience. Sending positive vibes to you are your family during this difficult time. Hoping one day the footage of your moms last concert can come out on dvd for her fans to see:)
I think everything happens for a reason. It brought you and your siblings closer. She was a strong woman and an inspiration to all. ❤
My mom was a huge Jenni fan her birthday is Dec 9th I remember how sad she was and it crazy how much I relate to you and ur story.. my mom passed away 6 years ago from a freeway collision with 2 semi trucks I remember getting out of school and my cousin telling me that I’m sorry about what happened ur mom got in a car crash and immediately locking myself in the restroom praying to God that she was okay and calling her like crazy sending her messages and once I got no response I just knew, I had a gut feeling that she had passed away 😞🥹 it the worst feeling in the entire world never will I ever forget that day and it continues to haunt me I still feel depressed till this day but I know she’s in heaven ❤
My siblings and I also got taken advantage of by our tíos and tías with the money my mom left behind for us she had her own business and insurance companies literally exactly like ur Tia Rosie my was my Tia Nancy and tíos who used our money but I promise to one day fight for what was ours so that my brother and sister can go to college or create a small business 🙏
I'm so sorry.❤ I wish I could hug you.🥺
Thank you for posting this my dad passed away 2 years ago this week it is hard but I know he is in heaven with God 🙏🏽
I love how strong u n ur siblings are
I remember this day like it was yesterday. I was at the mall with my family gloomy day and my mom loves Jenni and when she found out she just couldn’t eat. That day she had her music on blast and still to this day… We all miss your mom 🤍🤍
You are such a wonderful young woman. I admire your strength. It's not easy losing a mother, I also lost my mom 16 years ago unexpectedly. She was involved in an accident caused by a drunk driver. Every year on the date she passed, it still hurts knowing she's not with us and everything she is missing out. It doesn't get easier, but you learn to live with it. I understand your feelings. Keep being the wonderful young woman you are. Much love ❤️
I relate to you so much my mom passed away Oct 2, 2017 this year marks 6 years and it was on the freeway with 2 semi trucks very unexpectedly I remember everything vividly like it was yesterday but with time the memories tend to fade.. at the time I was 15 now I’m 21 and I remember a lot of people saying that everything will bc okay but with time you just feel numb, alone and you just learn to live with it and when your at your highest or have something to celebrate everything is just bittersweet bc u want to go and tell ur mom but u can’t I can relate to you❤️ Just know that she is forever with you and in your heart whenever you need her she’s with you ♾️🫶🏻
It must of been so hard to sit in front of the cámara and talk about all of those memories and situations , I just want to say thank you ! Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your side of things .
Jenni Rivera is and will forever be an icon .
Your mom on the other hand will always be YOUR MOM y eso nadie te lo quita 🫶
Where ever she may be I know she’s so proud to have you as her daughter …
I’m sorry for your loss Jenicka, I lost my dad last year and I feel the same way.
December 9th is me & my sisters birthday. I remembered when she passed away we were 12. Till this day we still celebrate her. We cheers to your momma every year on this day. May she continue to rest in peace ❤️🙏🏽
Your parents would be so proud of all of you! Stay together!
This did not feel like a 30 min video! Thank you for sharing! We are all grieving with you still! Bless you and your siblings always! 🩷
I remember that day as well. How panicked everyone was & I was here in NYC I can’t imagine how LA was.. The news was on all day in our home & prayers were constant for your momma. I loved the show so much & now I’ll still rewatch them & enjoy your mom’s music. My sister was always told she looked just like her & she’s puertorican but they really have such a resemblance! I’m glad you can heal a little more with this episode & I hope you know how insanely proud she would’ve been of you! One thing about her she always said how much she loved you & your siblings! You her gentle giant I remember she would say on the show.. You guys were her life & without a doubt she is still there protecting you all! It’s bittersweet but in Gods name you will reunite with her one day 🙏🏼 god bless you Jenicka ❤️
I lost my friend from cancer almost 5 months ago I wasn’t ready to go up and see her open casket I’m so glad I did because I felt like I could let go easier and say my goodbyes sorry for anyone that has lost a loved one 💔
I didn’t watch this they day you put it out I didn’t think I could handle your story of losing your mom that day I sat in front of the TV crying I can’t imagine what her babies went through 🥺 I pray that God continues to touch all of you and continues to protect all of you 🙏🏽
Jenicka, your optimism is another reflection of your resemblance to your momma! Jenni definitely shines through you. 💕
I have a lots of respect for you and your sisters and brothers; I know it hurts, but dr Henry said is like a cough go through ; yes cry because it was your beautiful mom so talented and kind.🤍🙏te deseo siempre lo mejor y algo demasiado importante Dios es Fiel y que siga cuidando tu mom’s generations forever together con Dios y los que amamos 🙏
I remember this day… I cried for days and still do when I see or hear anything about her 😭
This was so raw. Thank you so much for sharing. Sending you a big warm hug 💜💜
My husband died the same year 2012 and my daughters still miss him and hurt soo much. I don’t think the pain ever goes away but my girls still have soo many memories of him and they were 4 and 11. Love you JENICKA stay strong 🙏🏼
TE AMO JENICKA🫶🏽 you’re so beautiful & you have a great personality!! you inspire me so much, thank you!🤍 God bless y’all always.
I remember this day I was at my grandmas house we were all together just enjoying the day then my grandpa says they can’t find jenni Riveras plane and everyone turned to the tv and we stayed on it all night everyone was so shocked we were praying also that it was a mistake and it was very sad when they finally said it was 🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
me encanto este episodio llore mucho jajaja, pero me ayudo a darme cuenta de que tengo que valorar mucho mas lo que tengo, muchas gracias por compartir esto con nosotros jenicka We really love your mom, you and your brothers, thank you very much.
Te amo jenicka y’all are so strong it still hurts till this day to me as well ..
It was my first time visiting Mexico, I was in the airport when I saw the news go all over the screens. I was hopeful that your mom’s plane would be found. 🥺 I loved your mom, and watching you all on tv. I think what hurt me the most was knowing that you all were going to grow up without her. You all are very strong and have grown so much strength. ❤
When your Mom passed mine said. If I could trade with Jenni I would & I was like Mom! Don’t say that & she’s like Jenni has 5 kids & I said you have me & I need you. She said you’re older and have a family Jenni’s kids are little they need their Mom. You don’t need me you can take care of yourself. She’s all they have. We cried together that day and we became closer.
You should really talk to Teresa the medium ! We need justice for jenni !🙏
My mom passed away 12.7.2013 - and we were watching the news together the year before and praying together that they would find Jenni's plane- I never imagined losing my mom the next year.
La herencia de Jenny Rivera . Es de sus hijos , así de SIMPLE , es injusto que hayan miembros de la famili.que quieran seguir , exprimido a la hermana, que ya no esta.es hora que busquen trabajo y dejen en paz a los hijos de Jenny
She was the only celeb who has passed that I cried for. She touched so many hearts! I remember being home and following the news so anxious those days praying that they would find her plane. December 16th marks 3 years since my dad passed away and I also get into those moods as it gets closer.
❤❤ RIP Jenni 🦋 ❤️❤️
You and your siblings deserve the best❤
did anyone notice the beads move🥹 20:10 going forward ❤ I hope it was your mommy giving you a sign that she was there with you at that moment and she was hearing you🥹
My daughter who is 6 loves and sings along to yours and your sister’s remake of your mom’s song. It’s her absolute favorite 💜
My grandpa was in the hospital watching the news of your mom's passing. I remember him being horrified and thinking what happened wasn't real. He passed away 3 days later. I've always been a fan of your mom's music and knowing that the anniversary of their passing was so close oddly gives me a type of relief. ❤ stay strong Jenicka!
My mom passed away when I was 26 in 2020. And how I miss her scent the way you explained it made me choke I know what you mean. A hug, just to hold my momma again. And be with her.
Jenicka you are so strong ❤️
I feel you pain I also lost my mom November 16 2012 😢 I was 17 had my first daughter and I was here in the us and my mom was in Mexico and I couldn’t say bye to her anymore 💔😭😭, I also remember been in Mexico and seen the news of your mom and I was so heart broken 😭😭
I remember the day she died exactly, it was literally the day i had my quinceanera! We were dancing and singing along to her music when we found out she had passed🙏🏼 sorry for ur loss! She was such a queeen❤️
I remember when this happened
I loved her show and you guys, i felt like i knew you all
And i remember looking at her twitter and the last message she sent, i couldn’t sleep that night
RiP Jenni
My grandfather passed away in February, I remember that 2 years before I didn't speak to the whole family, We apologized to each other and I was able to be with him on his last 10 days without know it was his last 10 days. My heart goes out to you because grief is so unknown!
This has been the only reason I come back to RUclips 😭❤️ for your podcast, thanks for sharing and creating a space for us all💗💗
Jenicka REWATCH this episode #25 and notice the beads on your desk (the front part) that started to move on 20:11 of the video! That's when you were talking about your Mom's plans to wanting to stay home with you and Johny. I'm a believer & I gasped when I saw this because I honestly think that it's your Mom showing her presence to you! I don't think that you could have seen the beads moving from your side so please rewatch it. Also, the 2nd camera was recording you on the left side of the screen periodically so I don't think that's what moved it. I'm just very observant of details & like I said I'm a strong believer. In an interview with your Aunt & Uncle the coffee mug (w/ Babo I think is his nickname) and they were startled by it. I just wanted to share that with you- her spirit is definitely around you guys!
But why did she say vibe n looked down at that moment ?
It’s was her cat vibe
20:23in the video why did the center peace move?
I think it was her pet maybe a dog or cat
Yes I saw it too
This is the pain that I will NEVER be able to imagine myself going through . I feel so ungrateful sometimes bc I have both my parents and it’s such an honor to still have them . Thank you for sharing your side of the story . You touched my heart. Much love to youu 🤧❤️🩹.
It’s the worse feeling 😢
Dear stranger, Hope you don’t encounter that feeling for years even decades
Rest in peace jenni 🙏 🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋
I relate to you and your siblings so much because my dad passed away unexpectedly and he was also the financial and emotional support for us as well. It hasn’t been the same. My siblings and I aren’t as close to family. When you said, it’s been dark ever since that’s exactly how it feels and he wasn’t famous but he was our center and it doesn’t go away for sure. But, memories have faded for me too. I was told by a therapist it’s a trauma response and our mind blocking it to protect us from pain. But we never move on we just learn to cope and have faith they will greet us when we go home to God. ❤
love you & ur siblings jenicka❤️🔥💞
❤ thank you for this. My biological dad passed away August 25th 2011 and my stepdad passed away August 25th 2015. I got to spend 6-7 years with my dad on and off and the rest with my stepdad up until I was 22. I’m now 31. This still feels so surreal and hurts every year. Specially reminding my son of his grandpas through pictures only 🥺. Cherish every day and every moment. ❤
Sending you all my love and comfort for the holidays . We love you and appreciate your openness ♥️ mama sure left a mark on everyone while her time here, but She’s with you and your family at every point . Even if you can’t remember certain memories , you’ll always know who she was, cherish that and hold on to that until you meet again♥️
Thank you for being so vulnerable, i'm sure it is very difficult to go back to December 9th. All i can say is continue loving one another because that is how your momma was on stage. When she would come to our small town not to far from LA, i would always make it. I just loved her strength, joy but most of all her laughter and heart 💛. May you and your family find joy in your memories.
Like you said, it never goes away. We move forward, but the pain will always be there. My father passed about 30 yrs ago. The question is always there what if
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I was watching the news when I heard the news holding my one year old I went to bed crying that night and woke up crying. My mom passed 4 months ago and this will be my first Christmas without her and it hurts so much I understand your pain personally.
You will always remember that day no matter what. The years can pass by, but still it hurts 💔 Jenni rest in peace 🙏
20:34 😮The bead string in the table moves . 😮🙏
I think it’s her dog.
I honestly sobbbedd that day!!! I was literally crying at the taco stand when we landed in Mexico . My family and I went for vaccay and we were delayed in the airport for more than 3 hrs and we hadn’t gave anyone information of our landing . When they announced a plane crashed , my family automatically assumed the worse. And since we hadn’t got back to them to let them know we landed they called family members to check on us and we were no where to be found . Family members were going crazy calling hospitals other members in the area. We finally got to my grandmas house unaware of what’s going on my grandmas cousin proceeds to tell us her favorite person passed away . With those words we froze and instantly asked who he then said La Diva De La Banda . That was a very unexpected tragedy! I start sobbing 😢 your mother’s voice was amazing! I was a teenager at the time but as I grew older I understood where most of her songs came from. I honestly relate to most and still listen to her 🥂
I was only 12 years old 😢
Did anyone notice the camera moving and a shadow it happened at 12:54
Yes I did
I thank jenicka for giving us this side of her story we know how delicate and hard it is for you baby we love you & your mami forever ❤️🥺
I was your age jenika when I lost my mom and a year later I lost my dad. She’s your guardian angel and her strong soldier. I’m a firm believer now as an adult that god took our parent to break generaltional curses and to be leaders. ❤
Miss your mom and the way she also made her fans feel like family 😢❤ and a friend ❤❤ Que dios la tenga en su santa gloria 🫶🙏🙏 Love you Jenni
I am going through so much rn… I feel so alone. Thank you for posting ❤
Thank you for sharing 🥹💕 my sons dad passed Dec 24 and the whole month is always so difficult for him. We love and send you lots of hugs
I’m a very proud of you guys!! The way you guys have GROWN & GLOWED since you guys detached from your family.
My heart breaks for you watching this video🥺 you guys were so young and robbed of a lifetime of memories, but I can tell you this being a huge fan of not only I love Jenni, but of the Rivera’s. She raised amazing, beautiful children and that is something to be so proud of especially as a mother I know that she is looking down on you guys with such admiration and always remember you don’t need to feel like you need to move on. There is no moving on because she lives within you and through you every day and her spirit will continue to live on through you guys and all of her fans.❤🦋🦋
My mom passed away December 9th 2021. I remember vividly when we hear the news about your mom and how my mom started crying. She was not only a big fan of your moms but she really looked up to her and admired her. And the day my mom passed , seeing it was the same date as yours, gave me chills but it was like wow of course she would pass to go to the gates of heaven to see your mom perform ❤️ Pain never goes away but we will continue to honor them until our days comes as well. Sending you so much love.
Out of all your siblings you remind me of your mom the most, idk what it is you’re just caring and sweet and idk there’s just a special light that shines 🤍
Your mom is going to be a rockstar forever❤ and you said it right, it has been dark for all of us ever since she left. I became a mom this year and I’m single parenting and you don’t know how bad I need a Jenny Rivera concert to aid my heartache. I was too young when your mom was with us. I read your mom’s book years ago around your age now and it was so powerful.
Thank you for sharing this with us and being so real about it. Your life is going to change when you also have kids. Your heart is going to become more deep and you will be visited by so many angels and your mom will reveal so much to you I promise.
I’m not breastfeeding so I’m for sure going to only take 1 shot on Saturday 🩵❤️
Omg I remember clearly, we were getting ready to celebrate my mother’s birthday and we all sat and cried in the living room watching the news instead 😢 ❤Jenni❤
I pray that God and Jesus will bring peace to the Rivera families. You are right, she wasn’t a paycheck, but to certain people she was. I just don’t understand why they would be like to their own sister.
Just like jenicka 5 hours before Jenni died I had a very bad chest pain and felt bad. And sometimes wonder if I knew deep maybe I knew she would pass away 😢
She’s forever watching over you 🩷
When you have kids- you will understand trying to protect ur kids!
Omg this had me tearing up with you 💔
The beads moving at 20:16 on their own 😮
It was her pet
We love you! You’re so strong and beautiful. ❤️🤍
I wonder have you ever had any dreams about her ??
I would of loved this topic with all you siblings
I cryed babygirl ❤ love you .
I’m so sorry you had to go through this, we all grew up listening to your mom and we deeply respect how all of you and your siblings get along and have each others back. May you guys continue to heal ❤️
Wow, this was probably so hard to make and I’m so proud of you❤ & we appreciate you speaking out. We love you so much !!!!!!
En el minuto 20:12 al 20:20 se mueve el adorno de perlas. Fue el aire o alguien lo movió? Alguien más lo ve? 😨