to be quite honest i felt as if the girl was conservative and old fashioned in her thinking. the man was very open minded and wanted to break societal norms. good for both of them!
I agree it was good that both of them stuck to their own principles. I loved his mindset but I empathize with the girl's situation, she seemed to really like him as well but she was being mature and acknowledging that she shouldn't casually start dating someone she knows doesn't share her beliefs, which she said takes up most of her life. As a Christian, I believe I would have to do the same.
I started out rooting for the girl and ended up falling for the guy. His mind is beautiful and accepting. Although there's nothing wrong with a conservative mindset - as long as it's not harmful - I prefer a liberal one. Both seemed like genuinely good people. I'm glad they didn't end up together ; they would disagree too often
Actually I'm shocked to see a girl in korea that strong princip about a religion..last time I made a trip with my church in korea its difficult to see a young girl have a strong mind about christianity
안녕하세요. 남자 출연자입니다! 이번 출연은 저에게도 새롭고 신기한 경험이었습니다. 촬영은 서로 존중하는 분위기에서 진행되었어요. 마음에 안 드는 부분이 있으시더라도, 너그럽게 이해해주시면 감사하겠습니다. 그리고 이번에 채널을 개설하게 되었어요! 소개팅에 궁금한 점이 있으시다면, 제 채널로 놀러오세요 :)
I loved your point of view on all of these questions! It's so great to see someone as open minded as you. I'm sure you'll find someone compatible, 화이팅!!
@@mimso3431 what is disgusting in this ?? Didn't they have right to say what they want ?? She or he like him so they say that they want him to be his teacher nothing is wrong in that !!!! Don't just throw words it may hurt others
@@lachimolalaai7893 ok first, if someone gets offened by a stupid youtube comment which i cant see causing harm, thats not my problem, the person is too sensitive. secondly, i think its disgusting to pursue an education because the teacher is so cute hihihi xoxoxoxoxoxo :**** oppaaaaaaaaaaa
@@eleonoramang6405 dont just root for one just because you dont agree with the other, different opinions exist out there, the world isnt just black or just white or just gray or just one and the same color you know.... be open minded and accept everybody for their beliefs
These comments r a joke😂 this girl isn’t “old fashioned” she’s just living a life that she follows and there’s nothing wrong with it. She’s harming no one and just happily living her life while respecting other people too. And this guy is living his own lifestyle which also isn’t wrong. U lot calling her closed minded are the real ones that need to open ur mind
I think they are perfect for someone, just not each other. They seemed attracted to one another, but that can't always build a good and lasting relationship. She was wise to acknowledge being a Christian was so important to her that it wouldn't work to marry someone who's not one, and therefore it's wrong to date him. I would do the same, but I do feel sorry for her and him. They're both such nice, genuine people!!
오픈 마인드라는 주제가 모든걸 받아들여야 한다고 생각하시는 분들이 정말 많은것 같네요. 댓글을 쭉 읽고 있는데 전부는 아니지만 다수가 저 여성분을 존중해주시진 못하시네요... 왜 이걸 보시는 분들은 오픈 마인드가 아닌거죠? 저 여성분은 종교가 인생의 90%나 차지하는 분이신데도 이런 촬영을 한 것 만으로도 충분히 오픈 마인드에 규합한다고 생각이 드는데 말이죠. 저희는 그저 이 영상을 보면서 이야기를 나누면 되는거지 맹목적으로 무언가를 비난하는것은 맞지 않다고 생각해서 한번 댓글 남겨봅니다.
Honestly the girl would fit me more. For example change is necessary in a relationship and I mean good change. A relationship should force two people to present their best and live their best so to be a better person for their loved one. Of course this shouldn't be one sided, both parties need to make an effort. Relationships were both accept each other's bad sides readily tend to burst sooner or later and start to get toxic. Not again. I want a partner that wants to change for me as I will change for my partner and get rid of my bad habits. If we don't, is there even love? But that's me.
Same here, i feel like too many people here are ganging up against her and bashing her I mean.. its cool that the dude is very open minded and all, but he's still not perfect and his answers werent all the best either, he also seemed undecisive about certain things and contradicting some points of his own aswell, while the girl, despite not as "accepting of differences" as some may say for the guy, but she has a vision and she holds onto it strongly, which is what i admire most in people, as it is something i do myself to, regarldess of what anyone may say or think about me, my beliefs are the concrete of my path, the foundation, and if it does not match or align with someone else's, then it's just simply not meant to be walked together for us both, nothing to fault anyone for except that we just all have different opinions and are different people with different needs of others
I really like the mindset of the guy and I think we actually have the same mindset. Whereas the girl is pretty conservative and it's okay. They both wouldn't work together as per me if they would have needed up together.
I like how the guy's sharing his thoughts, it's neat and clear. but i think the 'beat' he's using to have a conversation in a blind date is too fast. I think the flow should be more easy to follow if you get what i mean, because the topic itself is a bit heavy and your date might be need some time to process the question and your responds. Moreover, the girl never dates before, she looks so shy and awkward, maybe it's her first time in a blind date(?), so i think she might need some time too to choose the right words to project her view on something. But i dont mean it necessarily deducting his point at all, it's still cool. I dont know, it's just what i think. Maybe because he's a teacher too. But tbh i'm starting to like his personality and his 'vision' just until i see the 'smirk' he's showing when the light's off, he looks like "has given his best to respond yet still be rejected". It contradicts with how 'openminded and out of the box' he is
내가 이래서 독실한 교인들을 싫어합니다 남성분한테는 전혀 흠잡을게 없어요 오히려 의견과 가치관이 달라도 많이 이해해주려고 노력하는데 여자분은 결국 종교적 가치관이 안맞으면 짤이네요ㅋㅋㅋ 남성분 성격좋고 직업좋으면 뭐합니까 저 여자는 이미 답정너인데 ㅋㅋㅋ 저렇게 종교밖에 모르는 여자를 이런프로그램에 섭외 해봤자 의미 없지 않나요? 질문해가며 서로의 대해 알아가는 과정자체가 무의미 하지않나요? 제가 선정한 글램 모든 편 중에서 최악의 여성분이네요ㅋㅋㅋㄱㅋㅋ
@@조주현-c1m 종교가 인생에 50%를 넘어가면 인생이 종교자체가 될 수 있기 때문에 살기가 힘들어지죠....내 인생보다 종교가 중요해지는 어떤 종교를 믿던 상관은 없지만 그 종교가 삶이 되면 안된다고 생각합니다 저도....물론 그 종교가 비도덕적인 행동을 해서는 안되겠지만유 지나가다 갑자기 필타서 댓글 답니닼ㅋㅋ
I respect both of their views, and am glad she stuck to her beliefs, as he said "if it didn't suit him, he wouldn't going to church with her", which can cause arguments and fights between couples. And she wants a relationship that is long term and lifetime which is a hard decision to make and its right that she should be careful.
when I listened to her saying she hasn't been in any relationship honestly I was shocked. she's very pretty it's impossible no one ever tried to hit on her but when she explains she's a christian and really sticks into her beliefs, I understand. she is nice though, she knows what she wants. it's just he was not meant to be with her.
Yeah, that first answer of his was what threw me off most about this whole conversation/date thingy.. At least at first, tho his other answers were all good, but i do think both of them did well, and the girl stuck to her views well, i liked that she didnt change her answers just to appeal to or please him or others watching, meanwhile he really switched up from his first answer to the other ones, almost like trying to make her like him more by acting more open minded due to one very big disagreement/red flag there. Tho i do think their incompatability was unavoidable, not even because of the last question, but simply because religion would've played a part in their relationship sooner or later even if they had hit it off after this blind date show thingy, cause yeah.. She sticks to what she's lived to believe, while he's lived to break other people's beliefs on a more unorthodox basis
He didnt say that though, pay attention. He said they cant be JUST friends. There are limits to those types of friendships. That isnt even a matter of opinion, its just factual
I agree with some of the Korean comments. Why did they even invite her or why did she agree to do this questioning if she is a devout Christian? She said she prefers if the guy is Christian so they can more easily date since they would both have the same beliefs. She knows that its best to date with a Christian than a non-christian. There's nothing wrong with her but I'm just confused why she was invited. I'm a Christian myself but I know not to date with non-Christians, so I wouldn't look for a date from a place like this channel since its more secular. I won't find a Christian man here lol.
개인적인 의견이지만, 아 참고로 저는 무교예요. 요새 종교의 종류도 여러가지면서 서로 다를 수도 있고, 아예 없을 수도 있는 경우도 많은 건데.. 예를 들어 A가 천주교를 다니는 데. B가 종교를 다닌 적이 없으면서 별 생각이 없었다거나 같은 곳이 아니라고 해서 뭔가 맞지 않는다고 생각해서 A가 B를 밀어내려는?(살짝 기피하거나 이런 면..) 그런 게 정말 많아서 뭔가 종교 외적인 부분으로도 충분히 맞춰가거나 이해해 줄 가능성도 많다고 느낌이 드는데도 이 영상 외에도 다른 비슷한 영상에서도 남녀 간의 대화에서 초반에는 수월하다가도 종교가 맞지 않다는 이유만으로도 끝내는 안좋게 끝을 낸 영상들을 보면서 참... 안쓰러웠네요.
심심해서 적어보는 내 친구아버지가 독실기독교인 친구어머니를 따라 교회에 다녀서 결혼한 후 의 결혼생활 썰 1.친구네 아버지가 어머니한테 반해서 교회까지 따라갔고, 결국 결혼하시고 친구랑 여동생을 낳았다함. 그리고, 친구랑 아버지는 교회 ㅈㄴ 싫어하는데 어머니랑 여동생은 독실한 기독교인이라함. 2. 친구놈이 굉장히 똘똘하고 말빨도 좋다. 자기가 이해가 안 되거나 궁금한게 생기면 어떻게든 알아내는 놈이다. 학구열도 높고 아는것도 많은 똘똘이 스타일. 그리고 할말 다하는 놈이라서 아니다 싶은거에 할말 다한다. 목사님 말씀에 토달고 반박 ㅈㄴ게해서 목사님 할말없게 만든게 한두번이 아님. 그래서 교회에서 거의 미친놈비슷하게 찍혔다고 한다. 근데도 어머니는 친구보고 교회가야된다고 끌고간다함. 친구는 우리한테 가기싫다고 찡찡대는게 일상. 3. 친구네 아부지는 십일조(?)로 총소득 10%뜯어가고, 어머니가 무슨 기부금같은걸 아부지몰래 내곤 하시니깐 빡돌아서 대판싸운적이 한두번이 아니라 함. 부부싸움 원인 1순위가 교회와 관련된 경제적인 문제때문이라고 함 4. 내 친구 여동생은 겁나게 이쁘다. 실제로 학교 ,학원, 독서실에서 사냥꾼 전유물마냥 번따쪽지 붙은 커피캔 받아오는게 일상이다. 근데 영상 여자분처럼 모솔은 아니지만, 외모대비 연애경험이 적다. 남자보는 기준이 와꾸(최저등급제만 넘기면 패스라 함), 성격, 스타일, 학력 등등 여러개가 있으나, 가장 비중높은게 영상의 여자분처럼 종교라함. 실제로 사겼던 남친들이 다 교회에서 만났다 함. 전도사?? 포교사?? 정확히는 기억안나는데 간부 직위 비슷한 놈도 얘한테 겁나 껄떡댔으나, 잘 안됐다고 한다.
I like how he thinks and his mindset is very wide and very understanding. I don't think he would go well with the girl. I think some people would not like him because of how he thinks everyone should live how they want since people may see it as ignorance and nonchalant. I wish there are more people who have a mindset like him.
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Please bring him back, i hope he finds someone next time because I love how open minded he is!
Yeah i think the channel brought the girl in so he could open her mindset thats why the series is called openmind
why spoiler... whyyyyyy
@@luzio21 don't read the comments before watching the video if you don't want to see spoilers
ngl i dont think hes too open minded
to be quite honest i felt as if the girl was conservative and old fashioned in her thinking. the man was very open minded and wanted to break societal norms. good for both of them!
Its no big deal but "old fashion" kinda sounds offensive, but its actually not if you really look into it... idk
Probably bcz she said she didn't date before so she didn't have that much experience. She could still give it a try tho who knows what'll happen.
Not really but ok.
I agree it was good that both of them stuck to their own principles. I loved his mindset but I empathize with the girl's situation, she seemed to really like him as well but she was being mature and acknowledging that she shouldn't casually start dating someone she knows doesn't share her beliefs, which she said takes up most of her life. As a Christian, I believe I would have to do the same.
Yeah that’s why she couldn’t that anyone
I started out rooting for the girl and ended up falling for the guy. His mind is beautiful and accepting. Although there's nothing wrong with a conservative mindset - as long as it's not harmful - I prefer a liberal one. Both seemed like genuinely good people. I'm glad they didn't end up together ; they would disagree too often
wow as a Christian I rly respect the girl and how she explained her values very respectfully and clearly
Yup. Agree
Actually I'm shocked to see a girl in korea that strong princip about a religion..last time I made a trip with my church in korea its difficult to see a young girl have a strong mind about christianity
both are so matured in thinking about future and making choices, it's okay, the conversation was nice :) and both are so beautiful
Despite their difference, I love how both are respectful to each other. Sometimes thing just doesn't work. Good luck for both.
여자분 말투가 따지듯이 말씀하신달까? 너무 까칠해 보여요. 외모도 예쁘신데 왜 모솔이실까 싶었는데 말투에서 너무 벽이느껴지네요..
왜요?ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 기엽다고 생각하고 잇엇는데 이렇게 생각할수도 잇군요
저두 에스알님 말씀 동감 해요 여성분 영양사 일 하신다 하셧죠 그래서 그런가 좀 힘든스탸일 이시네요..
암만 만날남자 없어도 니는 안만나
일단 남자분은 확실히 오픈마인드네용
@@yyys7772 그렇게 빨아준다고 저 여자가 너한테 가랭이 벌릴 일 없어 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
the guys point is good but the girl also has a good point, its just that they are completely different.
안녕하세요. 남자 출연자입니다!
이번 출연은 저에게도 새롭고 신기한 경험이었습니다.
촬영은 서로 존중하는 분위기에서 진행되었어요.
마음에 안 드는 부분이 있으시더라도, 너그럽게 이해해주시면 감사하겠습니다.
그리고 이번에 채널을 개설하게 되었어요!
소개팅에 궁금한 점이 있으시다면, 제 채널로 놀러오세요 :)
건강한 마인드로 인생을 사시는 것 같아 많이 본받았습니다. 여성 분의 안 좋은 댓글에 대해 괜히 신경쓰이실 수 있으실 텐데 편집으로 인한 오해나 대본 등 약간 픽션이 가미되었나요 아님 주체적으로 진행이 되었나요?
i really enjoyed listening to your opinions
@@그라데이션-d7k 악의적인 편집, 대본이 주어지는 등의 픽션은 없었어요. 대화 진행도 자유로웠고, 전체적으로 서로를 존중하며 촬영했습니다. :)
@@pelin0611 Thanks a lot :)
I loved your point of view on all of these questions! It's so great to see someone as open minded as you. I'm sure you'll find someone compatible, 화이팅!!
if he's my teacher, my attendance score will be 100%
disgusting
@@mimso3431 what is disgusting?
@@mimso3431 what is disgusting in this ?? Didn't they have right to say what they want ?? She or he like him so they say that they want him to be his teacher nothing is wrong in that !!!! Don't just throw words it may hurt others
@@lachimolalaai7893 ok first, if someone gets offened by a stupid youtube comment which i cant see causing harm, thats not my problem, the person is too sensitive. secondly, i think its disgusting to pursue an education because the teacher is so cute hihihi xoxoxoxoxoxo :**** oppaaaaaaaaaaa
남자분이 진국인듯 b 좋은 사람 만나실꺼에요 :)
종교 얘기 나올때 결과가 보였습니다. 영상으로 완성하기 전, 종교적인 부분은 인터뷰를 통해서 조율하고 찍어야 되는게 아닌가 싶네요. 다른 댓글에도 있지만 상대가 같은 종교가 아니면 끝인데, 이걸 왜 진행한건지 좀 답답하네요.
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YEARS FOR THIS SERIES TO COME BACK AYYYYY
아니 저 정도로 종교에 독실한 사람을 왜 섭외하는거죠? 인생에서 종교가 90% 차지할 정도로 기독교에 독실한 사람이 서로 질문하고 가치관을 알아보는게 무슨 의미가 있죠? 같은 종교 아니면 컷인데. 그냥 시작부터 종교부터 묻고 시작하든지요.
ㄹㅇ 재밌다가 종교로 한번에 다망침
ㅇㅈ ;;;;
저거 하나로 확 답답하고 하루 공친 느낌 받았을듯.. 큰 결심하고 나왔을텐데
가끔은 저런 강직한 신념이 사람을 망쳐요ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 종교적 신념이면 말 다한겁니다 분명히 사귀다가도 1순위는 남자친구가 아닌 교회가 될 사람이에요; 글램보면서 독특한 여성분은 많이봤어도 이렇게 실망한 여성분은 처음봤네요ㅋㅋㄱㅋ20대중반 넘어가는 모쏠은 과학임,,,
극공감 합니다. 종교가 90% 차지 할정도라면.. 진짜 상대의 관심사 부터 가치관 모든걸 알아보는게 무슨 의미가 있을까요...
오우 완전 안맞는구만 ........
It’s nice that she knows her values and sticks to them 🥰
he's so open minded I love his way of thinking and perspective, good thing he's a teacher.
I actually liked both of them. They're just not right for each other.
When he smiles his whole face changes completely 😂❤he's so cute, I hope he finds someone more compatible
저렇게 한참 얘기하고 까이면 남자 개찝찝하겠다 ㅜㅜ 힘내세요
Love a girl who sticks to her beliefs. Respect sista.
People praising him like its rare to see people like him but nowadays its actually rare to see people like her...
Sameee i loved her I can’t quite put it into words
True
I really does like the girl, because she's seem to know what she really want in her reltionship, even tho she's never got a boyfriend
이건 그냥 남자분만 '오픈마인드' 같은데요?
ㅇㅈ
맞아
I think they are both openminded. She knows what she wants and it would be hard for them to be in a relationship.
솔직히 남여가 얼굴보고 사람만나는거아니여도 잘생기면 좋은건 맞잖음
그치 그냥 이왕이면 얼굴 이쁘고 잘생긴게 좋지
I love how this man thinks omg
Boy you deserve better. I love the way you think. I think when you want to change the society or norms starting with your own is best.
She also deserves better
@@kean6577 mh no
@@eleonoramang6405 mh yess, dont be a hypocrite
@@eleonoramang6405 dont just root for one just because you dont agree with the other, different opinions exist out there, the world isnt just black or just white or just gray or just one and the same color you know.... be open minded and accept everybody for their beliefs
@@silentlyjudgingyou5748 they can root for whoever they want. and that is probably going to be the person with similar beliefs to theirs.
These comments r a joke😂 this girl isn’t “old fashioned” she’s just living a life that she follows and there’s nothing wrong with it. She’s harming no one and just happily living her life while respecting other people too. And this guy is living his own lifestyle which also isn’t wrong. U lot calling her closed minded are the real ones that need to open ur mind
허허;: 연애를 못해 본 이유를 알겠어요ㅜㅜ
I think they are perfect for someone, just not each other. They seemed attracted to one another, but that can't always build a good and lasting relationship. She was wise to acknowledge being a Christian was so important to her that it wouldn't work to marry someone who's not one, and therefore it's wrong to date him. I would do the same, but I do feel sorry for her and him. They're both such nice, genuine people!!
Can you please bring him back ? Love the way he thinks !
She's really good at this, she does know what she really want in a relationship, even tho she never been in a relationship...bless you 🙏
it's all going pretty okay until that last question, the guy is so open minded tho :'(
저 여자는 왜나온건지? 종교가 90% 라면 자기 종교인들 속에서 찾아야지. 남자가 무교인데도 저런데, 불교였다면 아무리 맘에 들어도 반대 이지 않았을까?
첫질문에 종교 질문 부터해라.. 그정도로 중요한건데 앞질문은 뭐하러함 시간만낭비 한꼴
Honestly, i like the girl & how she thinks
she is very sweet and charming and mature :)
오픈 마인드라는 주제가 모든걸 받아들여야 한다고 생각하시는 분들이 정말 많은것 같네요. 댓글을 쭉 읽고 있는데 전부는 아니지만 다수가 저 여성분을 존중해주시진 못하시네요... 왜 이걸 보시는 분들은 오픈 마인드가 아닌거죠? 저 여성분은 종교가 인생의 90%나 차지하는 분이신데도 이런 촬영을 한 것 만으로도 충분히 오픈 마인드에 규합한다고 생각이 드는데 말이죠. 저희는 그저 이 영상을 보면서 이야기를 나누면 되는거지 맹목적으로 무언가를 비난하는것은 맞지 않다고 생각해서 한번 댓글 남겨봅니다.
진짜 기독교인들만 만날꺼면 교회에서 탐색해라 진짜아아아아아 아니 여기서 기독교인을 찾으면 어케 상식이 잇니?? 하 진짜 화난다...
아니 이거 서로 연애할려 아니였어? 보다가 토론 듣는 것 같았네 ㅋㅎㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
그래도 배고플숭있죠 할때부터 걸렀다
지는 자존감 높은 줄 알고 있을 거 아니에요ㅋㅋㅋ어디가서 사화생활 못한다는 뒷담을 직접 들을 순 없으니..불쌍
인정ㅋㅋㅋ 거기서부터 대충 어떤 성격인지 눈에 보였음
종교 아니였어도 별로임 괜히 모쏠이 아님
오 인트로 멋지다 시즌2 기다렸어요
외모만이 중요한 게 아니라는걸 여실히 보여주네요.
i liked the girl, such lovely strong will women with a strong personality
I LOVE THAT GIRL. I love conservative christian girls like her. She knows her values and sticks to it. 나는 저 여자를 사랑한다.
The guy was so open-minded I'd love to see him in another episode
Is the guy still available? because I am, and I love his mind.
Be back when English subs are there 🤠🤘🏽
Same. 🤓
They're here.
내 주변엔 왜 저런 남자 없음?
저 남자는 나랑 좀 잘 맞을 것 같은데 ㅇㅇㅋ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@김대영-z6q 워워 대영,, 급발진은 참아줘
유유상종 이죠 뭐든지 ㅋ
아으.. 네 존중합니다 일반인이니까 개인적인 비방은 안할게요
Honestly the girl would fit me more. For example change is necessary in a relationship and I mean good change. A relationship should force two people to present their best and live their best so to be a better person for their loved one. Of course this shouldn't be one sided, both parties need to make an effort. Relationships were both accept each other's bad sides readily tend to burst sooner or later and start to get toxic. Not again. I want a partner that wants to change for me as I will change for my partner and get rid of my bad habits. If we don't, is there even love? But that's me.
Same here, i feel like too many people here are ganging up against her and bashing her
I mean.. its cool that the dude is very open minded and all, but he's still not perfect and his answers werent all the best either, he also seemed undecisive about certain things and contradicting some points of his own aswell, while the girl, despite not as "accepting of differences" as some may say for the guy, but she has a vision and she holds onto it strongly, which is what i admire most in people, as it is something i do myself to, regarldess of what anyone may say or think about me, my beliefs are the concrete of my path, the foundation, and if it does not match or align with someone else's, then it's just simply not meant to be walked together for us both, nothing to fault anyone for except that we just all have different opinions and are different people with different needs of others
I really like the mindset of the guy and I think we actually have the same mindset. Whereas the girl is pretty conservative and it's okay. They both wouldn't work together as per me if they would have needed up together.
Likewise!
아이린 느낌 난다
남자분은 열려있는 분이시고 개방적인 마음이 정말 진국이신데 여자분은.... 저렇게 꽉 막힌 사람이라니........ 학생답게가 뭘까요? 너무 구시대적 마인드에 갇혀 사시는거 같네요
I wanna be this dude's friend, cool guy
everything he said was attractive to me, seriously !!
same
근데 남자들 기준에서 화장 안해도되는 건 내 눈에 이쁘면 ㄱㅊ은거 화장하고 안하고 갭이 크다면 그냥 안만나지
너무 오픈 마인드인것도 상대방이 힘듦
I like how the guy's sharing his thoughts, it's neat and clear. but i think the 'beat' he's using to have a conversation in a blind date is too fast. I think the flow should be more easy to follow if you get what i mean, because the topic itself is a bit heavy and your date might be need some time to process the question and your responds. Moreover, the girl never dates before, she looks so shy and awkward, maybe it's her first time in a blind date(?), so i think she might need some time too to choose the right words to project her view on something. But i dont mean it necessarily deducting his point at all, it's still cool. I dont know, it's just what i think. Maybe because he's a teacher too. But tbh i'm starting to like his personality and his 'vision' just until i see the 'smirk' he's showing when the light's off, he looks like "has given his best to respond yet still be rejected". It contradicts with how 'openminded and out of the box' he is
i LOVE the way this guy thinks wow
내가 이래서 독실한 교인들을 싫어합니다 남성분한테는 전혀 흠잡을게 없어요 오히려 의견과 가치관이 달라도 많이 이해해주려고 노력하는데 여자분은 결국 종교적 가치관이 안맞으면 짤이네요ㅋㅋㅋ 남성분 성격좋고 직업좋으면 뭐합니까 저 여자는 이미 답정너인데 ㅋㅋㅋ 저렇게 종교밖에 모르는 여자를 이런프로그램에 섭외 해봤자 의미 없지 않나요? 질문해가며 서로의 대해 알아가는 과정자체가 무의미 하지않나요? 제가 선정한 글램 모든 편 중에서 최악의 여성분이네요ㅋㅋㅋㄱㅋㅋ
@@_Chicbox 승리자네요
진짜.. 종교가 인생의 90%..
종교에 의지 하는게 나쁜게 아니지만.. 같은 신앙심을 가진 사람을 원하는거라면 그냥 교회 가셔서 만나야 할듯
@@조주현-c1m ㄹㅇ 치킨집가서 '피자안팔면 다른 메뉴 쳐다보지도 않겠습니다.' 하는 격
@@조주현-c1m 종교가 인생에 50%를 넘어가면 인생이 종교자체가 될 수 있기 때문에 살기가 힘들어지죠....내 인생보다 종교가 중요해지는 어떤 종교를 믿던 상관은 없지만 그 종교가 삶이 되면 안된다고 생각합니다 저도....물론 그 종교가 비도덕적인 행동을 해서는 안되겠지만유 지나가다 갑자기 필타서 댓글 답니닼ㅋㅋ
종교인이 이런곳 나오는게 노이해;;
일단 여자분 연애 한번도 못해봤다길래 왜? 라고 했는데 종교에서 아~ 했다
Man if I was in his elementary school and I had him as a teacher....I think my attendance would be 100%.
진짜 안맞는다ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ외모적으로도 좀 안어울림ㅠㅠ 각자 좋은 연인을 찾으시길...
???: "외모적으로 안어울림"
SHE IS SO PRETTY
남자분 매력있네마..
I really love his opinions they are so like open hahah I don’t know how to say that but I love the way he thinks
더 세련되어져서 돌아왔네요!오픈마인드2😍🥰
종교얘기에 바로껏다
he seems quite open minded, which is nice
여자분 뭔가 표정변화많지않구 멍한 표정이 매력이네요 ㅎㅎㅎ..
He is so good looking and nice I really want to see more videos with him!
From the thumbnail he kinda looked like hongjoon, maybe it’s the eyes or the face structure
She looks like Irene a lil bit
fr waited for some1 to comment this lol
She looks like a alien, full of plastic
종교의 문제일 수도 있지만
그보다는 다양성과 보편성이라는 공존할 수 없는 두 가치의 충돌일 수도
I love the content on this channel. Keep up the great work. From Brazil 🇧🇷
I respect both of their views, and am glad she stuck to her beliefs, as he said "if it didn't suit him, he wouldn't going to church with her", which can cause arguments and fights between couples.
And she wants a relationship that is long term and lifetime which is a hard decision to make and its right that she should be careful.
when I listened to her saying she hasn't been in any relationship honestly I was shocked. she's very pretty it's impossible no one ever tried to hit on her but when she explains she's a christian and really sticks into her beliefs, I understand. she is nice though, she knows what she wants. it's just he was not meant to be with her.
i completely agree with his thoughts 😌
외국인들은 다 여자예쁘다 결혼하고싶다 이러는데 한국인들만 욕하네 ㅋㅋ 나도 저여성분 딱 이상형인데 만나고싶다
Respect to the girl, not about supporting a certain religion or another, but to know her values and sticking to it. I wish both of them happiness
종교...
사전 인터뷰 안 하시나요?
Everyone saying he’s open minded but the literal first thing he said was me and women cant be friends 😩😂
Yeah, that first answer of his was what threw me off most about this whole conversation/date thingy.. At least at first, tho his other answers were all good, but i do think both of them did well, and the girl stuck to her views well, i liked that she didnt change her answers just to appeal to or please him or others watching, meanwhile he really switched up from his first answer to the other ones, almost like trying to make her like him more by acting more open minded due to one very big disagreement/red flag there.
Tho i do think their incompatability was unavoidable, not even because of the last question, but simply because religion would've played a part in their relationship sooner or later even if they had hit it off after this blind date show thingy, cause yeah.. She sticks to what she's lived to believe, while he's lived to break other people's beliefs on a more unorthodox basis
He didnt say that though, pay attention. He said they cant be JUST friends. There are limits to those types of friendships. That isnt even a matter of opinion, its just factual
So naive
Coming in too early, no eng sub yet 😅
종교보고 포교얘기나왔을때 알았다..
ahhh i love the flow of the conversation.. it's just at the end-
when it goes dark I always get so sad :(
I agree with some of the Korean comments. Why did they even invite her or why did she agree to do this questioning if she is a devout Christian? She said she prefers if the guy is Christian so they can more easily date since they would both have the same beliefs. She knows that its best to date with a Christian than a non-christian.
There's nothing wrong with her but I'm just confused why she was invited. I'm a Christian myself but I know not to date with non-Christians, so I wouldn't look for a date from a place like this channel since its more secular. I won't find a Christian man here lol.
개인적인 의견이지만, 아 참고로 저는 무교예요. 요새 종교의 종류도 여러가지면서 서로 다를 수도 있고, 아예 없을 수도 있는 경우도 많은 건데..
예를 들어 A가 천주교를 다니는 데. B가 종교를 다닌 적이 없으면서 별 생각이 없었다거나 같은 곳이 아니라고 해서 뭔가 맞지 않는다고 생각해서 A가 B를 밀어내려는?(살짝 기피하거나 이런 면..) 그런 게 정말 많아서 뭔가 종교 외적인 부분으로도 충분히 맞춰가거나 이해해 줄 가능성도 많다고 느낌이 드는데도 이 영상 외에도 다른 비슷한 영상에서도 남녀 간의 대화에서 초반에는 수월하다가도 종교가 맞지 않다는 이유만으로도 끝내는 안좋게 끝을 낸 영상들을 보면서 참... 안쓰러웠네요.
언제부터 오픈마인드가 개방적이지 않으면 배척하는게 되었죠...? 여성분이 욕먹을이유를 모르겠네요..
먼가 아이린 닮앗네 탱탱부은 아이린
Ah man, he was really cool.
29살 남자 같지 않은데
연애는 고친다 x
같이 맞춰간다
심심해서 적어보는 내 친구아버지가 독실기독교인 친구어머니를 따라 교회에 다녀서 결혼한 후 의 결혼생활 썰
1.친구네 아버지가 어머니한테 반해서 교회까지 따라갔고, 결국 결혼하시고 친구랑 여동생을 낳았다함. 그리고, 친구랑 아버지는 교회 ㅈㄴ 싫어하는데 어머니랑 여동생은 독실한 기독교인이라함.
2. 친구놈이 굉장히 똘똘하고 말빨도 좋다. 자기가 이해가 안 되거나 궁금한게 생기면 어떻게든 알아내는 놈이다. 학구열도 높고 아는것도 많은 똘똘이 스타일. 그리고 할말 다하는 놈이라서 아니다 싶은거에 할말 다한다. 목사님 말씀에 토달고 반박 ㅈㄴ게해서 목사님 할말없게 만든게 한두번이 아님. 그래서 교회에서 거의 미친놈비슷하게 찍혔다고 한다. 근데도 어머니는 친구보고 교회가야된다고 끌고간다함. 친구는 우리한테 가기싫다고 찡찡대는게 일상.
3. 친구네 아부지는 십일조(?)로 총소득 10%뜯어가고, 어머니가 무슨 기부금같은걸 아부지몰래 내곤 하시니깐 빡돌아서 대판싸운적이 한두번이 아니라 함. 부부싸움 원인 1순위가 교회와 관련된 경제적인 문제때문이라고 함
4. 내 친구 여동생은 겁나게 이쁘다. 실제로 학교 ,학원, 독서실에서 사냥꾼 전유물마냥 번따쪽지 붙은 커피캔 받아오는게 일상이다. 근데 영상 여자분처럼 모솔은 아니지만, 외모대비 연애경험이 적다. 남자보는 기준이 와꾸(최저등급제만 넘기면 패스라 함), 성격, 스타일, 학력 등등 여러개가 있으나, 가장 비중높은게 영상의 여자분처럼 종교라함. 실제로 사겼던 남친들이 다 교회에서 만났다 함. 전도사?? 포교사?? 정확히는 기억안나는데 간부 직위 비슷한 놈도 얘한테 겁나 껄떡댔으나, 잘 안됐다고 한다.
She is too beautiful to be a real person wow
You just really enjoy a thoughtful conversation
I like how he thinks and his mindset is very wide and very understanding. I don't think he would go well with the girl. I think some people would not like him because of how he thinks everyone should live how they want since people may see it as ignorance and nonchalant. I wish there are more people who have a mindset like him.
연애는 고쳐진 사람 갖다 쓰세요.
A random dude pops up on Glam and we're always like get me that guy