I can understand this woman and why she hangs on to hope. You want to see the good in him. You want to be the "one" for him because you've made that choice yourself. I guess I understand her - because I'm her too. You give so much in the hopes they will wake up and see how loving, patient and forgiving you are.
The man is a narcissist and the woman who sent the letter needs to cut him off. He's also using the child as breadcrumb leverage to keep her in his harem orbit. He is a toxic narcissistic predator who cannot be trusted at all. She honestly needs to stay away for her own safety.
i feel bad for her. he sounds like my ex. he told me that i'm crazy and that i'm a narcissist. when he's the one lying, cheating and in a relationship with me for a shelter. it's best to stay away from this kind of person. i wasted 18 years hoping that he'll change but he never changed. he got worse instead.
This is like my ex. I called him for his womanizing behavior, he told me I was just like his exes. He ended it, but there were so many red flags like this woman you said was gaslighted. But he continued to contact me. I discovered his secrets from his prior ex, and I dodged a bullet! These types are dangerous and that woman needs to run for the hills! I called my ex a fraud, an imposter, and told him I do not want him, I could not want a man who treats people so terribly and told him to never contact me again. Self respect is necessary!!
DreamBeatsBakery I do all the time... But at least now I know and can make better choices. My life isn't over, I still have time :) hopefully I can use my experience as a warning for others. And oh the story I could tell
Really everyone knows the majority of guys on dating sites are players. But for a woman to learn how to truely teach herself how to easily recognise the behaviors of such, she may entertain the thought of using the opportunity to talk to or date lots of them, not sleep with them and study their behaviors. Guaranteed they will start to learn the same patterns these guys have, manipulative behaviors etc. And start to learn how to avoid them from the start. Good way to get over the naive mindset that some of us have. A woman who values herself will have zero tolerance for guys who are players.
Great insight into her e-mail, I really hope she wakes up and begins to value herself. It's a shame how we act out our past experiences and our environments. Hopefully she'll break from the vicious cycle and find peace.
My ex said that it was him, not me. That he (DA) had a lot of work to do to feel worthy of my love since he wasn’t capable of receiving my warm heart. 🤦♀️ #next #BYEBYE
Hey coach my ex was contacting women on facebook asking for sexy photos. I am not sure if he slept with any of them or not. It was painful to find out because I was faithful to him. I even was an adult to apologize for my high anxiety and wrongs on my part while in that relationship. He has yet to contact me and apologize on his behalf. I learned that I deserved better. Oh well I learned a good lesson. GREAT VIDEO!!
Omg this sounds like my HS sweetheart who controlled me and made it seem like it was me and did all these things as well. Used our son to come back all the time. I was very young and didn't know any better plus my mom left us when I was 9. I dont think I ever felt love from her but my grandma gave me that love. My dad was an alcoholic so my brother and I were always with our grandparents. They are the ones who showed us unconditional love. I was the only girl so when my.step mom moved in, she was verbally abusive to me because I look like my mom and they hate each other. I was 10 years old. She told me she and my dad didn't want me, etc etc. I rebelled at school, always fighting, because I was so unhappy at home. When my grandmother confronted my dad in front of my step mom, she of course denied her behavior but made my dad chose her or me and my dad picked her. So I went to live with my grandma. My grandpa had suddenly died when i was 11 and my world seemed to crash down and end. My brother was 10. We saw our dad party and we had to take care of him when he was like this. To a point where we had to drive him home one day because he was drunk and passed out. I was 10 years old! We had to help each other drive because we were too small to reach the pedals. Smdh... so I didn't have my grandpa, who loved me very much, my dad w asnt an emotional man and was very passive and my mom wasnt around. We got our love from everywhere else I suppose. Then one summer break when i was 13 i went to stay with my mom and decided to move with her. My dad was so upset he didn't talk to me for 2 years. My brother escaped by going to boarding school as an 8th grader and later lived with my dad's sister and husband. So, my HS boyfriend was narcissistic, controlling, insecure, etc and I guess he was a father figure to me so I didn't know any better. I felt he did it because he loved me. Well we graduated and went to college together and it got worse. It turned to physical abuse as well. We had our son when we were juniors in college. At that point that's what kept me in that relationship. He basically would cheat, go out, etc and I wasn't allowed to do anything but take his beatings. When I was 25 I said i had enough and left him. He pleaded and begged but I was done. I had to move out of state to get away from him because we were just like this woman story ...on and off and on and off. I always let.him come back. Anyway, I moved on but have attracted the same type of men all my life. I'm 42. I am divorced now and my youngest is 10 and my oldest is 21. I show and have showed my boys unconditional love and affection and worked hard to to let them not live in any way I grew up. But i still attract the same type of relationships. Unhealthy, looking for someone who is like my dad because deep down I still want the love from my dad and he still doesn't give it to me. (Brainwashed by my step mom he is) the last relationship ended a few weeks ago and I had the same unhealthy attachment to this man. Now, I have unrecognised what is wrong with me and am doing several programs to heal myself from my childhood issues so I can one day not attract or want the same type of man. Believe me, I've had so many good men want me but I always sabotage, purposely, those relationships if they start. And go back to the narcissistic type. I have self love issues, some insecurities, abandonment issues, etc. I never even realised I was mirroring the way I grew up. I seem to always sabotage anything or anyone good for me. Like I don't deserve that type of real love. Now, I'm on the road to self healing and hopefully I can break that cycle.
Craig, thanks for making me laugh and smile... I needed this so badly since I am just going through a recent breakup. You’re hilarious, even talking about a sad and difficult situation.
my ex had a wonderful childhood. I had a childhood of neglect and saw a lot of domestic violence and alcoholism. However I've learned to value myself and know what I deserve. My ex still told me He doesn't deserve me and let me go. I accepted the breakup although I want him back. He hasn't tried to get me back. So completely opposite of what you said.
@@SpaceCadet4Jesus oh wow, I posted that 2 years ago. Since then I met a wonderful guy who doesn't keep me at a distance. We've been together for a year and a half and bought a house together and recently adopted a puppy. That ex is doing who knows what, probably drinking and messing with other women's emotions. Thanks for asking :)
I know a woman like her. She is a sweetheart and I would love to build a relationship with her. But she only dates losers like the guy in this video and she gets burned every time. It's frustrating.
She must be having daddy issues which she must not be knowing..Its not her fault but it's her responsibility now to heal the Father wound and Stop dating losers like her daddy! She deserves Love❤🌠😊 Love is not familiar to her..Get her to Marisa Peer.. She will be Good in no Time! 🤗❤🌠
I need to come up with videos that help you after the break up. It’s been a while since Basically I was down and I was OK for a while but as of lately I’ve been missing him and feeling down. I caught myself several times wanting to reach out to him. Please come out with a video to keep strong and not break down and reach out to the dumper. I don’t want to get back together with him I know I can do better but for some reason has a lately I’ve been feeling kind of depressed I was remembering him. One strategy that I’ve read and use has been to remember all the things you don’t like about them. That strategy is not working right now. Please us. Thanks
What a classic.....I had to save this video on my phone....cant stop laughing..... Coach you are so funny.... Thanks for all you do for us !!! ....cant stop laughing
Hey man, I like the videos and have been following them since January. I have a question and hoping to get some kind of explanation. I am dating a foreign girl in Europe for almost 5 months now. I’m about to meet her family for Christmas and believe that our relationship has taken the form of being a serious 1 now. My question is this: I am only in this country for a few more months and she knows this. Lately I have noticed some things she has been doing like noting our differences, telling me to stop trying to speak the foreign language to her, and having more serious talks both online and in person. Would you consider these as indicators of her trying to find a way to break up and make it easier on herself for when/if it happens?
Ok, I was her. I cut him off. PLEASE don't hold onto hope that he will change. He is a psychopath, and being forgiving and loving is the type they target. Don't be anyone's target. Be a bitch! I mean it. Hold to your values and tell this dude you will never let his dog ass back and then learn the signs for the next one. If they have criminal or substance abuse records, short relationships, call their ex nuts etc-there's the first red flags. Develop a no tolerate mindset and never think a dog like that will change for you because you are the forgiving type! NEVER
This story is so messed up omg. Hilarious is how You read it though :) I am controlling my emotions, but would realy like to beat this computer like You've said haha!
Hi guys and Craig! A quick question.. I am dating a girl for 4 months we had the "talk" and she said I am perfect but dont see me as a potential future boyfriend... She still wanna date me and have fun but said "hope we are on the same page". Is it possible it can turn to a serious relasionship or just forget it as 4 months enough to fall in love? Thanks
The poor children, he is no man , he is rubbish, she and her kids are off much beter off, gosh the children deserves much beter. She must go on with her life, she is her own person , but very needy, her children deserves a mother with self respect . Inviroment where love and resect is, gosh can people not think for themselves. Never ever get back to a man with a past and lisence for std send him and dont look back .
I had to do it to keep mental health. Demand is very high and there's only one of me. I only have so many hours in a day/week. I literally have no life. If I Stayed at that price, I couldn't keep making videos 5 days a week...
Coach Craig Kenneth I understand man no worries. Honestly though your videos have been extremely helpful. You taught me exactly how to "leave the door open" for an ex and tell her how I'm willing to compromise. Unfortunately it's a break up where we love each other very much but her zealot parents don't want her be with a man who is of a different faith (after two amazing years and us both being in our 20s). After trying to win her back for months I gave her space then reached out and said I'd try to assimilate with her faith and she seemed optimistic to it working. If it wasn't for your videos I'd have kept devaluing myself without her thinking there's a possible way for it to work. As you said, I left the door open and I will not be contacting her for any reason. It's been 12 days now unfortunately. I guess we'll see what happens. Anyway thanks a lot I'll continue to watch these videos, they've been great.
I can understand this woman and why she hangs on to hope. You want to see the good in him. You want to be the "one" for him because you've made that choice yourself. I guess I understand her - because I'm her too. You give so much in the hopes they will wake up and see how loving, patient and forgiving you are.
That's how I was with my last bf. I wanted to be the one who fixes him, holding on to hope my.love would change him, etc.
Exactly how I feel after he rejected me twice.
The man is a narcissist and the woman who sent the letter needs to cut him off. He's also using the child as breadcrumb leverage to keep her in his harem orbit. He is a toxic narcissistic predator who cannot be trusted at all. She honestly needs to stay away for her own safety.
i feel bad for her. he sounds like my ex. he told me that i'm crazy and that i'm a narcissist. when he's the one lying, cheating and in a relationship with me for a shelter. it's best to stay away from this kind of person. i wasted 18 years hoping that he'll change but he never changed. he got worse instead.
This is like my ex. I called him for his womanizing behavior, he told me I was just like his exes. He ended it, but there were so many red flags like this woman you said was gaslighted. But he continued to contact me. I discovered his secrets from his prior ex, and I dodged a bullet! These types are dangerous and that woman needs to run for the hills! I called my ex a fraud, an imposter, and told him I do not want him, I could not want a man who treats people so terribly and told him to never contact me again. Self respect is necessary!!
I have zero tolerance for liars and cheaters. Already went through that once before and NEVER again!
Excellent video as always, Craig! I wish I could afford your Skype call, you're amazing.
Sonya Haryett Do you think about all the good guys you passed up on to get with him?
DreamBeatsBakery I do all the time... But at least now I know and can make better choices. My life isn't over, I still have time :) hopefully I can use my experience as a warning for others. And oh the story I could tell
Really everyone knows the majority of guys on dating sites are players. But for a woman to learn how to truely teach herself how to easily recognise the behaviors of such, she may entertain the thought of using the opportunity to talk to or date lots of them, not sleep with them and study their behaviors. Guaranteed they will start to learn the same patterns these guys have, manipulative behaviors etc. And start to learn how to avoid them from the start. Good way to get over the naive mindset that some of us have. A woman who values herself will have zero tolerance for guys who are players.
This🙏🏻
I don’t think that’s true at all
Great insight into her e-mail, I really hope she wakes up and begins to value herself. It's a shame how we act out our past experiences and our environments. Hopefully she'll break from the vicious cycle and find peace.
My ex said that it was him, not me. That he (DA) had a lot of work to do to feel worthy of my love since he wasn’t capable of receiving my warm heart. 🤦♀️ #next #BYEBYE
I hope she got rid of that miserable creep!!!
Hey coach my ex was contacting women on facebook asking for sexy photos. I am not sure if he slept with any of them or not. It was painful to find out because I was faithful to him. I even was an adult to apologize for my high anxiety and wrongs on my part while in that relationship. He has yet to contact me and apologize on his behalf. I learned that I deserved better. Oh well I learned a good lesson. GREAT VIDEO!!
Norman Rockwell is the illustrator you were probably thinking of
Omg this sounds like my HS sweetheart who controlled me and made it seem like it was me and did all these things as well. Used our son to come back all the time. I was very young and didn't know any better plus my mom left us when I was 9. I dont think I ever felt love from her but my grandma gave me that love. My dad was an alcoholic so my brother and I were always with our grandparents. They are the ones who showed us unconditional love. I was the only girl so when my.step mom moved in, she was verbally abusive to me because I look like my mom and they hate each other. I was 10 years old. She told me she and my dad didn't want me, etc etc. I rebelled at school, always fighting, because I was so unhappy at home. When my grandmother confronted my dad in front of my step mom, she of course denied her behavior but made my dad chose her or me and my dad picked her. So I went to live with my grandma. My grandpa had suddenly died when i was 11 and my world seemed to crash down and end. My brother was 10. We saw our dad party and we had to take care of him when he was like this. To a point where we had to drive him home one day because he was drunk and passed out. I was 10 years old! We had to help each other drive because we were too small to reach the pedals. Smdh... so I didn't have my grandpa, who loved me very much, my dad w asnt an emotional man and was very passive and my mom wasnt around. We got our love from everywhere else I suppose. Then one summer break when i was 13 i went to stay with my mom and decided to move with her. My dad was so upset he didn't talk to me for 2 years. My brother escaped by going to boarding school as an 8th grader and later lived with my dad's sister and husband. So, my HS boyfriend was narcissistic, controlling, insecure, etc and I guess he was a father figure to me so I didn't know any better. I felt he did it because he loved me. Well we graduated and went to college together and it got worse. It turned to physical abuse as well. We had our son when we were juniors in college. At that point that's what kept me in that relationship. He basically would cheat, go out, etc and I wasn't allowed to do anything but take his beatings. When I was 25 I said i had enough and left him. He pleaded and begged but I was done. I had to move out of state to get away from him because we were just like this woman story ...on and off and on and off. I always let.him come back. Anyway, I moved on but have attracted the same type of men all my life. I'm 42. I am divorced now and my youngest is 10 and my oldest is 21. I show and have showed my boys unconditional love and affection and worked hard to to let them not live in any way I grew up. But i still attract the same type of relationships. Unhealthy, looking for someone who is like my dad because deep down I still want the love from my dad and he still doesn't give it to me. (Brainwashed by my step mom he is) the last relationship ended a few weeks ago and I had the same unhealthy attachment to this man. Now, I have unrecognised what is wrong with me and am doing several programs to heal myself from my childhood issues so I can one day not attract or want the same type of man. Believe me, I've had so many good men want me but I always sabotage, purposely, those relationships if they start. And go back to the narcissistic type. I have self love issues, some insecurities, abandonment issues, etc. I never even realised I was mirroring the way I grew up. I seem to always sabotage anything or anyone good for me. Like I don't deserve that type of real love. Now, I'm on the road to self healing and hopefully I can break that cycle.
Craig, thanks for making me laugh and smile... I needed this so badly since I am just going through a recent breakup. You’re hilarious, even talking about a sad and difficult situation.
my ex had a wonderful childhood. I had a childhood of neglect and saw a lot of domestic violence and alcoholism. However I've learned to value myself and know what I deserve. My ex still told me He doesn't deserve me and let me go. I accepted the breakup although I want him back. He hasn't tried to get me back. So completely opposite of what you said.
Your Ex is right, Cheryl. He doesn't deserve you. You should unchain him. You deserve better . How has it been going since?
@@SpaceCadet4Jesus oh wow, I posted that 2 years ago. Since then I met a wonderful guy who doesn't keep me at a distance. We've been together for a year and a half and bought a house together and recently adopted a puppy. That ex is doing who knows what, probably drinking and messing with other women's emotions. Thanks for asking :)
@@tacosmargs58 Time does have a silent way of slipping by.
@@tacosmargs58 So happy for you😌🤗❤🌠
I know a woman like her. She is a sweetheart and I would love to build a relationship with her. But she only dates losers like the guy in this video and she gets burned every time. It's frustrating.
She must be having daddy issues which she must not be knowing..Its not her fault but it's her responsibility now to heal the Father wound and Stop dating losers like her daddy! She deserves Love❤🌠😊
Love is not familiar to her..Get her to Marisa Peer.. She will be Good in no Time!
🤗❤🌠
Your videos are golden! I don't know how you don't get at least 1m views on every video...
You were really on a roll here with the cynical humor. It added to getting the point though, great video.
I can't forget him
I miss him
Always look his pic and sleep
Always ready our old conversation
It Just hit me. I did have issues in the childhood and I tend to attract incompatible relationships ... Will I ever grow up???
I need to come up with videos that help you after the break up. It’s been a while since Basically I was down and I was OK for a while but as of lately I’ve been missing him and feeling down. I caught myself several times wanting to reach out to him. Please come out with a video to keep strong and not break down and reach out to the dumper. I don’t want to get back together with him I know I can do better but for some reason has a lately I’ve been feeling kind of depressed I was remembering him. One strategy that I’ve read and use has been to remember all the things you don’t like about them. That strategy is not working right now. Please us. Thanks
Ouch and I thought I had it bad.
My gosh. What a horrible story. I feel so bad for her
That should be a video..I see it with different relationships..they rebound or cheat from day one to 1 month of break up
Your so good at your job
Coach could you make a video about how to move on 100%? or how to forgive your ex but move on with your life?
The guy is disgusting. Heartless. Pain in the ass.
hahahaha the baby is always hungry! we'll leave him alone with his bottle!
hahahahaha i love your comments...
hope you feel better with the cold...
What a classic.....I had to save this video on my phone....cant stop laughing..... Coach you are so funny.... Thanks for all you do for us !!! ....cant stop laughing
Hey man, I like the videos and have been following them since January. I have a question and hoping to get some kind of explanation. I am dating a foreign girl in Europe for almost 5 months now. I’m about to meet her family for Christmas and believe that our relationship has taken the form of being a serious 1 now. My question is this: I am only in this country for a few more months and she knows this. Lately I have noticed some things she has been doing like noting our differences, telling me to stop trying to speak the foreign language to her, and having more serious talks both online and in person. Would you consider these as indicators of her trying to find a way to break up and make it easier on herself for when/if it happens?
coach you should make a video about your lover jumping into a quick relationship .
Ok, I was her. I cut him off. PLEASE don't hold onto hope that he will change. He is a psychopath, and being forgiving and loving is the type they target. Don't be anyone's target. Be a bitch! I mean it. Hold to your values and tell this dude you will never let his dog ass back and then learn the signs for the next one. If they have criminal or substance abuse records, short relationships, call their ex nuts etc-there's the first red flags. Develop a no tolerate mindset and never think a dog like that will change for you because you are the forgiving type! NEVER
This story is so messed up omg. Hilarious is how You read it though :) I am controlling my emotions, but would realy like to beat this computer like You've said haha!
God bless too all the boys and girls that hav it rough growing up💙💕💙...
Hi guys and Craig! A quick question.. I am dating a girl for 4 months we had the "talk" and she said I am perfect but dont see me as a potential future boyfriend... She still wanna date me and have fun but said "hope we are on the same page". Is it possible it can turn to a serious relasionship or just forget it as 4 months enough to fall in love? Thanks
Norman Rockwell is the painter you meant?
Awesome job
Have you thought about joining Doctor on Demand?
Sounds like my ex.
Norman Rockwell
Yes!
The baby’s always hungry 😂 #Hilarious 🤣
The poor children, he is no man , he is rubbish, she and her kids are off much beter off, gosh the children deserves much beter. She must go on with her life, she is her own person , but very needy, her children deserves a mother with self respect . Inviroment where love and resect is, gosh can people not think for themselves. Never ever get back to a man with a past and lisence for std send him and dont look back .
Walt disney?
Sounds like my ex-wife
Ahhh Craig Man you raise the price of skype session haha why come on??? its so expensive now please put it back to 149
Taimur Mughal damnnnn I was very slightly considering it at a price that high already but...that's just too much. At least he has the free videos
Subtractt And such yes he already helped us a lot through free videos but damned I wanted another session but the price went up out of the blue
I had to do it to keep mental health. Demand is very high and there's only one of me. I only have so many hours in a day/week. I literally have no life. If I Stayed at that price, I couldn't keep making videos 5 days a week...
Coach Craig Kenneth I understand man no worries. Honestly though your videos have been extremely helpful. You taught me exactly how to "leave the door open" for an ex and tell her how I'm willing to compromise. Unfortunately it's a break up where we love each other very much but her zealot parents don't want her be with a man who is of a different faith (after two amazing years and us both being in our 20s). After trying to win her back for months I gave her space then reached out and said I'd try to assimilate with her faith and she seemed optimistic to it working. If it wasn't for your videos I'd have kept devaluing myself without her thinking there's a possible way for it to work. As you said, I left the door open and I will not be contacting her for any reason. It's been 12 days now unfortunately. I guess we'll see what happens. Anyway thanks a lot I'll continue to watch these videos, they've been great.
Subtractt And such most coaches are more and you get a LOT less!!!
Sounds like the current commander in chief
Damn you’re funny :p
Norman Rockwell