This is so real because when I turned 25 I had to deal with my behaviors. I sat down all night and wrote everything I found wrong before I pointed fingers at anyone! Thank you Benjamin for enlightening us all .. greetings from Spangenberg Germany 🇩🇪
May God add you more and more yrs Benjamin.....you make me strong everyday.... your just a blessing to us...have been heartbroken a month ago...I felt that was end of my life...but when i listened to you my life changed and became better... thanks so much
You need a person who knows your potential. never marry people who do not know your capacity📌 I always pause, rewind and replay sentences said by Mr zulu. i never get enough of his knowledge. thank you BZG team
Top reasons to settle for someone: 1. Physical and emotional safety: Take action when you experience any physical or emotional unsafety. You can leave a person before you unlove them. Prioritize your life and peace over love. 2. The person should be fun. The person should have a sense of humor. 3. Generous with setting aside their time, energy and resources for you. A person who cannot give cannot love you selflessly. 4. Settle for someone who can identify your potential, can keep you accountable and has capacity to build with you.
Very good conversation wish it was longer, when you are dating get into the habit of talking about your goals and dreams...you will be surprised how many people dont want you..never ever ever settle for less..be blessed❤
I think now we should have two signatures to put down in the wedding 🤣🤣✌🏿. 1. Terms of references and agreements. 2. Marriage certificate. Because wueh!!! People are weird by day🤣 Some men want their ego to be pampered all the time. And after paying the bride price, they feel like they bought you like a pet 🐕. Lots of nonsense 🤣
Mr .Zulu talk of this religion that teaches us first marriage yaani lf lt didn't work or not working still lt is yours.You cannot leave and remarry again.please
The person should be fun...thats very important hey. I am looking for a friend, someone I can be myself around. Some people are just so STIFF yoh! 😪😪 2. The person must be GENEROUS🤝✍ I don't want to persevere 😫🥱😤 Thank you Benjamin for this...its loaded!
This is so real because when I turned 25 I had to deal with my behaviors. I sat down all night and wrote everything I found wrong before I pointed fingers at anyone! Thank you Benjamin for enlightening us all .. greetings from Spangenberg Germany 🇩🇪
May God add you more and more yrs Benjamin.....you make me strong everyday.... your just a blessing to us...have been heartbroken a month ago...I felt that was end of my life...but when i listened to you my life changed and became better... thanks so much
Stay alone until you have decided the kind of life that you want. give names to your potential. sitting with self to better self❣
You need a person who knows your potential. never marry people who do not know your capacity📌 I always pause, rewind and replay sentences said by Mr zulu. i never get enough of his knowledge. thank you BZG team
You need a person who makes you his/her priority but not an option, then you will get to know the lane you are running to
Marry someone who is
Fun
Generous
Someone you vibe with
Respects you
Knows your potential
Top reasons to settle for someone:
1. Physical and emotional safety: Take action when you experience any physical or emotional unsafety. You can leave a person before you unlove them. Prioritize your life and peace over love.
2. The person should be fun. The person should have a sense of humor.
3. Generous with setting aside their time, energy and resources for you. A person who cannot give cannot love you selflessly.
4. Settle for someone who can identify your potential, can keep you accountable and has capacity to build with you.
5. Someone who can correct you and is not afraid to challenge you in a respectful manner . Eg: as Abigail (wife of Nabal) did to David.
Very good conversation wish it was longer, when you are dating get into the habit of talking about your goals and dreams...you will be surprised how many people dont want you..never ever ever settle for less..be blessed❤
"Does education level matter" has got me rolling on the floor.😂😂
Alooot
I always come to class 😺 with a pen and note book to learn and relearn. Operation kick foolishness outta my life. Help me God 🙏🏾
Wooow,Benjamin is just a blessing.Thankyou.
You're a blessing Mr ZULU
Personally, I like Willy as a presenter. He's very attentive which makes viewers hooked to the massage.
THE SANDWICH METHOD.. That's my take home. Start with the positive, insert the bitter pill (the truth) and end with something positive.
You always make so much sense.
This is just what I wanted to hear 🙏
This is deep! Thank you Zulu.
I think now we should have two signatures to put down in the wedding 🤣🤣✌🏿.
1. Terms of references and agreements.
2. Marriage certificate.
Because wueh!!! People are weird by day🤣
Some men want their ego to be pampered all the time. And after paying the bride price, they feel like they bought you like a pet 🐕. Lots of nonsense 🤣
😅 😅 It's like a sounding bell
@@AMUKENYA 🤣
Kidogo kidogo nimeskia eti ride a bicycle in the mansion😂😂🤣🤣in my next life, Zulu, I want to have your creativity!
😂😂😂😂Zulu leo amenishika hapo kwa perservre😂😂
I'm happy I left that situation before I became a driverless car
I badly needed this 😊
Feed his ego and his stomach. Lord I need that sandwich wisdom🤔😅
Is silence a threat equal to the other threats in times of anger?
Thank you benjamin u just cleared my mind ❤️
I really thank God for this show. Blessings follow you Benjamin Zulu🙏
God this man should leave long we need him
Yes he should live long
Mr .Zulu talk of this religion that teaches us first marriage yaani lf lt didn't work or not working still lt is yours.You cannot leave and remarry again.please
Thankyou soo much Zulu.....have learnt alot from you
May God bless you benjamin
God bless you Zulu! 🙌🏻
God bless you 🙏🙏🙏
thanks mr zulu
***Indeed****
Noted
😂😂 pre 25
Wow
The person should be fun...thats very important hey. I am looking for a friend, someone I can be myself around. Some people are just so STIFF yoh! 😪😪
2. The person must be GENEROUS🤝✍
I don't want to persevere 😫🥱😤
Thank you Benjamin for this...its loaded!