Yess, I rlly think it just the fact that Nick and Chris can communicate really well and quickly. Whereas With Matt it takes a little while longer for him to get a story out, or answer a question and they just rush him so much he feels like he cannot get the words out quick enough for them. I think it’s the rushing, talking over him that makes him the most upset.
Nick and Chris definitely got hate. But I’m not sure if they deserved it. Yes, I feel bad for Matt, but fighting is apart of having siblings. I feel like the people who hate on Nick and Chris the most are the ones who don’t have siblings. My brother messes with me when I’m already upset, it’s just apart of life. No one is hurting anyone. If Matt really had a problem with it, I’m sure he’d talk to Chris and Nick about it and ask for them to tone it down.
I have siblings and aldo I also think the feedback they got was exaggerated I see where it comes from and kinda agree with it, which is them telling Matt how to express himself and to change the way he speaks. I can't speak for Matt but it would definitely make me withdraw from the conversation and hurt my feelings. I would never tell my siblings to stop mumbling or to comment on how loud they speak in an exaggerated manner unless they were doing it on purpose to mess with me, which is understandable, and they would never do that to me. Hell even tho I didn't speak the most coherently as a kid my sister was a person that always got what I was saying. Again I am not saying it's this situation, but it really seemed like Chris and Nick just wanted Matt to speak the way they feel confident and comfortable in, while it was just not the comfortable way for him. Ultimately it's not really important and it's probably smth small in the grand skim of their lives, but yeah it's annoying for people to victimize Matt and calling his brothers ab**ive when it's clearly an exaggeration of the century.
I totally agree with you! People overreacted a lot about this. Also Chris Matt and Nick are living and working together, Matt already said that sometimes he needs a break from them lol I think he likes to be alone sometimes like he needs his space and it’s fine! I agree he would just tell them later if he felt bad or they would realize it, they love each other and always say they’re connected in a different way because they’re triplet brothers. They also always said they get over those stuff quickly, and I think that being basically 24 hours with someone when you have such different personalities as they do can lead to fights. I related so much with Matt in this video but I see this as normal behavior from them and not that big of a deal
i’m a sibling, i fight with them, but i would never treat them like this, especially knowing what matt’s been through, with his anxiety and mental health journey over all. even despite that it doesn’t feel good to be ganged up on by everyone else in the room. matt’s reaction was normal, he wasn’t overreacting, his emotions were normal yet they were completely invalidated. i think people always talk about how we should advocate for mental health and treating people with kindness until it affects you. matt needed support, if he had gotten that support maybe he would’ve been in a better mood, maybe he would’ve had a brighter outlook. but you’re not going to feel amazing and excited when your being treated like shit by the people you love most.
I 100% agree with everything you said. I really don’t think it was as serious as the fandom made it to be. At the end of the day they’re just brothers who sometimes pick on one another and then get over it. I just love how real they are. I love the fact that they keep all of their little arguments in their videos cause it makes watching them so much more relatable and real. Loved this video!! Pls keep the sturniolo content coming !! I missed them
@@doubting_soulNick and chris want him to speak too i'm sure the interrupting is not intentional and they just get rlly excited abt a topic while matt talks slower than them
i totally agree that it’s not that big of a deal lol but if someone would call me negative all the time that's gonna cause me to act even more negative, like i understand they wanted matt to just speak up more but like you said a more positive approach would work better than all the negative banter
I really don't like the "that's part pf their dynamics" because I don't think that being family and siblings excuses bad behaviour towards each other, especially as adults. And it's noticeable that Matt wasn't in the best mood on this podcast and they knew it and still kept pushing and when Matt said how he feels about this they started mocking him and said that he's "negative Matt" just because he spoke up for himself. I know they are siblings but I also have siblings and anxiety like Matt and I can imagine how Matt could feel like. With anxiety you can't control it and the fact that they are his sibling doesn't change everything. I'm not saying that Matt had to feel like I would if I was in this situation but I know that if my sibling were acting like that towards me I would simply leave and it would stuck in my head for a while.
i really do think siblings are just like that, i have 2 brothers and one sister and when we are pissed at each other we do everything to make the other annoyed. my friends families are like that too and so are adults. it really is a dynamic
a lot of people on instagram and tiktok and even youtube comments were giving a lot of hate to nick and chris cause they were “being really mean and rude” to matt but honestly i really didn’t get why? they are triplets brothers who do everything together imo i see it as really normal sibling banter, i feel like the fandom really just almost “babies” matt because how he’s able to express his emotions and feelings and they wouldn’t get as mad at matt if he picked on the nick or chris in the same way, but im really glad you made this video analyzing the pod!!
I was searching for this comment thank you ! That's exacly what I think and we all know that Chris and Nick love Matt so much. Also we don't know what is going on on their life when they're not filming so we can't juged them and hate them. We know they love eachother and wouldn't do anything without the 3 of them.
i get that there brothers and all but if u watched a little further chris called matt a quote "negative piece of shit" and if my brother said that to me i would be pissedddd and upset as shit
Well obviously, but does that mean they’re bullying him? No, I promise you next video they’ll be back to their “regular” dynamic like nothing even happened
Thank you for having a reasonable analysis. The way half this fanbase was going off on Nick and Chris, they were ready to crucify them. Some of younger fans seem to think Matt can't hold his own just because he has anxiety. When in reality he can probably hold it down better than most when it comes to his brothers, having been around them his whole life.❤😊
Right? Teenager girls on the internet acting like they know and care about Matt better than his own triplet brothers is insane. This part of the fandom is really annoying me
@@renatojunior2963 Right. I don’t really watch them but at the same time I can relate to Matt. But I also HATE how they baby him so much?? He’s his own person, not some kind of child you need to protect.
I completely agree. Can you watch the podcast episode where Matt talks about Chris being his role model? I think it was ep 11 and it's toward the end. Really highlights the relationship those two have. I also feel like recently their dynamics have shifted. Chris and Nick seem to get along better whereas Matt kind of shuts himself more. I miss seeing that unspoken understanding between Matt and Chris. Idk that's the way I see it I wanted to hear your opinion since you have also been watching them for so long.
I think you were very fair and spot on. I hope the guys see this video and learn to communicate more constructively. I think Nick and Chris have good intentions and genuine love in their heart when it comes to Matt but maybe just misunderstand each other when it comes to personality/mental/emotional differences.
4 minutes in is fine. It's over an hour podcast. After 4 minutes into it, the whole vibe of the podcast going forward changes and goes down instantly. You need to watch the whole thing.
You should react to their newest episode with Nathan because you can really see Matt come out of his shell as soon as he’s with friends ❤ Love the video Max!!
i think you need the context of having watched the other podcast episodes to understand why people were so upset by this episode in particular... more of a straw that broke the camel's back situation, if anything. chris and nick's comments about how matt speaks are definitely not encouragement lol, and it happens basically every episode. along with lots of other criticisms about how matt breathes, sits, doesn't talk enough, but then when he does talk he gets constantly interrupted, called boring, and they complain he's talking too much or is taking too long. he also comes by his soft spoken tone honestly, it's not a confidence thing - in the pod ep with their dad, you can tell he and matt have the exact same speaking mannerisms and voice. i also think the hypocrisy from chris and nick was just a bit too much for the viewers to handle this episode.
I think the issue is Matt is a little sensitive which is ok and maybe the other two should tone it down for him but i feel like people are overreacting when they say they pick on Matt because Chris and Nick are way meaner to each other but they both respond by laughing it off and moving on or by firing back in a playful way which Matt cant do. and that's the only reason it seems as if they pick on him but they really don't. They are way worse to each other but its not noticeable because of the way they react. I've just watched a one of their car video and Nick and Matt were basically telling Chris he needs to stfu the whole time but Chris did not take it to heart and so there was no one in the comments going "awww poor Chris" cause he doesn't react the way Matt does
@@rooc2784 ... did you even read my comment? the difference between telling chris to shut up vs telling matt to shut up is they actually still let chris talk and yap all he wants. i disagree that chris and nick are "way meaner" to each other. whenever matt "fires back" or just gets frustrated with not being able to speak/being shit on, he's "miserable matt", "tuff matt" "negative matt", etc. chris and nick definitely have a double standard where they can say anything they want to matt, but the second he gives them the same energy back they lose their minds. prime example, chris saying matt's comment was "the most hurtful thing ever said in this podcast room" after he and nick had been laying into matt unprovoked for the past 15-20 minutes. there was truly nothing "playful" about this podcast episode at all.
@anniekarenina wdym "did you even read my comment" who elses comment do you think i read. The reason why they "let him speak" is because he keeps talking anyways same with Nick. Matt when told to stop talking, stops talking. Matt when they talk over him either makes a weak attempt of regaining their attention, stops talking all together or tries to wait. The other two in that same situation don't, they carry on or speak on top of each other until one of them grabs the others attention and they start listening. In fact Chris and Nick interrupt each other all the time but it's the way they handle it that makes it not glaringly obvious. Again that's the difference. They don't shut down the way Matt does. I've watched so many of their videos and and it's usually Nick and Chris at eachothers throats (jokingly) and if you don't see that then I can't help you. Also Matt was on the defensive and so him "joking" wasn't in the same light hearted way, he was genuinely pissed. It's fine for Matt to be defensive and not like the type of banter the other two have and again maybey they should have backed off a little but it donst mean Nick and Chris particularly "target" Matt, it's just their personality. Also I don't understand how anyone with a sibling could ever look at this and genuinely get into their feels about a sibling teasing another and pissing each other off. My siblings would do much worse and piss me off way more than this on a daily basis and we're still really close. I was laughing the whole episode thinking of me and my siblings and the way we fught cause its never as deep as everyone is making it to be
@@rooc2784i mean, "did you even read my comment, because it's as if you missed everything i said entirely". did you also just totally miss the part in this literal episode where matt doesn't let nick interrupt him and nick talks over him anyway and goes "oh my god he's still talking..." like?? and then when matt calmly and rationally explained why that's frustrating, nick said some insulting and deeply hypocritical things. matt can't win no matter what he does. he was "on the defensive" because he came in ready to film a podcast episode about a topic that he was excited about and clearly meant a lot to him, and then immediately started receiving nonstop negative comments from both of the other two out of nowhere. they were intentionally pushing his buttons and then acting surprised when he got angry. throwing rocks and then hiding their hands. and then calling him names like "negative matt" for being understandably annoyed. that's not being "sensitive". i know chris and nick are frequently at each other's throats, but that doesn't negate my point about double standards at all - chris and nick can take it from each other, but, as i said, they CANNOT take it from matt, as i explained above. and i'm so unbelievably over the "siblings" excuse, everyone defending chris and nick acts like no one who is critical of their behaviour has siblings. over 80% of the world's population has siblings, the people who commented on that video fully understand, it's a huge cope to think that they're ALL only children. i have two siblings. i don't know how anyone with a sibling could ever look at this and not feel the palpable tension and just laugh. after chris yelled at matt that he was a "negative piece of shit" matt basically didn't talk (or even get a chance to contribute) after that, they just totally excluded him from the conversation for the rest of the episode. not funny at all. it's one thing to fight with your siblings - this was not an argument, it was very one-sided on chris and nick's part, which is why it was so unpleasant to watch. it's also another thing to post those types of sibling "fights" on the internet for everyone to see. also, i haven't just watched "so many" of their videos, i've literally seen all of them at least once - there has been a noticeable shift in the way matt is treated over the past several months, and if you don't see that, then i can't help you. sometimes things are that deep, but some people don't understand that because they're unobservant and lack empathy.
@anniekarenina again, Matt "let" Nick talk over him and wasn't aggressive. The whole point of what I'm saying is Matt is passive, Chris and Nick aren't. Put the other two in the exact same situation they wouldnt have reacted the way Matt did. Talking about "Matt rationally and calmly explained", yah, that's exactly it. That's not what the other two would have done. He's treated the same. it's just that he doesn't work the same. In fact, imo they are generally softer with him but sometimes not gentle enough for him (thats ok, thats his personality, nothing wrong with not liking that). Also, I never said their comments are encouraging to Matt. In fact, I think the opposite, which is precisely why I said it may be helpful if Chris and Nick toned it down sometimes. Also, again, I never criticized Matt for being defensive. He doesn't like that type of banter, and that's fine. Again he's allowed to not like it. I said that the "joke" Matt made wasn't received as well as the other jokes because he was in defense mode. Also Nick and Chris have taken it from Matt and it's funny because people love it. Matt is usually passive and when he makes jokes like that. everyone loves it, including Chris and Nick, as I've seen in so many of their car videos. It's always like "sassy Matt," and everyone enjoys it when he does it and it's not stemming from something he's genuinely really upset about like in this video. The only thing is that he rarely does it (hence why everyone loves it when he does and encourage him) and sometimes when he does he's really upset about something so the vibes are different and it's not taken in the same way like in this video. There's quite a few moment I can think of when Matt is being aggressive or "sassy" and Chris and Nick are loving it and lauging with him or at themselves at something Matt light heartedly critized them for. In fact in a lot of these analysis videos, everyone generally agrees that they both do have soft spot for Matt and that they aren't as aggressive with him. Sibling dynamics are so different. I never said everyone critizing the two dont have siblings, i said i don't understand how they see this and get so mad conseidering how siblings often behave with each other and how differnt sibling dynamics are. I was laughing at this not because i didn't think Matt was genunly upset but because I feel like I've been in each one of them shoes including Matt and it's funny looking at other siblings behaving the same way my sibling and I do. It's just what siblings do and its different from any other type of relationship. All my siblings once ganged up on me, i have 6 siblings all yelling at me telling me im being dramatic about something and I fell asleep crying but we were best friends again the next day because thats just how it works. They piss me off all the time and yes being called a "piece of shit" at least between my sibling and I would be something I'd forget by the next day. I think people on the outside have no business getting so riled up about other siblings' business.
I feel like Nick tried to de-escalate but it did it in a way Matt felt attacked, If you look closely all of them are exhausted. bags around the eyes and they are talking way slower than their other podcast. They are all also siblings that 95 percent of their life they have been together. This behavior is normal for brothers.
I agree they got way too much hate for the glimpse into their life and on camera too which who knows how exaggerated it could be, but I have to say even tho they are brothers the thing that bugged me about this one discussion let's call it, that never did with other 'Omg poor Matt' moments the fans make every chance they get, was that they were teasing him and making comments about his manner of speaking. I get that Chris and Nick wanted him to speak in a way that fells more confident and comfortable for them when they express themselves, but I think it's ignorant to say Matt speaking slightly quieter and maybe a little less coherent isn't him being comfortable and confident about what he is saying. Additionally I have to say it's annoying to listeners every time Matt speaks, which he honestly speaks like a normal person, and stops to gather his thoughts or just to make a little longer pause they always have to tease him about it or just say stuff about him talking and talking while justifying their talking over each other as 'It's a podcast we have to talk'. Like yeah it's a podcast, but you guys can take a small breather sometimes. Do I think they deserve to be called mean or rude? Not really. Do I think they can improve on some aspects of their communication? Yeaaaah
THIS BRO ppl are acting like everyone who is bugged by it is a hater and doesn’t get that siblings argue but as a viewer sometimes it’s frustrating when you actually want to listen to what Matt’s saying and he gets criticized. It’s starting to feel like a majority of videos it happens. It’s not that deep if it happens in their daily lives obviously but if we’re watching a car video or pod where you expect everyone to add to the discussion and one person is always cut off it gets kind of annoying. But still love them❤
I'm glad you did this analysis. I guess you saw the comments on that vid. There are about 3300. One after another after another basically say the same thing - that it's too painful to sit through. A lot of people, who said they'd not only seen every second of every video but rewatched over and over, said they had to turn it off and could not finish it. I know they film in advance so I don't know if it's connected but yesterday they announced that next week will be their last podcast.
@@Allthelightsareonif you guys actually took a step back from this parasocial relationship you have with matt, you’d notice that in many of their videos matt does in fact bring negativity so it is completely understandable where nick and chris are coming from. the fact that yall think you understand matt better than his triplet brothers is wild
I 100% agree and I’m glad you pointed that out! I was shocked when I saw all the comments coming for Nick and Chris when it’s quite evident that bickering is a part of their relationship. Especially since they live together 24/7 they’re bound to get on each other’s nerves which is totally normal. I mean the arguments I have with my siblings make their arguments look like nothing 😂they’ve also all said countless times that they have arguments all the time but they never last for over a day because they bounce right back and move on. It’s just funny to me that all of these people are stuck on defending Matt when in reality he probably moved on shortly after. That’s not to say that I’m invalidating Matt’s feelings because I would probably react that way too since I’m pretty sensitive myself. But I think people are doing way too much here hating on Nick and Chris for “bullying” Matt when they don’t even know them or the situation. I honestly appreciate their authenticity and how open they are with us because that’s how you know that they keep it real and aren’t just staging everything. Thanks for your reaction Max!!
So spot on, thank you for always breaking shiz down with a completely unbiased view of situations ❤️ I grew up in a pretty verbally abusive home, but with two parents who loved us as much as they possibly could. They just had COMPLETELY different communication styles and attachment styles; just polar opposites in every regard really. My Mum’s high anxiety manifests as anger and goes from 0-100 and back down to 0 as quick as anything, and my Dad (who we only discovered is autistic 5 years ago at the age of 55) has never really been able to show any emotion either positive or negative. My Mum wore both of the pants - as a child, I genuinely used to think of her as both our Mum and Dad because she made ALL of the decisions, made ALL of our life plans, was basically in charge of everything because my Dad was so ‘nonchalant’ about everything. The more my Mum would get fired up or angry and yell at my Dad, the more he would shut down and simply ignore the situation, which only made her more and more abusive. One night I just remember her yelling “you have GOT to give me something to works with here, at least give me THAT. You mightn’t be yelling, but push me to this point where all I can do IS yell, and then I’m the asshole.” Maybe not ideal to hear at 10 years old lol but that made me see that it wasn’t just my Dad that was making Mum miserable, or just my Mum that was controlling and abusive - they were just two people simply heading in different directions, unable to match each other and bring the same thing to the table. Long, boring story short - fam’s bicker but when there’s unconditional love you get over it. So this shit is so normal. I think it made me so uncomfortable to watch because as the incredibly unconfrontational people pleaser my childhood crap made me become I feel like everyone was walking on eggshells in this ep. Matt was just not bringing ANYTHING to the table, zero contribution in a way that must get pretty frustrating for Chris and Nick and that 100% feels like where their passive-aggressive button pushing was coming from 😂 just a hot mess all around really, but that genuinely is life for everyone sometimes. Filming 24 hrs later once the air felt a lil lighter might have solved all the drama though ahahaha
Honestly... I have three brothers. This is natural sibling banter, fighting, joking, and playing. I personally think Chris, Matt, and Nick were ok. So I agree with you in your video.
I am a Psychology Student and I personally had to stop watching their video because it was so exhausting to watch. I could relate to Matt in a lot of ways as i am also a sensitive, harmony seeking person...(in comparision to Nick and Chris who like more drama). I also think that it is normal to act like this as siblings in your teens, as you can´t really communicate that good yet. So I think Nick and Chris´ rudeness was a way to PROVOKE Matt to stand for himself. BUT as an adult I think there are other, less hurting, ways to help your brother find his strength, like as you said through compliments and patience. So I can see both sides! But nevertheless it really is their business and they did not deserve as much hate as they got!!
Matt is literally my fav out of the triplets but I can definitely feel that they are not harsh or means or how you guys make out the situation to be. I have siblings & we communicate the say way, yea the same mean jokes & the same way of delivering things, doesn't mean my siblings don't love me, they very much do, just like Nick & Chris care a lot about Matt
Max, I discovered you a week ago and now I can't help but watch your videos when I eat lunch and gotta have something to entertain myself with, and when I found out you also sporadically react to the Sturniolo I was over the moon. Love your videos, love the way you analyse everything, and I might even check out how “Patreon” works even though I ain't got a clue what it is, just for you! 🙃
I love these videos, they’re excellent! I also just realized that you have done analysis of formula one drivers body language, and i have to watch them as i am a huge fan of f1! I’d love to see more recent analysis of the driver’s, especially driver friendships (for example charles and Carlo, charles and max, max and daniel, Nico and Lewis)!
no there's definitely something goin on.. nick and chris is just so rude.. I have six siblings, me n my siblings would never do that to each other. nick and chris literally team up to attack whatever matt is doing. when i watch the first 10 minutes of the podcast nick and chris will always have something to say about whatever matt is doing ..... he literally just sitting.
but that's you and your siblings choice, and that's okay. sibling dynamics aren't a one size fit all, we can't assume what happened before the podcast, for all we know Matt may have done something, and I think its very unfair to assume nick and Chris had absolutely no reason for what they were saying. not to mention, nick didn't really do much, after the first 20 minutes and seeing that Matt was upset he told Chris not to say anything to Matt and literally said he was avoiding saying anything, so they obviously have self awareness and know each other more than we do because, guess what, they literally developed in their mother's womb together for 9 months, and grew up in the same house for 20 years together. I promise you guys that Matt will be fine without the constant infantilization, and regardless of your opinion, Matt has already made a tiktok video with nick talking about this exact issue (nick said that its dumb when people act like they know Matt more Than him and that they're bullying him and Matt was literally in the video with him agreeing...) y'all are dragging it fr. Its not even an ongoing thing. Watch the blind mute and deaf challenges and see how harsh Matt was and everyone attacking him; they all have their moments, because they are human and won't treat each other perfectly all the time, especially considering this isn't too far from their normal dynamic we've seen on camera. REGARDLESS, they made it evident that they love and care about each other (from what we see because AGAIN we don't know them or their whole life, we literally only saw an hour of what was obviously ongoing from before they started filming as Matt said himself) and based off of that we can assume that Matt is a grown man who can defend himself, and yes he seemed upset but AGAIN we don't know what happened before the cameras were on. Don't watch if you don't like it, but that's your problem, not theirs.
The latest video: Nick can't wait to turn 21! Is a great video. Definitely worth reacting to. Or as someone else mentioned the xmas gingerbread house making- our biggest fight ever ( or something like this) would also be good one to react to!
Max you need to watch the whole episode…the reason why we are defending matt it is bc it’s been an ongoing thing within the podcast on how they cut him off and interrupt him and are always jumping on him. We love sweet matt.
Girl they’re siblings with parents, what makes you think what YOU’RE saying is important when at the end of the day they’re the ones who know how each other act on and off camera
You cant use siblings as an excuse for everything. Yeah if they act okay off camera we're talking about how they act ON CAMERA. just because they're siblings doesn't mean they cant do things that can hurt each other. and before you say "people with siblings understand" I have six. I understand what its like and I feel first hand how matt feels. It went too far and its crazy you're just defending them.
I 100% agree with you on everything.. I hated seeing ppl hating on nick and Chris bc they didnt deserve it at all.. at some points did I feel bad for Matt, yes but at the same time they are siblings and there gonna fight, there real about it and leave it in and don’t try to “hide” it.. but another thing is their fan base babies Matt a lot and that doesn’t help the situation either 💯 but either way i support them and love them and if ppl don’t like the fighting they don’t have to watch it 🤷🏼♀️ also I know in a few days late but I wanted to comment bc the whole situation was annoying and it made me sad and frustrated
that’s literally untrue what nick said about matt saying all he says is elongated complaints when that’s completely nick. nick has the most negative mindset out of all of them
I do think they picked on Matt a bit. It's just what siblings do though. Me and my siblings do it all the time, we are quite close in age so sometimes one of us is annoying that day and ends up getting picked on and yes sometimes it goes too far or someone gets upset cause something else happened the other didn't know about but if Matt thought that Nick and Chris took it too far and was genuinely really upset the podcast probably wouldn't have gone up. He can stick up for himself he doesn't need people telling his brothers how he feels when we don't know. They do really love each other and I think some people took it a bit too seriously.
I would love to see you react to GOING SEVENTEEN Talk Get-Together. I think you would really enjoy it! The concept of the content is that it’s all 13 of them, and then they keep splitting into groups. So you get groups of 13,7,4,2 etcetera. It shows how different members adapt to different circumstances, and I think you would really enjoy seeing how they change depending on which members are there. I would love to hear your insight! Thank you :)
i loved what you said about matt crushing on chris i laughed so much at that but i totally got what you meant i enjoyed this i love when you react to them :)
I think people forget that siblings can have the most intense fights one minute and be completely fine the next. Siblings don't hold back from one another and yeah, sometimes it gets to be a little harsh. I have a younger brother, and the older sister/younger brother dynamic is definitely one that is filled with a lot of arguments. With my brother and I, we can be calling each other names and shouting at each other in the morning and be playing guess who by lunch lol. I can only imagine how much more inflated that gets with triplet brothers. While Nick and Chris were probably egging Matt on too much, we only think that because we didn't see what happened after the cameras were off. They were probably completely fine an hour later. I feel like you hit the nail on the head with Matt though, I'm a more sensitive person myself and if I was being mocked for an hour straight I'd start to lash out too 😭
could u react to matt baking blindfolded (video from 2 years ago) and their blind deaf and mute baking xmas edition? i think those are some really good ones to analyze please!! 🙏🙏
Like I had said after watching their podcast that day, they simply should not have gone into filming a video with negative energy especially on the subject they were talking on. Also, what much of the fandom said is we hear Matt perfectly fine. Nick and Chris were getting hate cause the mockery and banter towards Matt lasted almost 30 mins of the video that day that I saw comments of fans not bothering to finish it because of how unappealing it was to watch. End of the day, glad matt was standing up for himself more than he use to. His along with everyone’s feelings are valid.
I'm laughing so hard because I am very much the Matt of my siblings and I get very angry and it just encourages them to irritate me even more. From the outside point of view, it is funny. But in the moment, I literally hate my family. 😂
Everyone that sent hate or was mad at chris and nick just LOVE to be dramatic and blow the smallest of situations out of proportion to the umpteenth degree. They need to learn how to chill out and not cause a big deal out of petty sibling rivalries lmao
you ABSOLUTELY need to watch and react to the "Zach Sang Show" podcast featuring Chris!! This is a great video and I'd love to hear your comments about Chris! I hope this happens
Matt also has said some really hurtful things to Chris in the car videos, and treated him like shit as well! I don’t get why when Chris does it to Matt everyone says he’s mean, but if Matt does it to Chris everyone says oooh I love this new Matt! Also Matt and nick in some of the new streams have been rude to Chris for no reason at all. I think it just depends on the day and who is getting along with who. But I do miss the days when Matt and Chris would really stick up for each other and just be inseparable.
I feel that Matt is not always negative. If he gets called Negative Matt or Miserable Matt or Mumbling Matt all the time especially from the two people he cares and loves the most, he is going to start believing that. He is just going to get more and more reserved if this continues. And all the Mattitude comments are also unnecessary. All of them project attitude at some point of time but if he says something it just becomes a big deal. He is extremely relatable.
This annoys me so much. They are brothers. Siblings do this. Matt is used to it and they all have experienced it not just matt. Not many ppl relise that. Just let them live and leave them alone
for me, nick and chris definitely dont deserve hate. this is their dynamic for sure. i think i just feel for matt so much because being neurodivergent makes it really challenging to act/process things the way neurotypicals want you to. just yesterday, i cried myself to sleep due to multiple peoples triggering comments to me throughout the day. (i have a h/o anxiety, depression, self harm, and suicidal thoughts - plus i am in the process of trying to get an ADHD diagnosis at age 30) so, "insignificant comments" can mean the world to someone that isn't neurotypical and i think nick and chris know that matt needs that encouragement because they are his literal triplets and have been with him for like 24hrs a day for the last 20 years but i think they prefer to push his buttons instead of gently coax him out of his dark mental space. if thats ok for them as siblings and matt doesnt feel the need to ask for a different approach then who are we to judge?
Please react to their newest video called “chris can’t stop yapping.” Chris talks about the way his brain works and says he thinks he has adhd, and I think you would have some good input!
How humiliating for Matthew. He was trying to set boundaries and they accused him of being negative and holding a grudge - Not true. Chris behaviour absolutely vile and being a nuisance here. Nick chipping away from the off. Then two Podcasts later, it’s the final one. Last night was long overdue just deserts as far as I’m concerned - The man was stinging-like-a-bee… “It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends” - Dumbledore Well in, Matthew
i think people (the fanbase, not max) need to keep in mind, you're not part of this family, they didnt ask for your input. if matt wants to say something to his brothers, he sure as hell will. Sending cyber hate to a man's brother to supposedly support him is insane
I do think from an outside perspective it would seem a bit hard on Matt but they are very close siblings which means they are used to insulting each other. But I do also think they’re just trying to say stuff to keep the convo going idk. In another video they said that they ARE used to it because Matt said he could tell Chris go f*** himself and he’d be fine with it in like two minutes and forget it. But this when it’s about like constantly putting Matt down I think that Matt’s feelings are a bit hurt so I would say they were a bit hard but they’ll always remain the loving brothers they are to each other no matter what fights they have :)
The people who hate on Nick and Chris for yelling at Matt are the people that don’t have siblings. Fighting is a common thing when you have siblings. There are no siblings in the world that have never fought at least once with each other. If there was something that they did to Matt that really hurt him, I’m pretty sure he would speak up about it.
I have watched a lot of the sturniolos video's, and I see a lot times, that Matt gets interrupted, ignored or being picked on because of the way he speaks. But they all do talk shit to each other.. But I think it is a problem when Nick and Chris don´t take responsibility for their actions. Nick had said several times, it is ok to interrup Matt because he is mumbling and he is boring to listen too, and Chris also says, that Matt was mad at him the podcast as if he (Chris) didn´t do anything. They openly only blame Matt, and he says, that he will work on it. But I think it is a group dynamic, and the all need to to working on their dynamic in the podcast. It is just my observation. Anyway I don´t know them and their dynamics outside the camera, but they kinda invites us in a little bit and talks about it openly. Sorry for my writing skills in English. I don´t normally write anything in English.
They Are siblings and matt has said Nick and Chris never had made him actually sad on a video and never had anxiety on a vid and picking on each other is a sibling thing
It was planned wayyyy before that podcast came out that it would be ending soon. So no this podcast where Matt was upset it’s my the cause for them stopping.
I have 7 siblings, and I understand that people are being soft about this and they totally are! But they could’ve taken Matt’s past experience with mental health and anxiety into account and been a little less harsh
Yall are overreacting for real. Matt does the same thing to Nick and Chris all the time. It's not that serious and if it was then they would have spoke up about it.
Bro stfu as an sturniolo triplets fan i dont think that yall should stop doing this they are siblings and they fight all the time and i relate to that,and ppl who have siblings can relate as a matt girl i dont thinrk anything u said was true i think they are nonsense.
You keep repeating that they are brothers and that's why they are allowed to talk like that and it makes me angry the most, but you are right, if they were best friends in school now Matt wouldn't have a relationship with them anymore, that's why it's good that they are brothers. I don't know if you've noticed but the relationship and love between Matt and Chris was more noticeable a year ago, this is the last year Matthew is being very toxic with them, it's an expression of his anger towards his brothers, but it makes him stronger and wants to grow. and come out of his hiding place to defeat shyness
You should react to the Sturniolo Triplets ‘Holiday Baking Challenge (Our biggest argument yet)’ In this video you will definitely see a similar dynamic between Nick and Chris fighting and Matt trying to calm them down the whole video😂😂😂 I think this dynamic is very interesting and I would love to hear your thoughts about it.🤔🤔
You guys may not like what I have to say... lol
hi max!! i love your videos!
@@romyquilley7241 thank you!
please react to Brayden Lape's social skills he has an interview on JTV Jackson
Loved it
Are you an only child? Just curious bout It?
Yess, I rlly think it just the fact that Nick and Chris can communicate really well and quickly. Whereas With Matt it takes a little while longer for him to get a story out, or answer a question and they just rush him so much he feels like he cannot get the words out quick enough for them. I think it’s the rushing, talking over him that makes him the most upset.
YES
Nick and Chris definitely got hate. But I’m not sure if they deserved it. Yes, I feel bad for Matt, but fighting is apart of having siblings. I feel like the people who hate on Nick and Chris the most are the ones who don’t have siblings. My brother messes with me when I’m already upset, it’s just apart of life. No one is hurting anyone. If Matt really had a problem with it, I’m sure he’d talk to Chris and Nick about it and ask for them to tone it down.
I have siblings and aldo I also think the feedback they got was exaggerated I see where it comes from and kinda agree with it, which is them telling Matt how to express himself and to change the way he speaks. I can't speak for Matt but it would definitely make me withdraw from the conversation and hurt my feelings. I would never tell my siblings to stop mumbling or to comment on how loud they speak in an exaggerated manner unless they were doing it on purpose to mess with me, which is understandable, and they would never do that to me. Hell even tho I didn't speak the most coherently as a kid my sister was a person that always got what I was saying. Again I am not saying it's this situation, but it really seemed like Chris and Nick just wanted Matt to speak the way they feel confident and comfortable in, while it was just not the comfortable way for him. Ultimately it's not really important and it's probably smth small in the grand skim of their lives, but yeah it's annoying for people to victimize Matt and calling his brothers ab**ive when it's clearly an exaggeration of the century.
Nope, i have 4 sisters and I was a twin. They were too harsh on matt.
People have to deal with the mean world they shouldnt have to come home to people who are suppose to love them and deal with it there too.
I have 6 siblings. I know how its is. Siblings or not it gets too far.
I totally agree with you! People overreacted a lot about this. Also Chris Matt and Nick are living and working together, Matt already said that sometimes he needs a break from them lol I think he likes to be alone sometimes like he needs his space and it’s fine! I agree he would just tell them later if he felt bad or they would realize it, they love each other and always say they’re connected in a different way because they’re triplet brothers. They also always said they get over those stuff quickly, and I think that being basically 24 hours with someone when you have such different personalities as they do can lead to fights. I related so much with Matt in this video but I see this as normal behavior from them and not that big of a deal
graduated from college and expecting my 13th child but still sat for Max reacting to the triplets
and to think you ONLY had 5 kids the last time I reacted to them
back when i remembered all their names those were the days
The good ol days 😌
i’m a sibling, i fight with them, but i would never treat them like this, especially knowing what matt’s been through, with his anxiety and mental health journey over all. even despite that it doesn’t feel good to be ganged up on by everyone else in the room. matt’s reaction was normal, he wasn’t overreacting, his emotions were normal yet they were completely invalidated. i think people always talk about how we should advocate for mental health and treating people with kindness until it affects you. matt needed support, if he had gotten that support maybe he would’ve been in a better mood, maybe he would’ve had a brighter outlook. but you’re not going to feel amazing and excited when your being treated like shit by the people you love most.
I 100% agree with everything you said. I really don’t think it was as serious as the fandom made it to be. At the end of the day they’re just brothers who sometimes pick on one another and then get over it. I just love how real they are. I love the fact that they keep all of their little arguments in their videos cause it makes watching them so much more relatable and real. Loved this video!! Pls keep the sturniolo content coming !! I missed them
but when matt does speak up or try to speak, he gets interrupted or commented on how boring and how long he talked
Yes! And not only the podcasts! I hate when somebody interrupts somebody. I just want Matt to speak when it's his turn.
@@doubting_soulNick and chris want him to speak too i'm sure the interrupting is not intentional and they just get rlly excited abt a topic while matt talks slower than them
@@yushanajam maybe, then give him time to think and then ask for his opinion
@@doubting_soul they do but obviously sometimes he takes too long and they say something
i totally agree that it’s not that big of a deal lol but if someone would call me negative all the time that's gonna cause me to act even more negative, like i understand they wanted matt to just speak up more but like you said a more positive approach would work better than all the negative banter
I really don't like the "that's part pf their dynamics" because I don't think that being family and siblings excuses bad behaviour towards each other, especially as adults. And it's noticeable that Matt wasn't in the best mood on this podcast and they knew it and still kept pushing and when Matt said how he feels about this they started mocking him and said that he's "negative Matt" just because he spoke up for himself. I know they are siblings but I also have siblings and anxiety like Matt and I can imagine how Matt could feel like. With anxiety you can't control it and the fact that they are his sibling doesn't change everything. I'm not saying that Matt had to feel like I would if I was in this situation but I know that if my sibling were acting like that towards me I would simply leave and it would stuck in my head for a while.
i really do think siblings are just like that, i have 2 brothers and one sister and when we are pissed at each other we do everything to make the other annoyed. my friends families are like that too and so are adults. it really is a dynamic
but i do get what you are saying cause im the only introvert and person with anxiety in my family and i get treated like matt did in this video often
i agree with you
bros an only child
@@Lani_Niviah are you illiterate
a lot of people on instagram and tiktok and even youtube comments were giving a lot of hate to nick and chris cause they were “being really mean and rude” to matt but honestly i really didn’t get why? they are triplets brothers who do everything together imo i see it as really normal sibling banter, i feel like the fandom really just almost “babies” matt because how he’s able to express his emotions and feelings and they wouldn’t get as mad at matt if he picked on the nick or chris in the same way, but im really glad you made this video analyzing the pod!!
Yea and in my opinion the things they said weren't even that harsh
I was searching for this comment thank you ! That's exacly what I think and we all know that Chris and Nick love Matt so much. Also we don't know what is going on on their life when they're not filming so we can't juged them and hate them. We know they love eachother and wouldn't do anything without the 3 of them.
Thanks you someone needed to say this
i get that there brothers and all but if u watched a little further chris called matt a quote "negative piece of shit" and if my brother said that to me i would be pissedddd and upset as shit
lol yeah I’d probably just get up and leave haha
Well obviously, but does that mean they’re bullying him? No, I promise you next video they’ll be back to their “regular” dynamic like nothing even happened
Saying that they are triplets and spwnd every waking moment together it is probably normal for them to
Thank you for having a reasonable analysis. The way half this fanbase was going off on Nick and Chris, they were ready to crucify them. Some of younger fans seem to think Matt can't hold his own just because he has anxiety. When in reality he can probably hold it down better than most when it comes to his brothers, having been around them his whole life.❤😊
Right? Teenager girls on the internet acting like they know and care about Matt better than his own triplet brothers is insane. This part of the fandom is really annoying me
@@renatojunior2963a lot of older fans are like this too
@@renatojunior2963 Right. I don’t really watch them but at the same time I can relate to Matt. But I also HATE how they baby him so much?? He’s his own person, not some kind of child you need to protect.
I completely agree. Can you watch the podcast episode where Matt talks about Chris being his role model? I think it was ep 11 and it's toward the end. Really highlights the relationship those two have. I also feel like recently their dynamics have shifted. Chris and Nick seem to get along better whereas Matt kind of shuts himself more. I miss seeing that unspoken understanding between Matt and Chris. Idk that's the way I see it I wanted to hear your opinion since you have also been watching them for so long.
yes finally. matt can be upset and defensive and they view that as rude but they’re the ones poking at him all the time when he doesn’t deserve it
I think you were very fair and spot on. I hope the guys see this video and learn to communicate more constructively. I think Nick and Chris have good intentions and genuine love in their heart when it comes to Matt but maybe just misunderstand each other when it comes to personality/mental/emotional differences.
4 minutes in is fine. It's over an hour podcast. After 4 minutes into it, the whole vibe of the podcast going forward changes and goes down instantly. You need to watch the whole thing.
You should react to their newest episode with Nathan because you can really see Matt come out of his shell as soon as he’s with friends ❤ Love the video Max!!
i think you need the context of having watched the other podcast episodes to understand why people were so upset by this episode in particular... more of a straw that broke the camel's back situation, if anything. chris and nick's comments about how matt speaks are definitely not encouragement lol, and it happens basically every episode. along with lots of other criticisms about how matt breathes, sits, doesn't talk enough, but then when he does talk he gets constantly interrupted, called boring, and they complain he's talking too much or is taking too long. he also comes by his soft spoken tone honestly, it's not a confidence thing - in the pod ep with their dad, you can tell he and matt have the exact same speaking mannerisms and voice. i also think the hypocrisy from chris and nick was just a bit too much for the viewers to handle this episode.
I think the issue is Matt is a little sensitive which is ok and maybe the other two should tone it down for him but i feel like people are overreacting when they say they pick on Matt because Chris and Nick are way meaner to each other but they both respond by laughing it off and moving on or by firing back in a playful way which Matt cant do. and that's the only reason it seems as if they pick on him but they really don't. They are way worse to each other but its not noticeable because of the way they react. I've just watched a one of their car video and Nick and Matt were basically telling Chris he needs to stfu the whole time but Chris did not take it to heart and so there was no one in the comments going "awww poor Chris" cause he doesn't react the way Matt does
@@rooc2784 ... did you even read my comment? the difference between telling chris to shut up vs telling matt to shut up is they actually still let chris talk and yap all he wants. i disagree that chris and nick are "way meaner" to each other. whenever matt "fires back" or just gets frustrated with not being able to speak/being shit on, he's "miserable matt", "tuff matt" "negative matt", etc. chris and nick definitely have a double standard where they can say anything they want to matt, but the second he gives them the same energy back they lose their minds. prime example, chris saying matt's comment was "the most hurtful thing ever said in this podcast room" after he and nick had been laying into matt unprovoked for the past 15-20 minutes. there was truly nothing "playful" about this podcast episode at all.
@anniekarenina wdym "did you even read my comment" who elses comment do you think i read. The reason why they "let him speak" is because he keeps talking anyways same with Nick. Matt when told to stop talking, stops talking. Matt when they talk over him either makes a weak attempt of regaining their attention, stops talking all together or tries to wait. The other two in that same situation don't, they carry on or speak on top of each other until one of them grabs the others attention and they start listening. In fact Chris and Nick interrupt each other all the time but it's the way they handle it that makes it not glaringly obvious. Again that's the difference. They don't shut down the way Matt does. I've watched so many of their videos and and it's usually Nick and Chris at eachothers throats (jokingly) and if you don't see that then I can't help you. Also Matt was on the defensive and so him "joking" wasn't in the same light hearted way, he was genuinely pissed. It's fine for Matt to be defensive and not like the type of banter the other two have and again maybey they should have backed off a little but it donst mean Nick and Chris particularly "target" Matt, it's just their personality. Also I don't understand how anyone with a sibling could ever look at this and genuinely get into their feels about a sibling teasing another and pissing each other off. My siblings would do much worse and piss me off way more than this on a daily basis and we're still really close. I was laughing the whole episode thinking of me and my siblings and the way we fught cause its never as deep as everyone is making it to be
@@rooc2784i mean, "did you even read my comment, because it's as if you missed everything i said entirely". did you also just totally miss the part in this literal episode where matt doesn't let nick interrupt him and nick talks over him anyway and goes "oh my god he's still talking..." like?? and then when matt calmly and rationally explained why that's frustrating, nick said some insulting and deeply hypocritical things. matt can't win no matter what he does. he was "on the defensive" because he came in ready to film a podcast episode about a topic that he was excited about and clearly meant a lot to him, and then immediately started receiving nonstop negative comments from both of the other two out of nowhere. they were intentionally pushing his buttons and then acting surprised when he got angry. throwing rocks and then hiding their hands. and then calling him names like "negative matt" for being understandably annoyed. that's not being "sensitive". i know chris and nick are frequently at each other's throats, but that doesn't negate my point about double standards at all - chris and nick can take it from each other, but, as i said, they CANNOT take it from matt, as i explained above. and i'm so unbelievably over the "siblings" excuse, everyone defending chris and nick acts like no one who is critical of their behaviour has siblings. over 80% of the world's population has siblings, the people who commented on that video fully understand, it's a huge cope to think that they're ALL only children. i have two siblings. i don't know how anyone with a sibling could ever look at this and not feel the palpable tension and just laugh. after chris yelled at matt that he was a "negative piece of shit" matt basically didn't talk (or even get a chance to contribute) after that, they just totally excluded him from the conversation for the rest of the episode. not funny at all. it's one thing to fight with your siblings - this was not an argument, it was very one-sided on chris and nick's part, which is why it was so unpleasant to watch. it's also another thing to post those types of sibling "fights" on the internet for everyone to see. also, i haven't just watched "so many" of their videos, i've literally seen all of them at least once - there has been a noticeable shift in the way matt is treated over the past several months, and if you don't see that, then i can't help you. sometimes things are that deep, but some people don't understand that because they're unobservant and lack empathy.
@anniekarenina again, Matt "let" Nick talk over him and wasn't aggressive. The whole point of what I'm saying is Matt is passive, Chris and Nick aren't. Put the other two in the exact same situation they wouldnt have reacted the way Matt did. Talking about "Matt rationally and calmly explained", yah, that's exactly it. That's not what the other two would have done. He's treated the same. it's just that he doesn't work the same. In fact, imo they are generally softer with him but sometimes not gentle enough for him (thats ok, thats his personality, nothing wrong with not liking that). Also, I never said their comments are encouraging to Matt. In fact, I think the opposite, which is precisely why I said it may be helpful if Chris and Nick toned it down sometimes. Also, again, I never criticized Matt for being defensive. He doesn't like that type of banter, and that's fine. Again he's allowed to not like it. I said that the "joke" Matt made wasn't received as well as the other jokes because he was in defense mode. Also Nick and Chris have taken it from Matt and it's funny because people love it. Matt is usually passive and when he makes jokes like that. everyone loves it, including Chris and Nick, as I've seen in so many of their car videos. It's always like "sassy Matt," and everyone enjoys it when he does it and it's not stemming from something he's genuinely really upset about like in this video. The only thing is that he rarely does it (hence why everyone loves it when he does and encourage him) and sometimes when he does he's really upset about something so the vibes are different and it's not taken in the same way like in this video. There's quite a few moment I can think of when Matt is being aggressive or "sassy" and Chris and Nick are loving it and lauging with him or at themselves at something Matt light heartedly critized them for. In fact in a lot of these analysis videos, everyone generally agrees that they both do have soft spot for Matt and that they aren't as aggressive with him. Sibling dynamics are so different. I never said everyone critizing the two dont have siblings, i said i don't understand how they see this and get so mad conseidering how siblings often behave with each other and how differnt sibling dynamics are. I was laughing at this not because i didn't think Matt was genunly upset but because I feel like I've been in each one of them shoes including Matt and it's funny looking at other siblings behaving the same way my sibling and I do. It's just what siblings do and its different from any other type of relationship. All my siblings once ganged up on me, i have 6 siblings all yelling at me telling me im being dramatic about something and I fell asleep crying but we were best friends again the next day because thats just how it works. They piss me off all the time and yes being called a "piece of shit" at least between my sibling and I would be something I'd forget by the next day. I think people on the outside have no business getting so riled up about other siblings' business.
I feel like Nick tried to de-escalate but it did it in a way Matt felt attacked, If you look closely all of them are exhausted. bags around the eyes and they are talking way slower than their other podcast. They are all also siblings that 95 percent of their life they have been together. This behavior is normal for brothers.
'i love chris mode' real 😂
I agree they got way too much hate for the glimpse into their life and on camera too which who knows how exaggerated it could be, but I have to say even tho they are brothers the thing that bugged me about this one discussion let's call it, that never did with other 'Omg poor Matt' moments the fans make every chance they get, was that they were teasing him and making comments about his manner of speaking. I get that Chris and Nick wanted him to speak in a way that fells more confident and comfortable for them when they express themselves, but I think it's ignorant to say Matt speaking slightly quieter and maybe a little less coherent isn't him being comfortable and confident about what he is saying. Additionally I have to say it's annoying to listeners every time Matt speaks, which he honestly speaks like a normal person, and stops to gather his thoughts or just to make a little longer pause they always have to tease him about it or just say stuff about him talking and talking while justifying their talking over each other as 'It's a podcast we have to talk'. Like yeah it's a podcast, but you guys can take a small breather sometimes. Do I think they deserve to be called mean or rude? Not really. Do I think they can improve on some aspects of their communication? Yeaaaah
omg I agreeeeeee
So true
THIS BRO ppl are acting like everyone who is bugged by it is a hater and doesn’t get that siblings argue but as a viewer sometimes it’s frustrating when you actually want to listen to what Matt’s saying and he gets criticized. It’s starting to feel like a majority of videos it happens. It’s not that deep if it happens in their daily lives obviously but if we’re watching a car video or pod where you expect everyone to add to the discussion and one person is always cut off it gets kind of annoying. But still love them❤
You should definitely finish the rest of the podcast
@@user1399-v6r oh ok thanks
no he didn't
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I'm glad you did this analysis. I guess you saw the comments on that vid. There are about 3300. One after another after another basically say the same thing - that it's too painful to sit through. A lot of people, who said they'd not only seen every second of every video but rewatched over and over, said they had to turn it off and could not finish it. I know they film in advance so I don't know if it's connected but yesterday they announced that next week will be their last podcast.
Absolutely why it’s over. I’m so relieved that Matthew doesn’t have to suffer sitting in that unventilated nauseating hive of humiliation anymore
@@Allthelightsareonif you guys actually took a step back from this parasocial relationship you have with matt, you’d notice that in many of their videos matt does in fact bring negativity so it is completely understandable where nick and chris are coming from. the fact that yall think you understand matt better than his triplet brothers is wild
I 100% agree and I’m glad you pointed that out! I was shocked when I saw all the comments coming for Nick and Chris when it’s quite evident that bickering is a part of their relationship. Especially since they live together 24/7 they’re bound to get on each other’s nerves which is totally normal. I mean the arguments I have with my siblings make their arguments look like nothing 😂they’ve also all said countless times that they have arguments all the time but they never last for over a day because they bounce right back and move on. It’s just funny to me that all of these people are stuck on defending Matt when in reality he probably moved on shortly after. That’s not to say that I’m invalidating Matt’s feelings because I would probably react that way too since I’m pretty sensitive myself. But I think people are doing way too much here hating on Nick and Chris for “bullying” Matt when they don’t even know them or the situation. I honestly appreciate their authenticity and how open they are with us because that’s how you know that they keep it real and aren’t just staging everything. Thanks for your reaction Max!!
i’ve been waiting too long for another
Sturniolo triplet video. Can you please do their interaction meeting sam and colby
I hate ppl who watch them and always make drama out everything they do or when they are annoyed by eachother, they msde it a big deal 💀
They don’t make drama out everything💀
@@Beatleslover3wrong
@@renatojunior2963 you’re wrong
Fr, I understand occasionally pointing out that someone was rude or something but acting like they need a savior is just so weird
So spot on, thank you for always breaking shiz down with a completely unbiased view of situations ❤️ I grew up in a pretty verbally abusive home, but with two parents who loved us as much as they possibly could. They just had COMPLETELY different communication styles and attachment styles; just polar opposites in every regard really. My Mum’s high anxiety manifests as anger and goes from 0-100 and back down to 0 as quick as anything, and my Dad (who we only discovered is autistic 5 years ago at the age of 55) has never really been able to show any emotion either positive or negative. My Mum wore both of the pants - as a child, I genuinely used to think of her as both our Mum and Dad because she made ALL of the decisions, made ALL of our life plans, was basically in charge of everything because my Dad was so ‘nonchalant’ about everything. The more my Mum would get fired up or angry and yell at my Dad, the more he would shut down and simply ignore the situation, which only made her more and more abusive. One night I just remember her yelling “you have GOT to give me something to works with here, at least give me THAT. You mightn’t be yelling, but push me to this point where all I can do IS yell, and then I’m the asshole.” Maybe not ideal to hear at 10 years old lol but that made me see that it wasn’t just my Dad that was making Mum miserable, or just my Mum that was controlling and abusive - they were just two people simply heading in different directions, unable to match each other and bring the same thing to the table. Long, boring story short - fam’s bicker but when there’s unconditional love you get over it. So this shit is so normal. I think it made me so uncomfortable to watch because as the incredibly unconfrontational people pleaser my childhood crap made me become I feel like everyone was walking on eggshells in this ep. Matt was just not bringing ANYTHING to the table, zero contribution in a way that must get pretty frustrating for Chris and Nick and that 100% feels like where their passive-aggressive button pushing was coming from 😂 just a hot mess all around really, but that genuinely is life for everyone sometimes. Filming 24 hrs later once the air felt a lil lighter might have solved all the drama though ahahaha
Legit checking for a sturniolo vid and saw you posted this 2 min ago lmao
let's go!
he needs to post more😭
Real @@madi..1
Honestly... I have three brothers. This is natural sibling banter, fighting, joking, and playing. I personally think Chris, Matt, and Nick were ok. So I agree with you in your video.
I am a Psychology Student and I personally had to stop watching their video because it was so exhausting to watch. I could relate to Matt in a lot of ways as i am also a sensitive, harmony seeking person...(in comparision to Nick and Chris who like more drama). I also think that it is normal to act like this as siblings in your teens, as you can´t really communicate that good yet. So I think Nick and Chris´ rudeness was a way to PROVOKE Matt to stand for himself. BUT as an adult I think there are other, less hurting, ways to help your brother find his strength, like as you said through compliments and patience. So I can see both sides! But nevertheless it really is their business and they did not deserve as much hate as they got!!
Matt is literally my fav out of the triplets but I can definitely feel that they are not harsh or means or how you guys make out the situation to be. I have siblings & we communicate the say way, yea the same mean jokes & the same way of delivering things, doesn't mean my siblings don't love me, they very much do, just like Nick & Chris care a lot about Matt
Max, I discovered you a week ago and now I can't help but watch your videos when I eat lunch and gotta have something to entertain myself with, and when I found out you also sporadically react to the Sturniolo I was over the moon. Love your videos, love the way you analyse everything, and I might even check out how “Patreon” works even though I ain't got a clue what it is, just for you! 🙃
I love these videos, they’re excellent! I also just realized that you have done analysis of formula one drivers body language, and i have to watch them as i am a huge fan of f1! I’d love to see more recent analysis of the driver’s, especially driver friendships (for example charles and Carlo, charles and max, max and daniel, Nico and Lewis)!
Thanks so much and appreciate the recommendations
no there's definitely something goin on.. nick and chris is just so rude.. I have six siblings, me n my siblings would never do that to each other. nick and chris literally team up to attack whatever matt is doing. when i watch the first 10 minutes of the podcast nick and chris will always have something to say about whatever matt is doing ..... he literally just sitting.
but that's you and your siblings choice, and that's okay. sibling dynamics aren't a one size fit all, we can't assume what happened before the podcast, for all we know Matt may have done something, and I think its very unfair to assume nick and Chris had absolutely no reason for what they were saying. not to mention, nick didn't really do much, after the first 20 minutes and seeing that Matt was upset he told Chris not to say anything to Matt and literally said he was avoiding saying anything, so they obviously have self awareness and know each other more than we do because, guess what, they literally developed in their mother's womb together for 9 months, and grew up in the same house for 20 years together. I promise you guys that Matt will be fine without the constant infantilization, and regardless of your opinion, Matt has already made a tiktok video with nick talking about this exact issue (nick said that its dumb when people act like they know Matt more Than him and that they're bullying him and Matt was literally in the video with him agreeing...) y'all are dragging it fr. Its not even an ongoing thing. Watch the blind mute and deaf challenges and see how harsh Matt was and everyone attacking him; they all have their moments, because they are human and won't treat each other perfectly all the time, especially considering this isn't too far from their normal dynamic we've seen on camera. REGARDLESS, they made it evident that they love and care about each other (from what we see because AGAIN we don't know them or their whole life, we literally only saw an hour of what was obviously ongoing from before they started filming as Matt said himself) and based off of that we can assume that Matt is a grown man who can defend himself, and yes he seemed upset but AGAIN we don't know what happened before the cameras were on. Don't watch if you don't like it, but that's your problem, not theirs.
I hate when you guys do this stop making Chris and Nick the bad guys. It's so annoying like you guys are so overprotective
@@brandyjohnson738oh be quiet
help why did i start crying about your understanding
me too😭😭😭 i think i related w matt along in that pod so it was comforting lol
the thing I love about the Sturniolos is they aren't afraid to show they're flawed. they're siblings and pick on each other, they aren't perfect
The latest video: Nick can't wait to turn 21! Is a great video. Definitely worth reacting to.
Or as someone else mentioned the xmas gingerbread house making- our biggest fight ever ( or something like this) would also be good one to react to!
Max you need to watch the whole episode…the reason why we are defending matt it is bc it’s been an ongoing thing within the podcast on how they cut him off and interrupt him and are always jumping on him. We love sweet matt.
Girl they’re siblings with parents, what makes you think what YOU’RE saying is important when at the end of the day they’re the ones who know how each other act on and off camera
You cant use siblings as an excuse for everything. Yeah if they act okay off camera we're talking about how they act ON CAMERA. just because they're siblings doesn't mean they cant do things that can hurt each other. and before you say "people with siblings understand" I have six. I understand what its like and I feel first hand how matt feels. It went too far and its crazy you're just defending them.
@@avviuuif we cared that they were siblings we wouldn’t make comments hating on nick and Chris.
@@Beatleslover3 So instead you guys are deluding yourselves to think what you have to say on their relationship matters?
@@avviuu yeah because we feel like Matt doesn’t get treated right.
agree 100% with you!!!! thank you for being reasonable, this fan base can be crazy sometimes lol love your video as always
I 100% agree with you on everything.. I hated seeing ppl hating on nick and Chris bc they didnt deserve it at all.. at some points did I feel bad for Matt, yes but at the same time they are siblings and there gonna fight, there real about it and leave it in and don’t try to “hide” it.. but another thing is their fan base babies Matt a lot and that doesn’t help the situation either 💯 but either way i support them and love them and if ppl don’t like the fighting they don’t have to watch it 🤷🏼♀️ also I know in a few days late but I wanted to comment bc the whole situation was annoying and it made me sad and frustrated
that’s literally untrue what nick said about matt saying all he says is elongated complaints when that’s completely nick. nick has the most negative mindset out of all of them
I do think they picked on Matt a bit. It's just what siblings do though. Me and my siblings do it all the time, we are quite close in age so sometimes one of us is annoying that day and ends up getting picked on and yes sometimes it goes too far or someone gets upset cause something else happened the other didn't know about but if Matt thought that Nick and Chris took it too far and was genuinely really upset the podcast probably wouldn't have gone up. He can stick up for himself he doesn't need people telling his brothers how he feels when we don't know. They do really love each other and I think some people took it a bit too seriously.
Agreed
Lets not exaggerated. They are brother's ofc they will quarrel and fight a bit
I would love to see you react to GOING SEVENTEEN Talk Get-Together. I think you would really enjoy it! The concept of the content is that it’s all 13 of them, and then they keep splitting into groups. So you get groups of 13,7,4,2 etcetera. It shows how different members adapt to different circumstances, and I think you would really enjoy seeing how they change depending on which members are there. I would love to hear your insight! Thank you :)
i loved what you said about matt crushing on chris i laughed so much at that but i totally got what you meant i enjoyed this i love when you react to them :)
I think Chris crushing on Matt😂 Or Chris was pretty open about that he cant be without Matt for 28 hours yesterday on twitch.
Couldn’t have said it better myself
You should react to them with Justin on podcast 😊
yes
Right? It so funny 😂@@madi..1
I think people forget that siblings can have the most intense fights one minute and be completely fine the next. Siblings don't hold back from one another and yeah, sometimes it gets to be a little harsh. I have a younger brother, and the older sister/younger brother dynamic is definitely one that is filled with a lot of arguments. With my brother and I, we can be calling each other names and shouting at each other in the morning and be playing guess who by lunch lol. I can only imagine how much more inflated that gets with triplet brothers. While Nick and Chris were probably egging Matt on too much, we only think that because we didn't see what happened after the cameras were off. They were probably completely fine an hour later. I feel like you hit the nail on the head with Matt though, I'm a more sensitive person myself and if I was being mocked for an hour straight I'd start to lash out too 😭
exactly!!@lemongremlin0
could u react to matt baking blindfolded (video from 2 years ago) and their blind deaf and mute baking xmas edition? i think those are some really good ones to analyze please!! 🙏🙏
That is so funny you are absolutely right. It definitely has been quite a bit of time, I did in fact become a mother 🤣🤣🤣
@@AvaLawson-ys1nk 😂 funny. And congratulations
one thing about the sturniolo fan base is that they "babies" matt tooooo much 😹
You should definitely react to a video with the Sturniolo triplets and Nate (their friend)❤
Like I had said after watching their podcast that day, they simply should not have gone into filming a video with negative energy especially on the subject they were talking on. Also, what much of the fandom said is we hear Matt perfectly fine. Nick and Chris were getting hate cause the mockery and banter towards Matt lasted almost 30 mins of the video that day that I saw comments of fans not bothering to finish it because of how unappealing it was to watch. End of the day, glad matt was standing up for himself more than he use to. His along with everyone’s feelings are valid.
I've waited so long for another sturniolo vid thx
"i love chris" mode- im dying
I'm laughing so hard because I am very much the Matt of my siblings and I get very angry and it just encourages them to irritate me even more. From the outside point of view, it is funny. But in the moment, I literally hate my family. 😂
Love your reactions :)
🤙🤙🤙
Everyone that sent hate or was mad at chris and nick just LOVE to be dramatic and blow the smallest of situations out of proportion to the umpteenth degree. They need to learn how to chill out and not cause a big deal out of petty sibling rivalries lmao
THE PODCAST IS ENDING NEXT WEEK ITS THE LAST ONE
this is crazy coz the other day I was thinking u should react to their pod
you ABSOLUTELY need to watch and react to the "Zach Sang Show" podcast featuring Chris!! This is a great video and I'd love to hear your comments about Chris! I hope this happens
Matt also has said some really hurtful things to Chris in the car videos, and treated him like shit as well! I don’t get why when Chris does it to Matt everyone says he’s mean, but if Matt does it to Chris everyone says oooh I love this new Matt! Also Matt and nick in some of the new streams have been rude to Chris for no reason at all. I think it just depends on the day and who is getting along with who. But I do miss the days when Matt and Chris would really stick up for each other and just be inseparable.
You should watch Chris’s solo interview on Zach Sang Show
I feel that Matt is not always negative. If he gets called Negative Matt or Miserable Matt or Mumbling Matt all the time especially from the two people he cares and loves the most, he is going to start believing that. He is just going to get more and more reserved if this continues. And all the Mattitude comments are also unnecessary. All of them project attitude at some point of time but if he says something it just becomes a big deal. He is extremely relatable.
Could you make an analysis of zayns new interview on the hot ones? I really like your videos and I always learn something from them :)
This annoys me so much. They are brothers. Siblings do this. Matt is used to it and they all have experienced it not just matt. Not many ppl relise that. Just let them live and leave them alone
You should react to their the 3rd fan fiction video!!
I would say that the sturniolo ‘fan base’ is mostly upset with matt but they are brothers at the end of the day
Why with Matt?
I'm part of the fandom and i don't know where u got that from but from what i know it's not true :)
Not you calling nick matt 😂😂 at 8:35
for me, nick and chris definitely dont deserve hate. this is their dynamic for sure. i think i just feel for matt so much because being neurodivergent makes it really challenging to act/process things the way neurotypicals want you to. just yesterday, i cried myself to sleep due to multiple peoples triggering comments to me throughout the day. (i have a h/o anxiety, depression, self harm, and suicidal thoughts - plus i am in the process of trying to get an ADHD diagnosis at age 30) so, "insignificant comments" can mean the world to someone that isn't neurotypical and i think nick and chris know that matt needs that encouragement because they are his literal triplets and have been with him for like 24hrs a day for the last 20 years but i think they prefer to push his buttons instead of gently coax him out of his dark mental space. if thats ok for them as siblings and matt doesnt feel the need to ask for a different approach then who are we to judge?
Fun fact: Nick thought Chris and Matt (mostly Chris) hated him also we need more sturniolo triplets reactions
Please react to their newest video called “chris can’t stop yapping.” Chris talks about the way his brain works and says he thinks he has adhd, and I think you would have some good input!
Omg i was watching your videos
How humiliating for Matthew. He was trying to set boundaries and they accused him of being negative and holding a grudge - Not true.
Chris behaviour absolutely vile and being a nuisance here. Nick chipping away from the off. Then two Podcasts later, it’s the final one. Last night was long overdue just deserts as far as I’m concerned - The man was stinging-like-a-bee…
“It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends” - Dumbledore
Well in, Matthew
I'm so relieved to find this comment
i think people (the fanbase, not max) need to keep in mind, you're not part of this family, they didnt ask for your input. if matt wants to say something to his brothers, he sure as hell will. Sending cyber hate to a man's brother to supposedly support him is insane
I do think from an outside perspective it would seem a bit hard on Matt but they are very close siblings which means they are used to insulting each other. But I do also think they’re just trying to say stuff to keep the convo going idk. In another video they said that they ARE used to it because Matt said he could tell Chris go f*** himself and he’d be fine with it in like two minutes and forget it. But this when it’s about like constantly putting Matt down I think that Matt’s feelings are a bit hurt so I would say they were a bit hard but they’ll always remain the loving brothers they are to each other no matter what fights they have :)
The people who hate on Nick and Chris for yelling at Matt are the people that don’t have siblings. Fighting is a common thing when you have siblings. There are no siblings in the world that have never fought at least once with each other. If there was something that they did to Matt that really hurt him, I’m pretty sure he would speak up about it.
I have watched a lot of the sturniolos video's, and I see a lot times, that Matt gets interrupted, ignored or being picked on because of the way he speaks. But they all do talk shit to each other.. But I think it is a problem when Nick and Chris don´t take responsibility for their actions. Nick had said several times, it is ok to interrup Matt because he is mumbling and he is boring to listen too, and Chris also says, that Matt was mad at him the podcast as if he (Chris) didn´t do anything. They openly only blame Matt, and he says, that he will work on it. But I think it is a group dynamic, and the all need to to working on their dynamic in the podcast. It is just my observation. Anyway I don´t know them and their dynamics outside the camera, but they kinda invites us in a little bit and talks about it openly.
Sorry for my writing skills in English. I don´t normally write anything in English.
They Are siblings and matt has said Nick and Chris never had made him actually sad on a video and never had anxiety on a vid and picking on each other is a sibling thing
Pls watch the video with the snapple with ur triplet friend
FEBERUARY 1ST IS MY BIRTHDAY
is this why they’re ending the podcast? like they’re always harsh on matt anyway
no they wouldn't end it just because of some backlash.
It was planned wayyyy before that podcast came out that it would be ending soon. So no this podcast where Matt was upset it’s my the cause for them stopping.
@@emilyfothergill2515 when?
@@steph5114 I’m not sure which Podcast they said it in but, it was said that they would only be doing 39 or 40 podcasts only for the “season.”
Yes they always are way too hard on matt
matt is me in 729 ways
Can y’all stop being so soft. They ARE SIBLINGS- and Matt already said their jokes don’t bother him-
fr the ones that are hating def do not have siblings lol
I have 7 siblings, and I understand that people are being soft about this and they totally are! But they could’ve taken Matt’s past experience with mental health and anxiety into account and been a little less harsh
can you react to mark and jaehyun eating with the kingsman? you haven't reacted to nct in so long😭😭😭
Hey Matt, can you do for zayn on hot ones. He seems so changed.
Pls continue reaction to sturniolo triplets
Ily❤
Please do another sb19 song reaction
Yall are overreacting for real. Matt does the same thing to Nick and Chris all the time. It's not that serious and if it was then they would have spoke up about it.
Bro stfu as an sturniolo triplets fan i dont think that yall should stop doing this they are siblings and they fight all the time and i relate to that,and ppl who have siblings can relate as a matt girl i dont thinrk anything u said was true i think they are nonsense.
cool bro!
You keep repeating that they are brothers and that's why they are allowed to talk like that and it makes me angry the most, but you are right, if they were best friends in school now Matt wouldn't have a relationship with them anymore, that's why it's good that they are brothers. I don't know if you've noticed but the relationship and love between Matt and Chris was more noticeable a year ago, this is the last year Matthew is being very toxic with them, it's an expression of his anger towards his brothers, but it makes him stronger and wants to grow. and come out of his hiding place to defeat shyness
You should react to the Sturniolo Triplets ‘Holiday Baking Challenge (Our biggest argument yet)’
In this video you will definitely see a similar dynamic between Nick and Chris fighting and Matt trying to calm them down the whole video😂😂😂
I think this dynamic is very interesting and I would love to hear your thoughts about it.🤔🤔
i think you should really react to Chris’s episode on the zach sang podcast
help why did i start crying about your understanding