What Do Men Think A High Value Woman Is? Top 5 Traits of A High Value Woman
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- Опубликовано: 3 июл 2024
- What Do Men Think A High Value Woman Is - Top 5 Traits of A High Value Woman
Do you want to be a High Value Woman? You must have these top 5 High Value Woman Traits.
CHAPTERS
00:00 Topic Summary
01:12 High Value Woman Traits 01
02:44 High Value Woman Traits 02
04:01 High Value Woman Traits 03
05:35 High Value Woman Traits 04
06:11 Quick Relationship Advice for Women
06:47 High Value Woman Traits 05
08:05 A Question For Women
08:25 Closing
Understanding what men perceive as high value in a woman.
It's important to clarify that when we talk about high value, we're referring to your worth as a partner in the eyes of a man, not your inherent value as a human being.
High value isn't something you list on a resume; it's more about the unspoken aspects of how you carry yourself, the energy you emit, and the vibes you project. It's an essence that a man needs to sense rather than be explicitly told.
Limiting access to yourself, maintaining strong boundaries, being ready to walk away, and avoiding the chase are key qualities that convey high value to men. Rather than words, these actions speak volumes and set the foundation for a healthy, respectful relationship. It's about letting a man feel your worth through experiences and interactions, akin to how one experiences chocolate taste rather than being told about it. Remember, actions speak louder than declarations in conveying your value to men.
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I’m already high value! We are always working on ourselves
1_know your worth
2_limit access to you
3_show your boundaries
4_always be ready to walk away
5_never chase a man
Anyone can say the words "I love you". I always tell my female friends not to listen to what a man says, but to watch what he does. When a man loves a women, she can tell.
You give excellent advice. You now have a new follower.
No one is valuable just by thinking that they are. Everything is relative. I might be valuable for one man and totally worthless for another. If by “working on myself” you mean coming to that realization, then I agree we all need to work on ourselves. Thanks for your valuable videos!
I believe all of us have intrinsic value that has nothing to do with what other people think. But I also want to use kind words to show other people I value them because they exist for a reason. and get results in relationships that are good. So this can be useful. As long as nobody thinks it has anything to do with their intrinsic value. That doesn’t go up and down based on anyone’s evaluation.
@@jasjulkat I absolutely agree we all have intrinsic value. My comment was to be held only in the context of the value a woman’s is able to pose for a man she’s interested in in a relationship. So other than the obvious intrinsic value all people, things, air, mass, molecule or whatever we want to call it have, my statement still holds true. 😍☮️✌️
Absolutely I agree with you
You're wrong. An objectively kind, good, loyal and loving woman is objectively valuable to EVERYONE. Because, if they had her in their life, their life would 100% improve, no matter who they are. Just like precious metals are valuable for everyone. But some people don't like them, that's a different story. When someone preffers silver over platinum, moisanite over diamonds, it doesn't mean that platinum or diamonds wouldn't be valuable to him if he had them. It just means they have their own reasons for preffering the cheaper option.
@@ashley_brown6106 Your statement does not negate mine. We all have value, but unless what you have to offer is appreciated, your value is therefore rejected. No amount of effort would make a man love you simply because because you’re good, kind, loyal and loving. Unfortunately it’s no different from people who like gold but hate silver or like silver but hate gold. We are all valuable, but coming to the realization that some people prefer others, different from us, good and all, is what sets us free.
Appreciate a man speaking up to help women
I have learnt the hard way showing a man how much I liked him and ignored my instinct initially and now feel ashamed. I recently learned a man will be kept only if he wants to no matter what we do. He told me he couldn't be the rock/right person he wanted to be for me due to travelling and workload but deep down I knew it was invalid excuses. Recently he even put a pic of himself and the girl he is seeing on status knowing well I will see it. I deserve someone who is into me as much as I am into them ❤❤
I’m sorry 😢 yes you do deserve someone who’s into you and you will find him by living your life and following your dreams 🤍
Block him... why keep him on your list of friends....?? Ego .....???
Free yourself from evil, childish, insecure baby boys.
Work on yourself.....make yourself proud, so that you don't feel insecure anymore......love yourself....before loving anyone else
Thank you. I noticed that following these advices became so much easier after I consciously give up waiting for validation or interest from any man I desire, because It was only a rejection wound that made me look for it. Then, I got back the conscious of my high value and rationally let go of any attachment. Following these advices was a natural response of my inner stand. Ladies, we have to be more rational, because putting your heart in every decision will only get It broken.
Beautifully stated 🙏
Thanks. I've always struggled to accept that I order to get a husband , you have to "not want" one. That's hard. But that's life.
You ate genuine person with facts and genuine knowledge
Hi Ismael, I really appreciate everything you have to say on relationships men/women and believe me, when I listen to you I don’t do any other things 😉. I like your values and how clear you express them and yourself 👌🏼👏🏼
Wow, the way you explain everything resonates with me so well. Thanks
Just what I needed to hear today. Thank you!
I love to listen to this guy, easy to understand❤
I am happy to found you. I am divorced 4 years, look good for my age, educated and very sucessful in work and earn enough for me and child. But love life is disaster. I had no parents so nobody teached me to love my self. That was source of all my problems with man. You have teached me a lot in only 2 videos I have seen today.
I hope you keep finding helpful lessons in my videos. Thanks for watching.
The gold analogy is so on point
Dropping truth bombs. Thank you
6:16 you got me subscribed, women need to hear this info, for us to stop making excuses for these players...🙌🏻 I would love to watch the whole session.
Great video! 👍
thanks for this video it's really eye opening
God bless you, Thank you.
Thank you so much!
To answer the question....
You have to do both. You need to have it in your head that you have worth. You also need to put the work into achieving that very worth. But you aren't doing the work for anyone but you.
Seeing is believing and having a good mind set makes the effort possible. Mind, body and soul.
Wonderful, love it❤
Thank you for this valuable information. You. Are 💯 correct. ❤
Thanks you. Vidhya
Great insights thank you
Wow! All of this really hit home for me. Thanks for this fascinating look into the male mind!
Hi Ismael, thanks for your videos, I only stumbled on it today. You have a gentle yet subtle way of conducting your tips. 🌹
Much appreciated.
Oouf! That short clip you inserted turned me into a new subscriber. Truth was spoken!
Same here
You’re more valuable by simply thinking you are. Because by thinking it, you will naturally start working on yourself to live a life that matches how you feel about yourself.
That's a quite interesting point. Yet, if you don't take action, thinking that you are won't be enough I'd argue.
IF,...YOU DON'T 'ALREADY' THINK 'I AM VALUABLE',....why do you think someone other than yourself would think it???
Yes Ismael, I agree partially because values are intrinsic and comes from birth so it doesn’t matter if you have sex on the first, third, tenth date if he really likes you he will stay by your side no matter what. And about the boundaries, same thing happens, if he is into you, it doesn’t matter if you change your opinion, say one thing and does another, most men are confusing and don’t know what they want, so why should women be different?
Your videos truly inspire me and helps me stay true to myself. Tq
Thank you 🌺
Thank You.
Respect is the key here 😊❤
Thank youuu❤
God bless💯🙏❤️🥰
If you start thinking you are valuable it doesn’t matter if you haven’t start that degree you’ve been thinking about or if your closet is a little messy, you know that you will work on those things because you have the mindset shift and you trust yourself to get where you want to be. This will help you set boundaries too. So yes I think mindset automatically makes you a more higher value woman because you’ll put up with less and be motivated for more within.
Thank you Sir
Awesome submission Ishmael; all the best guys🎉🙏🏽
Your videos are truly valuable, I love it. I was deeply codependent for a long time in my life and I didn’t do any of this, I‘ve been a match to guys that ghosted me and all that stuff. Slowly but surely I‘ve been finding back to my selfworth and I think I made so much progress and now I can see myself resonating with many of the points. I will continue seeing myself as valuable everyday and when the next guy comes I will be so happy to stay in my feminine energy and let him pursue me ❤ Only givers from now on and nothing less 🎉
Love you .... thanks so much
I consider your advice very useful in the sense of honesty and reality, I find them applicable in my life and I kind of identify myself while I make comparison of myself version before and confident version now, thanks very much for making this kind of content, it truly helps and by the way I kind of like so much your English 😅
I appreciate the kind words. I'm glad you find the videos helpful.
Thank you for making this video.
My pleasure dear.
Excellent❤
U r a good person n u explain very well I'm from India yes what u say makes sense gotta apply it to oneself n get the feeling that things work out right. 🌹
Hi Ismael ..i am from india and i want to thank you..for all the answers I am searching for years ..😊i wish you all the best for your future
Thank you dear. I'm glad you find my content helpful.
❤❤❤ Thank you. 🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing with us the picture of you 4 years ago
I accept myself the way i am, i know my boundaries.
It starts with thinking, and finding things you enjoy and build on your values.. what you value is unique to you.. so find the meaning in life and build from there, being transparent and honest with you needs wants and desires..
I do all these things without knowing these are qualities of a high value woman😍
Thank u ismael
6:30 ur answer opened my third eye🌞
Thank you for the great advice...I like watching your videos because your are smart and the advice your speak is common sense..you are helping us women...
I appreciate your kind words.
Woooh thkz
Great
No, I need work, I've neglected myself as far as a relationship goes. Now that I have watched your video, I'm moving forward. I'm going to try and watch every video you have made, maybe I'll be an expert, hahaha thanks
It takes time. You have to be brutally honest with yourself and listen to guys like this. He's telling the truth. Best wishes to you.
I've been in a long distance relationship for 3+ years, it's very hard, sometimes my insecurities step out, he assures me that he's never cheated on me, I've never spoken to him on the phone we communicate on a dating site, he's a Psychologist for autistic children and reason being that we don't talk on the phone is what he told me. I told him you can get a different email, because this site is expensive, he trusts this dating site more than he does me? I don't know if it's true, I want to believe him, sometimes red flags creep out, too long to explain, I just don't know, it breaks my heart to think any thing different.
@@leighannfleming8670 Just keep in mind: He can be anyone he wants to be online. I'm just going to leave that right here.
i am so valuable that i need to work on myself
Loved it 7:32
I'm 28 years into a marriage that I committed a lot of the mistakes you've have spoken of... In the past few years I've realized none of it worked and he can't understand how/why I've changed and what happened to me... Anyway, I wish I would have had access to this info 25 years ago for sure! Lots of time wasted 😢
Focus on yourself and your dreams and to being the best version of yourself keep learning and it will follow haha ❤.
1. Know your worth, face challenges, accomplish difficult goals, check your frequency vibes and energy.
2. Limit access to you-out of reach, make him wait and work for it. Build a life of excitement and fun and goals first.
3. Show your boundaries- the power of saying no.
4. Always be ready to walk away
5. Never chase a man- I think you need to work on yourself and figure things out it was nice getting to know you
New subscriber here 👍🏾, I WISH I found you years ago.
Welcome aboard.
You are a dear man. 4 years ago, I can guarantee you were a dear man as well. I suspect your confidence only surfaced after you felt you had earned it. For me, it's what is going on in a person's head and heart is what really matters.
I use to be proud of my worth but got shot down after 30 yrs of someone who found out as he told me he "never loved me"...😢
I'm going to comment without even watching this video, what I believe the traits are that men consider high value in a woman. I have NOT watched the video.
1. Establish clear boundaries
2. Have your own interests
3. Do not be afraid to tell him no. ( Do not always cancel or rearrange your own plans to accomodate him).
4. Remain the 'chooser' rather than the 'chaser.' (Men are born hunters. Refrain from texting him repeatedly with no response from him.)
5. Remember that men have feelings and emotions too
Now I'm going to see how close I came. Which I think will be pretty close. And it will strengthen my own belief that it's not what I'm doing wrong, but a real lack of people that are long term material, who have not allowed the disappointments of life to leave them cynical. Show me a decent man my age, who's polite, self aware, makes the most of any situation, and I would be all in. But there are none 😢
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Thzk
Cooking, Cleaning, Playful, Elegant, Say a lot with your facial expressions and body language, be a great judge of character, yet expect a man to take care of you.
Him: Bragging about yourself only makes you sound desperate
Also him: I gained 25 lbs of muscle, I’ve been working out for a few years now, and I definitely love myself way more
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It is hard to discover that you were with the wrong person 😔😔😔
Ha ha
If u make ur guy wait for a single kiss for too long , he will find another women for free kisses.
And those are the guys you should usually avoid.
So basically you're telling me that I wasn't good enough just being myself. That myself just isn't going to be good enough for a man That's what you're saying. You're saying that I need to act differently than who I am in order to become a high value woman for some man. You're saying I need to play hard to get. I mean that is what you're saying because I would be lying to myself if I didn't just be honest with myself and admit that the only reason I'm even talking to a man is because I am actually interested in him. And if I act like I'm not interested and I have better things to do then all I'm doing is playing mind games with him from the beginning. And if that's what men want then it is in my best interest to steer clear of them.
I mean let's just be honest what every man wants is a Barbie with huge boobs and a perfect body and who plays hard to get because she can in most women let's just be honest here myself included Don't look like Barbie and we don't have perfect bodies.
And I honestly think that after many relationships with many men that want men really want is a Barbie. Of course they want someone with brains too so they can have a conversation once in a while but by a large they want a 10 out of 10 Barbie that is out of reach but who they can conquer and gloat about to their friends.
You actually have to be worth something to a man in order for him to see your value. And it seems to me like the only women that are worth anything to men are like rock stars or actresses because they are extremely good looking and they have a lot of money and they are smart.
I'm just an average woman who works for minimum wage and according to several men I've asked I'm around a five out of 10 and definitely not worth pursuing.
This was a valuable video to me because it made me realize that I was completely wasting my time with men. I should be celibate. Thank you.
I agree , we all are playing mind games here and we all put facades on faces to impress the other party which is so stupid , I have decided I am not going to act any differently just so that a man would like me , just be true to yourself and others and the one who genuinely likes you would like you FOR YOU and not the mask that you are wearing ,cut all the BS ,I also hate pretending what I am not.
I thought u were going to say 7 traits
Christ Jesus will show you what it means to be a high value women. It wasn't until I found Christ that I now know what it means to be a high value women. God's grace and mercy and truth has showed me that being a women is a crown jewel. God created Eve for Adam a helper, As women learn to respect yourself in a divine way the way God intended Men would realize and see the value in women and the harmful belief of the world's view of what women should be will be buried and gone. for it is written in scripture, A godly women is to be praised. As I found a jewel in the crown to her king (partner) for the king of kings who sits at the right hand of God. when you do it God's way, you have peace and real love, an undying love.
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