My Journey of 4 attempts at UPSC prelims - mistakes and learnings

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 76

  • @Ranglalmeena4748
    @Ranglalmeena4748 17 дней назад +7

    Thanks 🙏🙏🙏🙏 you mam bhut bhut dynyaad mam ji continue guidance helpful ❤

  • @rajnikant3851
    @rajnikant3851 17 дней назад +13

    आपके शब्दों के पीछे कि पीड़ा, भावना, दर्द, त्याग को मैं भलीभांति समझ सकता हूँ ........hm तो suicide से बाल - बाल बचे है इतना depressed हो गए थे........... वह जो समय होता है उस दौरान कोई काम नहीं आता है.......Psychiatrist से treatment लिए हैं तब अब जा के इस चीज़ से बाहर निकल पाए है l ........... भाड़ में जाये upsc कि तैयारी, भाड़ में जाए, IAS और IPS कि नौकरी हमको नहीं करनी है.......... मेरी जिंदगी से बड़ी ये Exam नहीं है............ आपको जब कभी भी कोई दिक्कत हो, परेशानी बुझाए, संकट बुझाए तब आप इस अजनबी दोस्त से साझा कर सकती हैं....... मैं आपकी सहायता के लिये हमेशा तत्पर रहूंगा l

  • @monty6951
    @monty6951 17 дней назад +6

    Never lose hope. Never stop working.

  • @vibewelll
    @vibewelll 11 дней назад +1

    More power to you girl.... I have immense respect for the people like you, even more than the ones who have cleared the exam in first attempt. You are an example of perseverance, i can surely say whatever you will do in life, you will excel. Don't get disheartened.

  • @faiselahmadganie7605
    @faiselahmadganie7605 17 дней назад +6

    Video made from heart ,❤

  • @upscnews2061
    @upscnews2061 18 дней назад +5

    it is a video from heart🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @Nkc568
    @Nkc568 15 дней назад +2

    This is the story with me..same 4 years failures , mental stress and trauma and cutoff from society....And I'm not able to express my pain to anyone, even my friends Don't understand it even i tell them that I'm in a mental stress.... people just say "it happens" , it's very normal bla bla bla.....And I'm facing my stress and pain alone

  • @ritulsingh4683
    @ritulsingh4683 7 дней назад

    Sending you strength and big bear hug.❤

  • @kamalkashyap0512
    @kamalkashyap0512 18 дней назад +3

    Thank you 😊 for sharing valuable information 🙏

  • @nirvana3327
    @nirvana3327 17 дней назад +6

    Same story as me & she's talking about Vajiram Coaching !!

  • @ashutosh-ql3gm
    @ashutosh-ql3gm 16 дней назад +2

    I have been also struggling with my mental health , but slowly i began to take responsibility for my health & well being , i am responsible for my bad mental & nobody else , & when i started to see this my life start to change completely . My life my business .
    Now i am good & preparing for 2025 attempt with a good routine including in it exercise sports .
    U r ryt if u r happy inside than outside works efficiency increases drastically exponentially
    All the best for your future journey mam , doesn't matter u fall , take responsibility get up & do it again .
    All the best 💛🔥

  • @Meow33109
    @Meow33109 17 дней назад +1

    Thanks for saying this - suffering is not necessary. We donot need to chose to suffer.
    Thanks. Again and again.

  • @thediplomat7488
    @thediplomat7488 11 дней назад

    Same story graduated in 2019 started upsc preparation in 2020 , feel u ❤ more power to u

  • @ShivpalSoni-ts2mw
    @ShivpalSoni-ts2mw 20 дней назад +2

    Very well

  • @AdityaKr2510
    @AdityaKr2510 12 дней назад +2

    #saveyourattempt🎉

  • @vicharakias7946
    @vicharakias7946 18 дней назад +3

    I hope you are good, Mona and your preparation is in attacking mode for 2025-26

  • @paruljaiswal1
    @paruljaiswal1 13 дней назад +4

    I have downloaded your videos so that mai time to time dekh ke sab cheejo ko dhyaan me rakh ke chalu... !
    Jo aapne aaj ham sabhi se share kiya wo etna valuable hai mai describe nhi kar skti.. Aapne apne chaar saal ke experience se hmare chaar saal bachaye hai....!
    Aur ye waqt bahot hi important hai....! Dil se thank you.... And the struggle you have faced... KAHI na kahi to Jaroor pahuchayega❤🙏

  • @abdulqadirmnnitallahabad2672
    @abdulqadirmnnitallahabad2672 20 дней назад +2

    Thank you ma'am !

  • @Wholeheartedly-inspired
    @Wholeheartedly-inspired 10 дней назад

    Thank u for reality check 🙁 mera bhi mind set asa hi hai ki me dicplined and dedicated hard work se first attempt me clear kar lugi but now your video ne reality check diya

  • @krishidrishti9181
    @krishidrishti9181 20 дней назад +3

    Keep it up sister.....

  • @sonakshiroy5455
    @sonakshiroy5455 16 дней назад +1

    Thanks buddy, god bless you ❤

  • @Memes_now.
    @Memes_now. 17 дней назад +5

    1000% true

  • @ritusrivastava4881
    @ritusrivastava4881 8 дней назад

    The first ever true advice I have ever had same thing happened to me 2 attempts are wasted

  • @Professor_price
    @Professor_price 14 дней назад +3

    May 25th is my DoB 😅
    March 11 was my first UPSC CSE interview in 2020
    I am still in the process writing my 5th mains this year
    Hope I get through this year

    • @TvGvGvT
      @TvGvGvT 14 дней назад +1

      😂 5mains wala yaha bakchodi nahi katega😂😂😂

    • @aspiranttoofficer9847
      @aspiranttoofficer9847 12 дней назад +1

      😂😂 iss channel pr to nahi hote bhai tum 😂

  • @Manhafuture
    @Manhafuture 14 дней назад +2

    mere hisab se to jo phele job lelena chaye jo financialy weak hai uske bad job ke sath sath preparation karni chaiye kyuki upsc me sirf 1000 hi post hai usme to adha seat reserved hai to competition aur badh jata hai

  • @RishuTayal-qw8nt
    @RishuTayal-qw8nt 10 дней назад

    I wish you do really well in your life

  • @aspiranttoofficer9847
    @aspiranttoofficer9847 12 дней назад

    I think u r more knowledgeable than me in this field...but with my personal experience & I personally know 1 IAS officer and some of Class 2 officers.. what i realize is more than 50% luck matters .. they never studied under any stress ... even if they have relationship they somehow convince thr partner... also they dont stop enjoying thr life..

  • @VishalKumar-rs6se
    @VishalKumar-rs6se 17 дней назад +6

    Shivin Female Varient.

  • @growthcyclevlog
    @growthcyclevlog 17 дней назад +2

    Realy same here

  • @notaloner
    @notaloner 17 дней назад +8

    Thank you so much dear I'm really stressed about how to do amid family pressure.

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  17 дней назад +3

      I can resonate with you as even I had gone through it. I'll try sharing guidance on same.

  • @aknoffl
    @aknoffl 4 дня назад

    i also failed failed i n 4 th attempt ... want to collab for further study

  • @Banker-uday
    @Banker-uday 17 дней назад +6

    Hii how can i get your mentorship fr sociology answer writting
    I can pay fr mentorship

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  17 дней назад

      I do not have any mentorship program to offer currently. Whatever I think is needed, I'm sharing here on yt. If you have any doubts regarding sociology..you can ask me on my telegram channel.t.me/monavermaupsc

  • @lonewolfgamingyt9847
    @lonewolfgamingyt9847 13 дней назад +2

    Family ki condition sahi nhi papa ko lakwa maar diya hai , relationship se sirf stress mil rha , social media se bhi chhod di stress ki wajah se sb kuchh hi sahi nhi hai

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  13 дней назад +2

      Being stressed is normal in such conditions but do not let yourself immerse in that stress as much as to let your efficiency hamper at work.

    • @nv3735
      @nv3735 7 дней назад

      Leave tht fucking relationship focus on yr goal girl frst

  • @AnuragSingh-px6kw
    @AnuragSingh-px6kw 18 дней назад +4

    Hiii mam namaste 🙏

  • @nishu55566
    @nishu55566 17 дней назад +2

    Ur score is same as me 😊😢

  • @shiv_a_n_i
    @shiv_a_n_i 13 дней назад +2

    Score nhi attach kia

  • @raaavan-02
    @raaavan-02 16 дней назад +3

    you'll succeed soon dear .
    i have a question for you
    as i am from schedule caste category than what leverage do i have as an (sc) candidate .
    please comment .
    moreover best wishes from my side mam ❤

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  16 дней назад +1

      Thankyou.
      Yes being a candidate from sc category..prelims merit list will be nearly 10 marks less than gen and in interview call..you get some benefits as merit list is on less marks than gen. In final list, you can get into higher posts using reservation criteria.

    • @raaavan-02
      @raaavan-02 16 дней назад +2

      @Upscmainswithmonaverma thank you mona and wish you a harmonious journey ahead .

    • @raaavan-02
      @raaavan-02 16 дней назад

      is it possible mam for a personal zoom session ?

  • @vampire-ww3vw
    @vampire-ww3vw 17 дней назад +4

    Mera to 2 attempt me hi halat kharab ho gaya 😢

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  17 дней назад +3

      Analyse yourself first and take rest if you need. Then only you can perform better. Do not let the burden of these failed attempts weigh you down.

  • @siddharthraj794
    @siddharthraj794 14 дней назад

    Which coaching

  • @krantiveera
    @krantiveera 13 дней назад +1

    Are you from Karnataka?

  • @PratyushShrawane
    @PratyushShrawane 13 дней назад

    Hii mam I am in 11th and started reading ncerts now I will read all ncerts till end of 12th and I am really confused about what to do than as the syllabus is huge how I’ll memorise it can you tell me please??

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  13 дней назад +2

      Kindly enjoy your school time and as a hobby keep reading ncerts just like novels.. During graduation, you can pace up your preparation.

    • @aspiranttoofficer9847
      @aspiranttoofficer9847 12 дней назад +1

      No need to do anything .. enjoy ur clg life... explore all possible paths ..ur understanding will improve a lot in next 2_3 yrs... if u feel only UPSC is the best .. then u can start from 2nd or 3 rd yr ....

    • @PratyushShrawane
      @PratyushShrawane 12 дней назад

      @@aspiranttoofficer9847 but as I have time why i can’t study from now

  • @geetagupta4350
    @geetagupta4350 12 дней назад

    hlo mam
    mam aap ne is tarah se video kaise bnayi hai i mean tablet ya laptop se?
    kon sa laptop ya tablet use kiya hai aap ne mam, mai online teach krna chahti hu isi tarah se pdf bnakar, please reply kr doge aap??
    please mam please

  • @Lightyagami-s8t
    @Lightyagami-s8t 17 дней назад +3

    Dude u only see iit and iim student that's the reason u loose do something else in your life . Iit Iim main bhi oyq hin rat ke phuchte hain wo koi intelligent nhi hote😂

  • @chethankumar6547
    @chethankumar6547 17 дней назад +1

    U reached Karnataka dear...
    Sorry for asking,are u general category?

  • @komaldogra2779
    @komaldogra2779 13 дней назад

    Mam apne graduation konse subject m persue ki thi?

  • @12345mn
    @12345mn 17 дней назад

    Mam I am going the same❤😢

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  17 дней назад

      Please try to improve yourself. Do analyse yourself before giving next attempt.

  • @pawanlakhera8605
    @pawanlakhera8605 16 дней назад +1

    mera ek doubt hai.. jab hum data, facts quote krte hai exact yad n aata .. kya hum use more than nd less than krke likh skte hai likhe domestic violence ko negative mai show krna hai to more than 6% nd positive mai use krna hai less rhan 6%

    • @Upscmainswithmonaverma
      @Upscmainswithmonaverma  16 дней назад +1

      Using approx sign(~), you can quote any data or fact ..but you have given wrong example here..as violence can never be justified. So, you cannot show domestic violence in positive form.
      You can write that with admn efforts we have been able to reduce it to this much .

    • @foku486
      @foku486 14 дней назад

      domestic violence ke positive bta rha 😅😅 ye banda practical baat kr rha😂