I feel like that about my big sister too. She was always mom and not a sister or a friend. Our age difference is 17yrs so I completely understand from the big sister point of view this time. They're so busy being strict with us so we will respect their authority. And yes they do mean things that maybe a mom wouldn't do but that's the teenage part of them that even they're still learning.
It’s not because we want our authority respected. It’s because we are overprotective and being so young raising someone else child its hard to navigate certain thoughts feelings and emotions.
@@17Chrisy the main feeling in the situation is anger... You want to go out but you're a built in babysitter. Then you began thinking minus well have my own or I never want kids.
@@denisedixon4680 definitely that’s true but they were both children. And what we not gonna do is act like it’s appropriate for a child to raise a child. She did the best she could. It wasn’t Aries fault, it wasn’t her sisters either.
@@denisedixon4680 I just mean that at the time neither of them was old enough to have the emotional intelligence to handle. All the blame is one the mother..period.
Me and my sister are 8 years apart and she was always a big sister AND when she had to assume a mother’s role she STILL remains one of my confidants! Ashley sounds a bit umm idk how to say it…
She never mentions it . Ever ever. you can’t find it anywhere not even in articles, every time someone ask how he pass she just says incurable sickness
I feel like that about my big sister too. She was always mom and not a sister or a friend. Our age difference is 17yrs so I completely understand from the big sister point of view this time. They're so busy being strict with us so we will respect their authority. And yes they do mean things that maybe a mom wouldn't do but that's the teenage part of them that even they're still learning.
It’s not because we want our authority respected. It’s because we are overprotective and being so young raising someone else child its hard to navigate certain thoughts feelings and emotions.
@@17Chrisy the main feeling in the situation is anger... You want to go out but you're a built in babysitter. Then you began thinking minus well have my own or I never want kids.
17 years?? Girl that’s ur mama at that point lol
As an older sister I definitely relate !!! It’s not talked about often
Her sister is so pretty
As the oldest I understand this fully.
Grief hits different and sometimes it takes years to grieve it comes and goes. Its traumatic.amd its okay.
She was too busy being your mother to be your sister.
Exactly she was a child raising a child she didn’t even birth of course she didn’t like you.
@@victoriavastey wasnt ari fault tho.. it was the mim fault
@@denisedixon4680 definitely that’s true but they were both children. And what we not gonna do is act like it’s appropriate for a child to raise a child. She did the best she could. It wasn’t Aries fault, it wasn’t her sisters either.
@@denisedixon4680 I just mean that at the time neither of them was old enough to have the emotional intelligence to handle. All the blame is one the mother..period.
Counseling will help you Ari❤️
Be strong
I wish you the best😘
Been there done that…
Facts about older siblings having to take care of younger siblings
It’s amazing how you do so much for your siblings, and then they grow up and tell people stuff like that. 😏
Me and my sister are 8 years apart and she was always a big sister AND when she had to assume a mother’s role she STILL remains one of my confidants! Ashley sounds a bit umm idk how to say it…
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😂😂😂and I will not be able help you out of this year as we 😂😂😂LOL I the
Huhhhhhhh…….???????🧐🧐
I was the big sister tooo😢
What was Kyles uncurable sickness?
Maybe sickle cell… I’m not sure though.
She never mentions it . Ever ever. you can’t find it anywhere not even in articles, every time someone ask how he pass she just says incurable sickness
it’s none of our business tbh
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Is hee brother by her. Mom or dad
Must be her mom
Her mom
Mom
Worst show on tv
So why are you here? Oh okay sit down fan