THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE HAVING A BABY | Advice for New borns

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  • Опубликовано: 10 янв 2025

Комментарии • 36

  • @marcblair3781
    @marcblair3781 19 дней назад +2

    I left Jamaica at 11 and moved to New York, but I went back on my own every summer vacation for a month from 12 years old. My parents just had my aunt pick me up at the airport and I stayed at my friend's house for two weeks and at aunts/uncles' house for two weeks. I quickly learned independence and it got me into a lifetime of traveling. I took trips to France and England in college, and Korea after college. I moved to Korea for 2 years and have been living in Japan for 8yrs now. In between I've been to over 17 countries. Flying from a young age makes you eager to travel more and you get used to the hassle of long flights and airports.

  • @eyuget6256
    @eyuget6256 17 дней назад +2

    I’m so glad to see you in your happy place. One advice for you, you need to read about how child birth affects new moms. It’s a lot on the body, stress, lack of sleep and at times depression. Please please read so you can understand what she’s going through as this has huge impact on your relationship. You both are perfect match and I see the love and respect in these small vlogs. Happiest Holidays!

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  17 дней назад

      I am so grateful for this advice, I will definitely check it out!

  • @sweetiesuccess8435
    @sweetiesuccess8435 18 дней назад +1

    Some tips on getting your baby to get full sleeps...1st newborn babies wake up every 2-3 hours, so make sure when you are not on baby duty, you get your full rest without any disturbance. You can start training your baby around 3 months for full rest, swaddle your baby, putting a little bit of cereal/porridge in their milk, letting them listen to calming sound like your heartbeat or even singing to them, rocking, pushing them around in a stroller, giving them soursop bush tea, some baby even like the sea breeze and just the sound of the waves, every baby is different so you will need to try several things and see what works for your baby...but try to stay on schedule if you put your baby to sleep about 7pm each night...continue to do that every night, they will get use to that routine.

  • @MamaLisa_Reads
    @MamaLisa_Reads 16 дней назад

    I love that you're going back home! I've never been to Kenya, but I have been to ghana and I'd love to move there.

  • @samueloparah1692
    @samueloparah1692 18 дней назад +1

    James is a funny guy. I know your lady loves you so much.

  • @lee-annmcdonald7137
    @lee-annmcdonald7137 15 дней назад

    You guys should consider moving the mirror above the babies crib

  • @jakarariw
    @jakarariw 19 дней назад +1

    You are enterprising and hardworking, if you comeback Pacho, Yuri and Dasomi will miss you sooo much, wish you came back when they were college bound,
    But Bébé, Odieche fit anywhere they can live anywhere, fit in anywhere anytime gipogre giJaAmerka marotenge
    Keep the dresses for your children

  • @lusimyer
    @lusimyer 19 дней назад

    OMG...James just gotta be James!! Lying in the babys cot!!! 😮😮😮😂😂😂😂😂

  • @quasar4472
    @quasar4472 18 дней назад

    I am also planning to do the same..have a home that i grew up in the Caribbean and 1st home in the states ( reasons it is first because we paid down our home early this year.)
    Im sure you and your girls have deep discussions about it and im not sure when its going to start. I remember you planned a business in Kenya, knowing how you love your girls, im sure you will plan accordingly. Your lady seems to be in the conversation already and it feels mutual!
    You both will be amazing parents! I can't believe its already near for your budding family!❤

  • @BIG_AL_Channel
    @BIG_AL_Channel 18 дней назад +1

    It's her first time and your a 2-time pro, so her anxiety is to be expected. Now from a healthcare professional get the book called "What to expect when your expecting" and the follow-up book called "What to Expect the First Year" both by Heidi Murkoff. Those two books is what she really needs and what we recommend to new mom's in healthcare. All these other books are mostly not written following evidence-based practices from systematic studies and are just bombastic opinions. Karibu nyumbani boss. But what you gonna do with your girls? You can't leave them with cheese boy! They're definitely not safe around him given his past per his former wives.

  • @zacdorsey1906
    @zacdorsey1906 19 дней назад

    Congratulations James 👏🏽

  • @charitynyamuzuwe9310
    @charitynyamuzuwe9310 19 дней назад +1

    I love watching your videos

  • @Mikeosei1
    @Mikeosei1 19 дней назад

    Congratulations 🎉👏 james

  • @CoumbaTall-v8c
    @CoumbaTall-v8c 18 дней назад +1

    Auguri James hai segnato il tuo territorio 🚼sul lettino🎉😂🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤ così adorabili Buona fortuna🤰🏾❤

  • @carmencruzado4746
    @carmencruzado4746 18 дней назад

    You in the baby crib you too much james😂😂😂

  • @lusimyer
    @lusimyer 19 дней назад

    Ooh WOW..back to Kenya for good? Nice. Enjoy.

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  18 дней назад +2

      A part of me will always be in Kenya.

    • @lusimyer
      @lusimyer 18 дней назад

      @JustJamesfor-life of course,I think that's natural. Anyone living away from their birth country where they grew up, I think, would feel the same.

  • @hannahwilliams83
    @hannahwilliams83 19 дней назад

    You're an amazing dad James your girlfriends baby dresses would look adorable on your guys new baby girl you both will be wonderful parents. ❤❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍

  • @carmencruzado4746
    @carmencruzado4746 18 дней назад +1

    I so love watching your videos james👏🏻🫶🏻

  • @sweetiesuccess8435
    @sweetiesuccess8435 18 дней назад

    James you are cracking me up because you making it clear the baby need to sleep in her crib lol, I remember when your babies used to sleep in the bed, and you couldn't get them out lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @LaLa-j6y6z
    @LaLa-j6y6z 19 дней назад

    Before having a baby shoot u have two girl before this third baby. 😊

  • @alponsinalee
    @alponsinalee 19 дней назад +1

    Congratulations! Is she your new wife ?

    • @Oldman1912
      @Oldman1912 19 дней назад +3

      No, she is the maid. You are welcome!

    • @lusimyer
      @lusimyer 19 дней назад +1

      ​@@Oldman1912 ouch! 😮 😂😂

  • @goddessleo3584
    @goddessleo3584 19 дней назад +3

    Real men know how to be strong and soft when needed. It's awesome to hear when men acknowledge that. It's an exciting time for you and your family, enjoy every moment. Happy Holidays.

    • @JustJamesfor-life
      @JustJamesfor-life  18 дней назад +1

      It's a rollercoaster, but it's the best rollercoaster ever! 😂

  • @Dany-ik1id
    @Dany-ik1id 18 дней назад

    Even black and muscular guy can't control Korean women

    • @jakarariw
      @jakarariw 18 дней назад

      😂😂😂You are lucky you can control women l will tell your mother about what you are saying here

  • @sheiladavis585
    @sheiladavis585 19 дней назад

    How you going to see your girls.Wait until they get older. That’s too far for you and them not to be there right there.😢😮Wait until they get lease sixteen

  • @jasonedgerly5900
    @jasonedgerly5900 18 дней назад

    Another cycling video!