Challenges in relationships are part of the journey, but there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage had significant hurdles, but with the right help, my wife and I overcame them and grew stronger. With effort and cooperation, solutions can be found. Keep your hope-solutions are within reach.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Some commons reason of divorce 1. Getting married very young 2. Differences between partners' background or interests 3. Economic or emotional reasons 4. Lack of communication In many cases, it's due to the ongoing combination of these reasons. I really like the idea of a 30 day cooling- off period for couples wanting to be separated by the Chinese government. It gives them to set aside some time to think seriously about their whole-life decision instead of impetuous for a moment and then feel sorry for the rest of their life
Unfortunately, my parents divorced when I was 9, at that moment I was upset and felt lethargic. It was one of the worst experiences I’ve ever had. A few days ago, I’ve seen the news that Korean famous footballer divorced even though he has a daughter, which made me upset again. As far as I know, he’s ex-wife was stay-at-home mom, she might have struggled in different countries
Thanks Georgie and Phil for once more an interesting topic. I'm glad that at least in Europe, and I guess in other countries in the world, governments don't intervene in private decisions like divorce or any other private matters. I think that we people might make mistakes when we choose our partners, but it's better that we decide what to do, when things don't work out.
Marriage is like cinema - more you expect from the movie, more you get disappointed. Some of them marry just to see how photogenic are as spouses, then divorce to see how photogenic are as divorcees.
A cooling-off strategy is effective for couples who made an impulsive decision to divorce. One of my friends and his wife got back together during the cooling-off period.
Jeremy had a stay-at-home mum, but she changed her mind about it. Luckily for Jeremy's mum, the Jedi Order intervened and let Jeremy join the Jedi because that was Jeremy's dream job. That solved the unresolvable problem for Jeremy's mum, as she could then do whatever she wanted invariably! However, Jeremy discovered he didn't like the Jedi anymore after working for them for a few weeks. Jeremy then got mad at the Jedi for not letting him leave the Order. The Senate then intervened and gave Jeremy and the Jedi a one-month cooling-off period to decide what to do.
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These days, I wonder if many people actually love their partners. In my country, one in three couples gets divorced, cheating is common, and some even keep a “death note” diary, recording their partner’s decline. I imagine that some people think less about “I deeply love this person, so I’ll marry them” and more like “I’ll marry them because we’re getting along right now,” or “I should get married soon to have kids at the right age.” For me, marriage shouldn’t be the ultimate goal, and it’s better to stay single than to marry with regrets. But I know many people still feel that marriage and children make the perfect life.
Some people regard marriage as business. For example, the more they get old, the more they want economic security of partner and there is little purity
@@Semi1397 but you will agree that knowing what are you going to think or to feel 20 years from now is really complicated. Life changes you or living means change. 👍
The tastes and attitudes of human beings during the process of life change a lot ,so whenever they can not find something in common between eachother they try other ways and find someone else ,so in this case the chance of having not only a long lasting relationship with your friends but also with your wife or husband can be 50_50 percentage successful.That's why divorce is something normal in human being relationship.
I have been married for 20 years. I remember a few years ago at English class divorce was the topic. As probably I was the only student who was married the teacher asked me what was important in a relationship to not fail, that day my answer was: maybe having bad memory could be good for this. I think the teacher is still laughing at 😂😂😂
Like Mario Benedetti said ( or kinda): "I'm not suffering amnesia, I just only remember the best and what I like to remember. It's called selective memory and It's very healthy to have it". Hi from Mexico.
@@alichesa not only marriage partner I think anyone with broken family can lower their stress level by having bad memory. My father's family always scold and blame my mother and her family everyday. Now I am 24 and when my mother asked about those past things I have found I don't have memory of them
@DilakshiSN Good for you then. Hatred will not lead you to mental peace. Right now there are few people who can hurt me by words, opinions and things like that. Life has taught me I'd better stop paying attencion to everybody. When someone tells me something I don't like, don't deserve, etc my position IS ok, no matters, you are nobody for me, you can not hurt me as you are not important. Of course, as a result I try to keep myself far away from them 😜
Well i think divorce sometimes it's necessary, people say "marriage has significant hurdles" but how long? its not a punishment, its a decision where you believe in love, work together and back up each other.
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Why are you saving marriage system?Nowadays it is very common among couples of India(I am from Kerala- southern part)..under the patriarchy women have less voice so educated women being apart from this system..Those who have social and economical stability dont afraid of emotional control of society .Divorce is better than live without harmony..(Forgive me for my writing faults )
What would come about when couples are about adult or even middle of 18 might be in between 17 in some terms how early alliance is good whether toxic? It's reliable to be knotted in 18s whether get married in 30s is legally good or personally satisfying, please BBC i wish for clarity and wanna precise reply!
@@bbclearningenglish sorry for incoherence I wanted to go prompt reply but if you didn't get my point then I pardon, actually my question was about wedding in early 18s what are the pros and cons of early alliance ( wedding, marriage) also explain the late marriage between two people, I mean in 30s.
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The world has been reduced to a global village and what goes on in one part of the world affects other parts of the world too. However, living together and being childless are more in vogue in the West. No offence, but I think you are mistaken about the condition in the West. But, if it is as you say it is, " Thank God" for making the youth come to their senses.🤷🙏
Here is the comment from that country mentioned in this video. We do have the cooling-off period, which originally aimed to curtail the high divorce rate but culminated in failure. people complain that they are gonna wait a longer time for a divorce after the relationship breaks up and things will get worse if the reason for divorce is home violence. because the suffer would possibly suffer more threats and abuse if their partner is reluctant to agree to the divorce. the fact is nothing can be done to avoid this situation at this period.
I think the divorce rate in my country is rasing day by day. There are a lot of young couples divorcing in the first or second year of their marriage. There are also a lot of old couples that divorce . In my opinion. The cause of these are . Arranged marriage . Financial crisis . Cheating in marriage. . In-laws problems . Expecting the wives to do every household chores. . Trying to control their patner . No getting attention, love, and care they thought they would get before marriage. . Bring a third person and entertaining between them. . Marrying multiple wives. Others.
In my case someone divorced from me 'just because' and the Law here in Mexico let him. Spide of we've a 9 years old girl, 20 years together, a road over tje sidewalk so the doctors amputee me my rigth leg upper knee and other bad things. I should have followed my childhood instict and stay single the rest of my life.
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Challenges in relationships are part of the journey, but there’s always a way to move forward. My own marriage had significant hurdles, but with the right help, my wife and I overcame them and grew stronger. With effort and cooperation, solutions can be found. Keep your hope-solutions are within reach.
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
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Some commons reason of divorce
1. Getting married very young
2. Differences between partners' background or interests
3. Economic or emotional reasons
4. Lack of communication
In many cases, it's due to the ongoing combination of these reasons.
I really like the idea of a 30 day cooling- off period for couples wanting to be separated by the Chinese government. It gives them to set aside some time to think seriously about their whole-life decision instead of impetuous for a moment and then feel sorry for the rest of their life
Unfortunately, my parents divorced when I was 9, at that moment I was upset and felt lethargic. It was one of the worst experiences I’ve ever had.
A few days ago, I’ve seen the news that Korean famous footballer divorced even though he has a daughter, which made me upset again.
As far as I know, he’s ex-wife was stay-at-home mom, she might have struggled in different countries
Really interesting, thanks!
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Thanks Georgie and Phil for once more an interesting topic. I'm glad that at least in Europe, and I guess in other countries in the world, governments don't intervene in private decisions like divorce or any other private matters. I think that we people might make mistakes when we choose our partners, but it's better that we decide what to do, when things don't work out.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on the topic!
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people in the west don't get divorced, because they mostly don't marry 😅😅
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Marriage is like cinema - more you expect from the movie, more you get disappointed.
Some of them marry just to see how photogenic are as spouses, then divorce to see how photogenic are as divorcees.
A cooling-off strategy is effective for couples who made an impulsive decision to divorce. One of my friends and his wife got back together during the cooling-off period.
awesome 😍
Jeremy had a stay-at-home mum, but she changed her mind about it. Luckily for Jeremy's mum, the Jedi Order intervened and let Jeremy join the Jedi because that was Jeremy's dream job. That solved the unresolvable problem for Jeremy's mum, as she could then do whatever she wanted invariably! However, Jeremy discovered he didn't like the Jedi anymore after working for them for a few weeks. Jeremy then got mad at the Jedi for not letting him leave the Order. The Senate then intervened and gave Jeremy and the Jedi a one-month cooling-off period to decide what to do.
good rule china..sometimes some distance makes one realise the importance of their partner
Good!
But it doesn't work for the two persons literally want divorce.Don't ask how I know it.
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These days, I wonder if many people actually love their partners.
In my country, one in three couples gets divorced, cheating is common, and some even keep a “death note” diary, recording their partner’s decline.
I imagine that some people think less about “I deeply love this person, so I’ll marry them” and more like “I’ll marry them because we’re getting along right now,” or “I should get married soon to have kids at the right age.”
For me, marriage shouldn’t be the ultimate goal, and it’s better to stay single than to marry with regrets. But I know many people still feel that marriage and children make the perfect life.
Some people regard marriage as business. For example, the more they get old, the more they want economic security of partner and there is little purity
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 👍 Your writing is excellent.
@@Semi1397 but you will agree that knowing what are you going to think or to feel 20 years from now is really complicated. Life changes you or living means change. 👍
The tastes and attitudes of human beings during the process of life change a lot ,so whenever they can not find something in common between eachother they try other ways and find someone else ,so in this case the chance of having not only a long lasting relationship with your friends but also with your wife or husband can be 50_50 percentage successful.That's why divorce is something normal in human being relationship.
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I have been married for 20 years. I remember a few years ago at English class divorce was the topic. As probably I was the only student who was married the teacher asked me what was important in a relationship to not fail, that day my answer was: maybe having bad memory could be good for this. I think the teacher is still laughing at 😂😂😂
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Like Mario Benedetti said ( or kinda): "I'm not suffering amnesia, I just only remember the best and what I like to remember. It's called selective memory and It's very healthy to have it".
Hi from Mexico.
@@alichesa not only marriage partner I think anyone with broken family can lower their stress level by having bad memory. My father's family always scold and blame my mother and her family everyday. Now I am 24 and when my mother asked about those past things I have found I don't have memory of them
@@viridianaramirez7526 nice chap was Mario Benedetti. I love his writings
@DilakshiSN Good for you then. Hatred will not lead you to mental peace. Right now there are few people who can hurt me by words, opinions and things like that. Life has taught me I'd better stop paying attencion to everybody. When someone tells me something I don't like, don't deserve, etc my position IS ok, no matters, you are nobody for me, you can not hurt me as you are not important. Of course, as a result I try to keep myself far away from them 😜
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Well i think divorce sometimes it's necessary, people say "marriage has significant hurdles" but how long? its not a punishment, its a decision where you believe in love, work together and back up each other.
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4:39 what's the difference between non and just not? Or are they the same?
👍 Good question. 'non' is a prefix, which we can attach to some words to mean 'not'. It can't be used on its own though!
Furtunaly I'm single and I'll avoid the wedding, free love is nice, no doubt 😅
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Why are you saving marriage system?Nowadays it is very common among couples of India(I am from Kerala- southern part)..under the patriarchy women have less voice so educated women being apart from this system..Those who have social and economical stability dont afraid of emotional control of society .Divorce is better than live without harmony..(Forgive me for my writing faults )
What would come about when couples are about adult or even middle of 18 might be in between 17 in some terms how early alliance is good whether toxic?
It's reliable to be knotted in 18s whether get married in 30s is legally good or personally satisfying, please BBC i wish for clarity and wanna precise reply!
We're sorry but we didn't understand the question. 😊 Could you rephrase it slightly?
@@bbclearningenglish sorry for incoherence I wanted to go prompt reply but if you didn't get my point then I pardon, actually my question was about wedding in early 18s what are the pros and cons of early alliance ( wedding, marriage) also explain the late marriage between two people, I mean in 30s.
transcribethis AI fixes this. orce: Why does it happen?
Mostly because of the lack of money.
maybe, but depend on the context too
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Mariage: why does that happen, to start a family or to have sex .a part of answer is in this response.
Humans prioritise fantasy over responsibility and ethical contiguity. 😅
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The world has been reduced to a global village and what goes on in one part of the world affects other parts of the world too. However, living together and being childless are more in vogue in the West. No offence, but I think you are mistaken about the condition in the West. But, if it is as you say it is, " Thank God" for making the youth come to their senses.🤷🙏
Thanks for commenting. We enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic!
Here is the comment from that country mentioned in this video. We do have the cooling-off period, which originally aimed to curtail the high divorce rate but culminated in failure. people complain that they are gonna wait a longer time for a divorce after the relationship breaks up and things will get worse if the reason for divorce is home violence. because the suffer would possibly suffer more threats and abuse if their partner is reluctant to agree to the divorce. the fact is nothing can be done to avoid this situation at this period.
I think the divorce rate in my country is rasing day by day. There are a lot of young couples divorcing in the first or second year of their marriage. There are also a lot of old couples that divorce .
In my opinion. The cause of these are . Arranged marriage
. Financial crisis
. Cheating in marriage.
. In-laws problems
. Expecting the wives to do every household chores.
. Trying to control their patner
. No getting attention, love, and care they thought they would get before marriage.
. Bring a third person and entertaining between them.
. Marrying multiple wives.
Others.
In my case someone divorced from me 'just because' and the Law here in Mexico let him. Spide of we've a 9 years old girl, 20 years together, a road over tje sidewalk so the doctors amputee me my rigth leg upper knee and other bad things.
I should have followed my childhood instict and stay single the rest of my life.
Cool off period 离婚冷静期
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