Resonates 100%! My Gemini man. Lots of personal problems to sort out. Very cold and indifferent towards me. But still keeping an eye on me. Always trying to find out what am I doing, where am I going, spoils all conversations I have with other men when we are in a social situation. But does not communicate at all. I am tired of this. Need to move on. Not worth the wait.
I like the opening, stability patience paying off!! We were separated and coparenting. Then i lost my house and everything i own in a flood. We agreed to both relocate to an area with no floods, and to continue co-parenting. I moved with our kid, but he never showed up. I had to deal with all that loss, the move, but most of all a really distressed kid who had also lost everything including their father. He just ghosted us. I was really triggered, that is true. After 2/3 years we just spent Christmas together. Sounds like my reading 😊
In The Lord of The Rings what would have happened to Frodo if Sam hadn't come back and fought the big spider then the orcs to rescue him? if Sam had been destroyed by Gollum/Gollum's toxic influence on Frodo? if the journey into Mordor had been going on for years already and Frodo had put Sam through so much that Sam had no choice but to let Frodo go? What would have happened if Frodo was so toxic and self-destructive that he had done everything to ruin and destroy Sam's life directly & indirectly also out of a bruised ego, immaturity and pettiness? and kept turning a blind eye not to help him in return in ANY way, despite being responsible for the destruction done to Sam? What would have happened to Frodo? He would have fckn' d*ed, the big spider would have ended him with the complicity & plotting of Gollum, to take the ring back. In the book/movies Sam returns bc he knows he can find a way to get rid of Gollum, he doesn't return out of Wishful Thinking and Delusion, he knows Gollum will show his true colors to Frodo, helping Frodo open his eyes to get rid of Gollum, he returns bc Frodo is still on the fence.. But in a situation where Gollum has succeeded in getting total control over Frodo's mind, decisions hence life (Gollum being the metaphor for toxic patterns including addictions): there is nothing more Sam could try to help Frodo bc it's useless, bc Frodo always sides with Gollum no matter what, does what Gollum keeps whispering in his ears. In this situation Sam sees Gollum & the ring/Sauron have won, Frodo will pay the ultimate price: his life, there's nothing Sam can do against it after he's tried literally everything for years to help and shake up Frodo in every possible way for his own good. Sam failed bc Frodo didn't want help, Frodo didn't want to fight to save himself or stand up for himself. Sam failed bc Frodo gave up on himself. Everything Sam has fought for, tried for years to help Frodo made no difference bc everything keeps getting worse, hence just a complete waste of Sam's time, energy, patience, worries, care/love, efforts, ideas, hopes, determination. On top of that it has cost Sam the very little he had fought so hard to build and secure, now there's no prospects left to build then secure anything again, it's too late. Without this Hell trip to Mordor Sam would have been able to execute his longtime thorough plan to move to a land far away to start over safely. Frodo ruined everything including for Sam, yet Frodo still gained everything there was to gain out of the connection...the irony. Now Sam is left watching the tsunamis coming without being able to do anything to protect himself, he knows he's screwed, The Way is Shut, he's accepted it, made Peace with it, yet he can't live in delusion, apathy, distractions or denial. Sam knows he did do his very best for years with pure & selfless intentions to try and help Frodo who desperately needed it, so he will d*e with a clear conscience. All Sam got in return was many powerful, greedy toxic enemies who unleashed war after war against him and destruction bc he was just trying to help Frodo. There was nothing Sam could do against these enemies. Sam should have left Mordor several years ago, before said enemies were made aware of Sam hence went to war to get rid of him. There's many different decisions Sam should have made instead, yes, but he's been on his own all along, no help, no guidance, no support, so Sam kept doing what he still believes was the right things to do for the right reasons. He still doesn't understand why he has to pay such a heavy price for that... It is what it is...
I agree with you. I was dealing with Gemini not consistent until he ghosting me. And now out of nowhere he greet me. But I don't response. Just ignore . Need to have peace of Mind. Have to focus with my career and my Money 😂
I saw something I wasn't supposed to see on his social media. He spent some time on the reel with Christmas music and such. Posted it. Then took it down. My heart sunk immediately and the pain in my stomach. 🥲. I wasn't supposed to see it for he has me blocked. But yet, it was shown to me. 😢. I really don't understand why or even how. And why take it down??? I'm sure he got a lot of questions because obviously it wasn't of me. 💔
Resonates 100%! My Gemini man. Lots of personal problems to sort out. Very cold and indifferent towards me. But still keeping an eye on me. Always trying to find out what am I doing, where am I going, spoils all conversations I have with other men when we are in a social situation. But does not communicate at all. I am tired of this. Need to move on. Not worth the wait.
It is always a pleasure to listen to your advices
I like the opening, stability patience paying off!!
We were separated and coparenting. Then i lost my house and everything i own in a flood. We agreed to both relocate to an area with no floods, and to continue co-parenting. I moved with our kid, but he never showed up.
I had to deal with all that loss, the move, but most of all a really distressed kid who had also lost everything including their father.
He just ghosted us.
I was really triggered, that is true.
After 2/3 years we just spent Christmas together. Sounds like my reading 😊
Get well soon
Thank you, feel better soon
Very accurate! Thank you🙏🏽
reading was accurate, thank you. you gave me the clarity i needed ✌️
Very interesting and certainly makes sense
Resonates ♏️ dealing with ♈️. Merry X'mas🎄
Same here ♏ dealing with ♈
In The Lord of The Rings what would have happened to Frodo if Sam hadn't come back and fought the big spider then the orcs to rescue him? if Sam had been destroyed by Gollum/Gollum's toxic influence on Frodo? if the journey into Mordor had been going on for years already and Frodo had put Sam through so much that Sam had no choice but to let Frodo go? What would have happened if Frodo was so toxic and self-destructive that he had done everything to ruin and destroy Sam's life directly & indirectly also out of a bruised ego, immaturity and pettiness? and kept turning a blind eye not to help him in return in ANY way, despite being responsible for the destruction done to Sam?
What would have happened to Frodo? He would have fckn' d*ed, the big spider would have ended him with the complicity & plotting of Gollum, to take the ring back.
In the book/movies Sam returns bc he knows he can find a way to get rid of Gollum, he doesn't return out of Wishful Thinking and Delusion, he knows Gollum will show his true colors to Frodo, helping Frodo open his eyes to get rid of Gollum, he returns bc Frodo is still on the fence..
But in a situation where Gollum has succeeded in getting total control over Frodo's mind, decisions hence life (Gollum being the metaphor for toxic patterns including addictions): there is nothing more Sam could try to help Frodo bc it's useless, bc Frodo always sides with Gollum no matter what, does what Gollum keeps whispering in his ears.
In this situation Sam sees Gollum & the ring/Sauron have won, Frodo will pay the ultimate price: his life, there's nothing Sam can do against it after he's tried literally everything for years to help and shake up Frodo in every possible way for his own good.
Sam failed bc Frodo didn't want help, Frodo didn't want to fight to save himself or stand up for himself. Sam failed bc Frodo gave up on himself.
Everything Sam has fought for, tried for years to help Frodo made no difference bc everything keeps getting worse, hence just a complete waste of Sam's time, energy, patience, worries, care/love, efforts, ideas, hopes, determination.
On top of that it has cost Sam the very little he had fought so hard to build and secure, now there's no prospects left to build then secure anything again, it's too late. Without this Hell trip to Mordor Sam would have been able to execute his longtime thorough plan to move to a land far away to start over safely.
Frodo ruined everything including for Sam, yet Frodo still gained everything there was to gain out of the connection...the irony. Now Sam is left watching the tsunamis coming without being able to do anything to protect himself, he knows he's screwed, The Way is Shut, he's accepted it, made Peace with it, yet he can't live in delusion, apathy, distractions or denial.
Sam knows he did do his very best for years with pure & selfless intentions to try and help Frodo who desperately needed it, so he will d*e with a clear conscience.
All Sam got in return was many powerful, greedy toxic enemies who unleashed war after war against him and destruction bc he was just trying to help Frodo. There was nothing Sam could do against these enemies.
Sam should have left Mordor several years ago, before said enemies were made aware of Sam hence went to war to get rid of him. There's many different decisions Sam should have made instead, yes, but he's been on his own all along, no help, no guidance, no support, so Sam kept doing what he still believes was the right things to do for the right reasons.
He still doesn't understand why he has to pay such a heavy price for that... It is what it is...
This is exactly what happened.
Love your voice.
Merry Christmas to you and yours!
Merry Christmas to you too! 🎄
I agree with you. I was dealing with Gemini not consistent until he ghosting me. And now out of nowhere he greet me. But I don't response. Just ignore . Need to have peace of Mind. Have to focus with my career and my Money 😂
You're incredible, even when poorly!
Even though I know his intentions are good, I'm worried about his fickleness. We'll have to see...
Merry Christmas 🎄
Merry Christmas! 🎄💖
Exactly...dealing with a Capricorn ( un devil energy)
Ditto
Resonates
Omg i did have a relative die in the last 10 years
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I saw something I wasn't supposed to see on his social media. He spent some time on the reel with Christmas music and such. Posted it. Then took it down.
My heart sunk immediately and the pain in my stomach. 🥲. I wasn't supposed to see it for he has me blocked. But yet, it was shown to me. 😢.
I really don't understand why or even how. And why take it down??? I'm sure he got a lot of questions because obviously it wasn't of me. 💔
Merry Christmas 🎄