Once You Stop Caring.. She Starts Chasing.

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  • Опубликовано: 9 фев 2025
  • Hey guys, welcome back to another video! In this one I explain the dynamic between masculine and feminine psychology & how to best apply it when dealing with stagnant relationships/women attraction. I hope this video can be of resource to you guys out there & with that said I will catch you all in the next one, cheers! :)
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  • @David_Hammond
    @David_Hammond  4 года назад +182

    Hope you guys enjoyed the video! Always self development coaching & course below. Cheers! 🤟🔥 www.self-developed.com

    • @konehetze8747
      @konehetze8747 4 года назад +4

      This video needs to get a whole lot more views 👌

    • @gmarellanogaffud1368
      @gmarellanogaffud1368 4 года назад

      Wow in one day you've got 1k subscribers

    • @nenasode8886
      @nenasode8886 4 года назад

      it's true his been around I'm happy but he juz staring no moves

    • @grellaandrea
      @grellaandrea 4 года назад

      @@konehetze8747 aaàaaaqq

    • @dontreadmyname4396
      @dontreadmyname4396 4 года назад +1

      ye but then men are the ones who have to chase when it comes to starting an interaction or having the girls number or getting a girl that we want not anyone that comes arround, how do we make the one we want to chase us, we tease her somewhow?

  • @funkyjones
    @funkyjones 4 года назад +707

    "If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things." Albert Einstein

    • @daishanewsomednp6956
      @daishanewsomednp6956 4 года назад +5

      💕

    • @matthewmanion1074
      @matthewmanion1074 3 года назад

      I want to work on this goal "not giving a crap"

    • @lljusttry
      @lljusttry 3 года назад +1

      Way to place your happiness outside of yourself, on a point that will forever be in the future. Happiness is found in the present.

    • @funkyjones
      @funkyjones 3 года назад +1

      @@lljusttry You misunderstand the statement. It's the overcoming of obstacles toward the goal that makes one happy. Not necessarily reaching the goal.

  • @dienekesn9312
    @dienekesn9312 4 года назад +1697

    I love this guy's energy, he's like a big brother.

    • @FluentOfficial
      @FluentOfficial 4 года назад +32

      my big brother doesnt even talk like this to me

    • @WA786K
      @WA786K 4 года назад

      fr

    • @avalimbu1386
      @avalimbu1386 4 года назад +3

      Yeah!there's something different about him.

    • @VillianObitoUchiha
      @VillianObitoUchiha 4 года назад

      U Right 4 real

    • @shawwillie7097
      @shawwillie7097 4 года назад

      Wow this is the realest thing I've ever heard wish could've found this channel earlier

  • @zwelimbona2952
    @zwelimbona2952 2 года назад +30

    "Men chase championships, whilst women chase champions." One of the most profound things I've heard in all of 2022. Thank you bro.

  • @elvinacheah
    @elvinacheah 4 года назад +1585

    Can you imagine if both sides were watching videos like this and no one chases/pursues. It’s so sad that we as humans need to resort to such games in order to gain love and approval :(

    • @roibryan6379
      @roibryan6379 4 года назад +25

      Wya then

    • @kriscarmeloyap4487
      @kriscarmeloyap4487 4 года назад +7

      Where you from??

    • @elvinacheah
      @elvinacheah 4 года назад +6

      @Davo Rebo great perspective. Thank you for sharing. I find it difficult to hold back my masculine side. Have always been the chaser but maybe that's just a story I keep telling myself :)

    • @tyjohnson1550
      @tyjohnson1550 4 года назад +45

      I agree Elvina. Just love me back like I love you and lets Both be happy. No games!

    • @Divina1218
      @Divina1218 4 года назад +16

      It works the same way for woman and men, if the person really likes you, will be consistent, will prove it by actions. If not, is not there and you must move on, does not matter how much you like them. People dont wanna love, be vulnerable and real this days 🤷🏼‍♀️ 😕

  • @SigmaAlpha3295
    @SigmaAlpha3295 2 года назад +40

    If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan. Always focus on yourself brothers never stop improving yourself.

  • @JoseGarcia-xr3yw
    @JoseGarcia-xr3yw 4 года назад +904

    “If you’re born poor not your fault, if you die poor it’s your fault”-David Hammond

    • @ross1479
      @ross1479 4 года назад +23

      Jose Garcia that’s not his quote

    • @jxcksense
      @jxcksense 4 года назад +4

      @Misguided Angel my man you're reaching, like no shit some circumstances aren't applicable to the quote, don't take it so literally.

    • @nigeltheenglishman505
      @nigeltheenglishman505 4 года назад

      What if u came out your mom then u die

    • @openletters8597
      @openletters8597 4 года назад

      Who cares... You're dead.
      ...My God has riches for me well beyond this life.

    • @goodboi1232
      @goodboi1232 4 года назад

      “If you’re born naked that’s natural, if you die naked thats just weird bro” -some dude

  • @hasantaskn5231
    @hasantaskn5231 4 года назад +640

    This man can feel empathy for you, because he s been there. That I can feel.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 года назад +56

      Hasan Taşkın Hundo p brother. Just speaking all from experience here.

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  • @Amiittk
    @Amiittk 4 года назад +290

    If u love her, show her if she doesnt care or comeback, its her loss!!! U dont lose shit!!!

    • @Veganhoneymelon
      @Veganhoneymelon 4 года назад +7

      Yesss. But dont show too much too early ;) but else yess

    • @dennistheacrobat8701
      @dennistheacrobat8701 4 года назад +7

      I stopped caring for my girlfriend, she texted me that's is over between us, this not working on this 21st generation

    • @factboy7160
      @factboy7160 4 года назад +18

      @@dennistheacrobat8701 you fuck head don't listen to what she say but I'll help you with this
      1st no contact
      2nd hang out with your friends more
      3rd talk to the other girls
      4th don't make her a priority make your dreams a priority first
      5th If she comes back it's your decision to let her back but if I were you don't let her comeback.
      6th never beg or be too needy
      7th text her this "sure go ahead it's your choice I won't stop you" this will make her think you can stand for yourself even without her
      8th workout this will boost your confidence
      That's it if you need me more let me know

    • @Beast-su2br
      @Beast-su2br 4 года назад

      Warton Warlord amen bro

    • @ifaisal2185
      @ifaisal2185 4 года назад

      @@factboy7160 Broh I really loved her so much and I treated her so so special and then she started ignoring me.my ex girlfriend I really loved her so much 😣then she suddenly broke up with me for a stupid reason and I was so heartbroken and depressed 😔💔then after two days she came back begging for forgiveness then I forgave her and gave her a second chance..
      Then after 3weeks later she did the same same mistake and hurted me, I gave her all my heart and make her my first priority,I treated her so so special even after all when she was going through a Hard time I was there for her No matter what 🥺.I took my time and did all I can to make sure she's always happy cz when I chased her,she told me to promise her that I will never heartbreak her and leave her coz no one always love her.then she took it as an advantage 💔then she started ignoring me for 3days she didn't pick up my calls nd had no reason with that! I cutoff all other girls coz of her😪I got angry and felt used then I double text her and I said don't think you are that much more special that I can't even breathe....after that then guess what she immediately blocked me everywhere and left me in pain and so depressed 😣Now it's a Month we haven't talked💔am still recovering and I hope I'll get well soon ✌️I learnt a lot Now am bettering Myself 💯I learnt when you give her more attention,she starts to put you on her shoe level. I don't know why I still miss her sometime 😔i really need your advice bro please if possible!!

  • @Charlottek92
    @Charlottek92 4 года назад +222

    Its so funny how dating is today, that if you stop caring, she chases? Shouldn’t it be genuine interest? And meet in the middle?
    Instead of playing games..

    • @johncarlolipa23
      @johncarlolipa23 4 года назад +24

      This one. Genuine interest
      Being authentic. If you follow this one you will attract the right person for you. I personally think those people who resprt to mind gaming are mentally abused and abusive. They are not the one to entertain with.

    • @DvirPeri1
      @DvirPeri1 4 года назад +14

      First you gotta build yourself, before you build a relationship.

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 4 года назад +8

      For years I failed to understand the whole idea/dynamic/dance of push/pull in male/female relationships. Fast forward 30 years or so and I've got a lot more clarity on why people and I do what we do.
      It seems to me that the most important thing to a woman is that I'm serious/sober, focused, and patient enough to endure through many of her trustworthyness tests. As poorly as I thought of myself this was not an easy task, but it was definitely necessary if I was to regain her interest bc like anything else interest on either side has a natural tendency to wax and wane depending on what is going on in their or your life. My strongest recommendation is to be as objectively observant as you can be as to how your particular love interest treats other people-- boys or men in particular.
      If you find her worthy of the investment of more time listen to your heart, but do your best not to get overly invested too soon-- easier said than done by most males bc generally speaking women get a lot more needed love and/or attention from a woman she doesn't have to differentiate herself from.
      That's where I could not agree more with the speaker about becoming the main character in your own life story.
      It's the only way I know to capture the attention of the high value females every guy says he wants, but is unwilling to work for.
      When you finally consider that it's this labor of love that all hetro men are really striving for what does it matter that you/I take the time to read and learn about boundaries in relationships and letting space and time do for us what all the dates and game- playing could not.

    • @jordanhenriksen653
      @jordanhenriksen653 4 года назад +2

      It's not about not carrying whatsoever, it's about shooting your shot while being indifferent to the outcome.

    • @hmnanda
      @hmnanda 3 года назад +6

      yup, i was straightforward with a girl at my workplace, asked her number and if she was single in a span of a few weeks of getting to know her. she gave me her number but never got around to meeting me in the halfway as i was always initiating conversation and had to keep said conversation going. it got to the point where she always avoided eye contact with me so i took it as disinterest.
      the moment i didn't go out of my way to talk to her, suddenly she's trying to get me to notice her by sitting near me or walking directly in front of me. i'm like "why?" i was being honest and straightforward with her, yet it feels like she's playing games. ugh next

  • @GabrieleRanonyte
    @GabrieleRanonyte 4 года назад +8

    I love how you made “the law of attraction” very down to earth and logical

  • @Shipzi_hacks
    @Shipzi_hacks 4 года назад +83

    I felt like crying when he said.. "are you being a side character in someone's movie? " guess I've never been the main hero of my own. Always been a side role in everyone's movie.. AND THAT IS NOT GONNA HAPPEN AGAIN!

    • @cruze7778
      @cruze7778 4 года назад +6

      Always happens to nice people. Good thing you realised your place.

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      @viankaramirez7248 4 года назад

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    • @terrxnce338
      @terrxnce338 4 года назад

      Same

    • @vrindasharma5901
      @vrindasharma5901 3 года назад

      Sad yr.. I can feel u

  • @cmpabillo
    @cmpabillo 4 года назад +74

    The more you chase, the more they’ll ignore you. I’ve experienced this. If he/she found someone else, it’s ok. He/she might be with someone new, but they will never be you.

  • @gizellegoffney5515
    @gizellegoffney5515 4 года назад +52

    When you stop caring about the end part that’s when you attract what you want in your life! Just focus on your purpose, financial income and hit they gym up!

  • @AmnesiacBanana
    @AmnesiacBanana 4 года назад +56

    I was stuck in a shitty toxic relationship for months because of the "You stop caring, she starts chasing" phenomenon.
    Every single time I was done with the relationship, she'd magically want me and be willing to change, which ofcourse was never the case and always went back to her old ways after a week or so.
    After 6 1/2 months I finally grew a pair and was done for good. Been almost 2 months since and I'm never going back to that.
    Learned how to look at the relationship from a different perspective and recognize patterns and red-flags (there were A TON).
    If you're stuck in a toxic relationship, man up and LEAVE.
    No fallout from leaving the relationship is ever gonna be worse than your deteriorating mental health and emotional health from sticking to a decaying relationship.
    For months I thought that leaving her was gonna be harder than staying in that relationship.
    I was wrong. Both were hard, but 2 months later I realize that being emotionally abused and controlled for half a year was WAY harder than dealing with a breakup.
    Be strong!

    • @ayetadave7033
      @ayetadave7033 4 года назад

      sure

    • @AmnesiacBanana
      @AmnesiacBanana 4 года назад +1

      @@ayetadave7033 sure what lmao

    • @top2737
      @top2737 4 года назад

      @@AmnesiacBanana bro thats exactly the fking point good fkin shit bro u did the right choice just abit late but still good fkin choice. Now i recommend u go watch Darius m, its same content like this but its not bullshit pc and trying not to offend women. He tells u same shit like this guy but he keeps it real, and because of that u dont get these retards and women in comment section completely missing the point. Just go watch his channel pls bro for u

    • @Gymsbyrob
      @Gymsbyrob 4 года назад

      Gotta make like an ass and bounce

    • @mickster026
      @mickster026 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@ayetadave7033this is the guy that brings everybody down and will never succeed in life 🤦

  • @basharshami3403
    @basharshami3403 4 года назад +99

    those videos are literally coming in just when i need them. thank you.

  • @silviacortes1433
    @silviacortes1433 4 года назад +156

    I can honestly say that you should always give what you receive guy or girl, doesn't matter... its pathetic that there is all this rules of dating and how to act like this or that... honestly when you find someone mature enough you don't have to play all these mind games. Good luck to everyone out there.

    • @ThePrettyRabbit
      @ThePrettyRabbit 4 года назад +8

      Silvia Cortes agree. This game is only for boys who wants to attract low value and desperate girls 🤣 (not mature and badass woman)

    • @olebogengnivho4788
      @olebogengnivho4788 4 года назад +31

      These games u women play are mostly subconscious

    • @gold1736
      @gold1736 4 года назад +12

      @@olebogengnivho4788 Exactly, they ain't just wake up one day and decide "i finna test this fool". They always play games to make sure they're partners strong they just don't know that.

    • @112stace
      @112stace 4 года назад

      You made a good point

    • @anuragsawarkar2540
      @anuragsawarkar2540 3 года назад +3

      It's right on both sides there should be equal maturity but a person one's mature enough will willingly not try to date or waste his/ her time or energy so simple as fuck as that👍👍👍but will have to do keep human existence because it is god's creation and we can't go against nature

  • @filippavlakovic4478
    @filippavlakovic4478 4 года назад +160

    Once I stopped caring, I lost everyone I ever cared about

    • @wrenronnie7105
      @wrenronnie7105 4 года назад +66

      let them go
      they not your destiny

    • @beinline2278
      @beinline2278 4 года назад +17

      its simply means they have no respect and care for you..

    • @sparrowtsuipu7485
      @sparrowtsuipu7485 4 года назад +19

      Screw those people away out of uour life.
      They're temporary.
      Better left alone than surrounded by double faced and fake ass .... around ...👊

    • @ilovebaywatch
      @ilovebaywatch 4 года назад +5

      Same. If I dont write first - they never write...

    • @luciddream9423
      @luciddream9423 4 года назад +2

      YOU ARE STUPIDD..STOP CARING IS ABOUT MINDSET..NOT IN ACTIONN..YOU NEED TO CARE PEOPLE AROUND YOU IF THEY NEED..BUT AGAINN STOP CARING I. THE MINDSET

  • @jm6922
    @jm6922 4 года назад +257

    I always start off "alpha" and end up going "beta" with every girl. Hate it. Gotta learn to break that pattern

    • @uneeversal
      @uneeversal 4 года назад +76

      if you end up beta you were never alpha in the first place

    • @jm6922
      @jm6922 4 года назад +13

      @@uneeversal good point. Thanks for your input

    • @elhadjdiallo633
      @elhadjdiallo633 4 года назад +42

      Confident is silence insecurity is loud.....chasing anyone in this universe it implies you don't have it , chasing implies you're not enough , you're not lovable , you're worthy , complete, and priceless...dont chase get choosing .......love yourself....

    • @tannerdeguzman8319
      @tannerdeguzman8319 4 года назад

      uneeversal 😂😂

    • @Uzumachii
      @Uzumachii 4 года назад +21

      Don't overthink, throw logic out. Instead act based on your instincts and gut feeling. For example: you are having a conversation with a girl you like and all out of sudden you feel an urge to kiss her. In that case it's your subconscious mind telling you what to do and you should act on it. Your subconsciousness is aware of all the details like very subtle face expressions and based on that it knows if she wants or doesn't want to kiss you back even though in your head you are like "damn I really want to kiss her but she would probably reject me if I tried to". Another exaple would be: she is making you jealous on purpose and you feel like telling her not to do that because you don't like that kind of behaviour, hovewer your "logic" makes you think "I really wish she would stop doing that but I'll ignore it because I don't want to get into an argument and potentially lose her" which is very "beta" thing to do. You CAN'T be afraid of losing her. What kind of women would like to be in a relationship with men that is afraid of women? I hope my advice will help you. English isn't my first language but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say.

  • @atibamarshall7852
    @atibamarshall7852 4 года назад +3

    Men chase championships, Women chase champions. Great quote! It lit a fire within me!

  • @bafoscorner
    @bafoscorner 4 года назад +6

    To think this is the first time watching his videos and what he said really hit home. I just started my journey to loosing weight and I feel more confident now more than ever, it's like he gave me this hunger to be confident and be the best me I can be. YOU THE BEST!!!

  • @adamnorthwood1673
    @adamnorthwood1673 4 года назад +534

    Ignoring women hurts their ego, that’s why they chase.

    • @adamnorthwood1673
      @adamnorthwood1673 4 года назад +28

      Cherish .O. M that’s no way to go about life. blocking someone because they won’t give you attention is the most butt hurt thing i’ve ever heard, only women block. if you’re blocking you’re loosing your frame and succumbing to her and going down to her level.

    • @hasancankirac9265
      @hasancankirac9265 4 года назад +57

      @@cherish.o.m4453 She wants men that wouldn't chase her, she wants men that want her but don't NEED her. Indifference is key.

    • @hasancankirac9265
      @hasancankirac9265 4 года назад +10

      @@cherish.o.m4453 he loves ur attention and he always will. He just has to be mentally indifferent because otherwise he can't think rationally for the best interest of both of you. Believe me you don't want a needy apologetic guy.

    • @shawnawallace4582
      @shawnawallace4582 4 года назад

      yup

    • @hasancankirac9265
      @hasancankirac9265 4 года назад +1

      @@cherish.o.m4453 Nah just have patience or text him first, I mean don't double text but let him know.

  • @jimmylollington6692
    @jimmylollington6692 4 года назад +78

    Even regardless of getting a girl, the day I stopped chasing them was the best day of my life. There are way more important and valuable things to put effort and time into chasing.

  • @noahguild614
    @noahguild614 4 года назад +4

    I've seen a lot of men's development channels. This is the most honest, detailed, and relatable hands-down.

    • @top2737
      @top2737 4 года назад

      Go watch darius m

  • @tenzwoser1
    @tenzwoser1 4 года назад +39

    He has more energy than the sun in all his videos. Very contagious! 🖖

  • @blubeetle1314
    @blubeetle1314 4 года назад +15

    I love how he starts getting all passionate. It shows he’s not bullshitting

  • @soufianeammou5132
    @soufianeammou5132 4 года назад +6

    Remember he didn't say act like you don't care for her to chase you !!
    He said change your mindset, care the most only about yourself, then automatically you will seem not needy in the eyes of others.

  • @chewsan2408
    @chewsan2408 4 года назад +16

    Damn bro, this video really helped me a lot. I’m at a point where I feel lonely and depressed at the moment. I have don’t have any friends burned my bridges down just for a girl. We broke up now and I’m left with nothing but myself. I’m at a low point right now and I’m really trying to pick up my pieces and move forward but it’s really hard with what goes through my mind day by day.

    • @karanpagare5773
      @karanpagare5773 4 года назад +4

      i have had similar experiences bro... always remember keep urself as the priority and dont sacrifice ur self respect for no one ... Work hard,earn money,make new friends things will be ok again ... and never leave ur friends for some girl... they're the ones who are there with you without expecting anything in return....

    • @3kingzsneakerheadtalk635
      @3kingzsneakerheadtalk635 4 года назад +7

      Brother, I went through this a few years ago. I got married and got dumped for another guy. I had nothing, not even a damn car lol. But just focus on you bro. All the things and ppl u lost will either come back or something better comes along.

  • @joyokere2613
    @joyokere2613 4 года назад +274

    Juve advice for boys and girls... real men and women don’t have time for any of these games. Invest your time in them and the feeling is mutual, do otherwise and they’re what... GONE!

    • @taymason
      @taymason 4 года назад +29

      That's precisely what I was going to say!! Matured individuals speak their minds with honesty and integrity. Have a great day, Joy.

    • @joyokere2613
      @joyokere2613 4 года назад +4

      Taylor Mason - Personal Development Indeed they do and thank you! Have a great day too Taylor 😊

    • @metroraddy
      @metroraddy 4 года назад +18

      He’s not saying play games with them he’s really just saying focus on yourself first and all of that stuff you want will come to you

    • @pommmegranate
      @pommmegranate 4 года назад

      Even though the video talks about how to get chased, it doesn’t mean that the actual sole purpose for focusing on yourself is to get people. Focusing on yourself is what’s best for you and this comes with the deal.

    • @joyokere2613
      @joyokere2613 4 года назад

      Nabeel Zuberi okay, thanks!

  • @mmsb12
    @mmsb12 4 года назад +3

    Words cannot explain how much relevance your videos have to me and my life. They have offered me a new perspective on moving forward after the rut i've been through this year on top this whole coronavirus lockdown!

  • @patrickomweri2813
    @patrickomweri2813 4 года назад +65

    This is real when chasing women they always ignore you.

    • @gretam2150
      @gretam2150 4 года назад +9

      If they ignore you they don't understand your value

    • @elizabethtan6802
      @elizabethtan6802 4 года назад +10

      Play it cool, don't chase. Chasing makes you seem desperate and most women don't like desperate men. Huge turn-off. Play it fun, don't be a dry texter, say something funny and what you have in common like a friend. Passion- calm 50-50 it will work ;)

    • @mystic-edits9646
      @mystic-edits9646 4 года назад +2

      @@elizabethtan6802 is that coming from a girl or a guy? i'm guessing you a girl?

    • @haveagoodone2935
      @haveagoodone2935 4 года назад +4

      If you treat her like a celebrity she will treat you like a fan

    • @canm7157
      @canm7157 3 года назад

      @@gretam2150 How to make your value clear?

  • @mrar7798
    @mrar7798 4 года назад +16

    I like how he explains with energy

  • @LeahJustyceArtGallery
    @LeahJustyceArtGallery 4 года назад +43

    It's all about energy, when you pay attention to you....others pay attention to you. When you are chasing....all you are ever doing is chasing. But if one is an egotistical prick, male or female you'll never keep anyone because being an arsehole isn't what it's about. It's about balance of your masculine and feminine energy within therefore that's what you also attract to you, someone that is also balanced. It's fkn rare to find your match in any lifetime so be good to yourself and be good to others as karma comes into play for eternity. Bless you all as we transition into the new world.

    • @lljusttry
      @lljusttry 4 года назад

      U are a very wise man

    • @boxy.6109
      @boxy.6109 4 года назад

      I have one question so first time I met girl who I like I know now I didnt give even 5% of self, and what distract her is I was shy and didnt know how to talk to girls, now I wanna to show self in the best way and she is now my close friend but she says she doesn't see future with me and I was like ok and she ask that I should see if she have somebody or maybe has before and that she is in someone, she had someone and that she didn't even gave me first chance but ok I like her bcs she have strong attitude and other things I love about her as green eyes, black hair and laugh but how she can know from one meetup I am right for her or no bcs I tell her I didn't do my best and she ask will you give chance to someoene you dont fall in love and I say yes bcs you will see what is that person gonna do for you and how is gonna change and I say her I did mistake and didn't do everything from self and now I am working on self, my goals and I wanna after 5-6 months when I reach my goals and other things to ask her on coffee and then or date or how should I do it, bcs I wil not quit before I did 100% of self and best version of self in that moment to her to show her how I change self bcs of self and show her I worked on self and I am more confident guy and man with goals and achieveing things what I want and enjoy in life, I am working on self and if she texted me how should I act, like text her after day or 2 to show her I am busy and if she ask me what I am doing in life or she didn't speak to me long time, or what if happen that she will not even text me but that will not happen bcs yesterday she just ask me about opinion is great idea that she wanna start doing something so yea, how should I act like text her after 2 days she send me and if she ask me say her I am enjoying in achiving my goals or enjoying my life and doing things, business, workouts or, how should I act while I am grindimg for my life goals and after I achieve it how should I ask her for date, like slowly go to coffee and then ask for date, hm, I would like some advice, help, thanks. So what if she texts me should I answer after like 1 or 2 days to show her I am busy and working.

    • @thecommentschannel3548
      @thecommentschannel3548 4 года назад

      @@boxy.6109 dude this IS too long, hopefully you dont comunicate to her like this.
      Check out Develop Attraction channel.
      Also AMS and The Fearless Man, all these 3 will help you with your questions for sure.

    • @boxy.6109
      @boxy.6109 4 года назад

      @@thecommentschannel3548 no I don't, I just explain you what happened, and what is happening so just ask for opinion.

    • @thecommentschannel3548
      @thecommentschannel3548 4 года назад

      @@boxy.6109 you said you had 1 question, clearly there are a ton here.
      If you want opinon on one thing let me know

  • @mxp6725
    @mxp6725 4 года назад +3

    “Men chase championships🏆 Women chase champions” That really hit. It’s so fax tho 👀💯 3:29

  • @aaroncostello8812
    @aaroncostello8812 4 года назад +52

    "Once you stop chasing, she stops caring."
    There. Fixed it for you.

    • @user-th9gm5ru7e
      @user-th9gm5ru7e 3 года назад

      Actually started having feelings for a guy I would normally not become interested in beyond friendship because he was making effort and showing interest but then for some reason he started acting like he didn't care as much which made me chase at first because I was confused and wanted to figure out what was going on and why; but after a while I started to lose attraction for him and want to even cut ties completely even as friends because I was always feeling hurt and drained...so yeah, guys shouldn't be chasing in a way that allows them to be devalued, but they shouldn't be acting like they don't care much either

    • @user-th9gm5ru7e
      @user-th9gm5ru7e 3 года назад

      ​@@wilted_rose510 I'm sorry you had to go through that :( I'm not sure about your situation but while my friend has many good qualities and talents, I know can be insecure at times and has never dated before (neither have I).
      I'm not sure if he's been taking bad advice online or from family which is why I'm even giving him a chance to still be a part of my life (whether as a close friend or more potentially in future...but the latter part I'm not sure about now).
      Since I've been hurt and disappointed too many times and him cycling back and forth now, I'm going to keep an emotional distance for a bit longer and observe how things go slowly while being open to other guys...and if he reverts back, I'll have to let go of even the idea of our friendship.
      I hope your guy is like mine where he was just following bad advice and realises it was bad, but if it's other reasons like loss of interest or he's just messed up, then I hope you feel better soon and move on from him and when you're ready, meet someone who is good to you

  • @motv-independentthinkingfo3817
    @motv-independentthinkingfo3817 Год назад +1

    Great Content Bro, Keep Preaching & Teaching, Much Love, My Movie Is Going To Be Fire, ACTION!💯🙏🏾🔥

  • @takvornersesyan4713
    @takvornersesyan4713 4 года назад +5

    I kinda stopped watching pua videos for almost an year , then I came around this video , you’re energy is cool man, somehow genuine , keep doing the good work

  • @safwanjmuhammed6816
    @safwanjmuhammed6816 4 года назад +1

    Once you stop caring ..she starts chasing... totally agreed..own experience 😍

  • @Exvar
    @Exvar 4 года назад +4

    Ive been watching a lot of dating advise people on youtube and this guy is the only to use analogies that I actually understand, as well as that assurance that I can trust him, bc he has actually been there in that situation before.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 года назад

      Exvar awesome man. Glad it can help bro keep it up. 🙏💯

  • @anthonycapezio3990
    @anthonycapezio3990 4 года назад +2

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  • @OnderHassan
    @OnderHassan 4 года назад +6

    I've always been a video gamer. But always had a difficult time understanding 2 concepts - Not chasing girls and improving yourself. But It wasn't until someone gave me the perfect videogame analogy where everything fell into place for me... Treat your life like a video game by always levelling up!!
    Each level will have harder difficulties, but the more of those you slay, the stronger and more of a man you'll become.

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  • @kylebarreto5749
    @kylebarreto5749 4 года назад +1

    Out of the hundreds of relationship videos (let's be honest guys) I've come across, this is one of the best I've seen. "Be the hero of your own movie!" Epic!

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  • @Vestu
    @Vestu 4 года назад +8

    True. This depends on a few factors though. If she's very high level, you have to initiate some interest / investment from her part first for her to start chasing.

  • @dontmindmejustwatching
    @dontmindmejustwatching 4 года назад

    Maaaan, I've heard all of these ideas, but THE WAY YOU PUT THEM makes it so clear now.
    And I mean this energy right there...

  • @ChrisWegoda
    @ChrisWegoda 4 года назад +5

    I think the 'error' here is that you can be caring and ALSO be the hero of your story, ALSO put yourself and your interests first and ALSO not put a woman on a pedestal. It's all about the INNER value you have of yourself.

  • @aakash950
    @aakash950 4 года назад +386

    I STOPEED CARING SHE STARTED CHASING OTHER GUY

    • @varunraj9401
      @varunraj9401 4 года назад +80

      That is rebound relationship, don't worry , go no contact for atleast 6 weeks, stay strong, she will come back

    • @meosoukasene820
      @meosoukasene820 4 года назад +27

      Break that branch don't let her monkey branch back to u .

    • @leelacabin
      @leelacabin 4 года назад +31

      Don't be of the opinion that women chase those guys who ignore them. Women feel great when they get attention. Once they feel the guy isn't responding, it's finished, once and for all.

    • @FireMuscle11
      @FireMuscle11 4 года назад +7

      Shell regret that brother

    • @peterchou5161
      @peterchou5161 4 года назад +56

      There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't be needy. Let the bitch go.

  • @ChooseFreshAtSubway
    @ChooseFreshAtSubway 4 года назад +16

    I did this to the girl I’m talking to and she stopped hitting me up because she said it felt like I didn’t like her like that... fixed that situation tho recently

    • @canm7157
      @canm7157 3 года назад

      She reached you out or you her?

  • @davidscott2771
    @davidscott2771 4 года назад +1

    Emotional detachment means no desperation, neediness or fear which gives you inner strength and power, women like that.

  • @susieq6558
    @susieq6558 4 года назад +6

    Reminder that this is a weeding out method . The women / woman that are meant for you will show themselves. Not all will start chasing and that means they are not the right one for you .

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  • @Wolfie.22
    @Wolfie.22 2 года назад +2

    If you stop caring she is not going to care. 👍

  • @sueblack5794
    @sueblack5794 4 года назад +41

    The push/push, hot/cold, does work on insecure women especially with attachment disorders. She will be acting out of anxiety and not her true desire for you. It is all about her anxiety if she only chases you when you pull away. The woman who chases you after you pull away isn’t going to be emotionally health enough for a longterm committed relationship. This won’t work on women with healthy attachments styles and self esteem. A stable secure future partner reciprocates what you contribute to the relationship. I’m an old woman and I was once the woman who chased when the man pulled away. I was immature, unstable and not ready to be in a relationship when I acted out of that anxiety. She reattached out of anxiety, emotion and yes vanity and it has little to actually do with you.

    • @sueblack5794
      @sueblack5794 4 года назад +2

      @LEO2001 I think the chase is highly based on sex. Once that is attained, the chase tends to become more lukewarm. Which is honestly understandable. Consistency, when it happens is when they are emotionally attached to you after sex.

    • @MegaLovemusic1234
      @MegaLovemusic1234 4 года назад +5

      LEO2001 honestly the problem is the girls you want to attract are bitches. I hate assholes and when they start ignoring me I walk away. When they start disappearing and coming back I don’t want them anymore. I see quickly how someone is. I rather have someone nice like who I am talking to now that is a virgin than some bad boy asshole type. 🙃

    • @sueblack5794
      @sueblack5794 4 года назад +2

      @LEO2001 i take it you are a guy? I will show my boobies to a man I’m attracted to and desire but it hugely depends on if I feel safe with him. Consistency leads to a LOT of sex and me not flaking on that man later. If he starts pushing and pulling, I’m out 90% of the time unless there is something going on his life and its not a choice. I may be dumb enough to have fallen for it a couple of times but no way is that sex going to be consistent and I will leave eventually.

    • @kylemartin7727
      @kylemartin7727 4 года назад +3

      sue black you say this now cause your older and settled down! Unfortunately a guy has to play the game. Dudes chase in the beginning cause a women is sure af not going to initiate. Yes once sex happens and an emotional connection happens then the guy can settle down on the chase. However women play games to whether consciously or subconsciously by shit testing! This is reality

    • @sueblack5794
      @sueblack5794 4 года назад +2

      @@kylemartin7727 Yes...you are right I don’t understand what it is to be a young man. However, seriously think about the type of woman you may end up with playing those games. I’m also at the age when at least half of my friends are divorcing. Most of those divorces are women leaving because “they never loved him or “fell out of love”. Truth is they never were in love and settled early on for the game and not the man. If she doesn’t truly desire YOU and you only desire her...she will leave eventually.

  • @brettmillerlive
    @brettmillerlive 4 года назад

    What a raw and Authentic vid, loved it brother! Your tangents are so relatable

  • @ShreyanshBagpacker
    @ShreyanshBagpacker 4 года назад +177

    Once you stop Caring she will start chasing only if (you're worth chasing).

    • @adamcummings20
      @adamcummings20 4 года назад +24

      if you're not worth chasing, then you should never have been chasing her in the first place.

    • @dwyanewade8645
      @dwyanewade8645 4 года назад +6

      We are Worth chasing bro

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  • @HannahAdam-w2c
    @HannahAdam-w2c Год назад

    Gosh, I love this guy, just discovered him yesterday and I'm so inspired already. Thank you so much!!!!!!

  • @abhinabadas7606
    @abhinabadas7606 4 года назад +3

    Once my teacher told me in exam "stop copying from the guy next to you. Everyone knows as much you know. Be confident and start writing what you can, what you have learnt and once you started, you will find them from whom you were copying before, are copying you. "
    That time I thought it has only a single meaning now I understand that it is a law of life :)

  • @sarthdidious96
    @sarthdidious96 4 года назад

    Title of the video was all I needed but I decided to watch it all. Thx

  • @oldnick1114
    @oldnick1114 4 года назад +3

    I love this guy. He's a big brother for us❤️

  • @jphunt89
    @jphunt89 4 года назад +1

    I don't follow many of these types of channels but you got a new sub bro. You seem a great chap and speaking from the heart

  • @roemrivera5314
    @roemrivera5314 4 года назад +3

    "if you don't build your own kingdom now, somebody will hire you to build theirs". I just heard this before, just forgot who it was.

  • @lolathedreamer5488
    @lolathedreamer5488 3 года назад

    I love how he keeps looking the other way to process the idea he wanna speak , i mean wow he's so chill and he doesn't care about the silent moments between one idea and another

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      @princesskatehis6755 3 года назад

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    • @lolathedreamer5488
      @lolathedreamer5488 3 года назад

      @@princesskatehis6755 i don't want my ex back though

  • @chrishick4515
    @chrishick4515 3 года назад +10

    this is always confusing to me. you need to care to a certain degree otherwise that gets you nowhere either. You need to care enough to still talk to them or reply to them, care enough to meet and give them some time. Not caring is fine, but at the same time you need to actually provide something or completely ignoring them will yield nothing as well.

    • @marcfrancisteodoro7720
      @marcfrancisteodoro7720 Год назад

      I think it's better to show your care in real life rather than online or social media.

  • @kidyoop
    @kidyoop 4 года назад

    Sometimes I act like a know it all and I’m super critical of all these yt channels but ur 1 guy who never fails to deliver something substantial

  • @dadoo173
    @dadoo173 4 года назад +51

    If I sensed he’s not caring about me anymore and not investing in the relationship as much as i do, I’m out , no matter how amazing his movie is .

    • @mzeye
      @mzeye 4 года назад +2

      True were messed up

    • @leelacabin
      @leelacabin 4 года назад +3

      True, that!

    • @James-cg4jo
      @James-cg4jo 4 года назад +2

      not true lol

    • @boyzone1533
      @boyzone1533 4 года назад

      Wish I could do the same.....in the mid of struggling...caring vs chasing thing......

    • @worksahara3127
      @worksahara3127 3 года назад

      Get out bytch

  • @JDiPaolo98
    @JDiPaolo98 3 года назад +1

    Man this video was so uplifting for me! I love your energy man. It’s like talking to a long time friend or big brother.

  • @chinnyboi1462
    @chinnyboi1462 4 года назад +15

    Girl,guy,grandma,cat,dog damn my first time here & it"ll be my forever
    (No wonder i felt aaron's energy inside of you... you were tapping into his energy field 😆😆)

  • @P.NightmareFilez
    @P.NightmareFilez 4 года назад +1

    Thanks bro, I've been depressed lately and I'm done thinking of others more than myself. I'm done tryna help someone else when I, myself, is struggling mentally. I'm getting a therapist soon and please wish me luck on my road to freedom and self-healing

  • @Adu888
    @Adu888 4 года назад +19

    during the breakout, everyone please stay at home and I like your content, David. Thank you for sharing this great live with us. Wish you the best

  • @amongoodman
    @amongoodman 4 года назад +1

    I respect this, it's authentic. Not some "guru" stuff...

  • @scott5087
    @scott5087 4 года назад +25

    it’s all a domino affect that begins with YOU

  • @fredoloiseau2011
    @fredoloiseau2011 4 года назад

    I commend David for being able to make himself genuinely laugh out loud and then go back to be being serious in less an 2 seconds.

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  • @Mikeh2077
    @Mikeh2077 4 года назад +7

    Just keep doing you. I’ve recently started working out and picked up journaling as hobbies. I’ve got anxiety and I’m working on learning to control it. Made some mistakes in my most recent relationship and she dumped me because of it. Of course, she won’t admit it to me. Seen her around work, and I’ve said something’s to her, but I kept it short and went about my business. If you get dumped over text, then that goes to show you she’s not worth it anymore. Stay strong, lads. 💯

  • @rainaz6673
    @rainaz6673 4 года назад

    love that you're speaking natural you talking about experience

  • @kinguche9208
    @kinguche9208 4 года назад +5

    This is true, I got almost all my ex from focusing on my happiness and ambition. Mine movie is the best 👌🏽

  • @IronFist2508
    @IronFist2508 4 года назад +1

    You really helped me bro, my gf and I split 3 weeks ago and man its been tough!! I know I need to focus on myself, I just keep reminiscing all the intimacy and closeness I shared with her. I have been working out though and training mma with my friend. I just need to discover purpose in my life with regards to career and what I can contribute to the world. Subscribed! X

  • @adjmbb5109
    @adjmbb5109 4 года назад +46

    its the worst when you watch these videos and youre in Lockdown haha.

  • @spencerjohnson7470
    @spencerjohnson7470 4 года назад +2

    Bro you are that guy I'm with you all the way! At the end of the day its all about CHOICE and I totally agree!!!

  • @ecgedsel
    @ecgedsel 4 года назад +7

    lmaooo at the girls saying " we dont chase". Remember fellas what a woman says is so different from what she feels and does

  • @Jayson666youtube
    @Jayson666youtube 4 года назад

    Fuck, literally the first guy I see on RUclips who isn’t sexist and talks about women like a gentleman. I’m sick of all these “men” who think it’s alpha to talk dog shit about women. Thanks bro

  • @sunnycieli
    @sunnycieli 4 года назад +238

    Uhhh Be careful... the secure independent woman won’t chase - She will move on not even giving thought to the movie you are trying to create. I believe if you are talking about chasing, you are referring to boys and girls. Not men and women.
    Definitely look after yourself and perhaps redirect and reflect on the people you attract so you equally find someone who is in control of their “own movie” as you put it. This will allow for two independent people who values their own lives whilst also respecting the person they are dating.
    In other words once you begin Self mastering yourself, you won’t need to deal with juvenile dating games.... which all comes with wisdom and age. Peace ✌️

    • @danh4435
      @danh4435 4 года назад +10

      Sunny hmm this chasing game is subjective it's all about the connection before hand lol imagine doing this to a girl you just met who has no feelings yet she'll leave.

    • @ThePrettyRabbit
      @ThePrettyRabbit 4 года назад +27

      See! I got you sis! They want woman to chase them. No no no. The real high value woman never chase a man. But instead we chase our dreams. This chanel is only for boys and girls 🤣 because for mature women if a guy stop caring, playing hot and cold, and ignoring us, well .... bye bye. We will find someone who worth our time ❤️

    • @danh4435
      @danh4435 4 года назад +7

      Tresnany Sheyza What if the girl is doing that? Also I agree with you. Both sides should be really be genuine with eachother. Either tell them sorry this won't work out or either just talk and work it out. We play silent games ect to win people over smh the time and day has changed. Back in the day people were honest and straight up. Now a days we seek people through games and actics to win them or even if we say we aren't subconsciously we are. If people just spoke from their hearts whether it's good or bad there would be less heart beaks.

    • @kylemartin7727
      @kylemartin7727 4 года назад +38

      Tresnany Sheyza yeah until that biology clock starts ticking miss independent bad ass 😂

    • @ThePrettyRabbit
      @ThePrettyRabbit 4 года назад +4

      Dan H yeah. It’s better to tell the truth and being honest, not to play a games or ghosting. Period

  • @imthebmf23
    @imthebmf23 4 года назад

    I like your style man you're not hyping anyone just pure advice.

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    @saltandpepperandmint 4 года назад +18

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  • @costantinotony4748
    @costantinotony4748 4 года назад

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      @tommylee1448 4 года назад

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      @costantinotony4748 4 года назад

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  • @hybridmedicina
    @hybridmedicina 4 года назад +7

    Dude this video is THE BEST💯.Best analogy..Thanks man.

    • @David_Hammond
      @David_Hammond  4 года назад

      Kalki Bahavan Cheers! Glad it could help bro! 👊

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    @alterego4091 4 года назад +1

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    @dattepo7534 4 года назад +6

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  • @patmosfitness
    @patmosfitness 3 года назад +1

    Men chase championship, women chase champions

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    @BabyfaceassassinMANE 4 года назад +7

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  • @huckmart2017
    @huckmart2017 4 года назад +37

    Yeah lol I told my friend I was really into her and she gave me this pathetic, coddling "awwee, I don't feel that way. I'm sorry! I really love you as a friend. I'm sorry! Are you okay???" And I was like " yeah. No worries :)" and carried on unaffected. We fucked a month later lol.
    But of course, as soon as I start caring about the relationship. As soon as I started investing more into it emotionally than she did, she started walking all over me and treating me like dirt. by the time I built up the nerve to finally end it with her, it already got so bad her response was essentially "whatever. You do you. See you never."
    Showing care and concern over a woman only serves to either scare them off or for them to lose respect for you.

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      @jh5588 4 года назад +2

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    • @gretam2150
      @gretam2150 4 года назад +3

      Well, i guess she told u at the start she didn't feel the same way, but i don't know the whole story so i can't comment too much on that, but if you start caring and put in investment and a woman looses intrest, that is not a feminine energy woman and it just shows that she never really cared from the start. Not all woman are like that tho, mostly the women who behave this way are wounded in their feminine energy and therefore cannot receive and appreciate your efforts.. Hope this helps in some way💕

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      Joel Luna already have some vids on meditation! Might make more as I defs practice daily. 😊🤟

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    Moral of the story, have dignity and love yourself. Be equal partners have your own world and meet to share time together.

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  • @RenaAbraham
    @RenaAbraham 4 года назад

    I truly believe that most times people do not suddenly start caring because we stopped . Maybe , just maybe , they cared all along but we failed to take note of it, due to a fixation on the person reciprocating or their own securities. I have also noticed people who say this seem to experience it quite often. Maybe , they are the problem. Nothing is ever enough for them .