Problems of the People Pleaser!

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  • @jenniferthompson5146
    @jenniferthompson5146 2 года назад +153

    One time in a college biology class we were introducing ourselves and the teacher boldly said that he stopped believing in God during his college years, so when it got to my turn I said “I still believe in God despite what they are teaching us in these classes.” Afterwards, another girl student came up to me and was like, “I am so happy you said that because I am a believer also!” You speaking your truth is going to encourage others that may feel alone.

    • @jenniferthompson5146
      @jenniferthompson5146 2 года назад +5

      @May Good!!! Be free and unafraid! It gets discouraging being in a sort of “bubble” of backward thinking.

    • @nikkinanette8807
      @nikkinanette8807 2 года назад +11

      @May But you won’t find a book 📕 titled; Buddha is an illusion. This world is a MESS!!!

    • @mmommo-hx4dx
      @mmommo-hx4dx 2 года назад

      yaaaaaaaaayyyy

    • @kilimanjaro5537
      @kilimanjaro5537 2 года назад +2

      The world seems to be getting more and more secular. It’s like almost everyone in college doesn’t believe in God(I’m currently in college).

    • @aleayh
      @aleayh 2 года назад +2

      They’ll start to believe in God when they feel those flames up in their behind . God ain’t playing with us out here .

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +71

    “It’s gonna be people that cannot handle your purpose.” - Tony Gaskins

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 2 года назад +25

    It's unhealthy to try to please everyone, especially when they are insecure and jealous. That's why block and delete is my new form of therapy.

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 2 года назад +1

      Me too. I ain’t playing my time and peace of mind is of the upmost importance to be. So they get blocked in a hot minute. Stay in your peace and keep your joy Sis🤍✌🏼🙏🏼

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +11

    “Stop watching the numbers to see if they unsubscribed.” Thank you soo much. I needed this word on today! 🙏🏾

  • @1racethehumanrace946
    @1racethehumanrace946 2 года назад +20

    You can't please everyone all of the time. Tony G. You and your family be blessed.🙏🙏🙏

  • @JaMajor43
    @JaMajor43 2 года назад +1

    You know it’s crazy because I have recently been watching a tarot channel and when you said that I immediately looked in the Bible where it says not to do that and hurried to unsubscribe , got on my knees and asked for forgiveness .

  • @Chillmaisha
    @Chillmaisha 2 года назад +32

    I remember seeing Dave Chappelle in Baltimore and I tried to walk up to him to tell him that I was a fan of his work and he kept walking away thinking we wanted pictures lol. Now I pretend like I don’t even see most celebrities in public for that reason.

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 2 года назад +4

      See....Rickey Smiley did me like that in ATL airport.....I say never again 👎

    • @beefaye6861
      @beefaye6861 2 года назад +3

      @@kaleema1987 Right....they are jus ppl....that fame go to they head....

  • @Authenticleatrice
    @Authenticleatrice 2 года назад +8

    Not the analogy through the car wash 🤣 ain’t nothing stopping Tony! lol

  • @Dimples3434
    @Dimples3434 2 года назад +2

    Wow …I’ve listen to this video several times as I do with all of Tony’s videos lol. But today when he said “ anything you give up for me(The Lord) you will gain” I needed that reminder today. Thank you Tony for being a servant.

  • @RocSkater09
    @RocSkater09 2 года назад +14

    I appreciate Tony preaching during a car wash!! This is TG in his prime activity!

  • @patricelewis2596
    @patricelewis2596 2 года назад +8

    That is so me. I want everybody happy and joyful. I don't like people to be upset ot mad with me I have always been that way.

  • @zugootsprevasio6595
    @zugootsprevasio6595 2 года назад +2

    Man Tony you made a solid point at the 41min mark. Everybody has different beliefs no matter what but going out of the way to disrespect Christianity is not only blasphemous but very dangerous. This is a common problem in the Islraelite community. You notice how people that speak negatively about Christ are broke & have nothing to show for all the “knowledge” they preach.

  • @patwilson1257
    @patwilson1257 2 года назад +8

    Tony, I have found that in life, people can be very selfish. It’s human nature more so than it use to be. This includes family, friends and strangers. I’ve just learned to not take it personally, and know that it is what it is. I adjust my life accordingly, so I won’t feel some kind of way about it. Thank you for your faithfulness and your kindness to us. I appreciate you Sir. What comes from the heart, touches the heart.

  • @msnolia5362
    @msnolia5362 2 года назад +18

    I love the way you take care of your family

  • @breewelch5982
    @breewelch5982 2 года назад +4

    Amen Tony, Matthew 10:33 says
    “But the one who denies and rejects Me before men, that one I will also deny and reject before My Father who is in heaven.” God bless you.

  • @peaceful_and_blessed
    @peaceful_and_blessed 2 года назад +34

    Heyyy Tony and blessed tribe. Tony, i’ve been a true supporter of yours since May of 2020. I haven’t missed one video of yours since then! Even when the videos dont apply to me directly, I watch them anyway. The sound of your voice echos in my household. I listen Because you are truthful and real. You have my respect and I introduced my 29 year old son to your videos and books! You are so inspirational. Thank you for you. Thank God for you! 🙏🏻🙌

  • @talktaboo2me169
    @talktaboo2me169 2 года назад

    I know God is sooooo proud of you Tony for helping his Daughters ❤️❤️. We appreciate more than u know ! God Bless you & yours 🌹🌹🌹

  • @eveshalom3534
    @eveshalom3534 2 года назад +13

    TG I cannot express how grateful I am for your commitment to your calling. May God continue to bless you & your family! May your sons take your ministry further than you hope or imagine.
    When you prayed! I lost it! Lol! You are so authentic. That is why I now enjoy my Christian walk even more. It’s so much more than trying to be perfect.

  • @ShaniceHoyle
    @ShaniceHoyle 2 года назад +2

    Tony just being himself and keeping it real. Tell the truth no matter how many people you offend. It is a part of life. Many people will not understand that. Thank You Lord for Brother Tony. I wish more men and women will speak like this instead of sugar coating they message. AMEN

  • @MaishPosh
    @MaishPosh 2 года назад

    The message you said about filtering Gods message in fear of losing followers really spoke to me because Gods message is to save a life & whatever I lose be it followers or investors, God will replenish what I lost 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @fayewearing581
    @fayewearing581 2 года назад +6

    OUCH! This was once me. My family name has a reputation (positive). I felt and wore myself out believing that I had to maintain that reputation. I believe I was in my mid 30s before I "found myself". I began to "do me". It caused the loss of a few. I received it as Gods way of pruning weeds. I now embrace/love the ME I've found and focus on God's work in me.

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 2 года назад

    God don't bless mess. He is not the author of confusion. When you are about the Lord's business; He will be about yours. Tony, continue to keep your life in alignment to the Lord's will.

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +6

    “Sometimes life is gonna get loud, and you’re gonna have to focus in!!” - Tony Gaskins Wow that was a whole Word!

  • @DD-mg2se
    @DD-mg2se 2 года назад +16

    Maybe it's just me but I doubt it. Mr. Tony is a different type of comedian. 😂🙏🏾..this the first teacher I've learnt so much from and always getting a laugh in. Be blessed brother, be blessed. Lord, forgive me for not praying the same prayer everyday in whatever car😂. You're the BEST.

    • @sxyteesa0890
      @sxyteesa0890 2 года назад +1

      Yes girl he be having me cracking up on his videos but be dead ass serious 😂😂😂😂

    • @DD-mg2se
      @DD-mg2se 2 года назад

      @@sxyteesa0890 that's the thing..the way he says it, the look he gives and he's as serious as a dead..special kinda man I tell you. No way someone feels down and won't cheer up when in here.

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +2

    “Be careful with free.” - Tony Gaskins …woooww

  • @rosagatica6349
    @rosagatica6349 2 года назад +5

    2 minutes in and he’s already speaking the truth!!

  • @stephaniemodkins4624
    @stephaniemodkins4624 2 года назад +2

    Great video. I was at Bible study and they wanted to show something from RUclips. An ad popped up that had a person cursing. So you are right on those Sunday sermons.

  • @iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906
    @iamcoachcourtney-letstalka4906 2 года назад +20

    Yes, I was telling my husband the same thing about the zoom call, it was an example of all different types of people, i.e. givers, takers, pleasers, and self absorbed. Amazing demonstration if we really analyze it. At first I didn't understand why you stayed on but then I realized it was a lesson and you do things for a reason.

  • @Theemichperezz
    @Theemichperezz 2 года назад +1

    Wow Tony I almost never comment on your videos. I like to really hear them & grasp the message. But this one cut deep for me. Needed to hear this. Thank you.

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 2 года назад +12

    Tony be in a hurricane trying to shoot a video.😂😂😂 I totally understand you have to get in where you fit in.

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 2 года назад

      Right🤍🙏🏼✌🏼

  • @camuyana
    @camuyana 2 года назад +23

    Tony, you have no idea the feelings we have when we come to you with our questions, concerns and worries. Our mind is going all over the place by the time the questions reach you and we are grateful that you can give us advice to help us alleviate our pain, the red flags, and also understand why we're going through this and how to take care of it. I thank you again for being our counselor and a shoulder to place our head when we are in pain.

    • @adelafirme
      @adelafirme 2 года назад +2

      Well said Sis. Keep walking in peace and keep your joy. Much love Sis.🤍🕊🙏🏼

    • @camuyana
      @camuyana 2 года назад

      @@adelafirme Thank you my dear sister for your words of support. Please pray for me and I will do the same for you. May God bless you. ❤🙏

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 2 года назад +1

    you r my new pastor

  • @brismith1721
    @brismith1721 2 года назад +4

    Funny u mention a reality show bc last night on the call I was like dang I wish this man had a reality show. Lol. I would tune in to every single episode. We love and support you and your family wholeheartedly. ♥️🙏🏽
    Be blessed, uncle Tony 🎈

  • @coachnatishamommatish185
    @coachnatishamommatish185 2 года назад +3

    Amen Unk" some folks can't handle the real raw uncut hard down to the core truth!!! 💯%Tony!!!

  • @irihapeti7320
    @irihapeti7320 2 года назад +2

    Im a supporter! And yes you are like Jesus with all the people flocking to hear your teaching - l thought that on the 2022 seminar.

  • @beefaye6861
    @beefaye6861 2 года назад +8

    TG.....NO MATTER WHAT YOU DO IN LIFE....PPL WILL NEVER BE SATISFIED.....SO .....KEEP OBEYING YO CALLN....U SAVED MY LIFE AND I WILL ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL 🙏

  • @quincysthillaire
    @quincysthillaire 2 года назад +4

    Keep the faith brother!! God will continue to bless you

  • @jessitabonita
    @jessitabonita 2 года назад +6

    Yes and amen!
    🔥✝️🔥
    Thank you for being a strong man in the Lord and sticking to biblical convictions!
    As a former new ager obsessed with astrology: it really is NOT of God and it's so clear in the Bible what His will is for us: our sanctification!
    Faith comes by hearing and hearing by the _Word_ of God! (Not by false prophet wolves who tickle ears!)
    When I went against Gods word and returned to my former filth to see if my new roommate and I would be compatible: I confess to using a synastry report rather than just referencing Galatians to see if the fruit was really there. So OF COURSE it soon became chaos.
    I'm so grateful God disciplines those He loves and keeps me in His hand!

  • @kayvalentine1879
    @kayvalentine1879 2 года назад +4

    Thank You!!! For being honest and God Fearing and not tickling our ear to be agreeaable ALSO, having the patience of Job. I don't usually comment. But I was praying for you on the ten hr Q&A. You held steadfast. MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR LOVING FAMILY!!💯

  • @lisa05K
    @lisa05K 2 года назад +1

    Thank You Tony!
    I have my 80 year old mom listening to you and my 22 year old daughter and me!
    I don't tell my age..lol..
    When you talk we listen..

  • @latonyaharris3682
    @latonyaharris3682 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Again ✊🏾

  • @chrisharris2367
    @chrisharris2367 2 года назад

    Bro Tony
    Your videos are helping the masses
    Godbless u and ur family!

  • @phinesseriley7561
    @phinesseriley7561 2 года назад +1

    My my my ! I just thank God For Brother Tony. It just keeps happening. Anything on my mind, or heart Tony done talked about it. Really changing my life , and the women I am becoming 🙏🏾 I never seen it happening like this

  • @misst72
    @misst72 2 года назад +4

    I certainly appreciated that time you spent on the call, Tony. You and your family will always have my support.
    Thank you for being you.

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 2 года назад +1

    you warm my heart

  • @larenzapious502
    @larenzapious502 2 года назад +2

    Big Brother Tony, my heart has definitely been touched. I'm still working through some things since we know the devil is at work however, I was so lost before discovering your teachings. I know that I am a better person and a work in progress because of you. Thank you so much!!!

  • @jenniferelmasry7717
    @jenniferelmasry7717 2 года назад +3

    Definitely inspiring me to speak my truth!

  • @Honey-vz1qq
    @Honey-vz1qq 2 года назад +2

    17:20 "...being a people pleaser... jumping crazy...the straw that broke the camel's back..." Got me a good laugh off that! It's so true.

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +2

    Amen!! You certainly have a tribe of people!!

  • @lb1234ify
    @lb1234ify 2 года назад

    God Bless you.

  • @Amber-oc3nc
    @Amber-oc3nc 2 года назад

    You speak the truth. An that what i like about you.

  • @IAmTheQueen87
    @IAmTheQueen87 2 года назад +1

    Great message! There were so many nuggets in here!
    I’m the one who asked about boundaries that night. There was mentions of selfishness while serving and I wanted you to really differentiate between selfishness vs setting boundaries. Even though you requested ppl to keep it to 60 sec they decided to ask multiple personal questions that only serve them and not the collective and it took so much time and you didn’t cut them off, you answered thoroughly. Even if you only did 2 hours of questions, I don’t even see how anyone in their right mind could call you (or anyone doing something like this) selfish. But as you mentioned, when you’re called to serve and you want everyone to feel seen and heard you will go the extra mile and for that I’m super motivated, inspired and I look into myself like do I have the ability to be that selfless? Sometimes I do but sometimes not so much and that’s where I think the selfish v boundaries come into play.
    I’m a part of your 1,000 so big TV production or not we got you! 🙌🏾

  • @aprilnewchapter
    @aprilnewchapter 2 года назад

    Favor! yes Lord I hear you!

  • @jam1369
    @jam1369 2 года назад +1

    I'm in the group, praise God! I needed this information.

  • @suecook4085
    @suecook4085 2 года назад +2

    Thanks again Tony…you always give me plenty to think about…may God keep blessing you.

  • @Amber-oc3nc
    @Amber-oc3nc 2 года назад

    Amen Amen

  • @DrTS36
    @DrTS36 2 года назад +1

    Lmbooooooo!!!!! Oops oops oops is all I can say!!! GO ahead and pump that gas... I love ittttt!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😌😌 Gods hands is upon you and how you are just so real and authentic and honest and straightforward. It's pure and genuine and NEEDED. The majority requires this teaching and guidance; we're not concerned with the strays!!! I have learned and still learning that choosing GOD does not feel like you're walking in a prairie field at all times, yet, it is worth every disappointment, haters and so forth that life brings. We're God's elect, so keep going Tony. Keep being a guide and led by the holy spirit. 🙌🏽 there's NOTHING you say that I can't apply to my life. ALL applies, good and bad. That'd what makes you stronger even if it hurts. Conviction is needed sir and that's what you bring. Thank you!!!!!

  • @MahoganyAliese
    @MahoganyAliese 2 года назад +1

    I’ve been following you since I was about 17 years old & I’m 27 now and you have always been honest real & I appreciate you for that. You’ve always made it clear that you aren’t perfect but your advice has always been on point & I always respect the message you are sending so thank you! ❤️ just for being you.

  • @princessgt3334
    @princessgt3334 2 года назад +1

    Thanks Tony for all the blessings

  • @aprilnewchapter
    @aprilnewchapter 2 года назад

    Matter 23:11 But the greatest among you will be your servant (10 hr zoom) 🙌🏾

  • @heavenlyearthangel88
    @heavenlyearthangel88 2 года назад +3

    You're counsel is amazing, thank you for reaching out!

  • @aerriccoabellamy5070
    @aerriccoabellamy5070 2 года назад +1

    Message received, God Bless!

  • @AriesTiger1
    @AriesTiger1 2 года назад +5

    Good message. I try to make people happy but once I see they are ungrateful it ends there. I speak the truth if they like it good if not even better.😂😂

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +1

    That’s exactly what I said!!! I talked about that in my Live after that Zoom call! @10:40

  • @sierram.6046
    @sierram.6046 2 года назад

    Thank you Mr. Gaskins!

  • @tawannadaniels3949
    @tawannadaniels3949 2 года назад

    Amen Bro. Tony! Keep doing what God called you to do please! 🙏 That's the first thing Christ delivered me from when I gave Him my life; was, " People Pleasing." He had to, if not, I wouldn't be following Him today. I 💯agree with you living The Truth📖❤and not the way people want you to. The problem with people is, they want men and women of God, to " PropheyLIE" to soothe their eatchy ears smh. Continue to be blessed my brother, and "FORGET THEM FOLKS!" as what our sister Latoya Okeia would say lol.

  • @aprilnewchapter
    @aprilnewchapter 2 года назад

    Brother you dropping that 🔥 🔥🔥

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 2 года назад

    excellent as usual.

  • @kilimanjaro5537
    @kilimanjaro5537 2 года назад

    Tony it’s a good thing you didn’t take a picture with the comedian because I believe peoples energies/spirits can run off on you just from touching them, even a handshake can transfer energy. I don’t let certain people touch me.

  • @olivemuriithi6481
    @olivemuriithi6481 2 года назад +1

    We appreciate you Tony thankyou. I needed this!

  • @joycewatt800
    @joycewatt800 2 года назад

    I’m only 8 minutes in but so far so true! When you speak or preach what’s right some people will ALWAYS be offended! Lord Jesus help us to be truthful because YOU are THE TRUTH THE WAY AND THE LIFE. Keep following the Lord Tony you are right…He’s Jehovah Jireh your Provider.

  • @bernettafranklin3239
    @bernettafranklin3239 2 года назад

    Hello Tony love listening 2 u all the time soon as your video's pop up on my phone I take time out 2 get 2 listen 2 them all some even twice u speak the truth everthing u say has happen in my life giving me a way better perspctive on how 2 choose and take time finding a life time partner for myself I had to laugh once because your video about the tests being tested really hit I had it done 2 me but what he didn't realize. then what he realizes now nobody can change my mine or make me do something that I don't believe in or isn't me no sir he knows now never had 2 hear it again keep on doing what u doing u doing an great job KEEPING IT 💯😀

  • @patriciafacey9141
    @patriciafacey9141 2 года назад

    💯 support from me TG. Even I checked the hands that were up on the zoom call I said to myself surely they gonna go down.

  • @lindasharpe7039
    @lindasharpe7039 2 года назад

    Thank You for being on point ! This is a matter of what's happening while I sit back and watch. . But the Lord has shown me what's what.

  • @sherrynelson365
    @sherrynelson365 2 года назад

    Amen stay in purpose. Let us know when you do have a couple seminar maybe virtual would be nice just reinforcing what we already know thank you! You preaching Sir

  • @greenfiremotivation8094
    @greenfiremotivation8094 2 года назад

    The world doesn't take care of me....so true

  • @vr_rp
    @vr_rp 2 года назад

    Its fun to watch you, I like to know what you think.

  • @winblessed1357
    @winblessed1357 2 года назад

    Real talk as always💯💯much appreciated🙏🙏🙏thank you.

  • @lydiaempowers7070
    @lydiaempowers7070 2 года назад

    Amen we love you for being real 🙌🏾

  • @teresaroquemore670
    @teresaroquemore670 2 года назад

    Yes let’s agree to disagree wit folks that know more than us till we learn some since humble ourselves and get it together Lord help us

  • @vivianwebber2001
    @vivianwebber2001 2 года назад +3

    Well said.. PC comes at a high price and yet will not allow raw unadulterated deliverance and transparency.

  • @claraht.6999
    @claraht.6999 2 года назад

    Hard work and perseverance is the key to success, also.

  • @KrystleLaughter
    @KrystleLaughter 2 года назад +2

    True supporter here. Second video of the day and I’m loving it.💕

  • @mmommo-hx4dx
    @mmommo-hx4dx 2 года назад

    hard when you got to tell your own kids...."go be about you business."

  • @kyttenhinson3963
    @kyttenhinson3963 2 года назад

    Is you helping me so much you just don't know I do appreciate you God send

  • @jamiestumps6146
    @jamiestumps6146 2 года назад +1

    Amen, Thank you Jesus, Thank you Man of God!

  • @priscamoyesa
    @priscamoyesa 2 года назад +1

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @contrinadurant9846
    @contrinadurant9846 2 года назад +1

    Tony you are on it!!

  • @niki-mars955
    @niki-mars955 2 года назад

    Tony really stopped for petrol and left us waiting 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 lemme fast forward it 🤣🤣

  • @brittanymarieking
    @brittanymarieking 2 года назад +1

    Thank You Tony I needed to hear this💯💪🏾👑💙😂

  • @arandaholley1719
    @arandaholley1719 2 года назад +3

    It snowed where I live and is going back to 20 degrees.

    • @arandaholley1719
      @arandaholley1719 2 года назад +1

      @@kaleema1987 went from wearing sandals to snow boots.

    • @arandaholley1719
      @arandaholley1719 2 года назад +2

      Yes it is odd because people are dressing light while it freezing over here.

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +1

    Out 👏🏾 of 👏🏾 no 👏🏾 where

  • @nikkinanette8807
    @nikkinanette8807 2 года назад +1

    The car prayer 🙏🏾😂🤣😂🤣

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад +1

    @38:43 wheeew that Word just made me drop my phone!!

  • @missangel221
    @missangel221 2 года назад

    There was a TEN hour Live ?! 😳😕 wow! God Bless TG

  • @aprilnewchapter
    @aprilnewchapter 2 года назад

    Worry about what the video about man you be cracking me up! 😆

  • @MinieO746
    @MinieO746 2 года назад

    Preach!!!

  • @porshaadams6777
    @porshaadams6777 2 года назад

    Tony, I usually only listen to secular music when I workout and I was trying to diminish that by listening to you instead. However, when you said the parent is whooping the child for the old and the new and the child was like “well can you just whoop me for the new?” I laughed and almost dropped the weight on my foot. 🤦🏾‍♀️ With that being said, I have to find something else to listen to during my workouts for my safety 😆

  • @christineporter9914
    @christineporter9914 2 года назад +2

    Bro Tony that's a blessing that God is protecting you and your family. Please pray for me because I tested positive Wednesday for covid-19 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 am requesting prayers.

  • @DebtDemolisherTV
    @DebtDemolisherTV 2 года назад

    Real life 🙏🏾🙏🏾😭🙏🏾🙏🏾