In my younger years I had low self esteem which resulted in me tolerating poor treatment. Today I won’t condone any bad behaviour, manipulation etc. Thank you for sharing this, such an excellent video 🙂🎄
The moral, spiritual and feminine factor is key.✅💐 My boyfriend courted me ! All I had to do is show up and be myself. The self he fell for. We were married within 6 months of meeting and have been happily married for 22 years. ❤ Evenly yoked in all ways. #jwcouple
In my Ghanaian culture I was raised to believe men take care of women. In America you see women take care of responsibilities of men; especially educated women. I can never understand this. No matter how much you make, men has a nature an Ego that get bruised when women do this. Let the men lead.
Hi, just curious, I’m African but raised in the US. I just graduated college and work in tech so make pretty good money already. As im dating I feel like many of the guys don’t make as much. Do you think it’s risky to be with a guy like this even if values, and other things align? I don’t want to be the breadwinner because I want him to be the leader and to be the more masculine one. I also know down the line when kids and all that come in the picture, the woman being the bread winner ontop of everything will ultimately weigh her down and I don’t want this for myself. What should I do? I obvs dont want to just quit my job. Atleast not rn lol
@britneyt9253 hi there! I am Ghanaian, born and raised in the UK, and finished university. I don't think his salary is too important (unless it's because he doesn't work/unambitious). However, please seek God for discernment because some men can be jealous/insecure and intimidated (especially guys who follow red pill/manosphere content).
I believe it's time that more women as well as men took note of the importance of not living together before marriage. The reasons for premarital cohabitation have proven time and time and time again for decades now to be self-defeating. Since the 1970s, when cohabitation began to become less taboo, more popular, we've come to see the actual evidence of what actually happens. We need to learn from this. This is not to point fingers or even to be prudish: it's just sensible, honest evidence for a better life as far as relationships are concerned.
A proper girlfriend gift, in case you are wondering, is : books, a cap, a muffler or scarf, maybe sunglasses, a picnic basket lunch. That's it! Possibly concert tix if he's treated you enough. Don't do anything else, ladies!😮
I only gift men cheap, but thoughtful gifts. Never live in with a man you're not married to. I know some women will say that it's good for getting to know him,but tbh that is a pile of bullocks,as you can get to know someone in a million other ways such as traveling with them or just simply by spending time otherwise and studying their mindsets etc. It doesn't take an entirity to know the important things about someone.
This video is GOLD. Thank you so much. May I ask you please to provide the separate links for the outfits you are wearing? There are thousands to look through and I am wanting to seek out only the stunning outfits you have so kindly shared here. My grateful thanks from New Zealand
I agree with most of what you said but living with someone can make you see sides you'd never have imagined before. It can be a powerful wake up call that you two are not made to be together. Also, why would the lady be cleaning and cooking ? That is the case in some relationships but you're not his mother so he can cook and clean as well.
💙 Thanks, Vivian. But so-called "woke culture" has nothing to do with this issue! (But I am so tired of hearing women being compared to cows,ok? Can't think of a better analogy?)
In my younger years I had low self esteem which resulted in me tolerating poor treatment. Today I won’t condone any bad behaviour, manipulation etc. Thank you for sharing this, such an excellent video 🙂🎄
The moral, spiritual and feminine factor is key.✅💐 My boyfriend courted me ! All I had to do is show up and be myself. The self he fell for. We were married within 6 months of meeting and have been happily married for 22 years. ❤ Evenly yoked in all ways. #jwcouple
If you don't mind share with me tips that has kept your marriage moving forward.And may God bless your marriage
Never “shack up.”
It cheapens you.
i hate how that’s the new norm
What does shack up mean
@@britneyt9253 living together, children, before marriage
I absolutely agree with all you said. Unfortunately we're living in a world where decency, or values are no longer trending.
In my Ghanaian culture I was raised to believe men take care of women. In America you see women take care of responsibilities of men; especially educated women.
I can never understand this. No matter how much you make, men has a nature an Ego that get bruised when women do this.
Let the men lead.
Hi, just curious, I’m African but raised in the US. I just graduated college and work in tech so make pretty good money already. As im dating I feel like many of the guys don’t make as much. Do you think it’s risky to be with a guy like this even if values, and other things align? I don’t want to be the breadwinner because I want him to be the leader and to be the more masculine one. I also know down the line when kids and all that come in the picture, the woman being the bread winner ontop of everything will ultimately weigh her down and I don’t want this for myself. What should I do? I obvs dont want to just quit my job. Atleast not rn lol
@britneyt9253 hi there! I am Ghanaian, born and raised in the UK, and finished university. I don't think his salary is too important (unless it's because he doesn't work/unambitious). However, please seek God for discernment because some men can be jealous/insecure and intimidated (especially guys who follow red pill/manosphere content).
I LOVE this channel and this video. It is teaching me some overdue lessons of elegance.
This is gold!!!
Appreciate all you have said🙏❤️
I believe it's time that more women as well as men took note of the importance of not living together before marriage. The reasons for premarital cohabitation have proven time and time and time again for decades now to be self-defeating. Since the 1970s, when cohabitation began to become less taboo, more popular, we've come to see the actual evidence of what actually happens. We need to learn from this. This is not to point fingers or even to be prudish: it's just sensible, honest evidence for a better life as far as relationships are concerned.
I’ve been single since 1988. It’s peaceful.
Really?😂😂
I have been single since 1990 I am happy and absolutely will not settle. Being alone is better than being in a dysfunctional relationship.
If he won’t propose on his own volition, move on.
Vivian love you❤❤❤❤❤. Since I started following you, I've changed a lot for better. I needed this sooooooo much, thank you❤
A proper girlfriend gift, in case you are wondering, is : books, a cap, a muffler or scarf, maybe sunglasses, a picnic basket lunch. That's it! Possibly concert tix if he's treated you enough.
Don't do anything else, ladies!😮
This episode contains so much wisdom for my fellow elegant women ✨💖
Vivienne, I must say you look absolutely gorgeous ❤❤ great video. Glad you covered this issue
Thank you so much!
I only gift men cheap, but thoughtful gifts. Never live in with a man you're not married to. I know some women will say that it's good for getting to know him,but tbh that is a pile of bullocks,as you can get to know someone in a million other ways such as traveling with them or just simply by spending time otherwise and studying their mindsets etc. It doesn't take an entirity to know the important things about someone.
Thank you for sharing this information
Great video! Thanks for sharing!
Thank you Vivian . Your videos are always worth my time.
This is timely. Thank you. 🤗❤
Well done.❤ Beautiful you and hair
Thank you for the wonderful video. You’ve lifted my spirit, we love you in Florida!!
I agree with you
Thank you for these points
Thanks this eye opening. May God bless you
Love this video! Thank you!
Thanks alot for this greatful lesson point taken am single and am glad coming across this powerful tips
Well said. I agree with everything 💋
Thanks a billion ma❤
Am satisfied 😌
This video is GOLD. Thank you so much. May I ask you please to provide the separate links for the outfits you are wearing? There are thousands to look through and I am wanting to seek out only the stunning outfits you have so kindly shared here. My grateful thanks from New Zealand
Thank you so much! Sure. I've added a separate link to each piece for you❤️
Thank you
Has anyone seen the show “The Ultimatum” on Netflix. What are your thoughts?
Woke culture has no place here! What you say is ‘word’!!! ❤
It is not blessed by GOD Almighty for a woman or man to live together with out marriage.
lol you should see that subreddit called waiting to wed
Can you do one for those who already made a mistake and end up with kid/s
How to make things right
❤❤❤❤
I agree with most of what you said but living with someone can make you see sides you'd never have imagined before. It can be a powerful wake up call that you two are not made to be together. Also, why would the lady be cleaning and cooking ? That is the case in some relationships but you're not his mother so he can cook and clean as well.
💙 Thanks, Vivian. But so-called "woke culture" has nothing to do with this issue!
(But I am so tired of hearing women being compared to cows,ok? Can't think of a better analogy?)
please close the gap between your first and second button. thank you for your great advice..
Men need women.
Women don’t need men.
We need each other.
@@mameafrane1725women need men also, how did you come into the world 🤔, men and women complete each other period!
I agree with you