This was needed to Open eyes of our young generation such as females, still I see some defending it. May Allah S.W.T have mercy on us. Ameen Jazak'Allah for the video
I'm a BTS ARMY. BTS really helped me out in my life. After Allah they were the only source of my happiness. BTS conveys the message that you should love yourself more than anyone else,they are also a source of motivation for us. Being a Muslim our first and foremost priority is Islam and then anyone else ok I hope that you understand that Not everyone is mentally ill like this girl.💜
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Exactly. I'm also a porn addict. I tried to comit suicide 13 times. Still have those thoughts, the girl I love can never be mine. That thought is killing me. Then I don't have enough money to support Flood Victims, Palestinians, Syrians, Cancer Patients, all others who need help in short. I mean I really want to do this all but her by my side. Plz dear brother and sister, give me some hope. Or give my parents condolences after my departure
@@abdullahasif3894 whatever happens to you please dont do this is this life is not going well than what you are doing will cause you more damage and life after that will be hell Please dont do this If you are having suicidal thoughts consult a psychatrist
I've been a BTS army since 2020. And I'm a Muslim. They never forced me to stop praying and I've never wanted to become a kpop idol. They are like nice internet friends to me. Rahi baat V ki cigarette smoking ki, toh wo deepfaked video thi. Jungkook actual mein smoke karta hai and Yoongi ne ek music video mein smoke ki but it never made me think or wish ke mein bhi smoke karu. Some fans get extremely obsessed aur phir naam unka badnaam hota hai. They don't see the good side of BTS. Agar influence bura hota to wo terr*rism, dr*gs, womenizing pe campaigns chalate naake "love youself" or "love myself" pe. + I'm 19 y/o and I have friends 25+ y/o and my aunties 40+ y/o who like bts (but don't worship)
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Only solution to this problem which i figured out after being a bts fanboy is when you feel you are being obsessed than immediately stop watching bts and cut them from your life. Do this and the addiction will go away and you will be normal again. The kpop industry is made in such a way to make you addicted to them. They are addictive just like alcohol, gaming , tiktok etc addictions, just a different form of addiction.
besides the fact that Sana and Nimra revealed can we just appreciate how Nimra realized that she was wrong and put focus on her belief and religion and ask for Hiyadah at such a young age?
Finally , someone raised awareness. This is a serious issue. Over-obsession with anything in this world is not good for your mental and physical health . But one thing is important here that never did she (the guest) mentioned anything about worshipping them or anything. And it is the her ( guest's) problem that she was over-obsessed with BTS. I'm not an army or anything but your thumbnail and title was just so you could attract more viewers .
Yeah people really need to figure out their priorities like I would always turn off my music (BTS or not) when it's time for Azan if I'm listening to them at that time of the day. I would never chose BTS over my religion..and BTS themselves said that "use us to love yourself" so the fact she hated herself literally says otherwise. Yes I would love to be slim and fit like kpop girls but BTS has nothing to do with that.
I was a crazy toxic pagal army Now mashallah I remove them from my life, I don't understand the people having surgery faces, teach us how u love yourself🙂
@@ayesja_art6332 ok every one has their own opinion but here you are talking without proof.If you were a toxic pagal army then you must have seen their pics from teenage and childhood and dont lie they look the same😒😂
@@abeeharashid7864 ya I'm actually talking on the behalf of their childhood pic having big nose smallest eyes and the look now they have is completely the result of surgeries mashallah I can't believe how blind such armies are😂 its OK Allah give everyone hadayat🤧
@@ayesja_art6332 whattt??? You said you are an ex army but have a video about bts on your page on which you have written “who is bts army💜”Astagfirullah you yse bts for views😂😂😂😂
18:18 I Wanna Say Here, I'd Deep Depression & Anxiety Once. I'd Suffered A Lot, But When I Started Pray The Tahajjud Salah Daily.. My Life Just Changed 😇. Now I Feel Like Allah SWT Is My Best Friend, I Make Dua Not In Way Other People Does. I Just Started Talking To Allah SWT, It's Like A Conversation To Me. However, I Recommend Everyone To Try This And Also Try Reading Quran With Translation Cuz It Also Helped Me A Lot 🤗🖤
As an army, i totally agree with it and appreciate it. You shouldn't be obsessed with anything whether is kpop, western or eastern singers, celebrities, influencer anyone. Alhumdulillah I'm not obsessed with them. Your first priority is always should be islam, second yourself and then other. Accept yourself the way you are. And if you are feeling you are getting obsessed with something stop doing that and take a break. Society will never let you live in any condition. In kpop too, the company forces the idols to diet, to have surgeries, and people so judge them too and body shame them for being skinny. So, moral of the story is never get obsessed with something, love yourself and don't care about the society. Only care about Allah and yourself. Allah ko razi karo aur apna apko.
@@soniatauhid4078 you are absolutely right. But if you are not listening to kpop then you should also not listen to any other songs from any language, any country from any artist ( I'm saying to this everyone including myself )
For all them minors who blame her for HER obssession: 1. Entertainment industry invests heavily on how to gather more and more audience. So they always find ways so that people can obssess behind them and they get more audience and hence more money. Same is the case for bts. 2. People tend to follow influencers, and when these guys already know that they are influencers, their negativity can influence people negatively.
As an army and a kpop fan myself i am sooooo glad that she found herself and got out of it, we all should always know our limits to follow certain things, kpop is a music genre that is enjoyable like other music genres but seeing people overly obsessing over the artists and making the fandom their whole personality makes me really uncomfortable to see, i hope every fandom in this world recognise the difference between liking something and being a fan to overly obsessing over something at a point where it is negative to our both physical and mental health
as being a fan of txt enhypen, starykids, seventeen, le sserafim, &team and bts i would say that being to much obsessed with them is WRONG im a kpop fan since 2020 and i still am, i love them all but not too much. allhamdullilah i pray 5 times a day and recite quran everyday. i am fat but i never feel that i should lose some weight and lemme clear im not against sana and i appreciate her for this video bcz people can know that being hell obsessed with some one is wrong plus I dont have a best friend and sometimes i feel sad but whenever I watch them i feel good and laugh especially while watching txt enhypen and seventeen
Lmao finally someone talked about the toxic fanbase culture. Bts and other kpop arent as bad at all but the toxic fans make it like those bands are the cure to world problems 💀. The korean industry is the most toxic ever. The superficial beauty, surgeries, abuse, suicides etc. Glamorizing all the stuff is just bad.
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Well i'am actually happy that you found your right path. I know obsessing over something us not good and when your obssesion is something related to K pop. I'am an Amry and I stan other groups too. Every song have its own side negative/positive. I know that stanning them is not good thing and when you're obsessed with them. I'am not being rude but, I'am stanning them for too long and I want to say that they really changed my life. I don't like to say that they're my obssesion but they made me fell like a confident person. I'am not obsessed over them but I got inspiration from them. They made me realized that you have to be yourself and chase what you want to do in your life. And ofcourse no one thought bad about their future. About blaming them you can't blame a band for it. About your grades so I think they have a song about this to tell you not to be obsessed with them. "I'am here to save you, i'am here to ruin you" They have this line in that song which is telling us to stop being to so obsessed with them. The main fault is you chose them over your Islam or body. They have their negative and positive side too. You can't blame a person beacuse they had change many lives into good. But i'am happy about you being in Islam more.
I have been into kpop for the past 6 years and BTS was the first group who brought me into kpop. I used to be toxic and obsessed with them too, in 2023 i found Straykids, and in 2024, i found TXT and Enhypen, now I'm not the same like i used to be in past, I'm an Editor, i love to make fan edits, i love them and love to watch funny episodes, but my religion will always be my first priority, i never feel insecure or think about to go on diet to look pretty, I'm good in studying too and know my limits.
Hey fellow! I don't usually make comments or reply to people on YT but just wanted to pop in here and let you know that IF the "fan edits" you're talking about are the ones including music, like the edits available on tiktok and insta, all those made using clips of idols, then those will be 'gunah-e-jariah' for you. What that means is that, you're posting it for people to see and even after your death, everytime a person will watch the video + hear the bgm, you'll get bad deeds. So yeah, that's all I wanted to let you know. I guess I'll leave the decision upto you :) Also, please don't mind me, I didn't mean ANY offense and my intention was never to hook my nose in rather just wanted to guide you a lil and save you from getting bad deeds. I'm no molvi or anything lol but ig everyday is a chance for us to learn smth new and change ourselves for the better, right?
As an army , i know how to balance my religious activities as well as my education. I never let kpop to take over me. As there was bts song pied Piper in which they warned all armys about that obsession thing. They motivated me in a good way. That is the reason I follow them... I just wanted to say not every fan is this much obsessed. But if someone who is reading this comment is totally obsessed, please don't forget your religion for this....
wtf is an *army* like u guys cant even clean ur ass and call urselves army like bts stans are just toxic and biased for no reason supporting LGBTQ and forgetting the things which are shirk in islam
Its so sad *Learning Arabic for QURAN is difficult for us But googling korean for Songs is easy 💔* What kind of life it would be if we die without knowing what Allah SWT sent towards us, for us in QURAN PAK💔 If music had the power to spread positivity no singer or musicians would have been commiting suicides 😓 Quran Samjhay Beghair Ganay ko defend karna, Is alarming 🤲🏻🌼💔 May Allah give us ability to set our priority straight. 🥺🤲🏻💛
There is indeed something mysterious Us Girls get crazy about singers more than actors 👀🤷♀️ This shows that music is a tool of shaytan 💔 Allah's love would take us to Jannah No Singer or Idol's love would take us to Jannah 🌻🤲🏻🌼.
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@TrusfratedMochi Exactly my religion come first if I like to listen any song (which I think everyone hears under this whole comment section could be rare for some people which is very good thing) so doesn't matter its Bollywood lollywood or kpop but every thing should be in limits I didn't said I want to become blackpink or anything else nor I'm insecure!
As an army I never dreamed of being this kind of obsessed with BTS or any other k pop group I know how to manage my education and religion and In my opinion those who overthink their k pop obsession really need to be treated by someone to get out of that
About two years ago I started staning BTS. I used to listen them and watch them several times a day also I had a huge crush on Jin but then I realized that they are so much addictive and distracting so I limit watching them. Still I do watch them, I do listen their songs and I do like them but not as much as before. All I learned is over watching and obsession is dangerous whether it is of BTS or any other celebrity.
I am very happy that many Muslim scholars and also many channel holders(Muslims) start to talk about side effects of k-pop. Its really really very addictive my elder sister was also an army before and due to her I was also attracted from bts but alhumdulliah she started to study Quran with translation and due to her I also able to leave this addictive music
My story is very similar to Nimra's When I was teenager around 16 17 year old I also used to hate myself I used to hate the way I looked, I remember i woke up every morning looked in the mirror and always criticized my body.... I also tried many ways to lose weight including intense exercise and very unhealthy and restricted diet. But I wasn't getting any positive results so I started overeating just to cope with my sadness... At that time I didn't realize where I was going, what was happening to me I had no idea but over the time I developed eating disorder and many health problems. No one noticed my condition same here I'm very good at hiding myself so I hide everything from everyone no body knew what I was going through.... Eventually I reached my breaking point I had enough of my self and I went to the state of depression I was still doing same diet and exercises but I wasn't expecting any results in short I was just torturing myself. The only difference is that BTS helped me get out of this situation they really helped me to love myself and accept myself . After meeting BTS for the first time in my entire life I started loving myself for real. I stopped hating myself for being fat or For not having that ideal looking body. Their lyrics really inspired me to start all over again and just be myself and love myself the way I am . I acknowledge the fact that everything have positive and negative effect. Even though BTS helped me to get out of the worst phase of myself BTS also had some negative effect on my life as well. And that was manly because of the obsession and addictiveness but with time I realize that this obsession is not good for me so I controlled myself. Today I'm still BTS ARMY but I'm not obsessed with BTS anymore. And I'm happier than ever 💜
I'm glad this girl is doing good now MashaAllah💜 My best friend is K-pop stan since 2015! She is BTS fan! Well I got myself in some troubles years ago, I tried many things to cope my issue! And that problem is created by my own family! 8 months ago I was so done! Then I came towards BTS accidentally! i saw their run episodes! All those things gave me a next level relief! Started liking them!! I knew their struggles, their hard work! And that gave me motivation, yes I can do it! I can face my problem, and I can overcome it! I'm 27 now! Yes I listen some of their songs, but I'm more obsessed with their run episodes and daily basis activities! But I also become more religious, Now I don't skip my prayers! I feel myself more motivated and even I can present my things in a more better way! Teenagers do have hormonal issues! Puberty hits everybody differently! As our dear Kim Namjoon speaks! Speak yourself, love yourself! And I do same thing, I love myself, I love my religion more! I develop positive connection with Allah and my society! You can't blame singers or any other artist! Pehly to ye smjhy k yes we do have problems and we have to cope this
Nimra is really brave to share her story with too much people...I pray to Allah to help me and those people who Stan a band but are in stress including myself ... May Allah help us to live a better life and be aware of things which aren't good for us ❤️
I am nota part of BTS band but is podcast ko sun ne k bad mujhy bht feel hua that how far i am from islam 😶😶😶 This podcast is not only about K pop but this podcast also teaches us to maintain our close relation from islam INSHALLAH from now i wil also try to maintain close relation with allah and islam💖💖
Yes very true I am not an army but I am very far from islam specially after my mothers death. And this podcast is a motivation and inspiration for me May Allah guide me . Ameen
I have been into kpop for the past 6 years and BTS was the first group who brought me into kpop . I have never felt like the band or kpop itself has ever made me hate my religion or hate myself , it indeed helped me to love myself more and to see their struggles and how far they have come do give us a spark of motivation. The thing is people get extremely obsessed which itself can be so toxic and everyone has a different eye for everything which plays a big role on how we all think. We as a muslim should know that we have to take deen and duniya sath sath and should not focus on only one thing. We can't blame the band or kpop in general for our doings and our thinking.
100% true like in my class , I have a friend who always listen to motivational speakers and the time I spent in studying, he spent in listening motivational speeches and when I complete my studies . He stills listen to motivational speeches , it’s good but spending this much time and he ends like now it’s time to sleep and I will start tomorrow. So , this over obsession is wrong , no matter what . And now see , I am a BTS ARMY , but I first complete my studies and than listen to BTS ARMY during cleaning my hostel room or on my way to buy dinner . Than , after Dinner , I stop music do some others things . Like , it’s up to me , what’s my first priority
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH. You took a good step my sister, May Allah bless you and guide you to the truth.
I have got nothing to say, but at 26:14 she is accusing bts of rape case. Girl I have searched the whole internet and didn't enough find a single article or even a rumor... either share the link about their rape case or give us an explanation.... I am asking on the behalf of army... It's okay if you don't like them anymore that's your choice but you can't accuse them.
as an army myself , K-pop is definitely with both positive / negative sides ! it depends on us how we're handling it , when i started watching them it kinda made my grades down too but i noted that tried to work on myself , today i do watch them but in a limited way
Bro I also Love Kpop Songs but I Never Been a fan of Their Dressing and Girly Look .....Becuase Allah Made Us Men So its better to Act like them .....Changing the Nature is not a Choice
yess we love BTS and it isn't their fault, they made songs and speeches telling us to love ourselves but if nimra said it like this and she took the negative stuff it ain't our fault, not just BTS or kpop even if u watch a yt video you'd want to get stuff and face and body like the channel owner, same is the case with BTS u dont take positive stuff and get negative, BTS did nothing wrong to NIMRA they love army alottttt and try their hardest to make them love themselves
over obssesing over something is clearly wrong as a muslim we should know our limits as a muslim army i have never felt insecure about myself or about my religion bts also had start their self love campigne which benefited a lot of people and if u watch the history of bts its a great motivation they are respeectful toward every religion there were a lot of moments where they show respect toward islam and muslim fans ofcourse u should know how to be in limits as a muslim your faith on ur religion should be a first priority
Blkl...mein b yhi sb khna chah ri hon...ku k mein b bts ki apni personal cheezon yan life mein ni lati kbhi b...esa ni hua k mere pprz hain or mein bts dekhri hon
@@Fahad-gf1wx Huh? Since when I promot LGBT? And insult other religion All I was saying that they respect every religion furthermore it's on your own whether you want to leave your religion and become so obsessed with them or draw a border line between your religion and them
I was going through depression they helped through their lyrics. It's just I never let myself get over obsessed with them. I got so close to my own religion because of Allah. We never blame something on someone it's our good or bad. This girl is seriously having over obsessiveness about it and she was severely insecure. Leave anyone or anything that makes you not yourself.
@Epoxy Resin they might be I don't know. I just appreciate their goodness and disapprove some of their ways. If we talk about industry,every industry is like that. Our own industry in Pakistan is no less than that what do you expect from them?
@Epoxy Resin u r right. We should just focus upon ourselves and people who we love. Pr yeh obsessed ho Jana ksi cheez sy bhi is really in your own control after Allah. Baqi Allah raham kry ga.
the thing is dont be obsessed with anything it will hurt you no one is responsible for your mental and physical health only yourself I am an army and I am blink ( blackpink stan ) kpop and kdrama also and alhamdullilah I am Muslim at first and i know some armies are toxic five fingers are not equal 🙂
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
It depends on you I am army from 2019 but it doesn't effect my studies at all neither it influenced my personality instead they make me little happy when I was very tired from daily life BTS has detected 1000 of people from depression through love yourself program so don't say BTS make you change you yourself and influence like this But it's good for you 🙂 I think you should also interview the current and normal army to know how BTS influence you in positive way 🙂
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Is se acha Quean paak parho Allah se dil lagao namaz parho islam ko positive lo phir dekhna ese kafiro se kabi bi impress ni ho gi Ye kese nhi negative impact dal re musalman larkiyo pe ye thora khud socho ke musalman larkiya jo ke khud is kufriya fitne ki fan ho gayi hai aur koi unhe sachbdikhana chahe ke ye kufar hai to agee se lambe lambe paragraph likhti hain un ki himayat ke liye jab ke wo kufriya fitna hai to ab batao ke ager koi heart broken hai ya koi normal bi hai to wo larki bts ki ban kyu ban ri hai kaya wo Allah se mayous ho gayi hai ager nhi huwi to phir bts ko chor ke islam ki taraf aye 5 waqt namaz parhe Allah ko dost banaye phir bts jese fitne ki kisi ko zaroorat ki ho gi
@@mrprincezain you are right but they never force you ky tum unky fan bano or wh b is kadar toxic wh yahi kahty ky khud sy muhabbat kry or Pata hai ju khud sy muhabbat krta hai osy apny Allah sy khud ba khud muhabbat ho jati hai jisny osy bnaya... Wh insan musalman hi kesa ju apny eman ko control na kr sky sorry to say mai b kpop sunti ho lakin na mai ny kabhi chaha ky in jesa bano na kabhi bano alhumdulillah I wear abbaya and niqab or Alhumdulillah mai apny Allah sy hi sub sy zyada pyar krti ho.. hr cheez ki ak limit huti hai ap limits cross kro gy tw esa hi hoga...
@@eshairshad1057 bilkul sahi to kaha hai just ager song ko suna jaye wo to wese bi mana hai per aj kal sab sunte hain kaya keh sakte per just song sunana eak alag cheez hai is hud tak jo karta wo qabil e qubool to hai per aj kal ki musalman larkiya kese in ki hud se zayada fan hain ap khud dekh sakti ho ap kisi bi comment mai ja ke eak bar bol ke dekho ke bts sahi nhi hai just song sun lo phir bi per ese paglo ki tatha deewani na bano bus itna keh ke dekho ese ese jawab mile ge
I really like this idea of podcast where common people share their stories..something very new and fresh....one can learn so much from other people's experiences and it also helps you become more empathetic towards others and understand other people's perspective and situations....it kinda makes us more wise, understanding and empathetic....
First of all, being obsessed with ANYTHING is extremely toxic. I’m a kpop fan as well and I’ve been in BTS fandom for more than 5 years. There was a phase when I was obsessed too but not to the extent of compromising my religion for it. As Muslims, Islam should be above everything for us. I still stan them but I know and still follow my boundaries. Also, I need to clear something up. Sana mentioned that BTS promotes homosexuality etc. THEY DON’T. I’m not in denial or anything but fyi Korean culture is extremely conservative when it comes to such things, so please do some good research before assuming such things. People believe they support homosexuality because most of the fandom consists of western fans who project their ideals onto kpop and everyone knows how romanticised homosexuality is in western cultures. P.S: I TOTALLY AGREE that kpop fandoms are very toxic and so are any other fandoms (Hollywood).
NO YOU DONT. How are you referring that Hollywood fandom is toxic? btw no matter how hard you try to show that you are not obsessed and stuff but you cant deny the facts. I would not have replied but you literally mentioned Hollywood for no reason. The same thing you said to Sana. I will say the same to you (FIRST RESEARCH THEN COME UP WITH ACCUSATIONS)
@@seizedhealer7166 why? All Hollywood movie fans/American music fans are extremely toxic. I’ve been part of many and have experienced it first hand. And why are you so triggered??? You are the one in denial here as I’m openly calling my own fandom toxic because I know it is. And also, referring to a fandom being toxic doesn’t mean I’m calling each and every individual in that fandom toxic so kindly chill!!
Excess of everything is bad ... I'm also a BTS army girl I only like BTS and blackpink but I'm also bulky ....lekin may itni obsessed ni hu nimra nay un ki negative things catch ki hain ..is waja say inho nay galat kia ....lekin may nay aaj tak BTS ki waja say koi ulti harkat nahi ki Alhamdullilah..and I'm not a blind fan ...may un ki galat baat Kay baaray may unko hate bhi Karti hu .....
Faida ni hai 😂baat woui a jati hai Tum sab ka kch ni ho sakta un ko chor do to behter hai warna ye larki to ache se bata ri na dekh lena tum logo sath bi phir yehi hona Wo hai hi bure to negative cheez hi dekhe ge na logo ka kaya hai acha ya bura ni deohte sir pe bhita lete hain aur ager bura bi ho to ignore kar dete ke pasand jo kar liya
@@mrprincezain bro may yahi keh rahi hu Kay dekhain positive or negative dono sides hoti hain ab ap pay depend karta hay Kay aap negative catch kartay ho ya positive.... May nay bataya hay Kay may blind fan nahi hu because jaha BTS galat hotay hain waha may un Kay khilaaf bhi nolti hu or Alhamdullilah aaj tak may nay kisi cheez Kay uper BTS ko priority nahi di ... Alhamdullilah Islam , studies ,daily life may kabhi bhi kisi kaam ko chor Kay BTS ni dekha .....I love EDITING kid waja say may RUclips channel run Karti hu
@@meerabtayyabot7 wo sab theek hai per mostly larkiya blindly fan hain bts ki eak hota hai na ke chalo song waghera hai new aya ya purana hai sun liya acha laga yaad bi kar liya ye sab bi mana hai per phir bi kisi hud tak theek hai utna bura ni hai per ab mostly larkiya esi hain ke bus un ko hi follow karri ager wesi ni ho to achi baat hai per maine dekhi hain na wesi larkiya tab hi to ese keh raha hoon na wo sab bts ko ese follow karti hain jese pata ni kaya ho aur buhat si esi bi dekhi hain jo kehti dil toot gaya koi sath ni tha to unhe dekhna shuru kiya to bus ab unhi se khushi aur ghami juri huwi hai aur bi buhat kch ye galat hai na Ab ap ne bts ni chorna to ap pe hai hamara kam hai batana samjhana baki har insan pe depend karta hai per just song sunane ki hud tak theek hota per zayada tar hud se zayada age nikal jati hain ye gaalt hai na ap ko bi chahiye ke ap jaha bts ki muslim larkiyo ko dekhti ho at least unhe samjhao un ki help bi karo is se nikalne se song sunane waghera tak okay hai per ese blindly follow karna fan ho jana wo bi is hud tak sahi ni hai ap bi samaj gayi ho gi jo kehna chah ra
Lanati BTS they are literally worse singer they don't get liked for their singing talent they get liked because of brainless girls If you wanna listen there are tons of brilliant singers like ZAYN DRAKE LIL NAS tons of others
This K POP is very dangerous.... no one tells u amount of cosmetic alterations these band members go through... no one will ever talk about the amount of depression they are going through... they aren't even allowed to have "relationships" and if any k pop artist's relationship comes to light he/she is frowned upon and sometimes even kicked out of the band
I'm also an ex-army. I left this fandom bcz of toxic fans.I am a BLINK. I was obsessed with kpop but now I don't watch kpop much. I am a fan since 2020 but i know how to control myself.
i used to be bts army too. but when Palestine issue arise and people around world were doing protest but at that time they (bts) didn't talk about Palestine because it was issue of Muslim. it means that black lives matter, white lives matter but Muslims lifes doesn't matter . this question make me leave bts fandom. Alhamdulillah it's been a year.
Hi my name is Namra. I am also exbts army and blink. I also left kpop. Suddenly one dayI saw a bayan of a brother.And also on the other hand Rm the leader of the group disrespect Islam & support homosexuality. All my friend's used to talk alot about them so I searched what bala is BTS 😬. Alhamdullilah I leave K-pop at the correct time.
He don't disrespect Islam the song has double meaning look at the lyrics carefully and second homosexuality is not allowed in YOUR RELIGION he is not Muslim so why would he follow lslamic rules
I am watching K-dramas since 2016 and Alhamdulilah nd there is 0 obsession, I even take long or short break because obsession of everything is disaster, I have managed my studies my hobbies ☺️
I am a Bts fan myself first of all congrats that you fought your depression but bts influenced me in a good way knowing their struggle story i wanna work hard even more and also bts influenced me to be myself and to accept the way i am i gained alot of confidence but never got influence to lose weight it thought me ke aap jis body shape ke bhi its ok it my body now i am comfortable with my weight i also have a healthy body because before my parents use to say things abt my weight but now i am happy the way i am cuz no body is perfect we are just born in a judgemental society and i was not good at studies but this made me do hard work and allhandulillah i got better grades than any past grades and speaking of religion i never let my bts×army life intervene my religion i use to keep them separate or i can say somehow i am more close to my religion that before
in my opinion the problem is not Bts nor the kpop industry as they have many flows themselves.we can't blame others for the obssesion we created ourselves.being a fan of something is okay but if you have unhealthy obssesion with someone its your fault and u should take responsibilities for your own action.i have been a kpop and bts fan for 6 yrs personally i stopped thinking about suicide because of their influence and i am doing mentally good because of them. i am glad u did what is best for you . i am not obsessed with them and i am a fan with a healthy love for them so for me and for most Armys they are our idols we love and cherish for others they are the devils,addictions... so i am just saying
right . i am also a fan girl of BTS since 2 years . kuch log hote hain jo BTS ko apna pata nhi kiya kiya khate hain like V is my husband .bla bla ..or bhot zada hi obssesed ho jate hain .har chizz ko karne main ek limit hoti hai . Ap na sochte nahi hain bad main BTS ko blame krte hain ke us ki vaja se main apne ap ko hate karne lag gi .... uff hai yeah toxic army 😂😂😂
Bts tells u to love yourself and accept yourself as you already are. They never encourage to lose weight alot. It also comes upon us that how much we get obsessed. It's not their fault if we go out of our limits to be perfect cuz they never encourage such things.
Agree tho. It's up to a person who gets Obsessed. I hated myself but after getting to know them i started loving myself. And people replying you back as toxic army. Funny... Ab bhook se khana or khud khatay rehna. Where is the fault of them? But I am happy you are ex army cause if you are getting negatively influenced by them then it's good to stop liking them.
@Junaid Adnan I'm not being toxic. I'm just saying it depends upon us how we treat ourselves. Getting overly obsessed with anything whether it's BTS or anything else is not healthy
Over obsession has nothing to do with bts ,any other artist ,streamer or youtuber. You mightn't believe this but bts brought me closer to my religion when l saw them praise ,respect and use kind words for my religion, l took a moment and thought THERE REALLY was something about my religion that they respected and appreciated it . Being a born muslim l was ashamed when a non muslim taught me why muslim women wear hijab. Me who didn't even prayed ONCE a day now prayes five times a day along with recitation of the Holy Quran Allhamdulilah. And if you talk about depression my pious lady THEY HELPED me fight depression, THEY HELPED TO KNOW WHO I REALLY AM, THEY HELPED ME TO LOVE MY SELF AND LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT, THEY TAUGHT A GIRL HOW TO BE CONFIDENT AND STAND AGAINST WHAT'S WRONG NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS AS LONG AS YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT SIDE. I repeat again it is YOUR own fault if you got overobsessed, they didn't ask you to go on the dark side. Misuse and overobsession of ANYTHING and l reapt ANYTHING is wrong . And at the end l want to ask you an innocent question was YOUR faith in onece of Allah and Islam so weak that they were able to drag you away from your religion so easily? "THE FAULT IS IN THE ONE WHO BLAMES. SPIRIT SEES NOTHING TO CRITICISE"~RUMI Edit: l have been an army for 5 years and l still am and l still have the highest grades
Can't agree anymore. Totally best comment so far. I was hesitant in saying this. But you did it so well. I'm happiest person now. And really good at my studies and one of the most hardworking person. I started to love myself.
I am also an army... Or is mein fan ka qasoor hota hai k ktna ksi ki traf obsess hona hai.... BTS waln n ya ksi b kpop group n ksi ko yeh nae kha k hmaray peechay apni life chorr do...
Being obsess with anything is bad , its not their fault that they have destroyed her life . Liking and being obsess is very different and toxic too. Its about being mature and balanced.
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@OpenThisChannel how can you compare ALLAH and PROPHET with kpop. People who are mature and know how to balance can stan them. As i told being obsess and liking is very different but i think we should end this conversation because we mature kpop fan have always shamed and compare with toxic fans.
I want to stay respectful and say this. I, myself am an army, but the thing is i have set my boundaries. believe me, i've seen overly obsessed young 5-6 graders obsessing over them and calling bangtan boys as their husbands which is so so so wrong! being a fan is one thing, being addictive and toxic to them is another. what i want to conclude is, not every army [ i am not saying all ] is obsessive like this. also, i want to add one more thing. my father says, a thing becomes bad or good by the way we use it. for example, we can cut an apple with a knife, or cut our own throat. the choice is ours. the point is, BTS is not the problem here, it's us and our mindest.
I have been BTS army from past 6 months, and i believe this 6 months were a change for me they made me love myself more and they helped me becoming a better person. I was one of the most lowest ranking student in my class who even used to get failed and struggling with my studies a lot but ALHAMDULILLAH now it feels like i am just working hard for myself that struggle have become my hardwork and my ranking in class is much better than before, even my friends were in shock that how could i even become so passionate about my studies out of so sudden. I didn't know about LOVING MYSELF UNTIL I MET BTS. I HAD INSECURITIES ABOUT MYSELF BUT THEY HELPED ME FINISH THEM AND BECOME CONFIDENT ABOUT WHO I AM AND WHO I AM BECOMING. As you told that they made you feel like worshiping them so let me clear it, if your bond with ALLAH SWT is strong there is no power in existence wich can sperate you from him. And so far about my RELIGION so i have got more closer to MY ALLAH, which now that he has become like a friend of mine. They helped get more closer to my religion. I have no idea why is she even blaming her faults on them, and what is she gonna achieve by saying all this, it depends upon you how you mange your things and work. It is your fault to get over obsessive. I won't hate you and will respect your decision but you don't have any right to speak anything wrong about someone without knowing them or spreading false news about them. NO ONE IS BORN UGLY WE ARE JUST BORN IN A JUDGMENTAL SOCIETY. KIM NAMJOON this is said by one of the Bts member. You aren't ugly but you just over judged yourself. At the end i will just be saying that you might think that all these armies in comment box are standing for BTS because we are obsessed with them, but NO we just love them as our inspirations, and standing for people who made us love ourselves as we are. I hope sana you read this.
Yes your every sentence is right..there r negative and positive sides of evryone ...she choose the wrong side they never told us to hate our self ....its all her fault...now she is blaming them
Rm said: use us to love yourself not to hate yourself. He said that your body your skin colour doesn't matter. Girl i am also not perfect like bts but i Don't hate myself for it even i started loving myself more after finding bts in 2016. The girl telling this story became toxic,most of the toxic fans are darkening bts army. Just leave the fandom, simple. I am a Muslim army and i like their music, and i love them but no one is totally pure i mean who is totally restricted to music even those who hate bts listens to indian songs and never think about islam. My parents know that I'm a bts army. If I'm depressed i just listen to their songs as they comfort me. After listening to this i realised that this kind of toxic ex-fans are also here in pakistan. Let me tell you I don't skip prayer because of them, like this toxic ex-fan. I am still a BTS ARMY in 2022💜🙋🏻♀️
main studies chorny vali thi aur confidence bhi bilkul lose kar dia tha lekin phir mainy bts ko dekha aur un se mujhy boht motivation mili aur ab jab bhi kabhi confidence lose ho to bts se motivation milta hai .... because everything has positive and negative side... it depends on you to pick one... aur mainy positive side ko chose kia... aur rehi Islaam ki baat to BTS ne mujhy islaam se bilkul door nahi kia bilky BTS k liye dua karti hn k un ko bhi seedha rasta dekha....
This was needed to Open eyes of our young generation such as females, still I see some defending it. May Allah S.W.T have mercy on us. Ameen Jazak'Allah for the video
Hello Nimra...!!! I am not BTS army... but apki puri story suni h... I am a Dietitian... Beta diet ka mtlb ye ni h k ap starvation krein Din ka bs ek meal lein. Diet ka mtlb h healthy khana jo ap 6 times meals per day consume krein wo b thora thora zada ni ye diet hoti h Or physical activity b krein... Starvation kabhi b diet ka part ni h... Or ap abhi teenager ho. isi liye ap ko pta ni ho jati h mistakes but consultation b zarori h.. Ok dear
Hello....I'm not a dietitian....but aapki puri story parhi hai...Yahan Diet ki baat nahi ho rahi.....Yahan us kpop blah blah ki baat ho rahi hai which is taking us away from deen specially our young sisters. May Allah S.W.T have mercy on us. Ameen
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
I can feel her pain about overeating🥺 , anxiety ,depression and panic attacks issue , she is still suffering with many personality disorders. Stay blessed api ❤️ , hope I feel better soon
When I was a fan of BTS I remember I was little bit depressed in those days bila waja hi choti choti cheezon main stress HOTA tha and IT my study was also affected . Aur Lagta tha k BTS ko chorna Muskil hai and now thank Allah I left BTS
I left bts yesterday. Cuz i saw a video on RUclips about them and luckily i get out of it very easily. I was also very crazy about them but soon realized that i should do something which will help me also in this life and hereafter. Alhamdulillah i left this fandom
Good shukar ada karo Allah ka buhat Bus namaz parho sari Allah ko dost banao hamesha acha hota rahe ga aur sakoon bi mile ga ese fitno se bi bachi raho gi
@@mrprincezain alhamdulillah main bachpan c hi 5 waqt ki namazi ho but aik waqt k liye main bhatak gai thi phir jb realize hua k ye ghalat hai to main Allah c yhi dua krti thi k mri madad kry and then that video i saw aur m ny baghair soochy bts ko unfollow kr dia r unki sb pics r videos del kr di
18:20, depression is not that would be lift off just by visiting a doctor or like a knee pain, depression over obesity is normal in our world. In depression most of the people have thoughts of killing themselves(I had too and it was not because of BTS) 24:50, It just simple fact, you cannot just blame others for youe own mistakes. Influencers life is also not perfect, the things you see on camera are just made up, and people forgot to think about the facts that is it even real behind the camera. Kpop idols follows strict diets to be in shape. 26:15, As of 2024 there still has not been any case regarding a rape case agaist any BTS member. It's important to approach such topics with sensitivity and avoid spreading rumors or unsubstantiated claims without any proof unless you are judgemental. 26:58: Smoking cigerette is not good for anyone's health, but please keep in mind there are people in the world even in pakistan who drink alcohol, smoking is just a normal thing nowsadays, its not something that you will tell an influencers follower and he/she will stop following them. It just her hatred agaist BTS that led her to tell her friend all that crap 28:52, Her friend are girls after all, I have seen and had friends(female) who were prettier than a model on instagram but still they always come to college wearing a lot of make up. Most of the women are always insure about their beauty and this insecurity led to the invention of MAKE UP. In my experience, those girls just want to look more prettier than all other girls around them. The moral of this podcast should be focused on depression and the mental health not the obsession of BTS or Kpop, they are just like any other influencer nad they want to attract evreyone to them but only those who are weak gets caught in it. Amd if you think I wrote this whole essay because I am a hater of her and love BTS(first of all I dont care). These are just mere facts. Peace
Yeah it's great that she shared her story... But for me the story was fully opposite....my friend recommended their songs to me...But when I watched Love Yourself Speech at the UN by Namjoon... it helped me get out of depression...their lyrics and the way they comfort people is beyond anything...You shouldn't be addicted to anything...Always look at the positive side of everything... Last but not the least, they don't promote homosexuality... And the fandom is not at all toxic..Pakistan has a very small fandom here but still they organize free medical camps plus they donate alot... Just sharing my opinion...You can have your own opinion. Peace✌🏻
Why you guys don’t understand BTS say “love yourself” but they themselves don’t follow they are hypocrites. Why all of BTS member still starve themselves. They take supplements to support there weakened body.
As an army Myself don't be over obsessed with anything and I love BTS and respect them but I have my limit they are really good people and they made me smile when I was depressed I really appreciate them as an artist's and good people don't hate be kind...💕
@@meisumarmy7846 exactly but most of the armys encourage being overly obsessed culture You should know the members deeply otherwise you’re not true army if you don’t keep up with latest events etc But if you just like them like any other artist like sharukh khan you don’t watch his content daily neither you start fighting with someone who doesn’t like it neither you have goals to make him top artist by voting for him everywhere and neither you have goals of meeting him once in life He’s just an artist that you like but not too much But being obsessive is praised in bts army fandom and that’s what you need to avoid You have your life you should watch their content for your fun Not to make your life a depressing hell
Any person who knows that Islam is the only thing that's most important in a Muslim's life could never get obsessed with such lame things , Our ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT WE DON'T TAKE ISLAM SERIOUSLY, WE DON'T THINK DEEPLY ABOUT THIS WORLD FROM ISLAM'S PERSPECTIVE.
Yeah but the thing is we always start blaming others for our own mistakes just like nimra did and also I stan bts I am a diehard fan but does that make me a kaafir okay then but who are u decide it Being bts army doesn't mean I am not close to Allah who are u to judge this .I always pray to allah for their health and well being yeah they are non muslims but does that mean they will go to hell for it I mean we are just humans we know nothing about Him he can forgive anything so y make this world a hell and full of hatred and also thanks Allah for making me appreciate his art and the poetry the abilities and talents He has given people.Does that mean I am a kaafir I can't pray and will definitely go to hell .
@@hotcheetos119 Anyone who's doing shirk will go to jahannam that's it no mafi for them as said by many and I've heard it in so many bayans girl so chill m an army too so if you're praying for them do also pray for them to convert I mean what good then them converting to Islam and influencing such big amount of people along. And yes liking them is different but if a person has nothing else to about apart from BTS it's OBSESSION which I've seen so many people doing which is toxic @abidashahid
@@Death_wish0505 stanning bts doesn't make me a kaafir bro u also chill don't get blinded and think with the brain Allah has given u plz be positive learn to love 💜🙏
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Alhamdulillah I have also quit their fandom... I was BTS and Blankpink fan since 2017 ... And after 2 to 3 years I left music 🎶 ... May Allah give us all hidayah and steadfastness.. Aameen
hi guys ! i m also an army..and a top student and mostly a MUSLI this girl is literally saying everyone toxic but she herself is toxic we all are k-stanners we study we pray we gasve exams but never do anything like this its u who have to see either the positivity or negativity ....and this girl lit..just force herself on the negativity.... we recover our depression using kpop and all and this girl got depression lol 😃😃
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@OpenThisChannel well i wasnt and this girl telling us that she almost left Islam is he own fault not ours I know obsessive use of everything is dangerous and its ur own fault that u r obsessed control urself bruh
As an army being OBSESSED with someone too much is toxic..... There are always some LIMITS which you don't have to cross.... Being in your limits is best.....even tho I like BTS but I don't WORSHIP them.... It's so 😣😣listening to her when she told she WORSHIPPED them and forgot ISLAM..... It's good that she is not an ARMY anymore.... Let's be TRUE OK at first I was really ashamed of my body but now after finding them I am not anymore.... After that I thanked ALLAH to give me such a body as people don't have this body which I have..... It's just cuz if them I thank Allah about everything he gave me..... Alhumdulliah I am not so OBSESSED with them.... Even I decided to listen their acapella VER. I am trying to do so.... And trust it's more than original one..... I just hope Allah give them Hidayat... And make them Muslim AMEEN SU MAMEEN...Secondly blaming them / kpop is not the THING even they said don't be too OBSESSED with US people don't understand if you are too obsessed with them it's your OWN MISTAKE.... Not theres .....we all should know our limits.... PEACE✌
well it's true that kpop agencies and companies promote unrealistic beauty standards and teenage minds are very vulnerable. they get easily influenced. issi liya too khata hn apni suhbat axhi rakhni chahiya kiyu ka suhbat ap ko bohat influence karti ha without you even knowing.
I'm an ARMY and I love BTS but the first thing most important to me is my Islam, Allah سبحانه وتعالى, and Prophet Muhammad ﷺ their teachings. I balance every thing my studies, BTS, spending time with family, of course Islam together. ALLHAMDULILLAH 💜❤️ I gave my 9th exams caie and got A in two subjects and B in 3 subjects Mashalla while staning BTS. Please don't do this and balance every thing in your life, BTS is a influence, inspiration for me, they told me to love my self not to starve or loose weight. BTS Leader RM said: No matter who you are, where you from, your skin colour, gender identity, doesn't matter just speak for yourself and go ahead in your life, he also said you guys have to study hard or I'll shave your eyebrows 😅
It's so sad that how you are still trying make it sound as if it's halal to listen song or stan BTS or any other bands... Qur'an also mentioned that Allha loves you more than anything.. doesn't it matter??...and just a random guy saying made you all confident huh?!...Did you all forgot that Aap sallallahu alaihi wasallam was also the man who cried for you(all) 1400 yrs ago before any of us came...it didn't influence or inspired you... aren't we all are just hypocrites here
yes music takes us far from islam fr, Alhamdulillah i left music for good, my life became easy and happy since i focused on my deen and left everything which is bad.
Like how BTS made her hate herself, in fact they are pointing negative points that's not even true no one was pointing positive points Thier donations for black lives matter, speak yourself campaign, speech for anti Asian hate crimes,....
Yo! That's wierd u know. I'm an old army.and this girl nimra is actually a new army one of those toxic fan who just don't go in the real meanings. New army's gets obsessed very quickly. But yaar nimra ye apki apni ghalti thi. U know BTS ne meri bohat help ki hai. Unki wajah se me aur confident hui hu. Aur meri painting skills bohat achi bhi hui hain. Aur alhumdulillah allah se door bhi nhi hui hu.
Really sana api you don't even know that you have changed my mindset towards Islam so much you are really a role model for young Muslim girls More power to you sana api Keep up the good work and May Almighty Allah bless you with more health and success in life By the don't worry you will be 1 million soon 🥰 I also want to share my board exams story 😃
Im glad that Nimra found herself again. But IT WAS HER DECISION to pick the wrong side of kpop. Wtvr she said or felt was her own doing, no one is to be blamed for this! BTS STARTED A CAMPAIGN OF LOVE YOURSELF. They r always working hard to promote this as much as possible. They always respect all religions, colors, races, genders, body types, etc! THEIR WHOLE MASSAGE IS TO LOVE URSELF WTVR THE WAY U R! They PROMOTE SELF LOVE through lyrics, song, mv, interviews, etc, every way they can! BTS NEVER TOLD NIMRA TO START DIETING OR STOP FOCUSING ON STUDIES. They made a whole damn song where they call put their fans and ask them to prioritize studies over BTS content. They all are getting their masters degree while working hard as kpop idols ISN'T THIS PROMOTING STUDIES? Im sorry for wtvr Nimra had to go through, but she can't blame anyone for this!
@@ashmalkhan8841 jee hun. But ik how to balance deen duniya parhai etc. Im mature enough to realize everything has a good and a bad side, and it depends on me, what I chose to adopt. That's the whole point of the debate in comment section.
She is so young & so mature MaShaAllah Tabarakallah❤✨✨ saying this on a social media platform must have required alot of courage💛 you go girl proud of you🌝
I am army myself and I was really anticipating this podcast. First of all more power to Nimra such a strong girl jese apney apko usney depression say nikala and took it upon herself to fix her life it was truly inspirational to listen to it aur bht khushi hui that now she is doing good. Dua hay agey bhi ese rhey and 2nd it is true it's not just the fault of the fans companies artists ko ese present krti hein k log obsessed hojatey hein it is important k insan apni ankhein khuli rkhey aur dekhey k ghalat kya hay aur sahi kya. The way the artist is presented with an image and their perfect body it really affects you a lot and unfortunately mostly teenage fans are hit the hardest cuz they have vulnerable minds that easily get influenced. As Nimra and Sana both said you may like something but it is important k aap obsessed na hojao aur apney apko define hi us cheez say krney lag jao. There came a phase in my life too not too long ago where I found myself straying away from my own faith lekin Alhamdulillah Allah ne esi dost di hay she guided me to the right path now I am also trying to repair myself back and make efforts to understand my own religion more and I believe this podcast was yet another step for it. Thank you Sana and Nimra and especially Sana for always standing by what's right. The way you were encouraging Nimra and told her you were proud of her truly heartwarming to see. Bht achi podcast thi and I hope k fans galiya dene say zyada ghaur kr k batein suney aur sochein un par. Have a blessed day and lots of duas for both Sana and Nimra.
The problem here is 'you' and 'your' extreme level of obsession with them it's not them. Being an Army myself, I'm not a little bit of obsessed with them or did anything stupid to become like them because I'm happy the way I am. I've started to love myself more and even started to make myself a better person, I know my limits. It's all up to you so don't throw the blame for your doings on anyone else. They didn't tell you to lose weight or have a extreme level of obsession with them. Is your Iman too weak that anyone can affect it? Don't be obsessed with anything. know your limits and love yourself the way you are. It's okay if you left the fandom but Your thumbnail should not be this, You are literally Misleading others.
@@mahnoormalik9664 this is mahnoor you can't describe someone without knowing them actually she just asked views from someone who has left bts fandom but not from someone who is still part of bts fandom
I agree that in Kpop fans half of them are very toxic but not everyone....... And nimra your story motivated me to trun toxic and obsessed Kpop fans in to normal fans
The part where it is told that k-pop show beauty so people get influence by them it reminded me an anime "LOOKISM" were they show both world of beauty and unfit people
There are a lot of armys who have joined this fandom since 5,6,7 years but they are not obsessed it depends on you the way you control yourself because no one can control you better than yourself and If you see them as inspiration or how they struggled in their life you will never get obsessed with them It totally depends on yo how well you can control yourself.
BTS are supporters of LGBTQ how can you defend them on this aur please yaad rakhe ap jis ko support kare gi ap qayamat ke din unhi ke sath uthai jao gi
Now I listened to everything and the first thing I want to tell her that she was not bts army to begin with she was just influenced fan... no this statement is not toxic ..just bcoz she was so influenced that kinda started worshiping them.. we can't call her army .. to be army we respect every member of bts... love them in limit and also try to give other people positive influence... Also there is registration process of registered armies who are counted as army.. being in army fandom. Now about BTS .. I don't think they ever did bodyshaming to anyone .. now if you say you followed them and started dieting what if you have started toxic dieting to see Muslim artist?? Does our industry allow our artists to b fat?? Any insustry Hollywood, Bollywood?? And the things they promote ..you can't see positive influence?? They recently made a song for handicap people, permission to dance.. talk about it.. in their early songs they made so many songs on working on your dreams and study properly .. they talked about negative influence on students that society push them to do hard work.. they talk about negative obsession (not to b their stalkers) they talked about love yourself no matter how you look..she didn't listen to them?? I understand she was teenager and got obsessed .. obsession of everything is wrong even obsession for gaming is wrong so you start blaming the game? I am not a teenager I'm above 25 already .. I'm Army for four years .. I saw them respecting Muslim army even more..they even tried to learn arabic just to communicate with Muslim army better ... and lastly they are not there to give you religious influence ..they are working on society influences to make it positive .. Plz for religious guidance do follow religious people... they are not responsible for anyone getting bad influence.. every army or fan should know a limit and mostly that they don't know ..so don't put your life on stake for any celeb ..
Now about rumors she heard and started believing then .. dear there are hundreds of wrong rumors on them .. people use their name for clout .. hundreds of wrong dating history .. hundreds of anti videos... all of these things don't define them.. they are not entitled for every wrong rumor go out about them .. don't believe everything that goes out ... second we don't know them personally ..so keep your liking to a limit .. and most importantly they don't know you .. any fan personally ..they are not entitled about your behaviour.. your close people are .. and not everything their company shows , portray their true nature ...they need to b in industry and follow some rules to b in there ...
Exactly it totally depends on us that how are we getting influenced by someone or what we decide to do with our life.... Even I sometimes decides to do such diets when I saw my friends who are better than me.... then should I blame them....No.... cuz it's only on my mind and I'm the only one responsible for my thoughts and my doings~ Having crazy obsession isn't bts fault it's those toxic armies🙂
I used be a bts army and had the same situation . I always hated myself instead of loving myself . I lost confidence and got so insecure about myself so much . Always complained allah which i regret now but thanks to the almighty who took me out of this garbage . Alhumdulillah im much closer to Allah . Ur so right at this point
Ye bandiii keh rhi hai ke mujhe khud se nafratt ho gayii abeyyy behan wo humain apne ap se pyar karne ka kehte hain ye sara kuch apke apne mind ka haii khud ko control main rakho and stop hating anyone And They Say : Nafraton ke darwaze khud par band hi rakhna
I kinda stan them but not overly obsess with them. GIRL I'M YOU FOUND YOUR RIGHT WAY AND HAPPINESS. But blaming kpop is so absurb and many fandoms speak out about their toxic diets and beauty culture. They went through all this and we pity them. just be happy and healthy too💜✨️
Yep same . I am also an army and k Pop stan also but this means isn't that I'm depressed cuz I watch them , it depends on a person , if they're being too much obsessed with them so it's their own mistake!❤️
@@fizzakhan7855 When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@fizzakhan7855 you have a valid point to some extent but for the time being that I have been in the kpop world I have noticed this thing that as much as the fans become obsessed and ruin their selves, to some extent the groups and companies are also at fault. The marketing and the way everything is presented with a perfect clean image it can mess with people's mind. The artists are presented in such a way that they are always available to the fans so even if one tries to not be obsessed, one does get invested at some point. I am not sending any hate to kpop but this is just an observation k esa hota hay. Especially in today's world with capitalism at its peak strategies ese chal rhi hein that people are obligated to fall victims to such tendencies. It would not have been so toxic if the artists were presented as humans but they are rather available commodities always at your disposal isi liye bht say log obsessed hojatey hein. Khair I hope more and more people open their eyes to this particular commodity culture of kpop industry and realize that they are being used as consumers by the kpop companies for their own gain and money. PS no hate to any group just expressing an opinion on the mechanisms of the kpop world.
BTS didn't make you hate your body. You did it on your own! Nobody forced you to loose weight. BTS has used their platform to spread positivity and encouragement. If you have loved them for their looks and perfections then its your fault. JUST DON'T BLAME YOUR MISTAKES ON OTHERS
with positive sides..there are negative sides...that is why BALANCE is the most important thing in life....and the addiction and obession with anything is toxic.. and watching some other idols and wanted to become like them is most destructive...i am also an fan of kpop but to a limited extend, and i am a fan of kpop for 7 8 years but i didnt let them change my life style..so balance is very important in life....
@@umairbinzahid6225 broo in which century are you living? Editors can edit your picture with someone you've never seen and so what if they are dating!!? They are adults they can date anyone they want
@@milliesh284 OMGGG!!! They are humans too 😒 and its not like they're the first one to do that And yeah search before you say something This word “ rumors " exists
Every one here who's saying that it's her fault to get obsessed with them are literally victim blaming her. Try to research a little bit about how these entertainment companies influence their audience into obsessing over these so called ‘idols'.
Here is Pul Siraat channel : ruclips.net/user/PulSiraat
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API in BTS k bare m bolen
This was needed to Open eyes of our young generation such as females, still I see some defending it. May Allah S.W.T have mercy on us. Ameen
Jazak'Allah for the video
I'm a BTS ARMY. BTS really helped me out in my life. After Allah they were the only source of my happiness. BTS conveys the message that you should love yourself more than anyone else,they are also a source of motivation for us. Being a Muslim our first and foremost priority is Islam and then anyone else ok I hope that you understand that Not everyone is mentally ill like this girl.💜
Sana please don't be afraid of these foolish people who has lost their minds I'm proud of you
Over-obsession with anything is toxic,people should consider moderation
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@OpenThisChannel
Right,well said
Exactly
Exactly. I'm also a porn addict. I tried to comit suicide 13 times. Still have those thoughts, the girl I love can never be mine. That thought is killing me. Then I don't have enough money to support Flood Victims, Palestinians, Syrians, Cancer Patients, all others who need help in short. I mean I really want to do this all but her by my side. Plz dear brother and sister, give me some hope. Or give my parents condolences after my departure
@@abdullahasif3894 whatever happens to you please dont do this is this life is not going well than what you are doing will cause you more damage and life after that will be hell
Please dont do this
If you are having suicidal thoughts consult a psychatrist
Im also an ex army i was also like this girl now i got my Allah ♥️☺️
BRUHHHH. ARE YOU REALLY A BOY? You guys do really weird stuff no cap xd
Good bro..may Allah bless u
Same me
@@seizedhealer7166 hasnain got no chill lmao
@@seizedhealer7166 u wanna check that im boy or not??? 🙅
I've been a BTS army since 2020. And I'm a Muslim. They never forced me to stop praying and I've never wanted to become a kpop idol. They are like nice internet friends to me.
Rahi baat V ki cigarette smoking ki, toh wo deepfaked video thi. Jungkook actual mein smoke karta hai and Yoongi ne ek music video mein smoke ki but it never made me think or wish ke mein bhi smoke karu.
Some fans get extremely obsessed aur phir naam unka badnaam hota hai. They don't see the good side of BTS. Agar influence bura hota to wo terr*rism, dr*gs, womenizing pe campaigns chalate naake "love youself" or "love myself" pe.
+ I'm 19 y/o and I have friends 25+ y/o and my aunties 40+ y/o who like bts (but don't worship)
Why do Muslims need BTS, K pop or any other musicians to motivate themselves when there's Holy Quran.
This happens when you start to love everything beyond its limit every thing has a limit
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@OpenThisChannel yes we should not make anyone else Allah our priorities
@@OpenThisChannel IKR. BTS kpop blah blah is just pulling you away from deen.
And broooo best limit is islam
@@yoonseun 💯
Only solution to this problem which i figured out after being a bts fanboy is when you feel you are being obsessed than immediately stop watching bts and cut them from your life. Do this and the addiction will go away and you will be normal again. The kpop industry is made in such a way to make you addicted to them. They are addictive just like alcohol, gaming , tiktok etc addictions, just a different form of addiction.
besides the fact that Sana and Nimra revealed can we just appreciate how Nimra realized that she was wrong and put focus on her belief and religion and ask for Hiyadah at such a young age?
Yes I’m so proud. 😭
@@yoonseun is she Nimra asad??
@@ShahidHussain-vl6qs nah
Finally , someone raised awareness. This is a serious issue. Over-obsession with anything in this world is not good for your mental and physical health . But one thing is important here that never did she (the guest) mentioned anything about worshipping them or anything. And it is the her ( guest's) problem that she was over-obsessed with BTS. I'm not an army or anything but your thumbnail and title was just so you could attract more viewers .
Absolutely Right
IKR. I used to be such a HARDCORE fan. But I’ve realized now. There just waste of time. They pull you away from Allah.
Yeah people really need to figure out their priorities like I would always turn off my music (BTS or not) when it's time for Azan if I'm listening to them at that time of the day. I would never chose BTS over my religion..and BTS themselves said that "use us to love yourself" so the fact she hated herself literally says otherwise. Yes I would love to be slim and fit like kpop girls but BTS has nothing to do with that.
@@amal_creates26 your on point tho
@@amal_creates26 you're right!
I was a crazy toxic pagal army
Now mashallah I remove them from my life,
I don't understand the people having surgery faces, teach us how u love yourself🙂
Umm i am also an ex army but you gotta agree they do not have plastic surgery😂
@@abeeharashid7864 ya they absolutely have😂✌🏻
@@ayesja_art6332 ok every one has their own opinion but here you are talking without proof.If you were a toxic pagal army then you must have seen their pics from teenage and childhood and dont lie they look the same😒😂
@@abeeharashid7864 ya I'm actually talking on the behalf of their childhood pic having big nose smallest eyes and the look now they have is completely the result of surgeries mashallah
I can't believe how blind such armies are😂 its OK Allah give everyone hadayat🤧
@@ayesja_art6332 whattt??? You said you are an ex army but have a video about bts on your page on which you have written “who is bts army💜”Astagfirullah you yse bts for views😂😂😂😂
18:18 I Wanna Say Here, I'd Deep Depression & Anxiety Once. I'd Suffered A Lot, But When I Started Pray The Tahajjud Salah Daily.. My Life Just Changed 😇. Now I Feel Like Allah SWT Is My Best Friend, I Make Dua Not In Way Other People Does. I Just Started Talking To Allah SWT, It's Like A Conversation To Me. However, I Recommend Everyone To Try This And Also Try Reading Quran With Translation Cuz It Also Helped Me A Lot 🤗🖤
Bohat acha comment hai apka. MASHA ALLAH ❤️
jzkallah... i think i also leave bts cause of tajjuad .......
You are licky dearrrr 😍😍😍😍😍 i wannna too but i can't 😔😔😔 allah will guidance me inshallah make dua for me
I wanna be Allah's friend but though I am not obsessed with music i don't enjoy my prayers
As an army, i totally agree with it and appreciate it. You shouldn't be obsessed with anything whether is kpop, western or eastern singers, celebrities, influencer anyone. Alhumdulillah I'm not obsessed with them. Your first priority is always should be islam, second yourself and then other. Accept yourself the way you are. And if you are feeling you are getting obsessed with something stop doing that and take a break. Society will never let you live in any condition. In kpop too, the company forces the idols to diet, to have surgeries, and people so judge them too and body shame them for being skinny. So, moral of the story is never get obsessed with something, love yourself and don't care about the society. Only care about Allah and yourself. Allah ko razi karo aur apna apko.
Yeah man kpop is shit
U r right, ur first priority should always be Islam. But music n Islam can't stay together
@@soniatauhid4078 you are absolutely right. But if you are not listening to kpop then you should also not listen to any other songs from any language, any country from any artist ( I'm saying to this everyone including myself )
FINALLY A sensible comment 👏
@@ZohaibAhmedZA10 mine ?
For all them minors who blame her for HER obssession:
1. Entertainment industry invests heavily on how to gather more and more audience. So they always find ways so that people can obssess behind them and they get more audience and hence more money. Same is the case for bts.
2. People tend to follow influencers, and when these guys already know that they are influencers, their negativity can influence people negatively.
As an army and a kpop fan myself i am sooooo glad that she found herself and got out of it, we all should always know our limits to follow certain things, kpop is a music genre that is enjoyable like other music genres but seeing people overly obsessing over the artists and making the fandom their whole personality makes me really uncomfortable to see, i hope every fandom in this world recognise the difference between liking something and being a fan to overly obsessing over something at a point where it is negative to our both physical and mental health
Luv enjoying music is the red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩 be of any genre
@@Death_wish0505ok get lost
Bruh your words hit hard🥺🥺 well said
Let's appreciate for those who are not army including me😂
Present 🙂😂
Helloo 👋🤭
Yes 👍😂
Pregnant ✋
i am also not army i am a blink
as being a fan of txt enhypen, starykids, seventeen, le sserafim, &team and bts i would say that being to much obsessed with them is WRONG
im a kpop fan since 2020 and i still am, i love them all but not too much. allhamdullilah i pray 5 times a day and recite quran everyday. i am fat but i never feel that i should lose some weight
and lemme clear im not against sana and i appreciate her for this video bcz people can know that being hell obsessed with some one is wrong
plus I dont have a best friend and sometimes i feel sad but whenever I watch them i feel good and laugh especially while watching txt enhypen and seventeen
Same here
I agree, my bestie is obsessed with them and I also feel bad for her she even made me use this dp😅
Don't worry you'll find a good friend very soon in Sha Allah
Lmao finally someone talked about the toxic fanbase culture. Bts and other kpop arent as bad at all but the toxic fans make it like those bands are the cure to world problems 💀. The korean industry is the most toxic ever. The superficial beauty, surgeries, abuse, suicides etc. Glamorizing all the stuff is just bad.
agreed bro.
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Exactly 💯
Agreed
@@OpenThisChannel exactly 👍🏼
Well i'am actually happy that you found your right path.
I know obsessing over something us not good and when your obssesion is something related to K pop. I'am an Amry and I stan other groups too. Every song have its own side negative/positive. I know that stanning them is not good thing and when you're obsessed with them.
I'am not being rude but,
I'am stanning them for too long and I want to say that they really changed my life. I don't like to say that they're my obssesion but they made me fell like a confident person. I'am not obsessed over them but I got inspiration from them. They made me realized that you have to be yourself and chase what you want to do in your life. And ofcourse no one thought bad about their future.
About blaming them you can't blame a band for it. About your grades so I think they have a song about this to tell you not to be obsessed with them.
"I'am here to save you, i'am here to ruin you" They have this line in that song which is telling us to stop being to so obsessed with them. The main fault is you chose them over your Islam or body. They have their negative and positive side too.
You can't blame a person beacuse they had change many lives into good.
But i'am happy about you being in Islam more.
I have been into kpop for the past 6 years and BTS was the first group who brought me into kpop. I used to be toxic and obsessed with them too, in 2023 i found Straykids, and in 2024, i found TXT and Enhypen, now I'm not the same like i used to be in past, I'm an Editor, i love to make fan edits, i love them and love to watch funny episodes, but my religion will always be my first priority, i never feel insecure or think about to go on diet to look pretty, I'm good in studying too and know my limits.
Hey fellow!
I don't usually make comments or reply to people on YT but just wanted to pop in here and let you know that IF the "fan edits" you're talking about are the ones including music, like the edits available on tiktok and insta, all those made using clips of idols, then those will be 'gunah-e-jariah' for you. What that means is that, you're posting it for people to see and even after your death, everytime a person will watch the video + hear the bgm, you'll get bad deeds. So yeah, that's all I wanted to let you know. I guess I'll leave the decision upto you :)
Also, please don't mind me, I didn't mean ANY offense and my intention was never to hook my nose in rather just wanted to guide you a lil and save you from getting bad deeds. I'm no molvi or anything lol but ig everyday is a chance for us to learn smth new and change ourselves for the better, right?
As an army , i know how to balance my religious activities as well as my education. I never let kpop to take over me. As there was bts song pied Piper in which they warned all armys about that obsession thing. They motivated me in a good way. That is the reason I follow them... I just wanted to say not every fan is this much obsessed. But if someone who is reading this comment is totally obsessed, please don't forget your religion for this....
wtf is an *army* like u guys cant even clean ur ass and call urselves army like bts stans are just toxic and biased for no reason supporting LGBTQ and forgetting the things which are shirk in islam
Yes you're right everything is good if they're in limits
you are right that's why i follow them they tell us to prioritize our studies and love ourselves first
@@life_with_yashal yeah I agree with you
This rubbish bts is against Islam.
Its so sad
*Learning Arabic for QURAN is difficult for us But googling korean for Songs is easy 💔*
What kind of life it would be if we die without knowing what Allah SWT sent towards us, for us in QURAN PAK💔
If music had the power to spread positivity no singer or musicians would have been commiting suicides 😓
Quran Samjhay Beghair Ganay ko defend karna, Is alarming 🤲🏻🌼💔
May Allah give us ability to set our priority straight. 🥺🤲🏻💛
Allah rahem karega. I hope they realize. My heart hurts to see such youngsters go through so much. I’m 13 and thank god I’m not into this
Allah hme hidayat pe rakhay. Ameen
@@PrestigiousUser ikr!
There is indeed something mysterious
Us Girls get crazy about singers more than actors 👀🤷♀️
This shows that music is a tool of shaytan 💔
Allah's love would take us to Jannah
No Singer or Idol's love would take us to Jannah 🌻🤲🏻🌼.
@@rumaylah_ranjha indeed ✨
Bro we should control ourselves rather then blaming BTS for what we did !
N You Should Not Take Side Of BTS!!
True
I'm happy to be in fandom not have insecurity and know my limits! Love yourself!!!!
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Chup ker oye
Touch grass once in your life
@Mehwish R AP jesay logon ka Kuch nahi ho sakta😒
@@writtingskills2736 same with you😏
Moral of the story↪ Love yourself (which is also the BTS United Nations Campaign) don't be obsessed with anyone!
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@OpenThisChannel we are not obsessed with anyone more than Allah and Our Prophet. They are superior and we know our limits!Alright
@@Pokch7173 exactly. My religion comes first.
@@TrusfratedMochi Exactly my religion come first if I like to listen any song (which I think everyone hears under this whole comment section could be rare for some people which is very good thing) so doesn't matter its Bollywood lollywood or kpop but every thing should be in limits I didn't said I want to become blackpink or anything else nor I'm insecure!
@@Pokch7173 me too. I do listen to music. I'm trying to limit myself. I do agree that mostly people in comment section do the same.
As an army I never dreamed of being this kind of obsessed with BTS or any other k pop group
I know how to manage my education and religion and In my opinion those who overthink their k pop obsession really need to be treated by someone to get out of that
🏆 here is your trophy for being a member of bts army
💵 and some cash so you can have your gender changed(LSGBTQ)
@@taimoor_mughal_1 thank you for the trophy
Btw I can give you some more cash to get a monkey brain for yourself
I really agree with you . If you can't differentiate between them then that's on you
About two years ago I started staning BTS. I used to listen them and watch them several times a day also I had a huge crush on Jin but then I realized that they are so much addictive and distracting so I limit watching them. Still I do watch them, I do listen their songs and I do like them but not as much as before. All I learned is over watching and obsession is dangerous whether it is of BTS or any other celebrity.
@Witty Witty 😂😂bts ka member hai
@Witty Witty Astaghfirullah what do you mean?
You’re story is same as mine. I was obsessed with them I only watched them on phone but I don’t use phone too much now
@Witty Witty jin is just first name
Kin seok jin is full name aur yeh bts ka member hai inki language mein ese hi naam hotay hain
You legit have a crush on a jin
I am very happy that many Muslim scholars and also many channel holders(Muslims) start to talk about side effects of k-pop. Its really really very addictive my elder sister was also an army before and due to her I was also attracted from bts but alhumdulliah she started to study Quran with translation and due to her I also able to leave this addictive music
My story is very similar to Nimra's When I was teenager around 16 17 year old I also used to hate myself I used to hate the way I looked, I remember i woke up every morning looked in the mirror and always criticized my body.... I also tried many ways to lose weight including intense exercise and very unhealthy and restricted diet. But I wasn't getting any positive results so I started overeating just to cope with my sadness... At that time I didn't realize where I was going, what was happening to me I had no idea but over the time I developed eating disorder and many health problems. No one noticed my condition same here I'm very good at hiding myself so I hide everything from everyone no body knew what I was going through.... Eventually I reached my breaking point I had enough of my self and I went to the state of depression I was still doing same diet and exercises but I wasn't expecting any results in short I was just torturing myself.
The only difference is that BTS helped me get out of this situation they really helped me to love myself and accept myself . After meeting BTS for the first time in my entire life I started loving myself for real. I stopped hating myself for being fat or For not having that ideal looking body.
Their lyrics really inspired me to start all over again and just be myself and love myself the way I am . I acknowledge the fact that everything have positive and negative effect. Even though BTS helped me to get out of the worst phase of myself BTS also had some negative effect on my life as well. And that was manly because of the obsession and addictiveness but with time I realize that this obsession is not good for me so I controlled myself.
Today I'm still BTS ARMY but I'm not obsessed with BTS anymore. And I'm happier than ever 💜
@Wajiha batool 👏👏
that wasnt negitive effect "OF BTS" that was negitive effect " OF YOUR OWN IMMATURITY" dont put your bulls!hit childish blame on bangtan
Yeah 🥺🥺! Well saidd
I'm glad this girl is doing good now MashaAllah💜 My best friend is K-pop stan since 2015! She is BTS fan! Well I got myself in some troubles years ago, I tried many things to cope my issue! And that problem is created by my own family! 8 months ago I was so done! Then I came towards BTS accidentally! i saw their run episodes! All those things gave me a next level relief! Started liking them!! I knew their struggles, their hard work! And that gave me motivation, yes I can do it! I can face my problem, and I can overcome it! I'm 27 now! Yes I listen some of their songs, but I'm more obsessed with their run episodes and daily basis activities! But I also become more religious, Now I don't skip my prayers! I feel myself more motivated and even I can present my things in a more better way! Teenagers do have hormonal issues! Puberty hits everybody differently! As our dear Kim Namjoon speaks! Speak yourself, love yourself! And I do same thing, I love myself, I love my religion more! I develop positive connection with Allah and my society! You can't blame singers or any other artist! Pehly to ye smjhy k yes we do have problems and we have to cope this
Same with me
Nimra is really brave to share her story with too much people...I pray to Allah to help me and those people who Stan a band but are in stress including myself ... May Allah help us to live a better life and be aware of things which aren't good for us ❤️
I am nota part of BTS band but is podcast ko sun ne k bad mujhy bht feel hua that how far i am from islam 😶😶😶 This podcast is not only about K pop but this podcast also teaches us to maintain our close relation from islam INSHALLAH from now i wil also try to maintain close relation with allah and islam💖💖
Yes very true I am not an army but I am very far from islam specially after my mothers death.
And this podcast is a motivation and inspiration for me May Allah guide me .
Ameen
@@fftitanzalim5887 Ameen....!!
@@saeed_plays30 JzakAllah.
I have been into kpop for the past 6 years and BTS was the first group who brought me into kpop . I have never felt like the band or kpop itself has ever made me hate my religion or hate myself , it indeed helped me to love myself more and to see their struggles and how far they have come do give us a spark of motivation. The thing is people get extremely obsessed which itself can be so toxic and everyone has a different eye for everything which plays a big role on how we all think.
We as a muslim should know that we have to take deen and duniya sath sath and should not focus on only one thing. We can't blame the band or kpop in general for our doings and our thinking.
It should be noted that true bts fans can never hate themselves because of bts. Instead we love ourselves 💜
💜💜 yes
@@Dark.sparkles yes that girl nimra was a over obsessed toxic fan she's not real army
100% true
like in my class , I have a friend who always listen to motivational speakers and the time I spent in studying, he spent in listening motivational speeches and when I complete my studies . He stills listen to motivational speeches , it’s good but spending this much time and he ends like now it’s time to sleep and I will start tomorrow. So , this over obsession is wrong , no matter what . And now see , I am a BTS ARMY , but I first complete my studies and than listen to BTS ARMY during cleaning my hostel room or on my way to buy dinner . Than , after Dinner , I stop music do some others things . Like , it’s up to me , what’s my first priority
@@Nfmmonster9 nimra is a smart girl who left simping for korean boys unlike you 💀💀
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH. You took a good step my sister, May Allah bless you and guide you to the truth.
King👑
Jazak'Allah
You cannot love something more than ALLAH and Prophet PBUH but you can love your parents and anything else
I have got nothing to say, but at 26:14 she is accusing bts of rape case. Girl I have searched the whole internet and didn't enough find a single article or even a rumor... either share the link about their rape case or give us an explanation.... I am asking on the behalf of army... It's okay if you don't like them anymore that's your choice but you can't accuse them.
She is talking about the burning sun
as an army myself , K-pop is definitely with both positive / negative sides ! it depends on us how we're handling it , when i started watching them it kinda made my grades down too but i noted that tried to work on myself , today i do watch them but in a limited way
Bro I also Love Kpop Songs but I Never Been a fan of Their Dressing and Girly Look .....Becuase Allah Made Us Men So its better to Act like them .....Changing the Nature is not a Choice
Why are you associating yourself with one’s who are opposing Islam by promoting homo6uality as a member of their army?
Hope so Allah guides you!
🏆 here is your trophy for being a member of bts army
💵 and some cash so you can have your gender changed(LSGBTQ)
Same ❤️
yess we love BTS and it isn't their fault, they made songs and speeches telling us to love ourselves but if nimra said it like this and she took the negative stuff it ain't our fault, not just BTS or kpop even if u watch a yt video you'd want to get stuff and face and body like the channel owner, same is the case with BTS u dont take positive stuff and get negative, BTS did nothing wrong to NIMRA they love army alottttt and try their hardest to make them love themselves
over obssesing over something is clearly wrong as a muslim we should know our limits as a muslim army i have never felt insecure about myself or about my religion bts also had start their self love campigne which benefited a lot of people and if u watch the history of bts its a great motivation they are respeectful toward every religion there were a lot of moments where they show respect toward islam and muslim fans ofcourse u should know how to be in limits as a muslim your faith on ur religion should be a first priority
Yes EXACTLY
They never say any religion wrong and they always show respect to every religion
Blkl...mein b yhi sb khna chah ri hon...ku k mein b bts ki apni personal cheezon yan life mein ni lati kbhi b...esa ni hua k mere pprz hain or mein bts dekhri hon
@@aymalabbas6503 promoting LGBT is insult to every religion
@@Fahad-gf1wx Huh?
Since when I promot LGBT? And insult other religion
All I was saying that they respect every religion furthermore it's on your own whether you want to leave your religion and become so obsessed with them or draw a border line between your religion and them
@@aymalabbas6503 I think he ment BTS supporting LGBTQ movment
I was going through depression they helped through their lyrics. It's just I never let myself get over obsessed with them. I got so close to my own religion because of Allah. We never blame something on someone it's our good or bad. This girl is seriously having over obsessiveness about it and she was severely insecure. Leave anyone or anything that makes you not yourself.
@Epoxy Resin they might be I don't know. I just appreciate their goodness and disapprove some of their ways. If we talk about industry,every industry is like that. Our own industry in Pakistan is no less than that what do you expect from them?
being gay
@Epoxy Resin u r right. We should just focus upon ourselves and people who we love. Pr yeh obsessed ho Jana ksi cheez sy bhi is really in your own control after Allah. Baqi Allah raham kry ga.
@Epoxy Resin I agree with you same happened to me but blaming it on someone and not recognizing your insecurities and mistakes is also not good.
@Epoxy Resin yeh toh law wala hisaab ho gea having equal but opposite reaction.
the thing is dont be obsessed with anything it will hurt you no one is responsible for your mental and physical health only yourself I am an army and I am blink ( blackpink stan ) kpop and kdrama also and alhamdullilah I am Muslim at first and i know some armies are toxic five fingers are not equal 🙂
Exactly
There are toxic people in every fandom even in blinks :(
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@guy there's a difference in being in love and Liking someone. But anyways Islam first
No you are not a muslim seeing bts is hram
It depends on you I am army from 2019 but it doesn't effect my studies at all neither it influenced my personality instead they make me little happy when I was very tired from daily life
BTS has detected 1000 of people from depression through love yourself program so don't say BTS make you change you yourself and influence like this
But it's good for you 🙂
I think you should also interview the current and normal army to know how BTS influence you in positive way 🙂
Agreed!
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Is se acha Quean paak parho Allah se dil lagao namaz parho islam ko positive lo phir dekhna ese kafiro se kabi bi impress ni ho gi
Ye kese nhi negative impact dal re musalman larkiyo pe ye thora khud socho ke musalman larkiya jo ke khud is kufriya fitne ki fan ho gayi hai aur koi unhe sachbdikhana chahe ke ye kufar hai to agee se lambe lambe paragraph likhti hain un ki himayat ke liye jab ke wo kufriya fitna hai to ab batao ke ager koi heart broken hai ya koi normal bi hai to wo larki bts ki ban kyu ban ri hai kaya wo Allah se mayous ho gayi hai ager nhi huwi to phir bts ko chor ke islam ki taraf aye 5 waqt namaz parhe Allah ko dost banaye phir bts jese fitne ki kisi ko zaroorat ki ho gi
@@mrprincezain you are right but they never force you ky tum unky fan bano or wh b is kadar toxic wh yahi kahty ky khud sy muhabbat kry or Pata hai ju khud sy muhabbat krta hai osy apny Allah sy khud ba khud muhabbat ho jati hai jisny osy bnaya... Wh insan musalman hi kesa ju apny eman ko control na kr sky sorry to say mai b kpop sunti ho lakin na mai ny kabhi chaha ky in jesa bano na kabhi bano alhumdulillah I wear abbaya and niqab or Alhumdulillah mai apny Allah sy hi sub sy zyada pyar krti ho.. hr cheez ki ak limit huti hai ap limits cross kro gy tw esa hi hoga...
@@eshairshad1057 bilkul sahi to kaha hai just ager song ko suna jaye wo to wese bi mana hai per aj kal sab sunte hain kaya keh sakte per just song sunana eak alag cheez hai is hud tak jo karta wo qabil e qubool to hai per aj kal ki musalman larkiya kese in ki hud se zayada fan hain ap khud dekh sakti ho ap kisi bi comment mai ja ke eak bar bol ke dekho ke bts sahi nhi hai just song sun lo phir bi per ese paglo ki tatha deewani na bano bus itna keh ke dekho ese ese jawab mile ge
I really like this idea of podcast where common people share their stories..something very new and fresh....one can learn so much from other people's experiences and it also helps you become more empathetic towards others and understand other people's perspective and situations....it kinda makes us more wise, understanding and empathetic....
First of all, being obsessed with ANYTHING is extremely toxic. I’m a kpop fan as well and I’ve been in BTS fandom for more than 5 years. There was a phase when I was obsessed too but not to the extent of compromising my religion for it. As Muslims, Islam should be above everything for us.
I still stan them but I know and still follow my boundaries.
Also, I need to clear something up. Sana mentioned that BTS promotes homosexuality etc. THEY DON’T. I’m not in denial or anything but fyi Korean culture is extremely conservative when it comes to such things, so please do some good research before assuming such things. People believe they support homosexuality because most of the fandom consists of western fans who project their ideals onto kpop and everyone knows how romanticised homosexuality is in western cultures.
P.S: I TOTALLY AGREE that kpop fandoms are very toxic and so are any other fandoms (Hollywood).
Even if they do support lgbt, its not our concern!!! They arent muslim to even start with
Well said👍🏻💜
NO YOU DONT. How are you referring that Hollywood fandom is toxic? btw no matter how hard you try to show that you are not obsessed and stuff but you cant deny the facts. I would not have replied but you literally mentioned Hollywood for no reason. The same thing you said to Sana. I will say the same to you (FIRST RESEARCH THEN COME UP WITH ACCUSATIONS)
@@seizedhealer7166 OMGGGG WE HAVE A HOLLYWOOD DEFENDER HERE!!! My condolences to your rotten brain!!
@@seizedhealer7166 why? All Hollywood movie fans/American music fans are extremely toxic. I’ve been part of many and have experienced it first hand. And why are you so triggered??? You are the one in denial here as I’m openly calling my own fandom toxic because I know it is. And also, referring to a fandom being toxic doesn’t mean I’m calling each and every individual in that fandom toxic so kindly chill!!
Excess of everything is bad ...
I'm also a BTS army girl I only like BTS and blackpink but I'm also bulky ....lekin may itni obsessed ni hu nimra nay un ki negative things catch ki hain ..is waja say inho nay galat kia ....lekin may nay aaj tak BTS ki waja say koi ulti harkat nahi ki Alhamdullilah..and I'm not a blind fan ...may un ki galat baat Kay baaray may unko hate bhi Karti hu .....
Kya ap ko BTS k religion ka pata hy?
Faida ni hai 😂baat woui a jati hai
Tum sab ka kch ni ho sakta un ko chor do to behter hai warna ye larki to ache se bata ri na dekh lena tum logo sath bi phir yehi hona
Wo hai hi bure to negative cheez hi dekhe ge na logo ka kaya hai acha ya bura ni deohte sir pe bhita lete hain aur ager bura bi ho to ignore kar dete ke pasand jo kar liya
@@mrprincezain bro may yahi keh rahi hu Kay dekhain positive or negative dono sides hoti hain ab ap pay depend karta hay Kay aap negative catch kartay ho ya positive....
May nay bataya hay Kay may blind fan nahi hu because jaha BTS galat hotay hain waha may un Kay khilaaf bhi nolti hu or Alhamdullilah aaj tak may nay kisi cheez Kay uper BTS ko priority nahi di ...
Alhamdullilah Islam , studies ,daily life may kabhi bhi kisi kaam ko chor Kay BTS ni dekha .....I love EDITING kid waja say may RUclips channel run Karti hu
@@mrprincezain hope so aa ko samjh aai ho
@@meerabtayyabot7 wo sab theek hai per mostly larkiya blindly fan hain bts ki eak hota hai na ke chalo song waghera hai new aya ya purana hai sun liya acha laga yaad bi kar liya ye sab bi mana hai per phir bi kisi hud tak theek hai utna bura ni hai per ab mostly larkiya esi hain ke bus un ko hi follow karri ager wesi ni ho to achi baat hai per maine dekhi hain na wesi larkiya tab hi to ese keh raha hoon na wo sab bts ko ese follow karti hain jese pata ni kaya ho aur buhat si esi bi dekhi hain jo kehti dil toot gaya koi sath ni tha to unhe dekhna shuru kiya to bus ab unhi se khushi aur ghami juri huwi hai aur bi buhat kch ye galat hai na
Ab ap ne bts ni chorna to ap pe hai hamara kam hai batana samjhana baki har insan pe depend karta hai per just song sunane ki hud tak theek hota per zayada tar hud se zayada age nikal jati hain ye gaalt hai na ap ko bi chahiye ke ap jaha bts ki muslim larkiyo ko dekhti ho at least unhe samjhao un ki help bi karo is se nikalne se song sunane waghera tak okay hai per ese blindly follow karna fan ho jana wo bi is hud tak sahi ni hai ap bi samaj gayi ho gi jo kehna chah ra
Namjoon(leader of BTS) once said, "Please use me. Please use us to love yourself. "
Bas kar de
But she took it in wrong way I think 🙂
Lanati BTS they are literally worse singer they don't get liked for their singing talent they get liked because of brainless girls If you wanna listen there are tons of brilliant singers like ZAYN DRAKE LIL NAS tons of others
@@Mehar_muneeb5 really? Lil nas? He worship shaitan.
This K POP is very dangerous.... no one tells u amount of cosmetic alterations these band members go through... no one will ever talk about the amount of depression they are going through... they aren't even allowed to have "relationships" and if any k pop artist's relationship comes to light he/she is frowned upon and sometimes even kicked out of the band
I'm also an ex-army. I left this fandom bcz of toxic fans.I am a BLINK. I was obsessed with kpop but now I don't watch kpop much.
I am a fan since 2020 but i know how to control myself.
That's my girl but it's depend on you not on anyone
Sameee
Same girl 🙁🙁
i used to be bts army too. but when Palestine issue arise and people around world were doing protest but at that time they (bts) didn't talk about Palestine because it was issue of Muslim. it means that black lives matter, white lives matter but Muslims lifes doesn't matter . this question make me leave bts fandom. Alhamdulillah it's been a year.
You are a blink 👽
Hi my name is Namra. I am also exbts army and blink. I also left kpop. Suddenly one dayI saw a bayan of a brother.And also on the other hand Rm the leader of the group disrespect Islam & support homosexuality. All my friend's used to talk alot about them so I searched what bala is BTS 😬. Alhamdullilah I leave K-pop at the correct time.
He don't disrespect Islam the song has double meaning look at the lyrics carefully and second homosexuality is not allowed in YOUR RELIGION he is not Muslim so why would he follow lslamic rules
I am watching K-dramas since 2016 and Alhamdulilah nd there is 0 obsession, I even take long or short break because obsession of everything is disaster, I have managed my studies my hobbies ☺️
I am a Bts fan myself first of all congrats that you fought your depression but bts influenced me in a good way knowing their struggle story i wanna work hard even more and also bts influenced me to be myself and to accept the way i am i gained alot of confidence but never got influence to lose weight it thought me ke aap jis body shape ke bhi its ok it my body now i am comfortable with my weight i also have a healthy body because before my parents use to say things abt my weight but now i am happy the way i am cuz no body is perfect we are just born in a judgemental society and i was not good at studies but this made me do hard work and allhandulillah i got better grades than any past grades and speaking of religion i never let my bts×army life intervene my religion i use to keep them separate or i can say somehow i am more close to my religion that before
Same but I have a question to these RUclipsrs that why they always make videos on toxic fans why not on toxic haters
Kya ho gya hai bts se influence hote ho quran se nhi kya quran ke deep meaning nhi?
in my opinion the problem is not Bts nor the kpop industry as they have many flows themselves.we can't blame others for the obssesion we created ourselves.being a fan of something is okay but if you have unhealthy obssesion with someone its your fault and u should take responsibilities for your own action.i have been a kpop and bts fan for 6 yrs personally i stopped thinking about suicide because of their influence and i am doing mentally good because of them. i am glad u did what is best for you . i am not obsessed with them and i am a fan with a healthy love for them so for me and for most Armys they are our idols we love and cherish for others they are the devils,addictions... so i am just saying
right . i am also a fan girl of BTS since 2 years . kuch log hote hain jo BTS ko apna pata nhi kiya kiya khate hain like V is my husband .bla bla ..or bhot zada hi obssesed ho jate hain .har chizz ko karne main ek limit hoti hai . Ap na sochte nahi hain bad main BTS ko blame krte hain ke us ki vaja se main apne ap ko hate karne lag gi .... uff hai yeah toxic army 😂😂😂
@@nafiasbucket5534 agree and I'm Black PINK fan
Bts tells u to love yourself and accept yourself as you already are. They never encourage to lose weight alot. It also comes upon us that how much we get obsessed. It's not their fault if we go out of our limits to be perfect cuz they never encourage such things.
Chlo bs bs beta bht hogya
sus.....
Agree tho. It's up to a person who gets Obsessed. I hated myself but after getting to know them i started loving myself. And people replying you back as toxic army. Funny... Ab bhook se khana or khud khatay rehna. Where is the fault of them? But I am happy you are ex army cause if you are getting negatively influenced by them then it's good to stop liking them.
@Svj M. they went through alot of depression themselves. They got bullied and were fat shamed but still try to spread positivity
@Junaid Adnan I'm not being toxic. I'm just saying it depends upon us how we treat ourselves. Getting overly obsessed with anything whether it's BTS or anything else is not healthy
Over obsession has nothing to do with bts ,any other artist ,streamer or youtuber. You mightn't believe this but bts brought me closer to my religion when l saw them praise ,respect and use kind words for my religion, l took a moment and thought THERE REALLY was something about my religion that they respected and appreciated it . Being a born muslim l was ashamed when a non muslim taught me why muslim women wear hijab.
Me who didn't even prayed ONCE a day now prayes five times a day along with recitation of the Holy Quran Allhamdulilah. And if you talk about depression my pious lady THEY HELPED me fight depression, THEY HELPED TO KNOW WHO I REALLY AM, THEY HELPED ME TO LOVE MY SELF AND LOVE EVERYTHING ABOUT IT, THEY TAUGHT A GIRL HOW TO BE CONFIDENT AND STAND AGAINST WHAT'S WRONG NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS AS LONG AS YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT SIDE.
I repeat again it is YOUR own fault if you got overobsessed, they didn't ask you to go on the dark side. Misuse and overobsession of ANYTHING and l reapt ANYTHING is wrong .
And at the end l want to ask you an innocent question was YOUR faith in onece of Allah and Islam so weak that they were able to drag you away from your religion so easily?
"THE FAULT IS IN THE ONE WHO BLAMES. SPIRIT SEES NOTHING TO CRITICISE"~RUMI
Edit: l have been an army for 5 years and l still am and l still have the highest grades
O meray bhai tumhe kisi kpop ny help nahi ki hr cheez Allah ky trf sy hoti
@@GOJOHOST0 ji bilkul magar us main unka bhi hath tha . I used to be shy and got bullied and they gave me courage. All thanks to them .....
Can't agree anymore. Totally best comment so far. I was hesitant in saying this. But you did it so well. I'm happiest person now. And really good at my studies and one of the most hardworking person. I started to love myself.
@@waniyahsheikh5492 well then l did it for you , what are siblings for 😊
@@UmaisABryar yes thank you.. agree tho! 🥰
I am also an army... Or is mein fan ka qasoor hota hai k ktna ksi ki traf obsess hona hai.... BTS waln n ya ksi b kpop group n ksi ko yeh nae kha k hmaray peechay apni life chorr do...
Balance is very important in your life. It's always in your hands how far you wanna go in anything.
Being obsess with anything is bad , its not their fault that they have destroyed her life . Liking and being obsess is very different and toxic too. Its about being mature and balanced.
Trueeee
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
True that
They case on our obsession
@@OpenThisChannel how can you compare ALLAH and PROPHET with kpop. People who are mature and know how to balance can stan them. As i told being obsess and liking is very different but i think we should end this conversation because we mature kpop fan have always shamed and compare with toxic fans.
I want to stay respectful and say this. I, myself am an army, but the thing is i have set my boundaries. believe me, i've seen overly obsessed young 5-6 graders obsessing over them and calling bangtan boys as their husbands which is so so so wrong! being a fan is one thing, being addictive and toxic to them is another. what i want to conclude is, not every army [ i am not saying all ] is obsessive like this. also, i want to add one more thing. my father says, a thing becomes bad or good by the way we use it. for example, we can cut an apple with a knife, or cut our own throat. the choice is ours. the point is, BTS is not the problem here, it's us and our mindest.
I have been BTS army from past 6 months, and i believe this 6 months were a change for me they made me love myself more and they helped me becoming a better person. I was one of the most lowest ranking student in my class who even used to get failed and struggling with my studies a lot but ALHAMDULILLAH now it feels like i am just working hard for myself that struggle have become my hardwork and my ranking in class is much better than before, even my friends were in shock that how could i even become so passionate about my studies out of so sudden. I didn't know about LOVING MYSELF UNTIL I MET BTS. I HAD INSECURITIES ABOUT MYSELF BUT THEY HELPED ME FINISH THEM AND BECOME CONFIDENT ABOUT WHO I AM AND WHO I AM BECOMING. As you told that they made you feel like worshiping them so let me clear it, if your bond with ALLAH SWT is strong there is no power in existence wich can sperate you from him. And so far about my RELIGION so i have got more closer to MY ALLAH, which now that he has become like a friend of mine. They helped get more closer to my religion.
I have no idea why is she even blaming her faults on them, and what is she gonna achieve by saying all this, it depends upon you how you mange your things and work. It is your fault to get over obsessive. I won't hate you and will respect your decision but you don't have any right to speak anything wrong about someone without knowing them or spreading false news about them.
NO ONE IS BORN UGLY WE ARE JUST BORN IN A JUDGMENTAL SOCIETY. KIM NAMJOON
this is said by one of the Bts member.
You aren't ugly but you just over judged yourself.
At the end i will just be saying that you might think
that all these armies in comment box are standing for BTS because we are obsessed with them, but NO we just love them as our inspirations, and standing for people who made us love ourselves as we are.
I hope sana you read this.
Yes your every sentence is right..there r negative and positive sides of evryone ...she choose the wrong side they never told us to hate our self ....its all her fault...now she is blaming them
@@laibamalik7450 thank you
it really means when someone supports you.
Exactly i am totally agreed with you. They also changed me. And I'm so grateful of them.
@Epoxy Resin Allah is in the heart of every Muslim ..nobody can remove ....Alhumdulillah 💜
@Epoxy Resin muhabat nhe kr rhe kisne kaha h?i know they r non muslims
Rm said: use us to love yourself not to hate yourself.
He said that your body your skin colour doesn't matter.
Girl i am also not perfect like bts but i Don't hate myself for it even i started loving myself more after finding bts in 2016.
The girl telling this story became toxic,most of the toxic fans are darkening bts army. Just leave the fandom, simple.
I am a Muslim army and i like their music, and i love them but no one is totally pure i mean who is totally restricted to music even those who hate bts listens to indian songs and never think about islam.
My parents know that I'm a bts army.
If I'm depressed i just listen to their songs as they comfort me.
After listening to this i realised that this kind of toxic ex-fans are also here in pakistan.
Let me tell you I don't skip prayer because of them, like this toxic ex-fan.
I am still a BTS ARMY in 2022💜🙋🏻♀️
Agree💜💯💯
Agree!! So true...
agree
👍
same here....
main studies chorny vali thi aur confidence bhi bilkul lose kar dia tha lekin phir mainy bts ko dekha aur un se mujhy boht motivation mili aur ab jab bhi kabhi confidence lose ho to bts se motivation milta hai ....
because everything has positive and negative side... it depends on you to pick one... aur mainy positive side ko chose kia...
aur rehi Islaam ki baat to BTS ne mujhy islaam se bilkul door nahi kia bilky BTS k liye dua karti hn k un ko bhi seedha rasta dekha....
This was needed to Open eyes of our young generation such as females, still I see some defending it. May Allah S.W.T have mercy on us. Ameen
Jazak'Allah for the video
Yes you are right absolutely ☺️☺️☺️
...Ameen
Hello Nimra...!!! I am not BTS army... but apki puri story suni h... I am a Dietitian... Beta diet ka mtlb ye ni h k ap starvation krein Din ka bs ek meal lein. Diet ka mtlb h healthy khana jo ap 6 times meals per day consume krein wo b thora thora zada ni ye diet hoti h Or physical activity b krein... Starvation kabhi b diet ka part ni h... Or ap abhi teenager ho. isi liye ap ko pta ni ho jati h mistakes but consultation b zarori h.. Ok dear
I want to consult you for weigh gain
Hello....I'm not a dietitian....but aapki puri story parhi hai...Yahan Diet ki baat nahi ho rahi.....Yahan us kpop blah blah ki baat ho rahi hai which is taking us away from deen specially our young sisters. May Allah S.W.T have mercy on us. Ameen
I truely support you !
I'm so glad that I'm not an army but there was time i was into these things but now alhamdulillah im out of this!
MORAL OF THE STORY : SET YOUR PRIORITIES BUT DON'T HATE ANYONE
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
Apne matlab ka khud se he moral of story bana liya? Bhai wahhh
I can feel her pain about overeating🥺 , anxiety ,depression and panic attacks issue , she is still suffering with many personality disorders. Stay blessed api ❤️ , hope I feel better soon
When I was a fan of BTS I remember I was little bit depressed in those days bila waja hi choti choti cheezon main stress HOTA tha and IT my study was also affected . Aur Lagta tha k BTS ko chorna Muskil hai and now thank Allah I left BTS
I left bts yesterday. Cuz i saw a video on RUclips about them and luckily i get out of it very easily. I was also very crazy about them but soon realized that i should do something which will help me also in this life and hereafter. Alhamdulillah i left this fandom
What was in the video??
Which video
Good shukar ada karo Allah ka buhat
Bus namaz parho sari Allah ko dost banao hamesha acha hota rahe ga aur sakoon bi mile ga ese fitno se bi bachi raho gi
@@mina-7751 the video was bts kpop and islam by youth club it really helped me alot
@@mrprincezain alhamdulillah main bachpan c hi 5 waqt ki namazi ho but aik waqt k liye main bhatak gai thi phir jb realize hua k ye ghalat hai to main Allah c yhi dua krti thi k mri madad kry and then that video i saw aur m ny baghair soochy bts ko unfollow kr dia r unki sb pics r videos del kr di
Yeh vidio tamam bts army Tak pohanchni chahiye best podcast ever.
18:20, depression is not that would be lift off just by visiting a doctor or like a knee pain, depression over obesity is normal in our world. In depression most of the people have thoughts of killing themselves(I had too and it was not because of BTS)
24:50, It just simple fact, you cannot just blame others for youe own mistakes. Influencers life is also not perfect, the things you see on camera are just made up, and people forgot to think about the facts that is it even real behind the camera. Kpop idols follows strict diets to be in shape.
26:15, As of 2024 there still has not been any case regarding a rape case agaist any BTS member. It's important to approach such topics with sensitivity and avoid spreading rumors or unsubstantiated claims without any proof unless you are judgemental.
26:58: Smoking cigerette is not good for anyone's health, but please keep in mind there are people in the world even in pakistan who drink alcohol, smoking is just a normal thing nowsadays, its not something that you will tell an influencers follower and he/she will stop following them. It just her hatred agaist BTS that led her to tell her friend all that crap
28:52, Her friend are girls after all, I have seen and had friends(female) who were prettier than a model on instagram but still they always come to college wearing a lot of make up. Most of the women are always insure about their beauty and this insecurity led to the invention of MAKE UP. In my experience, those girls just want to look more prettier than all other girls around them.
The moral of this podcast should be focused on depression and the mental health not the obsession of BTS or Kpop, they are just like any other influencer nad they want to attract evreyone to them but only those who are weak gets caught in it.
Amd if you think I wrote this whole essay because I am a hater of her and love BTS(first of all I dont care). These are just mere facts.
Peace
Yeah it's great that she shared her story... But for me the story was fully opposite....my friend recommended their songs to me...But when I watched Love Yourself Speech at the UN by Namjoon... it helped me get out of depression...their lyrics and the way they comfort people is beyond anything...You shouldn't be addicted to anything...Always look at the positive side of everything...
Last but not the least, they don't promote homosexuality... And the fandom is not at all toxic..Pakistan has a very small fandom here but still they organize free medical camps plus they donate alot...
Just sharing my opinion...You can have your own opinion.
Peace✌🏻
Yep bts don't support homosexuailty
Yeah love yourself campaign also helped me
Exactly people just like to take BTS name and get views
I agree
Why you guys don’t understand BTS say “love yourself” but they themselves don’t follow they are hypocrites. Why all of BTS member still starve themselves. They take supplements to support there weakened body.
As an army Myself don't be over obsessed with anything and I love BTS and respect them but I have my limit they are really good people and they made me smile when I was depressed I really appreciate them as an artist's and good people don't hate be kind...💕
Yeah that's the point
thats the thing i am trying to explain toxic army
100% same
yeah , still i am also against toxic level of ARMY but still just be normal yarrr
@@meisumarmy7846 exactly but most of the armys encourage being overly obsessed culture
You should know the members deeply otherwise you’re not true army if you don’t keep up with latest events etc
But if you just like them like any other artist like sharukh khan you don’t watch his content daily neither you start fighting with someone who doesn’t like it neither you have goals to make him top artist by voting for him everywhere and neither you have goals of meeting him once in life
He’s just an artist that you like but not too much
But being obsessive is praised in bts army fandom and that’s what you need to avoid
You have your life you should watch their content for your fun
Not to make your life a depressing hell
How do you justify their support for LGBTQ??
People who blindly follow these bands will never accept the fact that they cannot tolerate any criticism against their idols no matter what
If the critism is valid then do come but if you are only bluffing then you better know
@@bakhtawarkhalid3070 see what you're doing first
Any person who knows that Islam is the only thing that's most important in a Muslim's life could never get obsessed with such lame things , Our ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT WE DON'T TAKE ISLAM SERIOUSLY, WE DON'T THINK DEEPLY ABOUT THIS WORLD FROM ISLAM'S PERSPECTIVE.
Right
Yeah but the thing is we always start blaming others for our own mistakes just like nimra did and also I stan bts I am a diehard fan but does that make me a kaafir okay then but who are u decide it Being bts army doesn't mean I am not close to Allah who are u to judge this .I always pray to allah for their health and well being yeah they are non muslims but does that mean they will go to hell for it I mean we are just humans we know nothing about Him he can forgive anything so y make this world a hell and full of hatred and also thanks Allah for making me appreciate his art and the poetry the abilities and talents He has given people.Does that mean I am a kaafir I can't pray and will definitely go to hell .
@@hotcheetos119 Anyone who's doing shirk will go to jahannam that's it no mafi for them as said by many and I've heard it in so many bayans girl so chill m an army too so if you're praying for them do also pray for them to convert I mean what good then them converting to Islam and influencing such big amount of people along. And yes liking them is different but if a person has nothing else to about apart from BTS it's OBSESSION which I've seen so many people doing which is toxic @abidashahid
@@hotcheetos119 exactly
@@Death_wish0505 stanning bts doesn't make me a kaafir bro u also chill don't get blinded and think with the brain Allah has given u plz be positive learn to love 💜🙏
I also do listen to kpop but in limits
Not being too obsessive. Everything should be in limits
Not like worshipping it's actually too much lol
your dp says everything xD
💯
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
agreed
@@OpenThisChannel king 👑
Alhamdulillah I have also quit their fandom...
I was BTS and Blankpink fan since 2017 ... And after 2 to 3 years I left music 🎶 ...
May Allah give us all hidayah and steadfastness.. Aameen
hi guys !
i m also an army..and a top student and mostly a MUSLI
this girl is literally saying everyone toxic but she herself is toxic we all are k-stanners
we study we pray we gasve exams but never do anything like this
its u who have to see either the positivity or negativity ....and this girl lit..just force herself on the negativity....
we recover our depression using kpop and all and this girl got depression lol 😃😃
Lol
Fr lol
lol get a life.
When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@OpenThisChannel well i wasnt and this girl telling us that she almost left Islam is he own fault not ours I know obsessive use of everything is dangerous and its ur own fault that u r obsessed control urself bruh
As an army being OBSESSED with someone too much is toxic..... There are always some LIMITS which you don't have to cross.... Being in your limits is best.....even tho I like BTS but I don't WORSHIP them.... It's so 😣😣listening to her when she told she WORSHIPPED them and forgot ISLAM..... It's good that she is not an ARMY anymore.... Let's be TRUE OK at first I was really ashamed of my body but now after finding them I am not anymore.... After that I thanked ALLAH to give me such a body as people don't have this body which I have..... It's just cuz if them I thank Allah about everything he gave me..... Alhumdulliah I am not so OBSESSED with them.... Even I decided to listen their acapella VER. I am trying to do so.... And trust it's more than original one..... I just hope Allah give them Hidayat... And make them Muslim AMEEN SU MAMEEN...Secondly blaming them / kpop is not the THING even they said don't be too OBSESSED with US people don't understand if you are too obsessed with them it's your OWN MISTAKE.... Not theres .....we all should know our limits.... PEACE✌
Agree 💯
Finally someone with sense
Totally agreed even I pray for them to convert like just imagine the influence they'll have on this big army that'll be crazy 🥺
@@nimrarashid552 😁
well it's true that kpop agencies and companies promote unrealistic beauty standards and teenage minds are very vulnerable. they get easily influenced. issi liya too khata hn apni suhbat axhi rakhni chahiya kiyu ka suhbat ap ko bohat influence karti ha without you even knowing.
i'm so glad that she got out of it and worked on herself. so brave of her to speak up about all this
I'm an ARMY and I love BTS but the first thing most important to me is my Islam, Allah سبحانه وتعالى, and Prophet Muhammad ﷺ their teachings. I balance every thing my studies, BTS, spending time with family, of course Islam together. ALLHAMDULILLAH 💜❤️
I gave my 9th exams caie and got A in two subjects and B in 3 subjects Mashalla while staning BTS. Please don't do this and balance every thing in your life, BTS is a influence, inspiration for me, they told me to love my self not to starve or loose weight. BTS Leader RM said: No matter who you are, where you from, your skin colour, gender identity, doesn't matter just speak for yourself and go ahead in your life, he also said you guys have to study hard or I'll shave your eyebrows 😅
It's so sad that how you are still trying make it sound as if it's halal to listen song or stan BTS or any other bands... Qur'an also mentioned that Allha loves you more than anything.. doesn't it matter??...and just a random guy saying made you all confident huh?!...Did you all forgot that Aap sallallahu alaihi wasallam was also the man who cried for you(all) 1400 yrs ago before any of us came...it didn't influence or inspired you... aren't we all are just hypocrites here
yes music takes us far from islam fr, Alhamdulillah i left music for good, my life became easy and happy since i focused on my deen and left everything which is bad.
Only bcz of one person You can't tell That everyone is like this .It's her journey,you can't blame Bts and Others.
She isn’t blaming anyone
Like how BTS made her hate herself, in fact they are pointing negative points that's not even true no one was pointing positive points Thier donations for black lives matter, speak yourself campaign, speech for anti Asian hate crimes,....
Yo! That's wierd u know.
I'm an old army.and this girl nimra is actually a new army one of those toxic fan who just don't go in the real meanings.
New army's gets obsessed very quickly.
But yaar nimra ye apki apni ghalti thi.
U know BTS ne meri bohat help ki hai. Unki wajah se me aur confident hui hu. Aur meri painting skills bohat achi bhi hui hain.
Aur alhumdulillah allah se door bhi nhi hui hu.
Exactly
Really sana api you don't even know that you have changed my mindset towards Islam so much you are really a role model for young Muslim girls
More power to you sana api
Keep up the good work and May Almighty Allah bless you with more health and success in life
By the don't worry you will be 1 million soon 🥰
I also want to share my board exams story 😃
Im glad that Nimra found herself again. But IT WAS HER DECISION to pick the wrong side of kpop. Wtvr she said or felt was her own doing, no one is to be blamed for this!
BTS STARTED A CAMPAIGN OF LOVE YOURSELF. They r always working hard to promote this as much as possible. They always respect all religions, colors, races, genders, body types, etc! THEIR WHOLE MASSAGE IS TO LOVE URSELF WTVR THE WAY U R!
They PROMOTE SELF LOVE through lyrics, song, mv, interviews, etc, every way they can!
BTS NEVER TOLD NIMRA TO START DIETING OR STOP FOCUSING ON STUDIES. They made a whole damn song where they call put their fans and ask them to prioritize studies over BTS content. They all are getting their masters degree while working hard as kpop idols ISN'T THIS PROMOTING STUDIES?
Im sorry for wtvr Nimra had to go through, but she can't blame anyone for this!
jitna time ap ne surf kia comments krny main lgta hy ap bhi bts army hen
@@ashmalkhan8841 jee hun. But ik how to balance deen duniya parhai etc. Im mature enough to realize everything has a good and a bad side, and it depends on me, what I chose to adopt. That's the whole point of the debate in comment section.
Thank God Kisi ko aqal hai .
here comes a paid troll to defend kafir pro lgbt bts
She is so young & so mature MaShaAllah Tabarakallah❤✨✨ saying this on a social media platform must have required alot of courage💛 you go girl proud of you🌝
I am army myself and I was really anticipating this podcast. First of all more power to Nimra such a strong girl jese apney apko usney depression say nikala and took it upon herself to fix her life it was truly inspirational to listen to it aur bht khushi hui that now she is doing good. Dua hay agey bhi ese rhey and 2nd it is true it's not just the fault of the fans companies artists ko ese present krti hein k log obsessed hojatey hein it is important k insan apni ankhein khuli rkhey aur dekhey k ghalat kya hay aur sahi kya. The way the artist is presented with an image and their perfect body it really affects you a lot and unfortunately mostly teenage fans are hit the hardest cuz they have vulnerable minds that easily get influenced. As Nimra and Sana both said you may like something but it is important k aap obsessed na hojao aur apney apko define hi us cheez say krney lag jao. There came a phase in my life too not too long ago where I found myself straying away from my own faith lekin Alhamdulillah Allah ne esi dost di hay she guided me to the right path now I am also trying to repair myself back and make efforts to understand my own religion more and I believe this podcast was yet another step for it. Thank you Sana and Nimra and especially Sana for always standing by what's right. The way you were encouraging Nimra and told her you were proud of her truly heartwarming to see. Bht achi podcast thi and I hope k fans galiya dene say zyada ghaur kr k batein suney aur sochein un par. Have a blessed day and lots of duas for both Sana and Nimra.
This is called an army who has just got the concept wrong
The problem here is 'you' and 'your' extreme level of obsession with them it's not them.
Being an Army myself, I'm not a little bit of obsessed with them or did anything stupid to become like them because I'm happy the way I am. I've started to love myself more and even started to make myself a better person, I know my limits.
It's all up to you so don't throw the blame for your doings on anyone else. They didn't tell you to lose weight or have a extreme level of obsession with them.
Is your Iman too weak that anyone can affect it?
Don't be obsessed with anything. know your limits and love yourself the way you are.
It's okay if you left the fandom but Your thumbnail should not be this, You are literally Misleading others.
You're absolutely right 👍
Yes glad someone pointed that . bts made me love myself
Absolutely right she's just blaming them
They are not misleading someone unhon ne Jo prodcast mien Sab kaha usi ka thumbnail banaya
@@mahnoormalik9664 this is mahnoor you can't describe someone without knowing them actually she just asked views from someone who has left bts fandom but not from someone who is still part of bts fandom
I agree that in Kpop fans half of them are very toxic but not everyone....... And nimra your story motivated me to trun toxic and obsessed Kpop fans in to normal fans
Good luck brother!!
The part where it is told that k-pop show beauty so people get influence by them it reminded me an anime "LOOKISM" were they show both world of beauty and unfit people
Alhamdulillah..sana good podcast for other people's specially for youth who dnt know where they going...
Her story relate to me so much i can literally feel her🥺
Kya mtlb k larky b in chakar main Hain 🙂💔
@@filzafood10 :¶
Im a bts fan since almost 3 years and im not a teenager...i know my limits... obsession beyond limit for anything is dangerous
There are a lot of armys who have joined this fandom since 5,6,7 years but they are not obsessed it depends on you the way you control yourself because no one can control you better than yourself and If you see them as inspiration or how they struggled in their life you will never get obsessed with them It totally depends on yo how well you can control yourself.
I agree
“And of mankind is he who purchases idle talks (i.e. music, singing) to mislead (men) from the path of Allaah…” [Luqmaan 31:6]
BTS are supporters of LGBTQ how can you defend them on this aur please yaad rakhe ap jis ko support kare gi ap qayamat ke din unhi ke sath uthai jao gi
@@zadarwah767 they also support Islam
There r so many hate reply on ur comment just don't get upset and Pakistaniyon ka mind set Kuch Ziyada hi hira hua Hy I think
Now I listened to everything and the first thing I want to tell her that she was not bts army to begin with she was just influenced fan... no this statement is not toxic ..just bcoz she was so influenced that kinda started worshiping them.. we can't call her army .. to be army we respect every member of bts... love them in limit and also try to give other people positive influence... Also there is registration process of registered armies who are counted as army.. being in army fandom. Now about BTS .. I don't think they ever did bodyshaming to anyone .. now if you say you followed them and started dieting what if you have started toxic dieting to see Muslim artist?? Does our industry allow our artists to b fat?? Any insustry Hollywood, Bollywood?? And the things they promote ..you can't see positive influence?? They recently made a song for handicap people, permission to dance.. talk about it.. in their early songs they made so many songs on working on your dreams and study properly .. they talked about negative influence on students that society push them to do hard work.. they talk about negative obsession (not to b their stalkers) they talked about love yourself no matter how you look..she didn't listen to them?? I understand she was teenager and got obsessed .. obsession of everything is wrong even obsession for gaming is wrong so you start blaming the game? I am not a teenager I'm above 25 already .. I'm Army for four years .. I saw them respecting Muslim army even more..they even tried to learn arabic just to communicate with Muslim army better ... and lastly they are not there to give you religious influence ..they are working on society influences to make it positive .. Plz for religious guidance do follow religious people... they are not responsible for anyone getting bad influence.. every army or fan should know a limit and mostly that they don't know ..so don't put your life on stake for any celeb ..
Now about rumors she heard and started believing then .. dear there are hundreds of wrong rumors on them .. people use their name for clout .. hundreds of wrong dating history .. hundreds of anti videos... all of these things don't define them.. they are not entitled for every wrong rumor go out about them .. don't believe everything that goes out ... second we don't know them personally ..so keep your liking to a limit .. and most importantly they don't know you .. any fan personally ..they are not entitled about your behaviour.. your close people are .. and not everything their company shows , portray their true nature ...they need to b in industry and follow some rules to b in there ...
Well said👍👏
I was about to type all that, being a 23 year old and being an army since 2013. Kudos to you! 🫡
People will not understand this,,,as this is a hot topic for debate that's why this video is here
Clout chasers
Exactly it totally depends on us that how are we getting influenced by someone or what we decide to do with our life.... Even I sometimes decides to do such diets when I saw my friends who are better than me.... then should I blame them....No.... cuz it's only on my mind and I'm the only one responsible for my thoughts and my doings~
Having crazy obsession isn't bts fault it's those toxic armies🙂
I used be a bts army and had the same situation . I always hated myself instead of loving myself . I lost confidence and got so insecure about myself so much . Always complained allah which i regret now but thanks to the almighty who took me out of this garbage . Alhumdulillah im much closer to Allah . Ur so right at this point
MA SHA ALLAH
AM happy for you ❤
Ye bandiii keh rhi hai ke mujhe khud se nafratt ho gayii abeyyy behan wo humain apne ap se pyar karne ka kehte hain ye sara kuch apke apne mind ka haii khud ko control main rakho and stop hating anyone
And They Say : Nafraton ke darwaze khud par band hi rakhna
I kinda stan them but not overly obsess with them. GIRL I'M YOU FOUND YOUR RIGHT WAY AND HAPPINESS. But blaming kpop is so absurb and many fandoms speak out about their toxic diets and beauty culture. They went through all this and we pity them. just be happy and healthy too💜✨️
So true 💜
Yep same . I am also an army and k Pop stan also but this means isn't that I'm depressed cuz I watch them , it depends on a person , if they're being too much obsessed with them so it's their own mistake!❤️
Yeah that's my point bts is not toxic fans made them toxic
@@fizzakhan7855 When you are in love with someone else than Allah and His Messenger PBUH then seriously you are seriously in great danger. Especially when you know more about that person than Allah and His Messenger PBUH, you really need to learn about Allah and the life of Prophet Muhammad PBUH.
@@fizzakhan7855 you have a valid point to some extent but for the time being that I have been in the kpop world I have noticed this thing that as much as the fans become obsessed and ruin their selves, to some extent the groups and companies are also at fault. The marketing and the way everything is presented with a perfect clean image it can mess with people's mind. The artists are presented in such a way that they are always available to the fans so even if one tries to not be obsessed, one does get invested at some point. I am not sending any hate to kpop but this is just an observation k esa hota hay. Especially in today's world with capitalism at its peak strategies ese chal rhi hein that people are obligated to fall victims to such tendencies. It would not have been so toxic if the artists were presented as humans but they are rather available commodities always at your disposal isi liye bht say log obsessed hojatey hein. Khair I hope more and more people open their eyes to this particular commodity culture of kpop industry and realize that they are being used as consumers by the kpop companies for their own gain and money.
PS no hate to any group just expressing an opinion on the mechanisms of the kpop world.
BTS didn't make you hate your body. You did it on your own! Nobody forced you to loose weight. BTS has used their platform to spread positivity and encouragement. If you have loved them for their looks and perfections then its your fault. JUST DON'T BLAME YOUR MISTAKES ON OTHERS
Actually In Hereafter Will You Be Able To Say This To Allah Huhh??
with positive sides..there are negative sides...that is why BALANCE is the most important thing in life....and the addiction and obession with anything is toxic.. and watching some other idols and wanted to become like them is most destructive...i am also an fan of kpop but to a limited extend, and i am a fan of kpop for 7 8 years but i didnt let them change my life style..so balance is very important in life....
Exactly Same Here .. I am also an old fan but I never tried to live my life like them or change myself to look like them!
V was not smoking
The picture was edited
And after sometime the editor confirmed himself that's he did that
Yeah they speak without prove!
and what about his dating rumourwith jeannie?
Okay jb accident kia tha traffic rules tor k wo bh bolo jhut tha bts members to aisa kr hi nh skty
@@umairbinzahid6225 broo in which century are you living?
Editors can edit your picture with someone you've never seen and so what if they are dating!!?
They are adults they can date anyone they want
@@milliesh284 OMGGG!!!
They are humans too 😒 and its not like they're the first one to do that
And yeah search before you say something
This word “ rumors " exists
Every one here who's saying that it's her fault to get obsessed with them are literally victim blaming her. Try to research a little bit about how these entertainment companies influence their audience into obsessing over these so called ‘idols'.